Hey everybody, welcome back. Now we are considering
her moon in Aslesha nakshatra in Cancer, which
is also a Rakshaskana, paired with his moon which
is in Swati nakshatra, fourth position from her
moon. Swati nakshatra is a Devagana. Although
it's ruled by Rao, it's still a Devagana. Okay,
so there'll be a softness about it. Before that,
again a sidebar. Typically, I have seen this.
This is very typical, by the way. relationship
people will come to me saying he was let's have
a woman comes to me saying this actually happened
he was one person before I got married and just
immediately after marriage this one is a totally
different person that I do not recognize anymore
this is not the person we are I was having an
affair with for the last three or four years
what just happened I thought I knew him fully
and these days this is more common a problem
why They do not understand the Navamsa principle.
You get into a relationship, you kick start the
Navamsa of the other person, both people. Even
he might say the same thing. She was one woman
and now she is a completely different one. What
just happened around? Well, this is what happened.
Navamsa kicked in. Navamsa, I have covered this
extensively in the playlist. You can go through
that as well. Who did I marry? There was a case
study I did on that. who did i really marry this
is not the person i married it's completely different
this is actually a case study with actual charts
it's there on my intimacy podcast playlist so
what happens you need to understand the dynamics
here folks this is not something to be kidding
around with when you get into a relationship
you will kick start your navamsa chart period
Physical reality can still go on as per natal,
but what have you kick -started in each of them,
in one another? Let me put it this way. You have
kick -started essentially the Navamsa chart of
each. Let's say your natal chart was, I'm just
giving a random example here. You are an Aries
ascendant and she was a Scorpio ascendant in
natal chart. And planets, whatever they are placed,
wherever they are placed. And your Navamsa has
become Sagittarius in the in the D9 chart and
her and she has become Aquarius. So you are totally
different individuals and you know Aamsha, your
Ascendant has changed. That and so planets also
shift and change according to the Ascendant change.
This is covered in Nakshatra playlist. This is
why I cover in many ways so you can understand
the gravity of the situation. This is not something
to be messed around and muddled around with.
Certainly not with Jyotish. Otherwise, you will
have a field day with it and then you will come
crying to me. Okay, this happened, that happened,
help me out. And then I have to sort out through
your messy charts. I'm just joking. Okay. So
keep that in mind. Navamsa is very different
in most cases. Rarely is a Navamsa between natal
and Navamsa same by sentient. Even that is, even
if that is, the planets will change positions.
Okay. This is there in Nakshatrapada, if you
want to go through it. But remember, this is
the reason why the complaint commonly comes to
me as, he or she is a completely different person.
After I married, we dated for four or five years
and now it's completely different or she is completely
different. I don't recognize this person or more
specifically, this is not the person I fell in
love with. See, Navamsa, that's the key, analyze
it. Let's get into this for the time being now.
So her moon now is in Ashleesha which is a Rakshasakhan
and his moon is in Swati. What are the dynamics
of discord, mental discord patterns, core mental
clashes? We shall examine this, okay. Let me
end. Too much of analysis here. I had to scroll
through my notes. Hang on. Okay, so first of
all, this is a 410 dynamic. What is the mismatch
there? Containment versus freedom. Swati needs
freedom. Swati is individualist by default. This
is the home and public access. 410 ,000. 410
will play out. Cancer Capricorn. The core mental
clash. Ashlesha thinks in subtexts, leverage,
emotional intelligence and survival logic. It
stands for the symbolism of the snake. I covered
this in the 27 nakshatas playlist. You can go
through that. Swati thinks in fairness, balance,
objectivity and neutrality. Mismatches. She reads
between the lines. He speaks literally. She expects
intuition. He expects dialogue. She stores information.
He processes it in real time. she remembers emotional
history he resets mentally you see the dynamic
playing out here between cancer and swati sorry
cancer and Libra okay emotional discord patterns
and this becomes very volatile emotional nervous
system mismatch nervous system dysregulation
occurs in relationship and this is why you end
up triggering a lot of things in you which were
latent That's the Navamsa. If between birth and
your natal Navamsa things change, and they do
invariably, you're triggering your internal nervous
system dysregulation in partnerships. This is
why don't get into partnerships which you do
not know a clue about. Ashlesha Nukshatra. Rakshasa.
High emotional intensity for her. Bonds to emotional
enmeshment. Ashlesha. It is very, very difficult
and tricky for adharnakshatras to understand
their intimacy concept. It stands for the embrace.
That's the key word in Aslesha. So emotionally,
he needs that very powerful physical, she needs
that very powerful physical closeness. Tests
loyalty subconsciously, holds emotional memory
indefinitely. Aslesha has a difficulty in letting
go. He will let go snake sheds its skin, you
might say. Swati. emotionally light, air -based,
bonds through mutual respect and space, feels
safe through autonomy. It's an individual lakshata,
individualist. Avoids emotional pressure, detaches
to restore balance, mismatches. Her closeness
feels suffocating to him. His detachment feels
abandoning to her. She escalates emotion, he
distances himself. He distances, she tightens
the grip. The snake coiling, when you think of
Ashley Shamone's, in terms of intimacy, thinks
the snake all coiled up while mating. That's
a very, very severe form of physical intimacy,
as the reptilian complex as it gets. So, communication
failure zones, she communicates indirectly, emotionally,
symbolically, while he communicates directly,
rationally and diplomatically. She hints he misses.
He explains she feels dismissed. She tests, he
avoids. He avoids, she suspects betrayal. Physical
intimacy mismatch. She bonds sexually through
emotional fusion. Ashlesha requires a lot of
fusion. Okay, I'll leave it at that. He approaches
intimacy through mutual comfort and ease. Her
intensity overwhelms his Devana Navas system.
Devanayana and other systems are very, very sensitive.
Manushyagana, in between Raksasagana are very
dense. His softness feels emotionally underwhelming
to her. She seeks exclusivity. He seeks equilibrium,
Libra. She sexualizes the bonding. He desexualizes
the conflict. This is where all kinds of mismatch
can occur. Power dynamics start to play out when
you pair Devanayana and Raksasagana. Ashlesha
unconsciously seeks emotional control. Swati
unconsciously resists any form of domination.
Swati says, kill her, you know, you're not my
owner. Immediately discards it. And Libra as
compared to cancer, they are highly aggressive.
It's a male nakshatra. Cancer is a female sign,
not nakshatra. This leads to passive resistance
from him. leads to strategic emotional positioning
from her. So, Gana mismatches. Rakshasa Gana,
Ashlesha in her case, needs emotional depth,
intensity and certainty, comfortable with confrontation
and power dynamics, bonds through position and
emotional exclusivity, interprets withdrawal
as betrayal to totally different things. You
know, thinking, let's say, typically, you know,
I see it all over social media, he went with
his friends. and she's suspecting he's having
an affair. Very typical, isn't it? Devana. Needs
harmony, gentleness, emotional safety. Avoids
intensity and emotional aggression. Bonds through
fairness and mutual respect. Interprets pressure
as a threat. So these kind of things need to
be avoided. Now let's take another pairing. Ashleesha
Nakshatra with Sravana. This is the 1 -7 dynamic.
Now this is going to be even more magnetic and
stronger. Let's see that now. Okay, so now her
moon is in Ashlesha and right opposite seventh
place from her moon is his in Sravana nakshatra,
which is Cancer Capricorn, isn't it? Maybe any
houses. Stop thinking this is Ascendant in seventh
place. Okay, it can be any other placements depending
upon Ascendant. Okay, so this is a 1 -7 dynamic
playing out. Let's directly dive in and see what
this brings. This is a self versus partner, survival
versus duty, emotional control versus moral responsibility.
The core mismatch mismatches now. Ashlesha identity
is built around emotional intelligence, control
and instinct protection. Shravana nakshatra is
partnership built around duty, ethics, correctness,
long -term stability. Now I took Shravana in
the previous podcast in the series also. So what
does that mean? Shravana moons are very Capricornian.
It's in Capricorn. It's the heart of Capricorn.
There is only one Devana in the heart of Capricorn,
which is Shravana Nakshthira. And it takes slow,
long strides. It takes time to learn. Shravana
Nakshthira moon requires time to process everything.
Slow and steady wins the race, like the turtle.
Okay? She expects emotional intelligence. Aslesha
is strong. He expects ethical partnership. him
in this case. So mental discord. Ashlesha mental
style, strategic, layered and indirect, reads
tone, timing and subtext. They are very good
at this. Ashlesha moans. Thinks in survival logic,
stores information for leverage, speaks selectively.
Shravana on the other side is linear, principled,
one step at a time. Put one foot in front of
the other is Shravana nakshatra. Processes through
listening, doctrine and precedent. Thinks in
terms of Dharma. Speaks carefully, formally and
sparingly. You can't expect Sravana Nakshatra
moons to have a good conversation. They are as
silent as they get. It's like the moon is told
to zip up in Sravana Nakshatra. Avoids ambiguity.
So mismatches typically tend to play out as she
sees his rigidity as emotional blindness. He
sees her complexity as manipulation. She expects
intuitive understanding, Ashlesha, very highly
intuitive. He expects explicit articulation.
So, when it comes to emotion, what happens? Now,
she needs a lot of physical bonding and emotional
fusion. That's what is her arousal. She will
not be aroused by just conversational dynamics.
Shravana, on the other hand, wants to commit
vows and responsibilities. Since it's Capricorn
at its best, it requires all these very formal
things. It is not interested in short -term gains.
Let me put it this way. Shravana is in for the
long haul, regulates emotion through restraints,
avoids emotional extremes. detaches to stay functional.
They need to stay in their field. Shaodan has
got strong boundaries. Mismatch patterns. Her
intensity overwhelms his nervous system. Like,
what the hell? Like a snake crawling up my skin.
I mean, literally. His restraint feels cold and
rejecting to her. She escalates emotion. He becomes
formal. He becomes formal. She becomes suspicious.
See, again, the similar kind of dynamics start
playing between Devakana and Rakshasakana everywhere.
The repeated failures is she hints he misses,
he advises she feels patronized. Rough talk goes
on on social media, he's patronizing, don't be
patronizing. What is this about? This is very
childish. You need to first understand these
dynamics. Get into Jyotish, study it. There's
an audio playbook on this channel. She confronts
emotionally, he moralizes. He moralizes, she
internalizes and plots. Intimacy and physical
discords. Ashlesha uses intimacy to secure emotional
bond. Shravana separates intimacy from emotional
turbulence. Power and control fault line. Where
does it come? This is where power dynamics play
out between couples boss. You guys know what
I'm talking about. Ashlesha unconsciously seeks
emotional control. Shravana unconsciously submits
to principle, not emotion. See, moon in Sravana
nakshataya is in a very tight space. They are
typically stifled emotional people. They are
very dry because Capricorn is a dry sign. It's
sitting in the sign of Saturn. It's dry as possible.
They will come across as very dry. And therefore
moon there becomes very trapped. You need to
do some Vishnu Sahasranama if you are Sravana
moon. Gana mismatches, final and clear. Rakshasagana
needs intensity, loyalty and emotional certainty.
Comfortable with confrontation and emotional
power. Sure. Bonds through fusion and exclusivity.
Yes. Devgana, Shravana and Dharana needs calm,
ethics, emotional safety. They don't open up
unless they feel safe. Shravana moves. Avoids
emotional aggression. Lot of avoidance in Shravana
and Akshatra. Bonds only through duty and correctness.
All about principles. Is this correct? Is this
not correct? Shravana... in terms of Devgana,
evaluates by default like this, interprets intensity
as instability. It's not the case, but her interpretation
in her mind works like this. I should stop at
this. I think tomorrow onwards or day after.
Happy New Year to you all, by the way. December
31st at last year closing 2025 what a year it
has been a year felt like 10 years to me at least
I don't know about you guys so tomorrow onwards
or day after tomorrow whenever I get the space
I shall begin the Astro Vastu series I should
stop in this mismatching business typically don't
like to be a bearer of bad news but just to caution
you guys you need to study this all the material
is in the files in the community box My Google
Drive, you can do your own matching mismatching.
Feel free. It's your life. You need to handle
it properly. Get in the driver's seat, folks.
That's all I'm suggesting. Take care. Be safe.