WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.259 Good morning, my wonderful people. Welcome to 00:00:02.259 --> 00:00:05.860 the Intimacy Podcast Series. So we were dealing 00:00:05.860 --> 00:00:09.880 with Purnarvasu, I think, previously for what 00:00:09.880 --> 00:00:12.119 it was. Now we are dealing with Hastanakshatra. 00:00:12.580 --> 00:00:15.080 Let's say the moon in Hastanakshatra for the 00:00:15.080 --> 00:00:19.660 woman and moon in different other positions where 00:00:19.660 --> 00:00:22.920 she'll be well matched with. What is this whole 00:00:22.920 --> 00:00:25.780 principle of matchmaking that goes on in Vedic 00:00:25.780 --> 00:00:30.160 astrology? Just a sidebar. It's basically your 00:00:30.160 --> 00:00:33.920 innate drive, your basic operating system of 00:00:33.920 --> 00:00:37.280 how you function naturally within the individual. 00:00:38.259 --> 00:00:40.280 So what's the advantage of knowing all this stuff, 00:00:40.420 --> 00:00:42.899 you might say. Okay, so the basic advantage of 00:00:42.899 --> 00:00:46.479 all this for the new people in Vedic Astrology 00:00:46.479 --> 00:00:50.079 or for those who wish to make their partnership 00:00:50.079 --> 00:00:54.079 better, improve some styles of engagement is 00:00:54.079 --> 00:00:56.939 that you know your basic operating system, isn't 00:00:56.939 --> 00:00:59.109 it? once you know your basic operating system 00:00:59.109 --> 00:01:03.149 you can tune say okay I am like this I have all 00:01:03.149 --> 00:01:08.069 this Venus moon Mercury etc like this and he 00:01:08.069 --> 00:01:11.390 or she has got this moon Venus Mercury like this 00:01:11.390 --> 00:01:15.409 now what comes the question so that now what 00:01:15.409 --> 00:01:19.599 is what these podcasts are about Remember always 00:01:19.599 --> 00:01:22.439 these basic principles. Venus is the value system. 00:01:22.819 --> 00:01:26.060 Venus is your creation of beauty. Venus is also 00:01:26.060 --> 00:01:29.120 Libra. Venus is celebration. How do you celebrate 00:01:29.120 --> 00:01:31.719 your love? People don't celebrate their love 00:01:31.719 --> 00:01:35.079 very often. Don't wait for things like wedding 00:01:35.079 --> 00:01:38.519 anniversary or birthday or this or that. Nonsense. 00:01:38.760 --> 00:01:41.239 You have got 365 days of the year. Celebrate 00:01:41.239 --> 00:01:44.200 every day of your life. What about that? Can 00:01:44.200 --> 00:01:46.379 you engage Ladhara? Obviously you can. It's a 00:01:46.379 --> 00:01:50.180 choice. Everything is a choice. Moon, how do 00:01:50.180 --> 00:01:53.640 you engage your heart? Do you require peace in 00:01:53.640 --> 00:01:55.459 your heart when you are talking of relationship? 00:01:55.620 --> 00:01:59.379 Does it bring you peace? That's your moon. That's 00:01:59.379 --> 00:02:01.180 what we are discussing. Same principles apply 00:02:01.180 --> 00:02:03.400 to Venus and Mercury also, but let's just take 00:02:03.400 --> 00:02:06.500 the moon. This is given the most importance in 00:02:06.500 --> 00:02:08.840 Vedic Astrology. Everything is about moon. That's 00:02:08.840 --> 00:02:13.550 why it's called lunar astrology. It's your subconscious, 00:02:13.870 --> 00:02:16.189 it's your emotional intelligence what you bring 00:02:16.189 --> 00:02:21.949 to the table. So it's affecting 99 % of the body, 00:02:22.270 --> 00:02:24.530 both Venus and Moon. Why? Because they are water 00:02:24.530 --> 00:02:27.669 elements. Both Venus and Moon are water elements, 00:02:27.969 --> 00:02:33.050 watery planets. So these are starting with, even 00:02:33.050 --> 00:02:35.389 if you just begin with this thing, this is the 00:02:35.389 --> 00:02:39.129 very basic route of how you start exploring your 00:02:39.129 --> 00:02:42.240 intimacy aspects. Before you get into nakshatras 00:02:42.240 --> 00:02:44.759 and before you get into anything else, just see 00:02:44.759 --> 00:02:47.159 the planetary positioning where it is in each 00:02:47.159 --> 00:02:50.120 chart. In Natal and Navamsa, I would put it. 00:02:50.120 --> 00:02:53.219 I won't go beyond that divisional chart. For 00:02:53.219 --> 00:02:55.740 most practical purposes, Natal and Navamsa is 00:02:55.740 --> 00:02:59.900 seen by most astrologers in India. Mercury also. 00:02:59.939 --> 00:03:02.520 Why? Because mercury is play, mercury is touch, 00:03:02.740 --> 00:03:07.439 mercury is smell, fragrance. All these things 00:03:07.439 --> 00:03:10.960 are important to tune in. the creation of beauty 00:03:10.960 --> 00:03:14.759 as Venus, celebrate your house, wherever your 00:03:14.759 --> 00:03:18.500 personal space is. Intimacy is bonding, isn't 00:03:18.500 --> 00:03:21.360 it? So how do you bond? What's the selection 00:03:21.360 --> 00:03:25.539 of clothing? Venus is clothes. What is the selection 00:03:25.539 --> 00:03:27.419 of things? It's a little bit different every 00:03:27.419 --> 00:03:31.379 single time. I know there are people, women like 00:03:31.379 --> 00:03:34.180 to dominate stuff. Women like to create demands. 00:03:35.039 --> 00:03:38.900 And that's where the first battle is lost in 00:03:38.900 --> 00:03:43.900 intimacy. if you want to call it that. Why? Intimacy 00:03:43.900 --> 00:03:46.860 is not a demand, folks. You can't demand intimacy 00:03:46.860 --> 00:03:48.860 out of things. You might have a laundry list 00:03:48.860 --> 00:03:52.080 of this from my partner. I want that from my 00:03:52.080 --> 00:03:54.060 partner. Women tend to come like this, sharper. 00:03:55.580 --> 00:03:58.680 Why? Because they have an innate drive in feminine 00:03:58.680 --> 00:04:03.300 bodies to select their mate. Men, get this please. 00:04:04.259 --> 00:04:06.280 You don't do the selection of mate. Doesn't matter 00:04:06.280 --> 00:04:09.719 what laundry list you have. It's always the Feminine 00:04:09.719 --> 00:04:12.599 which selects the mate. Look at nature. Just 00:04:12.599 --> 00:04:15.539 look at nature. Don't go by any astrology also 00:04:15.539 --> 00:04:18.560 even. Just look at nature and see how the birds 00:04:18.560 --> 00:04:21.579 and animals, what goes on in their mating rituals. 00:04:21.899 --> 00:04:24.339 It's always the male that dances around. Female 00:04:24.339 --> 00:04:27.360 is in it to court her. Courtship is male to female. 00:04:28.000 --> 00:04:31.319 And female selects the actual male for mating 00:04:31.319 --> 00:04:33.879 purposes. Same thing in human. We have the same 00:04:33.879 --> 00:04:38.500 DNA. 99 % of our DNA is animal. So that instinct 00:04:38.500 --> 00:04:40.620 will always play out. But we are talking about 00:04:40.620 --> 00:04:44.660 higher consciousness as humans, isn't it? Therefore, 00:04:44.680 --> 00:04:46.939 all these things require conscious engagement. 00:04:47.180 --> 00:04:48.860 Otherwise, you'll just play out like an animal. 00:04:49.139 --> 00:04:51.519 You'll play out all these instincts for sure. 00:04:51.800 --> 00:04:54.939 100 % you will play out all these planetary instincts 00:04:54.939 --> 00:04:59.899 when it comes to your individual courtship rituals, 00:05:00.040 --> 00:05:04.060 if I call that. So the idea for all you Gen Z 00:05:04.060 --> 00:05:06.560 people, psychologists, relationship coaches, 00:05:06.879 --> 00:05:10.439 sex therapist, etc. You need to know this dynamic. 00:05:10.959 --> 00:05:13.120 How does it play out? First step is education, 00:05:13.199 --> 00:05:16.740 then we'll come out, come to other things. Okay, 00:05:16.740 --> 00:05:20.060 now let's see the planetary positioning and how 00:05:20.060 --> 00:05:25.759 that affects. The dynamics will change with every 00:05:25.759 --> 00:05:28.920 signature. If you match Hastavit Anuradha, it's 00:05:28.920 --> 00:05:31.899 different from Hastavit Swati. For example, it's 00:05:31.899 --> 00:05:34.379 very different in each and every case. That's 00:05:34.379 --> 00:05:36.860 why we have to go through it step by step. So 00:05:36.860 --> 00:05:40.939 let's begin. Hasta nakshatra moan, and the third 00:05:40.939 --> 00:05:43.500 position from that moan will be for the man, 00:05:43.639 --> 00:05:47.160 which is moan in Anuradha nakshatra. Now moan 00:05:47.160 --> 00:05:50.060 in Scorpio is kind of harsh. Moan in Sun in Scorpio 00:05:50.060 --> 00:05:52.279 is harsh, definitely on the people going through 00:05:52.279 --> 00:05:55.620 it. It's a sidebar. Moan in Scorpio tends to 00:05:55.620 --> 00:05:58.439 destroy a relationship with mother, natal on 00:05:58.439 --> 00:06:01.379 a warm chair. Sun in Scorpio tends to do it with 00:06:01.379 --> 00:06:03.660 the father. So it's kind of tough on the people. 00:06:03.879 --> 00:06:05.800 You have my heartfelt sympathies if you have 00:06:05.800 --> 00:06:08.750 that. But never mind, let's get into this because 00:06:08.750 --> 00:06:11.709 since we are discussing intimacy, that's a different 00:06:11.709 --> 00:06:16.129 ball game. This pairing is one of precision -empowered 00:06:16.129 --> 00:06:20.529 devotion. Hasta woman will want skill, precision, 00:06:20.810 --> 00:06:24.069 service, discernment, reliability, calm, competence, 00:06:25.149 --> 00:06:27.470 love through action. That's what she desires. 00:06:28.329 --> 00:06:30.790 The man, Anuradha man, brings it in the form 00:06:30.790 --> 00:06:34.389 of loyalty, its devotion, its depth. its endurance, 00:06:34.730 --> 00:06:39.290 its trust and testing. Emotional intensity, Scorpio 00:06:39.290 --> 00:06:43.050 is an intense sign. It's intensely internal, 00:06:43.509 --> 00:06:46.829 Scorpio. On the other side of Scorpio, Taurus 00:06:46.829 --> 00:06:51.149 is very external. Emotional intensity, transformative 00:06:51.149 --> 00:06:54.089 bonding, Scorpio tends to transform things wherever 00:06:54.089 --> 00:06:58.199 it touches, whichever planet it touches. Access 00:06:58.199 --> 00:07:01.720 is one of three and 11. Therefore, effort gives 00:07:01.720 --> 00:07:04.699 fulfillment, daily usefulness and long -term 00:07:04.699 --> 00:07:07.980 gains, practical care and emotional loyalty. 00:07:08.100 --> 00:07:09.980 These are the default settings, like I said. 00:07:10.540 --> 00:07:12.500 If you don't practice this consciously, you will 00:07:12.500 --> 00:07:16.490 go to the default setting. Teamwork versus prosperity 00:07:16.490 --> 00:07:19.790 and it's upacha hao so it strengthens with time 00:07:19.790 --> 00:07:23.310 this axis. This is a build and benefit axis. 00:07:23.610 --> 00:07:27.709 Intimacy compounds as work, as trust, as consistency 00:07:27.709 --> 00:07:31.810 add up through years. You have to work for a 00:07:31.810 --> 00:07:36.000 lifetime. People forget that very fast. The feminine 00:07:36.000 --> 00:07:38.560 mode for the Hastha woman bonds through competences 00:07:38.560 --> 00:07:41.319 or bonding strategy, if you want to call it that. 00:07:41.560 --> 00:07:44.060 Routines and problem solving. These are useful 00:07:44.060 --> 00:07:47.959 tips for relationship counselors. That's why 00:07:47.959 --> 00:07:51.339 it is there on my LinkedIn newsletter. Loves 00:07:51.339 --> 00:07:54.319 by fixing, organizing and improving. She's constantly 00:07:54.319 --> 00:07:58.259 on that work woman. In Hastha, is extremely skilled 00:07:58.259 --> 00:08:01.319 with hands, needs appreciation for effort. She's 00:08:01.319 --> 00:08:03.899 taking all the effort. She wants that feedback. 00:08:04.560 --> 00:08:08.220 She feels safe and life is orderly and dependable. 00:08:08.379 --> 00:08:10.839 Keywords here being service, trust, steadiness 00:08:10.839 --> 00:08:14.199 and practical affection. Virgo, right? Shasta. 00:08:15.019 --> 00:08:18.620 So she wants everything grounded. Masculine moon 00:08:18.620 --> 00:08:22.459 in this case being in Scorpio. Bonds through 00:08:22.459 --> 00:08:25.680 loyalty, depth and exclusivity. Scorpio people 00:08:25.680 --> 00:08:29.240 want everything to themselves only. So one man, 00:08:29.259 --> 00:08:32.809 woman, one woman, man kind of situation. Loves 00:08:32.809 --> 00:08:35.889 by commitment, protection and emotional presence. 00:08:36.129 --> 00:08:39.029 Needs trust and sincerity. That's what he needs. 00:08:39.429 --> 00:08:42.750 Being in Anuradha man. Feels secure when devotion 00:08:42.750 --> 00:08:45.610 is reciprocated. Keywords here being devotion, 00:08:45.929 --> 00:08:49.750 endurance, emotional gravity and faithfulness. 00:08:50.409 --> 00:08:52.870 One of the most loyal nakshatras you can find 00:08:52.870 --> 00:08:57.070 is Munins Anuradha. This very loyal or even ascended 00:08:57.070 --> 00:09:00.409 in Anuradha. These people are very loyal. The 00:09:00.409 --> 00:09:03.909 sexual and intimacy dynamics follows as a tone 00:09:03.909 --> 00:09:06.870 which is controlled intensity, slow burn, slow 00:09:06.870 --> 00:09:10.730 ignition and deepening bond. Desire grows with 00:09:10.730 --> 00:09:13.309 trust and reliability. Touch is intentional, 00:09:13.529 --> 00:09:16.470 focused and assured. Rhythm improves through 00:09:16.470 --> 00:09:19.669 consistency and refinement. Less novelty, more 00:09:19.669 --> 00:09:22.350 depth and staying power. So this is more grounded, 00:09:22.730 --> 00:09:25.970 this relationship. The hasta woman wants competence, 00:09:26.169 --> 00:09:29.460 patience and feeling valued. Another man wants 00:09:29.460 --> 00:09:32.480 trust, exclusivity and emotional sincerity. In 00:09:32.480 --> 00:09:36.299 this particular case, the man is, I want only 00:09:36.299 --> 00:09:39.100 this one woman. I'm not interested in flirting 00:09:39.100 --> 00:09:42.539 around. Of course, if Rao sits here, it's another 00:09:42.539 --> 00:09:45.919 ball game. We shall see the shadow aspects later 00:09:45.919 --> 00:09:48.279 on. I want to first finish the nakshatras. Best 00:09:48.279 --> 00:09:50.500 expression here being, best possible outcome 00:09:50.500 --> 00:09:53.240 being, measured build, mutual dependability. 00:09:53.480 --> 00:09:56.740 We are in this together kind of intimacy. Risk 00:09:56.740 --> 00:09:59.519 here becomes criticism versus sensitivity. Astha 00:09:59.519 --> 00:10:01.960 is very critical when it doesn't get things its 00:10:01.960 --> 00:10:05.840 way. And Anuradha can get overtly sensitive. 00:10:06.100 --> 00:10:10.840 Very open boundaries. Surrender versus control. 00:10:11.179 --> 00:10:14.419 Big one for relationships, isn't it? Over duty 00:10:14.419 --> 00:10:17.120 replacing romance. It's always about duty, duty 00:10:17.120 --> 00:10:19.480 and duty. Where's the plague gone? Where's mercury 00:10:19.480 --> 00:10:25.960 gone? Trust creates strain. Precision becomes 00:10:26.090 --> 00:10:29.149 Policing or intensity turns into possessiveness, 00:10:29.509 --> 00:10:32.409 another can become extremely possessive. These 00:10:32.409 --> 00:10:34.750 are the kind of people, them guy in this case, 00:10:35.049 --> 00:10:37.129 can become very jealous if she is talking to 00:10:37.129 --> 00:10:40.169 her male friends. She might just be talking to 00:10:40.169 --> 00:10:42.269 a male friend, like why are you talking to that 00:10:42.269 --> 00:10:46.250 man? You see? Scorpio can become another. This 00:10:46.250 --> 00:10:49.330 is quite powerful, teamwork driven, loyalty rich 00:10:49.330 --> 00:10:53.470 and financially and emotionally rewarding over 00:10:53.470 --> 00:10:56.620 a period of time. So this relationship gives 00:10:56.620 --> 00:11:02.980 us. Let us see what happens if we move the man. 00:11:04.279 --> 00:11:07.580 Where is the guy? Okay. If we move the man now 00:11:07.580 --> 00:11:11.100 to Revati which is the seventh positioning from 00:11:11.100 --> 00:11:15.340 Hasta. Right opposite as you can see. Right opposite 00:11:15.340 --> 00:11:17.980 to six is twelve. This is another good pairing. 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:19.840 There is nothing in fourth because there is no 00:11:19.840 --> 00:11:22.779 Dev Gana there. We are matching Ganas first. 00:11:23.179 --> 00:11:27.620 That's a priority. So what happens in the 1 -7? 00:11:28.720 --> 00:11:32.279 Virgo woman in Hastha and Ravity moon in Pisces 00:11:32.279 --> 00:11:36.220 man. This is precision meeting compassion. Kind 00:11:36.220 --> 00:11:40.759 of a strange mix, you might say. Hastha, of course, 00:11:40.879 --> 00:11:43.019 will bring all the Hastha aspects, discernment, 00:11:43.200 --> 00:11:45.779 service, reliability, practical care and boundaries, 00:11:46.120 --> 00:11:49.399 love shown through action. Virgo is action oriented 00:11:49.399 --> 00:11:53.379 sign. Revati, on the other hand, provides more 00:11:53.379 --> 00:11:56.700 dissolution, sort of empathy, devotion, emotional 00:11:56.700 --> 00:12:00.100 refuge. Pisces is a refuge sign, its surrender, 00:12:01.019 --> 00:12:03.940 its guidance, soulful presence with completion. 00:12:05.299 --> 00:12:08.340 So this 17 axis is powerful, it is very magnetic. 00:12:09.179 --> 00:12:13.139 Astha with Revati. Self -definition and partner 00:12:13.139 --> 00:12:17.139 completion. Method to meaning kind of situation, 00:12:17.360 --> 00:12:21.059 order versus surrender, doing versus being, clarity 00:12:21.059 --> 00:12:24.899 versus compassion. This is a classic spouse access 00:12:24.899 --> 00:12:28.759 bond attraction arises from complementarity, 00:12:29.019 --> 00:12:31.919 not similarity. You have to learn this, isn't 00:12:31.919 --> 00:12:35.299 it? You can't keep asking for similar stuff. 00:12:35.559 --> 00:12:38.450 They are not anything like you. The feminine 00:12:38.450 --> 00:12:41.250 one bonds through usefulness, consistency and 00:12:41.250 --> 00:12:44.409 improvement here. Expresses love by organizing, 00:12:44.590 --> 00:12:47.529 fixing and serving. Needs appreciation and clear 00:12:47.529 --> 00:12:50.929 roles. Say, Virgo wants clear stuff to do. It's 00:12:50.929 --> 00:12:53.289 a house of daily routines. Don't tell me airy 00:12:53.289 --> 00:12:57.169 -fairy stuff. That's hasta. Feels secure when 00:12:57.169 --> 00:12:59.929 relationship has structure and mutual accountability. 00:13:00.429 --> 00:13:03.450 So it wants abittance, it wants boundaries, it 00:13:03.450 --> 00:13:06.049 wants practical affection, it wants steadiness. 00:13:07.159 --> 00:13:09.340 Masculine moon bonds through empathy, presence 00:13:09.340 --> 00:13:12.100 and emotional attunement. He is something else. 00:13:12.419 --> 00:13:16.659 Hasta woman. He expresses love via support, forgiveness 00:13:16.659 --> 00:13:18.799 and gentle guidance, which is so complimentary. 00:13:18.940 --> 00:13:21.659 This is 1 .7. So it's opposite. Mirror effect. 00:13:22.259 --> 00:13:25.600 Needs trust and emotional openness. Feels chosen 00:13:25.600 --> 00:13:29.419 when he is accepted without being fixed. Keywords 00:13:29.419 --> 00:13:33.059 here being compassion, devotion, emotional sanctuary 00:13:33.059 --> 00:13:36.269 and surrender. okay those are the keywords you 00:13:36.269 --> 00:13:40.850 should remember the keywords the sexual intimacy 00:13:40.850 --> 00:13:43.909 and dynamics for this particular combination 00:13:43.909 --> 00:13:48.009 becomes one of tender approach healing and trust 00:13:48.009 --> 00:13:50.970 led there has to be trust factor here desire 00:13:50.970 --> 00:13:54.230 grows with emotional safety and reassurance touch 00:13:54.230 --> 00:13:58.549 is gentle attentive and soulful rhythm improves 00:13:58.549 --> 00:14:01.710 through listening and patience less urgency more 00:14:01.710 --> 00:14:05.820 deep emotional bonding kind of thing Asta woman 00:14:05.820 --> 00:14:09.480 wants calm, confidence, reliability and feeling 00:14:09.480 --> 00:14:13.080 valued for the effort taken in whatever. In this 00:14:13.080 --> 00:14:15.679 case, Asta woman, so she might be doing up the 00:14:15.679 --> 00:14:19.899 whole house, making it neat, clean. Because they 00:14:19.899 --> 00:14:23.399 are very handsy people, Asta nakshatra. She needs 00:14:23.399 --> 00:14:26.320 appreciation for that. If she's doing your laundry, 00:14:26.460 --> 00:14:29.220 if she's doing your bed, if she's cleaning up 00:14:29.220 --> 00:14:31.399 all the house and making it nicely perfumed, 00:14:32.000 --> 00:14:34.360 Mr. Revati man, you need to appreciate her for 00:14:34.360 --> 00:14:39.110 that. That's our arousal. For the woman with 00:14:39.110 --> 00:14:41.490 Ravity Man, it should be more about tenderness, 00:14:41.889 --> 00:14:45.289 acceptance and emotional availability. Are you 00:14:45.289 --> 00:14:47.350 available emotionally? Everything is about duty. 00:14:47.629 --> 00:14:51.110 That's what he asks. Slow attunement, mutual 00:14:51.110 --> 00:14:55.809 care, you are safe with me type of intimacy works 00:14:55.809 --> 00:14:59.730 here. The risk factors being over giving versus 00:14:59.730 --> 00:15:04.870 boundary erosion, fixing versus rescuing. practicality 00:15:04.870 --> 00:15:08.970 versus escapism see how it changes it's always 00:15:08.970 --> 00:15:13.570 amuses me this thing the signatures of moon or 00:15:13.570 --> 00:15:15.649 Venus or Mercury when they meet the opposite 00:15:15.649 --> 00:15:18.470 nakshatras it becomes quite different emotional 00:15:18.470 --> 00:15:22.090 dependence service replaces desire or compassion 00:15:22.090 --> 00:15:24.610 avoids responsibility see the dynamic that is 00:15:24.610 --> 00:15:31.389 playing out now let's go into the I think it's 00:15:31.389 --> 00:15:36.320 the last one Anyway, I'll come back to this. 00:15:36.620 --> 00:15:39.980 Okay, so now the next match is her moon in Hastaa 00:15:39.980 --> 00:15:42.700 versus him in Marikshira in the 10th place. So 00:15:42.700 --> 00:15:45.320 it's a 10 -4 dynamic playing out. Like I said, 00:15:45.419 --> 00:15:49.480 we have all kinds of dynamics in this one. So 00:15:49.480 --> 00:15:53.080 what happens here? Hastaa woman versus Marikshira 00:15:53.080 --> 00:15:56.600 man, 10 -4 axis. So let's jump into the 10 -4 00:15:56.600 --> 00:16:00.279 axis. What does it bring? Outer direction versus 00:16:00.279 --> 00:16:02.220 inner stability. If you don't know Mrikshira, 00:16:02.320 --> 00:16:05.200 both of them are Mrikshira one. Mind in motion 00:16:05.200 --> 00:16:09.139 versus emotional grounding. Ideas versus implementation. 00:16:09.519 --> 00:16:12.820 Exploration versus home base. Home base is her 00:16:12.820 --> 00:16:16.559 typically. Him is going into ideas factor because 00:16:16.559 --> 00:16:20.399 he is Mrikshira. Learning versus living. This 00:16:20.399 --> 00:16:24.320 is a function to feeling axis and deepens with 00:16:24.320 --> 00:16:27.600 curiosity organized into daily life. So daily 00:16:27.600 --> 00:16:30.580 life will become something about not just work. 00:16:30.720 --> 00:16:32.960 at home front because we're talking about intimacy, 00:16:33.179 --> 00:16:38.960 it becomes more about how you can be curiously 00:16:38.960 --> 00:16:41.840 reinventing your relationship. It's the best 00:16:41.840 --> 00:16:45.519 I can come up with. The feminine moon bonds through 00:16:45.519 --> 00:16:47.919 usefulness, consistency, improvement, expresses 00:16:47.919 --> 00:16:50.259 love by organizing, fixing, refining. We saw 00:16:50.259 --> 00:16:52.809 that already. The masculine mood in this case 00:16:52.809 --> 00:16:55.950 changes, bonds to conversation, novelty and shared 00:16:55.950 --> 00:16:59.269 learning. Expresses love via ideas, humor and 00:16:59.269 --> 00:17:02.929 curiosity. Needs freedom to explore. I will need 00:17:02.929 --> 00:17:07.029 freedom to explore without judgment. Again, judgment 00:17:07.029 --> 00:17:12.809 is generally a killer of intimacy. Simple. Exploration, 00:17:13.029 --> 00:17:15.450 dialogue, adaptability and mental stimulation. 00:17:15.890 --> 00:17:19.440 What are the sexual dynamics? Mental first, refined 00:17:19.440 --> 00:17:21.880 and responsive. Desire builds through conversation 00:17:21.880 --> 00:17:25.039 and trust. Touch guided by attentiveness and 00:17:25.039 --> 00:17:29.440 feedback. Did you like such and such a kind of 00:17:29.440 --> 00:17:31.799 hug? What is your preference in touching, hugging 00:17:31.799 --> 00:17:35.440 and kissing? Rarely partners ask this to one 00:17:35.440 --> 00:17:38.859 another. Rhythm improves with routine and variation. 00:17:39.119 --> 00:17:42.720 Less raw intensity, more skillful intensity. 00:17:43.279 --> 00:17:47.609 See how the signature changed. Arousal for hasta 00:17:47.609 --> 00:17:50.049 woman here becomes competence, patience and feeling 00:17:50.049 --> 00:17:52.450 valued. That's definitely there. Brikshira man 00:17:52.450 --> 00:17:55.009 wants curiosity, he wants engagement, he wants 00:17:55.009 --> 00:17:58.049 playful dialogue. That will keep this relationship 00:17:58.049 --> 00:18:02.049 alive. Best for those who value mental engagement, 00:18:02.390 --> 00:18:06.109 practical care, calm, competent, intimacy. So 00:18:06.109 --> 00:18:08.190 they are even evaluating intimacy as something 00:18:08.190 --> 00:18:11.869 competent. You see, very head -oriented, Brikshira. 00:18:13.670 --> 00:18:16.910 Not ideal for those seeking high drama, impulsive 00:18:16.910 --> 00:18:20.670 passion or emotional chaos. That's not preferred 00:18:20.670 --> 00:18:24.930 in any case, I would say. Isn't it? Now let's 00:18:24.930 --> 00:18:27.650 jump into Pular Vasu Nakshatra. We'll take Pular 00:18:27.650 --> 00:18:30.650 Vasu in Gemini because the dominant aspect of 00:18:30.650 --> 00:18:32.710 Pular Vasu plays out in Gemini, the first three 00:18:32.710 --> 00:18:37.319 Padas. The last Pada is in Cancer. So 10 -4 axis 00:18:37.319 --> 00:18:40.839 once again, but here in this plays out dynamic 00:18:40.839 --> 00:18:43.299 is different between Rikshira and Purnavasu it's 00:18:43.299 --> 00:18:46.900 different. Outer direction versus inner stability, 00:18:47.140 --> 00:18:51.039 problem solving versus emotional renewal. Purnavasu 00:18:51.039 --> 00:18:54.160 has a life lesson of repeating mistakes and learning 00:18:54.160 --> 00:18:56.680 from them and coming out stronger. So that plays 00:18:56.680 --> 00:19:00.440 out here. Method versus reframing, responsibilities 00:19:00.440 --> 00:19:04.519 versus reassurance, life management versus emotional 00:19:04.519 --> 00:19:08.569 home. This is a repair and rebuild access. If 00:19:08.569 --> 00:19:11.910 you're the punar vasu man or woman, you better 00:19:11.910 --> 00:19:14.970 be sure that you're going to reinvent your relationship 00:19:14.970 --> 00:19:17.150 with that person since we are talking of intimacy 00:19:17.150 --> 00:19:19.809 again and again. They will go through transformations, 00:19:20.210 --> 00:19:23.630 the theme of the nakshatra. Jumping directly 00:19:23.630 --> 00:19:26.869 into his masculine moon, punar vasu man, bonds 00:19:26.869 --> 00:19:29.450 through conversation, reassurance and emotional 00:19:29.450 --> 00:19:34.220 resets. It will keep happening. expresses love 00:19:34.220 --> 00:19:37.019 via optimism, humor and reframing. You gotta 00:19:37.019 --> 00:19:40.440 keep telling this Poonar Vasu person, man or 00:19:40.440 --> 00:19:44.259 woman, in this case man, to reassure them again 00:19:44.259 --> 00:19:47.579 and again through life. They will require a reset. 00:19:48.339 --> 00:19:50.779 They will require to reframe their issues of 00:19:50.779 --> 00:19:55.019 life again and again. Needs emotional permission 00:19:55.019 --> 00:19:58.700 to start again. Feels safe when mistakes aren't 00:19:58.700 --> 00:20:01.880 punished. You should not be judging Poonar Vasu 00:20:01.880 --> 00:20:06.000 Moon. because they are going through some other 00:20:06.000 --> 00:20:08.599 stuff other than you. Keywords being a forgiveness, 00:20:08.799 --> 00:20:12.700 hope and verbal intimacy and adaptability. The 00:20:12.700 --> 00:20:15.440 sexual intimacy and dynamics in this case plays 00:20:15.440 --> 00:20:18.059 out as desire built through conversation and 00:20:18.059 --> 00:20:22.119 trust. Touch is guided by attentiveness and responsiveness. 00:20:22.640 --> 00:20:25.180 The rhythm improves with predictability and emotional 00:20:25.180 --> 00:20:27.480 warmth. There has to be warmth. Phenomenosis 00:20:27.480 --> 00:20:30.319 is very dry in Gemini. Gemini is a dry sign. 00:20:30.900 --> 00:20:34.940 All Capricorn material signs were go. you know 00:20:34.940 --> 00:20:38.900 Gemini or Saturnian signs Aquarius and Capri 00:20:38.900 --> 00:20:41.640 whether they are dry signs they don't have any 00:20:41.640 --> 00:20:46.099 Venus like quality to them Poonarvasu man needs 00:20:46.099 --> 00:20:49.880 reassurance verbal warmth and emotional acceptance 00:20:49.880 --> 00:20:52.980 allow them to make their goof ups Poonarvasu 00:20:52.980 --> 00:20:56.460 moons will goof up things again and again maybe 00:20:56.460 --> 00:20:58.700 sometimes multiple times but they will learn 00:20:58.700 --> 00:21:01.700 from it they will come out of it and you need 00:21:01.700 --> 00:21:05.130 to give them that space then it will work properly. 00:21:06.329 --> 00:21:09.950 This can fail if precision becomes a point of 00:21:09.950 --> 00:21:13.269 judgment. Look, hasta is very precise. You can't 00:21:13.269 --> 00:21:16.309 get very precise other than hasta in the entire 00:21:16.309 --> 00:21:19.609 27 nakshatras. It stands for the hands, cables, 00:21:19.829 --> 00:21:24.150 it's a work of detail oriented. So hasta, when 00:21:24.150 --> 00:21:28.309 it gets frustrated, it tends to pick faults with 00:21:28.309 --> 00:21:30.529 the other one. Let it be at work, let it be at 00:21:30.529 --> 00:21:33.359 partnership. can become very cynical and critical. 00:21:34.240 --> 00:21:37.960 That's the downside. You can't judge Poonar Vasu 00:21:37.960 --> 00:21:40.240 for goofing up all kinds of mistakes again and 00:21:40.240 --> 00:21:43.380 again. Saying things again and again. See how 00:21:43.380 --> 00:21:46.720 the dynamic plays out. This is a healing stability 00:21:46.720 --> 00:21:49.980 through reassurance 10 -4 pairing. Strong for 00:21:49.980 --> 00:21:52.359 long -term bonding when effort is appreciated, 00:21:53.180 --> 00:21:56.339 optimism is grounded. You have to go that direction, 00:21:56.539 --> 00:21:58.640 otherwise this relationship does not stand a 00:21:58.640 --> 00:22:01.920 chance. Be careful about how you handle such 00:22:01.920 --> 00:22:07.000 things. Last one, let's go to Pushya. Let's take 00:22:07.000 --> 00:22:10.000 the man to the 11 -3 dynamic, Pushya versus Hasta. 00:22:10.339 --> 00:22:13.559 So let's see how that plays out. We'll do that 00:22:13.559 --> 00:22:18.539 as a last piece here today. We'll ignore the 00:22:18.539 --> 00:22:21.279 parts of the woman since we have already seen 00:22:21.279 --> 00:22:24.299 Hasta. She'll bring the same signature. The 11 00:22:24.299 --> 00:22:27.220 -3 axis is important here, fulfillment versus 00:22:27.220 --> 00:22:30.190 effort. Results versus daily work. Emotional 00:22:30.190 --> 00:22:33.109 security versus practical action. These are signatures. 00:22:34.109 --> 00:22:37.009 Supportive friendship tone. 11 .3 .3 .11 is always 00:22:37.009 --> 00:22:39.549 about friendship turning into love. And it grows 00:22:39.549 --> 00:22:43.130 with time. They are upacha places. Masculine 00:22:43.130 --> 00:22:45.690 moon, in this case being Pusha, he bonds through 00:22:45.690 --> 00:22:50.470 care, reassurance, emotional continuity, expresses 00:22:50.470 --> 00:22:53.819 love by holding, protecting and sustaining. It's 00:22:53.819 --> 00:22:56.819 a cancer sign. Cancer to Virgo is a good dynamic, 00:22:57.000 --> 00:23:01.900 I would suggest. Hasta to Pusha. Because one 00:23:01.900 --> 00:23:04.500 is providing the emotional grounding. Okay, the 00:23:04.500 --> 00:23:06.579 dynamic of access will play out. But I'm saying 00:23:06.579 --> 00:23:10.339 in general, it will be a good pair. Express love 00:23:10.339 --> 00:23:12.599 by holding, protecting and sustaining. Cancer 00:23:12.599 --> 00:23:15.819 is there to hold. Okay, cancer is your foundation, 00:23:16.059 --> 00:23:19.500 fourth house. So when Pusha is there, Shamans 00:23:19.500 --> 00:23:21.660 are really good in partnerships, but they tend 00:23:21.660 --> 00:23:25.000 to neglect it for the sake of education, studying. 00:23:25.519 --> 00:23:27.339 It's a whole story around it, you can check it 00:23:27.339 --> 00:23:30.680 out. Expresses love by holding, protecting, sustaining. 00:23:31.039 --> 00:23:34.460 Needs loyalty and patience. Feels secure when 00:23:34.460 --> 00:23:38.000 future feels stable and promised. Sexual intimacy 00:23:38.000 --> 00:23:42.079 and dynamics will become desire grows with safety 00:23:42.079 --> 00:23:45.140 and consistency. Touch communicates with care 00:23:45.140 --> 00:23:47.839 and reassurance. There has to be a lot of that 00:23:47.839 --> 00:23:51.730 for cancer. Reassurance. Rhythm improves through 00:23:51.730 --> 00:23:54.710 routine and responsiveness, less volatility and 00:23:54.710 --> 00:23:57.809 more deepening warmth. For the pushy man, thus 00:23:57.809 --> 00:24:00.910 the woman needs to provide emotional presence, 00:24:01.450 --> 00:24:04.269 patience and dependable closeness. Cancer needs 00:24:04.269 --> 00:24:07.490 a lot of reassurance to function properly, otherwise 00:24:07.490 --> 00:24:11.730 it goes into that moodiness zone, zones out. 00:24:12.849 --> 00:24:15.650 Riskwards here being over -responsibility, duty 00:24:15.650 --> 00:24:19.650 replaced by romance. don't do this look duty 00:24:19.650 --> 00:24:22.170 is duty everything is duty in this world everything 00:24:22.170 --> 00:24:25.750 is karma blah blah blah what about your sensitivities 00:24:25.750 --> 00:24:29.490 your human being not a machine criticism versus 00:24:29.490 --> 00:24:32.950 sensitivity emotional heaviness if appreciation 00:24:32.950 --> 00:24:38.589 fades this is a good last teamwork friendship 00:24:38.589 --> 00:24:42.490 tone kind of intimacy again just to wrap this 00:24:42.490 --> 00:24:46.009 up No going to 6th, 8th and 12th houses. Please, 00:24:46.109 --> 00:24:48.230 even if there is one there, don't go there. There's 00:24:48.230 --> 00:24:50.910 no match in Ashwini for Hasta. It will become 00:24:50.910 --> 00:24:54.769 a dynamic of 6th, 8th. Please keep these basic 00:24:54.769 --> 00:24:56.869 rules in mind. If you don't know, you can listen 00:24:56.869 --> 00:25:00.069 to that in the other one. I'll see you in the 00:25:00.069 --> 00:25:01.210 next. Take care. Be safe.