1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:07,500 Ever been on a date and then you see you're so obsessed with the physical looks that you somehow seem to skip what they are about 2 00:00:07,940 --> 00:00:11,700 And when they open them out something else comes out, which you never expected 3 00:00:11,940 --> 00:00:16,680 What is that about? Is there something in astrology? Is there something in the chakra system? 4 00:00:16,680 --> 00:00:22,100 Is there some conscious way of relating to this whole thing called intimate relationships? 5 00:00:22,420 --> 00:00:24,420 beginning with dating 6 00:00:24,420 --> 00:00:26,420 Welcome to my channel 7 00:00:26,420 --> 00:00:31,480 Where we will take a look at conscious relating is the best I could come up with 8 00:00:31,680 --> 00:00:37,020 Conscious relating as in you're consciously doing something rather than just being enamored by some person 9 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:42,320 Okay, and you are trying to relate why I call it relating rather than relationship 10 00:00:42,400 --> 00:00:48,920 His relationship becomes static and nothing is static in this world in our world. Okay, everything is dynamic 11 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:53,120 Everybody is changing all the time and we'll keep unpacking layer by layer 12 00:00:53,120 --> 00:00:57,600 What this means as you can see the figure human figure on the left 13 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:02,880 Everything on the left side is about the chakra that system also 14 00:01:02,880 --> 00:01:06,840 We learn back and everything on the right side is the astrological houses 15 00:01:06,840 --> 00:01:11,080 They stand for and what are we trying to get to finally? What's the goal here? 16 00:01:11,680 --> 00:01:12,700 That 17 00:01:12,700 --> 00:01:18,140 Those six qualities you see in the human being understanding compassion love knowledge balance and beauty 18 00:01:18,140 --> 00:01:21,420 This is the new human being model if you don't know I'll link it up for you in YouTube 19 00:01:21,420 --> 00:01:28,460 If you're listening on my podcast you can listen and watch as well on YouTube channel. Let's get to it 20 00:01:29,660 --> 00:01:32,000 So you meet someone someone interesting 21 00:01:32,600 --> 00:01:35,580 You had a couple of chats with them. You're dating them 22 00:01:36,020 --> 00:01:39,900 Canada you're meeting at a restaurant. Let's just create a scenario here and 23 00:01:40,700 --> 00:01:46,460 You need to get beyond the obvious. Those are the points. I have noted for this video 24 00:01:46,660 --> 00:01:48,740 Just three or four points not much 25 00:01:48,740 --> 00:01:56,140 Stay with me beyond the obvious looks you need to get beyond the obvious looks beyond the face beyond the body 26 00:01:56,140 --> 00:02:00,520 Beyond the features which is the first house by the way, you will notice this 27 00:02:00,780 --> 00:02:08,540 That's the most predominant in a person is what the person looks like the physical face first of all and then the rest of the body 28 00:02:08,740 --> 00:02:14,740 So the ascendant as you speaking astrologically we look at everything from head to toe 29 00:02:14,740 --> 00:02:21,140 And this is the most dominant energy. It cannot be ignored. That's what we call it 30 00:02:21,580 --> 00:02:27,200 Physical attraction part. That's what you call it chemical reaction part. Remember the Tina Sun Turner song 31 00:02:28,100 --> 00:02:30,300 What's love got to do with it? I love that one 32 00:02:30,860 --> 00:02:36,380 She's so true in that right this is very strong in everyone cannot be ignored 33 00:02:37,300 --> 00:02:42,500 Since it's the rising sign speaking astrologically once again, it's the rising sign 34 00:02:42,500 --> 00:02:46,940 So it looks at everything about a person physically from head to toe 35 00:02:49,020 --> 00:02:51,820 Fingernails everything right it look at everything 36 00:02:53,220 --> 00:02:55,940 So but you need to get beyond the obvious otherwise 37 00:02:56,700 --> 00:03:02,940 What they are about you don't know until they start speaking until they start speaking about themselves 38 00:03:02,980 --> 00:03:07,900 So what is the second step you need to get to the second house? Let's see what the second house is 39 00:03:07,900 --> 00:03:13,820 Well, second house is in the same place as the first house astrologically speaking again 40 00:03:14,540 --> 00:03:20,660 Second house stands for what it's the expression sight wise speech singing taste touch smell 41 00:03:21,820 --> 00:03:28,020 Okay, just to rewind a little bit there the first house is ego as mind face 42 00:03:28,620 --> 00:03:31,260 Complexion you are enamored with the complexion of the person 43 00:03:31,460 --> 00:03:36,740 How good-looking they are or how handsome the person is or how beautiful this person is right? 44 00:03:36,740 --> 00:03:39,580 You look at the ears there nose the mouth 45 00:03:40,220 --> 00:03:43,460 You're enamored by all of this. It's a part of the process 46 00:03:43,460 --> 00:03:50,460 But you can't stay stuck in the first house seriously folks if you're dating you need to know this okay 47 00:03:50,660 --> 00:03:51,420 and 48 00:03:51,420 --> 00:03:56,900 You need to get from the first house to the second house meaning I might be gifted with a nose 49 00:03:57,500 --> 00:04:04,540 Eyes ears and whatnot. These are just physical organ part the second house stands for the expression of those things 50 00:04:04,540 --> 00:04:06,540 expression of 51 00:04:06,660 --> 00:04:11,300 voice of side of all the five senses that are in the head, right? 52 00:04:12,580 --> 00:04:18,060 So that brings us to point do over here checking the expression now 53 00:04:18,060 --> 00:04:21,620 What do I mean by this what you can do in the dating and the early days? 54 00:04:23,220 --> 00:04:27,340 You can check the timber of their voice tone and expression 55 00:04:27,540 --> 00:04:32,620 What kind of expression do they have what kind of voice do they have do they speak tenderly? 56 00:04:32,620 --> 00:04:39,940 Do they speak harshly do they feel strongly about something do they not give so much attention to others you can make out by their voice? 57 00:04:40,340 --> 00:04:44,020 Remember you're just focusing on these aspects timber of the voice 58 00:04:44,860 --> 00:04:50,540 Timber and tone you can also say of the voice eyes. What are their eyes like looking at? 59 00:04:50,820 --> 00:04:54,060 You can look at this speech type and tone of speech 60 00:04:55,140 --> 00:05:00,340 Instinctual preferences in the matter instinctual preferences means what do they prefer? 61 00:05:00,340 --> 00:05:02,340 Instinctively in terms of 62 00:05:03,140 --> 00:05:04,180 taste 63 00:05:04,180 --> 00:05:05,140 smells 64 00:05:05,140 --> 00:05:06,340 sight 65 00:05:06,340 --> 00:05:10,980 Music as in hearing what do they like to hear or what do they listen to it? 66 00:05:10,980 --> 00:05:15,860 Maybe even talk sense stuff like that. I mean, it may be even hey podcast and stuff like that 67 00:05:16,420 --> 00:05:21,260 These are most overlooked in the beginning days and you need to focus on this 68 00:05:21,620 --> 00:05:28,460 It's one thing to have an organ like even the five senses. It's another thing. How a person expresses it 69 00:05:28,460 --> 00:05:30,860 This will help you get to the 70 00:05:31,580 --> 00:05:36,020 Deeper levels of the inner being we need to get to the inner being. Okay? 71 00:05:36,540 --> 00:05:38,540 We are not just like other animals 72 00:05:39,100 --> 00:05:45,740 Unfortunately human beings where everything is just driven by instinct, but here we are driven by expression of those instincts 73 00:05:47,860 --> 00:05:49,860 Number three 74 00:05:50,340 --> 00:05:55,420 That's the second house by the way checking the expression is the second house in astrology 75 00:05:55,420 --> 00:06:01,820 You need to get from the first house just the physical looks do this part and if you do this in the early days 76 00:06:01,820 --> 00:06:07,620 It's better. You get to know them better and mind you when you say checking the expression and timber of voice 77 00:06:07,620 --> 00:06:12,820 You have to maybe ask open-ended questions first like what are your dominant days? 78 00:06:12,820 --> 00:06:15,140 Do you feel like getting sour stuff sweet stuff? 79 00:06:15,900 --> 00:06:19,980 all of that kind of thing so if you get to know the root level of 80 00:06:19,980 --> 00:06:26,380 five senses operation where you are operating with respect to your five senses 81 00:06:26,780 --> 00:06:33,940 Okay, that's the one which I mentioned there sight voice speech singing taste touch smell you go to explore these areas 82 00:06:34,860 --> 00:06:42,140 Listening what do they like to listen to this will give them this will give you a very good picture all your questions should be targeted 83 00:06:42,140 --> 00:06:51,100 And the second house kind of approach don't just be obsessed by how they look okay? 84 00:06:51,740 --> 00:06:54,660 Now we come to the third house. What do you do in the third house? 85 00:06:54,660 --> 00:07:01,340 What is third house responsible for keep looking at the chakra level of expression as well as the astrological aspect over there? 86 00:07:02,700 --> 00:07:09,700 Checking deliberate areas third house is everything of deliberate action deliberately cultivating a 87 00:07:09,700 --> 00:07:17,780 style and tone of communication deliberately cultivating skills deliberately cultivating hobbies deliberately cultivating 88 00:07:18,380 --> 00:07:20,940 your style of communication 89 00:07:21,540 --> 00:07:24,420 This is what we are exploring in the third house. Okay 90 00:07:25,260 --> 00:07:28,540 Motivation what motivates them? What are their interests and hobbies? 91 00:07:29,460 --> 00:07:35,540 Expressed pleasure and desire and this desire is also sexual by the way, but it's the very beginnings of it 92 00:07:35,540 --> 00:07:41,460 This is where they will feel more of the very root beginnings of their sexual desire 93 00:07:41,740 --> 00:07:46,300 This is not yet come to the physical level, but this is where it begins for them 94 00:07:46,540 --> 00:07:52,900 If you can connect to the third house and we shall see when we come to the seventh house and all that you can connect to the person 95 00:07:52,900 --> 00:07:57,740 Really well at all levels and we'll see secrets as we go along in further videos. Okay 96 00:07:57,740 --> 00:08:04,060 What is checking deliberate areas what or where do they take deliberate actions? 97 00:08:05,300 --> 00:08:09,420 Where are they deliberate about it? You can make out by the way they speak in make out, right? 98 00:08:10,300 --> 00:08:15,460 What really motivates them? What are their interests and hobbies and I put it into bracket there 99 00:08:15,460 --> 00:08:21,180 Not what they are doing, but what they what really moves them you need to get to the point of 100 00:08:21,780 --> 00:08:24,340 expressed pleasures and desires and motivation 101 00:08:24,340 --> 00:08:32,100 What really they meant with telling I am an engineer or doctor or a lawyer or an accountant or I don't know 102 00:08:32,100 --> 00:08:38,580 Whatever their profession is or I like to read books or I like to listen to music. No, no, no 103 00:08:39,060 --> 00:08:43,020 This is just rambling on things about what they are doing 104 00:08:43,020 --> 00:08:49,940 It's difference between what they're doing and what really moves them, right? We need to get to the what really moves them 105 00:08:49,940 --> 00:08:57,460 Get to how and where they really express their desires. This is crucial checking point for you 106 00:08:57,940 --> 00:09:02,340 This is the most crucial checking point for you whether you want to proceed or not 107 00:09:03,460 --> 00:09:06,660 Even sexual desire will connect to this later. We will see this later 108 00:09:06,660 --> 00:09:13,300 We have to unpack this piece by piece. Otherwise it will become too much to handle at one shot too much information. Okay 109 00:09:14,180 --> 00:09:16,180 Last I'll leave you with this 110 00:09:16,180 --> 00:09:17,340 remember 111 00:09:17,340 --> 00:09:21,140 You can only relate with pieces and parts of a person 112 00:09:22,420 --> 00:09:25,020 Not fully ever so stop living in a dream 113 00:09:25,100 --> 00:09:30,900 You are going to constantly change your chart is unique coming from astrology and so is other persons 114 00:09:30,900 --> 00:09:32,900 You're coming from different family background 115 00:09:33,180 --> 00:09:40,980 Different kind of genetic makeup different different different everything is different and you will be both constantly changing in different ways through life 116 00:09:40,980 --> 00:09:42,980 You'll come to that as well 117 00:09:42,980 --> 00:09:49,460 So each one's path is unique respect that there's no judgment here 118 00:09:49,860 --> 00:09:57,780 So is there ever evolving personality? So is their traits? So is their habits? So is their way of relating changes through life? 119 00:09:58,940 --> 00:10:02,860 So always use the above tips even if you are in an established relationship 120 00:10:03,220 --> 00:10:05,740 Even if you are a married couple even if you are already 121 00:10:05,740 --> 00:10:13,580 20 30 years into your marriage this can be useful. You can restart dating your spouse or your partner 122 00:10:13,820 --> 00:10:18,540 Right, but you have to use this approach again and again through life 123 00:10:20,580 --> 00:10:27,180 Why why do I say this let me just finish up with this why do I say it has to be to use through life because every person is 124 00:10:27,340 --> 00:10:32,780 Changing through life. They are going through different Mahadashas. They are going through different time periods 125 00:10:32,780 --> 00:10:36,420 They are having different challenges dished out by life to them 126 00:10:37,140 --> 00:10:42,140 The their preferences suddenly change in all matters and these 127 00:10:43,140 --> 00:10:48,400 By the time we finish this number of videos in this whole expression and relationships 128 00:10:49,140 --> 00:10:51,140 relating sorry 129 00:10:51,180 --> 00:10:53,180 conscious relating 130 00:10:53,740 --> 00:10:58,660 We will know pretty much how we are doing in any of our relationship, okay 131 00:10:58,660 --> 00:11:06,580 More coming as we unpack other layers. So take care subscribe to my channel and share this with your friends and 132 00:11:06,580 --> 00:11:28,580 Your dear ones. Take care. Be safe. You