Do you notice your partner's communication style?
Your significant and your love interest.
Do you notice their communication styles?
Sometimes they are very vocal, sometimes they are very introverted, sometimes they are talking
about specific things, sometimes they are ignoring other things.
Communication is very important for folks, right?
Especially in the relationship which we are talking about.
We are talking about those first top three dots in that human being figure over there.
The second house, the third house and the fourth house.
Look at what it stands for.
Expression, sight, voice, speech, second house is speech.
Third house is also speech but maybe in deliberate actions.
What you decide to do with that speech?
Whether the nature of the speech is harsh, is cruel, is soft, is inclined towards one
area or another of a person's life.
That's what connects you to the heart of a person.
Now women in general are more specific about voice, speech and communication in a relationship.
Why?
Because their vocal centers are more developed than the man.
That's why women have more blabbermouths.
They like to express a lot about their feelings.
Typically, typically the man is bad at that, right?
Because their centers and the vocal centers in the head are not that well developed as
is a woman.
This is just a gender difference in biochemistry if you will.
What are we speaking about?
Conscious relating, how to consciously relate to your partner and how to use the simple
tools of astrology?
Simple.
You can learn this yourself.
Your partner's karmic display we are talking about today, Mercury.
Mercury is one of the most important aspects in relationship because it deals with communication.
It deals with communication because you have to communicate with the other in order to
be able to relate.
What are you trying to relate?
What's in your mind?
What's in your heart?
What does it come from?
From your throat folks, from your throat chakra, the middle one.
That's the bridge we spoke of in the previous ones.
Just to recap, what's Mercury?
Rationality, intelligence, weight, cleverness, skill, dexterity, verbal and mental ability.
Very important in a relationship.
Shrewdness, if you are doing business of course.
Or it can be on the downside aloofness, detachment, amorality, expediency or intellectualization.
Lot goes on these days about spirituality.
They intellectualize a lot about religion, about spirituality.
It's not required.
Difficulty in thought and communication.
So communication might be good, communication might be bad.
You see a lot of women these days having throat issues, thyroid issues.
Where does it come from?
They have not been able to express their voice.
They have not been able to give out the energy in their throat system.
You need to be able to communicate properly in a relationship especially.
Because remember Bhava Bhavan, seventh place from the seventh house is the first house.
So whatever is your significant half, your love, interest, your spouse is going to change
you forever.
The way you look at the world, the way you think about what people are.
Just a deeper aspect of Mercury.
We all know that Mercury is communication.
It's all over in pop astrology.
Mercury is for communication, intelligence, intellect, yada yada.
The deeper aspect is the nakshatra itself.
For example, there are only two kinds of nakshatras which are satvik in nature.
The highest form of pure energy, the conception, what all of us are aspiring towards in the
nakshatra system.
Be careful.
Only three of them.
Two planets, Mercury and Jupiter.
Mercury rules all the satvik nakshatras starting from Ashlesha to Jaishtha and to Revathi.
All these are mercury rule nakshatras and they are satvik in nature.
Think about that for a minute.
What is it trying to say?
What does this mean?
It means we have to use our intellectual knowledge for the sake of refinement in getting to a
higher level of thinking, the higher mind.
Mercury needs to get to the higher mind just like Venus needs to get to the higher heart
of things.
Okay.
That will be another video on the outer planets and how Uranus and Mercury relate.
But that's completely different.
Let's just quickly go through the houses.
We are talking about, follow the chart here.
Second, third, fourth, fifth, seventh and eighth houses of a chart which I have shaded
over there in different colors.
And I have marked them here against the human chakra system in this and what they stand
for.
Just follow this logic for a minute.
Why these houses only?
Because in terms of relationship, in terms of what you are trying to relate to your spouse
or your lover or your boyfriend or your girlfriend, what are you trying to do?
Relate in these places.
So how does Mercury behave in these places?
You got to know.
Let's go through them one by one.
Mercury in second, that means it's already in your head, okay?
In your speech centers.
Major focus will be family's wealth assets.
A lot of speaking and talking.
Oh, Mercury lost his spot.
Why?
Because second house is the house of speech.
This person is a nonstop jabbermouth.
They will go on speaking about any and all subjects, especially about themselves and
their family and maybe how much money they have.
Counseling type interested in writing, even singing, connecting by letting speak, speak,
speak and more speak.
Lots of speaking.
Mercury in the second house does very well.
It's interesting when we come to the eighth house, how that looks like.
Okay.
Next.
Mercury in the third house, house of skills, house of younger siblings, house of social
media and communications.
Speaking at the ninth house, passion for communication as writing.
They love to write.
Why?
Third house is the house of hands.
Shoulders and hands is third house.
So writing communication can be as speaking or as writing also.
Love short travels, trips, gossip, chit chat.
These are the gossipy people.
Oh, you know, he did this such and such to her or she did such and such to her or this
is how it goes on the gossipy guy.
The idea interested in playing sports and games, physical again, interest towards higher
learning, world philosophy and books.
Why it's looking at the ninth house.
Understand your communication skills of your people whom you're going out with.
Otherwise don't complain that the dating is not going well.
I like this and she likes that.
Not happening in fourth house.
Very comfortable with improving communication within home.
Fifth house is home matters dealing with the matters of home property of land.
Simple.
There's nothing much there in the fifth house is the house of romance.
Now this person Mercury is a young prince.
He's a charmer with words.
Have you come across those Romeo types who are always charming people with words?
They're very sweet in talking.
It's a different thing as a character because remember Mercury has no intranations in and
of itself.
It's like a mimicry.
It's a guy who mimics whoever he's sitting with.
If he's sitting with Mars, his speech will become aggressive.
If he's sitting with the fierce nakshatra, his talk will become very fierce and sharp,
cutting, rude, mean.
If he's sitting with the soft nakshatra and a softer planet, he will become all about
kindness and goodness.
What comes out of your mouth is determined by all of these factors, the nakshatra in
which Mercury is sitting and the house in which it is sitting.
Fifth house makes this guy a Romeo, a charmer with words.
He can charm people with words, creative with words, loves movie scripts, poem songs that
can be good in profession.
In the seventh house of spouse, he becomes diplomatic in relationships.
Mercury is a young prince, diplomatic.
Marriage, interested in affairs of the marriage, diplomacy and negotiating in marriage, in
intimate matters.
He's a social bird because seventh house is all about others, all others other than me.
Last meeting people, good party animal.
These kind of people love to have parties in the house.
They're always about having barbecues, having drinks, having friends over, everything.
They love this person is very comfortable in communicating in parties, party animal.
In eighth house, remember second house was a jabber box.
He was talking, talking, yadayaya.
In the eighth house, he goes quiet because eighth house is the house of secrets, Scorpio.
It goes inside, becomes an introverted person, very secretive.
Curious towards hidden secrets, maybe in the family.
Curiosity in physical intimacy, fifty shades of grey kind.
The quieter type of mercury, this is a quieter introverted.
You know, we spoke about silent waters being deep, this mercury is like that.
It wants to explore other things.
Okay, mercury is also passionate in some things.
Again, depends upon where the venous is also placed, how this plays out.
Okay.
Next, I will be talking about the shadow.
There's always shadow aspects in a relationship folks.
You know it, I know it.
Let's deal with it and let's put this out there in the open.
What are the shadow aspects with respect to the second, third, fourth, fifth, seventh,
and eighth houses?
That'll be my next.
Keep watching and have a safe day.
traitor Iowa.