If you are married, how can you come across your spouse being
active in particular areas of drive, you know, being very aggressive in bed, but not being so
aggressive with kids, if you have kids, or being either way around being aggressive with children,
but not so much after marriage in terms of sexual drive. What are we talking about? What's going
on here? So we are talking about conscious relating. The first five parts we covered, the chakras
over there quickly, the picture you see over there. And if you're listening on podcast,
please see the YouTube channel, side time. So you see the human being there with,
you're trying to develop this human being folks. Okay. We went from second, third, fourth, fifth,
seventh and eighth house of astrology. Remember, I told you in my last one, I will do more on
planets and we'll start with Mars as the aggressor as the drive. Mars is the drive energy which we
all have. Everything has a plus and a minus, right? That's the symbol of Mars over there.
Right. And why am I calling it your partner's karmic display? One reason, wherever the planets
are deposited in your chart that shows the karmic drive of a person. Where is the karma
driving this person towards? It's nothing to do with you. It's nothing to do with you personally.
Nobody's trying to attack you personally. It's just the person is displaying that kind of Martian
attributes. There is nothing personal here folks. Each one is born with one thing or the other.
It's just that simple. So looking at a recap of planetary psychology, which I did back in the
healers astrology series, go back to my healers playlist, you will find this planetary psychology.
What is Mars? Aggressive guy, the soldier, gold directed energy. This is psychologically speaking.
Strength, courage, passion, action, competitive and fighting spirit. Mars wants to go and aggressively
go out there and get stuff done. Get shit done is Mars energy period. Vigor or on the shadow
side of Mars, it can be anger, irritability, haste, impatience, a lot of impatience with Mars.
Inconstancy, there's no constancy in things. So five minutes ago is this 10 minutes ago,
it's something else kind of people. OCD, inconsistency, different from inconstancy by
the way, inconsistencies, you're not inconsistent, you're not being well consistent.
Lack of drive and courage, all or nothing attitude. I want all of this stuff or I want
nothing to do with it. That's Mars, like a flip side, two sides like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde kind
of scenario. So what are we doing here in this one? I want to take a deep dive into
where the Mars is placed and this over right hand left hand side top corner, I've shaded the house
starting from pink, light green one, blue one, dark blue one, yellow one and green one.
That's the houses we are talking about here on the left on the right.
Second house, third house, fourth house, fifth house, seventh house and eighth house. Those are
marked here on the chart. So what I'm going to do from now on is take you through three steps,
three crucial personal planets, Mars, Venus and Mercury. These are the Rajasic planets which affect
the relationship. We are trying to narrow our focus here towards relationship only and
intimate relationship because it's Bhagavatavam affects the first house and everything I've spoken
of in the first five parts. So now we are trying to solidify the karma, solidify the aspect of each
of us where it is dominantly playing out, Mars playing out in each one of these shaded houses
and this is irrespective of ascended and irrespective of anything else. Just keep these things in mind
as a general rule. It's going to happen anyway. We are trying to form conscious relating. We are
trying to consciously work this puzzle rather than being unconsciously going around doing stuff and
then blaming the other person, blaming the whole world and judging everybody in the process.
That's not going to work. So there's a couple of rules here. Check the angle which is also the
strength of Mars in your horoscope and your partner's horoscope. The more the angle, that means
the more karma has been accumulated by the planet as it moves through a particular house,
that's all it means, the more the strength. This is our astrology's typical reading.
Check also the nakshatra. If it's in Mars and or moon is also in Mars ruled nakshatra or a fierce
nakshatra, remember the healer's astrology. Go back to the healer's astrology playlist and watch this
because we are talking about healing all areas here. So it affects that. If your Mars is sitting in
a Mars ruled nakshatra and a fierce nakshatra, good luck. This person is going to be really aggressive.
Like wants to pick fights. Have you seen this kind of people? It becomes even more aggressive
and gains strength. So just keep these two things in mind as we go along. Now let's get to it. What
happens here? Let's go right up to the first house. Sorry, where is that con? It disappeared.
No, right there. Okay, sorry about that. Mars in second house and I have marked here Mars in
second house. We'll look at the seventh aspect. We are only dealing with opposite aspects because
we are only dealing with how Mars will take it directly to the intimate partner. Wherever Mars
is looking at directly, it's the main focus as if I'm looking in the front. Mars fourth aspect is
over here somewhere on the side. Mars eight aspect is somewhere over there. But what I'm looking
directly in the front is what I'm examining here. I will also cover the fourth and eighth. Just so
you know and keep that Mars qualities, the pluses and the shadow side. Each planet has a positive
and a shadow side. We are talking about Mars in the second house. What happens second house?
It's about speech, sight, voice, singing, taste, touch, smell, listening, music, all these things
we talked about. Mars in the second house are short tempered in approach towards what? Towards
family because it is first sitting in the house of family. Aggressive communication with friends,
immediate family, siblings, early childhood. We are talking more in terms of early childhood.
Siblings especially elder ones because second house is for elder siblings, third house is for younger
siblings. Mars aspect in the fifth and seventh house, it will do that in the fourth aspect and the eighth,
seventh aspect here. Fifth and seventh house. Okay, so I've corrected that a little bit. It's
fifth and ninth aspect. I was thinking there's something wrong with that. Okay, sorry about
that. Mars aspect in the fifth and ninth aspect. Why? The fourth aspect is looking at the fifth
house and the eighth aspect is looking at the ninth house. Okay, what does it lead this kind of Mars
to be placed in your chart or your partner's chart? Aggressive behavior in sexual encounters. Fifth
place is for love and romance and it is taking it directly to the house of eight thousand. Remember,
we talked about eight thousand as a sexual instinct. We are talking about intimate partnership. So all
this will play out. Aggressive behavior there, aggressive behavior towards in-laws because
eighth house is also for the in-laws. Aggressive and physical intimacy aspects, all kinds of physical
intimacy, all kinds of instinctual aspects listed over there. It will be carrying that aggression
towards that. That's Mars in second. What about Mars in third? Because we have come to this deliberate
action, motivations, interests. So Mars will be driven by this third house stuff which is basically
skill development. Everything handsy and shoulders in his Mars here in third house. What does he do?
They become extremely competitive, driven with handsy skills, find their way to success in
driven, very driven attitudes. In third house, it's also called an upachya house. That means it
grows through time. So they can develop skills constantly throughout life. But we are talking
about motorbike stuff here. So these people can become very technical, very sporty or artsy. Have
you had your spouse or date or somebody, every active in sports? Probably they have Mars in the
third house. Actively engaged with friends, people always engaging with friends, with social media,
with their own family, with their immediate friend circle, with their younger siblings.
They love spontaneity. They are very spontaneous kind of people. Have you dated these kind of
people? Have you known these kind of people whom you have had a relationship with? Love spontaneity,
love short trips because third house is for short trips, ninth house is for long trips abroad. So
this Mars looking from the third house also wants to go abroad, always wants to investigate higher
philosophy because ninth house is also for that. Just giving you a brief snapshot through all these
particular houses. From the fourth aspect, which is the home and family, this Mars will look at
10th house. But what is it doing? Mars is not a good guy to be sitting at home. Mars is very,
very aggressive. Mars is a soldier. It's like taking a soldier from the battlefield and sticking
him in the house. It doesn't work. So they might have conflicts at home or with mother or with
motherland. Very controlling of spouse. Fourth aspect looks at the seventh house. Very, very
controlling people. They have to dominate the spouse, conquering the heart of the spouse.
Why? It's fourth from the fourth house. It's like the Bhavad Bha. Having a very creative, passionate
sexual life. Fifth from the fourth house is looking at the eighth place. Two, three, four, five.
So it is looking at the eighth house. That means these people can become very creative in bed.
Who doesn't want that? What about fifth house? If we move Mars to the fifth house in the house of
creative intelligence, in the house of love, romance, in the house of children, in the house of
education, they'll become active in all this. Wherever you take Mars and stick him in any house,
he makes the aspects of that house active. Just think of that like taking a whole bonfire and
putting it in a particular house. What happens is it activates all the elements of their house
and it takes it to wherever it looks at. And in this case, we are talking about the seventh
aspect. So we are talking about the significant other. We are stuck in the fifth house now,
Mars. So this is the identity, the bridge. It's crucial because it is going downwards also that
energy in this human figure. The fifth house, your gut level is your instinct, identity, instinct.
It's a bridge, others versus self. It is about discernment. It's about creative intelligence,
education, love and romance, all of this stuff. So Mars gets active there. What does he do?
He becomes very creative in courtship. I'm sure you must have come across some people who are
extremely creative during the phase of courtship. Fifth house is not the house of marriage. Fifth
house is still your courting. So all those people who are dating and you find some people who are
very creative, you know, flowers and bouquets and fancy restaurants and taking to a candlelight
dinners, the wine and everything else. These guys might have Mars in the fifth house.
I saw women creative in courtship and dating love and romance. They're very creative in this
because Mars is sitting there making children competitive. Let's say you get married to such a
person and you have children with them and now you have they'll get very competent. They make
their children competitive in sports. They engage them in physical activities because Mars is a very
physical person. Deep drive to understand psychological self. Why? The fourth aspect is looking at the
eighth house. So this Mars sitting in the fifth is looking at the eighth house. That is the fifth.
Third chakra is trying to connect with the root chakra. Okay. May even have affairs with people
from social media networks. Why? It's looking at the 11th house. 11th house is for greater social
media. Facebook, Twitter, whatnot. There's tons of them now. I won't even get into that. So they
might be inclined towards taking their love and romance where Mars is sitting towards the 11th
house greater community, which is social media. This might happen here. Next, if Mars sits in the
seventh house, seventh house is the house of spouse. So from the house of spouse, it is looking at the
ascendant. It's looking at the head. That means it's looking from the seventh upward in this chakra
system. It's looking towards the head. So this shows a great devotion to the marriage itself.
These people might be extremely committed partners in your marriage. If you get married to this person,
they'll be very committed. They might be also a little aggressive again, depending upon where and
how Mars is placed. Devotion to marriage, devotion to spouse, relationships with people in general
because seventh house is people in general. The beginning of your interactions with the
external world one on one at work in the house in intimate partnerships is the seventh house.
More focus on family assets wealth and elder siblings. Why is that? Eighth aspect looks at the
second house and second house is for elder siblings like I spoke of. So it looks at uncovering
and eighth house is where Mars looks to dig deep into hidden stuff. It loves to dig deep and
uncover secret enemies, secret wealth. In this case, your secret family wealth. So this person might be
let's say coming from a rich family and they are wanting the inheritance part of the wealth.
This Mars will seek and find where all he's getting inheritance or not. Whether these people have put
me in their will or not. All the stuff Mars will dig from here in the seventh house. That becomes
their kind of obsession. Now last looking eight sitting in the eighth house and looking at the
second house as you can see in the eighth house. This is tons and tons of drive just raw sexual
energy is there in this person. Why it is sitting right there in the eighth house in the first chakra
which is for instinct. You're going to the you're gone to the primal instinct itself and you're stuck
Mars in the root chakra where even the organs are. Imagine that. So it will affect the root of the
desire and this person will have tons of energy to release. This is the 50 shades of gray kind of a
man or a woman. Okay. Tons of sexual energy that needs constant release will seek secret affairs.
Eight house is the house of secrets and if you stick Mars in the house of that, guess what will
happen? You have ignited a lot of fire. It will seek secret affairs for this energy release. Now
all those people out there were watching this even up to this point. If you're judging the people who
are having affairs, you don't know anything about their life. Stop. Stop being such an ignoramus.
Learn the science first. Secret affairs just means the person needs a lot of energy release. Now
if you do yoga, if you do pranayama and if you do all this other stuff to find a constructive way to
release, that's a different issue. How many of them come across that anyway? They may even have
secret affairs over social media with our others. Why? Because the fourth aspect is looking at the
11th house of community and it is sitting in the 8th house, which is itself hidden secrets and which
is itself sexual energy. So two, three, four. So they might do that. This needs to be controlled
in any way they can. So I think I've done enough. We've done about 10 minutes. I've covered a lot in
this. So next one, we shall be doing Venus and then we'll come to Mercury. And we'll deal with the
eighth house aspect there and how it looks at it and what happens to it. Why only these three planets?
Well, because personal planets affect us most personally. They are the closest to the earth.
So they affect us, each one of us personally in our personal lives, in our minds, in our hearts,
in our emotions. And we want to deal with relationships in a way to consciously relate to a person.
Not be just carried away by whatever is in the chart because what's the goal? We are trying to go
beyond karma. We are trying to go beyond unconscious drifting. Karma will keep chasing your tail if
you're having unconscious drifting in your life. Okay. So take care. Thank you for all your likes,
shares and subscribes. I'll catch you on the next one with Venus.