Have you ever found yourself in longer heads with relationships?
We do all have it, but to a degree.
For example, do you get along with your kids? Do you get along with your friends or your work colleagues?
But somehow there is between colleagues there is always a certain kind of energy.
Like you don't get along much with colleagues but you get along very well with your friends.
Or you have very few friends but you don't get along with your spouse or your business partner.
What is the missing element in this?
Maybe you are not looking at the tattva.
Just briefly talk about the relationship compatibility of nakshatras now.
The 27 constellations of the moon.
So what does tattva mean?
Tattva means the element.
Very important to pay attention to this because this might be mismatched even in horoscopes.
Take your point here however you want to.
But I would suggest you look at these aspects very carefully.
You want to have good relationship or understand the relationship dynamic where some things are always tending to be failing.
There are some themes of life where certain relationships seems to be difficult.
Certain relationships do have challenges with it.
Certain relationships have never seemed to get off the track.
Or one person you know whom you dated for a little while and afterwards when you got hitched to them and you got married they are completely different person.
Why does this dynamics happen?
I will just try to point out a few tips here from the nakshatra point of view.
From the nakshatra point of view, from the 27 constellations of the moon.
Here is what happens.
There are these five elements that you see here.
So there is earth, water, air, fire, ether.
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These are the five colors I have marked.
There are five nakshatras of earth element, six of water, five of air, six of fire and five of ether.
Be careful you don't confuse this with earth, air, water, fire signs of the zodiac.
That's why I have highlighted here in this pie.
The outermost circle is that of nakshatra.
And the innermost one is of zodiac 1 to 12.
So the nakshatra part you can see highlighted in the outermost rim of this wheel of this pie.
And zodiac sign is the innermost where earth, fire, water are concerned.
This is why if you tell one aries is compatible with another fire sign or if you say Taurus is compatible with Capricorn or Virgo because they are earth signs.
Not so much.
The reason we will get to it in a minute.
Keep watching.
And plus there is from the earlier one I had made in the Healer Astrology series.
All the three groups of people on earth, right?
Dev Manashya and Rakshasana.
So let's begin.
First the rules of tattva of the 27 nakshatras.
These are split into three groups of five and two groups of six as listed over there.
Which are the earth five nakshatras?
The first five starting from Ashwini all the way till Bhrugashira.
They are all earth based.
The next six is water starting from Adra going up till the sign of Iliya.
Going to Purva Falguni nakshatra.
The third group is the fire one which goes all the way from Uttar Falguni up to Anuradha nakshatra.
These are fire ones. That's why I marked in orange color for ease of understanding.
Fire yellow, orange whatever.
So then comes the five group of air signs which is marked in green.
Starting all the way from Anuradha, sorry, Jesta going up till Shravana.
There is air nakshatras.
We are talking about nakshatras not the zodiac signs.
Keep following this.
Then there is the last one, five ones which is ether.
Now this is specific to nakshatra which is absent in the zodiac signs.
Zodiac is just earth, air, wind, fire and water.
But ether is absent here.
So what are the tattva and the elements of 25 nakshatras?
This is mainly used in relationship matching.
For relationships when we say don't just understand it as spouse or your love interest or romantic interest.
Relationships across the board.
This is across the board.
It may be even your kids, it may be even your parents, it may be even your friends and colleagues.
It may be everyone, it may be a business partner.
Your clients in sales and marketing.
Whatever it is that you are trying to accomplish with other humans basically.
Relationships with others.
All relationships.
First rule.
We will go through the seven rules listed over here.
The rules as told by Vedic astrology are fire and air cooperate.
As in nakshatras.
So which is the fire one here?
Fire one is orange in color and air one is green in color.
That means this whole bunch over here as I am pointing.
Starting from Uttara Falguni going all the way up till Shravanana kshatra.
This entire belt cooperates with one another.
Obviously air will cooperate with air fire will cooperate with fire.
We are not concerned about that.
We are saying this will cooperate well with one another as well.
Fire and air cooperate.
Oxygen is needed for combustion.
Number two.
Earth and water cooperate.
Now which are the earth ones? Earth ones are marked brown starting from Ashwini going to Bhrigashira.
Water is in the blue.
Starting from Ardra going up till Puro Falguni.
So this belt the first 120 degrees almost a little more than that.
This bunch cooperates with one another.
When we say cooperate.
In any relationship there is an element of cooperation needed.
There is an element of compromise needed.
There is an element of understanding needed.
That's what I mean by cooperate here.
Cooperate is a very broad word but it means all of these things.
There is some element of give and take.
There is an element of okay I will give it to you in this.
You give it to me in that.
There is some transaction which is more fruitful and more harmonious in any dynamic in any kind of relationship we are talking about.
I will disappear for a minute.
Okay so first two rules.
Fire and air cooperate.
That is the green and the orange will cooperate with one another.
Number two earth and water cooperate.
That is the brown and the blue will cooperate with each other out of most belt.
Ether indiscriminately cooperates with all.
So the last one purple one.
That is going all the way from Dhanishtha till Revati Naksata.
They cooperate with everybody indiscriminately.
Probably have boundary issues.
This will be predominantly Aquarius and Pisces.
They might have boundary issues with everything.
Okay.
Losing yourself and another person.
Lots of boundary issues indiscriminately.
That's what it means.
It's not a good to have indiscriminately merging with another person.
You don't know where your boundaries are.
So this would give you reasons if you are in any one of these nakshatras as the ascendant or moonshine.
You might be having trouble with boundaries.
Okay.
Now this four, five and six are a little bit of tricky stuff.
Four to seven.
Now follow me again.
Earth does not cooperate with fire and definitely does not cooperate with air.
Follow me here.
Water does not cooperate with air and definitely does not cooperate with fire.
Of course, fire and water are opposites.
They will nullify each other.
So it's not a good idea even in any kind of, especially in intimate relationships to make these kinds of matches.
I'll come to that later on the left top.
Number six.
Fire does not cooperate with the earth and especially not with water.
Again, same five and six are kind of reciprocal there.
Number seven.
Air does not cooperate with water and definitely does not cooperate with earth.
These are the rules laid down by the rishis.
There's like ancient people of India who, in a very bad ass way,
they certainly made all the stuff for us to go through like a code.
We are trying to track the code of relationships using very astrology folks.
This is one on one.
Okay.
That being said, you need to take care of this when evaluating through or if you are even remotely interested in kind of studying it just for academic understanding or really looking at your relationships and understand why you did not have a good relationship with your dad or mother or brother, sister or friends.
Why you have trouble with work relationships, any kind of relationship this applies.
It's not just spouse.
Okay.
It's any kind of relationship.
That's how important this is.
Now, specifically coming to the matchmaking tips which is followed in India.
My boy is about to get married.
My girl is of a marriageable age.
I'll go hunting around for a very castology and show them their charts, compare and tell me whether they are compatible or not.
Whether this marriage will be fruitful or not.
All this stuff goes on and it's been going on forever.
Anyway, I would suggest if you're so inclined and if you're so dare to go there and uncover this rabbit hole, if you want to go down this road of matchmaking business, I would suggest you at least try to take time and study and go through this list over here.
At least this many, many factors.
It's a whole study in and of itself, but just the basics, the very down to earth basics here over here.
Check the rising sign.
Where is the rising sign?
Where is the lord of that rising sign sitting in the chart?
Check the rising nakshatra.
Look at all the nakshatra compatibility we are forming here.
Why I say rising nakshatra?
Because you might be in the, okay, just a little slight deviation.
We might be compatible as in earth and water.
Let's say I'm looking at the partner.
Earth and water are compatible according to this chart.
This circle over here.
But Krithika nakshatra is not compatible with Pushya.
Even though the elements are compatible.
Why?
Because Pushya is Rakshasagana.
Krithika is Rakshasagana.
And Pushya is Devgana.
Devgana and Rakshasagana do not match.
Okay?
So you need to match the Ganas as well.
You need to match Devgana to Devgana.
Manushagana to Manushagana.
Rakshasagana to Rakshasagana is the tabulation is over there.
Blue is Devgana.
The middle circle, the middle band of the circle you got to match.
And also in addition to the tattva, in addition to all of this stuff that I have written out there.
Okay?
So compare, check the rising nakshatra.
What is the nakshatra in your ascendant?
And what is the moon nakshatra as well?
Check where the moon is.
Check the Gana.
Devgana, Manushagana, Rakshasagana.
Check that, as I said.
Check the tattva.
Whether tattva compatibility is there or not?
Well, you can say Krithika matches Shatabisha because both are Rakshasagana.
No, they are not.
They will be very indiscriminately matching each other.
Sometimes matching, sometimes not matching.
That kind of thing.
You don't want to contest in relationships.
You want harmony.
Everybody does.
Check the seventh, eighth and twelfth houses in the birth.
And the Navamsa chart, the ninth division.
The divisional charts which I am not going to go into here.
You can find out on Google all that stuff.
Seventh house and eighth house is the intimate relationship and business partnerships.
And how you relate it to your immediate other.
Immediate spouse, immediate in-laws.
That kind of thing.
And eight and twelfth house are the life of a marriage, the intimacy.
So you need to check that in both the charts, whatever you are comparing.
If you dare to go there.
Check the moon, Mars and Venus positions in the chart.
Both the boy and the girl.
Or wherever you are trying to compare these days, even LGBTQ.
Whoever you are trying to compare.
If you want to go down the comparison route, you should follow at least this much.
Moon, Mars, Venus positions where they are in the chart.
Whether it's an enemy house, opposition house or many factors in there.
Check where the Mars is because Mars is the passionate aggressive driver here.
Check the Venus because Venus gives the compatibility on an emotional connectivity level.
Connectivity does not mean you get into bed with somebody else.
That can be done in two minutes and it's over.
What happens afterwards is the life of a marriage or life of a relationship.
Venus plays more important role there.
So does moon, not so much Mars.
But you have to pay attention to all of these things.
Pay attention to the positions, which house are they placed and the strengths as measured in angles.
Now the Vedic Astrology at least, I don't know about the other ones.
They give a lot of importance to the degrees, the number of degrees the planet has traversed in a sign and in a nakshatra in a house, whatever it is.
But number of degrees.
Mars at 20 degrees, I'm giving a random example and the other person's Mars at 28 degrees of something.
The other person's Mars is very strong.
It's stronger in its approach.
Mars has got more passion and more drive and more sexual aggression in that other one.
Especially if it looks at the houses of sexual intimacy, which are 8 and 12.
Not so much 7 but 8 and 12.
So you've got to compare all of this stuff and at the basic level.
If you want to go there, study it, take your chart, print out.
I would suggest go to the website I have shown over there astrosage.com.
Backslash Kundali, meaning birth chart.
You can get a free Vedic birth chart and check, check all of these.
Check the ones which I have told you, rules over here and check if there is anything going on in all of your relationships.
It's a very dense topic because we humans deal with each other and we make our lives miserable.
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