there ladies and gentlemen. Like I promised yesterday,
let us begin the discussion on mismatching Kanas,
which is most common and which is most ignored
in the so -called matchmaking that goes on especially
in India. What could be the discord points and
what could be the clash points in mismatching
Kanas? And I shall take the extreme version of
Devakana to Rakshasakana. in this analysis. Okay.
Because as I see it, the Manushya Ganas are pretty
neutral. The top level tier is the Dev Ganas,
then Manushya Ganas, then Akshaya Ganas. Okay.
So the Manushya Gana being the middle person,
they can go either okay kind of situation with
Dev Ganas and okay kind of situation with Akshaya
Ganas. The Dev Gana and Manushya Gana are far
apart in their positioning of propensity of what
they desire within a relationship whatever is
desired within a relationship apparently according
to Jyoti Shastra is all about moon placement
it's always moon that determines first Mercury
Venus next so let us keep that as the basis and
let us do the analysis first Let us take her
moon in Shravana Nakshatra in Capricorn. Remember,
this is not necessarily the Ascended. It can
be any house. Her moon is in Shravana Nakshatra.
His moon is sitting in the seventh position from
her that is in Cancer in Ashlesha. Now, Shravana
Nakshatra is Devana. Ashlesha is Rakshashana.
This is the first type. Let us see what that
kind of thing brings. This pairing is a listener
who carries responsibility of meeting the feeler
who coils with intensity. It is a bond where
conscious awareness confronts emotional investment,
where partnership becomes a test of boundaries,
trust and psychological maturity. Right there
I would say this is not a desirable one. because
one is constantly testing the boundaries of others.
Sravana woman processes life through observation
and comprehension. Remember this is in Capricorn,
just like Uttarashada, the other degrees. Capricorn
modes are generally very slow to respond, very
careful in observation, very careful in taking
time to understand, whereas he wants intensity.
A Shlesha man bonds through emotional fusion.
He feels deeply, senses everything, and attaches
with totality. The snake's intertwining. A Shlesha
stands for the embrace. His strength is emotional
insight. His danger is emotional entanglement.
One is quick like the snake. One is very slow
to move, like Capricorn actually stands as Makara
Rashevkaya, meaning in. Vedic tradition, Makara
means Capricorn, means crocodile, alligator.
It is not the mountain goat as is portrayed popularly.
Makara is Capricorn, so it sits quietly, always
with the jaws open. Think of Capricorn as crocodile,
not as a goat. They are very vicious when they
can be provoked, but they will stand and wait
their guard. it is a very slow moving reptile
whereas snake is very very fast in its response
think of this dynamic when you study the representations
of matching the moons think of the animal totem
within each nakshatra and how the pairing actually
would work okay keep that in mind as the basis
i have done another podcast series on instincts
and totems of nakshatra you can go through that
if you are more interested in that So, sexual
intimacy and dynamics, deep magnetic psychologically
charged and slow burning. If you end up bearing
this way, if you are such a person or couple,
desire grows through emotional trust, not novelty.
Sexuality carries a strong bonding imprint. Intimacy
is transformative, not casual. Sravana Nakshatra
woman, she wants calm presence, verbal reassurance,
emotional respect. Ashlesha man on the other
hand wants emotional availability. This is difficult
for Ashlesha man, for him to deal with in this
case. Because he wants intensity, she wants slowness.
One is quick, one is slow. Okay, what are the
mismatch and discord zones now? She's a Devagana
woman and he's a Rakshatagana man. So primary
friction, she processes slowly, he reacts instantly.
She values clarity, he values intensity. Like
I said, drugs are very intense in their approach.
She sets boundaries, he tests them. So it's like
a... How shall I put it? It's like a match. It's
like a competition match. This is not desirable
in any relationship. And the ancient seers in
India recognize this. This kind of match is not
good. Emotional clashes may occur, like... He
may feel emotionally restricted. She may feel
emotionally invaded. See, boundaries are crossed,
breached. Rakshata Gana has no qualms about breaching
boundaries. They are very sharp to breach boundaries.
And if Rahu Ketu impacts this, it's even more
sharp. Impacts the moon, I mean. His need for
fusion meets her need for space. So... Sexual
emotional risk, attachment turning possessive,
guidance turning parental, love turning psychologically
heavy. Yeah, yeah, sure. If unconscious, which
is most of the case, hey, we talk of consciousness,
people even in spirituality talk of consciousness.
How many of you are actually conscious after
the camera work is over? Yeah. If unconscious,
this becomes a listener -controller imbalance.
Why this is transformational, not comfortable?
It will end up transforming if you are in such
a relationship. This is about alchemy. The strength
is there is deep emotional insight on the side
of both parties. There is magnetism. There is
one -seven dynamic. That's the key I'm trying
to point out here. Although numerologically,
there is a dynamic, one -seven. But the Ganas
are mismatched. I want to put this into your
heads very strongly. Powerful bonding potential,
high capacity for mutual transformation. The
danger is emotional enmeshment, power struggles.
Yes, 100%. Between Devagana and Rakshasa Gana,
there will be power struggles. There will be
struggles emotionally. One is very emotionally
raw and wants only physical intensity. Rakshasa
Ganas are very tamasic in nature. And Devganas,
on the other hand, wants softer, slower, steadier.
You can see all the nine Devganas which I made
previously. This pairing only thrives when Sravana
maintains boundaries without withdrawal. Difficult
for that. Difficult. See, I don't try to match
something which is unmatchable. This is not a
fancy tale. This is not a fairy tale where you
dream of, you know, Santa and, you know, fairies
with wings and Cupid and whatnot rubbish. Ashteshwara
practices emotional transparency without control.
Not ideal for those who are seeking light, romance,
emotional ease. Like I said, the highest desirable
potential in an intimate relationship is peace
on both parties. It should be easy on both parties.
If you are intense like Rakshasa Gana, pick up
another Rakshasa Gana with that numerological
dynamic which I am bringing in cases here. Don't
go for somebody softer. If you are on the softer
side, pick somebody softer. Not somebody who
is rough and tough and wants it in a bitty sense.
It's not going to work for you. Light romance
and emotional ease are at risk in this relationship.
Non -attached partnership. Let's take another
one in this, just to give it more grounding here.
So now we have placed the man. in Chitranakshatra,
in Libra, the Libra side of Chitra, the first
Upadasa. And she is still in Sravana Nakshatra
mode. So what does this kind of a mismatch give?
Chitra is Rakshasana. This pairing is one of
conscious listening, anchored to disciplined
purpose meeting aesthetic control seeking emotional
equilibrium. See, it's trying desperately to
match. I'm reading off the analysis. So it's
trying desperately to be positive and trying
desperately to be positive. Listening intelligence
is what Shravana, what she brings. She's got
restraint, Capricorn. Responsibility to understand.
Moral awareness, disciplined containment, very
slow to respond, very contained response takes
time. Shravana, Capricorn Moon. Shaan, a woman,
does not dominate space emotionally. She observes,
she integrates, then assumes responsibility.
That's the Devala part of her. Chitra, on the
other hand, in Libra, does not seek chaos. He
seeks ace, he seeks symmetry, refinement, Libra,
and controlled beauty in relationships. There
are masculine and feminine aspects, of course,
but now I will take the risky keywords because
we are trying to see the heart. Kala mismatch,
okay? The discord zones. This is the uncomfortable
truth. She is a Deva woman. He is a Rakshasa
man. Different nakshatra. So primary friction,
how it will play out in this dynamic. She processes
through listening and integration. He processes
through correction and control. It's a Mars rule
nakshatra. There will be the harshness of Mars.
She values clarity and meaning. He values design
and order. She sets boundaries through restraint.
He tests boundaries through refinement and adjustment
again. Rakshasa Gana will try to penetrate the
boundaries of the partner. So you better take
another Rakshasa Gana out to have a nice match.
This is not a loud conflict. It's a silent misalignment.
Emotional clash patterns. He may feel emotionally
unmanaged. when she observes instead of responding,
he wants the response. And she is just observing
quietly and he might end up saying something
like, why are you so quiet? I need a response.
And now Prasanna is fast in certain sense, especially
Maharsana Kshetra, Dhanishtha Kshetra and Murugshira
are fast in their responses. His urge to improve
the bond meets her need to let meaning unfold
naturally. She listens to understand he intervenes
to optimize. This is the risks, big risks between
Devan and Raksha. Sexual emotional risk, harmony
replacing vulnerability. There you are. Said
it nicely. Guidance turning emotionally distant,
desire becoming conditional on things feeling
right. That is on her side. She waits for things
to feel right, and only then she will respond.
Meanwhile, the guy has more on his 20 ,000 affairs
with other women. Why? Because he wants now.
Intimacy risk becomes an aesthetic, but muted,
where everything works, yet nothing melts. There
is no fusion. There is no bonding. Intimacy is
about bonding on all levels, even Mercury and
Venus. If unconscious, this becomes a listener
architect. One hears deeply other rearranges
constantly This way this becomes instructional
not romantic if you want to carry on a romance
through life Not just the first two years of
banging around Later finish your you know honeymoon
period. Let's see Let's wait for in a couple
of years and see how it goes kind of that's the
real test of any relationship I would say Strength,
high emotional intelligence, strong capacity
for social stability, mutual respect, ability
to build long -lasting Deva, well -regulated
partnership structures. There is an ability.
Just because there is a potential doesn't mean
it will happen. You've got to pay attention to
the signature of these nakshatras very carefully
before you go on matchmaking spree. Danger is
emotional politeness, replacing intimacy, control
disguised as balance. listening without emotional
disclosure. One is very cold. Chitra will come
across as very cold to Devakana. Actually, it
is not. It's the person seeking different things.
Shravana allows warmth alongside wisdom, not
just understanding. Chitra allows disorder alongside
beauty, not constant correction. So, you might
say this is conscious relation. You might speak
any number of volumes of you know how this can
work how this cannot work blah blah blah it doesn't
work like that in the pairing you got to be even
if the numerological aspects are matched if the
gun is mismatched you have a problem on your
hands try not to do that to begin with otherwise
they will have to work a lot even if i start
counseling them they will have to work i will
have to do detail you know natal then navamsa
are you doing this kind of a thing with her are
you doing that kind of a thing with him So then
it will require a ton of counselling. I'm just
trying to short circuit the process, save a lot
of trouble for you. Then you're trying to understand
a partner because you're living together every
day, morning till night. If this becomes an emotional
mismatch, it becomes difficult for people to
handle. They want other stuff going on, come
on. Relationship is not the only thing going
on in people's lives. They have work, work pressures.
bank -balanced thing, put food on the table.
Who has got time to worry about such things,
isn't it? I will see you in the next one. Take
care.