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Hey guys, welcome to my channel. So we are doing Navamsha studies part 4.

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Let's take this a notch further. Okay?

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You are an individual and you have a Navamsha of your own.

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Now your spouse is an individual and she has a Navamsha of her own.

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I wanted to play this game with me. Can you look at

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your Navamsha chart and see how your spouse sees your marriage from her eyes.

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We are taking her in this case. We are taking you as the husband. Okay?

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So if you are the husband, can your wife perceive the way

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how her marriage works in all areas of her life and all the relations, the in-laws, the properties, the relationship,

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how you feel about the relationship and so on.

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Let's see. So now we will look at the Navamsha chart, not the birth chart, the Navamsha chart.

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And from the Navamsha chart, we will put seventh house as the first house and take it to reverse in a counterclockwise direction.

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Let's jump right into it because it's a little detail.

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So there you have the Navamsha chart. Okay? This one is a blank Navamsha chart.

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And I want you to start paying attention to the bubble, the number in the bubble and consider that as the house numbers.

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This is a Navamsha chart of you and we'll consider this a man's Navamsha chart just for the sake of this example.

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So the seventh house represents the woman's, the spouse, yeah, the woman.

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This is the Kama house. So we'll consider that as the first house and revisit every one of these houses.

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Go right up to the 12th house from the seventh house, which in this case happens to be your sixth house.

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This is really little brain spinner. Okay? Be with me here.

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So looking at your Navamsha chart as your spouse.

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So we will look at your Navamsha chart from seventh house going counterclockwise.

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What each house represents. Okay?

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Within the context of relationship of a married life because Navamsha represents the married life. Yes?

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So let's go. So there you go. We'll start with the first house.

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First house in this case being the man's seventh house in the Navamsha chart.

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What does it represent? Let's go house by house.

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The seventh house in the man's Navamsha chart shows the desire of the spouse from marriage.

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It shows individuality, unique qualities of the spouse, spouse's personality traits, strengths and weaknesses and overall nature.

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The physical appearance and attractiveness of the spouse, overall physical attributes, features, the magnetism that can be expected in the spouse.

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That's what she is looking towards you, Mr. Man, about this. Okay? That's the first house.

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It keeps getting interesting as we go through the houses.

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The second house, which is in your case the eighth house in a man's Navamsha chart, which is the second house.

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So always watch the bubbles, the number in the bubbles, not the other numbers.

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Which is your eighth house in Navamsha represents financial stability because second house represents earned money from her perspective.

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So what she is earning earned by the spouse after marriage. Okay?

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The wise speech of verbal things. Second house is also the house of speech.

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It's the house of elder siblings because second house is the house of elder siblings. Third house being the house of younger siblings.

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But now we are talking about elder siblings of the spouse. That means siblings in law. That means her brothers and sisters.

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Her elder brothers and sisters.

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Family inheritance and potential of influence of the spouse family on financial matters and alignment of values and beliefs.

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Second house also stands for family values, family belief systems.

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Because what you are born into. But now we are talking about post marriage. So this becomes all about spouse's house.

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Okay? Let's go to the third house.

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Now the third house from the spouse's perspective. That is the Navamsha chart of a man here in this case.

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Represent siblings in extended family of the spouse.

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Shows father in law, siblings in law. Okay? Cousins in law. The distant cousins. Okay?

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Third house represents cousins, peers, group generally. But now we are talking about post marriage.

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So it represents the siblings in law, cousins in law, distant cousins, relatives and that kind of a thing.

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It also shows interactions with them, communication, teamwork and collaboration within the spouse's family.

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The spouse is younger sibling because third house represents younger sibling.

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Efforts in married life because third house is a place of competition. It's a place of effort.

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It's where you have complete with your peers in your school, college normally. Right?

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So this is coming from the third house of the spouse. So it represents everything within the context of marriage now.

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So that's what we are looking at. Okay? Efforts in the relationship. Efforts in married life.

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Frequency and nature of short journeys or travels undertaken by the married couple together.

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Third house represents short journeys. It represents activities like weekend getaways, small trips or outings.

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Like going out of town for a resort. You know? Just chill over the weekend.

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Spouses assertiveness. Okay? The way she perceives this man to be assertive or not

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is from the ninth house of the man's Nawamshah chart. So follow me here carefully.

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It represents activities like weekend. Yeah, that we finished that indicates proactive nature.

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Spouses assertiveness, self motivation, ability to take initiatives within marriage.

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Is a man taking initiative to get stuff done in the house? That can be told seen by the woman here. Right?

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From the third place going backward from the seventh house that is the ninth house of the man's Nawamshah chart.

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It indicates the proactive nature, their role in initiating activities and decision making skills, hobbies, interests of the spouse.

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Third house represents interest, which in this case becomes the ninth house of the man's Nawamshah chart.

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It suggests the areas where a partner may excel or have keen interest, hobbies. Okay? Playing a musical instrument may be a simple thing.

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This house reflects the importance of shared interests and hobbies that can contribute to overall compatibility and bond within marriage.

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Do you and your spouse share the same hobbies? Do you have something in common?

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I was just seeing the serial TV on OTT platform the other day. You know, the couple don't have anything in common.

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Like she likes to play tennis and he likes to go golfing with his buddies. They never have anything in common.

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They go to the marriage council. What use is that? You need to find something common there. That's the third house or the ninth house of the man.

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Third house looking from the seventh house in the same chart, by the way. We are looking at only man's Nawamshah chart here. Be careful.

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We are not looking at the woman's.

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Now the fourth house looking at it from the spouse's side, from the seventh house, the fourth place would be the tenth house of the man's Nawamshah chart.

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Right? So the fourth place in this case represents the spouse's domestic peace of marriage.

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Because fourth house represents what? It represents the home, the mother, the heart.

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So the peace of marriage. People don't have peace within their marriages. They all the time arguing, fighting about one thing or the other.

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This is not there. That bill is not paid. There is that and the other. These are worldly things. Everybody has them.

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But where is the peace? Do you find peace with your partner? That's what we are seeing in the quality of fourth from the seventh house going this way.

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Okay? Right. Spouse's domestic peace of marriage. The way spouse sees the peace of marriage is shown here.

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In this case, it's our lady. This woman, if she sees the Nawamshah chart of this man, before getting married, for example,

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if she sees this house is pretty badly damaged, she would want to get into relationship with this man. She doesn't want to get married to this man.

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Why? Because she sees a lot of trouble here. That's the way to evaluate it also.

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Domestic environment. What is the home environment like when you stay married to this guy?

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Look, women look at the big picture. The house is their home. Their nest, they bring their children into the world.

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They feed them. They will feed their babies. They look after them. They spend their whole life. It is their nest.

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So the woman should look at all of these aspects very carefully in a man's Nawamshah chart, not a natal chart.

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The domestic environment and overall atmosphere as experienced by the spouse in married life, the level of comfort and emotional security experienced by the spouse,

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family background of the spouse as seen by this lady is the 10th house of the Nawamshah chart of the man.

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It signifies cultural and emotional upbringing, values and traditions associated with the spouse's family as seen by the spouse.

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Again, everything is relative. Why am I going on stressing it as seen from the spouse?

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Because the husband might be thinking something completely different. We all have different aspects, different perspectives. It's always the case.

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The shared values is important. It also signifies real estate, property, ancestral and potential involvement of spouse in the matters related to home ownership property.

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The fourth house also represents property, land, real estate, etc.

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It represents the emotional bonding between the couple. The fourth house is the house of the heart.

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So, it's obviously emotional bonding as seen from the spouse's eyes, as seen from her eyes.

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It signifies the importance of emotional intimacy, support and nurturing within the relationship.

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The relationship dynamics between the spouse, their mother as well as the interaction between the married couple and the spouse's mother-in-law.

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That is the man's mother. Looking at it from her side, it becomes the mother-in-law.

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That also is signified by the fourth house. Let's see the fifth house.

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The fifth house, looking at it from her side, belongs to the eleventh house, the opposite side.

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It always goes in reverse direction. So, you will always see opposites here.

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What is the fifth house for him? The eleventh house is the fifth house for her.

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In his Nama Masha chart, what does it represent?

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Level of romance, fifth house is traditionally for romance, love and passion.

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Level of romance, passion, love and enjoyment, experienced by the spouse.

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This house reflects the potential for a joyful romantic connection.

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What all of us look for in a marriage, the husband and the wife.

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Experienced by the spouse from the marriage, the ability of the spouse to conceive and have children.

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Fifth house is the house of children.

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This house shows children's relationship to him.

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This house shows the children's relationship to her.

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The ability of the spouse to conceive and have children.

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It also signifies the role of children in bringing joy and happiness to the spouse.

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Looking at it from her point of view, we are looking at it from the seventh house.

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Which in this case is a lady. It can be a man also.

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It also signifies, yes, we finished that.

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Intellectual rapport and compatibility.

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Intellectual, why? Because this house stands for education.

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Creative intelligence, right? House of Leo. Creative intelligence.

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Shared interest and intellectual discussions.

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Mentally stimulating conversations as experienced by the spouse.

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This is a big thing when we are talking about 2023.

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Everybody is educated. Everybody has got a smart phone which is changing everyone here.

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Everybody is now got artificial intelligence. You name it.

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So people are exposed to a wide variety of knowledge of all kinds on social media through the internet.

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Not just on social media, just on the internet.

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You have them in platforms like LinkedIn for example.

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You are exposed to a wide variety of knowledge. So your brain has got a lot of creative intelligence input.

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With the man and the woman. So are you sharing some mental stimulation?

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Are you having intellectual discussions or not?

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What the spouse sees will be shown by the planets and the sign represented in the fifth house.

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We shall take this in a case study. It's too complicated otherwise to analyze this.

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This house shows the creative intelligence of the spouse.

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We are talking about the spouse only.

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Or what the spouse experiences with this guy. Who is Navamsa it is.

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It shows the shared experiences of fun, enjoyment and leisure activities as experienced by the spouse.

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When we talk of sixth place, sixth house is a place of traditionally debts, loans, fights, quarrels, the Dushtana house.

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Nobody wants to do anything to do with sixth house. It's a challenging house.

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So here we talk about the fights within marriage. Most couples love this. They just love to get on each of those notes.

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So it represents how or where the spouse if at all will fight with this guy.

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With Mr Ascended, Mr Guy over here.

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Potential obstacles, disagreements or power struggles that the spouse perceives.

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She perceives this area or this house and the planets and the points here.

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And this is already an X sign of course.

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As the areas of concern.

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Potential health concern because sixth house is the house of short term illnesses.

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12000 being long term illnesses.

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Issues that may affect the spouse that is seen over here.

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Indication of spouse in work related matters.

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Why? Because sixth house is a house of daily routines or service oriented professions.

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Spouses approach in resolving conflicts. How does she resolve conflicts?

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Forget about this guy, whatever he is doing.

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In his Navamsa chart, we will see how this lady goes about resolving conflicts.

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If there is Mars, she will fight it with aggression.

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If it is Jupiter, she will go with knowledge.

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If it is Venus, she will try to be more sensual, more artistic about it.

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More softer about it. Moon, softer about it.

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You see how I am getting to the meanings of this.

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Now let's see the seventh house.

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Which becomes the ascendant for the guy. So it is the Bhavadbhavam.

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Now it is getting interesting.

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The seventh house is the first house of the Navamsa.

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Which is how your spouse sees you.

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How you see your spouse is you.

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Because we are talking from the viewpoint of her.

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From the spouse.

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In a man's Navamsa chart, your personality traits, your behaviour, your overall disposition,

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the desire of the spouse from the marriage, all of these aspects are seen

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from the eyes of the spouse looking at the ascendant.

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The level of self-awareness, self-expression and personal growth within the context of marriage.

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That is also seen from here.

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The spouse's physical appearance. How she sees you.

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You might be short tall bald with one hippie hair and a earring and twenty tattoos.

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That doesn't matter. How she sees you is what matters, isn't it?

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How your spouse sees you. Whether it's good or whether it's not.

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She thinks you are ugly or she thinks she is always comparing you to other men.

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Why? Because she is perceiving you differently.

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This is where many of the fights begin.

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The separation begins there.

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The desire of the spouse from marriage.

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The spouse's physical appearance and characteristics.

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Their external attributes. Beauty, charm, magnetism.

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Spouse's understanding of compromise and commitment and importance of maintaining healthy relationship.

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Now, here comes the important nice part.

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Since this is Bhavad Bhamam from the seventh house, seventh place from the seventh house,

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remember what I spoke in earlier. Once you cross the 12th house, it becomes past life.

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It represents past life connection with the spouse, especially with this kind of placement of planets.

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If there are some planets there, it represents what the planet represents.

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For example, if Venus is placed here, it might represent that your spouse is your lover from past life.

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If it is a son, it can mean this person is your father or your ancestor from past life.

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You see, we all change bodies. We all change families. We all change roles.

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Sometimes we come as a husband, sometimes we come as a wife, sometimes we come as a child.

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The soul has no preference. It just wants to finish up the karmas.

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That's the way Vedic astrology is structured.

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This is not about incestuous attitude. This is more about what the soul has taken birth as your spouse in this lifetime.

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Let's get to the eighth house.

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So, the eighth house, which is the second in Navamsa,

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is looking at it from her point of view.

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The eighth house is the house of change and transformation.

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It represents the longevity and transformations and of the married life.

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What will they undergo change looking at it from her point of view?

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What will their marriage undergo change if she gets married to this guy?

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You can straight away tell from Navamsa, if it is good or bad, if it is changing constantly, if it is afflicted, damaged, you can tell that.

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Through married life, changes of all kinds, be it financial, bond with the spouse, divorce, any kind of thing.

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It may be too much of traveling, too much of loss, too much of gain.

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Too much of change is also not good.

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There needs to be some stability. You do ensure stability.

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If I go and stick satan here, it becomes a very stable marriage as perceived from her point of view.

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Nature of interactions and health of in-laws, eight thousand represents in-laws.

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If seven thousand represents spouse, eight thousand represents what you gain after marriage.

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Really, what you gain after marriage is the in-laws.

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Speech of the spouse towards your family. Why?

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Because the eighth house looks at the second house.

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Okay? And joint assets after marriage.

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Eight houses are about joint assets.

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Marital bond, emotional, psychological and sexual connectivity with the spouse.

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Very crucial for any marriage.

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The continued sense of all these three is important to have a well-balanced marriage, well-balanced connectivity, well-balanced sense of peace, harmony, nurturing, all of these things which you look for.

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Interest in hidden secrets. I have put it as secrets.

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It can also be occult and mysticism like paro, astrology and everything after marriage that also is there.

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What can also be seen here?

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Family secrets. When it comes to marriage, it's more like family secrets.

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Second house of Nawamshar shows the family secrets as perceived by the spouse.

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Okay?

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And investment and affairs and politics etc. Family politics is a big thing.

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We don't marry just to individuals, we marry to families.

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So who is talking to whom? Which uncle to which aunt? In-laws, siblings in-laws, so much of politics goes on everywhere in the world.

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In family dynamics.

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So this is pertinent to that family dynamics because that's all hidden.

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All the jealousy, all things go on between different people.

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That is seen from her side looking at the second house of the Nawamshar.

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Okay?

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Now come into the ninth house which is third from the Nawamshar in this case, of this guy.

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And third house, ninth house is a house of what?

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It's a house of shows younger siblings of the spouse, siblings in-law.

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Efforts of, that means from her side, his brothers, younger brothers.

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Spouse is luck after marriage because third, ninth house stands for luck, fortune, religion after marriage.

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They go and change their religion.

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They convert to some other thing.

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Spiritual and philosophical compatibility, shared beliefs, values, worldview.

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What kind of larger value system do you have that you share with your spouse?

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That is shown in the ninth from the seventh house, which is the third house of this guy in the Nawamshar chart.

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It shows long distance travel because ninth house is long distance travel,

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but now everything you are taking as a couple, not as an individual.

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If you get married to this guy, that house kicks in, otherwise it doesn't, not for this lady.

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She can move on, she can get married to another guy and she will never see that.

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This is in the Nawamshar chart of the chap whom she is thinking of getting married to.

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World view, shared world view, long distance travels, foreign country travels.

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Intellectual compatibility and pursuit of knowledge with spouse.

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Sometimes couples get together in this study, right?

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They have a common interest in this study.

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They continue further studies after marriage.

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That can also be seen from this house.

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Good luck and fortune of the spouse.

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Cultural or religious practices with the spouse that can also be seen there.

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Now the tenth house, looking at it from her side,

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not much of an importance really when it comes to marriage.

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There is something called as a reputation of marriage because tenth house is the house of career in the main natal chart.

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But in Nawamshar it becomes a reputation of marriage.

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What does the society and your friends and relatives see you as a couple?

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Is this a good couple?

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I don't like to associate with this couple. Reputation of marriage.

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Very important in the eastern parts of the world.

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Not so much, maybe I would think best.

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I am not sure.

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You can tell me in the comments if there is.

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Career and professional life of this spouse because she is looking at his career in the fourth house.

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Not in the tenth house.

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He is looking at the tenth house but she looks at it in the fourth house.

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In his fourth house, fourth place.

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Public opinion of marriage.

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How people see the couple in general.

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Potential for aligning career aspirations and working together on projects and supporting spouse.

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That is what becomes of the fourth house of his Nawamshar chart.

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The way she perceives it.

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Now let's see the eleventh house.

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What does eleventh house bring?

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Looking at it from her point of view.

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Which is fifth house for him in his Nawamshar chart.

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Fulfillment of desires within marriage or partnership as felt by the spouse.

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Because this is the house of gains.

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Eleventh house is the fulfillment of long term desires.

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It reflects the potential for shared growth and aspirations and mutual satisfaction in achieving them.

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Now there are couple.

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This kicks in for this lady only if she decides to marry this guy.

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Number seven over here.

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If she doesn't, this doesn't kick in for her.

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So it's all relative.

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It reflects the potential for shared gold aspirations and mutual satisfaction of achieving them.

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Potential for financial gains.

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Eleventh house is financial gains.

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Material abundance within marriage.

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I know a couple here itself in my apartment.

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Lots of money, lots of things.

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He's got Jupiter in eleventh house.

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Very very prosperous.

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Can't say that much about marriage though.

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As it comes from spouse.

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So what she will gain if ladies gold diggers out there, if you're interested in how much money my husband will bring and how many shoes I can buy.

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You've got to look at his Nawamshar's fifth house.

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That's what you will gain.

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What he gains is in eleventh house in terms of money.

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What you gain from him might be quite another story.

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Shared interest collaboration teamwork in achieving shared success with the spouse is also seen from his fifth house in the Nawamshar chart.

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Potential for engaging in joint philanthropic endeavors and contributing to society with spouse.

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How beautiful is that?

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I wish every couple lives like this.

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Joint philanthropy means you husband and wife are doing something together for the greater good of the society.

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Let's say if husband and wife are doctors.

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They are giving some part of their time to free service to helping the orphanage or orphan children who don't have medical treatment.

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That kind of thing.

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It can be simple things.

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But jointly.

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Nothing to nurture a relationship better than such pursuits.

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Nothing better than that.

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Now let's finish up with the twelfth house.

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The house of spirituality.

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The twelfth house of the bride looking at it from the house number seven, number six of his Nawamshar chart becomes the twelfth house for her.

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Spiritual growth, introspection, detachment with spouse.

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If she is going to get married and get detached to this guy, what's the point in that?

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It happens though.

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Many times it happens.

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They will be perfectly attached when they are going around but as soon as you get married, I don't want to do anything to do with this guy.

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If especially planets like Ketu are sitting here, that's not very good for her.

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It cuts off the nature, attachment from the spouse itself.

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Detachment with the spouse, potential for spiritual pursuits, seeking inner peace, connecting with higher realms, together with the spouse.

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Together with the spouse is good.

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Potential for shared financial losses or expenditures with the spouse, potential for involvement with foreign individuals, especially Rahu is sitting here.

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Rahu once he sits here, it can be a foreign individual, a foreign spouse.

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So need for periodic alone time and retreats with spouse, that would be a good thing.

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Going on spiritual retreats, I think every spouse should make an effort to do that.

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Getting into some kind of a spiritual ashram of sorts, whatever resonates with you, it doesn't matter.

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There are so many good ones these days.

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Potential for engaging in joint philanthropic endeavors, contributing to society, it's spouse because 12th house is the house of losses.

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Look, if you're getting something, you will give it.

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You're not taking anything away from here once you die.

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It's well known fact.

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So what's this thing of losses, losses, losses all the time?

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I tell you, some of these Indians are so stuck up, I get surprised by the thought, oh loss, loss, loss.

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It's just going away, that's all. Whatever came to you is going away now.

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Same with your life, you know, someday.

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House spouse sees sexuality and participates accordingly because 12th house is also the house of bed pleasures of sexual participation.

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Expression of sexual intimacy is what I would call it.

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I don't necessarily call just putting two bodies together and mashing two body parts is called anything to do with sex.

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That's just, you know, even animals do it.

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What is intimacy?

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Intimacy between the spouse comes from a lot of factors, from the emotional factor, from what their shared interest is, to the like to go do things together, whatever you just spoke of in different houses.

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So ladies, if you're watching this, I just give you the lady perspective.

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From a man's Nawam Shah chart, make it a point not just to see the astrologer or the man's chart, make it a point to see his Nawam Shah chart and go through each one of these houses.

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And we'll discuss this in the case studies in the coming videos because then you get a better idea of what I'm talking about.

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I've got lots of those old charts. Maybe I'll take some couple also, but we will do case studies and case studies is where things get really interesting of how really it will play out.

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Case studies of Nawam Shah chart of individuals and couples.

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And take a guess at what that might turn out for them like.

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Okay. We might take care of it safe.