Ladies and gentlemen, welcome back. We are doing
the intimacy discussions. Now we are talking
about Gana mismatches. Just a sidebar on that.
Typically, mark my words, typically Dev Ganas
will look for emotion first, physical connection
later, dependent. Whereas, Rakshas Ganas will
say, I want intensity and the physical connectivity
first. Emotions can come later. This is typical,
okay? There's nine Devakanas and nine Rasakanas.
So, do the math. It'll be very, very complicated
in terms of individual analysis. If you need
consultations, you can get in touch with me.
You need to understand the typical dynamic here.
You need to understand that. First comes the
knowledge. First comes the understanding. That's
what this channel is about. If you don't understand
even the basics of this stuff, you will think
I'm just yammering on about a whole lot of verbiage
without any basis. There is a very strong basis,
you don't want to fight this. Let's take the
next case in our analysis. Now I have put her
moon in Shatbisha and his moon in Marikshira
which is Devagana. So she is a Rakshasakana,
he is a Devagana. Let's see how that discord
plays out. We are talking about discords here.
This pairing is detached intelligence confronting
searching sensitivity. Guess which one is which?
Detached intelligence, Aquarius or mental. And
she or he on the other side, in this case Mrikshi
Rai, searching for sensitivity. A bond where
private emotional needs and public direction,
the 410 relationship, keep missing each other's
timing. This is not an instinctively harmonious
dynamic, it's misaligned processing speed relationship,
where mental, emotional and physical rhythms
often operate on different clocks. I see people
on social media, even psychologists and psychiatrists,
they're so poorly informed. This is why I'm trying
to bring in a LinkedIn newsletter. There's so
many on my network. Why? because you are missing
a very vital link of innate drives. The study
of nakshatras in Vedic Astrology is about your
innate drives. What's your first impulse? What's
that primordial instinct that you have going
on in your limbic system, if I had to put it
in brain? This is not a comfort based bond. This
is a friction through misalignment. You might
not be ready to go to such places. This requires
a hell of a lot of consciousness, people. The
410 dynamic here, in terms of discord, plays
as emotional detachment, internal independence
and unconventional home base, which is power
in this case. Whereas him, he wants emotional
performance, caregiving role, public reassurance
seeking. Let's see the discordant points now.
Mental front. She thinks in systems and abstractions.
Shatpi Chaita, as abstract as they get. He thinks
in feelings and immediate context in this case.
She processes internal and late. He processes
external and continuously. So friction pattern
may sound like he talks to resolve anxiety. She
withdraws to resolve for clarity. She is seeking
clarity. They are mental people, air science,
Gemina, Libra and Aquarius. Conversation becomes
a pursuit versus silence, not dialogue. See there?
Mentally it is lost. Emotionally where is it
discordant? She regulates emotion through distance.
He regulates emotion through connection. One
goes distant and one wants connection at the
same time. He feels emotionally unseen. She feels
emotionally crowded. His vulnerability triggers
her withdrawal. Her neutrality triggers his insecurity.
See? Anxious avoidant loop. What about the physical
part? Asynchronous, nervous, reassurance and
dependent signatures. Desire fluctuates with
emotional safety for him. Her desire drops and
emotional pressure from emotional pressure. He
wants emotion, Devana. She is more distant and
more cerebral in nature. What's good and bad?
See this is the very... black and white concept
that psychology mainstream psychology provides
everything is in terms of black and white there's
no such thing in jyotish and Vedic astrology
no such thing doesn't matter which way you spin
this there is only what is jyotish examines what
is not what my fantasies and insanities are about
something Physical patterns, how does it play
out in this relationship? Touch becomes reassurance
seeking rather than desire. Intimacy feels mentally
disconnected. Physical closeness increases emotional
demand. If she, in this case, tries to get in
touch with his emotion, it becomes very demanding
for her. If his emotional seeking tends to connect
to her, she is abstract, etheric. Nakshatra,
Shatvesha. She's lost in space, literally. Sexuality
risks becoming emotionally loaded, but physically
unsatisfying. The main discordant primary friction
is, she detaches to stay clear, he connects to
stay safe. She values autonomy, he values emotional
feedback. See what I said about emotions and
connectivity between Dev and Nakshatra, they're
highly discordant. She stabilizes through distance.
He stabilizes through closeness. Even one person
wants closeness, physical, mental, emotional.
And you're withdrawing at that time. How is it
going to work? Any amount you're going to shrink,
so relationship costs are not going to solve
it. There is a basic dynamic at play, which I'm
trying to bring here. Sexual -emotional risk.
Anxiety replaces desire. Caretaking replaces
attraction. Withdrawal replacing resolution.
If unconscious, which is most of the cases folks,
let's face it, this becomes a detached dependent
imbalance. This is not a comfortable relationship.
The danger is of chronic misunderstanding, emotional
exhaustion on both sides, physical intimacy losing
spontaneity, one partner feeling abandoned, the
other feeling suffocated. This pairing only thrives
when Shatbisha consciously verbalizes reassurance
without losing autonomy. They require a ton of
counselling, I would think. All of these kind
of devanar, aksarana pairings, they would require
counselling or which people normally choose to
walk away and say, this is me. I am being me.
Rubbish. You don't know what the me is unless
you have studied Jyotish. Mrikshira learns emotional
self -regulation without constant feedback. He
doesn't need feedback. He's looking for something
else. Okay. Let's do another one. Just to close
this part up. Shatbisha queries woman to Anuragha
Scorpio man. This will be even more stronger.
Let's see that. Keep watching. Okay, so now the
man's moon is in Anuragha, which is 10th place
from her moon. Again, not necessarily the house
as shown on the screen. It can be any house.
The distance between her moon and his moon is
10 -4 relationship. 10th position from hers,
his is 4th position. Okay. She is still in Shatbishamun.
That characteristic doesn't change. But now he
is in Anuradhara Kshetra. Let's see how that
discord plays out. This is a truth loyalty stress
test where mental freedom collides with emotional
depth. He is extremely emotionally deep in this
case. Scorpio. Scorpio man in Anuradhara. This
is not comfort based. This is a containment versus
commitment dynamic. This is talking about four
-ten relationship. Ten -four relationship also.
Commitment. The tenth place. The Capricorn. You
can go on and on. But anyway, let's get back
to the discordant parts of this relationship.
mental dynamic the code is called here becomes
she processes through abstraction and distance
Aquarius he process through emotional depth and
memory they're very far apart the mental world
and the emotional world in this case is like
one galaxy to another she seeks truth by stepping
back he seeks truth by going deeper Mental clash
pattern. He wants a shared emotional processing.
Anuradha wants a deeper connection. In this case,
him. She wants private mental space. Chakvisha
is very quiet, very internally processed. So
when the person is quiet, he goes into sort of
a suspicion mode at what's going on with her.
Interpretation versus withdrawal. No convergence.
Emotional dynamic. Discord is called because
she regulates emotion through detachment. He
regulates emotion through bonding. One wants
to be detached, one wants to bond. Hey, how are
you going to get through this emotional dynamic?
Clash patterns may sound like he may feel emotionally
excluded. She may feel emotionally obligated.
His loyalty triggers her fear of entanglement.
Her distance triggers his fear of abandonment.
This creates a secure avoidant polarity Strong
polarity in this case, where devotion meets resistance.
As much as Anuragana Kshetra is beautiful and
wants devotion, what is the distance between
the moons? Physical intimacy dynamic, slow, deep
building, emotionally charged but uneven. The
risk patterns here become, intimacy becoming
emotionally heavy. They will avoid intimacy in
this case. and it will sure to split apart if
it is not really worked through. The thing that
Devakuna and Dr. Sinha are pairing is they will
require immense emotional counselling. Give it
a few years. Forget the honeymoon period when
it's just hormones and banging around. Let us
see after a couple of years where you are. Touch
turning symbolic rather than spontaneous. Sexuality
carrying expectations instead of play. Physical
closeness can intensify emotional mismatch, if
not consciously soften. There's the key word.
Consciously softening things. The Gana mismatch
is primary friction. She values freedom. He values
loyalty. She seeks truth through distance. He
seeks safety through closeness. She avoids emotional
ownership. He thrives on it. Sexual emotional
risk, devotion turning into emotional pressure.
She feels emotional pressure coming from him
in this case. Independence turning into emotional
withdrawal, loyalty feeling unreciprocated. He
is loyal in this case. He feels her as not connecting
to him in himself, in his core. If unconscious,
this becomes a detached, devotional sort of imbalance.
Well, this can work in a number of ways, isn't
it? It's always a number of ways. This is a transformational
relationship. People who get into Devgadha, Rakshasagadha
combinations definitely have to get transformed.
The danger is one of exhaustion. These people
approach the counsellors, somebody like me or
mainstream. I'm exhausted trying to please her.
Him, in this case, trying to please her. Chronic
insecurity versus chronic withdrawal. On both
sides, it says, one partner feels abandoned,
the other feels constrained. This pairing only
thrives when Shatbesha learns to verbalize reassurance
without surrendering freedom. They need a space,
Aquarius. Anuradha learns to hold devotion without
claiming. It's not suffocate her. She doesn't
like suffocation. It's Shatbesha and Aquarius.
She wants independence of all kinds. But that
There has to be a factor which has to be understood,
isn't it? If it is not understood, how is it
going to happen? Tell me, after listening to
all of this and the future ones, I challenge
all of you modern psychologists, how are you
going to come to these conclusions? Jyotish only
provides this lens for you, other systems don't.
I challenge you, tell me, how will you go talking
endlessly and charging them by the hour? How
are you going to come to these conclusions? You
don't know what dynamic is playing out until
you go to the nakshatra level. That's my challenge
to you. I'll see you in the next. Take care.
Be safe.