WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.839 Hey wonderful people, welcome to my channel. 00:00:03.879 --> 00:00:06.700 Continuing our discussion on intimacy series, 00:00:06.820 --> 00:00:09.199 now we come to Jaitanakshatra. Let's take a couple 00:00:09.199 --> 00:00:12.460 of examples from there and see how the dynamics 00:00:12.460 --> 00:00:16.140 of intimacy match. Now you could go to the rules 00:00:16.140 --> 00:00:19.559 which I've already listed but just on the sidebar, 00:00:20.899 --> 00:00:24.079 we talk of intimacy. And in what terms am I speaking 00:00:24.079 --> 00:00:27.239 of? Something beyond the flesh and bones, something 00:00:27.239 --> 00:00:31.460 beyond which is very deeply internal. So you're 00:00:31.460 --> 00:00:33.700 living with a person, you're dating a person, 00:00:33.740 --> 00:00:36.979 whatever the situation might be. You want to 00:00:36.979 --> 00:00:40.520 know what's going behind the eyes, what's going 00:00:40.520 --> 00:00:43.820 on deeply internal in the person. That's intimacy, 00:00:44.520 --> 00:00:49.100 in my little definition at least. Once you know 00:00:49.100 --> 00:00:51.719 that, whatever the kind of man or woman it is, 00:00:51.820 --> 00:00:54.659 You know the deeper dynamics of being a human. 00:00:55.659 --> 00:00:59.100 This is as human as it gets. This is what we 00:00:59.100 --> 00:01:03.340 are here to do in terms of bonding with another, 00:01:03.799 --> 00:01:06.079 in terms of giving allowance to the other to 00:01:06.079 --> 00:01:10.359 be as they are, you be as you are, and I'll be 00:01:10.359 --> 00:01:14.560 as I am. If this single theme does not play in 00:01:14.560 --> 00:01:17.879 the dynamics of your intimacy, if your relationship, 00:01:18.400 --> 00:01:20.700 whether you're married, whether you are in dating, 00:01:20.890 --> 00:01:25.049 doesn't matter. The thread that should run through 00:01:25.049 --> 00:01:28.450 your relationship factors should be this. And 00:01:28.450 --> 00:01:31.730 that's what I'm exploring. People always jump 00:01:31.730 --> 00:01:34.409 to the conclusions when it comes to astrology, 00:01:34.510 --> 00:01:37.709 which is a big mistake in my opinion, because 00:01:37.709 --> 00:01:40.629 they ignore the present. They always go to the 00:01:40.629 --> 00:01:43.349 futuristic stuff, which is definitely the mind. 00:01:43.909 --> 00:01:46.650 Isn't it? Mind struggles with the present. It 00:01:46.650 --> 00:01:48.790 wants to go to the past, or it wants to jump 00:01:48.790 --> 00:01:52.409 to the future. Eka totally speaks about this 00:01:52.409 --> 00:01:55.609 very nicely in the power of now, but never mind. 00:01:55.810 --> 00:01:59.209 Let's get back to this. So her moon now is in 00:01:59.209 --> 00:02:04.049 Cheshthanakshetra and his moon is in the fourth 00:02:04.049 --> 00:02:08.969 position which is in Shatbhisha in Aquarius. 00:02:09.030 --> 00:02:11.909 Let's see what this brings. So also when you 00:02:11.909 --> 00:02:15.250 come to Rakshasagana, always be having this in 00:02:15.250 --> 00:02:18.590 mind. The energy is quite intense. The energy 00:02:18.590 --> 00:02:22.250 is quite toxic in nature. All Rakshas are. The 00:02:22.250 --> 00:02:26.370 energy is more self -centric than other focused. 00:02:26.930 --> 00:02:30.310 The energies can run pretty dry, pretty fast. 00:02:30.650 --> 00:02:33.530 There is not much of emotional content there 00:02:33.530 --> 00:02:36.310 like Devagodaya's. This is the contrast between 00:02:36.310 --> 00:02:40.050 the two. And later on I shall do the mismatched 00:02:40.050 --> 00:02:42.610 pairs because that goes on a lot in this civilization, 00:02:42.750 --> 00:02:48.219 isn't it? Even in India, there's a lot of conquest 00:02:48.219 --> 00:02:50.960 battles. You don't want a conquest battle or 00:02:50.960 --> 00:02:53.120 power dynamics playing out in a relationship. 00:02:53.539 --> 00:02:55.419 That's not the whole purpose. You might as well 00:02:55.419 --> 00:02:58.180 be in a corporate world for that. That's where 00:02:58.180 --> 00:03:00.219 all the battles are being played out, not in 00:03:00.219 --> 00:03:06.020 the bedroom. Anyway, let's get back to the dynamics 00:03:06.020 --> 00:03:09.879 of this. Jishtha, Scorpio woman versus Shatpi 00:03:09.879 --> 00:03:13.770 Shah, Aquarius man, the 410 axis, as you can 00:03:13.770 --> 00:03:17.969 see in the screen. This pairing is one of emotional 00:03:17.969 --> 00:03:21.490 command meeting ideological distance, a bond 00:03:21.490 --> 00:03:25.530 where private emotional gravity and public intellectual 00:03:25.530 --> 00:03:29.009 purpose must be learned to coexist without erasing 00:03:29.009 --> 00:03:31.830 one another. See the power dynamic. It will be 00:03:31.830 --> 00:03:37.080 there in all Rakshasakhanas, 100%. Any amount 00:03:37.080 --> 00:03:39.860 of matching you do, Rakshatmana will have a power 00:03:39.860 --> 00:03:42.439 dynamic built in. This is not an easy domestic 00:03:42.439 --> 00:03:45.800 dynamic. This is power held in different dimensions. 00:03:46.099 --> 00:03:49.800 The core weaving will be, he requires, or rather 00:03:49.800 --> 00:03:52.860 she requires, jeshta woman. Okay, just a side 00:03:52.860 --> 00:03:56.180 here. If you remember the theme of jeshta nakshatra, 00:03:58.659 --> 00:04:01.479 it has a theme of being the elder one. Jeshta 00:04:01.479 --> 00:04:05.680 means in Sanskrit the elder one. The mythology 00:04:05.680 --> 00:04:09.439 goes she was the eldest of the wives of the moon 00:04:09.439 --> 00:04:13.219 the 27 nakshatra's are called the 27 wives of 00:04:13.219 --> 00:04:18.879 the moon so Jesta she was a beautiful woman and 00:04:18.879 --> 00:04:24.860 she was the eldest of the 27 wives and yet when 00:04:24.860 --> 00:04:27.620 the younger ones came in moon tended to neglect 00:04:27.620 --> 00:04:30.259 her so she's always has this authority about 00:04:30.259 --> 00:04:33.649 her saying, I'm the elder one, you have to listen 00:04:33.649 --> 00:04:37.370 to me. So jeshta people always have this signature 00:04:37.370 --> 00:04:39.810 moon jeshtas that I'm the elder one, you're supposed 00:04:39.810 --> 00:04:41.750 to listen to me. Sometimes they end up being 00:04:41.750 --> 00:04:44.389 the elder one in the family also. Or even if 00:04:44.389 --> 00:04:46.829 they're younger one, they'll be having a mannerism 00:04:46.829 --> 00:04:49.709 of, I'm the elder one, you're supposed to listen 00:04:49.709 --> 00:04:54.480 to me. You know, that energy. So emotional authority, 00:04:55.040 --> 00:04:57.800 survival intelligence, loyalty, enforcement, 00:04:58.079 --> 00:05:01.959 Scorpio in Jesta becomes very law enforcement 00:05:01.959 --> 00:05:04.379 kind of people. If Mars and Saturn kind of land 00:05:04.379 --> 00:05:06.740 up here, they end up in law enforcement, military. 00:05:08.220 --> 00:05:11.639 Very strong at that. Protective dominance, hierarchy 00:05:11.639 --> 00:05:15.959 awareness, crisis leadership, psychological depth. 00:05:16.279 --> 00:05:18.699 Jesta governs inner sanctum of relationship. 00:05:18.800 --> 00:05:22.449 She needs emotional loyalty. You have to be loyal 00:05:22.449 --> 00:05:24.850 to me. I'm the elder one. That's what she speaks. 00:05:25.610 --> 00:05:29.410 She needs a lot of privacy, a lot of trust, which 00:05:29.410 --> 00:05:32.949 will survive pressure. Shatbisha on the other 00:05:32.949 --> 00:05:37.370 hand is airy -fairy, right? It's a very theeric 00:05:37.370 --> 00:05:40.209 nakshatra. If you go through the themes of nakshatras, 00:05:40.490 --> 00:05:43.529 it's abstract, it's ruled by Varuna, it's air 00:05:43.529 --> 00:05:48.029 -sign, querious. systems thinker, ideological 00:05:48.029 --> 00:05:51.089 independence, reformer mindset, this is him in 00:05:51.089 --> 00:05:54.470 this case, emotional detachment, unconventional 00:05:54.470 --> 00:05:58.589 values, autonomy driven purpose, Shatbisha governs 00:05:58.589 --> 00:06:01.009 the outer mission of life, he orients towards 00:06:01.009 --> 00:06:04.430 causes, social causes, eleven thousand queries, 00:06:05.250 --> 00:06:08.870 futuristic thinking, frameworks larger than personal 00:06:08.870 --> 00:06:11.990 emotion, his mind is working somewhere else and 00:06:11.990 --> 00:06:14.110 she wants something else, let's see how this 00:06:14.110 --> 00:06:18.110 plays. The access the fort and access first. 00:06:18.370 --> 00:06:21.050 What does that provide emotional security versus 00:06:21.050 --> 00:06:24.810 public direction? private power versus ideological 00:06:24.810 --> 00:06:29.750 purpose containment versus detachment Scorpio 00:06:29.750 --> 00:06:33.290 fourth from Aquarius rather Aquarius fourth from 00:06:33.290 --> 00:06:35.970 Scorpio gives emotional root psychological safety 00:06:35.970 --> 00:06:39.089 private bonding Aquarius on the other hand is 00:06:39.089 --> 00:06:41.829 interested in public role social vision intellectual 00:06:41.829 --> 00:06:46.860 contribution Okay So the feminine, how does she 00:06:46.860 --> 00:06:50.220 bond? That's what we need to get to. We are talking 00:06:50.220 --> 00:06:53.459 about intimacy in this case. Bonds through emotional 00:06:53.459 --> 00:06:57.379 loyalty, trust under pressure, depth of attachment, 00:06:57.779 --> 00:07:00.579 expresses love by protecting, managing emotional 00:07:00.579 --> 00:07:04.019 threats, holding private sphere together. Intimacy 00:07:04.019 --> 00:07:08.560 is a very private cocoon, needs emotional transparency, 00:07:08.959 --> 00:07:12.079 reassurance of loyalty, psychological closeness. 00:07:12.839 --> 00:07:15.160 There's the keyword. Psychological closeness 00:07:15.160 --> 00:07:19.000 is what Jesta needs. Feel safe when the relationship 00:07:19.000 --> 00:07:21.759 is emotionally sealed and exclusive. They want 00:07:21.759 --> 00:07:24.579 exclusive stuff. Both Anuradha and Jesta and 00:07:24.579 --> 00:07:27.000 Scorpio. Scorpio wants everything for myself. 00:07:27.199 --> 00:07:30.879 This is a one man woman because she is Scorpio 00:07:30.879 --> 00:07:34.399 in this case. Rooted attachment, private authority, 00:07:34.800 --> 00:07:38.439 emotional command. It's a protective type of 00:07:38.439 --> 00:07:41.500 dominance she needs. Scorpio is very dominant. 00:07:41.519 --> 00:07:45.509 It's ruled by Mars and Ketu. Masculine moon, 00:07:45.810 --> 00:07:49.129 on the other hand, the Shatvisha man, he's also 00:07:49.129 --> 00:07:51.990 Rakshashana, but he bonds through shared ideals, 00:07:52.410 --> 00:07:55.050 intellectual respect. If the Chishtha woman is 00:07:55.050 --> 00:07:57.589 hooked up with a curious man, in this case, Shatvisha, 00:07:57.750 --> 00:08:00.129 he better have respect for his cerebral capacity. 00:08:00.470 --> 00:08:03.189 They have immense cerebral capacity, Shatvisha, 00:08:03.509 --> 00:08:06.629 immense. But if they're not appreciated, they 00:08:06.629 --> 00:08:10.310 can get really attacked, or feel attacked, or 00:08:10.310 --> 00:08:15.000 they may end up attacking. Non -invasive partnership, 00:08:15.060 --> 00:08:19.379 see? Expresses love from a distance, problem 00:08:19.379 --> 00:08:22.480 solving, enabling independence. He is independent, 00:08:22.779 --> 00:08:25.279 Aquarius is as independent as they come, and 00:08:25.279 --> 00:08:28.220 it demands that kind of independence also from 00:08:28.220 --> 00:08:31.959 you. Need what? What are his needs? Freedom of 00:08:31.959 --> 00:08:33.879 movement. All your science will require that. 00:08:33.879 --> 00:08:36.259 Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Freedom of movement. 00:08:36.500 --> 00:08:39.259 It's air. It needs to move. You can't trap it 00:08:39.259 --> 00:08:43.190 in a room. Ideological space. Let him think whatever 00:08:43.190 --> 00:08:45.470 he wants. He'll come up with the most fantastic 00:08:45.470 --> 00:08:49.850 ideas. Emotional non -interference. Feel secure 00:08:49.850 --> 00:08:52.549 when he is not emotionally confined or monitored. 00:08:52.789 --> 00:08:55.450 The keywords here for him is detached loyalty. 00:08:55.889 --> 00:08:58.909 He observes from a distance. He's not interested 00:08:58.909 --> 00:09:01.950 in hooking up. You can't hook air, okay? Gemini, 00:09:01.950 --> 00:09:06.690 Libra, Aquarius. They are movers. Mission -oriented 00:09:06.690 --> 00:09:10.460 bonding. Autonomous intimacy. Rakshatha here 00:09:10.460 --> 00:09:14.059 being boundary sovereignty not coldness. You 00:09:14.059 --> 00:09:16.220 respect boundaries with Aquarius, you respect 00:09:16.220 --> 00:09:18.879 boundaries with Libra, you respect boundaries 00:09:18.879 --> 00:09:22.279 with Gemini, all their signs. Sexual intimacy 00:09:22.279 --> 00:09:26.080 dynamics follows as desire depends upon emotional 00:09:26.080 --> 00:09:29.940 safety for her, desire for him depends upon mental 00:09:29.940 --> 00:09:33.720 freedom. How it changes? These are different 00:09:33.720 --> 00:09:37.559 needs. These are not the same needs. Sexuality 00:09:37.559 --> 00:09:40.440 may ebb and flow with life, stress, and public 00:09:40.440 --> 00:09:43.460 obligations. Because it's that 410 dynamic playing, 00:09:43.720 --> 00:09:46.980 isn't it? Personal life versus public life. Work 00:09:46.980 --> 00:09:50.200 -life balance, so to speak. Intimacy thrives 00:09:50.200 --> 00:09:52.879 in privacy, silence, and emotional containment. 00:09:54.120 --> 00:09:57.419 Arousal. For her, it is loyalty, reassurance, 00:09:57.659 --> 00:10:00.000 emotional presence, and protected intimacy. So 00:10:00.000 --> 00:10:02.919 she requires all these keywords. For him, trust 00:10:02.919 --> 00:10:06.460 without intrusion, intellectual respect, and 00:10:06.460 --> 00:10:09.299 freedom preserved. So the best possible outcome 00:10:09.299 --> 00:10:12.340 here would be a quiet bonding, off -grid intimacy. 00:10:12.759 --> 00:10:15.419 They can do lots of unconventional things as 00:10:15.419 --> 00:10:19.539 I see this pair. Because she just wants protection 00:10:19.539 --> 00:10:22.259 from him while he wants freedom. As long as this 00:10:22.259 --> 00:10:24.539 is kept, this rule is kept. This is why it's 00:10:24.539 --> 00:10:26.840 important to understand these things. You can 00:10:26.840 --> 00:10:29.580 have a fantastic time, sort of very off -grid 00:10:29.580 --> 00:10:32.840 intimacy. We don't explain ourselves kind of 00:10:32.840 --> 00:10:35.600 closeness. We are who we are as a couple. You 00:10:35.600 --> 00:10:40.019 become that strong couple. The risk being emotional 00:10:40.019 --> 00:10:43.159 security versus emotional distance, private loyalty 00:10:43.159 --> 00:10:45.779 clashing with public commitment, 410 dynamic. 00:10:46.019 --> 00:10:49.220 Surveillance versus withdrawal. Say Aquarius 00:10:49.220 --> 00:10:52.240 is very penetrative in Shatvesha especially. 00:10:53.000 --> 00:10:55.200 It wants to penetrate everything, know about 00:10:55.200 --> 00:10:59.480 everything. Very cerebral, very penetrative cerebral 00:10:59.480 --> 00:11:01.679 kind of thinking is Shatvesha. Go through the 00:11:01.679 --> 00:11:04.500 Nakshatrapeel list if you want more. Power struggles 00:11:04.500 --> 00:11:08.039 over availability. Are you available? Shatbisha 00:11:08.039 --> 00:11:10.320 is difficult to control. It's hardly available. 00:11:10.620 --> 00:11:14.360 It just tends to walk on a tangent. Shatbisha 00:11:14.360 --> 00:11:18.080 people moan in Shatbisha. Emotional isolation 00:11:18.080 --> 00:11:20.779 inside of her relationship. She might feel like 00:11:20.779 --> 00:11:23.480 that. Definitely. Because she needs more of that 00:11:23.480 --> 00:11:27.059 emotional closeness being in Scorpio. How does 00:11:27.059 --> 00:11:30.750 Rakshasa gonna play here? Both are Rakshatana, 00:11:30.950 --> 00:11:33.470 but the power dynamics change. Jayastha, power 00:11:33.470 --> 00:11:37.110 through emotional depth and loyalty enforcement. 00:11:37.289 --> 00:11:39.690 She wants to enforce that loyalty. Jayastha and 00:11:39.690 --> 00:11:43.570 Rakshatana is really strong in this, either moan 00:11:43.570 --> 00:11:46.570 or in ascendant. If your ascendant is in Scorpion 00:11:46.570 --> 00:11:50.750 Jayastha, you will enforce that kind of listen 00:11:50.750 --> 00:11:54.230 to me first. What I am doing is correct. You 00:11:54.230 --> 00:11:56.190 don't know what you are doing. That energy is 00:11:56.190 --> 00:11:59.840 really strong, especially in ascendant. Shatbisha, 00:12:00.000 --> 00:12:02.740 power through autonomy, vision and social distance. 00:12:03.100 --> 00:12:06.240 Shatbisha says, take two steps back, all right? 00:12:06.600 --> 00:12:08.980 You don't think you are everybody in this world. 00:12:10.100 --> 00:12:12.740 The strength this pairing can form deeply resilient 00:12:12.740 --> 00:12:15.759 but unconventional bond. Yes, there is that signature. 00:12:16.100 --> 00:12:18.139 This bond is quite unconventional, especially 00:12:18.139 --> 00:12:21.240 when both respect each other's domains. That's 00:12:21.240 --> 00:12:24.230 the key to making this thing work. The danger 00:12:24.230 --> 00:12:26.809 is, without conscious emotional agreements, this 00:12:26.809 --> 00:12:30.190 becomes a lonely relationship inside of a committed 00:12:30.190 --> 00:12:33.429 structure. You might be married for 20 ,000 years. 00:12:33.870 --> 00:12:37.330 Nobody cares. How are you making it work on a 00:12:37.330 --> 00:12:40.450 day -to -day basis? That's intimacy at its best. 00:12:41.129 --> 00:12:43.049 Not what you're trying to accomplish and show 00:12:43.049 --> 00:12:46.049 off to the world. Jesta allows to do that. Show 00:12:46.049 --> 00:12:48.409 off my husband, my husband. She will be doing 00:12:48.409 --> 00:12:51.230 that in this case. Because the husband says, 00:12:51.440 --> 00:12:54.399 I'm not an independent person of my own. Just 00:12:54.399 --> 00:12:57.220 turn it down a little. Introduce me by name, 00:12:57.279 --> 00:13:02.399 not by a role. That can figure it. So this is 00:13:02.399 --> 00:13:06.240 very intense, structurally demanding and emotional 00:13:06.240 --> 00:13:10.500 selection kind of a pairing. Let us hear the 00:13:10.500 --> 00:13:18.129 combination. What shall we do next? Let us take 00:13:18.129 --> 00:13:20.730 1 -7 dynamic. We haven't taken that. Let us place 00:13:20.730 --> 00:13:25.850 this guy in the 7th position from Jesta which 00:13:25.850 --> 00:13:28.850 now becomes Taurus in Krittika. I'm only matching 00:13:28.850 --> 00:13:31.769 Gana here. Will do the mismatches later on. So 00:13:31.769 --> 00:13:35.490 let's begin. Jesta, she's still the same but 00:13:35.490 --> 00:13:39.950 the man now is sitting in Krittikamakshetra within 00:13:39.950 --> 00:13:43.750 Taurus. Okay. The dominant portion of Krittika 00:13:43.750 --> 00:13:47.190 is in Taurus. Only the first Pada is in Aries, 00:13:47.330 --> 00:13:49.289 where's Aries guy here? The sixth house. Don't 00:13:49.289 --> 00:13:52.110 try to match 6, 8, 12. Please, don't have disaster 00:13:52.110 --> 00:13:55.649 scenarios in your bedroom. Okay, let's get to 00:13:55.649 --> 00:13:58.690 the dynamics of it. I won't go through the Scorpio 00:13:58.690 --> 00:14:01.509 again because you know her characteristics. What 00:14:01.509 --> 00:14:04.309 is his now? What has she got to match with as 00:14:04.309 --> 00:14:07.929 the elder one? Boundary enforcement, survival 00:14:07.929 --> 00:14:12.639 fire. Kritika is a knife that cuts. Moral clarity, 00:14:13.100 --> 00:14:16.399 physical authority, endurance, protector instinct 00:14:16.399 --> 00:14:19.940 and cutting decisiveness. Kritika people are 00:14:19.940 --> 00:14:22.159 good in management because they are very decisive 00:14:22.159 --> 00:14:25.899 in their ways. Kritika and Taurus is contained 00:14:25.899 --> 00:14:29.720 fire. Steady territorial unyielding ones committed, 00:14:29.899 --> 00:14:33.460 they are quite committed. So the one seven axis 00:14:33.460 --> 00:14:36.700 is the mirroring principle, the dynamic attraction. 00:14:37.289 --> 00:14:40.549 the self versus other, the control versus resistance, 00:14:40.850 --> 00:14:45.590 the identity versus projection. How does this 00:14:45.590 --> 00:14:49.710 feel? This relationship feels fated, unavoidable, 00:14:49.950 --> 00:14:52.470 magnetic attraction, there is magnetism here. 00:14:53.129 --> 00:14:56.250 You are either engaged or you are at war with 00:14:56.250 --> 00:14:59.409 one another. One seven axis typically is like 00:14:59.409 --> 00:15:02.309 this, doesn't matter which Guna you take. The 00:15:02.309 --> 00:15:05.470 feminine moan, loyalty testing, emotional depth 00:15:05.470 --> 00:15:10.110 for her Jesta. and power recognition. Identity 00:15:10.110 --> 00:15:13.029 based attachment, dominance through insight and 00:15:13.029 --> 00:15:16.649 survival bonding. Rakshata Gana here demands 00:15:16.649 --> 00:15:21.190 emotional authority not chaos. What about him? 00:15:21.830 --> 00:15:24.450 Bonds through provision, protection, physical 00:15:24.450 --> 00:15:27.750 reliability and moral clarity. Expresses love 00:15:27.750 --> 00:15:31.490 by holding ground, enforcing boundaries, sustaining 00:15:31.490 --> 00:15:34.909 the bond materially. Taurus is materialistic. 00:15:35.110 --> 00:15:38.220 He is looking for money. He's looking for material 00:15:38.220 --> 00:15:40.940 prosperity. He's looking for physical stuff. 00:15:42.360 --> 00:15:45.559 Needs respect, predictability and non -manipulative 00:15:45.559 --> 00:15:48.840 intimacy. You can't manipulate. He's very sharp. 00:15:50.019 --> 00:15:52.419 Feels secure when the relationship is loyal, 00:15:52.759 --> 00:15:57.379 exclusive and stable. Controlled fire, not volatility. 00:15:57.539 --> 00:16:01.259 Sexual intimacy and dynamics playing out as magnetic, 00:16:02.120 --> 00:16:05.340 confrontational, territorial, deeply embodied. 00:16:06.000 --> 00:16:10.139 One is an earth sign, one is an water sign. They 00:16:10.139 --> 00:16:12.720 can support each other if you take the elemental 00:16:12.720 --> 00:16:16.519 part because earth is holding the water, isn't 00:16:16.519 --> 00:16:20.179 it? Always. So he has to become the holding vessel 00:16:20.179 --> 00:16:24.159 for her, so to speak. Desire ignites through 00:16:24.159 --> 00:16:26.940 opposition. Sexuality is possessive, grounding 00:16:26.940 --> 00:16:32.159 and intense. Strong polarity between psychological 00:16:32.159 --> 00:16:35.100 control, which is her, versus physical presence, 00:16:35.120 --> 00:16:39.360 which is him. Intimacy often follows after a 00:16:39.360 --> 00:16:42.000 confrontational or emotional stand -offs. These 00:16:42.000 --> 00:16:43.840 are the kind of relationships where they have 00:16:43.840 --> 00:16:46.879 fights and next minutes they are doing it like 00:16:46.879 --> 00:16:49.620 rabbits in the bedroom or anywhere or on the 00:16:49.620 --> 00:16:53.039 kitchen shelf, wherever. Loyalty proven under 00:16:53.039 --> 00:16:56.679 pressure, just a woman. Emotional fearlessness, 00:16:57.000 --> 00:17:00.559 partners, steadiness. Kritika wants trust, physical 00:17:00.559 --> 00:17:02.620 closeness, respect for boundaries. You can't 00:17:02.620 --> 00:17:05.019 cross Kritika's boundaries, he'll cut you off. 00:17:06.029 --> 00:17:08.970 So the risky keywords become power struggles, 00:17:09.549 --> 00:17:12.630 emotional manipulation. She is quite manipulative. 00:17:13.849 --> 00:17:16.529 Being Jesta, okay? Being in Scorpio is quite 00:17:16.529 --> 00:17:18.650 manipulative. That's why they make good in law 00:17:18.650 --> 00:17:21.250 enforcement. But you can't bring law enforcement 00:17:21.250 --> 00:17:23.730 to the bedroom. This is where the dynamics have 00:17:23.730 --> 00:17:26.950 to be understood. Control through fear versus 00:17:26.950 --> 00:17:29.930 control through withdrawal. Trust erosion through 00:17:29.930 --> 00:17:33.869 testing. Exhaustion from constant polarity. One 00:17:33.869 --> 00:17:39.119 -seven. So this is a high intensity pairing. 00:17:39.799 --> 00:17:42.759 Fated, confrontational, sexually magnetic, psychologically 00:17:42.759 --> 00:17:46.940 exhausting, if unconscious. Can be really exhausting. 00:17:47.880 --> 00:17:50.880 Best for those who value depth, loyalty, strength, 00:17:51.339 --> 00:17:53.799 embodied intimacy, truth under pressure. There's 00:17:53.799 --> 00:17:56.539 a lot of pressure in this dynamic. Not ideal 00:17:56.539 --> 00:18:00.480 for those seeking ease, emotional softness or 00:18:00.480 --> 00:18:06.480 low conflict companionship. I think I will call 00:18:06.480 --> 00:18:12.079 it stops for this one in this since we can go 00:18:12.079 --> 00:18:15.339 on to even Maha Nakshatra. She will be paired 00:18:15.339 --> 00:18:17.859 good with Maha. That will be a 10 -4 dynamic. 00:18:18.680 --> 00:18:22.099 She can also be paired with Chitra in Virgo because 00:18:22.099 --> 00:18:24.980 that's a 11 -3 dynamic. You can do that analysis. 00:18:25.279 --> 00:18:28.359 I kept all the files and shared it in the description 00:18:28.359 --> 00:18:30.640 box or in the community tab. You can go through 00:18:30.640 --> 00:18:33.910 the intimacy files. Do some matching on your 00:18:33.910 --> 00:18:35.690 own. I think it will give you a very good sense 00:18:35.690 --> 00:18:38.829 of grounding of what these principles are like 00:18:38.829 --> 00:18:41.450 and how they play out. I shall see you in the 00:18:41.450 --> 00:18:42.089 next. Take care.