Good morning my wonderful people. Merry Christmas
to all my Christian brothers and sisters out
there. Today is December 25th and as I speak
it's 5 .47 am. I'm still on my first coffee.
So excuse the slowness of things. I want to introduce
you today to intimacy of planets as viewed by
the lens of Vedic Astrology. So what does this
mean? What are the Venus, Moon and Mercury really
about? in terms of intimacy but first always
remember this slide okay it's about choice it's
about intent it's about calibration to the other
person those three in regard to consciousness
and all the six elements i have shown on the
screen is what creates intimacy intimacy is a
choice it's a creation you have to work with
another what is your choice you have to choose
that's what conscious intimacy is about you have
to have a good intent what's your intent if your
intent is a demand if your intent is trying to
change the other person which most people do
anyway then you land up in the zone of karma
look your chat is a whole bunch of karma a whole
bunch of imprints leftovers from past lives but
there is a choice in this new energy in the kind
of earth we are living now and going forward,
it is all about your choice. It is no longer
about your karma. So you have choices whether
to go with consciously or leave it to karma to
play out its game with you. It's your choice
again. And you have to have calibration, okay?
You have to calibrate to the other person. If
the choice is good, if your intent is noble,
then you have to learn to calibrate. And that's
why I'm bringing you these principles. Now let's
get into the planets and what they mean. Okay,
let's go through one by one. Your Venus, wherever
it is placed, your Moon wherever it is placed
in your chart, and Mercury wherever it is placed.
These are the guideposts of getting that proper
calibration, one partner to the other, in terms
of intimacy. Venus is your value system, Taurus.
Think Taurus, think Libra, Venus, the Lords of.
Venus are your eyes, physical eyes. Venus is
also your inner perception. Venus is your sexual
organs. Venus is your very DNA. Venus is creation
of beauty. That's why we may call these fantastic
grand temples in the ancient civilizations. Venus
is your aesthetic sense. What is your sense of
what a beauty is like? That also changes depending
upon where the Venus is, which sign, which house,
which nakshatra. all of these changes in it.
The colouring of these planets is what is determined
by the zodiac signs and the nakshatras and the
house placement. Last but not the least is Venus's
water element and so is moon, slightly different
qualities to them. Next comes let's say Mercury,
down below here. Mercury is your intelligence,
your intellectual capacity. Mercury also stands
for innocence. People forget innocence like puppy
love when you were young children, pre -pubescent.
You were all engaging with one another. You were
opening up girls' skirts. Girls were pulling
up your teasing boys and so on. That's a puppy
love, isn't it? That's the innocence of mercury.
There is no hormonal rush kicked in yet. Pre
-pubescent, I'm talking. That is innocence. That's
why mercury stands for little children. It's
innocence. It's play. Mercury loves to play.
Children love to play. Everything children think
of Mercury. Simple. And how you bring it forward
as an adult, like Jesus used to say, if you have
to enter the kingdom of God, you have to be innocent.
You have to be like a child. That comes into
play in intimacy. Mercury also stands for your
skin. The physical skin. The largest organ in
your body is your skin. You can research this
all you want. But if you want Mercury to engage
in physical contact, in intimacy of all kinds,
you have to learn to touch properly, you have
to learn to hug, you have to learn to kiss properly,
you have to learn all these physical skin related
things. Even the copulation is basically skin
upon skin, isn't it? It's very intimate. But
you have to have innocence and play involved
there. Then things get really interesting. Mercury
is also a logical sense. What makes sense to
you right and wrong about the other person? We
are talking in terms of intimacy, so I am translating
as best I can in intimacy terms you might say.
Mercury is the earth element, so think of all
the flowering plants, potted plants that people
have in their houses. Mercury is nature, mercury
is trees. You go into the forest and you see
only mercury everywhere, the green. Mercury's
color is the green. So earth element, mercury
provides that grounding. Mercury provides the
skin, mercury provides also the nerves. I have
not mentioned it here, skin and nerves is dominantly
mercury. Your nervous system, sympathetic, parasympathetic,
the whole lot of it. Whereas moon is emotion,
moon is mother, but in terms of intimacy, what
is moon? Moon is emotion, moon is peace, the
fourth house, cancer, the peace of the heart.
That's what is desired within intimacy Everybody
wants peace alongside the other person you're
looking for companion fine, but how you be with
the companion without losing yourself But yet
expanding your consciousness. I spoke of this
It's also the heart. It's also the subconscious
mind whatever you're getting in your 12th house.
For example is also the moon whatever your emotional
intelligence is whatever sitting in your fourth
house is also the moon wherever moon is sitting
it that's again obviously the moon and it's also
the water element in this case moon is like cancer
the sign of cancer i mean it's flowing water
and i spoken of this much earlier on couple of
years ago on this channel i think so moon is
your water element as a flowing water think of
a river that's moon, that's fourth house, that's
cancer. So flowing water and Venus as the water
element, as the molecules of water, H2O, the
ground level of things is Venus. Mercury is all
the forest and everything else that goes on in
the green world, flora and fauna. So keep these
things in mind. I want to quickly jump into the
next one, which is the punar vasu nakshata, so
that we have a great deal of leverage in discussing
the nakshatra. Let's see punar vasu nakshatra
matches now. So now we have man's moon in punar
vasu nakshatra and the woman's moon in hasta
nakshatra, which is the fourth position. So we
have a 4 -10 dynamic playing out here, isn't
it? I'm not taking the third position because
there are no devaganas present there. The next
devana after punar vasu in the fourth position
only occurs with hasta nakshatra. So let us see
what that dynamic gives us. Punar vasu in gemini
for man and hasta vargo for a woman. This pairing
is very dynamic in the sense both are airy, very
science. Punar vasu is airy, gemini. Vargo is
again hasta grounded but mercury inside. So,
essentially we are talking about two mercurian
matches. So, it's very mental in nature. So,
what does he bring to the table? Renewal, optimism,
conversational, bonding, adaptability, emotional
reset, curiosity with forgiveness and lightness
after conflict. The Virgo woman in this case
brings skill, precision, service, reliability,
practical care, emotional containment through
action and quiet competence. Hasta is a very
handsy person, isn't it? Punar vasu in Gemini
essentially is looking for more emotion. It's
a very dry kind of place. In Punar vasu, you
can see the life lessons of Punar vasu nakshatra
if you don't know what I mean. Life lessons of
nakshatras are very important to understand before
you get into intimacy. Very, very important.
The 410 axis signature in this relationship,
in this dynamic, is inner reassurance versus
outer competence. Inner versus outer plays on
in 410. Emotional reset versus daily structure.
Talking heels, who knows who wants to talk in
Gemini. Action stabilizes hasta. Home feeling
versus life management. This is again that 410
dynamic he is talking of. Support versus responsibility.
This is a function first intimacy axis. Both
are looking for how does this give any results
to me. Very result oriented. Closeness grows
by showing up, fixing things, organizing things
and improving life together. That's the dynamic.
That's synestery. Masculine moon. In Punnavasu,
man how does this play out? He bonds through
conversation and optimism. He de -escalates conflict
quickly. Punnavasu does not like conflicts. Needs
emotional permission to start again because it's
a reinventing nakshatra. It's the light that
returns. It's the story of Lord Rama, for example.
Feels loved when heard and encouraged. Key words
here being reassurance, verbal intimacy, forgiveness
and lightness. The feminine moon, the hasta woman
on the other hand, bonds through usefulness and
consistency. Hasta wants to feel useful. It's
a very grounded sign, Virgo. Expresses love via
care, via routines, via problem solving. The
hasta woman wants to provide nurturing and support.
Needs appreciation for her part. She needs to
be appreciated for whatever she's doing. Maybe
taking care of the home front. Feels safe when
life is orderly and dependable. She's very grounded.
She looks for dependable people in her partnerships.
Key words here being service, trust, reliability
and practical affection. That's what she looks
for. The sexual intimacy dynamics playing out
would be refined, attentive and gradual. Mental
foreplay versus impulsive action. A little bit
of calibration there. Touch guided by care and
responsiveness. Rhythm improves with routine
and feedback. Desire deepens through trust and
competence. What am I talking about these things
in terms of sexuality? You might ask everything.
Ask a relationship counselor, they will tell
you. Man's arousal keys, in this case will become
conversation, reassurance and emotional warmth.
A punarvasu man. Moon's, woman's arousal keys
here become clean signals, patience, attentiveness
and skill. If you have a skill as a punarvasu
man, if you're living with a punarvasu woman,
hasta woman, she'll be very attentive to what
skill sets you have, how good you are with your
hands. Maybe even the domestic affairs not necessarily
work. Best expression for this, for her is slow
build, mutual adjustment, calm confidence. We
know each other type of intimacy. The friction
words can become over analysis, emotional dryness,
especially with punar vasu. Lot of emotional
dryness is there. If appreciation is missing,
talking versus doing imbalance. Too much talking
goes on. Mercurial science, both of them. Not
enough action or grounding. Criticism versus
optimism mismatch. Criticism is punar vasu in
this case. Words dismiss effort. Effort policies
expression. Okay, that's the dynamic playing
out for punar vasu man with hasta woman. Next,
let's see punar vasu with reavati. the 10 -fold
dynamic. Now we come to man in punar vasu moon
and lady in ashwini in the 11th position from
his moon. So it's a 11 -3 dynamic playing out,
isn't it? First of all, if I look at this, I
think very very charged high energy of communication,
very high support and high achievers type of
couple here. That's the dynamic basically. Let's
see the details. Punarvasu Gemini Man. More in
Punarvasu. Emotional reset, optimism, conversational
bonding, adaptability, forgiveness, reframing
and lightness of conversation. That's what he
is good at. Whereas she brings initiation, speed,
instinct, courage, actions first, emotions later,
spark and rapid attachment. That's the dynamic.
And 11 .3 axis here. plays out like future gains
versus immediate effort. Ashwini wants everything
now like yesterday. Hope versus action. Reframing
and starting over once again. Friends to lovers
turn. 11 .3 typically tends to become that. You
become friends first and you're so attracted
to them that they sort of compliment you in many
other ways. Momentum based bonding. Like I said,
energy is very quick here. Anyway, think Gemini
and Aries matching. It's like, wow, lots of energy
movement. Immediately I get a sense of that.
This growth to movement axis. Intimacy builds
by trying again, launching fast and learning
on the go. Yeah, hit the ground running. It's
a very fast energy, okay? Pundarvasu heals through
talk, humor and forgiveness in this case. Ashwini
energizes through decisions, first moves and
courage. She will initiate. She's like that woman
on top classical situation here. Key words being
motivational chemistry, emotional bounce back,
shared initiatives, fast recovery after conflict.
Ashwini becomes the starter. She's the initiator
in this case. Poonarasu becomes the restorer.
What about the attraction and intimacy tone?
It becomes one of playfulness, youthfulness,
spontaneous, sexually quick to spark. Yes, there's
whatever is there in the... Other forms of bonding
it will carry also to the sexual part, isn't
it? Friendship driven desire. They need to be
friends first for this to work to any degree,
really. Intimacy thrives here when they do projects
together, when they undertake short trips together,
find out new experiences, go travelling together
maybe, verbal warmth, physical spontaneity, risky
words being impatience, like I said, very high
energy dynamic. Inconsistency. Starting more
than sustaining. What will sustain this? Both
these couples have to look for it if they are
engaged in such a thing. You have to find this.
This is the exciting part of exploring. Emotional
shortcuts. Not a good idea. Burn -reset cycles.
Too much of burn -outs, too much of reset, too
much of please forgive me business. Action ignores
reassurance. Forgiveness enables repeat chaos.
See, it's a dynamic. It can fail if that happens.
This is a high energy, fast recovery 11 -3 pairing.
Excellent for momentum, collaboration and resilient
bonding. It's good for if you have movement,
optimism and shared goals. Like I said, keep
some factor of grounding, keep some factor of
doing projects together, setting goals together
and achieving as a unit that will sustain this
particular bonding. Otherwise, it goes as fast
as it has appeared. And you need to have some
emotional flexibility. I think that would be
a given. Don't be rigid. There is no rigidity
in this energy. Stillness, deep emotional gravity
and slow burn attachment. So that finishes up.
Punar vasu. Intimacy factors. There is no other
match. I have already covered the other principles.
Go through the principles first if you are finding
any degree of difficulty in this. Okay. I shall
see you in the next. What is the next one? Now
we move to Cancer. I think we have finished with
Gemini. So we will move to Pushya nakshatra.
That's next. Punarvasu I have already covered.
So I won't cover Punarvasu there. Although this
is in Cancer last Pada. We will directly move
to Pushya nakshatra. Take care. Be safe. Now
let's take the next one. Punarvasu man versus
Revati woman. So there's the position of the
planets. Okay. What does this dynamic lead us
into? This is a 10 -4 relationship. Let us see
what the 10 -4 dynamic brings. This is renewal
versus finding refuge. Cravity is a refuge in
this case. So the universal man typically has
emotional resets in this kind of relationship.
A lot of optimism, a lot of conversational bonding.
I want to step aside for a minute and if you
think mercury is a very dry mimicry, mercury
is all about mimicry. and dryness but in intimacy
you need more skin more touch that that part
of mercury which I spoke of in the first slide
so think of converting your conversational dynamic
in with your partner in terms of more touching
more hugging more kissing that kind of thing
adaptability forgiveness lightness start again
kind of energy because it's renewing type of
energy Only derivative on the other hand is compassion.
It's about completion. It's about emotional sanctuary,
devotion, guidance, surrender and soulful holding.
This is keywords. Okay. Now what does 10 -4 access
signature provide? Outer movement versus inner
peace. Outer movement being punar vasu in Gemini.
She is desiring for inner peace here. Mental
renewal versus emotional rest. Pisces is a sign
of rest. Hope and healing. That's another dynamic.
Reframing and accepting. World -facing effort,
Punar Varsu versus home of the heart kind of
feeling. Emotional and psychological pattern
here tends to be like Punar Varsu heals through
talk, humor and reframing. Revati on the other
hand heals through presence, empathy and containment.
That empathy which I spoke of in the first slide,
that plays out here. That's why you have to remember
all those key principles. Go through this any
number of times if you really wish to have intimacy.
Key words, general reassurance, emotional forgiveness,
nervous system calming, Revathi, trust without
pressure, soft guidance. Revathi becomes the
emotional anchor or the home. Poonarasu becomes
the emotional restarter. The sexual intimacy
tone here assumes soft magnetism. Emotional safety
first, Revati wants that. She wants that. Sensitivity
over speed. Rhythm guided by trust. Arousal keys
being, Bhunar Vasuvi is aroused here in this
relationship only by verbal warmth, reassurance
and emotional permission. He has to ask permission
each time because she is very soft, very vulnerable
in this case. Listening helps, reassurance helps,
shared meaning and cultivation of quiet closeness.
Risky factors being over -idealization, Revathi.
Emotional over -giving, again Revathi. Avoidance
of practical decisions, Punarvasu. One -sided
emotional carrying, Revathi. Fails if... Hope
avoids grounding or compassion replaces boundaries.
Boundaries is very important when it comes to
air science, more in air science. Okay, especially
in Gemini, Punarvaso. Because air is drifting
all around. Look at the element of air. Air science,
typically Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, they are
constantly moving and penetrating everything.
Even the nakshatras within them, there's a hint
there. So you've got to be careful of boundaries
when you talk of moon, Mercury or Venus placed
in air science. Too much of talking, too much
of blah blah blah. This is a healing, emotional
10 -4 pairing which is restorative, forgiving
and quietly enduring. Best for those who value
emotional safety, gentle intimacy, renewal through
compassion. Not ideal for those seeking high
stimulation, sharp conflict and constant novelty.
This is not that kind of a relationship. So essentially
you're saying, you're consciously taking a partner
whom you can bond with. So that's why you need
to understand yourself first. That's why I do
personality counseling in this channel. I bring
forth many things to MBTI, Enneagram, Bridge
to Vedic Astrology, Nakshatras. Why all the stuff
it might ask? Well, You need to do this consciously.
This is a conscious effort, folks. This is not
given to you on a platter. If you want to step
back from all the effort that consciousness would
take, go through your karma. That's it. Whatever
will come, will come. Whatever you deal with,
you'll deal with with your unconscious propensities.
That's the way the game works. Learn the rules
of the game. Next, we shall take the last one,
which is the 11 .3 dynamic. Pura Vasu 2. That's
in the next slide. Keep watching.