WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.759 Hi boys and girls, welcome to the Intimacy Podcast 00:00:02.759 --> 00:00:07.059 series. Okay, now that I've explained some rules 00:00:07.059 --> 00:00:11.419 in the previous slides, previous podcasts, I 00:00:11.419 --> 00:00:14.939 had forgotten kind of to give the Nakshatra, 00:00:15.460 --> 00:00:18.000 Devgadha, Manusakha and Rakshasakha factors, 00:00:18.620 --> 00:00:20.440 how they play in intimacy. Sorry about that. 00:00:20.829 --> 00:00:24.050 But just keep these slides as a base rules for 00:00:24.050 --> 00:00:26.609 Gana matching. You will see these qualities play 00:00:26.609 --> 00:00:28.789 out in every single Nakshatra matching which 00:00:28.789 --> 00:00:32.630 we are doing. This is the base rules, okay? So 00:00:32.630 --> 00:00:35.130 Dev Gana. Now I have kept it constant. I have 00:00:35.130 --> 00:00:38.530 done deep research through ChatGPT. So these 00:00:38.530 --> 00:00:40.850 are all the deep research factors you will get 00:00:40.850 --> 00:00:46.009 from all 50 million websites, okay? Psychological 00:00:46.009 --> 00:00:50.329 keywords, relationship display patterns. Emotional 00:00:50.329 --> 00:00:53.609 needs in love, sexual intimacy, keywords, turn 00:00:53.609 --> 00:00:56.070 -ons and turn -offs. I'll keep it same for all 00:00:56.070 --> 00:00:58.189 three Ganas. So that you just have an idea, you 00:00:58.189 --> 00:01:00.869 can take a screenshot. There's this lovely couple 00:01:00.869 --> 00:01:04.390 over there, deeply feeling for one another. Never 00:01:04.390 --> 00:01:08.950 mind. So, Dev Gana. Psychological aspects of 00:01:08.950 --> 00:01:11.370 Dev Ganas. All Dev Ganas I'm matching currently. 00:01:11.549 --> 00:01:14.069 We'll go to Manisha, Brakshasa Gana later. Okay, 00:01:14.090 --> 00:01:16.689 we're doing one by one. But the same principles 00:01:16.689 --> 00:01:19.719 what I'm saying here will apply to all of the 00:01:19.719 --> 00:01:24.599 intimacy podcasts in this channel. The psychological 00:01:24.599 --> 00:01:27.620 keywords. Devganas are empathetic. They are emotionally 00:01:27.620 --> 00:01:30.219 attuned. They are peace seeking. They have a 00:01:30.219 --> 00:01:32.700 sensitive nervous system. They are idealistic 00:01:32.700 --> 00:01:35.819 in love. They have a high moral compass. They 00:01:35.819 --> 00:01:39.799 are emotionally porous, harmony driven, avoids 00:01:39.799 --> 00:01:42.840 emotional aggression. Devgana is very tender, 00:01:44.280 --> 00:01:48.760 prefers emotional safety over thrill. Okay, relationship 00:01:48.760 --> 00:01:52.500 display patterns now. They are a nurturing partner. 00:01:52.980 --> 00:01:55.659 They are emotionally reassuring. They are consistent 00:01:55.659 --> 00:01:58.519 in their affection. They are gentle in their 00:01:58.519 --> 00:02:01.560 communication. They avoid confrontation at all 00:02:01.560 --> 00:02:08.280 costs. May over adjust to keep the peace. Boundaries, 00:02:08.379 --> 00:02:13.349 Devgana, prioritizes we over me. emotionally 00:02:13.349 --> 00:02:17.889 loyal, slow to detach even when unhappy. That's 00:02:17.889 --> 00:02:20.990 why they need other Devganas. That's why I do 00:02:20.990 --> 00:02:24.270 Gana matching. Emotional needs in love for them 00:02:24.270 --> 00:02:28.689 becomes emotional safety, kindness in tone, reassurance, 00:02:29.050 --> 00:02:31.930 predictability, gentle honesty, non -threatening 00:02:31.930 --> 00:02:34.789 communication and feeling chosen, emotionally 00:02:34.789 --> 00:02:38.389 speaking. The sexual intimacy keywords being 00:02:38.389 --> 00:02:42.710 emotionally bonded intimacy, slow arousal, Touch 00:02:42.710 --> 00:02:46.310 -sensitive, affectionate sexuality needs emotional 00:02:46.310 --> 00:02:51.409 permission to engage. Intimacy as a reassurance 00:02:51.409 --> 00:02:55.169 prefers connection over experimentation and their 00:02:55.169 --> 00:02:58.729 comfort -based desire. So what are the turn -ons 00:02:58.729 --> 00:03:02.889 for Devana? Tenderness, presence, emotional attunement, 00:03:03.370 --> 00:03:06.569 aftercare, not just running away from the bed. 00:03:07.939 --> 00:03:11.580 Being emotionally seen, turn -offs being emotional 00:03:11.580 --> 00:03:15.560 harshness, rushed intimacy, power games, criticism 00:03:15.560 --> 00:03:18.400 during vulnerability. These are the turn -ons 00:03:18.400 --> 00:03:21.620 and turn -offs for Devagana. Let's see Manushyagana 00:03:21.620 --> 00:03:25.740 next. Speaking of the Manushyagana now, okay, 00:03:26.180 --> 00:03:28.659 what are the keywords? Psychological keywords 00:03:28.659 --> 00:03:31.539 for Manushyagana in a relationship would be they 00:03:31.539 --> 00:03:34.520 are emotionally intelligent, They are adaptable. 00:03:35.060 --> 00:03:37.659 They are practical people, practically romantic. 00:03:38.300 --> 00:03:41.400 They have a balanced ego. They are socially attuned, 00:03:41.819 --> 00:03:44.960 very social awareness. They have pragmatic yet 00:03:44.960 --> 00:03:48.319 warm. They have a negotiator mindset, being in 00:03:48.319 --> 00:03:51.159 between Dave and Rakshasa Gana. They are negotiator. 00:03:51.919 --> 00:03:56.120 Reality oriented, relationally flexible. Apply 00:03:56.120 --> 00:03:58.419 all these rules, okay, when you are dealing with 00:03:58.419 --> 00:04:02.699 Gana's matching. Their relationship display patterns 00:04:02.699 --> 00:04:06.520 are their cooperative partner, they have a balanced 00:04:06.520 --> 00:04:09.080 give and take, they have a clear communication, 00:04:09.719 --> 00:04:11.840 they are emotionally present, they are willing 00:04:11.840 --> 00:04:15.919 to adjust, they seek fairness, they value mutual 00:04:15.919 --> 00:04:21.189 growth, they have a long -term orientation. Their 00:04:21.189 --> 00:04:24.709 emotional needs and love being mutual respect, 00:04:25.149 --> 00:04:28.430 honest communication, emotional reciprocity, 00:04:28.790 --> 00:04:31.750 stability with growth, feeling valued and not 00:04:31.750 --> 00:04:38.350 smothered, adult -to -adult bonding. The sexual 00:04:38.350 --> 00:04:41.370 intimacy keywords for them being balanced desire, 00:04:41.649 --> 00:04:45.209 emotionally physically connected, adaptable sexual 00:04:45.209 --> 00:04:48.449 style. They are explorers, something like Mrakshira. 00:04:49.580 --> 00:04:53.040 responsive to partner's needs, comfortable with 00:04:53.040 --> 00:04:57.519 experimentation within trust, intimacy as bonding 00:04:57.519 --> 00:05:01.779 plus pleasure, rhythm -based sexuality, turn 00:05:01.779 --> 00:05:05.220 -ons for them being emotional honesty, playful 00:05:05.220 --> 00:05:08.839 communication, mutual effort, feeling wanted 00:05:08.839 --> 00:05:13.480 and respected, turn -offs for them being emotional 00:05:13.480 --> 00:05:17.040 extremes, manipulation, power imbalance, being 00:05:17.040 --> 00:05:23.610 taken for granted. Last one, Rakshas Gana. These 00:05:23.610 --> 00:05:27.389 are the hardcore people. Okay, psychological 00:05:27.389 --> 00:05:30.230 keywords for Rakshas Gana. Intense emotional 00:05:30.230 --> 00:05:33.589 energy, dominant presence. You hear of these 00:05:33.589 --> 00:05:36.649 things going on, of people labeling one another 00:05:36.649 --> 00:05:39.529 narcissists. Well, you must have an incompatible 00:05:39.529 --> 00:05:43.129 Gana. If you are a Devakana paired up with a 00:05:43.129 --> 00:05:46.490 Rakshasakada, you will perceive them as a dominant 00:05:46.490 --> 00:05:50.310 people, as narcissistic. It's a perception in 00:05:50.310 --> 00:05:54.550 many cases. High libido life force. They are 00:05:54.550 --> 00:05:57.350 instinct driven. They are very emotionally raw 00:05:57.350 --> 00:06:02.490 people. Power oriented psyche. They are narcissist. 00:06:03.430 --> 00:06:06.029 Confrontational kind of people. Confrontational 00:06:06.029 --> 00:06:09.370 honesty. They are very direct. Transformation 00:06:09.370 --> 00:06:14.120 seeking. Strong ego boundaries. They display 00:06:14.120 --> 00:06:18.199 relationship dynamics as passionate bonding because 00:06:18.199 --> 00:06:21.180 it's a tamasic group. So they will everything 00:06:21.180 --> 00:06:23.800 want to do with physical intimacy. Very strong 00:06:23.800 --> 00:06:27.720 here. Strong attachment. Protective instincts, 00:06:28.139 --> 00:06:31.860 possessiveness, clingy people confronts issues 00:06:31.860 --> 00:06:37.139 directly, may dominate emotionally. Loyal ones 00:06:37.139 --> 00:06:41.199 bonded. demands authenticity, struggles with 00:06:41.199 --> 00:06:44.279 emotional subtlety. They can't perceive cues, 00:06:44.639 --> 00:06:46.939 emotional cues. Rakshasa Gana is tell me the 00:06:46.939 --> 00:06:49.779 way it is or get off like you know like Americans 00:06:49.779 --> 00:06:53.160 love to say shit or get off the part. Emotional 00:06:53.160 --> 00:06:57.819 needs and love, loyalty, emotional honesty, respect 00:06:57.819 --> 00:07:00.399 for autonomy, they are very independent kind 00:07:00.399 --> 00:07:04.100 of mentality, Rakshasa Gana people. Intensity 00:07:04.100 --> 00:07:08.160 mirrored back, they need that feedback. emotional 00:07:08.160 --> 00:07:11.819 courage from the partner freedom within commitment 00:07:11.819 --> 00:07:15.899 sexual intimacy keywords here being high sexual 00:07:15.899 --> 00:07:19.959 drive the highest among the three ganas primal 00:07:19.959 --> 00:07:23.079 sort of desire very animalistic sexual instincts 00:07:23.079 --> 00:07:27.300 they have intense chemistry dominant submissive 00:07:27.300 --> 00:07:30.680 polarity you know you hear of this BDSM business 00:07:30.680 --> 00:07:34.980 they fall into raksas gana Passion -driven intimacy, 00:07:35.519 --> 00:07:39.339 physical expression of bonding, experimentation, 00:07:40.180 --> 00:07:43.980 desire fueled by emotional charge. You see the 00:07:43.980 --> 00:07:47.980 hectic nature of these nakshatras, all the raksasakanas, 00:07:48.120 --> 00:07:49.680 there are nine of them, we will see them one 00:07:49.680 --> 00:07:53.319 by one. Turn -ons here being, they are confident, 00:07:53.660 --> 00:07:55.519 they are emotional courage, they are turned on 00:07:55.519 --> 00:07:59.220 by this, turned on by intensity, more dominantly 00:07:59.220 --> 00:08:03.079 physical. desire openly expressed. They want 00:08:03.079 --> 00:08:06.779 everything overt, not covert. They have a power, 00:08:06.800 --> 00:08:10.240 polarity, dynamic playing. Turnoffs being emotional 00:08:10.240 --> 00:08:13.540 withdrawal, excessive sensitivity. See, that's 00:08:13.540 --> 00:08:15.899 why they don't get along with Deoghanas, because 00:08:15.899 --> 00:08:18.920 Deoghanas are very sensitive. These people find 00:08:18.920 --> 00:08:21.800 them like you're way too sensitive. You're not 00:08:21.800 --> 00:08:25.759 matching them properly, people. Moral judgment, 00:08:26.139 --> 00:08:29.889 lack of passion. If you have lack of physical 00:08:29.889 --> 00:08:33.409 passion, do not try to pair with a Devagana. 00:08:33.529 --> 00:08:37.549 Please, you will create disaster scenarios. Okay, 00:08:38.169 --> 00:08:41.570 back to... I need to explain. I suddenly found 00:08:41.570 --> 00:08:45.970 out how I make these charts and how to find out 00:08:45.970 --> 00:08:48.169 Devagana, Manasugana and Rakshasagana within 00:08:48.169 --> 00:08:51.470 the charts. So, last slide. Let's just take Volvo 00:08:51.470 --> 00:08:54.559 Ascent and this is a chart. So, how do you figure 00:08:54.559 --> 00:08:57.639 out which one is Devagana, which one is Manushagana 00:08:57.639 --> 00:08:59.740 and which one is Rakshatagana in this? As you 00:08:59.740 --> 00:09:02.419 can see three bubbles in each of the houses, 00:09:02.779 --> 00:09:05.120 isn't it? Okay, there will be any ascendant. 00:09:06.259 --> 00:09:08.700 You see three bubbles. These are the nakshatras. 00:09:09.019 --> 00:09:12.480 The blue bubbles in every house wherever they 00:09:12.480 --> 00:09:16.559 appear are all Devaganas. The brown bubbles are 00:09:16.559 --> 00:09:19.759 Manushaganas which we shall get to in the future 00:09:19.759 --> 00:09:23.470 podcast. And the yellow bubbles are Rakshasa 00:09:23.470 --> 00:09:27.950 Kananak Chhatras in each of the houses. There. 00:09:28.289 --> 00:09:31.850 I laid it out for you. Now we can do the detailed 00:09:31.850 --> 00:09:34.970 sort of examination of all of this. I shall leave 00:09:34.970 --> 00:09:36.889 this for the LinkedIn newsletter people also. 00:09:36.950 --> 00:09:38.570 They will be wondering what the hell this guy 00:09:38.570 --> 00:09:40.830 is doing. I don't understand head or tail of 00:09:40.830 --> 00:09:43.470 this. So this is for all the people on LinkedIn 00:09:43.470 --> 00:09:48.710 newsletter also. I shall leave this as a standalone. 00:09:49.640 --> 00:09:52.919 Set of slides, you can take screenshots if you're 00:09:52.919 --> 00:09:56.519 doing matchmaking, if you're analyzing your own 00:09:56.519 --> 00:09:59.259 dynamics, your relationships. I leave this as 00:09:59.259 --> 00:10:01.960 a standalone podcast on YouTube channel as well. 00:10:02.240 --> 00:10:04.820 Take care, be safe. I shall see you in the next.