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and boys and girls to progressive. Let's talk a bit about relationships because you're going to be faced with a lot of it and all kinds of relationships that we as individuals humans have.

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It may be a love interest, a romantic relationship, parent and child relationship, relationship with friends, colleagues and who we work with and so on and so forth.

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What happens to that in the new energies that we are now in? Well, first of all, let me take you to a perspective.

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Think of us entire humanity and this earth as we are in a wild river, wild flowing river, rapidly flowing river and there are heads bobbing up and down all over the place and you are all floating through this wild river going to the seas.

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Yes. So when we think of this visual with we know very well that we will bump across different phases in this river as we are floating along happily going towards the sea.

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So when we come across relationships, it might be that we have bumped across this particular soul beat any kind of gender, any kind of form.

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It doesn't matter the form of the interaction is irrelevant here because the form is only a reflection and the depiction of what you are here to absorb from the heart of another.

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It's always a heart to heart connection in a relationship.

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Although you may think it's your mind and you are wanting certain things out of a person.

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It's always a heart connection that brings relationships together in this vast river of life.

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So when you come across someone, think of it as you are coming to spend a particular length of time with this person.

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It may be even your parent. It may be even your friend, anybody.

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All of us are going here in this journey from birth to death in this river of life and we'll come back as other souls.

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We'll come back in other bodies.

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If you are so inclined to believe in reincarnation, but back to the point, the relationship heart nurturing that occurs for you in that span of time.

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And the span of time may range from a couple of minutes, couple of hours in the day where you bump across with a stranger, share a smile, share a compassionate moment or share something more useful like knowledge information like your teachers.

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You come and teach you for certain periods in your life and they move on.

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Afterwards, they are just a memory.

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But what they shared with you was that learning.

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What they shared with you if you are in a romantic relationship was that moment of love, the moment of heart friend, strong bond and connection because you vibrated at the same level.

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So life has this funny way. Universe has this very bizarre way of bringing you connection points with people as people as men and women and even trans if you want to go that far to connect you to different points in your own hearts.

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Feeling centeredness wanting to feel more and expansion.

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Remember the heart as a soul only wants to expand.

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It is not interested in keeping things stable.

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It is interested in keeping the desire factor flowing in your life.

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So whenever your desire factor seems a little diminished life will bring you all these people situations places, etc.

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That will again make your heart bloom.

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It's like a plant that constantly keeps giving buds and roses or flowers are blooming in every plant, every tree.

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That's a continuous process. There is no static process here.

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It's so try and not look for stability.

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I know that's difficult because heart wants to keep that connection alive.

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Heart wants to keep that memory alive.

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Well, go ahead. Keep the memory alive.

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If it helps you in a beautiful way, but understand that your heart is constantly seeking for more expansion, more desire, more love, more passion, more lust, more mental connection, more activity based connection.

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It may be any of these areas and more actually it will keep wanting more and more and more.

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The engine of desire that is your heart center will constantly keep bringing to you more experiences as you move forward.

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This is how it works.

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So in this great river of life where you keep bumping across heads and bodies of different people, they share with you certain things in that fleeting amount of time.

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They share with you certain aspects of themselves which kind of match with where you are kind of blend with where you are and you merge with them.

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Even if it is for a fraction of a second in time, like 50 years of your life, remember 50 years or 100 years, even if you live up till and even if you have one partner throughout that life.

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It's not very romantically sweet or anything.

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It is still a fleeting moment.

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It's always a fleeting moment in time.

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If you consider yourself as an eternal infinite being, a soul that constantly is moving through hundreds and thousands of bodies as you, then what is 100 years or 50 years or even 5 minutes?

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Time has no relevance there.

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What is the relevant there is just your heart's connection, how much you drink from it.

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The heart wants to drink from the passion, the love and the connection that you feel.

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It may be on any front, it may be on the front of your career, it may be on the front of your companionship and security that you want to feel in a relationship.

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The security that one wants to feel is not really in the things of life because the things of life will all come and go.

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Money will come and go, jobs will come and go, people will come and go.

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Everybody is born, everybody dies.

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This is commonly known but what are we really searching for here?

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It's that heart connection and these connection points will change.

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Get used to the idea of change.

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That's why I give you the analogy of the river of life, the great river of life with 7 billion souls popping in and out.

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Everybody is popping in and out of your life.

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Everybody is coming and going through different years, different phases of your life.

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So understand that always as you are growing, life will bring you those kind of people in relationships, whatever the kind of relationship it might be.

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It might be just a friendship that lasts for a couple of years and then you have other friends and they last for certain number of years and then there are other partners, romantic partners who come and go.

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Passion, you both shared, they come and go.

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Everything comes and goes in this great river of life.

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What is taking place is your heart is constantly blooming in different directions.

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It is always a different direction.

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It is always a different sensation.

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It is always a different feeling in your heart with every person.

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What this brings for you is a richness of life.

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Life is rich with variety.

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Nature is rich with variety.

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If you have a difficulty looking at your life as rich and exclusively passionate, then just look at nature.

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Nature has so much variety in just plants, trees and flowers.

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Just take one aspect of nature that is constantly showing you, exhibiting to you all this vast variety that you have around you.

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In much the similar fashion, people and heart connections will also be unique.

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One flower is not the same as another flower.

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It has different behavior.

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It has a different way.

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It blooms.

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It has different kinds of petals.

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It has different kinds of seasons.

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It blooms in and dies away.

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But whenever it is in bloom, any flower, it is in full bloom.

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There is no half blooming of any flower.

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Have you observed?

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So in much the same way, whenever you bloom in any relationship, be heart centered.

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Watch your heart center, the one in the center of your chest.

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How does it feel to you?

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How does this connection feel to you?

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What is it feeding you, nurturing you as?

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What is it bringing forth that you drink from?

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You become a new person.

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It is showing you a new flower that you can bloom within your own heart center.

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Your heart is full of different kinds of seeds which you want to bloom as flowers.

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Think of it that way.

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I am just sharing analogies as it comes to me.

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So you are always kind of looking for that blooming.

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Your heart is always looking for that blooming, constant blooming and becoming.

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That's the desire.

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Your heart is an embodiment of desires of all kinds, all shapes, all sizes.

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So it wants to feel expressed and know that knowing this is what brings you the greatest sense of security.

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Knowing this is what you need to be bringing your mind to focus as your roots of security.

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You need to have your security in the fact that this is going to be changing.

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I need to move on, I need to take another one and yet another one and yet another one.

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There is no fixed point.

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All you have as your guiding light is the light of your heart, whatever is in the center of your chest.

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It will guide you.

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It's like a beam.

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It's like a lighthouse.

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It will constantly keep shifting its focus to other things that it wants to feel, see, know and experience.

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Remember we spoke of soul as a repository of experience.

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It wants to have experience of life and with that experience it expands and its constant expansion.

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It's not something which stops at a certain point.

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It just keeps expanding on and on through lifetimes.

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So whether you spend a relationship with a person or a friend as a lifetime relationship or as fine minutes in a hotel,

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fine minutes in a bumping across a stranger in the street or just even having a one night stand with a stranger.

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It's all an interaction that your soul feeds on, your heart energy feeds on this and it has become slightly more expanded.

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It wants to seek the next adventure, the next high, the next blooming that you want to go for.

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Remember this as your focal points of security.

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You need to have security.

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Yes, but the security is not in fixing things in the material plane.

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Don't try to fix things in your relationship as this person is there now.

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This person is there tomorrow and they are all coming and going and you sit there and you're puzzled and flummoxed about this life.

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What is this life that keeps bringing you people?

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They come in for certain time.

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They die and they pass away and now there's a new person or new place or new things.

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Don't be surprised and puzzled by this.

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It's a great river of life.

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It's a great becoming constantly.

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It's a great kind of experience moving from one experience to another experience for an ever blooming heart.

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That's the way you got to perceive this.

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That's the way you got to enjoy this relationships that you have any kind of relationship that you keep coming across.

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That will help you better adjust to the constant flow that is occurring.

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Might as well become part of this great river of life rather than trying to find a fixed anchor point in the river and say,

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I will build a house here.

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I will build this one.

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So here that will be probably your goal.

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That will be probably your greatest struggle to work with because you're looking for some fixed stability, fixed things, the fixed signs.

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So you're looking for all of this security factor in keeping something materially and structurally stable in your life.

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When in fact life has no structure of itself, life is just using all these structures to expand and to become something more, something unknown.

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You don't know of it yet.

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If something is unknown, how are you going to wrap your mind around it?

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It's impossible.

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Don't even go there.

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Otherwise you're not trying to figure this thing out.

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All you can do is be a part of this flow.

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All you can do is be a part of this ever evolving, becoming, blooming heart of yours.

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Wonderful it is.

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That's the spark of all creation that resides within you.

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So you need to embrace it rather than fight it.

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You need to wholly embrace it, wholly feel it, wholly become it.

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Just merge with it rather than trying to fight with the thing and trying to make something stable and secure.

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Your stability and security will only come from your heart center in feeling it fully and for the moment something else always comes up.

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Something else will come up.

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That's the faith factor.

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Have faith that something always comes up.

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It does.

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You know it does.

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Invariably does in anybody's life.

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Things come and go.

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The flow, eternal flow of life is the only truth there is.

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Embrace with this and stop looking for security in weird ways like trying to build this and build that and keep this stable and keep that stable.

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Keep this person or that relationship going.

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You see how downward these things are in energetic terms.

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You automatically feel downward if you try to maintain stability from a mental perspective.

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That's the one which wants to create fixed things, fixed relationships.

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This person means like this to me and will always be this way.

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Life is not that way.

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That person is going to move on.

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They are going to become different people right in front of your eyes and you are going to end up becoming heartbroken because your expectation is contraindicated with life itself.

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It's contradictory to the flow of life.

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Life wants to flow in one direction.

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You are trying to keep something fixed in an ever changing world, ever changing environment, ever changing vibrations of the planet, ever changing evolution of your soul.

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So you are trying to keep all these things fixed but life is not fixed my dear kids.

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Life is a moving river.

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Learn to move with it.

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The only thing you can achieve if you want to call it that.

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It's not even a correct word but let's call it that.

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Whatever you want to achieve in this flow of life is grace.

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The only thing you can move is gracefully.

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The only thing you can do is move with some grace, move with some flow.

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It's like a dancer trying to move their steps and then wave their arms and feet in a graceful manner rather than fighting the currents.

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Heart energy is a graceful energy. Learn to embrace it and move with it.

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That's all I am saying.

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Keep this energy in mind and you can revisit this whenever you want to on my YouTube channel.

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If you are watching this in any one of the podcast or sound cloud, just go to the YouTube channel for your subtitles in your language.

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If the language is a barrier, it's a big barrier for all of us.

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So multiple languages are translated into 20 different languages. Just keep that in mind.

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Alright, that's it for me for today. Take care, be safe, be awesome wherever you are. Bye-bye.