WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.419 Good morning ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls. 00:00:03.020 --> 00:00:05.980 We are doing continuing our studies on intimacy, 00:00:06.379 --> 00:00:08.660 principles of intimacy. Remember always this 00:00:08.660 --> 00:00:12.359 first slide, okay. So you require nurturing, 00:00:12.880 --> 00:00:16.420 kindness, freedom, allowance, empathy and vulnerability 00:00:16.420 --> 00:00:19.600 and it all begins with consciousness itself. 00:00:20.219 --> 00:00:22.920 So you have to understand the principles of consciousness. 00:00:22.940 --> 00:00:27.480 We move that video over there, okay. And to do 00:00:27.480 --> 00:00:31.780 that, You have to engage consciously with all 00:00:31.780 --> 00:00:34.100 these aspects in the other individual. You must 00:00:34.100 --> 00:00:38.340 have choice, a good set of choices. What you 00:00:38.340 --> 00:00:40.979 intend to do, the intent has to be there and 00:00:40.979 --> 00:00:44.079 then you come to calibration. You come to adjusting 00:00:44.079 --> 00:00:46.380 to the other person. Okay, this person functions 00:00:46.380 --> 00:00:49.740 like this. His or her Mercury is like this. His 00:00:49.740 --> 00:00:51.960 or her Venus is like this. His or her Moon is 00:00:51.960 --> 00:00:55.119 like this. That's why all these series. So you 00:00:55.119 --> 00:00:59.079 understand it. Intimacy is not just getting into 00:00:59.079 --> 00:01:02.899 the sexual chemistry, that's just mass. Intimacy 00:01:02.899 --> 00:01:05.640 is getting into the long -term aspects of how 00:01:05.640 --> 00:01:08.719 you're going to live, work with, cooperate with, 00:01:08.959 --> 00:01:12.879 engage with in all these six forms with the other 00:01:12.879 --> 00:01:15.599 individual. That's what the gift of intimacy 00:01:15.599 --> 00:01:17.980 is. It requires some consciousness, it requires 00:01:17.980 --> 00:01:22.400 some choice on your parts, not body parts. landing 00:01:22.400 --> 00:01:24.900 together and meshing together body parts. It's 00:01:24.900 --> 00:01:26.920 none of that stuff. If you want to go down that 00:01:26.920 --> 00:01:30.500 road, well, I would just say good luck with all 00:01:30.500 --> 00:01:33.200 the karma that comes along with it, isn't it? 00:01:33.400 --> 00:01:36.260 So it depends upon what you do and these are 00:01:36.260 --> 00:01:40.599 the planets which govern that. The Venus as your 00:01:40.599 --> 00:01:43.439 value system, your eyes, your inner perception, 00:01:44.159 --> 00:01:47.640 your sexual organs, your sense of what creation 00:01:47.640 --> 00:01:51.140 of beauty you bring to the table. each individual, 00:01:51.200 --> 00:01:54.560 of course. And it will depend upon the moon, 00:01:55.239 --> 00:01:56.980 it will depend upon the Venus, which nakshatra 00:01:56.980 --> 00:01:59.159 it is placed, which house it is placed. That 00:01:59.159 --> 00:02:02.180 will be the dominant signature, isn't it? Nakshatras 00:02:02.180 --> 00:02:04.760 in science always play a part, even the house 00:02:04.760 --> 00:02:08.659 it sits in. Your aesthetic sense will be determined 00:02:08.659 --> 00:02:11.840 by this. It stands for the water element. So 00:02:11.840 --> 00:02:15.340 you've got to be very creative about everything. 00:02:15.659 --> 00:02:20.830 Venus is a highly creative planet. Then comes 00:02:20.830 --> 00:02:23.189 the moon, that's also a watery planet, water 00:02:23.189 --> 00:02:25.509 element, but that has to do with more emotion, 00:02:25.710 --> 00:02:28.449 the fourth house, the cancer, the peace, the 00:02:28.449 --> 00:02:32.629 peace of the heart, the subconscious mind. The 00:02:32.629 --> 00:02:35.430 twelfth house, for example, even the fourth and 00:02:35.430 --> 00:02:38.409 the twelfth both. Emotional intelligence, what 00:02:38.409 --> 00:02:41.150 factors matter there? What is your level of, 00:02:41.289 --> 00:02:43.870 not level would not be there, but your signature 00:02:43.870 --> 00:02:46.449 of emotional intelligence, because these are 00:02:46.449 --> 00:02:50.000 signatures. In Jyotish, nothing is evaluated 00:02:50.000 --> 00:02:54.840 in terms of points, in terms of highs and lows. 00:02:55.259 --> 00:02:58.919 It's just what is. Jyotish is a science of studying 00:02:58.919 --> 00:03:01.439 what is in your chart. You're operating manually. 00:03:02.939 --> 00:03:05.300 Next comes Mercury. You have to understand the 00:03:05.300 --> 00:03:07.860 intelligence and the type of the other individual. 00:03:08.460 --> 00:03:11.620 Innocence is another aspect of Mercury. Childlike 00:03:11.620 --> 00:03:14.819 play has to be there. There has to be the skin 00:03:14.819 --> 00:03:17.099 and the nerves element, which means to say, how 00:03:17.099 --> 00:03:19.819 do you engage with the other person in the nervous 00:03:19.819 --> 00:03:22.659 system? Because you have your own, isn't it? 00:03:22.780 --> 00:03:26.800 You have your Mercury and she has hers. So you 00:03:26.800 --> 00:03:30.039 have to engage consciously with that. Think of 00:03:30.039 --> 00:03:32.360 where Mercury is placed, what kind of nakshatra 00:03:32.360 --> 00:03:35.500 house it is placed. Mercury is your logical, 00:03:35.879 --> 00:03:39.400 intellectual sense. It is also the earth element, 00:03:39.539 --> 00:03:42.080 so engage more with plants, forest, trees if 00:03:42.080 --> 00:03:45.719 you want to have a pure perspective. Let's get 00:03:45.719 --> 00:03:49.919 into the details now for Pushya nakshatra. First 00:03:49.919 --> 00:03:53.560 of all, we'll take this first position. So now 00:03:53.560 --> 00:03:57.180 the moon is in Pushya nakshatra in the woman's 00:03:57.180 --> 00:04:00.840 chart and the man's chart has Astha nakshatra. 00:04:01.099 --> 00:04:04.199 So it's the 3 -11 dynamic. How does that play 00:04:04.199 --> 00:04:08.610 out? The 311 dynamic is Nourishment, Meeting, 00:04:08.969 --> 00:04:16.689 Competence. It's got hand skills. Pushya, the 00:04:16.689 --> 00:04:20.990 cancer, woman, nurturance, emotional containment, 00:04:21.589 --> 00:04:25.189 loyalty, patience, protection, rhythm and long 00:04:25.189 --> 00:04:27.449 -term security. This is the signature of Pushyana 00:04:27.449 --> 00:04:31.149 Kshatra Mohant. Hastanakshatra, Virgo on the 00:04:31.149 --> 00:04:33.389 other hand, the man brings skill, precision, 00:04:33.689 --> 00:04:36.209 service, reliability, problem -solving method 00:04:36.209 --> 00:04:41.389 and quiet strength. The 311 axis signature plays 00:04:41.389 --> 00:04:45.490 out like effort versus fulfillment, care in action 00:04:45.490 --> 00:04:49.029 versus gain through consistency, daily support 00:04:49.029 --> 00:04:53.230 versus long -term rewards, friends to partner's 00:04:53.230 --> 00:04:56.189 tone. This is a Upachaya Hausa so it will grow 00:04:56.189 --> 00:04:59.170 with time, 3 and 11. This is a team building 00:04:59.170 --> 00:05:03.029 axis. Intimacy grows by working, improving and 00:05:03.029 --> 00:05:07.269 succeeding together. That's the dynamic. Now 00:05:07.269 --> 00:05:09.709 how does feminine moon play out? The Pushya woman. 00:05:10.129 --> 00:05:13.050 She bonds through care, routine and emotional 00:05:13.050 --> 00:05:15.949 safety. Expresses love by feeding, supporting 00:05:15.949 --> 00:05:19.829 and holding space. Needs appreciation and reliability. 00:05:20.970 --> 00:05:24.509 Feels secure when future looks stable. Keywords 00:05:24.509 --> 00:05:27.790 for her is nourishment, loyalty, emotional shelter 00:05:27.790 --> 00:05:31.910 and steadiness. The masculine born for him in 00:05:31.910 --> 00:05:35.170 hasta and workho, wants through usefulness and 00:05:35.170 --> 00:05:38.389 competence, shows love by fixing, organizing, 00:05:38.709 --> 00:05:42.610 showing up, needs respect for effort and skill. 00:05:42.990 --> 00:05:46.449 If your man is hasta, you better give him compliments, 00:05:46.730 --> 00:05:48.730 shower him with compliments for the effort he 00:05:48.730 --> 00:05:54.149 takes. That's where he perceives it. feels confident 00:05:54.149 --> 00:05:56.370 when he is effective. The keywords here being 00:05:56.370 --> 00:05:59.629 service, precision, dependability, practical 00:05:59.629 --> 00:06:03.649 affection. The sexual intimacy dynamics follows 00:06:03.649 --> 00:06:07.509 as the tone becomes one of calm, attentive, confidence 00:06:07.509 --> 00:06:10.970 building. Desire grows through trust and routine, 00:06:11.769 --> 00:06:15.550 that's guided by care and responsiveness. The 00:06:15.550 --> 00:06:17.990 rhythm improves through feedback and refinement. 00:06:18.699 --> 00:06:21.639 Asthana Kshetra is refinement, less drama and 00:06:21.639 --> 00:06:24.019 more depth. No criticism of Asthana Kshetra. 00:06:24.620 --> 00:06:28.220 The arousal keys here being Pushya woman loves 00:06:28.220 --> 00:06:31.319 to have safety, patience and emotional consistency. 00:06:31.420 --> 00:06:34.220 That's when she'll be available for engaging 00:06:34.220 --> 00:06:36.779 sexually. You need to have the other person available, 00:06:37.000 --> 00:06:40.300 man or woman. Asthana man wants appreciation, 00:06:40.720 --> 00:06:44.199 attentiveness and feeling needed. Best expression 00:06:44.199 --> 00:06:47.310 would be slow build, mutual attunement. Like 00:06:47.310 --> 00:06:50.930 I said, calibration. We've got this kind of intimacy. 00:06:51.610 --> 00:06:54.610 The risky factors here being emotional heaviness, 00:06:55.050 --> 00:06:58.329 over -responsibility, criticism versus sensitivity, 00:06:58.930 --> 00:07:01.430 romance neglected for duty. Now, Pushyana Kshetra 00:07:01.430 --> 00:07:05.430 has this theme. Pushyana Kshetra, you can see 00:07:05.430 --> 00:07:07.350 the themes in different channels. They cover 00:07:07.350 --> 00:07:09.949 it in more detail. Pushyana Kshetra has a tendency 00:07:09.949 --> 00:07:13.310 of neglecting spouse. Be careful of that Pushyana 00:07:13.310 --> 00:07:16.050 Kshetra, especially if your moon of Venus is 00:07:16.050 --> 00:07:20.259 here. fails if care can become control or service 00:07:20.259 --> 00:07:23.920 replaces affection. Can't substitute one thing 00:07:23.920 --> 00:07:27.639 for another people. The two are different. This 00:07:27.639 --> 00:07:30.680 is a quietly powerful 311 pairing. Friendship 00:07:30.680 --> 00:07:33.180 first, competence driven, deeply sustainable 00:07:33.180 --> 00:07:35.899 over time. Best for those who value emotional 00:07:35.899 --> 00:07:39.819 security, teamwork, steady intimacy, shared growth. 00:07:40.459 --> 00:07:43.860 Not ideal for those seeking high drama. unpredictability 00:07:43.860 --> 00:07:47.019 or constant novelty instead amazing isn't it 00:07:47.019 --> 00:07:51.199 how we see constant novelty in everything okay 00:07:51.199 --> 00:07:54.379 i shall see you in the next one further to continue 00:07:54.379 --> 00:07:59.060 in this video we shall take pusha her pusha versus 00:07:59.060 --> 00:08:04.439 him we will put him over in swati nakshatra okay 00:08:04.439 --> 00:08:07.500 pusha nakshatra as you can see has got all dynamics 00:08:07.500 --> 00:08:10.319 so it will be a very interesting study See there 00:08:10.319 --> 00:08:12.759 is Devgana in each one of the 1, 4, 7, 10 and 00:08:12.759 --> 00:08:15.620 11. So we shall pair them. Keep watching. So 00:08:15.620 --> 00:08:19.060 we saw Pushya woman versus Hasta man. Now let's 00:08:19.060 --> 00:08:23.259 move the cursor a little bit. Let us see what 00:08:23.259 --> 00:08:28.040 happens when I move the man to Swati over here. 00:08:28.100 --> 00:08:31.319 So now we have the 4, 10 dynamic. Isn't it? 4th 00:08:31.319 --> 00:08:34.059 place and 10th place from his moon is her moon. 00:08:34.779 --> 00:08:36.960 So what are the dynamics of this relationship? 00:08:38.399 --> 00:08:42.240 This pairing is one of nourishment meeting freedom 00:08:42.240 --> 00:08:46.899 with grace. Freedom is swati. Swati seeks freedom 00:08:46.899 --> 00:08:50.620 above all things, swati moans. They need the 00:08:50.620 --> 00:08:53.600 freedom to be that aspect which I showed you 00:08:53.600 --> 00:08:56.700 in the first slide. Okay, remember that. The 00:08:56.700 --> 00:08:59.580 core vivna kshetra plus sign here becomes pusya 00:08:59.580 --> 00:09:02.299 in cancer. The woman is nurturance, emotional 00:09:02.299 --> 00:09:05.990 containment, loyalty, patience, rhythm. protection 00:09:05.990 --> 00:09:08.470 and long -term security. That's what he seeks. 00:09:09.029 --> 00:09:12.570 What does he seek? He seeks independence, balance, 00:09:12.929 --> 00:09:15.850 self -direction, diplomacy, light attachment, 00:09:16.470 --> 00:09:19.789 adaptability and fairness. It's the heart of 00:09:19.789 --> 00:09:24.210 Libra, Swati. So it is always caught between 00:09:24.210 --> 00:09:27.370 two aspects. The Swati man will be caught between 00:09:27.370 --> 00:09:30.269 having independence of his own. It's very independent, 00:09:30.330 --> 00:09:33.649 Nakshatra. and yet doing for others, so it will 00:09:33.649 --> 00:09:37.629 see a fair play everywhere. This is a 410 axis, 00:09:37.929 --> 00:09:40.350 so the signature of this relationship will be 00:09:40.350 --> 00:09:44.190 inner refuge and outer autonomy, emotional home 00:09:44.190 --> 00:09:48.470 versus social equilibrium, care versus choice, 00:09:48.710 --> 00:09:51.750 stability versus airy movement, seeks a lot of 00:09:51.750 --> 00:09:55.610 movement, Libra stands for, another symbol is 00:09:55.610 --> 00:10:00.059 grass swaying in the wind. Private safety versus 00:10:00.059 --> 00:10:03.340 public balance. This is a homeworld polarity. 00:10:03.799 --> 00:10:06.440 Intimacy grows when care anchors freedom and 00:10:06.440 --> 00:10:09.960 freedom respects care. See, the mutuality always 00:10:09.960 --> 00:10:13.779 plays in. For her, the feminine pushyamun woman 00:10:13.779 --> 00:10:16.799 bonds through consistency, rituals and emotional 00:10:16.799 --> 00:10:20.600 reliability. He needs to know this. Gives love 00:10:20.600 --> 00:10:24.340 via holding, feeding and sustaining. Needs reassurance 00:10:24.340 --> 00:10:28.240 and future orientation. feels safe and the bond 00:10:28.240 --> 00:10:33.220 has weight and direction. So Saturn ruling Kshetra. 00:10:33.600 --> 00:10:37.039 Keywords for her is security, loyalty, emotional 00:10:37.039 --> 00:10:41.179 shelter and steadiness. For him, for the Swati 00:10:41.179 --> 00:10:43.539 moon, she needs to know this. Bonds through joy, 00:10:43.720 --> 00:10:47.879 space and mutual respect. Shows love via fairness, 00:10:48.039 --> 00:10:50.759 listening and non -possession. Don't try to be 00:10:50.759 --> 00:10:54.360 possessive as Pushya tends to be with the Swati 00:10:54.360 --> 00:10:57.240 moon. It is highly independent. It will rebel. 00:10:57.960 --> 00:11:01.379 Needs autonomy and mental ease. Feels close when 00:11:01.379 --> 00:11:05.059 intimacy doesn't cage. He doesn't like tight 00:11:05.059 --> 00:11:09.179 cages. Don't put him in boxes. The keywords here 00:11:09.179 --> 00:11:11.860 being independence, diplomacy, flexibility and 00:11:11.860 --> 00:11:15.159 balance. One more thing came to my mind. Keep 00:11:15.159 --> 00:11:18.720 these also aspect for the Ascended Nakshatra. 00:11:19.740 --> 00:11:23.720 Sexual intimacy dynamics here, one being of gentle, 00:11:23.940 --> 00:11:28.620 aesthetic, Consent led. Attraction through emotional 00:11:28.620 --> 00:11:32.360 safety and elegance. Desire rises with trust 00:11:32.360 --> 00:11:35.480 and freedom. The rhythm improves when pressure 00:11:35.480 --> 00:11:40.320 is low. Keep it down low here. Affection thrives 00:11:40.320 --> 00:11:44.080 in calm, beautiful settings. Libra loves settings. 00:11:44.899 --> 00:11:46.980 So the way you can attract him more is put a 00:11:46.980 --> 00:11:50.279 lot of scented candles in your bedroom, in your 00:11:50.279 --> 00:11:53.759 house. Set the environment. Environment is very 00:11:53.759 --> 00:11:57.700 important for Libra. Pushya woman. Safety, patience, 00:11:57.980 --> 00:12:00.960 emotional continuity. These are the arousal keys. 00:12:01.620 --> 00:12:05.379 Swati wants choice, softness, respectful space 00:12:05.379 --> 00:12:08.720 and highly decorated space. Venus is dominant 00:12:08.720 --> 00:12:13.799 in Libra. Risk words here being over nurturing 00:12:13.799 --> 00:12:19.019 versus emotional drift. Attachment versus detachment. 00:12:19.360 --> 00:12:23.639 Security needs alignment. for her. Avoidance 00:12:23.639 --> 00:12:28.840 of emotional depth for him. Okay? This relationship 00:12:28.840 --> 00:12:32.059 could fail if care becomes control and freedom 00:12:32.059 --> 00:12:34.519 avoids commitment. He wants too much of freedom. 00:12:35.000 --> 00:12:39.620 Are you non -committal? Ask him that. This is 00:12:39.620 --> 00:12:41.860 the refinement through balance. 410 pairings. 00:12:42.159 --> 00:12:44.559 Sustainable when care grounds freedom and freedom 00:12:44.559 --> 00:12:47.779 lightens the care part. Best for those who value 00:12:48.440 --> 00:12:51.879 emotional safety, elegance and mutual respect. 00:12:52.519 --> 00:12:55.639 Not ideal for those seeking intensity, position 00:12:55.639 --> 00:12:58.039 or emotional pressure. This leads us to a very 00:12:58.039 --> 00:13:01.360 important point, isn't it? What are you seeking 00:13:01.360 --> 00:13:04.379 as a partner in terms of long term partnership? 00:13:04.759 --> 00:13:07.600 Because marriage is a long term partnership. 00:13:07.720 --> 00:13:10.659 This is a long playing game. This is not a one 00:13:10.659 --> 00:13:14.419 night stand. You want somebody whom you can grow 00:13:14.419 --> 00:13:16.840 with. There has to be a growth in a relationship. 00:13:17.019 --> 00:13:20.639 Many things are, religions, cases I have come 00:13:20.639 --> 00:13:24.000 across fail because they lack the initiative 00:13:24.000 --> 00:13:28.240 to grow as a couple. To accept one another's 00:13:28.240 --> 00:13:30.860 growth can be on various tangentials. It's not 00:13:30.860 --> 00:13:33.179 necessary one partner has to grow at the same 00:13:33.179 --> 00:13:37.019 rate or speed or style as the other partner. 00:13:38.059 --> 00:13:42.279 Be very, very careful of this. Next, let continuing 00:13:42.279 --> 00:13:46.340 further in this video, let us see Pushya versus 00:13:47.110 --> 00:13:50.750 Shravana, the one -seven dynamic, playing out 00:13:50.750 --> 00:13:53.590 between Cancer and Capricorn. Keep watching. 00:13:54.029 --> 00:13:57.049 Now we move into the one -seven dynamic. So let's 00:13:57.049 --> 00:14:00.870 move this gentleman from that position to that 00:14:00.870 --> 00:14:04.409 position. So now he is Shravana, they are facing 00:14:04.409 --> 00:14:07.590 one another. Cancer and Capricorn are facing 00:14:07.590 --> 00:14:10.250 one another. So this is the one -seven dynamic. 00:14:10.330 --> 00:14:13.389 This will be a powerful attraction. This pairing 00:14:13.389 --> 00:14:16.789 is one as nourishment meeting responsibility. 00:14:17.809 --> 00:14:20.809 The Pushya, a cancer woman, wants nurturing, 00:14:21.049 --> 00:14:23.669 emotional containment, loyalty, patience, rhythm, 00:14:23.950 --> 00:14:26.490 protection and long -term security. We saw this. 00:14:27.049 --> 00:14:29.230 How does it play Vishwana? What does he want? 00:14:29.769 --> 00:14:33.009 Discipline, listening, duty, wisdom through experience, 00:14:33.509 --> 00:14:36.549 structure, accountability and legacy minded. 00:14:36.690 --> 00:14:39.379 Remember Capricorn moons are very tight. Capricorn 00:14:39.379 --> 00:14:42.419 is a very tight sign. It tends to bind planets. 00:14:43.600 --> 00:14:45.759 So Capricorn, Moon, first of all, Shravana, Arutra, 00:14:45.820 --> 00:14:49.000 Ashada, please go do some Vishnu Sahasranama. 00:14:50.559 --> 00:14:55.080 One -seven axis. Emotional self versus responsible 00:14:55.080 --> 00:14:59.360 other. Care versus commitment. Home -making versus 00:14:59.360 --> 00:15:02.759 world -bearing. Capricorn, Shravana, Moon is 00:15:02.759 --> 00:15:06.620 very worldly. Feeling versus function. It always 00:15:06.620 --> 00:15:08.960 looks for the function. It always looks for the 00:15:08.960 --> 00:15:12.840 gain. Belonging versus duty. This is a classical 00:15:12.840 --> 00:15:15.799 spouse -access bond. Attraction forms through 00:15:15.799 --> 00:15:21.279 complementary roles and mutual reliance. Feminine 00:15:21.279 --> 00:15:24.500 bond. Pusha. What she wants? Bonds through emotional 00:15:24.500 --> 00:15:27.600 safety, routine and dependability. Loves by feeding, 00:15:27.899 --> 00:15:30.539 supporting and holding the private world. Answer. 00:15:30.759 --> 00:15:34.149 Fourth house. Needs reassurance and presence. 00:15:34.269 --> 00:15:36.990 Feels chosen when the bond is prioritized and 00:15:36.990 --> 00:15:40.129 protected. The keywords here being loyalty, care, 00:15:40.649 --> 00:15:44.350 emotional shelter and continuity. Masculine moon 00:15:44.350 --> 00:15:47.570 for Shravana. For him, bonds through responsibility, 00:15:47.809 --> 00:15:51.929 long -term intent shows love via provision, consistency 00:15:51.929 --> 00:15:54.509 and keeping promises. They are very good at keeping 00:15:54.509 --> 00:15:58.039 promises, Shravana. They are responsible. Moon 00:15:58.039 --> 00:16:01.019 becomes responsible here. It gets the interlacing 00:16:01.019 --> 00:16:04.279 energy of Saturn. Capricorn is a sign of Saturn. 00:16:04.960 --> 00:16:07.700 Needs respect for effort and patience for timing. 00:16:08.500 --> 00:16:10.799 Feels secure when the relationship has structure 00:16:10.799 --> 00:16:13.539 and direction. This is not an airy -fairy sign, 00:16:13.580 --> 00:16:17.899 Capricorn. Key words being duty, listening, steadiness 00:16:17.899 --> 00:16:21.179 and earned trust. The sexual intimacy dynamic 00:16:21.179 --> 00:16:25.779 follows as one which is reserved, deepening and 00:16:25.779 --> 00:16:29.210 trust -led. Desire grows with safety and reliability. 00:16:29.330 --> 00:16:33.690 There is a slowness as you can feel. Intimacy 00:16:33.690 --> 00:16:37.129 strengthens through ritual, routine and reassurance. 00:16:37.610 --> 00:16:41.710 Less impulsive and more enduring. Touch communicates 00:16:41.710 --> 00:16:45.789 commitment over excitement. Arousal keys for 00:16:45.789 --> 00:16:48.769 Pusha woman being emotional presence, consistency 00:16:48.769 --> 00:16:52.409 and protection. For him being trust, respect 00:16:52.409 --> 00:16:56.320 and feeling needed and relied upon. the best 00:16:56.320 --> 00:16:59.440 expression is a slow build is a mutual dependability 00:16:59.440 --> 00:17:03.100 we are in this for the long term long run approach 00:17:03.100 --> 00:17:07.240 the risky words in this relationship being emotional 00:17:07.240 --> 00:17:10.680 heaviness Capricorn is very heavy the saturn 00:17:10.680 --> 00:17:14.200 burden comes to play here old duty replacing 00:17:14.200 --> 00:17:19.359 romance see there's no lightness coldness versus 00:17:19.359 --> 00:17:23.220 sensitivity silence instead of reassurance fails 00:17:23.220 --> 00:17:27.559 if responsibility There's the key word. If responsibility 00:17:27.559 --> 00:17:31.599 eclipses affection or care turns into expectation, 00:17:32.359 --> 00:17:37.059 you owe me this is Capricorn Moon. That's the 00:17:37.059 --> 00:17:40.579 case. This is a serious marriage, grade one seven 00:17:40.579 --> 00:17:43.940 pairing strong for long term longevity, family 00:17:43.940 --> 00:17:47.900 building and karmic partnership. Best for those 00:17:47.900 --> 00:17:50.539 who value security, commitment, reliability and 00:17:50.539 --> 00:17:53.319 emotional maturity. Not ideal for those seeking 00:17:53.319 --> 00:17:57.460 lightness, novelty or fast emotional gratification. 00:17:58.779 --> 00:18:03.460 Now we move on to Pushya cancer woman versus 00:18:03.460 --> 00:18:06.720 Ashwini Aries, the 10 -4 dynamic. So let's first 00:18:06.720 --> 00:18:12.759 move the person over here, the guy. Okay, let's 00:18:12.759 --> 00:18:16.599 move him now to that one, Ashwini. Now in the 00:18:16.599 --> 00:18:21.519 tenth place is Ashwini. Ashwini versus Pushya. 00:18:21.740 --> 00:18:24.960 This becomes a little more different kind of 00:18:24.960 --> 00:18:27.079 challenges. Everything is just a different kind, 00:18:27.359 --> 00:18:31.519 not necessarily a good or bad one. Although both 00:18:31.519 --> 00:18:36.140 are Devgana, let us see how this pairing brings. 00:18:36.480 --> 00:18:39.779 Nourishment anchoring impulse. He is very impulsive 00:18:39.779 --> 00:18:44.420 in this. Pushya, cancer woman, wants nurture 00:18:44.420 --> 00:18:46.900 and emotional containment, loyalty and patience 00:18:46.900 --> 00:18:50.019 and rhythm. Ashwini wants initiation, speed, 00:18:50.500 --> 00:18:53.480 instinct, courage, action first, emotions later. 00:18:54.160 --> 00:18:56.920 That's the trouble, isn't it? Spark and rapid 00:18:56.920 --> 00:19:01.180 attachment. The 10 -4 axis provides outer action 00:19:01.180 --> 00:19:05.000 versus inner refuge kind of energy. Doing versus 00:19:05.000 --> 00:19:09.009 holding. Impulse versus stability. World drive 00:19:09.009 --> 00:19:12.730 versus home base, momentum versus containment. 00:19:13.809 --> 00:19:17.309 This is a home direction polarity, intimacy stabilizes 00:19:17.309 --> 00:19:20.670 when care grounds action, action energizes care. 00:19:22.210 --> 00:19:25.450 So her part we already know, bonds through consistency, 00:19:26.109 --> 00:19:29.410 the bonding factors. Rituals and reassurance, 00:19:29.750 --> 00:19:31.589 loves by feeding, protecting and sustaining. 00:19:31.829 --> 00:19:35.210 Needs predictability and presence. Feels safe 00:19:35.210 --> 00:19:39.410 when born has weight and continuity. For him, 00:19:39.670 --> 00:19:42.690 for the Ashwini man, he wants initiative and 00:19:42.690 --> 00:19:46.170 immediacy. Shows love via doing, deciding, moving. 00:19:46.430 --> 00:19:49.650 It's a very fast -moving nakshatra. Needs appreciation, 00:19:49.930 --> 00:19:52.369 not restraint. You can't restrain, Ashwini. It's 00:19:52.369 --> 00:19:56.049 impossible. Feels alive and supported, not slowed 00:19:56.049 --> 00:19:59.859 down. Keywords for him being spark. courage, 00:20:00.519 --> 00:20:04.339 momentum and decisive affection. The sexual intimacy 00:20:04.339 --> 00:20:07.779 dynamics can be very high in this. Fast spark 00:20:07.779 --> 00:20:11.460 and slow deepening. Attraction ignites Ashwini 00:20:11.460 --> 00:20:14.599 quickly. Satisfaction stabilizes with rhythm. 00:20:14.920 --> 00:20:19.160 Pushya for her. Desire thrives when speed meets 00:20:19.160 --> 00:20:22.720 safety. So it's a complicated dynamic in that 00:20:22.720 --> 00:20:27.700 context. Everyone is. Best flow is initiate, 00:20:28.000 --> 00:20:31.500 soothe, and then repeat. Arousal key is being 00:20:31.500 --> 00:20:34.039 pushy, a woman feels safety, patience, and emotional 00:20:34.039 --> 00:20:37.740 presence. Ashwini man has encouragement, responsiveness, 00:20:38.240 --> 00:20:41.859 and freedom to lead. There are various risk factors, 00:20:41.940 --> 00:20:44.500 in this case being impatience versus caution, 00:20:45.160 --> 00:20:48.059 over -mothering. She will tend to over -mother 00:20:48.059 --> 00:20:53.000 cancer. Emotional pressure from her side. Burnout 00:20:53.000 --> 00:20:57.500 on mismatched tempo, Ashwini. Fails if care becomes 00:20:57.500 --> 00:21:01.599 control or speed ignores reassurance. See, it 00:21:01.599 --> 00:21:05.259 plays both ways, folks. This is a pairing with 00:21:05.259 --> 00:21:08.539 high vitality, powerful when the impulse is welcomed 00:21:08.539 --> 00:21:11.339 and then gently anchored. There has to be a gentleness. 00:21:11.440 --> 00:21:14.200 Ashwini needs to understand this. Best for those 00:21:14.200 --> 00:21:17.259 who value security, action and clear roles, not 00:21:17.259 --> 00:21:20.670 ideal for those seeking equal pacing, emotional 00:21:20.670 --> 00:21:25.450 ambivity or hands off kind of intimacy. Now let's 00:21:25.450 --> 00:21:29.089 see the last pairing, Pushya, Momentum, Rikshira, 00:21:29.450 --> 00:21:33.789 the 11 -3 dynamic. We shall take this in the 00:21:33.789 --> 00:21:39.630 next slide. The last well -matched respect of 00:21:39.630 --> 00:21:42.970 relationship for her, for Pushyana Kshetra Moon 00:21:42.970 --> 00:21:46.970 is, Pushyana Kshetra Moon in Pushyana Kshetra 00:21:47.039 --> 00:21:50.220 for her and Mrikshira nakshatra for the man. 00:21:51.839 --> 00:21:54.259 Let's see how this plays out. In actual, the 00:21:54.259 --> 00:21:57.279 11 -3 dynamic, this pairing is nourishment supporting 00:21:57.279 --> 00:22:01.519 exploration. For her, she needs nature, emotional 00:22:01.519 --> 00:22:04.240 containment, loyalty, patience, protection, rhythm 00:22:04.240 --> 00:22:06.940 and long -term security. Saturn Rulakshatra. 00:22:07.500 --> 00:22:10.099 For him, it's Mars Rulakshatra. It's curiosity, 00:22:10.400 --> 00:22:12.940 sensory awareness, mental exploration, stability 00:22:12.940 --> 00:22:16.180 seeking, adaptability and comfort with movement. 00:22:17.599 --> 00:22:21.380 Marikshira is a constant explorer. The 11 -3 00:22:21.380 --> 00:22:25.180 axis in this relationship plays out as fulfillment 00:22:25.180 --> 00:22:28.220 versus effort, emotional security versus curious 00:22:28.220 --> 00:22:32.339 action. He's constantly curious, holding versus 00:22:32.339 --> 00:22:36.519 exploring, supportive friendship tone. This is 00:22:36.519 --> 00:22:38.819 a Upachaya house so it grows with time, give 00:22:38.819 --> 00:22:42.039 it time. Don't be in a quick rush to make decisions 00:22:42.039 --> 00:22:44.079 whether I will get along with this partner or 00:22:44.079 --> 00:22:47.589 not. Upachaya houses are like that. This is a 00:22:47.589 --> 00:22:50.670 growth through support access. Intimacy builds 00:22:50.670 --> 00:22:55.150 as one encourages while the other explores. Now 00:22:55.150 --> 00:22:57.970 what is the feminine moon here? Bonds through 00:22:57.970 --> 00:23:02.210 care, reassurance, emotional continuity. She 00:23:02.210 --> 00:23:05.470 loves by feeding, anchoring and protecting. She 00:23:05.470 --> 00:23:08.950 needs dependability and future clarity. Feels 00:23:08.950 --> 00:23:11.950 valued when her support is recognized and reciprocated. 00:23:13.019 --> 00:23:16.500 Emotional shelter, loyalty, and steadiness and 00:23:16.500 --> 00:23:19.339 contentment being her keywords. What about him? 00:23:19.880 --> 00:23:23.279 Masculine mode, Mrikshi Ratoros. Bonds through 00:23:23.279 --> 00:23:26.420 conversation, curiosity, and shared experiences. 00:23:27.160 --> 00:23:30.059 Shows love via sensory presence, consistency 00:23:30.059 --> 00:23:34.140 with flexibility. Needs freedom to explore within 00:23:34.140 --> 00:23:38.160 safety. Feels secure when curiosity isn't judged 00:23:38.160 --> 00:23:40.849 or restricted. He needs freedom to move again. 00:23:40.990 --> 00:23:43.190 Marikshira needs freedom to move just like Ashwini 00:23:43.190 --> 00:23:48.710 and Swati. Keywords for a good relationship for 00:23:48.710 --> 00:23:51.829 him being exploration, comfort, mental stimulation 00:23:51.829 --> 00:23:56.829 and grounded curiosity. The sexual intimacy dynamics 00:23:56.829 --> 00:24:01.289 follows as slow burn, sensory and trust led. 00:24:02.210 --> 00:24:04.630 Desire grows with emotional safety and physical 00:24:04.630 --> 00:24:08.049 comfort. Touch is attentive, reassuring and responsive. 00:24:08.589 --> 00:24:12.190 Rhythm provides routine, novelty and balance. 00:24:12.930 --> 00:24:15.750 Less urgency, more deepening pleasure. They both 00:24:15.750 --> 00:24:19.609 are explorers of intimacy. Therefore, the arousal 00:24:19.609 --> 00:24:22.529 keys for the woman becomes safety, patience and 00:24:22.529 --> 00:24:25.769 emotional presence. For him becomes comfort, 00:24:25.869 --> 00:24:28.890 curiosity and gentle encouragement. He looks 00:24:28.890 --> 00:24:31.190 to her for gentleness because she can provide 00:24:31.190 --> 00:24:34.630 it cancer more. Best expression is a gradual 00:24:34.630 --> 00:24:37.509 built affectionate consistency. You can explore 00:24:37.509 --> 00:24:42.869 and I'm here kind of signature Risk words being 00:24:42.869 --> 00:24:46.710 over nurturing mothering too much cancer pusher 00:24:46.710 --> 00:24:49.710 Emotional dependency from her side restlessness 00:24:49.710 --> 00:24:53.930 versus security mismatch. He's too restless Comfort 00:24:53.930 --> 00:24:57.940 turning into stagnation fails if support becomes 00:24:57.940 --> 00:25:01.180 control or curiosity avoids commitment. Again, 00:25:01.359 --> 00:25:03.000 commitment is a big thing in the long term in 00:25:03.000 --> 00:25:06.960 any relationship. Typically the feminine ones, 00:25:07.420 --> 00:25:11.180 all the women, are ingrained to seek this long 00:25:11.180 --> 00:25:13.279 -term commitment, but they need to understand 00:25:13.279 --> 00:25:15.259 this better, isn't it? That's why I'm providing 00:25:15.259 --> 00:25:19.210 all this material for you. Finally, this is a 00:25:19.210 --> 00:25:22.049 relationship that dictates steady friendship 00:25:22.049 --> 00:25:24.829 forward 11 -3 pairing. Excellent for emotional 00:25:24.829 --> 00:25:28.089 growth, shared enjoyment and long -term sustainability. 00:25:28.269 --> 00:25:30.890 She looks really for long -term here. No adventures. 00:25:31.789 --> 00:25:35.109 Best for emotional safety, sensory bonding, curiosity 00:25:35.109 --> 00:25:39.309 within containment and commitment. Not ideal 00:25:39.309 --> 00:25:41.930 for those seeking high drama, rapid escalation 00:25:41.930 --> 00:25:45.859 or intense polarity. Just a word finally, we 00:25:45.859 --> 00:25:48.880 have finished with Pushya, next we shall go into 00:25:48.880 --> 00:25:52.240 Hastha in Berko. But before that, just a last 00:25:52.240 --> 00:25:56.779 word of conclusion. This kind of intimacy dynamics 00:25:56.779 --> 00:26:01.460 is not theory. It is not just merely psychology. 00:26:02.380 --> 00:26:05.359 Jyotish is very very real. If you go through 00:26:05.359 --> 00:26:07.599 all this, if you take pains to go through all 00:26:07.599 --> 00:26:09.799 these chapters and information I am providing 00:26:09.799 --> 00:26:12.670 here, You will find out very soon enough, this 00:26:12.670 --> 00:26:16.650 is very very real folks. Understanding is the 00:26:16.650 --> 00:26:20.329 first step. Embodying is the second step. I'll 00:26:20.329 --> 00:26:22.630 see you in the next with hasta. Take care, be 00:26:22.630 --> 00:26:22.890 safe.