Hello ladies and gentlemen, welcome to the intimacy
podcast series. We are doing the Rakshasa Kanas
and now we shall do Moola nakshatra. Moola nakshatra
by default is not very good at intimacy at all.
The reason is they are too analytical. That's
the sign, the elephant code and the punch of
fruits. It's a very severing kind of nakshatra,
very harsh nakshatra. So this Moola nakshatra
poor woman is governed by Mula nakshatra. She
loves to dig into everything that he does like
sort of a micro examination of everything that
the person does. And so he will feel very infringed
upon. Doesn't matter which nakshatra it is, Mula
is very tough. It is Nriti, isn't it? Goddess
of dissolution like the Kali energy. Now you
stick that in a woman, it becomes really so.
So Mula nakshatra is not traditionally difficult.
to associate with a soft thing like intimacy,
because it will go penetrating the roots every
single time. That's the main thing. Also, if
you see this chart here, in the 1, 3, 4, 7, 10,
11 dynamic matching, Mona Nakshatra has very
few. It has nothing in 4. It has nothing in 7,
because those are all Devaganas and Manusheganas.
It has some in 3. Dhanishta and Shatbisha in
Aquarius and it has one in 10 and 11 which is
Chitra basically the same nakshatra in two different
Padas, isn't it? Virgo and Libra. So we shall
do in this podcast just as a sample of how weird
relationships can get for this particular lady
but still matching and dynamic with the respective
raksha sanghanas in the same numerical numerical
excess which we are talking about 3 and 11 or
10 and 4 let's do two of them just as an example.
So let's see what this dynamic brings us. So
remember Mulanakshatra is very penetrative, it
is very dissective, it is very harsh. It is very
analytical of things. It's in Sagittarius. This
is the first part of Sagittarius, Moola Nagshatra.
Again, there will be a Sagittarian dynamic of
giving out, dishing out rules and regulations
about everything. Sagittarians love to do that.
It's a Guru rule Nagshatra. Science isn't in
Sagittarius. In Sagittarius, Jupiter loves to
dictate rules and regulations all the time. So,
Moola, what does it bring? Root level truth meeting
systemic vision. Seriously weird. A bond where
effort is philosophical and fulfillment comes
through shared liberation. This is not an emotional
romance. This is an ideological intimacy. Now
if you are getting into this kind of a dynamic
man or a woman, it doesn't matter. I've just
taken samples. You better be ready for a very
ideological conversation. between the two minds
and hearts. If your ideologies don't match, you
see some couples getting married because their
ideologies match. Typically, they would be in
this kind. Truth -seeking. What does she want?
Truth -seeking. Roots. Destruction of lies to
reveal the truth is Moola, if you remember the
theme. Existential courage. Detachment after
clarity. Philosophical fire, Sagittarius. How
much more do you want to get there? It is philosophy
101. Emotional fearlessness. She wants to release
her karma. Moola woman does not soften reality.
She digs until the root is exposed even if relationship
itself must be redefined. Get ready if you are
hooking up with a Moola woman. Guys, you are
in for a really hectic ride. Not what appears
in flesh, trust me. Shatbisha, Aquarius man.
Now he is airy fairy. This is fire versus air.
So it can be a very good dynamic. Because one
is sitting in Sagittarius, one is sitting in
Aquarius. So air fans the fire. He is a systems
thinker, he is a reformer psyche, he is emotional
detachment. Sorry, I had to go for a quick sneeze
there. Okay, so he is a reformer psyche. He is
unconventional. Shatbisha is as unconventional
as they get. The healer of collectives, aquarius,
future orientation, always thinking about future.
What is coming in the future? Shatbisha is driven
by that. Either in Ascendant or in Boon, they
are driven people by futuristic visions. Autonomy.
Sovereignty. He requires independence to the
max. See, air signs will graduate to Aquarius.
3 goes to 7, goes to 11. So the highest graduation
of an air sign is Aquarius. The 3 -11 axis, how
does it play out? In this dynamic, it plays out
as effort versus fulfillment, truth -seeking
versus ideological expansion. One wants truth,
one wants ideology. You see where I'm coming
from. This is where it meets an ideological connectivity
between the two partners. If you are not ideologically
connected, this relationship will not work. Philosophical
courage versus futuristic vision. Sort of, he
is in Shatbesha, so he can feed her futuristic
visions and she will crunch it with her mind.
Beautiful. It can be fantastic. But you have
to look for the right things in the right places,
folks. This is an axis where conversation reshapes
identity. Intimacy evolves through shared meaning.
Like I said, they have to have the same ideology.
They must be looking at the similar things. The
guy is always in this case talking in terms of
future. You know, what does humanity hold? Where
is the collective going? Blah, blah, blah. And
he will come up with ideas which are fantastic
and futuristic. and she will dissect and help
him through that saying well these are the kind
of conspiracy theories involved or these are
the kind of things you will have to tackle. She
will cut through the lies very fast. So the feminine
moon here in this case bonds through exposure
of truth. Moola is always interested in conspiracy
theories, shared belief systems and existential
honesty, expresses love by challenging assumptions,
dismantling illusions and demanding authenticity.
She will cut through all your lies very fast.
So don't lie to a Murana Kshetra woman. She will
spot you in a jiffy. Needs freedom, philosophical
parity, meaning over comfort. She wants to know
the meanings. She's highly cerebral in nature.
Well, so is he, but in a different form. Nothing
is hidden, nothing is fake here. Then that's
when it feels safe for her. She requires root
-level bonding, liberation attachment, and truth
-first intimacy. Like I said, don't try to lie
to a Moolana Kshetra man or a woman. You will
be caught faster than you can set tummy -tuck.
Masculine moon, on the other hand, Shatvesha
man, bonds through intellectual resonance. Shared
missions, that's the key here. Shared missions.
Ideological respect, yes. If she can agree on
all these things with him, you can have a rock
and roll time in this world. No stopping you
guys. Expresses love by problem solving, enabling
freedom. Standing beside without enclosing. He
requires freedom. Air requires freedom to function.
Needs autonomy. Needs emotional non intrusion.
That's for him. Respect for independence. Feel
secure when his individuality is not emotionally
policied. She has a tendency to policy. Sagittarius
likes to put policy and laws and rules and regulations
everywhere. This is why those kind of Sagittarian
dominant people end up in institutions as professors,
as teachers, making bureaucrats out of everything.
Who love to dish out policies. Policy makers
are Sagittarius. If you stick moon in it, it
becomes your emotional governance, isn't it?
Detach loyalty, visionary bonding and autonomous
intimacy. So how does it play out in sexual intimacy
and dynamics, for example? The overall tone is
cerebral, intermittent, understated and ideologically
charged perfect words for this relationship.
Desire ignites from mental alignment. Sexuality
is selective, private, non -performative. They
are not interested in too much getting into each
other's bodies. It has to be mind here. Sexuality
is selective. Intimacy deepens after a philosophical
convergence. Let's say this man and woman are
sitting discussing something deeply philosophical
and there is a bird resonance flowing. Suddenly
they might feel sexually charged. just because
they happen to be converging a number of points.
This is an ideological intimacy. Strong attraction
to intelligence, originality and independence.
The arousal keys for the mullah woman is authenticity,
fearlessness, truth without dilution. These are
the kind of, if this is a mullah, if you're a
mullah woman listening to this, you will be like,
don't try to be, you know, pandering to me. Give
it to me straight up. What is it that you require?
And she will challenge every kind of idea that
you have. So she requires truth without dilution.
That's Moolana Kshetra. Shatibhishya man on the
other hand requires space, requires intellectual
stimulation, freedom. He requires his freedom
to move freely through ether. Shatibhishya is
ether. Varuna, space, ether. It penetrates everything.
best expression is quiet intimacy late night
conversations like I said it's a conversational
dynamic we think alike kind of bonding that will
lead to other forms of intimacy but your starting
point should be this should match first sort
of the criteria should be very clear on this
how does it matter the basic core impact now
how does it happen It's a low drama, mentally
aligned, emotionally restrained. Each one is
not looking for a lot of emotion. At least they
might be, but they are not necessarily feeling
intimacy in these aspects. They are more cerebral
in nature. Evolution driven over time, because
it's a three level dynamic. Best for those who
value truth, freedom, intellectual partnership
and parity. Ideological clarity. personal evolution.
These are the keywords that make this relationship
work. And this is not ideal for those who want
emotional fusion, reassurance, traditional romantic
expression. See, expression can change folks
and it does and it will. All that is we are discovering
or unraveling in this series, you have to understand
is the signature, the quality, the dynamic that
plays out. between two people. It's not one person
in a relationship, it's two. It's your chart
versus the other person's chart. It's your moon
versus other moon, Venus versus Venus, so on.
Isn't it? That's why it's called Sinistri. Let
us do one more, which is her Moolana Kshetra.
And let's get this guy over here to the tenth
position, that is Kshetra in Virgo. Let's see
what that comes like. Alright, folks. Let's wrap
up Moola Nakshatra with this placement. Okay,
so her moon is still in Moola. I won't go through
the Moola again because we've already sort of
covered her characteristics. We'll try to match
it with his. Now, he is in Chitra Nakshatra,
the first two Padas in Virgo. Next two Padas
are in Libra, like you can see. Even 11 is matched,
but I'll let you do that as a homework. Now,
what does this lead us to? The Sin history part.
Okay. His now is a Virgo man. So, it's more of
precision intelligence, analytical craftsmanship,
corrective instinct, service through structure,
aesthetic order and improvement mindset, quiet
control. That is his signature, which is very
different from Shatvesha. This is grounded. This
is Virgo. And has detailed and as precise Chitra.
Chitra is very highly creative. It's a mars,
runak, chitra first of all and it's Vishwa Karma.
So, it's creative intelligence. Chitra and Virgo
doesn't dramatize chaos. He fixes it. He's the
Vishwa Karma. He's the fixer of things. He's
a celestial architect. His power is in designing
systems that work. How does 10 -4 axis play out?
Public direction versus private stability. Truth
-driven movement versus methodical containment.
Destruction versus reconstruction. One is intent
on destroying, the other wants to construct.
it's a very strong dynamic as you can see this
is a vision maintenance access one reveals truth
the other sustains function so it can be seriously
well matched seriously well matched this is the
serious dynamic of a relationship it's good if
you have it the feminine mullah what does she
do expose the truth shared meaning freedom preserved
we already saw this Let us see what he brings
to the table now as a Chitra Virgo man. Bonds
through problem solving, consistency and functional
loyalty. Expresses love by organizing, correcting
and maintaining stability quietly. What he needs?
Predictability, usefulness and appreciation for
effort. Feel secure when life is managed and
orderly. Keywords here being corrective bonding,
service -based attachment, and structured devotion.
Why service -based? Well, its work was the sixth
sign. Sexual intimacy and dynamics. How does
it play out? Grounded, corrective, restrained,
and functional. The tenfold dynamic combined
with Moola, combined with Chitra. 100%. Desire
grows through trust and routine. Sexuality is
subtle, responsive, and maintenance oriented.
They want to maintain tenfold dynamic he's talking
about here. Intimacy improves when lifestyle
logistics stabilize. Both are intent on maintaining
certain structure, especially him, because he's
grounded. She's more of a fire. Fire and earth
typically do not match. fire and air match, water
and earth match. So there is a dynamic of elements
you always got to keep in mind. I'm just discussing
when you pair nakshatras like this, what ends
up happening even if I match the ganas. You see,
elements have to be taken care as per classical
Jyotish principles. Desire grows through trust
and routine. Sexuality is subtle, responsive
and maintenance oriented. Attraction exists more
than reliability, more on reliability than a
fantasy. So these people are very grounded, Virgo
grounds, he grounds everything. She's on a fire
trip. Moola woman is requires authenticity, intellectual
courage and freedom without chaos. Chitra man
wants order, calm rhythm and mutual usefulness.
So the best possible outcome. Since we always
tend to look for that. Stable intimacy, quiet
closeness, life works better with you kind of
bonding. Risk again, Rakshatrana, typical risks.
Emotional dryness. If everything is functional,
why did you choose to hook up with one another?
That's what nakshatra is. Nakshatra and Jyotish
system does not give fantasies people. It gives
reality as much as reality gets. As much as sun
is going to rise in the east, now Jyotish will
tell you exactly what's going on in your life.
Over -analysis replacing connection. She's too
analytical. Criticism replacing warmth. These
are all the risk factors in any rational matching.
You're not looking for that, isn't it? Stop being
hypocritical with yourself. Vision versus routine
mismatch. Fixing instead of feeling. This is
a risk with all Rakshasa Vedas. So the overlay
in the strength of this pairing can be, they
can rebuild lives, correct karma, stabilize chaos
after collapse. Both are quite strong in that.
One is rebuilding, one is destroying. Danger
is if emotional warmth is ignored, it becomes
a functional arrangement without intimacy. Just
a sidebar here. Always take care of what planets
are in your cancer. both the man and the woman,
doesn't matter which nakshatra or which gana.
The essential derivative of having an intimate
relationship is to have peace. The fourth house,
the home front is for peace, it's for heart.
Heart of any intimacy should be built around
this. Okay, back to this. If emotional warmth
is ignored, it becomes functional arrangement
without intimacy. This kind of relationship pairing,
both the man and the woman, is best for those
who value truth, structure, repair, discipline,
growth and practical partnership. Orgo is practical.
Not ideal for those seeking romance, first bonding,
emotional fluidity. There is a lot of rigidity
in this. And fantasy -driven intimacy. It's not
ideal for those. There's nothing ideal in this
relationship box. It'll be as grounded and as
strong as it comes. Next one onwards, I shall
do the mismatch, the danger zones. I'll match
Dev Gana with Rakshasa Gana, which goes on a
lot and which can possibly end up in a lot of
divorces. It may begin to explain why so many
divorces are happening, even in India, let alone
abroad. Poor people don't even know these things.
I'll see you in the next take care. Be safe.