1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:06,300 Good morning ladies and gentlemen, a quick talking points of understanding the way it came to me which I made notes of. 2 00:00:06,300 --> 00:00:14,800 So I want to share some notes with you here and this is regarding understanding the new way the new human being functions in the world. 3 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:18,800 And this is with regard to the new human being model that you see on your left. 4 00:00:19,800 --> 00:00:24,400 Number one, understand that everyone lives in a box of their own reality. 5 00:00:24,400 --> 00:00:30,200 We have 7 billion people on the planet so guess how many boxes of reality there are. 6 00:00:30,200 --> 00:00:38,700 To really understand this and I mean to really get this at an emotional level and a mental level that I am living inside of a box. 7 00:00:38,700 --> 00:00:47,200 The box of ideas, beliefs, mental structures, what I think is right and wrong and what I think should be good and bad etc. 8 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:48,200 That's a box. 9 00:00:49,200 --> 00:00:51,200 These are structures of upbringing. 10 00:00:51,200 --> 00:00:56,000 And everything going on in my life right now in and of itself is huge. 11 00:00:56,000 --> 00:01:00,500 So try to embrace this first singular aspect, not fight it. 12 00:01:00,500 --> 00:01:05,500 Embrace it deeply in the heart and in the mind because understanding requires both of these. 13 00:01:05,500 --> 00:01:07,500 It requires heart and mind combined. 14 00:01:07,500 --> 00:01:09,500 It's not one singular thing. 15 00:01:09,500 --> 00:01:11,500 It has to land inside your heart. 16 00:01:11,500 --> 00:01:16,000 Do you really understand this as you walk and breathe each waking hour? 17 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:20,000 I mean if you go out in the streets and you pass by a whole bunch of strangers. 18 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:27,300 Do you understand that just as you are living inside a box of your reality. 19 00:01:27,300 --> 00:01:30,300 So are each one of these individuals? 20 00:01:30,300 --> 00:01:33,300 Take that into your heart for a minute. 21 00:01:33,300 --> 00:01:35,300 Number 2. 22 00:01:35,300 --> 00:01:41,300 Understanding that as much as there is a box of reality that I am in right now. 23 00:01:41,300 --> 00:01:44,300 I can always adopt and change and jump into another box. 24 00:01:44,300 --> 00:01:47,300 Another set of belief, structures, truths etc. 25 00:01:47,300 --> 00:01:49,300 In another phase of my life. 26 00:01:49,300 --> 00:01:51,300 And that's the way life is folks. 27 00:01:51,300 --> 00:01:53,300 Each one of us changes. 28 00:01:53,300 --> 00:01:59,300 Each one of us matures into something else through phases of our own lives and circumstances and situations. 29 00:01:59,300 --> 00:02:03,300 Basically we are stepping into another kind of box. 30 00:02:03,300 --> 00:02:05,300 From one box to another box. 31 00:02:05,300 --> 00:02:07,300 We are limited by that box now. 32 00:02:07,300 --> 00:02:13,300 And we understand that that box which we are now into and try to work with that box. 33 00:02:13,300 --> 00:02:17,300 All boxes are changeable because life is a malleable process folks. 34 00:02:17,300 --> 00:02:20,300 Life is not etched in stone by anyone. 35 00:02:20,300 --> 00:02:23,300 There is no one truth anywhere. 36 00:02:23,300 --> 00:02:25,300 Doesn't matter how hard you try to seek it. 37 00:02:25,300 --> 00:02:27,300 It simply isn't there. 38 00:02:27,300 --> 00:02:35,300 Truth is as vast and as available as any other truth of any other person and in any and all boxes. 39 00:02:35,300 --> 00:02:37,300 Number 3. 40 00:02:37,300 --> 00:02:39,300 True understanding requires wisdom. 41 00:02:39,300 --> 00:02:44,300 And that wisdom comes from living as a soul through multiple lifetimes. 42 00:02:44,300 --> 00:02:49,300 Whether you believe in reincarnation or not is a completely different topic. 43 00:02:49,300 --> 00:02:52,300 It is not gained by textual knowledge. 44 00:02:52,300 --> 00:02:54,300 You can't gain understanding by reading a book. 45 00:02:54,300 --> 00:02:57,300 Although it can point you in that direction. 46 00:02:57,300 --> 00:03:00,300 But understanding is gained by life experience. 47 00:03:00,300 --> 00:03:05,300 That life experience comes by living many many lives as an individual. 48 00:03:05,300 --> 00:03:09,300 As many genders, as many cultures, races in the world. 49 00:03:09,300 --> 00:03:13,300 That's how evolution of a soul takes place. 50 00:03:13,300 --> 00:03:17,300 So a true understanding comes from having lived certain kinds of experiences. 51 00:03:17,300 --> 00:03:21,300 And I mean life experiences. 52 00:03:21,300 --> 00:03:29,300 So trying to inculcate a sense of understanding is really pointless if you look at it from this perspective. 53 00:03:29,300 --> 00:03:35,300 The base or the foundation on which understanding is based is on life experience. 54 00:03:35,300 --> 00:03:37,300 It's a gained understanding. 55 00:03:37,300 --> 00:03:39,300 It is gained concept. 56 00:03:39,300 --> 00:03:43,300 It comes through wisdom that is gained by old souls. 57 00:03:43,300 --> 00:03:45,300 How many times have I lived on this planet? 58 00:03:45,300 --> 00:03:47,300 I've got a lot of wisdom. 59 00:03:47,300 --> 00:03:52,300 Okay, and these days a lot of young children have that because they're coming in as old souls. 60 00:03:52,300 --> 00:03:55,300 It's part of the revolution that is taking place. 61 00:04:00,300 --> 00:04:02,300 So you are a parent, a boss, a leader. 62 00:04:02,300 --> 00:04:08,300 Try to convey this understanding through measuring years as an adult. 63 00:04:08,300 --> 00:04:11,300 Or life experiences. 64 00:04:11,300 --> 00:04:16,300 Okay, I know they're a little troublesome to do that. 65 00:04:16,300 --> 00:04:17,300 But try practicing this. 66 00:04:17,300 --> 00:04:21,300 Try practicing understanding as what is gained as years of experience. 67 00:04:21,300 --> 00:04:25,300 This is what experience by the way provides to any human being. 68 00:04:25,300 --> 00:04:27,300 Some people learn through it. 69 00:04:27,300 --> 00:04:35,300 Some people get stuck in the wounds that they have received as a result of their being in this broken society. 70 00:04:35,300 --> 00:04:37,300 Number four. 71 00:04:37,300 --> 00:04:43,300 Understanding also comes from the ability to understand the vulnerability and the fragility of the human being. 72 00:04:43,300 --> 00:04:46,300 As human beings, we are very fragile creatures, folks. 73 00:04:46,300 --> 00:04:48,300 Words can hurt us. 74 00:04:48,300 --> 00:04:50,300 Others action can hurt us. 75 00:04:50,300 --> 00:04:56,300 We can very easily be hurt as human beings emotionally. 76 00:04:56,300 --> 00:04:58,300 Let alone the physical hurt. 77 00:04:58,300 --> 00:05:02,300 But the emotional hurt is very powerful for human beings. 78 00:05:02,300 --> 00:05:06,300 So we are all fragile creatures, very vulnerable creatures. 79 00:05:06,300 --> 00:05:12,300 Whether it be physical weather or something, or whether it be mental or emotional. 80 00:05:12,300 --> 00:05:15,300 But we are basically very emotionally vulnerable creatures. 81 00:05:15,300 --> 00:05:19,300 This has to be understood as a fact, as a truth of life. 82 00:05:19,300 --> 00:05:21,300 We are all this way. 83 00:05:21,300 --> 00:05:27,300 So accept and embrace your vulnerability, your softness, your tenderness. 84 00:05:27,300 --> 00:05:30,300 Which we are really a tender creatures deep inside. 85 00:05:30,300 --> 00:05:40,300 And understanding comes from knowing that that vulnerability and sensitivity is really a powerful strength and not a weakness. 86 00:05:40,300 --> 00:05:53,300 In an older patriarchal society, we have made physical strength and masculine physical muscle strength and aggression as the powerful infrastructure of operation, if you want to call it that. 87 00:05:53,300 --> 00:05:59,300 And feminine and the subdued submissive energy as something which is not powerful. 88 00:05:59,300 --> 00:06:02,300 This has never been the truth and never will be the truth. 89 00:06:02,300 --> 00:06:05,300 Because we are basically emotional creatures. 90 00:06:05,300 --> 00:06:14,300 We are nurtured and brought into this world by that same feminine strength as the mothers that each one of us have. 91 00:06:14,300 --> 00:06:18,300 And that's what has built us emotionally strong. 92 00:06:18,300 --> 00:06:23,300 Or not, depending upon what kind of parent you have been brought up with. 93 00:06:23,300 --> 00:06:31,300 So truth has never been the case that it is one directional. 94 00:06:31,300 --> 00:06:38,300 The truth of understanding the heart centered consciousness comes from accepting that I am fragile. 95 00:06:38,300 --> 00:06:43,300 I am tender, not submissive, tender. 96 00:06:43,300 --> 00:06:46,300 And that I am vulnerable emotionally. 97 00:06:46,300 --> 00:06:49,300 But this is the strength, vulnerability is the strength. 98 00:06:49,300 --> 00:06:51,300 Think of it this way. 99 00:06:51,300 --> 00:07:02,300 Number five, understanding or lack of it comes from understanding of the fact of the phenomena of competition. 100 00:07:02,300 --> 00:07:11,300 We have been led to compete the violence of competition that we have been imposed upon that we are participating as individuals and as civilization. 101 00:07:11,300 --> 00:07:18,300 The acts of competitive violence, which is something like how can I get the better of him or he or she? 102 00:07:18,300 --> 00:07:21,300 How can I make one upmanship with this person? 103 00:07:21,300 --> 00:07:24,300 How can I put the other person down so that I can come up? 104 00:07:24,300 --> 00:07:26,300 In studies we are taught this. 105 00:07:26,300 --> 00:07:28,300 You should come first in the class. 106 00:07:28,300 --> 00:07:30,300 You should come the highest ranking. 107 00:07:30,300 --> 00:07:36,300 And then you are given all the quote and quote love by your parents and your friends. 108 00:07:36,300 --> 00:07:42,300 When one human is pitted against another in this form of competition we are teaching in schools. 109 00:07:42,300 --> 00:07:47,300 It is only preaching and teaching inherent violence. 110 00:07:47,300 --> 00:07:49,300 The violence that is hidden. 111 00:07:49,300 --> 00:07:57,300 Right from the time you and I are in school we are taught this silent and insinuating form of violence where the hidden agenda is to say, 112 00:07:57,300 --> 00:07:59,300 this is a jungle, not a civilization. 113 00:07:59,300 --> 00:08:01,300 You are in a jungle. 114 00:08:01,300 --> 00:08:04,300 Jungle of everyone's desires and propensities. 115 00:08:04,300 --> 00:08:06,300 Scarecity is the norm here. 116 00:08:06,300 --> 00:08:08,300 There's not enough to go around. 117 00:08:08,300 --> 00:08:10,300 There's not enough resources. 118 00:08:10,300 --> 00:08:16,300 You have to just keep going, going, going all the time like on a perpetual hamster wheel. 119 00:08:16,300 --> 00:08:20,300 This has been going on for quite some time as we all know. 120 00:08:20,300 --> 00:08:23,300 But this is not the way nature works really. 121 00:08:23,300 --> 00:08:29,300 This is just a very myopic perception of the actual facts of nature where everything is supremely abundant. 122 00:08:29,300 --> 00:08:33,300 Take an example, one apple seed gives rise to a thousand apple trees. 123 00:08:33,300 --> 00:08:36,300 It does not create just one more of itself. 124 00:08:36,300 --> 00:08:38,300 That is the abundance of nature. 125 00:08:38,300 --> 00:08:40,300 Which model do you choose to follow? 126 00:08:40,300 --> 00:08:49,300 Just imagine as a child has to grow up with this kind of a paradigm where they are taught competition and hence the embedded nature of violence. 127 00:08:49,300 --> 00:08:51,300 Where is the question of understanding? 128 00:08:51,300 --> 00:08:53,300 You are never trying to be in your heart center. 129 00:08:53,300 --> 00:08:55,300 You are always trying to be in a survival mode. 130 00:08:55,300 --> 00:09:00,300 You are like the tiger always trying to hunt for a prey in the savannah. 131 00:09:00,300 --> 00:09:06,300 You are not like the tree who is trying to give abundance to everything around it and live peacefully. 132 00:09:06,300 --> 00:09:08,300 Which model are you choosing here? 133 00:09:08,300 --> 00:09:11,300 They are all the same nature by the way. 134 00:09:11,300 --> 00:09:14,300 Then all you are trying to do is get better of the other person. 135 00:09:14,300 --> 00:09:18,300 He or she can have a challenge or an adversary. 136 00:09:18,300 --> 00:09:21,300 You are always looking for adversaries or preys. 137 00:09:21,300 --> 00:09:25,300 You have to decide what kind of systems you are going to adopt. 138 00:09:25,300 --> 00:09:31,300 First of all we have to change these educational systems because the child is very vulnerable, very open and receptive. 139 00:09:31,300 --> 00:09:33,300 Children are all this way. 140 00:09:33,300 --> 00:09:39,300 That is why the young adult grows up thinking only in terms of competition, in terms of getting the better of the next person. 141 00:09:39,300 --> 00:09:51,300 In terms of leadership but that leadership is embedded in a violent nature, in judgment, in putting the other person down in order to get myself up. 142 00:09:51,300 --> 00:09:56,300 This is one of the reasons why we are missing understanding so badly in the civilization. 143 00:09:56,300 --> 00:10:03,300 And the younger generation seems to be struggling with this idea of competition. 144 00:10:03,300 --> 00:10:18,300 Meanwhile as leaders you can promote cooperation and collaboration as the factors in growth that will start imbibing and developing and putting into structure and means and ways of how we can inculcate cooperation and collaboration. 145 00:10:18,300 --> 00:10:21,300 See even the words are very cooperative. 146 00:10:21,300 --> 00:10:33,300 As the measurement markers for career growth, don't think competition or don't put your measurement markers for an individual's performance if you want to go that dry. 147 00:10:33,300 --> 00:10:38,300 As something which is competitive. 148 00:10:38,300 --> 00:10:42,300 Think of it as how much of collaboration are you doing with others. 149 00:10:42,300 --> 00:10:45,300 That's the essence of teamwork by the way. 150 00:10:45,300 --> 00:10:53,300 Okay, number six, understanding that comes from the heart centric wisdom is true understanding. 151 00:10:53,300 --> 00:10:56,300 Understanding comes from heart and brain combined. 152 00:10:56,300 --> 00:11:09,300 It's a greater sense of heart presence in whatever actions you would speak, actions you would take, in the way you would behave, in the way you would bring that energy across in a room. 153 00:11:09,300 --> 00:11:16,300 It comes from more of a heart centered presence in the room. 154 00:11:16,300 --> 00:11:19,300 Your presence will show how much understanding you have. 155 00:11:19,300 --> 00:11:22,300 Understanding will come from the truth of this knowing. 156 00:11:22,300 --> 00:11:26,300 Okay, you cannot pretend your way into understanding. 157 00:11:26,300 --> 00:11:27,300 It doesn't work. 158 00:11:27,300 --> 00:11:28,300 We are all humans. 159 00:11:28,300 --> 00:11:30,300 We can pick it up, Mr. Leader. 160 00:11:30,300 --> 00:11:45,300 True understanding from mature leaders will come from knowing that this earth and all beings born upon it are like one grand beehive in which everyone has got a singular function for the sake of the hive. 161 00:11:45,300 --> 00:11:50,300 Hive here being the earth itself and every being upon it. 162 00:11:50,300 --> 00:11:55,300 How you actually bring forth in your personal life this concept is up to you. 163 00:11:55,300 --> 00:11:58,300 How much are you ready to take on these kinds of concepts? 164 00:11:58,300 --> 00:12:00,300 These are not higher or idealistic. 165 00:12:00,300 --> 00:12:02,300 These are very real. 166 00:12:02,300 --> 00:12:05,300 Think of that word real. 167 00:12:05,300 --> 00:12:09,300 To realize means to make something real. 168 00:12:09,300 --> 00:12:16,300 So human beings make these other concepts as real, make violence more real than love more real. 169 00:12:16,300 --> 00:12:18,300 So which one are you making more real? 170 00:12:18,300 --> 00:12:21,300 Which one are you realizing today? 171 00:12:21,300 --> 00:12:23,300 So think of this. 172 00:12:23,300 --> 00:12:26,300 You have just been brought up in a broken system. 173 00:12:26,300 --> 00:12:28,300 That broken system can always be repaired. 174 00:12:28,300 --> 00:12:30,300 It's just a conscious choice, folks. 175 00:12:30,300 --> 00:12:34,300 Are you consciously choosing to understand all that's going around you? 176 00:12:34,300 --> 00:12:38,300 Are you just doubting around slogans and verbayage, shallow words? 177 00:12:38,300 --> 00:12:47,300 Or just going by blind acceptance, acceptance, saying things like, this is the way things are. 178 00:12:47,300 --> 00:12:49,300 Number seven and the last one. 179 00:12:49,300 --> 00:12:50,300 I'll leave you with this. 180 00:12:50,300 --> 00:12:55,300 If you tie all the previous six points together, do you now see how understanding and true understanding is? 181 00:12:55,300 --> 00:13:03,300 Understanding and true understanding can automatically bring about greater collaboration and cooperation. 182 00:13:03,300 --> 00:13:07,300 Do you see how it can contribute to a unified earth? 183 00:13:07,300 --> 00:13:09,300 And that is the function and that is the goal. 184 00:13:09,300 --> 00:13:16,300 Understanding itself seeks to achieve in this great Beehive called earth. 185 00:13:16,300 --> 00:13:22,300 You come from an individual place to the collective from a place of understanding, 186 00:13:22,300 --> 00:13:26,300 which is both mind and heart centered. 187 00:13:26,300 --> 00:13:31,300 It's a heart centered consciousness that is inclusive of the mind. 188 00:13:31,300 --> 00:13:32,300 So you have to have knowledge. 189 00:13:32,300 --> 00:13:38,300 You have to have your shrewdness, your ability, your intellect, everything in place. 190 00:13:38,300 --> 00:13:39,300 It's not excluded. 191 00:13:39,300 --> 00:13:42,300 Nothing is excluded here. 192 00:13:42,300 --> 00:13:43,300 So that's it from me, folks. 193 00:13:43,300 --> 00:13:44,300 I hope this video was helpful.