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Good morning wonderful people a quick screen share for you today. Why is failure

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never happening to you no matter what? Just talk about failure for a bit as it

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is taught to us right from the time when we were children. You have failed in this

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area, you have failed in that, you have failed to score grades, you are a failure,

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you have failed to pass the test, you have failed to be good in sports, you have

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failed to be a good child boy or a girl, you failed to achieve something. All goes

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to childhood wounds right? They take back to your childhood all of us have been

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told that this at some point or the other. Okay so what are the talking points

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for this? Number one the teaching failure is a construct of what we are taught.

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Now if you don't know what constructs is go to my previous letter if you are on

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LinkedIn through our upbringing institutions education religion etc.

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What's the difference between what we are taught and what is the reality? You

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have to learn that first reality folks. We can't be in a dream world, you can't

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be in a hypnotic world in a spell as it has been taught to us right from the

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time we are born. You are taught this idea of failure. There exists no such thing

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in reality. Think of that for a minute and if you want to compare it you can

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always compare yourself to nature. Does a pigeon think it's a failure? Does a

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cat or a dog think it's a failure if you have pets? Does the tree feel it's a

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failure? No this exists only in the twisted and broken world of human beings.

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It doesn't exist in nature so it doesn't exist in reality. Compare it to that.

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So failure is basically a comparison to whatever is being practiced around us.

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It's a norm, it's a way of functioning in the society. It's a measuring yardstick

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with whatever is the established norm, a rule, a procedure, etc. If you're

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functioning in any institution or corporation, even in your school, even

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in your college, in your company, in your banks, in your government,

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wherever it is. Number two, you're alive therefore you are successful today.

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That's where I come from. I'm offering you a different perspective on this.

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If you're alive, if you're breathing, if you've got all your bits and joints and

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bones intact and you got some food to eat, you are successful. From the time you

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wake up till the time you go to bed, you are successful. Why? Because you're still

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living that which you call your life. That's the real measurement. This is

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another measurement yardstick you can use if you want to feel successful daily.

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Which would you rather feel successful today or successful 20 years from now on?

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When you're older and toothless and 60 year old, okay, people think of retiring

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and they'll be happy. You're never gonna do that. You're gonna be happy only in

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the now, in the today. Why? Because you're living and breathing. You can still do

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things. You can still act on things. You can measure your own self with your own

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yardsticks. You can create your own success criteria in the world to function

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from. That's success. That's never a failure. Please understand this from this

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perspective. So then you wake up in the morning and you ask yourself, what is it

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that I would like to do today? Not to please someone, not to please a boss, not

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to worry about this and that endlessly. There's no pleasing anyone, okay. I'm

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not coming from that angle here. No pleasing society, no pleasing companies,

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no pleasing friends, not all the yada yada. This would be the biggest battle you

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will have. You versus the rest of the world. How to do this? You have a very

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powerful sense of individuality and you need to bring that forth into the world.

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See how much power that individuality can have and see how much resistance this

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whole talk of Minds of Fire is bringing. It is even creating a thing like, nah, this

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is too idealistic. This can't work for me. That's your mind chatter. That's the

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amount of times you have been told you're a failure, by the way. Number three,

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measurement with anything external is neither original nor required. This is

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the third thing you have to understand, okay. This is your catalyst for change.

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Why? Because only when you're comparing yourself to whatever is going around you

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today, are you feeling that sense of failure? Or I didn't achieve this or I

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didn't get that report right or I'm not getting good grades or whatever it is.

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Social measurement. Why is this measurement not required? Why is the

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measurement with respect to social norms of a company and institution not

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required? Well, first of all, because you are an original yourself. You can always

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create and recreate and reevaluate, reform anything that is around you,

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including your own personal life to begin with, and your company and everybody

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else. First do it with yourself always. Maybe you haven't shown the original

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part of you. You haven't been shown the original part of you. So how do you

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access that original part? So you sit quietly, empty your mind and listen to

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your empty mind more and more. Because mind is like that vacuum, nature abhors

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vacuum. It'll never allow your mind to be empty of something. So the moment you

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empty it, something will fill it up. Watch for that something. Is that

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something feeling light or is it feeling heavy? Is it empowering to you? Is it

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giving you some positive sense of aha or an epiphany? Go for it. If not, ignore it.

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Move on to the next. So you keep doing this rough and dynamic way. You understand?

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Back to point number three. The measurement is taking place in all

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institutions. Whatever you have been taught merely from the point of view of

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a perception or a valid argument that was valid for some time. See, we all create

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ideas as human beings and we make it institutionalized and we try to follow

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that because it works. Everything works but it has a limited time. This yardstick

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of measurement is relevant only from the time it was created to solve a

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particular issue or a problem at hand and that's all there is to it. You can't

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stretch it forever. No idea, creation or concept has an eternal lifetime.

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Everything has a time validity. New human beings, new generations will come and throw

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it out and complicate the new one. This is the way it has been going on all along.

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Right now what is happening in 2022 is we are living outdated concepts. Concepts

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are no longer relevant to the times we are in now. So we need to change and

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become relevant to the times we are in now. We are changing as a human

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civilization. Society is always changing. You are always changing. All structures

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that you create as your thought forms, as your belief structures, your ideas or

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what you think is right and wrong, good or bad is also changing to the times which

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are relevant. So you have to change with it. It's like a flowing river. When it

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changes as an individual, you change as an individual and whatever you thought of

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before, let's say when you were a teen or a kid, is no longer relevant now. See, you

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yourself have changed the structure of your own pattern or your habits or whatever

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it is. So there's the question of any success or failure there. You're not

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continuously battling failures. You're continuously shifting. You're continuously

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changing. That's the truth. Reality, not hypnotism. Number four, someone uses the

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word failure against you simply means you are good at something else. Means

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whatever you're doing is not correct for you or you're in the wrong company or

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in situation or institution or you're with the wrong company, wrong set of

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people. You need to spend time discovering what it is. Where is it or that

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your life is kind of going in the wrong direction. Also, you need to find out where

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you shine which brings you joy, exuberance, happiness. That's what true

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success means in your personal terms. Not a measured yardstick by others, but

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what it means to you. This is what you need to spend time more investigating and

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you can do that using even esoteric science like Astrology which is very

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useful in my experience at least in knowing who you are, what you would be

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good at and if you want to stretch this concept of when is the right time for me

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to do what exactly in the world. The reason I bring Astrology, ascent rising

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sign and constellation and all the planets which are hanging out in your

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constellations is you can use this, the practical part of it. Unfortunately even

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there's a lot of BS in Astrology by the way. All the programming and wrong things

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that you have been told you are wrong, where will the uncovered dirt pile of dust

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sitting on top of all your two talents. How will you uncover the gem

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hidden in the haystack of you? You have to get to be honest with yourself to the

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point where all the dust is removed and you stand at a place where you are

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self-empowered. You've got a pretty good knowledge of tying the loose ends

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between your astrological chart whether it is true for you or not and you're not

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buying another round of BS in the name of Astrology. Remember there are a lot of BS

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astrologers out there so I'll urge you to be really careful when you go there.

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Success in this context only means one thing for you. Success by itself should

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be something that gives you joy. Joy in participating, in doing, in taking action

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which makes you feel alive. It makes you feel alive. Joy of being alive folks.

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Purposeful being of service, not being subservient. Huge difference between

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being of service which is actually joyful for human beings and being

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subservient. You're not a slave of anything or anyone. First you get rid of the

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slavery especially for Indians. Such a slave mentality even now I see. The reason

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I say astrology because very specific you can't sit and impose talents upon

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yourself that you inherently do not have folks. That's not how the system works. If

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there is a tool you need to use it and use it wisely. You can't take a hammer

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and beat upon your vegetable. You're using the wrong tools for the wrong reasons.

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Why would you want to miss some tool that is useful? That's where I come from.

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So don't compare yourself to others or external world. Success only means what

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it means for you and today. Last point number five. It's a reflective universe

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we live in folks. What you feel inside you will take outside. You can only

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transform both inner and outer worlds by the power you have as an individual.

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Remember that sentence. The power you have as an individual not as a mob

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mentality or psychology. Not I will do this because I have to fit everywhere in

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the office or I have to fit in a corporate culture or I have to fit fit fit

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here and there. By the time you die or retire that happiness is not going to be

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there because everything is going to be ripped off. Yes that's the truth. Not just

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your teeth but your identity will be ripped off. That is never going to happen

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in a zillion years. You are here as a unique individual. Come to shine and be

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more than you ever thought possible. More than your mind can concoct or what

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somebody else had told you you are capable of or not capable of. All these

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other business will not work. Don't try to recycle your past. That's never a good

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idea. It's a reflective universe where you can bring in originality from you. In

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NLP or Neuro Linguistic Programming we call it motivational direction. Are you

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motivated towards people? Plays thing or activity? That's what motivates you. You

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need to find this out. I put a lot of psychological tests that I carry out. If

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you want to see my YouTube channel it's there. In Astrology it's determined by

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Ascendant, Nakshatra and so on. That also I put it in my YouTube channel. There are

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so many tools available to help you. These hints. These are like clues. You may

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get clues. What is my soul pointing me towards this lifetime? Follow the clues.

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You're trying to unravel the puzzle all your life. Get good at this. If there's

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the only thing you will do in the next one year get good at this. Of course

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discovery and action is up to you my friend. But always remember you are

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never ever ever ever a failure. It doesn't matter who or what has ever told you this

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in your life. Alright take care, be safe and be awesome.