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Do you notice your partner's communication style?

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Your significant and your love interest.

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Do you notice their communication styles?

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Sometimes they are very vocal, sometimes they are very introverted, sometimes they are talking

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about specific things, sometimes they are ignoring other things.

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Communication is very important for folks, right?

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Especially in the relationship which we are talking about.

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We are talking about those first top three dots in that human being figure over there.

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The second house, the third house and the fourth house.

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Look at what it stands for.

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Expression, sight, voice, speech, second house is speech.

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Third house is also speech but maybe in deliberate actions.

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What you decide to do with that speech?

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Whether the nature of the speech is harsh, is cruel, is soft, is inclined towards one

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area or another of a person's life.

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That's what connects you to the heart of a person.

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Now women in general are more specific about voice, speech and communication in a relationship.

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Why?

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Because their vocal centers are more developed than the man.

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That's why women have more blabbermouths.

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They like to express a lot about their feelings.

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Typically, typically the man is bad at that, right?

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Because their centers and the vocal centers in the head are not that well developed as

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is a woman.

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This is just a gender difference in biochemistry if you will.

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What are we speaking about?

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Conscious relating, how to consciously relate to your partner and how to use the simple

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tools of astrology?

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Simple.

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You can learn this yourself.

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Your partner's karmic display we are talking about today, Mercury.

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Mercury is one of the most important aspects in relationship because it deals with communication.

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It deals with communication because you have to communicate with the other in order to

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be able to relate.

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What are you trying to relate?

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What's in your mind?

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What's in your heart?

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What does it come from?

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From your throat folks, from your throat chakra, the middle one.

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That's the bridge we spoke of in the previous ones.

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Just to recap, what's Mercury?

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Rationality, intelligence, weight, cleverness, skill, dexterity, verbal and mental ability.

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Very important in a relationship.

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Shrewdness, if you are doing business of course.

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Or it can be on the downside aloofness, detachment, amorality, expediency or intellectualization.

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Lot goes on these days about spirituality.

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They intellectualize a lot about religion, about spirituality.

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It's not required.

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Difficulty in thought and communication.

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So communication might be good, communication might be bad.

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You see a lot of women these days having throat issues, thyroid issues.

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Where does it come from?

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They have not been able to express their voice.

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They have not been able to give out the energy in their throat system.

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You need to be able to communicate properly in a relationship especially.

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Because remember Bhava Bhavan, seventh place from the seventh house is the first house.

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So whatever is your significant half, your love, interest, your spouse is going to change

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you forever.

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The way you look at the world, the way you think about what people are.

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Just a deeper aspect of Mercury.

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We all know that Mercury is communication.

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It's all over in pop astrology.

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Mercury is for communication, intelligence, intellect, yada yada.

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The deeper aspect is the nakshatra itself.

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For example, there are only two kinds of nakshatras which are satvik in nature.

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The highest form of pure energy, the conception, what all of us are aspiring towards in the

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nakshatra system.

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Be careful.

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Only three of them.

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Two planets, Mercury and Jupiter.

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Mercury rules all the satvik nakshatras starting from Ashlesha to Jaishtha and to Revathi.

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All these are mercury rule nakshatras and they are satvik in nature.

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Think about that for a minute.

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What is it trying to say?

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What does this mean?

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It means we have to use our intellectual knowledge for the sake of refinement in getting to a

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higher level of thinking, the higher mind.

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Mercury needs to get to the higher mind just like Venus needs to get to the higher heart

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of things.

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Okay.

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That will be another video on the outer planets and how Uranus and Mercury relate.

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But that's completely different.

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Let's just quickly go through the houses.

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We are talking about, follow the chart here.

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Second, third, fourth, fifth, seventh and eighth houses of a chart which I have shaded

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over there in different colors.

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And I have marked them here against the human chakra system in this and what they stand

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for.

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Just follow this logic for a minute.

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Why these houses only?

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Because in terms of relationship, in terms of what you are trying to relate to your spouse

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or your lover or your boyfriend or your girlfriend, what are you trying to do?

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Relate in these places.

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So how does Mercury behave in these places?

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You got to know.

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Let's go through them one by one.

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Mercury in second, that means it's already in your head, okay?

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In your speech centers.

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Major focus will be family's wealth assets.

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A lot of speaking and talking.

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Oh, Mercury lost his spot.

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Why?

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Because second house is the house of speech.

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This person is a nonstop jabbermouth.

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They will go on speaking about any and all subjects, especially about themselves and

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their family and maybe how much money they have.

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Counseling type interested in writing, even singing, connecting by letting speak, speak,

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speak and more speak.

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Lots of speaking.

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Mercury in the second house does very well.

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It's interesting when we come to the eighth house, how that looks like.

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Okay.

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Next.

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Mercury in the third house, house of skills, house of younger siblings, house of social

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media and communications.

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Speaking at the ninth house, passion for communication as writing.

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They love to write.

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Why?

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Third house is the house of hands.

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Shoulders and hands is third house.

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So writing communication can be as speaking or as writing also.

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Love short travels, trips, gossip, chit chat.

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These are the gossipy people.

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Oh, you know, he did this such and such to her or she did such and such to her or this

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is how it goes on the gossipy guy.

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The idea interested in playing sports and games, physical again, interest towards higher

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learning, world philosophy and books.

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Why it's looking at the ninth house.

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Understand your communication skills of your people whom you're going out with.

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Otherwise don't complain that the dating is not going well.

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I like this and she likes that.

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Not happening in fourth house.

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Very comfortable with improving communication within home.

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Fifth house is home matters dealing with the matters of home property of land.

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Simple.

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There's nothing much there in the fifth house is the house of romance.

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Now this person Mercury is a young prince.

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He's a charmer with words.

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Have you come across those Romeo types who are always charming people with words?

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They're very sweet in talking.

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It's a different thing as a character because remember Mercury has no intranations in and

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of itself.

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It's like a mimicry.

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It's a guy who mimics whoever he's sitting with.

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If he's sitting with Mars, his speech will become aggressive.

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If he's sitting with the fierce nakshatra, his talk will become very fierce and sharp,

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cutting, rude, mean.

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If he's sitting with the soft nakshatra and a softer planet, he will become all about

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kindness and goodness.

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What comes out of your mouth is determined by all of these factors, the nakshatra in

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which Mercury is sitting and the house in which it is sitting.

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Fifth house makes this guy a Romeo, a charmer with words.

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He can charm people with words, creative with words, loves movie scripts, poem songs that

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can be good in profession.

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In the seventh house of spouse, he becomes diplomatic in relationships.

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Mercury is a young prince, diplomatic.

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Marriage, interested in affairs of the marriage, diplomacy and negotiating in marriage, in

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intimate matters.

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He's a social bird because seventh house is all about others, all others other than me.

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Last meeting people, good party animal.

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These kind of people love to have parties in the house.

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They're always about having barbecues, having drinks, having friends over, everything.

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They love this person is very comfortable in communicating in parties, party animal.

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In eighth house, remember second house was a jabber box.

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He was talking, talking, yadayaya.

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In the eighth house, he goes quiet because eighth house is the house of secrets, Scorpio.

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It goes inside, becomes an introverted person, very secretive.

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Curious towards hidden secrets, maybe in the family.

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Curiosity in physical intimacy, fifty shades of grey kind.

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The quieter type of mercury, this is a quieter introverted.

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You know, we spoke about silent waters being deep, this mercury is like that.

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It wants to explore other things.

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Okay, mercury is also passionate in some things.

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Again, depends upon where the venous is also placed, how this plays out.

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Okay.

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Next, I will be talking about the shadow.

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There's always shadow aspects in a relationship folks.

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You know it, I know it.

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Let's deal with it and let's put this out there in the open.

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What are the shadow aspects with respect to the second, third, fourth, fifth, seventh,

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and eighth houses?

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That'll be my next.

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Keep watching and have a safe day.

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traitor Iowa.