1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:10,000 Hi everybody welcome again. So continuing from my last video on Navamsha part 2, this is the part 3 of Navamsha Studies. 2 00:00:10,000 --> 00:00:16,000 We were talking about how the ascendant transforms from the natal to the Navamsha. Yes. 3 00:00:16,000 --> 00:00:23,000 So now I shall give you a brief picture of how that can actually work out between a man and a woman. 4 00:00:23,000 --> 00:00:27,000 We are taking the man and the woman as a classical example of relationships. 5 00:00:27,000 --> 00:00:32,000 Let us see how this transforms. I want to make this a little more interesting for you. 6 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:38,000 So just check out the slides. It is a kind of little interesting. I put little tidbits there which make it very interesting. 7 00:00:38,000 --> 00:00:44,000 So here we go. Let's see. So here we go. I have this picture. 8 00:00:44,000 --> 00:00:48,000 Now we have the famous zodiac pie over here. 9 00:00:48,000 --> 00:00:54,000 I am stuck with little valentines just to be a little more lovey-dovey. 10 00:00:54,000 --> 00:01:01,000 And we have our beautiful little lady over here and we have the wonderful gentleman over here. 11 00:01:01,000 --> 00:01:05,000 And this is what I am calling right now as the axis of love. 12 00:01:05,000 --> 00:01:14,000 Which means the ascendant of this man over here is in the Artha-pada of cancer going towards Capricorn. 13 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:18,000 His ascendant is in natal chart in cancer. 14 00:01:18,000 --> 00:01:26,000 The woman on the other side is in Capricorn in Moksha-pada of Capricorn. 15 00:01:26,000 --> 00:01:32,000 So in Navamsa it will go to cancer. So we are talking about that flip I talked about in Rahu Ketu. 16 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:39,000 This one is going from natal to Navamsa from cancer to Capricorn and the lady there goes from Capricorn to cancer. 17 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:42,000 Just the reverse like the flip. 18 00:01:42,000 --> 00:01:50,000 And why have I chosen to take this example is very interesting because cancer and Capricorn fell on the opposite axis. 19 00:01:50,000 --> 00:02:00,000 So if the ascendant is in cancer or Capricorn, these people will have generally a tendency to have instant attraction towards one another. 20 00:02:00,000 --> 00:02:06,000 This is that magnetic attraction. This is you feel a pull towards this person. 21 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:14,000 You don't know why you feel a pull towards this person in a crowd if you are meeting them in a restaurant, in office, in any social situation. 22 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:20,000 Perhaps you are introduced by friends and so on but you will have this magnetic attraction towards this person. 23 00:02:20,000 --> 00:02:22,000 You don't know why. 24 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:28,000 So let's take this particular axis and analyze it for what it brings because it's interesting. 25 00:02:28,000 --> 00:02:32,000 Already they have an attraction being cancer and Capricorn and it's in ascendant. 26 00:02:32,000 --> 00:02:39,000 So it is the 1,7 axis. So we are talking about the ascendant and the opposite one that is the spouse. 27 00:02:39,000 --> 00:02:45,000 7. It doesn't matter which way it plays out. We shall see this. 28 00:02:45,000 --> 00:02:51,000 Cancer to Capricorn and Capricorn to cancer it still flips into 1 and 7 because of the ascendant. 29 00:02:51,000 --> 00:02:53,000 The ascendant has shifted. 30 00:02:53,000 --> 00:03:04,000 This man's ascendant will shift from natal to navamsa because he is in the second pada of asilesha nakshatra in cancer. 31 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:09,000 As you can see and it will go towards Capricorn in the navamsa. 32 00:03:09,000 --> 00:03:18,000 This is the ascendant only. I am not taking planets. I am not taking any of the rest of the stuff because we need to explain these principles one by one. 33 00:03:18,000 --> 00:03:30,000 The beautiful lady on the other side, her ascendant is in moksha pada 23-23 minutes of Capricorn in natal here. 34 00:03:30,000 --> 00:03:41,000 Which is the 4th pada of Capricorn which is falling in asilesha nakshatra and she goes into cancer in navamsa. 35 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:49,000 These two are made in a bar or introduced by friends or meet at a party or are working together. 36 00:03:49,000 --> 00:03:56,000 These days there are so many social situations where a man and a woman can meet and they are instantly drawn towards one another. 37 00:03:56,000 --> 00:04:01,000 There is like I need to go out on a date with this man or I need to have this man. 38 00:04:01,000 --> 00:04:10,000 I need to get to know him. I need to get to know him well and I am attracted to him in a loving way, in a sexual way, in a partner kind of way. 39 00:04:10,000 --> 00:04:16,000 And he is not working. Let's say you have got everything else sorted in life. You are not going into that part of it here. 40 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:26,000 We are trying to answer the question who have I married? Why does this person behave completely different after I have married? 41 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:35,000 This is the most common theme I have personally come across in maybe two or three cases. The couples themselves, I know them physically. 42 00:04:35,000 --> 00:04:45,000 So they are like I don't understand how this person changed. Well, we are trying to explain and understand that question who have I married? 43 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:56,000 So here we go. Woman and a man. Woman is a capricorn ascendant in natal and man is a cancer ascendant. 44 00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:06,000 Now right of the bat I can tell you that this person as we see it, a cancer man in ashlesha, magnetic eyes. Very clever. 45 00:05:06,000 --> 00:05:14,000 It's like a hypnotic eyes ashlesha has. Typically I am just giving general characteristics of ashlesha. They are very passionate. 46 00:05:14,000 --> 00:05:24,000 They have got an energy, magnetic energy about them. You can't take their eyes off their eyes. So this woman puts her eyes into his eyes and says, wow, look at that man. 47 00:05:24,000 --> 00:05:33,000 He's got some charm. I can't explain what it is. I'm just attracted to him. The man on the other hand looks at the woman and she's capricorn. 48 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:45,000 This is the attraction factor. We are still in the love phase. Remember that. So the man looks at the woman and she's he also at the same time as seeing capricorn. 49 00:05:45,000 --> 00:05:55,000 He's seeing shaman and akshatra also shaman and akshatra are more quiet types. They are more introverted. They are more dignified. They carry themselves quietly. 50 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:08,000 So he's attracted to her quietness, little introvertedness, very calm, collected and along with the capricorn satan kind of nature, very reserved, uses few words. 51 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:16,000 That kind of an energy. So he's attracted to the quiet nature of shavana in capricorn. Now let's see what magic happens. 52 00:06:16,000 --> 00:06:33,000 This is a little complicated and I have to explain this. Now we have the same man and woman. Yes. So this lady, this beautiful woman was born as a capricorn ascendant as you can see over here. 53 00:06:33,000 --> 00:06:43,000 Let's focus on the lady for a minute. Okay. This is capricorn ascendant chart by nakshtras and we shall analyze this detail a little while later on. Yes. 54 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:56,000 She's born as this bottom one over here and she transcends or evolves into cancer ascendant after marriage, after they get into the relationship. 55 00:06:56,000 --> 00:07:06,000 So the man on the other hand is a cancer ascendant. So there's the cancer ascendant you see beside him. Right. 56 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:20,000 And he's born as this and he's as an individual. He is this as an individual. This lady is this. So these two charts are the ones that fell in love. 57 00:07:20,000 --> 00:07:30,000 Very important to remember that one sentence. The chart and everything in the chart, the needle ones are the ones that fell in love. 58 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:42,000 Okay. Are you with me? Now going forward, let's say they decide to get married. Let's say this decide to have a family and take it serious step further and they got married. 59 00:07:42,000 --> 00:07:51,000 Which ones are the ones that kick in the ones that got married is the namamshachar of each one of them, which is now completely flipped. 60 00:07:51,000 --> 00:08:02,000 She has gone from Capricorn to being a cancer ascendant like we saw in the earlier one. Right. It's gone from cancer Capricorn to cancer in the Moksha Pada. 61 00:08:02,000 --> 00:08:12,000 Whereas the guy on the other hand, Mr. Romance over here, he went from cancer to Capricorn. So he flipped his side as well. 62 00:08:12,000 --> 00:08:23,000 What does that mean? Meaning one who is in the birth as Capricorn is an earth sign and it is going into water sign in the namamshah. 63 00:08:23,000 --> 00:08:32,000 The lady is going from being very early and grounded to being very emotional like him, how he was when he was single. 64 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:42,000 And same thing happens with the man. The man was very emotional centered. He is looking for emotion as the resolution for everything in his life. 65 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:51,000 That's the characteristics of the water sign. They are Moksha. They are looking for Moksha through the emotional body. 66 00:08:51,000 --> 00:09:03,000 And now after marriage, he has flipped into Capricorn. So he becomes more grounded like how she was when she was single. That's simple. 67 00:09:03,000 --> 00:09:11,000 So the ones that fell in love and the ones that got married are two different people. 68 00:09:11,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Nine times out of ten, that was I was telling you in the part of the Namamshah series, nine times out of ten, it is usually flipping like this to one thing or the other. 69 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:35,000 I have only taken the extreme case over here where it flips to completely opposite ones. And I have talked about the opposite ones in the Rahu Ketu playlist if you want to have a look at it. 70 00:09:35,000 --> 00:09:44,000 It is covered in detail there. But never mind. Let's just analyze this wonderful couple of hours here. Let us see if we can make this relationship work. 71 00:09:44,000 --> 00:09:55,000 Nothing is etched in stone. Everything can work. This is where I come from. So we can make this work. We are in 2023. We just have to know how to make this work. 72 00:09:55,000 --> 00:10:06,000 Yes. So let's see how to make this two couple work. The ones that got married, he became an earthly sign and this lady over here became a water sign. 73 00:10:06,000 --> 00:10:18,000 She went on the emotional side and he went on the earthly side. Right off the bat, you can tell just by this slide, this flip on either side will make them what? 74 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:31,000 They will ask this question, who have I married? Who is this person? And this is what these couples have been asking me. Why is it, Mr. Astrologer, that this is happening? 75 00:10:31,000 --> 00:10:39,000 I fell in love with this man. I met him in college. I am just giving the real example. I met him in college. He was quoting me a lot. 76 00:10:39,000 --> 00:10:49,000 And then they were from different states in India and then in spite of that, he quoted heavily and then they both got married. 77 00:10:49,000 --> 00:11:00,000 She says to us, she says immediately the next day after the marriage finished, the next day onwards, he was a different person. 78 00:11:00,000 --> 00:11:14,000 It is like a complete flip. I could not recognize who this man is. It can be that drastic. This is why as couples, if you are looking at charts, if you are looking at compatibility, please try to understand the namaam Shah. 79 00:11:14,000 --> 00:11:23,000 Will you like that person or not later? That's the thing important thing to study. Not so much of what you will get out of the person is nothing to get or lose. 80 00:11:23,000 --> 00:11:31,000 We didn't come here in this world to, with something that we are going to go out with something. It's just a small journey we all take through life. 81 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:39,000 We want to make it as pleasant as possible. We want to make marriage as pleasant as possible. We want to have children with them. 82 00:11:39,000 --> 00:11:48,000 We need to be not a fighting couple all the time. We need to have some pleasant re-exchange. We need to have some emotional connection. We need to be able to understand one another. 83 00:11:48,000 --> 00:11:58,000 This is a process of understanding. Not so much of thinking of predictions and you know, this is going to happen and that is going to happen and you are going to lose this and you are going to gain this. 84 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:02,000 That's such a narrow minded perspective from where I come from. This is my perspective. 85 00:12:02,000 --> 00:12:17,000 So now this couple goes completely opposite, flips their personalities in namaam Shah. Let's just talk of namaam Shah in this case as a flip on personality side after they are getting married. 86 00:12:17,000 --> 00:12:29,000 So she becomes very emotional and this gentleman, unless he understands why is she getting emotional, he will not do very well with her. 87 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:39,000 She on the other hand, this person was very emotional. The one that I fell in love with was a very emotional guy. 88 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:45,000 Look at there, where I am putting my crosshair to. He was cancerous and now he is trying to capricorn. 89 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:53,000 So she will be wondering what happened to that water sign, what happened to that emotional guy whom I fell in love with. 90 00:12:53,000 --> 00:13:00,000 Now he has gone to capricorn. So he has become very grounded and this one has gone all emotional. 91 00:13:00,000 --> 00:13:07,000 It's the dominant play of personality. It's not like we don't have logic reasoning or other air science playing or fire science playing. 92 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:10,000 All signs are there in every chart as you can see. 93 00:13:10,000 --> 00:13:23,000 But the dominant part of the personality, like I said before, ascendant is the lens through which a personality has a dominant aspect and what they observe in the world in every area of life. 94 00:13:23,000 --> 00:13:28,000 Let it be the spouse, let it be the children, let it be home, family, work, every area of life. 95 00:13:28,000 --> 00:13:36,000 That's why I am taking that one singular point to bring to you to see what can happen. What are the potentials here? 96 00:13:36,000 --> 00:13:46,000 So now it becomes the responsibility of the woman and this man to understand the Navamsa of each one. 97 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:51,000 That's where I am heading towards. It's very important and we shall see this in the next slide. 98 00:13:51,000 --> 00:14:02,000 It is important for them to understand who has become what and for that we need to understand their ascendants and let's see that in the next one. 99 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:13,000 So now we have our lovely lady over here and she is wondering what does this guy want? What is she looking for? 100 00:14:13,000 --> 00:14:20,000 The man is wondering what is she looking for? That's why I have taken the woman's picture over here. 101 00:14:20,000 --> 00:14:26,000 What is she looking for? The man needs to understand there is not the woman. She knows what she is looking for. 102 00:14:26,000 --> 00:14:35,000 And I have taken Cancer Ascendant by Nakshtras chart. This is a blank chart of a Cancer Ascendant with all the good and servicers. 103 00:14:35,000 --> 00:14:41,000 So this is a symbol of Cancer and this is a woman and now the Cancer Ascendant why? Why not Capricorn? 104 00:14:41,000 --> 00:14:49,000 Because this is who she has become after marriage. So we are analyzing the Navamsa part of this woman. 105 00:14:49,000 --> 00:14:57,000 The man needs to understand the Navamsa part of the woman. So now she is a Cancer Ascendant after marriage. 106 00:14:57,000 --> 00:15:02,000 So what is it? She is looking at Capricorn. See I told you Cancer and Capricorn are opposite. 107 00:15:02,000 --> 00:15:08,000 So she is looking at Mr. Capricorn over here which we will see in the next slide. 108 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:16,000 What is she thinking? It's a neutral house. So she is not very bothered about aspects of the spouse. 109 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:22,000 But what is she looking for in life as a Cancer Ascendant? What is her propensity? 110 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:30,000 For example on the fifth house, just look at the houses itself. Forget the planets for the time being. 111 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:36,000 On the fifth house it is Scorpio. So she has become very secretive about the matters of love. 112 00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:42,000 She has become very secretive about the matters of romance because fifth house is the house of love and romance. 113 00:15:42,000 --> 00:15:53,000 Because we are talking about relationships. She has gone very secretive, Scorpio very intense, very emotional about matters of love, matters of affection, matters of intimacy. 114 00:15:53,000 --> 00:16:03,000 This one has gone secretive. Whereas in the matters of spouse, depending on planets, if it is placed here, let's say Mars is placed here. 115 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:11,000 Mars is exalted here. Mars has got drive in the Capricorn sign in the seventh house in her case. 116 00:16:11,000 --> 00:16:19,000 If she has got this, she will be very intensely passionate. She will be intensely sexual. She will be very highly magnetic. 117 00:16:19,000 --> 00:16:27,000 That plays out here. In terms of Navamsa, you have got to see where Venus plays out. 118 00:16:27,000 --> 00:16:32,000 Because Venus is the lord of the Navamsa, any kind of Navamsa, man or woman. 119 00:16:32,000 --> 00:16:42,000 So wherever Venus is placed, suppose Venus is placed for her, in Libra, in the fourth house, she will be very good with home. 120 00:16:42,000 --> 00:16:49,000 She will be very good with all the matters of the home. Which was not the case when she was a Capricorn ascendant. 121 00:16:49,000 --> 00:16:55,000 That time it will be different. In the Capricorn ascendant, her king would be flipped to the other side. 122 00:16:55,000 --> 00:17:01,000 She would be more focused on career but now she is more focused on home front. It will flip. Everything flips. 123 00:17:01,000 --> 00:17:08,000 If you put pen and four here, it will become four and one and seven over here. 124 00:17:08,000 --> 00:17:14,000 So Capricorn will have a very liberalistic view of work. She will be more focused on work. 125 00:17:14,000 --> 00:17:21,000 Where Venus is placed? You have got to look for where Venus is placed. If Venus is exalted or debilitated, what does she feel? 126 00:17:21,000 --> 00:17:28,000 Does she feel good about something? If Venus is placed well, the woman will shine in whatever she does. 127 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:32,000 Wherever Venus is placed, if Venus is placed in Taurus, it does very well. 128 00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:40,000 So you have got to look at Venus where it is placed. Either in Libra or Taurus, it does naturally well. 129 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:46,000 Or you also got to check the houses of Taurus which is in her case now, the eleventh house. 130 00:17:46,000 --> 00:17:54,000 Is she focused more on gains from the external world? Is she focused more on social media? How is her home and family front? 131 00:17:54,000 --> 00:17:58,000 How will she look after the children? She is going to be a mother. 132 00:17:58,000 --> 00:18:08,000 This is the way we got to analyze and look for things. The man needs to see this and evaluate it for what that works out like. 133 00:18:08,000 --> 00:18:18,000 That is the way you got to see this. The man has to look at the namaamsa of the woman and what planets are placed and where the challenges could be. 134 00:18:18,000 --> 00:18:25,000 If you say you love the woman, obviously you need to make some things work even after marriage. Every marriage needs work. 135 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:34,000 Commitment. But with respect to what? What is she looking for? We are trying to evaluate that statement from the man's perspective. 136 00:18:34,000 --> 00:18:41,000 Now look at it from the woman's perspective. The woman is looking for what does this guy want now? He has changed so much. 137 00:18:41,000 --> 00:18:48,000 Let's look at the woman's perspective. What she should be looking at in the namaamsa of the man. 138 00:18:48,000 --> 00:18:59,000 Here is a poor man begging and pleading. What the woman should look for in the namaamsa chart of the man. 139 00:18:59,000 --> 00:19:03,000 I suggest you do it before marriage. 140 00:19:03,000 --> 00:19:13,000 This is Capricorn. We have Capricorn ascendant because this gentleman has flipped from going from cancer ascendant to Capricorn ascendant. 141 00:19:13,000 --> 00:19:20,000 What does Capricorn look for? If you flip the signs, even the fourth and tenth house will flip. 142 00:19:20,000 --> 00:19:30,000 This gentleman has gone from being emotional as a cancer ascendant. His Libra, his Venus has flipped to the tenth house. 143 00:19:30,000 --> 00:19:38,000 Depending on where his Venus is, you should be focused in namaamsa. His Venus house is aware. It is in the house of love and affection. 144 00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:45,000 It is in the house of children. Another Venus house is in the house of career. 145 00:19:45,000 --> 00:19:54,000 This person suddenly goes from being home-centered and the cancer stuff is going to Capricorn. 146 00:19:54,000 --> 00:20:00,000 This person wants more attention now because Venus is the ruler of namaamsa. 147 00:20:00,000 --> 00:20:06,000 You have to see the physical placement of Venus also. Whether it is exalted, debilitated, house, what matters it brings and so on. 148 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:10,000 I am not getting into that. I am just giving you the basics here. 149 00:20:10,000 --> 00:20:18,000 Now Venus is in the house of love and romance. Now he is gone to becoming extremely romantic. 150 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:26,000 He wants all the good stuff. He wants to go to fancy fine diner restaurants. He wants to go to take her to all kinds of lovey-dovey places. 151 00:20:26,000 --> 00:20:30,000 He wants to bring her flowers. He wants to bring her gifts. 152 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:38,000 Venus, if it is especially placed here for him, this guy is going to get seriously romantic after marriage. 153 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:45,000 Whereas if Venus is placed here, he is more focused on career matters. That is where Venus stands for. 154 00:20:45,000 --> 00:20:50,000 She will observe that. She needs to see this. She needs to see this namaamsa. 155 00:20:50,000 --> 00:20:57,000 Now just take the Ascendant. Now for the Capricorn Ascendant, this person has become an enemy sign. 156 00:20:57,000 --> 00:21:05,000 An enemy sign does not mean literally enemies. It is just that it becomes a challenging area for this guy to look at this spouse. 157 00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:12,000 He needs to work harder at it. She needs to know that this has now become an enemy sign for him. 158 00:21:12,000 --> 00:21:19,000 If some troublesome planets are placed over here or Rao is placed here, then it becomes slightly more difficult. 159 00:21:19,000 --> 00:21:25,000 There is nothing again that cannot be worked out if everybody knows this stuff. That is the reason I make all this stuff for YouTube. 160 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:31,000 All the YouTubers are out there. You need to know and understand the principle. 161 00:21:31,000 --> 00:21:38,000 Once you understand the principle, by extension it applies to all Ascendants, all Nakshatras. You name it. 162 00:21:38,000 --> 00:21:45,000 So this is what the beautiful lady needs to understand about the Capricorn Ascendant. 163 00:21:45,000 --> 00:21:53,000 That is what he has transformed to. You need to understand what the person has transformed towards. Not what he was before. 164 00:21:53,000 --> 00:21:59,000 Stop wondering why has this person changed so much after marriage. These are the reasons. 165 00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:04,000 This is the technology which tells us these kinds of things. We need to understand it. Work with it. 166 00:22:04,000 --> 00:22:11,000 Rather than saying, oh no, this is all hogwash. I am not going to buy all this humbug. No. That will not serve you well. 167 00:22:11,000 --> 00:22:16,000 Because I have seen actual couples come and tell me their stories, horror stories. 168 00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:20,000 The other couple, I will just finish up with this. 169 00:22:20,000 --> 00:22:30,000 And the couple I knew, they were saying they quoted each other right from school days. School days, mind you. 170 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:35,000 When they were still in primary school, they were already in love. 171 00:22:35,000 --> 00:22:42,000 And that continued all the way till college. They promised each other they would marry. They did the same kind of degrees. 172 00:22:42,000 --> 00:22:49,000 They did post graduation. They studied. Then they got married. You know where they are today. They have two children. 173 00:22:49,000 --> 00:22:55,000 They are staying abroad. They have two lovely children. Husband sleeps with one child in one room. 174 00:22:55,000 --> 00:23:02,000 Wife sleeps with another child in another room. They have not slept in the same bed for like 7 years or 10 years. 175 00:23:02,000 --> 00:23:07,000 I do not know how many years they have. They have two little children. So it is obviously a lot of time. 176 00:23:07,000 --> 00:23:18,000 So I want you to start taking this seriously. Please, for your own good, for your own happiness, for the happiness of the girl, the boy, whichever way it is, 177 00:23:18,000 --> 00:23:23,000 for the happiness of both families, for the happiness of the children. So many things are dependent. We think, 178 00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:31,000 just marrying one person, two people do not get married, two families get married, two relationships of entire kinds get married. 179 00:23:31,000 --> 00:23:42,000 Everybody's life gets upset if people get divorced now and then. You see. But if we kind of take more time and more consciousness, 180 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:50,000 more awareness into understanding this Namam Shah what it has flipped like, not only can you be helping the other person, of course. 181 00:23:50,000 --> 00:23:59,000 Like they say in India, there is nothing like one hand clapping. It takes two to clap. Two hands to make a clapping sound. 182 00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:06,000 So it has to be both ways. Husband has to look at the wife's Namam Shah. Wife has to look at the husband's Namam Shah. 183 00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:12,000 And this is where I struggle because I have seen, I have given them their Namam Shahs. I have given them, please study this. 184 00:24:12,000 --> 00:24:18,000 There is a way to work this person. No need to get divorced. You can make this. You can make this stuff happen. 185 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:27,000 We are here to make stuff happen as humans. And this kind of wisdom which is passed from the ancients in India can be just useful. 186 00:24:27,000 --> 00:24:34,000 Just one tool. Okay. But it's so crucial and it is so relevant. Okay. Take note of this. Take cognizance of this. 187 00:24:34,000 --> 00:24:49,000 Let us work the person people. All right. We in time take care. Be safe.