Good morning ladies and gentlemen, boys and girls.
We are doing continuing our studies on intimacy,
principles of intimacy. Remember always this
first slide, okay. So you require nurturing,
kindness, freedom, allowance, empathy and vulnerability
and it all begins with consciousness itself.
So you have to understand the principles of consciousness.
We move that video over there, okay. And to do
that, You have to engage consciously with all
these aspects in the other individual. You must
have choice, a good set of choices. What you
intend to do, the intent has to be there and
then you come to calibration. You come to adjusting
to the other person. Okay, this person functions
like this. His or her Mercury is like this. His
or her Venus is like this. His or her Moon is
like this. That's why all these series. So you
understand it. Intimacy is not just getting into
the sexual chemistry, that's just mass. Intimacy
is getting into the long -term aspects of how
you're going to live, work with, cooperate with,
engage with in all these six forms with the other
individual. That's what the gift of intimacy
is. It requires some consciousness, it requires
some choice on your parts, not body parts. landing
together and meshing together body parts. It's
none of that stuff. If you want to go down that
road, well, I would just say good luck with all
the karma that comes along with it, isn't it?
So it depends upon what you do and these are
the planets which govern that. The Venus as your
value system, your eyes, your inner perception,
your sexual organs, your sense of what creation
of beauty you bring to the table. each individual,
of course. And it will depend upon the moon,
it will depend upon the Venus, which nakshatra
it is placed, which house it is placed. That
will be the dominant signature, isn't it? Nakshatras
in science always play a part, even the house
it sits in. Your aesthetic sense will be determined
by this. It stands for the water element. So
you've got to be very creative about everything.
Venus is a highly creative planet. Then comes
the moon, that's also a watery planet, water
element, but that has to do with more emotion,
the fourth house, the cancer, the peace, the
peace of the heart, the subconscious mind. The
twelfth house, for example, even the fourth and
the twelfth both. Emotional intelligence, what
factors matter there? What is your level of,
not level would not be there, but your signature
of emotional intelligence, because these are
signatures. In Jyotish, nothing is evaluated
in terms of points, in terms of highs and lows.
It's just what is. Jyotish is a science of studying
what is in your chart. You're operating manually.
Next comes Mercury. You have to understand the
intelligence and the type of the other individual.
Innocence is another aspect of Mercury. Childlike
play has to be there. There has to be the skin
and the nerves element, which means to say, how
do you engage with the other person in the nervous
system? Because you have your own, isn't it?
You have your Mercury and she has hers. So you
have to engage consciously with that. Think of
where Mercury is placed, what kind of nakshatra
house it is placed. Mercury is your logical,
intellectual sense. It is also the earth element,
so engage more with plants, forest, trees if
you want to have a pure perspective. Let's get
into the details now for Pushya nakshatra. First
of all, we'll take this first position. So now
the moon is in Pushya nakshatra in the woman's
chart and the man's chart has Astha nakshatra.
So it's the 3 -11 dynamic. How does that play
out? The 311 dynamic is Nourishment, Meeting,
Competence. It's got hand skills. Pushya, the
cancer, woman, nurturance, emotional containment,
loyalty, patience, protection, rhythm and long
-term security. This is the signature of Pushyana
Kshatra Mohant. Hastanakshatra, Virgo on the
other hand, the man brings skill, precision,
service, reliability, problem -solving method
and quiet strength. The 311 axis signature plays
out like effort versus fulfillment, care in action
versus gain through consistency, daily support
versus long -term rewards, friends to partner's
tone. This is a Upachaya Hausa so it will grow
with time, 3 and 11. This is a team building
axis. Intimacy grows by working, improving and
succeeding together. That's the dynamic. Now
how does feminine moon play out? The Pushya woman.
She bonds through care, routine and emotional
safety. Expresses love by feeding, supporting
and holding space. Needs appreciation and reliability.
Feels secure when future looks stable. Keywords
for her is nourishment, loyalty, emotional shelter
and steadiness. The masculine born for him in
hasta and workho, wants through usefulness and
competence, shows love by fixing, organizing,
showing up, needs respect for effort and skill.
If your man is hasta, you better give him compliments,
shower him with compliments for the effort he
takes. That's where he perceives it. feels confident
when he is effective. The keywords here being
service, precision, dependability, practical
affection. The sexual intimacy dynamics follows
as the tone becomes one of calm, attentive, confidence
building. Desire grows through trust and routine,
that's guided by care and responsiveness. The
rhythm improves through feedback and refinement.
Asthana Kshetra is refinement, less drama and
more depth. No criticism of Asthana Kshetra.
The arousal keys here being Pushya woman loves
to have safety, patience and emotional consistency.
That's when she'll be available for engaging
sexually. You need to have the other person available,
man or woman. Asthana man wants appreciation,
attentiveness and feeling needed. Best expression
would be slow build, mutual attunement. Like
I said, calibration. We've got this kind of intimacy.
The risky factors here being emotional heaviness,
over -responsibility, criticism versus sensitivity,
romance neglected for duty. Now, Pushyana Kshetra
has this theme. Pushyana Kshetra, you can see
the themes in different channels. They cover
it in more detail. Pushyana Kshetra has a tendency
of neglecting spouse. Be careful of that Pushyana
Kshetra, especially if your moon of Venus is
here. fails if care can become control or service
replaces affection. Can't substitute one thing
for another people. The two are different. This
is a quietly powerful 311 pairing. Friendship
first, competence driven, deeply sustainable
over time. Best for those who value emotional
security, teamwork, steady intimacy, shared growth.
Not ideal for those seeking high drama. unpredictability
or constant novelty instead amazing isn't it
how we see constant novelty in everything okay
i shall see you in the next one further to continue
in this video we shall take pusha her pusha versus
him we will put him over in swati nakshatra okay
pusha nakshatra as you can see has got all dynamics
so it will be a very interesting study See there
is Devgana in each one of the 1, 4, 7, 10 and
11. So we shall pair them. Keep watching. So
we saw Pushya woman versus Hasta man. Now let's
move the cursor a little bit. Let us see what
happens when I move the man to Swati over here.
So now we have the 4, 10 dynamic. Isn't it? 4th
place and 10th place from his moon is her moon.
So what are the dynamics of this relationship?
This pairing is one of nourishment meeting freedom
with grace. Freedom is swati. Swati seeks freedom
above all things, swati moans. They need the
freedom to be that aspect which I showed you
in the first slide. Okay, remember that. The
core vivna kshetra plus sign here becomes pusya
in cancer. The woman is nurturance, emotional
containment, loyalty, patience, rhythm. protection
and long -term security. That's what he seeks.
What does he seek? He seeks independence, balance,
self -direction, diplomacy, light attachment,
adaptability and fairness. It's the heart of
Libra, Swati. So it is always caught between
two aspects. The Swati man will be caught between
having independence of his own. It's very independent,
Nakshatra. and yet doing for others, so it will
see a fair play everywhere. This is a 410 axis,
so the signature of this relationship will be
inner refuge and outer autonomy, emotional home
versus social equilibrium, care versus choice,
stability versus airy movement, seeks a lot of
movement, Libra stands for, another symbol is
grass swaying in the wind. Private safety versus
public balance. This is a homeworld polarity.
Intimacy grows when care anchors freedom and
freedom respects care. See, the mutuality always
plays in. For her, the feminine pushyamun woman
bonds through consistency, rituals and emotional
reliability. He needs to know this. Gives love
via holding, feeding and sustaining. Needs reassurance
and future orientation. feels safe and the bond
has weight and direction. So Saturn ruling Kshetra.
Keywords for her is security, loyalty, emotional
shelter and steadiness. For him, for the Swati
moon, she needs to know this. Bonds through joy,
space and mutual respect. Shows love via fairness,
listening and non -possession. Don't try to be
possessive as Pushya tends to be with the Swati
moon. It is highly independent. It will rebel.
Needs autonomy and mental ease. Feels close when
intimacy doesn't cage. He doesn't like tight
cages. Don't put him in boxes. The keywords here
being independence, diplomacy, flexibility and
balance. One more thing came to my mind. Keep
these also aspect for the Ascended Nakshatra.
Sexual intimacy dynamics here, one being of gentle,
aesthetic, Consent led. Attraction through emotional
safety and elegance. Desire rises with trust
and freedom. The rhythm improves when pressure
is low. Keep it down low here. Affection thrives
in calm, beautiful settings. Libra loves settings.
So the way you can attract him more is put a
lot of scented candles in your bedroom, in your
house. Set the environment. Environment is very
important for Libra. Pushya woman. Safety, patience,
emotional continuity. These are the arousal keys.
Swati wants choice, softness, respectful space
and highly decorated space. Venus is dominant
in Libra. Risk words here being over nurturing
versus emotional drift. Attachment versus detachment.
Security needs alignment. for her. Avoidance
of emotional depth for him. Okay? This relationship
could fail if care becomes control and freedom
avoids commitment. He wants too much of freedom.
Are you non -committal? Ask him that. This is
the refinement through balance. 410 pairings.
Sustainable when care grounds freedom and freedom
lightens the care part. Best for those who value
emotional safety, elegance and mutual respect.
Not ideal for those seeking intensity, position
or emotional pressure. This leads us to a very
important point, isn't it? What are you seeking
as a partner in terms of long term partnership?
Because marriage is a long term partnership.
This is a long playing game. This is not a one
night stand. You want somebody whom you can grow
with. There has to be a growth in a relationship.
Many things are, religions, cases I have come
across fail because they lack the initiative
to grow as a couple. To accept one another's
growth can be on various tangentials. It's not
necessary one partner has to grow at the same
rate or speed or style as the other partner.
Be very, very careful of this. Next, let continuing
further in this video, let us see Pushya versus
Shravana, the one -seven dynamic, playing out
between Cancer and Capricorn. Keep watching.
Now we move into the one -seven dynamic. So let's
move this gentleman from that position to that
position. So now he is Shravana, they are facing
one another. Cancer and Capricorn are facing
one another. So this is the one -seven dynamic.
This will be a powerful attraction. This pairing
is one as nourishment meeting responsibility.
The Pushya, a cancer woman, wants nurturing,
emotional containment, loyalty, patience, rhythm,
protection and long -term security. We saw this.
How does it play Vishwana? What does he want?
Discipline, listening, duty, wisdom through experience,
structure, accountability and legacy minded.
Remember Capricorn moons are very tight. Capricorn
is a very tight sign. It tends to bind planets.
So Capricorn, Moon, first of all, Shravana, Arutra,
Ashada, please go do some Vishnu Sahasranama.
One -seven axis. Emotional self versus responsible
other. Care versus commitment. Home -making versus
world -bearing. Capricorn, Shravana, Moon is
very worldly. Feeling versus function. It always
looks for the function. It always looks for the
gain. Belonging versus duty. This is a classical
spouse -access bond. Attraction forms through
complementary roles and mutual reliance. Feminine
bond. Pusha. What she wants? Bonds through emotional
safety, routine and dependability. Loves by feeding,
supporting and holding the private world. Answer.
Fourth house. Needs reassurance and presence.
Feels chosen when the bond is prioritized and
protected. The keywords here being loyalty, care,
emotional shelter and continuity. Masculine moon
for Shravana. For him, bonds through responsibility,
long -term intent shows love via provision, consistency
and keeping promises. They are very good at keeping
promises, Shravana. They are responsible. Moon
becomes responsible here. It gets the interlacing
energy of Saturn. Capricorn is a sign of Saturn.
Needs respect for effort and patience for timing.
Feels secure when the relationship has structure
and direction. This is not an airy -fairy sign,
Capricorn. Key words being duty, listening, steadiness
and earned trust. The sexual intimacy dynamic
follows as one which is reserved, deepening and
trust -led. Desire grows with safety and reliability.
There is a slowness as you can feel. Intimacy
strengthens through ritual, routine and reassurance.
Less impulsive and more enduring. Touch communicates
commitment over excitement. Arousal keys for
Pusha woman being emotional presence, consistency
and protection. For him being trust, respect
and feeling needed and relied upon. the best
expression is a slow build is a mutual dependability
we are in this for the long term long run approach
the risky words in this relationship being emotional
heaviness Capricorn is very heavy the saturn
burden comes to play here old duty replacing
romance see there's no lightness coldness versus
sensitivity silence instead of reassurance fails
if responsibility There's the key word. If responsibility
eclipses affection or care turns into expectation,
you owe me this is Capricorn Moon. That's the
case. This is a serious marriage, grade one seven
pairing strong for long term longevity, family
building and karmic partnership. Best for those
who value security, commitment, reliability and
emotional maturity. Not ideal for those seeking
lightness, novelty or fast emotional gratification.
Now we move on to Pushya cancer woman versus
Ashwini Aries, the 10 -4 dynamic. So let's first
move the person over here, the guy. Okay, let's
move him now to that one, Ashwini. Now in the
tenth place is Ashwini. Ashwini versus Pushya.
This becomes a little more different kind of
challenges. Everything is just a different kind,
not necessarily a good or bad one. Although both
are Devgana, let us see how this pairing brings.
Nourishment anchoring impulse. He is very impulsive
in this. Pushya, cancer woman, wants nurture
and emotional containment, loyalty and patience
and rhythm. Ashwini wants initiation, speed,
instinct, courage, action first, emotions later.
That's the trouble, isn't it? Spark and rapid
attachment. The 10 -4 axis provides outer action
versus inner refuge kind of energy. Doing versus
holding. Impulse versus stability. World drive
versus home base, momentum versus containment.
This is a home direction polarity, intimacy stabilizes
when care grounds action, action energizes care.
So her part we already know, bonds through consistency,
the bonding factors. Rituals and reassurance,
loves by feeding, protecting and sustaining.
Needs predictability and presence. Feels safe
when born has weight and continuity. For him,
for the Ashwini man, he wants initiative and
immediacy. Shows love via doing, deciding, moving.
It's a very fast -moving nakshatra. Needs appreciation,
not restraint. You can't restrain, Ashwini. It's
impossible. Feels alive and supported, not slowed
down. Keywords for him being spark. courage,
momentum and decisive affection. The sexual intimacy
dynamics can be very high in this. Fast spark
and slow deepening. Attraction ignites Ashwini
quickly. Satisfaction stabilizes with rhythm.
Pushya for her. Desire thrives when speed meets
safety. So it's a complicated dynamic in that
context. Everyone is. Best flow is initiate,
soothe, and then repeat. Arousal key is being
pushy, a woman feels safety, patience, and emotional
presence. Ashwini man has encouragement, responsiveness,
and freedom to lead. There are various risk factors,
in this case being impatience versus caution,
over -mothering. She will tend to over -mother
cancer. Emotional pressure from her side. Burnout
on mismatched tempo, Ashwini. Fails if care becomes
control or speed ignores reassurance. See, it
plays both ways, folks. This is a pairing with
high vitality, powerful when the impulse is welcomed
and then gently anchored. There has to be a gentleness.
Ashwini needs to understand this. Best for those
who value security, action and clear roles, not
ideal for those seeking equal pacing, emotional
ambivity or hands off kind of intimacy. Now let's
see the last pairing, Pushya, Momentum, Rikshira,
the 11 -3 dynamic. We shall take this in the
next slide. The last well -matched respect of
relationship for her, for Pushyana Kshetra Moon
is, Pushyana Kshetra Moon in Pushyana Kshetra
for her and Mrikshira nakshatra for the man.
Let's see how this plays out. In actual, the
11 -3 dynamic, this pairing is nourishment supporting
exploration. For her, she needs nature, emotional
containment, loyalty, patience, protection, rhythm
and long -term security. Saturn Rulakshatra.
For him, it's Mars Rulakshatra. It's curiosity,
sensory awareness, mental exploration, stability
seeking, adaptability and comfort with movement.
Marikshira is a constant explorer. The 11 -3
axis in this relationship plays out as fulfillment
versus effort, emotional security versus curious
action. He's constantly curious, holding versus
exploring, supportive friendship tone. This is
a Upachaya house so it grows with time, give
it time. Don't be in a quick rush to make decisions
whether I will get along with this partner or
not. Upachaya houses are like that. This is a
growth through support access. Intimacy builds
as one encourages while the other explores. Now
what is the feminine moon here? Bonds through
care, reassurance, emotional continuity. She
loves by feeding, anchoring and protecting. She
needs dependability and future clarity. Feels
valued when her support is recognized and reciprocated.
Emotional shelter, loyalty, and steadiness and
contentment being her keywords. What about him?
Masculine mode, Mrikshi Ratoros. Bonds through
conversation, curiosity, and shared experiences.
Shows love via sensory presence, consistency
with flexibility. Needs freedom to explore within
safety. Feels secure when curiosity isn't judged
or restricted. He needs freedom to move again.
Marikshira needs freedom to move just like Ashwini
and Swati. Keywords for a good relationship for
him being exploration, comfort, mental stimulation
and grounded curiosity. The sexual intimacy dynamics
follows as slow burn, sensory and trust led.
Desire grows with emotional safety and physical
comfort. Touch is attentive, reassuring and responsive.
Rhythm provides routine, novelty and balance.
Less urgency, more deepening pleasure. They both
are explorers of intimacy. Therefore, the arousal
keys for the woman becomes safety, patience and
emotional presence. For him becomes comfort,
curiosity and gentle encouragement. He looks
to her for gentleness because she can provide
it cancer more. Best expression is a gradual
built affectionate consistency. You can explore
and I'm here kind of signature Risk words being
over nurturing mothering too much cancer pusher
Emotional dependency from her side restlessness
versus security mismatch. He's too restless Comfort
turning into stagnation fails if support becomes
control or curiosity avoids commitment. Again,
commitment is a big thing in the long term in
any relationship. Typically the feminine ones,
all the women, are ingrained to seek this long
-term commitment, but they need to understand
this better, isn't it? That's why I'm providing
all this material for you. Finally, this is a
relationship that dictates steady friendship
forward 11 -3 pairing. Excellent for emotional
growth, shared enjoyment and long -term sustainability.
She looks really for long -term here. No adventures.
Best for emotional safety, sensory bonding, curiosity
within containment and commitment. Not ideal
for those seeking high drama, rapid escalation
or intense polarity. Just a word finally, we
have finished with Pushya, next we shall go into
Hastha in Berko. But before that, just a last
word of conclusion. This kind of intimacy dynamics
is not theory. It is not just merely psychology.
Jyotish is very very real. If you go through
all this, if you take pains to go through all
these chapters and information I am providing
here, You will find out very soon enough, this
is very very real folks. Understanding is the
first step. Embodying is the second step. I'll
see you in the next with hasta. Take care, be
safe.