1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,000 Have you ever found yourself in longer heads with relationships? 2 00:00:04,000 --> 00:00:08,000 We do all have it, but to a degree. 3 00:00:08,000 --> 00:00:14,000 For example, do you get along with your kids? Do you get along with your friends or your work colleagues? 4 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:18,000 But somehow there is between colleagues there is always a certain kind of energy. 5 00:00:18,000 --> 00:00:22,000 Like you don't get along much with colleagues but you get along very well with your friends. 6 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:29,000 Or you have very few friends but you don't get along with your spouse or your business partner. 7 00:00:29,000 --> 00:00:32,000 What is the missing element in this? 8 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:34,000 Maybe you are not looking at the tattva. 9 00:00:34,000 --> 00:00:39,000 Just briefly talk about the relationship compatibility of nakshatras now. 10 00:00:39,000 --> 00:00:42,000 The 27 constellations of the moon. 11 00:00:42,000 --> 00:00:45,000 So what does tattva mean? 12 00:00:45,000 --> 00:00:47,000 Tattva means the element. 13 00:00:47,000 --> 00:00:52,000 Very important to pay attention to this because this might be mismatched even in horoscopes. 14 00:00:52,000 --> 00:00:56,000 Take your point here however you want to. 15 00:00:56,000 --> 00:01:00,000 But I would suggest you look at these aspects very carefully. 16 00:01:00,000 --> 00:01:06,000 You want to have good relationship or understand the relationship dynamic where some things are always tending to be failing. 17 00:01:06,000 --> 00:01:11,000 There are some themes of life where certain relationships seems to be difficult. 18 00:01:11,000 --> 00:01:15,000 Certain relationships do have challenges with it. 19 00:01:15,000 --> 00:01:20,000 Certain relationships have never seemed to get off the track. 20 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:28,000 Or one person you know whom you dated for a little while and afterwards when you got hitched to them and you got married they are completely different person. 21 00:01:28,000 --> 00:01:30,000 Why does this dynamics happen? 22 00:01:30,000 --> 00:01:34,000 I will just try to point out a few tips here from the nakshatra point of view. 23 00:01:34,000 --> 00:01:39,000 From the nakshatra point of view, from the 27 constellations of the moon. 24 00:01:39,000 --> 00:01:43,000 Here is what happens. 25 00:01:43,000 --> 00:01:49,000 There are these five elements that you see here. 26 00:01:49,000 --> 00:01:54,000 So there is earth, water, air, fire, ether. 27 00:01:54,000 --> 00:01:58,000 If you are listening on my podcast, YouTube is a must here. 28 00:01:58,000 --> 00:02:01,000 These are the five colors I have marked. 29 00:02:01,000 --> 00:02:10,000 There are five nakshatras of earth element, six of water, five of air, six of fire and five of ether. 30 00:02:10,000 --> 00:02:19,000 Be careful you don't confuse this with earth, air, water, fire signs of the zodiac. 31 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:22,000 That's why I have highlighted here in this pie. 32 00:02:22,000 --> 00:02:26,000 The outermost circle is that of nakshatra. 33 00:02:26,000 --> 00:02:31,000 And the innermost one is of zodiac 1 to 12. 34 00:02:31,000 --> 00:02:40,000 So the nakshatra part you can see highlighted in the outermost rim of this wheel of this pie. 35 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:44,000 And zodiac sign is the innermost where earth, fire, water are concerned. 36 00:02:44,000 --> 00:02:53,000 This is why if you tell one aries is compatible with another fire sign or if you say Taurus is compatible with Capricorn or Virgo because they are earth signs. 37 00:02:53,000 --> 00:02:55,000 Not so much. 38 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:58,000 The reason we will get to it in a minute. 39 00:02:58,000 --> 00:02:59,000 Keep watching. 40 00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:04,000 And plus there is from the earlier one I had made in the Healer Astrology series. 41 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:06,000 All the three groups of people on earth, right? 42 00:03:06,000 --> 00:03:08,000 Dev Manashya and Rakshasana. 43 00:03:08,000 --> 00:03:11,000 So let's begin. 44 00:03:11,000 --> 00:03:16,000 First the rules of tattva of the 27 nakshatras. 45 00:03:16,000 --> 00:03:22,000 These are split into three groups of five and two groups of six as listed over there. 46 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:26,000 Which are the earth five nakshatras? 47 00:03:26,000 --> 00:03:32,000 The first five starting from Ashwini all the way till Bhrugashira. 48 00:03:32,000 --> 00:03:35,000 They are all earth based. 49 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:41,000 The next six is water starting from Adra going up till the sign of Iliya. 50 00:03:41,000 --> 00:03:45,000 Going to Purva Falguni nakshatra. 51 00:03:45,000 --> 00:03:53,000 The third group is the fire one which goes all the way from Uttar Falguni up to Anuradha nakshatra. 52 00:03:53,000 --> 00:03:58,000 These are fire ones. That's why I marked in orange color for ease of understanding. 53 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:02,000 Fire yellow, orange whatever. 54 00:04:02,000 --> 00:04:07,000 So then comes the five group of air signs which is marked in green. 55 00:04:07,000 --> 00:04:13,000 Starting all the way from Anuradha, sorry, Jesta going up till Shravana. 56 00:04:13,000 --> 00:04:15,000 There is air nakshatras. 57 00:04:15,000 --> 00:04:18,000 We are talking about nakshatras not the zodiac signs. 58 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:20,000 Keep following this. 59 00:04:20,000 --> 00:04:25,000 Then there is the last one, five ones which is ether. 60 00:04:25,000 --> 00:04:29,000 Now this is specific to nakshatra which is absent in the zodiac signs. 61 00:04:29,000 --> 00:04:33,000 Zodiac is just earth, air, wind, fire and water. 62 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:37,000 But ether is absent here. 63 00:04:37,000 --> 00:04:40,000 So what are the tattva and the elements of 25 nakshatras? 64 00:04:40,000 --> 00:04:45,000 This is mainly used in relationship matching. 65 00:04:45,000 --> 00:04:53,000 For relationships when we say don't just understand it as spouse or your love interest or romantic interest. 66 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:55,000 Relationships across the board. 67 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,000 This is across the board. 68 00:04:57,000 --> 00:05:02,000 It may be even your kids, it may be even your parents, it may be even your friends and colleagues. 69 00:05:02,000 --> 00:05:05,000 It may be everyone, it may be a business partner. 70 00:05:05,000 --> 00:05:08,000 Your clients in sales and marketing. 71 00:05:08,000 --> 00:05:13,000 Whatever it is that you are trying to accomplish with other humans basically. 72 00:05:13,000 --> 00:05:15,000 Relationships with others. 73 00:05:15,000 --> 00:05:17,000 All relationships. 74 00:05:17,000 --> 00:05:18,000 First rule. 75 00:05:18,000 --> 00:05:21,000 We will go through the seven rules listed over here. 76 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:26,000 The rules as told by Vedic astrology are fire and air cooperate. 77 00:05:26,000 --> 00:05:28,000 As in nakshatras. 78 00:05:28,000 --> 00:05:31,000 So which is the fire one here? 79 00:05:31,000 --> 00:05:37,000 Fire one is orange in color and air one is green in color. 80 00:05:37,000 --> 00:05:42,000 That means this whole bunch over here as I am pointing. 81 00:05:42,000 --> 00:05:46,000 Starting from Uttara Falguni going all the way up till Shravanana kshatra. 82 00:05:46,000 --> 00:05:50,000 This entire belt cooperates with one another. 83 00:05:50,000 --> 00:05:53,000 Obviously air will cooperate with air fire will cooperate with fire. 84 00:05:53,000 --> 00:05:55,000 We are not concerned about that. 85 00:05:55,000 --> 00:06:00,000 We are saying this will cooperate well with one another as well. 86 00:06:00,000 --> 00:06:02,000 Fire and air cooperate. 87 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:05,000 Oxygen is needed for combustion. 88 00:06:05,000 --> 00:06:06,000 Number two. 89 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:08,000 Earth and water cooperate. 90 00:06:08,000 --> 00:06:14,000 Now which are the earth ones? Earth ones are marked brown starting from Ashwini going to Bhrigashira. 91 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:17,000 Water is in the blue. 92 00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,000 Starting from Ardra going up till Puro Falguni. 93 00:06:20,000 --> 00:06:27,000 So this belt the first 120 degrees almost a little more than that. 94 00:06:27,000 --> 00:06:30,000 This bunch cooperates with one another. 95 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:32,000 When we say cooperate. 96 00:06:32,000 --> 00:06:35,000 In any relationship there is an element of cooperation needed. 97 00:06:35,000 --> 00:06:39,000 There is an element of compromise needed. 98 00:06:39,000 --> 00:06:41,000 There is an element of understanding needed. 99 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:43,000 That's what I mean by cooperate here. 100 00:06:43,000 --> 00:06:47,000 Cooperate is a very broad word but it means all of these things. 101 00:06:47,000 --> 00:06:51,000 There is some element of give and take. 102 00:06:51,000 --> 00:06:54,000 There is an element of okay I will give it to you in this. 103 00:06:54,000 --> 00:06:55,000 You give it to me in that. 104 00:06:55,000 --> 00:07:04,000 There is some transaction which is more fruitful and more harmonious in any dynamic in any kind of relationship we are talking about. 105 00:07:04,000 --> 00:07:10,000 I will disappear for a minute. 106 00:07:10,000 --> 00:07:14,000 Okay so first two rules. 107 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,000 Fire and air cooperate. 108 00:07:16,000 --> 00:07:19,000 That is the green and the orange will cooperate with one another. 109 00:07:19,000 --> 00:07:21,000 Number two earth and water cooperate. 110 00:07:21,000 --> 00:07:26,000 That is the brown and the blue will cooperate with each other out of most belt. 111 00:07:26,000 --> 00:07:30,000 Ether indiscriminately cooperates with all. 112 00:07:30,000 --> 00:07:33,000 So the last one purple one. 113 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,000 That is going all the way from Dhanishtha till Revati Naksata. 114 00:07:36,000 --> 00:07:39,000 They cooperate with everybody indiscriminately. 115 00:07:39,000 --> 00:07:40,000 Probably have boundary issues. 116 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:44,000 This will be predominantly Aquarius and Pisces. 117 00:07:44,000 --> 00:07:47,000 They might have boundary issues with everything. 118 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:48,000 Okay. 119 00:07:48,000 --> 00:07:50,000 Losing yourself and another person. 120 00:07:50,000 --> 00:07:53,000 Lots of boundary issues indiscriminately. 121 00:07:53,000 --> 00:07:54,000 That's what it means. 122 00:07:54,000 --> 00:07:58,000 It's not a good to have indiscriminately merging with another person. 123 00:07:58,000 --> 00:08:00,000 You don't know where your boundaries are. 124 00:08:00,000 --> 00:08:06,000 So this would give you reasons if you are in any one of these nakshatras as the ascendant or moonshine. 125 00:08:06,000 --> 00:08:08,000 You might be having trouble with boundaries. 126 00:08:08,000 --> 00:08:11,000 Okay. 127 00:08:11,000 --> 00:08:15,000 Now this four, five and six are a little bit of tricky stuff. 128 00:08:15,000 --> 00:08:16,000 Four to seven. 129 00:08:16,000 --> 00:08:19,000 Now follow me again. 130 00:08:19,000 --> 00:08:26,000 Earth does not cooperate with fire and definitely does not cooperate with air. 131 00:08:26,000 --> 00:08:27,000 Follow me here. 132 00:08:27,000 --> 00:08:33,000 Water does not cooperate with air and definitely does not cooperate with fire. 133 00:08:33,000 --> 00:08:35,000 Of course, fire and water are opposites. 134 00:08:35,000 --> 00:08:36,000 They will nullify each other. 135 00:08:36,000 --> 00:08:42,000 So it's not a good idea even in any kind of, especially in intimate relationships to make these kinds of matches. 136 00:08:42,000 --> 00:08:46,000 I'll come to that later on the left top. 137 00:08:46,000 --> 00:08:47,000 Number six. 138 00:08:47,000 --> 00:08:53,000 Fire does not cooperate with the earth and especially not with water. 139 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:56,000 Again, same five and six are kind of reciprocal there. 140 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,000 Number seven. 141 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:04,000 Air does not cooperate with water and definitely does not cooperate with earth. 142 00:09:04,000 --> 00:09:07,000 These are the rules laid down by the rishis. 143 00:09:07,000 --> 00:09:12,000 There's like ancient people of India who, in a very bad ass way, 144 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:15,000 they certainly made all the stuff for us to go through like a code. 145 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:19,000 We are trying to track the code of relationships using very astrology folks. 146 00:09:19,000 --> 00:09:21,000 This is one on one. 147 00:09:21,000 --> 00:09:22,000 Okay. 148 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:45,000 That being said, you need to take care of this when evaluating through or if you are even remotely interested in kind of studying it just for academic understanding or really looking at your relationships and understand why you did not have a good relationship with your dad or mother or brother, sister or friends. 149 00:09:45,000 --> 00:09:50,000 Why you have trouble with work relationships, any kind of relationship this applies. 150 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:52,000 It's not just spouse. 151 00:09:52,000 --> 00:09:53,000 Okay. 152 00:09:53,000 --> 00:09:54,000 It's any kind of relationship. 153 00:09:54,000 --> 00:09:56,000 That's how important this is. 154 00:09:56,000 --> 00:10:02,000 Now, specifically coming to the matchmaking tips which is followed in India. 155 00:10:02,000 --> 00:10:05,000 My boy is about to get married. 156 00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:07,000 My girl is of a marriageable age. 157 00:10:07,000 --> 00:10:13,000 I'll go hunting around for a very castology and show them their charts, compare and tell me whether they are compatible or not. 158 00:10:13,000 --> 00:10:15,000 Whether this marriage will be fruitful or not. 159 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:18,000 All this stuff goes on and it's been going on forever. 160 00:10:18,000 --> 00:10:37,000 Anyway, I would suggest if you're so inclined and if you're so dare to go there and uncover this rabbit hole, if you want to go down this road of matchmaking business, I would suggest you at least try to take time and study and go through this list over here. 161 00:10:37,000 --> 00:10:40,000 At least this many, many factors. 162 00:10:40,000 --> 00:10:49,000 It's a whole study in and of itself, but just the basics, the very down to earth basics here over here. 163 00:10:49,000 --> 00:10:51,000 Check the rising sign. 164 00:10:51,000 --> 00:10:53,000 Where is the rising sign? 165 00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:57,000 Where is the lord of that rising sign sitting in the chart? 166 00:10:57,000 --> 00:10:59,000 Check the rising nakshatra. 167 00:10:59,000 --> 00:11:03,000 Look at all the nakshatra compatibility we are forming here. 168 00:11:03,000 --> 00:11:05,000 Why I say rising nakshatra? 169 00:11:05,000 --> 00:11:11,000 Because you might be in the, okay, just a little slight deviation. 170 00:11:11,000 --> 00:11:15,000 We might be compatible as in earth and water. 171 00:11:15,000 --> 00:11:17,000 Let's say I'm looking at the partner. 172 00:11:17,000 --> 00:11:19,000 Earth and water are compatible according to this chart. 173 00:11:19,000 --> 00:11:21,000 This circle over here. 174 00:11:21,000 --> 00:11:26,000 But Krithika nakshatra is not compatible with Pushya. 175 00:11:26,000 --> 00:11:28,000 Even though the elements are compatible. 176 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:29,000 Why? 177 00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:31,000 Because Pushya is Rakshasagana. 178 00:11:31,000 --> 00:11:33,000 Krithika is Rakshasagana. 179 00:11:33,000 --> 00:11:36,000 And Pushya is Devgana. 180 00:11:36,000 --> 00:11:40,000 Devgana and Rakshasagana do not match. 181 00:11:40,000 --> 00:11:42,000 Okay? 182 00:11:42,000 --> 00:11:45,000 So you need to match the Ganas as well. 183 00:11:45,000 --> 00:11:47,000 You need to match Devgana to Devgana. 184 00:11:47,000 --> 00:11:49,000 Manushagana to Manushagana. 185 00:11:49,000 --> 00:11:52,000 Rakshasagana to Rakshasagana is the tabulation is over there. 186 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:54,000 Blue is Devgana. 187 00:11:54,000 --> 00:11:58,000 The middle circle, the middle band of the circle you got to match. 188 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:05,000 And also in addition to the tattva, in addition to all of this stuff that I have written out there. 189 00:12:05,000 --> 00:12:07,000 Okay? 190 00:12:07,000 --> 00:12:10,000 So compare, check the rising nakshatra. 191 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,000 What is the nakshatra in your ascendant? 192 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:14,000 And what is the moon nakshatra as well? 193 00:12:14,000 --> 00:12:16,000 Check where the moon is. 194 00:12:16,000 --> 00:12:18,000 Check the Gana. 195 00:12:18,000 --> 00:12:20,000 Devgana, Manushagana, Rakshasagana. 196 00:12:20,000 --> 00:12:21,000 Check that, as I said. 197 00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:22,000 Check the tattva. 198 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:25,000 Whether tattva compatibility is there or not? 199 00:12:25,000 --> 00:12:29,000 Well, you can say Krithika matches Shatabisha because both are Rakshasagana. 200 00:12:29,000 --> 00:12:30,000 No, they are not. 201 00:12:30,000 --> 00:12:33,000 They will be very indiscriminately matching each other. 202 00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:35,000 Sometimes matching, sometimes not matching. 203 00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,000 That kind of thing. 204 00:12:36,000 --> 00:12:38,000 You don't want to contest in relationships. 205 00:12:38,000 --> 00:12:39,000 You want harmony. 206 00:12:39,000 --> 00:12:41,000 Everybody does. 207 00:12:41,000 --> 00:12:45,000 Check the seventh, eighth and twelfth houses in the birth. 208 00:12:45,000 --> 00:12:48,000 And the Navamsa chart, the ninth division. 209 00:12:48,000 --> 00:12:51,000 The divisional charts which I am not going to go into here. 210 00:12:51,000 --> 00:12:53,000 You can find out on Google all that stuff. 211 00:12:53,000 --> 00:12:59,000 Seventh house and eighth house is the intimate relationship and business partnerships. 212 00:12:59,000 --> 00:13:03,000 And how you relate it to your immediate other. 213 00:13:03,000 --> 00:13:05,000 Immediate spouse, immediate in-laws. 214 00:13:05,000 --> 00:13:07,000 That kind of thing. 215 00:13:07,000 --> 00:13:12,000 And eight and twelfth house are the life of a marriage, the intimacy. 216 00:13:12,000 --> 00:13:17,000 So you need to check that in both the charts, whatever you are comparing. 217 00:13:17,000 --> 00:13:19,000 If you dare to go there. 218 00:13:19,000 --> 00:13:24,000 Check the moon, Mars and Venus positions in the chart. 219 00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:26,000 Both the boy and the girl. 220 00:13:26,000 --> 00:13:29,000 Or wherever you are trying to compare these days, even LGBTQ. 221 00:13:29,000 --> 00:13:31,000 Whoever you are trying to compare. 222 00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:35,000 If you want to go down the comparison route, you should follow at least this much. 223 00:13:35,000 --> 00:13:39,000 Moon, Mars, Venus positions where they are in the chart. 224 00:13:39,000 --> 00:13:44,000 Whether it's an enemy house, opposition house or many factors in there. 225 00:13:44,000 --> 00:13:50,000 Check where the Mars is because Mars is the passionate aggressive driver here. 226 00:13:50,000 --> 00:13:57,000 Check the Venus because Venus gives the compatibility on an emotional connectivity level. 227 00:13:57,000 --> 00:14:02,000 Connectivity does not mean you get into bed with somebody else. 228 00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:05,000 That can be done in two minutes and it's over. 229 00:14:05,000 --> 00:14:09,000 What happens afterwards is the life of a marriage or life of a relationship. 230 00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:12,000 Venus plays more important role there. 231 00:14:12,000 --> 00:14:15,000 So does moon, not so much Mars. 232 00:14:15,000 --> 00:14:18,000 But you have to pay attention to all of these things. 233 00:14:18,000 --> 00:14:24,000 Pay attention to the positions, which house are they placed and the strengths as measured in angles. 234 00:14:24,000 --> 00:14:28,000 Now the Vedic Astrology at least, I don't know about the other ones. 235 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:37,000 They give a lot of importance to the degrees, the number of degrees the planet has traversed in a sign and in a nakshatra in a house, whatever it is. 236 00:14:37,000 --> 00:14:39,000 But number of degrees. 237 00:14:39,000 --> 00:14:48,000 Mars at 20 degrees, I'm giving a random example and the other person's Mars at 28 degrees of something. 238 00:14:48,000 --> 00:14:51,000 The other person's Mars is very strong. 239 00:14:51,000 --> 00:14:54,000 It's stronger in its approach. 240 00:14:54,000 --> 00:15:00,000 Mars has got more passion and more drive and more sexual aggression in that other one. 241 00:15:00,000 --> 00:15:06,000 Especially if it looks at the houses of sexual intimacy, which are 8 and 12. 242 00:15:06,000 --> 00:15:08,000 Not so much 7 but 8 and 12. 243 00:15:08,000 --> 00:15:14,000 So you've got to compare all of this stuff and at the basic level. 244 00:15:14,000 --> 00:15:17,000 If you want to go there, study it, take your chart, print out. 245 00:15:17,000 --> 00:15:22,000 I would suggest go to the website I have shown over there astrosage.com. 246 00:15:22,000 --> 00:15:25,000 Backslash Kundali, meaning birth chart. 247 00:15:25,000 --> 00:15:30,000 You can get a free Vedic birth chart and check, check all of these. 248 00:15:30,000 --> 00:15:37,000 Check the ones which I have told you, rules over here and check if there is anything going on in all of your relationships. 249 00:15:37,000 --> 00:15:44,000 It's a very dense topic because we humans deal with each other and we make our lives miserable. 250 00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:46,000 Thank you. 251 00:15:46,000 --> 00:15:49,000 Take care, be safe and subscribe to my channel. 252 00:15:49,000 --> 00:15:52,000 I will next discuss Vimshutri Mahagasyar issue. 253 00:15:52,000 --> 00:16:08,000 Take care.