Hey wonderful people, welcome to my channel.
Continuing our discussion on intimacy series,
now we come to Jaitanakshatra. Let's take a couple
of examples from there and see how the dynamics
of intimacy match. Now you could go to the rules
which I've already listed but just on the sidebar,
we talk of intimacy. And in what terms am I speaking
of? Something beyond the flesh and bones, something
beyond which is very deeply internal. So you're
living with a person, you're dating a person,
whatever the situation might be. You want to
know what's going behind the eyes, what's going
on deeply internal in the person. That's intimacy,
in my little definition at least. Once you know
that, whatever the kind of man or woman it is,
You know the deeper dynamics of being a human.
This is as human as it gets. This is what we
are here to do in terms of bonding with another,
in terms of giving allowance to the other to
be as they are, you be as you are, and I'll be
as I am. If this single theme does not play in
the dynamics of your intimacy, if your relationship,
whether you're married, whether you are in dating,
doesn't matter. The thread that should run through
your relationship factors should be this. And
that's what I'm exploring. People always jump
to the conclusions when it comes to astrology,
which is a big mistake in my opinion, because
they ignore the present. They always go to the
futuristic stuff, which is definitely the mind.
Isn't it? Mind struggles with the present. It
wants to go to the past, or it wants to jump
to the future. Eka totally speaks about this
very nicely in the power of now, but never mind.
Let's get back to this. So her moon now is in
Cheshthanakshetra and his moon is in the fourth
position which is in Shatbhisha in Aquarius.
Let's see what this brings. So also when you
come to Rakshasagana, always be having this in
mind. The energy is quite intense. The energy
is quite toxic in nature. All Rakshas are. The
energy is more self -centric than other focused.
The energies can run pretty dry, pretty fast.
There is not much of emotional content there
like Devagodaya's. This is the contrast between
the two. And later on I shall do the mismatched
pairs because that goes on a lot in this civilization,
isn't it? Even in India, there's a lot of conquest
battles. You don't want a conquest battle or
power dynamics playing out in a relationship.
That's not the whole purpose. You might as well
be in a corporate world for that. That's where
all the battles are being played out, not in
the bedroom. Anyway, let's get back to the dynamics
of this. Jishtha, Scorpio woman versus Shatpi
Shah, Aquarius man, the 410 axis, as you can
see in the screen. This pairing is one of emotional
command meeting ideological distance, a bond
where private emotional gravity and public intellectual
purpose must be learned to coexist without erasing
one another. See the power dynamic. It will be
there in all Rakshasakhanas, 100%. Any amount
of matching you do, Rakshatmana will have a power
dynamic built in. This is not an easy domestic
dynamic. This is power held in different dimensions.
The core weaving will be, he requires, or rather
she requires, jeshta woman. Okay, just a side
here. If you remember the theme of jeshta nakshatra,
it has a theme of being the elder one. Jeshta
means in Sanskrit the elder one. The mythology
goes she was the eldest of the wives of the moon
the 27 nakshatra's are called the 27 wives of
the moon so Jesta she was a beautiful woman and
she was the eldest of the 27 wives and yet when
the younger ones came in moon tended to neglect
her so she's always has this authority about
her saying, I'm the elder one, you have to listen
to me. So jeshta people always have this signature
moon jeshtas that I'm the elder one, you're supposed
to listen to me. Sometimes they end up being
the elder one in the family also. Or even if
they're younger one, they'll be having a mannerism
of, I'm the elder one, you're supposed to listen
to me. You know, that energy. So emotional authority,
survival intelligence, loyalty, enforcement,
Scorpio in Jesta becomes very law enforcement
kind of people. If Mars and Saturn kind of land
up here, they end up in law enforcement, military.
Very strong at that. Protective dominance, hierarchy
awareness, crisis leadership, psychological depth.
Jesta governs inner sanctum of relationship.
She needs emotional loyalty. You have to be loyal
to me. I'm the elder one. That's what she speaks.
She needs a lot of privacy, a lot of trust, which
will survive pressure. Shatbisha on the other
hand is airy -fairy, right? It's a very theeric
nakshatra. If you go through the themes of nakshatras,
it's abstract, it's ruled by Varuna, it's air
-sign, querious. systems thinker, ideological
independence, reformer mindset, this is him in
this case, emotional detachment, unconventional
values, autonomy driven purpose, Shatbisha governs
the outer mission of life, he orients towards
causes, social causes, eleven thousand queries,
futuristic thinking, frameworks larger than personal
emotion, his mind is working somewhere else and
she wants something else, let's see how this
plays. The access the fort and access first.
What does that provide emotional security versus
public direction? private power versus ideological
purpose containment versus detachment Scorpio
fourth from Aquarius rather Aquarius fourth from
Scorpio gives emotional root psychological safety
private bonding Aquarius on the other hand is
interested in public role social vision intellectual
contribution Okay So the feminine, how does she
bond? That's what we need to get to. We are talking
about intimacy in this case. Bonds through emotional
loyalty, trust under pressure, depth of attachment,
expresses love by protecting, managing emotional
threats, holding private sphere together. Intimacy
is a very private cocoon, needs emotional transparency,
reassurance of loyalty, psychological closeness.
There's the keyword. Psychological closeness
is what Jesta needs. Feel safe when the relationship
is emotionally sealed and exclusive. They want
exclusive stuff. Both Anuradha and Jesta and
Scorpio. Scorpio wants everything for myself.
This is a one man woman because she is Scorpio
in this case. Rooted attachment, private authority,
emotional command. It's a protective type of
dominance she needs. Scorpio is very dominant.
It's ruled by Mars and Ketu. Masculine moon,
on the other hand, the Shatvisha man, he's also
Rakshashana, but he bonds through shared ideals,
intellectual respect. If the Chishtha woman is
hooked up with a curious man, in this case, Shatvisha,
he better have respect for his cerebral capacity.
They have immense cerebral capacity, Shatvisha,
immense. But if they're not appreciated, they
can get really attacked, or feel attacked, or
they may end up attacking. Non -invasive partnership,
see? Expresses love from a distance, problem
solving, enabling independence. He is independent,
Aquarius is as independent as they come, and
it demands that kind of independence also from
you. Need what? What are his needs? Freedom of
movement. All your science will require that.
Gemini, Libra and Aquarius. Freedom of movement.
It's air. It needs to move. You can't trap it
in a room. Ideological space. Let him think whatever
he wants. He'll come up with the most fantastic
ideas. Emotional non -interference. Feel secure
when he is not emotionally confined or monitored.
The keywords here for him is detached loyalty.
He observes from a distance. He's not interested
in hooking up. You can't hook air, okay? Gemini,
Libra, Aquarius. They are movers. Mission -oriented
bonding. Autonomous intimacy. Rakshatha here
being boundary sovereignty not coldness. You
respect boundaries with Aquarius, you respect
boundaries with Libra, you respect boundaries
with Gemini, all their signs. Sexual intimacy
dynamics follows as desire depends upon emotional
safety for her, desire for him depends upon mental
freedom. How it changes? These are different
needs. These are not the same needs. Sexuality
may ebb and flow with life, stress, and public
obligations. Because it's that 410 dynamic playing,
isn't it? Personal life versus public life. Work
-life balance, so to speak. Intimacy thrives
in privacy, silence, and emotional containment.
Arousal. For her, it is loyalty, reassurance,
emotional presence, and protected intimacy. So
she requires all these keywords. For him, trust
without intrusion, intellectual respect, and
freedom preserved. So the best possible outcome
here would be a quiet bonding, off -grid intimacy.
They can do lots of unconventional things as
I see this pair. Because she just wants protection
from him while he wants freedom. As long as this
is kept, this rule is kept. This is why it's
important to understand these things. You can
have a fantastic time, sort of very off -grid
intimacy. We don't explain ourselves kind of
closeness. We are who we are as a couple. You
become that strong couple. The risk being emotional
security versus emotional distance, private loyalty
clashing with public commitment, 410 dynamic.
Surveillance versus withdrawal. Say Aquarius
is very penetrative in Shatvesha especially.
It wants to penetrate everything, know about
everything. Very cerebral, very penetrative cerebral
kind of thinking is Shatvesha. Go through the
Nakshatrapeel list if you want more. Power struggles
over availability. Are you available? Shatbisha
is difficult to control. It's hardly available.
It just tends to walk on a tangent. Shatbisha
people moan in Shatbisha. Emotional isolation
inside of her relationship. She might feel like
that. Definitely. Because she needs more of that
emotional closeness being in Scorpio. How does
Rakshasa gonna play here? Both are Rakshatana,
but the power dynamics change. Jayastha, power
through emotional depth and loyalty enforcement.
She wants to enforce that loyalty. Jayastha and
Rakshatana is really strong in this, either moan
or in ascendant. If your ascendant is in Scorpion
Jayastha, you will enforce that kind of listen
to me first. What I am doing is correct. You
don't know what you are doing. That energy is
really strong, especially in ascendant. Shatbisha,
power through autonomy, vision and social distance.
Shatbisha says, take two steps back, all right?
You don't think you are everybody in this world.
The strength this pairing can form deeply resilient
but unconventional bond. Yes, there is that signature.
This bond is quite unconventional, especially
when both respect each other's domains. That's
the key to making this thing work. The danger
is, without conscious emotional agreements, this
becomes a lonely relationship inside of a committed
structure. You might be married for 20 ,000 years.
Nobody cares. How are you making it work on a
day -to -day basis? That's intimacy at its best.
Not what you're trying to accomplish and show
off to the world. Jesta allows to do that. Show
off my husband, my husband. She will be doing
that in this case. Because the husband says,
I'm not an independent person of my own. Just
turn it down a little. Introduce me by name,
not by a role. That can figure it. So this is
very intense, structurally demanding and emotional
selection kind of a pairing. Let us hear the
combination. What shall we do next? Let us take
1 -7 dynamic. We haven't taken that. Let us place
this guy in the 7th position from Jesta which
now becomes Taurus in Krittika. I'm only matching
Gana here. Will do the mismatches later on. So
let's begin. Jesta, she's still the same but
the man now is sitting in Krittikamakshetra within
Taurus. Okay. The dominant portion of Krittika
is in Taurus. Only the first Pada is in Aries,
where's Aries guy here? The sixth house. Don't
try to match 6, 8, 12. Please, don't have disaster
scenarios in your bedroom. Okay, let's get to
the dynamics of it. I won't go through the Scorpio
again because you know her characteristics. What
is his now? What has she got to match with as
the elder one? Boundary enforcement, survival
fire. Kritika is a knife that cuts. Moral clarity,
physical authority, endurance, protector instinct
and cutting decisiveness. Kritika people are
good in management because they are very decisive
in their ways. Kritika and Taurus is contained
fire. Steady territorial unyielding ones committed,
they are quite committed. So the one seven axis
is the mirroring principle, the dynamic attraction.
the self versus other, the control versus resistance,
the identity versus projection. How does this
feel? This relationship feels fated, unavoidable,
magnetic attraction, there is magnetism here.
You are either engaged or you are at war with
one another. One seven axis typically is like
this, doesn't matter which Guna you take. The
feminine moan, loyalty testing, emotional depth
for her Jesta. and power recognition. Identity
based attachment, dominance through insight and
survival bonding. Rakshata Gana here demands
emotional authority not chaos. What about him?
Bonds through provision, protection, physical
reliability and moral clarity. Expresses love
by holding ground, enforcing boundaries, sustaining
the bond materially. Taurus is materialistic.
He is looking for money. He's looking for material
prosperity. He's looking for physical stuff.
Needs respect, predictability and non -manipulative
intimacy. You can't manipulate. He's very sharp.
Feels secure when the relationship is loyal,
exclusive and stable. Controlled fire, not volatility.
Sexual intimacy and dynamics playing out as magnetic,
confrontational, territorial, deeply embodied.
One is an earth sign, one is an water sign. They
can support each other if you take the elemental
part because earth is holding the water, isn't
it? Always. So he has to become the holding vessel
for her, so to speak. Desire ignites through
opposition. Sexuality is possessive, grounding
and intense. Strong polarity between psychological
control, which is her, versus physical presence,
which is him. Intimacy often follows after a
confrontational or emotional stand -offs. These
are the kind of relationships where they have
fights and next minutes they are doing it like
rabbits in the bedroom or anywhere or on the
kitchen shelf, wherever. Loyalty proven under
pressure, just a woman. Emotional fearlessness,
partners, steadiness. Kritika wants trust, physical
closeness, respect for boundaries. You can't
cross Kritika's boundaries, he'll cut you off.
So the risky keywords become power struggles,
emotional manipulation. She is quite manipulative.
Being Jesta, okay? Being in Scorpio is quite
manipulative. That's why they make good in law
enforcement. But you can't bring law enforcement
to the bedroom. This is where the dynamics have
to be understood. Control through fear versus
control through withdrawal. Trust erosion through
testing. Exhaustion from constant polarity. One
-seven. So this is a high intensity pairing.
Fated, confrontational, sexually magnetic, psychologically
exhausting, if unconscious. Can be really exhausting.
Best for those who value depth, loyalty, strength,
embodied intimacy, truth under pressure. There's
a lot of pressure in this dynamic. Not ideal
for those seeking ease, emotional softness or
low conflict companionship. I think I will call
it stops for this one in this since we can go
on to even Maha Nakshatra. She will be paired
good with Maha. That will be a 10 -4 dynamic.
She can also be paired with Chitra in Virgo because
that's a 11 -3 dynamic. You can do that analysis.
I kept all the files and shared it in the description
box or in the community tab. You can go through
the intimacy files. Do some matching on your
own. I think it will give you a very good sense
of grounding of what these principles are like
and how they play out. I shall see you in the
next. Take care.