1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:02,800 If you are married, how can you come across your spouse being 2 00:00:04,240 --> 00:00:11,120 active in particular areas of drive, you know, being very aggressive in bed, but not being so 3 00:00:11,120 --> 00:00:16,720 aggressive with kids, if you have kids, or being either way around being aggressive with children, 4 00:00:16,720 --> 00:00:23,440 but not so much after marriage in terms of sexual drive. What are we talking about? What's going 5 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,920 on here? So we are talking about conscious relating. The first five parts we covered, the chakras 6 00:00:27,920 --> 00:00:32,720 over there quickly, the picture you see over there. And if you're listening on podcast, 7 00:00:32,720 --> 00:00:37,920 please see the YouTube channel, side time. So you see the human being there with, 8 00:00:38,880 --> 00:00:44,560 you're trying to develop this human being folks. Okay. We went from second, third, fourth, fifth, 9 00:00:44,560 --> 00:00:50,480 seventh and eighth house of astrology. Remember, I told you in my last one, I will do more on 10 00:00:50,480 --> 00:00:57,760 planets and we'll start with Mars as the aggressor as the drive. Mars is the drive energy which we 11 00:00:57,760 --> 00:01:04,880 all have. Everything has a plus and a minus, right? That's the symbol of Mars over there. 12 00:01:04,880 --> 00:01:13,200 Right. And why am I calling it your partner's karmic display? One reason, wherever the planets 13 00:01:13,200 --> 00:01:20,480 are deposited in your chart that shows the karmic drive of a person. Where is the karma 14 00:01:20,480 --> 00:01:26,720 driving this person towards? It's nothing to do with you. It's nothing to do with you personally. 15 00:01:26,720 --> 00:01:31,920 Nobody's trying to attack you personally. It's just the person is displaying that kind of Martian 16 00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:38,160 attributes. There is nothing personal here folks. Each one is born with one thing or the other. 17 00:01:38,160 --> 00:01:45,120 It's just that simple. So looking at a recap of planetary psychology, which I did back in the 18 00:01:45,120 --> 00:01:50,560 healers astrology series, go back to my healers playlist, you will find this planetary psychology. 19 00:01:50,560 --> 00:01:59,920 What is Mars? Aggressive guy, the soldier, gold directed energy. This is psychologically speaking. 20 00:02:00,640 --> 00:02:08,560 Strength, courage, passion, action, competitive and fighting spirit. Mars wants to go and aggressively 21 00:02:08,560 --> 00:02:16,800 go out there and get stuff done. Get shit done is Mars energy period. Vigor or on the shadow 22 00:02:16,800 --> 00:02:23,200 side of Mars, it can be anger, irritability, haste, impatience, a lot of impatience with Mars. 23 00:02:23,920 --> 00:02:28,880 Inconstancy, there's no constancy in things. So five minutes ago is this 10 minutes ago, 24 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:35,920 it's something else kind of people. OCD, inconsistency, different from inconstancy by 25 00:02:35,920 --> 00:02:40,320 the way, inconsistencies, you're not inconsistent, you're not being well consistent. 26 00:02:41,200 --> 00:02:45,520 Lack of drive and courage, all or nothing attitude. I want all of this stuff or I want 27 00:02:45,520 --> 00:02:52,560 nothing to do with it. That's Mars, like a flip side, two sides like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde kind 28 00:02:52,560 --> 00:02:58,000 of scenario. So what are we doing here in this one? I want to take a deep dive into 29 00:03:00,480 --> 00:03:07,200 where the Mars is placed and this over right hand left hand side top corner, I've shaded the house 30 00:03:09,120 --> 00:03:15,120 starting from pink, light green one, blue one, dark blue one, yellow one and green one. 31 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,640 That's the houses we are talking about here on the left on the right. 32 00:03:19,520 --> 00:03:24,000 Second house, third house, fourth house, fifth house, seventh house and eighth house. Those are 33 00:03:24,000 --> 00:03:30,960 marked here on the chart. So what I'm going to do from now on is take you through three steps, 34 00:03:30,960 --> 00:03:39,920 three crucial personal planets, Mars, Venus and Mercury. These are the Rajasic planets which affect 35 00:03:39,920 --> 00:03:44,640 the relationship. We are trying to narrow our focus here towards relationship only and 36 00:03:44,640 --> 00:03:49,920 intimate relationship because it's Bhagavatavam affects the first house and everything I've spoken 37 00:03:49,920 --> 00:03:58,240 of in the first five parts. So now we are trying to solidify the karma, solidify the aspect of each 38 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:04,880 of us where it is dominantly playing out, Mars playing out in each one of these shaded houses 39 00:04:05,600 --> 00:04:11,760 and this is irrespective of ascended and irrespective of anything else. Just keep these things in mind 40 00:04:11,760 --> 00:04:19,120 as a general rule. It's going to happen anyway. We are trying to form conscious relating. We are 41 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:24,400 trying to consciously work this puzzle rather than being unconsciously going around doing stuff and 42 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,240 then blaming the other person, blaming the whole world and judging everybody in the process. 43 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:37,760 That's not going to work. So there's a couple of rules here. Check the angle which is also the 44 00:04:37,760 --> 00:04:43,520 strength of Mars in your horoscope and your partner's horoscope. The more the angle, that means 45 00:04:43,520 --> 00:04:48,800 the more karma has been accumulated by the planet as it moves through a particular house, 46 00:04:48,800 --> 00:04:53,200 that's all it means, the more the strength. This is our astrology's typical reading. 47 00:04:55,120 --> 00:05:02,960 Check also the nakshatra. If it's in Mars and or moon is also in Mars ruled nakshatra or a fierce 48 00:05:02,960 --> 00:05:07,760 nakshatra, remember the healer's astrology. Go back to the healer's astrology playlist and watch this 49 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:14,160 because we are talking about healing all areas here. So it affects that. If your Mars is sitting in 50 00:05:14,160 --> 00:05:20,880 a Mars ruled nakshatra and a fierce nakshatra, good luck. This person is going to be really aggressive. 51 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:27,600 Like wants to pick fights. Have you seen this kind of people? It becomes even more aggressive 52 00:05:27,600 --> 00:05:34,080 and gains strength. So just keep these two things in mind as we go along. Now let's get to it. What 53 00:05:34,080 --> 00:05:44,960 happens here? Let's go right up to the first house. Sorry, where is that con? It disappeared. 54 00:05:48,400 --> 00:05:55,280 No, right there. Okay, sorry about that. Mars in second house and I have marked here Mars in 55 00:05:55,280 --> 00:06:01,360 second house. We'll look at the seventh aspect. We are only dealing with opposite aspects because 56 00:06:01,360 --> 00:06:07,440 we are only dealing with how Mars will take it directly to the intimate partner. Wherever Mars 57 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:13,440 is looking at directly, it's the main focus as if I'm looking in the front. Mars fourth aspect is 58 00:06:13,440 --> 00:06:18,720 over here somewhere on the side. Mars eight aspect is somewhere over there. But what I'm looking 59 00:06:18,720 --> 00:06:26,480 directly in the front is what I'm examining here. I will also cover the fourth and eighth. Just so 60 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:33,200 you know and keep that Mars qualities, the pluses and the shadow side. Each planet has a positive 61 00:06:33,200 --> 00:06:38,960 and a shadow side. We are talking about Mars in the second house. What happens second house? 62 00:06:38,960 --> 00:06:43,920 It's about speech, sight, voice, singing, taste, touch, smell, listening, music, all these things 63 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:49,760 we talked about. Mars in the second house are short tempered in approach towards what? Towards 64 00:06:49,760 --> 00:06:55,760 family because it is first sitting in the house of family. Aggressive communication with friends, 65 00:06:56,320 --> 00:07:00,880 immediate family, siblings, early childhood. We are talking more in terms of early childhood. 66 00:07:00,880 --> 00:07:06,080 Siblings especially elder ones because second house is for elder siblings, third house is for younger 67 00:07:06,080 --> 00:07:13,440 siblings. Mars aspect in the fifth and seventh house, it will do that in the fourth aspect and the eighth, 68 00:07:13,440 --> 00:07:21,440 seventh aspect here. Fifth and seventh house. Okay, so I've corrected that a little bit. It's 69 00:07:21,440 --> 00:07:24,720 fifth and ninth aspect. I was thinking there's something wrong with that. Okay, sorry about 70 00:07:24,720 --> 00:07:29,120 that. Mars aspect in the fifth and ninth aspect. Why? The fourth aspect is looking at the fifth 71 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:36,080 house and the eighth aspect is looking at the ninth house. Okay, what does it lead this kind of Mars 72 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:41,600 to be placed in your chart or your partner's chart? Aggressive behavior in sexual encounters. Fifth 73 00:07:41,600 --> 00:07:47,760 place is for love and romance and it is taking it directly to the house of eight thousand. Remember, 74 00:07:47,760 --> 00:07:51,760 we talked about eight thousand as a sexual instinct. We are talking about intimate partnership. So all 75 00:07:51,760 --> 00:07:57,920 this will play out. Aggressive behavior there, aggressive behavior towards in-laws because 76 00:07:57,920 --> 00:08:04,160 eighth house is also for the in-laws. Aggressive and physical intimacy aspects, all kinds of physical 77 00:08:04,160 --> 00:08:10,640 intimacy, all kinds of instinctual aspects listed over there. It will be carrying that aggression 78 00:08:10,640 --> 00:08:18,240 towards that. That's Mars in second. What about Mars in third? Because we have come to this deliberate 79 00:08:18,240 --> 00:08:23,680 action, motivations, interests. So Mars will be driven by this third house stuff which is basically 80 00:08:23,680 --> 00:08:29,840 skill development. Everything handsy and shoulders in his Mars here in third house. What does he do? 81 00:08:29,840 --> 00:08:35,760 They become extremely competitive, driven with handsy skills, find their way to success in 82 00:08:35,760 --> 00:08:40,960 driven, very driven attitudes. In third house, it's also called an upachya house. That means it 83 00:08:40,960 --> 00:08:47,200 grows through time. So they can develop skills constantly throughout life. But we are talking 84 00:08:47,200 --> 00:08:53,280 about motorbike stuff here. So these people can become very technical, very sporty or artsy. Have 85 00:08:53,280 --> 00:08:59,360 you had your spouse or date or somebody, every active in sports? Probably they have Mars in the 86 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:05,520 third house. Actively engaged with friends, people always engaging with friends, with social media, 87 00:09:06,080 --> 00:09:09,840 with their own family, with their immediate friend circle, with their younger siblings. 88 00:09:11,520 --> 00:09:15,920 They love spontaneity. They are very spontaneous kind of people. Have you dated these kind of 89 00:09:15,920 --> 00:09:21,920 people? Have you known these kind of people whom you have had a relationship with? Love spontaneity, 90 00:09:21,920 --> 00:09:27,840 love short trips because third house is for short trips, ninth house is for long trips abroad. So 91 00:09:27,840 --> 00:09:34,400 this Mars looking from the third house also wants to go abroad, always wants to investigate higher 92 00:09:34,400 --> 00:09:40,720 philosophy because ninth house is also for that. Just giving you a brief snapshot through all these 93 00:09:40,720 --> 00:09:47,920 particular houses. From the fourth aspect, which is the home and family, this Mars will look at 94 00:09:47,920 --> 00:09:55,680 10th house. But what is it doing? Mars is not a good guy to be sitting at home. Mars is very, 95 00:09:55,680 --> 00:10:00,080 very aggressive. Mars is a soldier. It's like taking a soldier from the battlefield and sticking 96 00:10:00,080 --> 00:10:06,240 him in the house. It doesn't work. So they might have conflicts at home or with mother or with 97 00:10:06,240 --> 00:10:12,240 motherland. Very controlling of spouse. Fourth aspect looks at the seventh house. Very, very 98 00:10:12,240 --> 00:10:18,880 controlling people. They have to dominate the spouse, conquering the heart of the spouse. 99 00:10:18,880 --> 00:10:25,040 Why? It's fourth from the fourth house. It's like the Bhavad Bha. Having a very creative, passionate 100 00:10:25,040 --> 00:10:31,280 sexual life. Fifth from the fourth house is looking at the eighth place. Two, three, four, five. 101 00:10:31,920 --> 00:10:36,240 So it is looking at the eighth house. That means these people can become very creative in bed. 102 00:10:36,240 --> 00:10:48,800 Who doesn't want that? What about fifth house? If we move Mars to the fifth house in the house of 103 00:10:48,800 --> 00:10:54,960 creative intelligence, in the house of love, romance, in the house of children, in the house of 104 00:10:54,960 --> 00:11:01,600 education, they'll become active in all this. Wherever you take Mars and stick him in any house, 105 00:11:01,600 --> 00:11:10,000 he makes the aspects of that house active. Just think of that like taking a whole bonfire and 106 00:11:10,000 --> 00:11:16,160 putting it in a particular house. What happens is it activates all the elements of their house 107 00:11:16,160 --> 00:11:20,480 and it takes it to wherever it looks at. And in this case, we are talking about the seventh 108 00:11:20,480 --> 00:11:26,480 aspect. So we are talking about the significant other. We are stuck in the fifth house now, 109 00:11:26,480 --> 00:11:32,480 Mars. So this is the identity, the bridge. It's crucial because it is going downwards also that 110 00:11:32,480 --> 00:11:40,000 energy in this human figure. The fifth house, your gut level is your instinct, identity, instinct. 111 00:11:40,880 --> 00:11:45,440 It's a bridge, others versus self. It is about discernment. It's about creative intelligence, 112 00:11:45,440 --> 00:11:50,240 education, love and romance, all of this stuff. So Mars gets active there. What does he do? 113 00:11:50,240 --> 00:11:54,800 He becomes very creative in courtship. I'm sure you must have come across some people who are 114 00:11:54,800 --> 00:12:01,840 extremely creative during the phase of courtship. Fifth house is not the house of marriage. Fifth 115 00:12:01,840 --> 00:12:07,280 house is still your courting. So all those people who are dating and you find some people who are 116 00:12:07,280 --> 00:12:12,560 very creative, you know, flowers and bouquets and fancy restaurants and taking to a candlelight 117 00:12:12,560 --> 00:12:17,600 dinners, the wine and everything else. These guys might have Mars in the fifth house. 118 00:12:17,600 --> 00:12:25,680 I saw women creative in courtship and dating love and romance. They're very creative in this 119 00:12:25,680 --> 00:12:31,520 because Mars is sitting there making children competitive. Let's say you get married to such a 120 00:12:31,520 --> 00:12:38,400 person and you have children with them and now you have they'll get very competent. They make 121 00:12:38,400 --> 00:12:43,120 their children competitive in sports. They engage them in physical activities because Mars is a very 122 00:12:43,120 --> 00:12:49,520 physical person. Deep drive to understand psychological self. Why? The fourth aspect is looking at the 123 00:12:49,520 --> 00:12:55,600 eighth house. So this Mars sitting in the fifth is looking at the eighth house. That is the fifth. 124 00:12:56,880 --> 00:13:04,240 Third chakra is trying to connect with the root chakra. Okay. May even have affairs with people 125 00:13:04,240 --> 00:13:09,360 from social media networks. Why? It's looking at the 11th house. 11th house is for greater social 126 00:13:09,360 --> 00:13:15,440 media. Facebook, Twitter, whatnot. There's tons of them now. I won't even get into that. So they 127 00:13:15,440 --> 00:13:22,320 might be inclined towards taking their love and romance where Mars is sitting towards the 11th 128 00:13:22,320 --> 00:13:30,000 house greater community, which is social media. This might happen here. Next, if Mars sits in the 129 00:13:30,000 --> 00:13:36,880 seventh house, seventh house is the house of spouse. So from the house of spouse, it is looking at the 130 00:13:36,880 --> 00:13:41,600 ascendant. It's looking at the head. That means it's looking from the seventh upward in this chakra 131 00:13:41,600 --> 00:13:48,400 system. It's looking towards the head. So this shows a great devotion to the marriage itself. 132 00:13:48,400 --> 00:13:54,160 These people might be extremely committed partners in your marriage. If you get married to this person, 133 00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,840 they'll be very committed. They might be also a little aggressive again, depending upon where and 134 00:13:57,840 --> 00:14:04,400 how Mars is placed. Devotion to marriage, devotion to spouse, relationships with people in general 135 00:14:04,400 --> 00:14:09,600 because seventh house is people in general. The beginning of your interactions with the 136 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:15,680 external world one on one at work in the house in intimate partnerships is the seventh house. 137 00:14:17,120 --> 00:14:24,400 More focus on family assets wealth and elder siblings. Why is that? Eighth aspect looks at the 138 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:32,160 second house and second house is for elder siblings like I spoke of. So it looks at uncovering 139 00:14:32,160 --> 00:14:38,640 and eighth house is where Mars looks to dig deep into hidden stuff. It loves to dig deep and 140 00:14:38,640 --> 00:14:44,320 uncover secret enemies, secret wealth. In this case, your secret family wealth. So this person might be 141 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:49,840 let's say coming from a rich family and they are wanting the inheritance part of the wealth. 142 00:14:49,840 --> 00:14:56,560 This Mars will seek and find where all he's getting inheritance or not. Whether these people have put 143 00:14:56,560 --> 00:15:01,600 me in their will or not. All the stuff Mars will dig from here in the seventh house. That becomes 144 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:10,880 their kind of obsession. Now last looking eight sitting in the eighth house and looking at the 145 00:15:10,880 --> 00:15:19,440 second house as you can see in the eighth house. This is tons and tons of drive just raw sexual 146 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:25,200 energy is there in this person. Why it is sitting right there in the eighth house in the first chakra 147 00:15:25,200 --> 00:15:31,120 which is for instinct. You're going to the you're gone to the primal instinct itself and you're stuck 148 00:15:31,120 --> 00:15:38,960 Mars in the root chakra where even the organs are. Imagine that. So it will affect the root of the 149 00:15:38,960 --> 00:15:45,840 desire and this person will have tons of energy to release. This is the 50 shades of gray kind of a 150 00:15:45,840 --> 00:15:52,800 man or a woman. Okay. Tons of sexual energy that needs constant release will seek secret affairs. 151 00:15:52,800 --> 00:15:59,120 Eight house is the house of secrets and if you stick Mars in the house of that, guess what will 152 00:15:59,120 --> 00:16:04,720 happen? You have ignited a lot of fire. It will seek secret affairs for this energy release. Now 153 00:16:04,720 --> 00:16:09,920 all those people out there were watching this even up to this point. If you're judging the people who 154 00:16:09,920 --> 00:16:14,640 are having affairs, you don't know anything about their life. Stop. Stop being such an ignoramus. 155 00:16:14,640 --> 00:16:23,040 Learn the science first. Secret affairs just means the person needs a lot of energy release. Now 156 00:16:23,040 --> 00:16:28,640 if you do yoga, if you do pranayama and if you do all this other stuff to find a constructive way to 157 00:16:28,640 --> 00:16:34,960 release, that's a different issue. How many of them come across that anyway? They may even have 158 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:39,840 secret affairs over social media with our others. Why? Because the fourth aspect is looking at the 159 00:16:39,840 --> 00:16:45,440 11th house of community and it is sitting in the 8th house, which is itself hidden secrets and which 160 00:16:45,440 --> 00:16:51,600 is itself sexual energy. So two, three, four. So they might do that. This needs to be controlled 161 00:16:51,600 --> 00:16:58,960 in any way they can. So I think I've done enough. We've done about 10 minutes. I've covered a lot in 162 00:16:58,960 --> 00:17:09,760 this. So next one, we shall be doing Venus and then we'll come to Mercury. And we'll deal with the 163 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:16,000 eighth house aspect there and how it looks at it and what happens to it. Why only these three planets? 164 00:17:16,000 --> 00:17:24,480 Well, because personal planets affect us most personally. They are the closest to the earth. 165 00:17:24,480 --> 00:17:29,520 So they affect us, each one of us personally in our personal lives, in our minds, in our hearts, 166 00:17:29,520 --> 00:17:35,760 in our emotions. And we want to deal with relationships in a way to consciously relate to a person. 167 00:17:36,880 --> 00:17:41,040 Not be just carried away by whatever is in the chart because what's the goal? We are trying to go 168 00:17:41,040 --> 00:17:48,080 beyond karma. We are trying to go beyond unconscious drifting. Karma will keep chasing your tail if 169 00:17:48,080 --> 00:17:54,640 you're having unconscious drifting in your life. Okay. So take care. Thank you for all your likes, 170 00:17:54,640 --> 00:18:12,240 shares and subscribes. I'll catch you on the next one with Venus.