Ever been on a date and then you see you're so obsessed with the physical looks that you somehow seem to skip what they are about
And when they open them out something else comes out, which you never expected
What is that about? Is there something in astrology? Is there something in the chakra system?
Is there some conscious way of relating to this whole thing called intimate relationships?
beginning with dating
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Where we will take a look at conscious relating is the best I could come up with
Conscious relating as in you're consciously doing something rather than just being enamored by some person
Okay, and you are trying to relate why I call it relating rather than relationship
His relationship becomes static and nothing is static in this world in our world. Okay, everything is dynamic
Everybody is changing all the time and we'll keep unpacking layer by layer
What this means as you can see the figure human figure on the left
Everything on the left side is about the chakra that system also
We learn back and everything on the right side is the astrological houses
They stand for and what are we trying to get to finally? What's the goal here?
That
Those six qualities you see in the human being understanding compassion love knowledge balance and beauty
This is the new human being model if you don't know I'll link it up for you in YouTube
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So you meet someone someone interesting
You had a couple of chats with them. You're dating them
Canada you're meeting at a restaurant. Let's just create a scenario here and
You need to get beyond the obvious. Those are the points. I have noted for this video
Just three or four points not much
Stay with me beyond the obvious looks you need to get beyond the obvious looks beyond the face beyond the body
Beyond the features which is the first house by the way, you will notice this
That's the most predominant in a person is what the person looks like the physical face first of all and then the rest of the body
So the ascendant as you speaking astrologically we look at everything from head to toe
And this is the most dominant energy. It cannot be ignored. That's what we call it
Physical attraction part. That's what you call it chemical reaction part. Remember the Tina Sun Turner song
What's love got to do with it? I love that one
She's so true in that right this is very strong in everyone cannot be ignored
Since it's the rising sign speaking astrologically once again, it's the rising sign
So it looks at everything about a person physically from head to toe
Fingernails everything right it look at everything
So but you need to get beyond the obvious otherwise
What they are about you don't know until they start speaking until they start speaking about themselves
So what is the second step you need to get to the second house? Let's see what the second house is
Well, second house is in the same place as the first house astrologically speaking again
Second house stands for what it's the expression sight wise speech singing taste touch smell
Okay, just to rewind a little bit there the first house is ego as mind face
Complexion you are enamored with the complexion of the person
How good-looking they are or how handsome the person is or how beautiful this person is right?
You look at the ears there nose the mouth
You're enamored by all of this. It's a part of the process
But you can't stay stuck in the first house seriously folks if you're dating you need to know this okay
and
You need to get from the first house to the second house meaning I might be gifted with a nose
Eyes ears and whatnot. These are just physical organ part the second house stands for the expression of those things
expression of
voice of side of all the five senses that are in the head, right?
So that brings us to point do over here checking the expression now
What do I mean by this what you can do in the dating and the early days?
You can check the timber of their voice tone and expression
What kind of expression do they have what kind of voice do they have do they speak tenderly?
Do they speak harshly do they feel strongly about something do they not give so much attention to others you can make out by their voice?
Remember you're just focusing on these aspects timber of the voice
Timber and tone you can also say of the voice eyes. What are their eyes like looking at?
You can look at this speech type and tone of speech
Instinctual preferences in the matter instinctual preferences means what do they prefer?
Instinctively in terms of
taste
smells
sight
Music as in hearing what do they like to hear or what do they listen to it?
Maybe even talk sense stuff like that. I mean, it may be even hey podcast and stuff like that
These are most overlooked in the beginning days and you need to focus on this
It's one thing to have an organ like even the five senses. It's another thing. How a person expresses it
This will help you get to the
Deeper levels of the inner being we need to get to the inner being. Okay?
We are not just like other animals
Unfortunately human beings where everything is just driven by instinct, but here we are driven by expression of those instincts
Number three
That's the second house by the way checking the expression is the second house in astrology
You need to get from the first house just the physical looks do this part and if you do this in the early days
It's better. You get to know them better and mind you when you say checking the expression and timber of voice
You have to maybe ask open-ended questions first like what are your dominant days?
Do you feel like getting sour stuff sweet stuff?
all of that kind of thing so if you get to know the root level of
five senses operation where you are operating with respect to your five senses
Okay, that's the one which I mentioned there sight voice speech singing taste touch smell you go to explore these areas
Listening what do they like to listen to this will give them this will give you a very good picture all your questions should be targeted
And the second house kind of approach don't just be obsessed by how they look okay?
Now we come to the third house. What do you do in the third house?
What is third house responsible for keep looking at the chakra level of expression as well as the astrological aspect over there?
Checking deliberate areas third house is everything of deliberate action deliberately cultivating a
style and tone of communication deliberately cultivating skills deliberately cultivating hobbies deliberately cultivating
your style of communication
This is what we are exploring in the third house. Okay
Motivation what motivates them? What are their interests and hobbies?
Expressed pleasure and desire and this desire is also sexual by the way, but it's the very beginnings of it
This is where they will feel more of the very root beginnings of their sexual desire
This is not yet come to the physical level, but this is where it begins for them
If you can connect to the third house and we shall see when we come to the seventh house and all that you can connect to the person
Really well at all levels and we'll see secrets as we go along in further videos. Okay
What is checking deliberate areas what or where do they take deliberate actions?
Where are they deliberate about it? You can make out by the way they speak in make out, right?
What really motivates them? What are their interests and hobbies and I put it into bracket there
Not what they are doing, but what they what really moves them you need to get to the point of
expressed pleasures and desires and motivation
What really they meant with telling I am an engineer or doctor or a lawyer or an accountant or I don't know
Whatever their profession is or I like to read books or I like to listen to music. No, no, no
This is just rambling on things about what they are doing
It's difference between what they're doing and what really moves them, right? We need to get to the what really moves them
Get to how and where they really express their desires. This is crucial checking point for you
This is the most crucial checking point for you whether you want to proceed or not
Even sexual desire will connect to this later. We will see this later
We have to unpack this piece by piece. Otherwise it will become too much to handle at one shot too much information. Okay
Last I'll leave you with this
remember
You can only relate with pieces and parts of a person
Not fully ever so stop living in a dream
You are going to constantly change your chart is unique coming from astrology and so is other persons
You're coming from different family background
Different kind of genetic makeup different different different everything is different and you will be both constantly changing in different ways through life
You'll come to that as well
So each one's path is unique respect that there's no judgment here
So is there ever evolving personality? So is their traits? So is their habits? So is their way of relating changes through life?
So always use the above tips even if you are in an established relationship
Even if you are a married couple even if you are already
20 30 years into your marriage this can be useful. You can restart dating your spouse or your partner
Right, but you have to use this approach again and again through life
Why why do I say this let me just finish up with this why do I say it has to be to use through life because every person is
Changing through life. They are going through different Mahadashas. They are going through different time periods
They are having different challenges dished out by life to them
The their preferences suddenly change in all matters and these
By the time we finish this number of videos in this whole expression and relationships
relating sorry
conscious relating
We will know pretty much how we are doing in any of our relationship, okay
More coming as we unpack other layers. So take care subscribe to my channel and share this with your friends and
Your dear ones. Take care. Be safe. You