WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.620 Good morning my wonderful people. Merry Christmas 00:00:02.620 --> 00:00:05.139 to all my Christian brothers and sisters out 00:00:05.139 --> 00:00:09.240 there. Today is December 25th and as I speak 00:00:09.240 --> 00:00:13.900 it's 5 .47 am. I'm still on my first coffee. 00:00:14.500 --> 00:00:18.399 So excuse the slowness of things. I want to introduce 00:00:18.399 --> 00:00:21.620 you today to intimacy of planets as viewed by 00:00:21.620 --> 00:00:24.219 the lens of Vedic Astrology. So what does this 00:00:24.219 --> 00:00:29.079 mean? What are the Venus, Moon and Mercury really 00:00:29.079 --> 00:00:32.340 about? in terms of intimacy but first always 00:00:32.340 --> 00:00:36.100 remember this slide okay it's about choice it's 00:00:36.100 --> 00:00:39.159 about intent it's about calibration to the other 00:00:39.159 --> 00:00:43.799 person those three in regard to consciousness 00:00:43.799 --> 00:00:46.500 and all the six elements i have shown on the 00:00:46.500 --> 00:00:51.219 screen is what creates intimacy intimacy is a 00:00:51.219 --> 00:00:54.200 choice it's a creation you have to work with 00:00:54.200 --> 00:00:57.409 another what is your choice you have to choose 00:00:57.409 --> 00:01:00.070 that's what conscious intimacy is about you have 00:01:00.070 --> 00:01:02.729 to have a good intent what's your intent if your 00:01:02.729 --> 00:01:05.650 intent is a demand if your intent is trying to 00:01:05.650 --> 00:01:08.310 change the other person which most people do 00:01:08.310 --> 00:01:12.930 anyway then you land up in the zone of karma 00:01:12.930 --> 00:01:16.650 look your chat is a whole bunch of karma a whole 00:01:16.650 --> 00:01:20.689 bunch of imprints leftovers from past lives but 00:01:20.689 --> 00:01:23.349 there is a choice in this new energy in the kind 00:01:23.349 --> 00:01:25.250 of earth we are living now and going forward, 00:01:25.489 --> 00:01:27.870 it is all about your choice. It is no longer 00:01:27.870 --> 00:01:30.230 about your karma. So you have choices whether 00:01:30.230 --> 00:01:33.629 to go with consciously or leave it to karma to 00:01:33.629 --> 00:01:36.469 play out its game with you. It's your choice 00:01:36.469 --> 00:01:39.409 again. And you have to have calibration, okay? 00:01:39.670 --> 00:01:41.750 You have to calibrate to the other person. If 00:01:41.750 --> 00:01:45.090 the choice is good, if your intent is noble, 00:01:45.989 --> 00:01:48.329 then you have to learn to calibrate. And that's 00:01:48.329 --> 00:01:50.530 why I'm bringing you these principles. Now let's 00:01:50.530 --> 00:01:54.000 get into the planets and what they mean. Okay, 00:01:54.000 --> 00:01:57.980 let's go through one by one. Your Venus, wherever 00:01:57.980 --> 00:02:00.640 it is placed, your Moon wherever it is placed 00:02:00.640 --> 00:02:02.659 in your chart, and Mercury wherever it is placed. 00:02:02.859 --> 00:02:07.159 These are the guideposts of getting that proper 00:02:07.159 --> 00:02:10.300 calibration, one partner to the other, in terms 00:02:10.300 --> 00:02:14.840 of intimacy. Venus is your value system, Taurus. 00:02:15.219 --> 00:02:18.180 Think Taurus, think Libra, Venus, the Lords of. 00:02:19.199 --> 00:02:21.960 Venus are your eyes, physical eyes. Venus is 00:02:21.960 --> 00:02:25.620 also your inner perception. Venus is your sexual 00:02:25.620 --> 00:02:30.960 organs. Venus is your very DNA. Venus is creation 00:02:30.960 --> 00:02:33.500 of beauty. That's why we may call these fantastic 00:02:33.500 --> 00:02:37.620 grand temples in the ancient civilizations. Venus 00:02:37.620 --> 00:02:40.819 is your aesthetic sense. What is your sense of 00:02:40.819 --> 00:02:43.800 what a beauty is like? That also changes depending 00:02:43.800 --> 00:02:46.240 upon where the Venus is, which sign, which house, 00:02:46.460 --> 00:02:49.360 which nakshatra. all of these changes in it. 00:02:50.039 --> 00:02:52.680 The colouring of these planets is what is determined 00:02:52.680 --> 00:02:54.979 by the zodiac signs and the nakshatras and the 00:02:54.979 --> 00:03:00.539 house placement. Last but not the least is Venus's 00:03:00.539 --> 00:03:03.680 water element and so is moon, slightly different 00:03:03.680 --> 00:03:07.800 qualities to them. Next comes let's say Mercury, 00:03:08.840 --> 00:03:11.439 down below here. Mercury is your intelligence, 00:03:11.860 --> 00:03:15.400 your intellectual capacity. Mercury also stands 00:03:15.400 --> 00:03:19.150 for innocence. People forget innocence like puppy 00:03:19.150 --> 00:03:23.710 love when you were young children, pre -pubescent. 00:03:24.409 --> 00:03:27.129 You were all engaging with one another. You were 00:03:27.129 --> 00:03:29.150 opening up girls' skirts. Girls were pulling 00:03:29.150 --> 00:03:32.789 up your teasing boys and so on. That's a puppy 00:03:32.789 --> 00:03:35.430 love, isn't it? That's the innocence of mercury. 00:03:35.610 --> 00:03:38.930 There is no hormonal rush kicked in yet. Pre 00:03:38.930 --> 00:03:42.610 -pubescent, I'm talking. That is innocence. That's 00:03:42.610 --> 00:03:45.770 why mercury stands for little children. It's 00:03:45.770 --> 00:03:49.159 innocence. It's play. Mercury loves to play. 00:03:49.240 --> 00:03:51.439 Children love to play. Everything children think 00:03:51.439 --> 00:03:55.979 of Mercury. Simple. And how you bring it forward 00:03:55.979 --> 00:04:00.060 as an adult, like Jesus used to say, if you have 00:04:00.060 --> 00:04:02.520 to enter the kingdom of God, you have to be innocent. 00:04:02.680 --> 00:04:05.879 You have to be like a child. That comes into 00:04:05.879 --> 00:04:10.259 play in intimacy. Mercury also stands for your 00:04:10.259 --> 00:04:12.879 skin. The physical skin. The largest organ in 00:04:12.879 --> 00:04:15.680 your body is your skin. You can research this 00:04:15.680 --> 00:04:20.399 all you want. But if you want Mercury to engage 00:04:20.399 --> 00:04:23.540 in physical contact, in intimacy of all kinds, 00:04:24.300 --> 00:04:26.300 you have to learn to touch properly, you have 00:04:26.300 --> 00:04:28.639 to learn to hug, you have to learn to kiss properly, 00:04:28.740 --> 00:04:31.279 you have to learn all these physical skin related 00:04:31.279 --> 00:04:35.540 things. Even the copulation is basically skin 00:04:35.540 --> 00:04:38.579 upon skin, isn't it? It's very intimate. But 00:04:38.579 --> 00:04:41.579 you have to have innocence and play involved 00:04:41.579 --> 00:04:46.290 there. Then things get really interesting. Mercury 00:04:46.290 --> 00:04:49.029 is also a logical sense. What makes sense to 00:04:49.029 --> 00:04:51.529 you right and wrong about the other person? We 00:04:51.529 --> 00:04:53.649 are talking in terms of intimacy, so I am translating 00:04:53.649 --> 00:04:57.709 as best I can in intimacy terms you might say. 00:04:58.310 --> 00:05:00.649 Mercury is the earth element, so think of all 00:05:00.649 --> 00:05:03.029 the flowering plants, potted plants that people 00:05:03.029 --> 00:05:05.629 have in their houses. Mercury is nature, mercury 00:05:05.629 --> 00:05:08.589 is trees. You go into the forest and you see 00:05:08.589 --> 00:05:12.889 only mercury everywhere, the green. Mercury's 00:05:12.889 --> 00:05:17.360 color is the green. So earth element, mercury 00:05:17.360 --> 00:05:20.540 provides that grounding. Mercury provides the 00:05:20.540 --> 00:05:23.040 skin, mercury provides also the nerves. I have 00:05:23.040 --> 00:05:25.779 not mentioned it here, skin and nerves is dominantly 00:05:25.779 --> 00:05:30.399 mercury. Your nervous system, sympathetic, parasympathetic, 00:05:30.540 --> 00:05:34.579 the whole lot of it. Whereas moon is emotion, 00:05:34.720 --> 00:05:37.339 moon is mother, but in terms of intimacy, what 00:05:37.339 --> 00:05:41.180 is moon? Moon is emotion, moon is peace, the 00:05:41.180 --> 00:05:43.420 fourth house, cancer, the peace of the heart. 00:05:44.540 --> 00:05:48.319 That's what is desired within intimacy Everybody 00:05:48.319 --> 00:05:51.500 wants peace alongside the other person you're 00:05:51.500 --> 00:05:54.759 looking for companion fine, but how you be with 00:05:54.759 --> 00:05:58.879 the companion without losing yourself But yet 00:05:58.879 --> 00:06:01.699 expanding your consciousness. I spoke of this 00:06:01.699 --> 00:06:05.319 It's also the heart. It's also the subconscious 00:06:05.319 --> 00:06:08.019 mind whatever you're getting in your 12th house. 00:06:08.019 --> 00:06:12.730 For example is also the moon whatever your emotional 00:06:12.730 --> 00:06:14.810 intelligence is whatever sitting in your fourth 00:06:14.810 --> 00:06:17.350 house is also the moon wherever moon is sitting 00:06:17.350 --> 00:06:21.610 it that's again obviously the moon and it's also 00:06:21.610 --> 00:06:25.110 the water element in this case moon is like cancer 00:06:25.110 --> 00:06:30.129 the sign of cancer i mean it's flowing water 00:06:30.129 --> 00:06:33.189 and i spoken of this much earlier on couple of 00:06:33.189 --> 00:06:36.529 years ago on this channel i think so moon is 00:06:36.529 --> 00:06:39.470 your water element as a flowing water think of 00:06:39.470 --> 00:06:42.649 a river that's moon, that's fourth house, that's 00:06:42.649 --> 00:06:46.470 cancer. So flowing water and Venus as the water 00:06:46.470 --> 00:06:50.589 element, as the molecules of water, H2O, the 00:06:50.589 --> 00:06:54.449 ground level of things is Venus. Mercury is all 00:06:54.449 --> 00:06:57.610 the forest and everything else that goes on in 00:06:57.610 --> 00:07:02.189 the green world, flora and fauna. So keep these 00:07:02.189 --> 00:07:04.810 things in mind. I want to quickly jump into the 00:07:04.810 --> 00:07:07.470 next one, which is the punar vasu nakshata, so 00:07:07.470 --> 00:07:12.209 that we have a great deal of leverage in discussing 00:07:12.209 --> 00:07:15.709 the nakshatra. Let's see punar vasu nakshatra 00:07:15.709 --> 00:07:19.629 matches now. So now we have man's moon in punar 00:07:19.629 --> 00:07:23.209 vasu nakshatra and the woman's moon in hasta 00:07:23.209 --> 00:07:25.449 nakshatra, which is the fourth position. So we 00:07:25.449 --> 00:07:28.529 have a 4 -10 dynamic playing out here, isn't 00:07:28.529 --> 00:07:31.029 it? I'm not taking the third position because 00:07:31.029 --> 00:07:33.680 there are no devaganas present there. The next 00:07:33.680 --> 00:07:36.199 devana after punar vasu in the fourth position 00:07:36.199 --> 00:07:38.980 only occurs with hasta nakshatra. So let us see 00:07:38.980 --> 00:07:42.560 what that dynamic gives us. Punar vasu in gemini 00:07:42.560 --> 00:07:46.740 for man and hasta vargo for a woman. This pairing 00:07:46.740 --> 00:07:51.819 is very dynamic in the sense both are airy, very 00:07:51.819 --> 00:07:55.459 science. Punar vasu is airy, gemini. Vargo is 00:07:55.459 --> 00:07:59.379 again hasta grounded but mercury inside. So, 00:07:59.480 --> 00:08:02.259 essentially we are talking about two mercurian 00:08:02.259 --> 00:08:05.540 matches. So, it's very mental in nature. So, 00:08:05.639 --> 00:08:11.339 what does he bring to the table? Renewal, optimism, 00:08:11.920 --> 00:08:15.319 conversational, bonding, adaptability, emotional 00:08:15.319 --> 00:08:19.220 reset, curiosity with forgiveness and lightness 00:08:19.220 --> 00:08:24.060 after conflict. The Virgo woman in this case 00:08:24.060 --> 00:08:27.139 brings skill, precision, service, reliability, 00:08:27.560 --> 00:08:30.439 practical care, emotional containment through 00:08:30.439 --> 00:08:34.879 action and quiet competence. Hasta is a very 00:08:34.879 --> 00:08:38.320 handsy person, isn't it? Punar vasu in Gemini 00:08:38.320 --> 00:08:42.600 essentially is looking for more emotion. It's 00:08:42.600 --> 00:08:45.960 a very dry kind of place. In Punar vasu, you 00:08:45.960 --> 00:08:48.179 can see the life lessons of Punar vasu nakshatra 00:08:48.179 --> 00:08:51.679 if you don't know what I mean. Life lessons of 00:08:51.679 --> 00:08:53.720 nakshatras are very important to understand before 00:08:53.720 --> 00:08:56.240 you get into intimacy. Very, very important. 00:08:57.200 --> 00:09:01.419 The 410 axis signature in this relationship, 00:09:01.740 --> 00:09:04.480 in this dynamic, is inner reassurance versus 00:09:04.480 --> 00:09:07.559 outer competence. Inner versus outer plays on 00:09:07.559 --> 00:09:11.600 in 410. Emotional reset versus daily structure. 00:09:12.480 --> 00:09:15.519 Talking heels, who knows who wants to talk in 00:09:15.519 --> 00:09:20.370 Gemini. Action stabilizes hasta. Home feeling 00:09:20.370 --> 00:09:24.429 versus life management. This is again that 410 00:09:24.429 --> 00:09:27.750 dynamic he is talking of. Support versus responsibility. 00:09:28.470 --> 00:09:31.590 This is a function first intimacy axis. Both 00:09:31.590 --> 00:09:34.429 are looking for how does this give any results 00:09:34.429 --> 00:09:37.090 to me. Very result oriented. Closeness grows 00:09:37.090 --> 00:09:40.610 by showing up, fixing things, organizing things 00:09:40.610 --> 00:09:43.570 and improving life together. That's the dynamic. 00:09:43.870 --> 00:09:47.379 That's synestery. Masculine moon. In Punnavasu, 00:09:47.580 --> 00:09:50.879 man how does this play out? He bonds through 00:09:50.879 --> 00:09:54.899 conversation and optimism. He de -escalates conflict 00:09:54.899 --> 00:09:58.600 quickly. Punnavasu does not like conflicts. Needs 00:09:58.600 --> 00:10:01.360 emotional permission to start again because it's 00:10:01.360 --> 00:10:03.980 a reinventing nakshatra. It's the light that 00:10:03.980 --> 00:10:07.279 returns. It's the story of Lord Rama, for example. 00:10:08.100 --> 00:10:11.649 Feels loved when heard and encouraged. Key words 00:10:11.649 --> 00:10:14.950 here being reassurance, verbal intimacy, forgiveness 00:10:14.950 --> 00:10:18.809 and lightness. The feminine moon, the hasta woman 00:10:18.809 --> 00:10:21.389 on the other hand, bonds through usefulness and 00:10:21.389 --> 00:10:24.710 consistency. Hasta wants to feel useful. It's 00:10:24.710 --> 00:10:28.909 a very grounded sign, Virgo. Expresses love via 00:10:28.909 --> 00:10:32.009 care, via routines, via problem solving. The 00:10:32.009 --> 00:10:34.830 hasta woman wants to provide nurturing and support. 00:10:36.000 --> 00:10:38.720 Needs appreciation for her part. She needs to 00:10:38.720 --> 00:10:41.120 be appreciated for whatever she's doing. Maybe 00:10:41.120 --> 00:10:44.460 taking care of the home front. Feels safe when 00:10:44.460 --> 00:10:48.019 life is orderly and dependable. She's very grounded. 00:10:48.100 --> 00:10:50.899 She looks for dependable people in her partnerships. 00:10:51.620 --> 00:10:54.639 Key words here being service, trust, reliability 00:10:54.639 --> 00:10:57.019 and practical affection. That's what she looks 00:10:57.019 --> 00:11:01.399 for. The sexual intimacy dynamics playing out 00:11:01.399 --> 00:11:05.299 would be refined, attentive and gradual. Mental 00:11:05.299 --> 00:11:09.379 foreplay versus impulsive action. A little bit 00:11:09.379 --> 00:11:13.000 of calibration there. Touch guided by care and 00:11:13.000 --> 00:11:16.340 responsiveness. Rhythm improves with routine 00:11:16.340 --> 00:11:20.100 and feedback. Desire deepens through trust and 00:11:20.100 --> 00:11:24.419 competence. What am I talking about these things 00:11:24.419 --> 00:11:26.820 in terms of sexuality? You might ask everything. 00:11:26.980 --> 00:11:28.679 Ask a relationship counselor, they will tell 00:11:28.679 --> 00:11:32.269 you. Man's arousal keys, in this case will become 00:11:32.269 --> 00:11:35.690 conversation, reassurance and emotional warmth. 00:11:36.529 --> 00:11:40.350 A punarvasu man. Moon's, woman's arousal keys 00:11:40.350 --> 00:11:43.370 here become clean signals, patience, attentiveness 00:11:43.370 --> 00:11:47.210 and skill. If you have a skill as a punarvasu 00:11:47.210 --> 00:11:50.049 man, if you're living with a punarvasu woman, 00:11:50.450 --> 00:11:53.309 hasta woman, she'll be very attentive to what 00:11:53.309 --> 00:11:55.470 skill sets you have, how good you are with your 00:11:55.470 --> 00:11:57.830 hands. Maybe even the domestic affairs not necessarily 00:11:57.830 --> 00:12:02.799 work. Best expression for this, for her is slow 00:12:02.799 --> 00:12:05.620 build, mutual adjustment, calm confidence. We 00:12:05.620 --> 00:12:09.679 know each other type of intimacy. The friction 00:12:09.679 --> 00:12:12.960 words can become over analysis, emotional dryness, 00:12:13.200 --> 00:12:15.419 especially with punar vasu. Lot of emotional 00:12:15.419 --> 00:12:18.500 dryness is there. If appreciation is missing, 00:12:19.100 --> 00:12:22.940 talking versus doing imbalance. Too much talking 00:12:22.940 --> 00:12:26.330 goes on. Mercurial science, both of them. Not 00:12:26.330 --> 00:12:29.309 enough action or grounding. Criticism versus 00:12:29.309 --> 00:12:38.230 optimism mismatch. Criticism is punar vasu in 00:12:38.230 --> 00:12:41.970 this case. Words dismiss effort. Effort policies 00:12:41.970 --> 00:12:45.009 expression. Okay, that's the dynamic playing 00:12:45.009 --> 00:12:50.870 out for punar vasu man with hasta woman. Next, 00:12:51.029 --> 00:12:56.490 let's see punar vasu with reavati. the 10 -fold 00:12:56.490 --> 00:13:02.330 dynamic. Now we come to man in punar vasu moon 00:13:02.330 --> 00:13:06.269 and lady in ashwini in the 11th position from 00:13:06.269 --> 00:13:09.730 his moon. So it's a 11 -3 dynamic playing out, 00:13:10.049 --> 00:13:13.309 isn't it? First of all, if I look at this, I 00:13:13.309 --> 00:13:16.490 think very very charged high energy of communication, 00:13:17.169 --> 00:13:20.070 very high support and high achievers type of 00:13:20.070 --> 00:13:23.269 couple here. That's the dynamic basically. Let's 00:13:23.269 --> 00:13:27.259 see the details. Punarvasu Gemini Man. More in 00:13:27.259 --> 00:13:31.080 Punarvasu. Emotional reset, optimism, conversational 00:13:31.080 --> 00:13:34.440 bonding, adaptability, forgiveness, reframing 00:13:34.440 --> 00:13:38.080 and lightness of conversation. That's what he 00:13:38.080 --> 00:13:41.580 is good at. Whereas she brings initiation, speed, 00:13:42.120 --> 00:13:44.919 instinct, courage, actions first, emotions later, 00:13:46.019 --> 00:13:49.159 spark and rapid attachment. That's the dynamic. 00:13:49.360 --> 00:13:52.769 And 11 .3 axis here. plays out like future gains 00:13:52.769 --> 00:13:55.250 versus immediate effort. Ashwini wants everything 00:13:55.250 --> 00:13:59.669 now like yesterday. Hope versus action. Reframing 00:13:59.669 --> 00:14:02.629 and starting over once again. Friends to lovers 00:14:02.629 --> 00:14:06.990 turn. 11 .3 typically tends to become that. You 00:14:06.990 --> 00:14:08.889 become friends first and you're so attracted 00:14:08.889 --> 00:14:12.129 to them that they sort of compliment you in many 00:14:12.129 --> 00:14:16.710 other ways. Momentum based bonding. Like I said, 00:14:16.769 --> 00:14:21.059 energy is very quick here. Anyway, think Gemini 00:14:21.059 --> 00:14:24.539 and Aries matching. It's like, wow, lots of energy 00:14:24.539 --> 00:14:27.600 movement. Immediately I get a sense of that. 00:14:27.980 --> 00:14:31.539 This growth to movement axis. Intimacy builds 00:14:31.539 --> 00:14:34.379 by trying again, launching fast and learning 00:14:34.379 --> 00:14:38.120 on the go. Yeah, hit the ground running. It's 00:14:38.120 --> 00:14:41.419 a very fast energy, okay? Pundarvasu heals through 00:14:41.419 --> 00:14:44.179 talk, humor and forgiveness in this case. Ashwini 00:14:44.179 --> 00:14:46.539 energizes through decisions, first moves and 00:14:46.539 --> 00:14:49.519 courage. She will initiate. She's like that woman 00:14:49.519 --> 00:14:52.899 on top classical situation here. Key words being 00:14:52.899 --> 00:14:56.159 motivational chemistry, emotional bounce back, 00:14:56.580 --> 00:14:59.399 shared initiatives, fast recovery after conflict. 00:14:59.659 --> 00:15:02.159 Ashwini becomes the starter. She's the initiator 00:15:02.159 --> 00:15:04.360 in this case. Poonarasu becomes the restorer. 00:15:05.220 --> 00:15:07.120 What about the attraction and intimacy tone? 00:15:07.299 --> 00:15:09.379 It becomes one of playfulness, youthfulness, 00:15:09.860 --> 00:15:13.860 spontaneous, sexually quick to spark. Yes, there's 00:15:13.860 --> 00:15:16.259 whatever is there in the... Other forms of bonding 00:15:16.259 --> 00:15:18.500 it will carry also to the sexual part, isn't 00:15:18.500 --> 00:15:21.879 it? Friendship driven desire. They need to be 00:15:21.879 --> 00:15:25.220 friends first for this to work to any degree, 00:15:26.899 --> 00:15:29.440 really. Intimacy thrives here when they do projects 00:15:29.440 --> 00:15:32.340 together, when they undertake short trips together, 00:15:33.279 --> 00:15:35.820 find out new experiences, go travelling together 00:15:35.820 --> 00:15:39.600 maybe, verbal warmth, physical spontaneity, risky 00:15:39.600 --> 00:15:42.179 words being impatience, like I said, very high 00:15:42.179 --> 00:15:45.789 energy dynamic. Inconsistency. Starting more 00:15:45.789 --> 00:15:48.929 than sustaining. What will sustain this? Both 00:15:48.929 --> 00:15:51.049 these couples have to look for it if they are 00:15:51.049 --> 00:15:54.269 engaged in such a thing. You have to find this. 00:15:54.470 --> 00:15:58.190 This is the exciting part of exploring. Emotional 00:15:58.190 --> 00:16:01.769 shortcuts. Not a good idea. Burn -reset cycles. 00:16:02.090 --> 00:16:03.950 Too much of burn -outs, too much of reset, too 00:16:03.950 --> 00:16:07.509 much of please forgive me business. Action ignores 00:16:07.509 --> 00:16:10.389 reassurance. Forgiveness enables repeat chaos. 00:16:11.110 --> 00:16:14.710 See, it's a dynamic. It can fail if that happens. 00:16:15.470 --> 00:16:18.470 This is a high energy, fast recovery 11 -3 pairing. 00:16:18.750 --> 00:16:21.529 Excellent for momentum, collaboration and resilient 00:16:21.529 --> 00:16:24.610 bonding. It's good for if you have movement, 00:16:24.789 --> 00:16:27.789 optimism and shared goals. Like I said, keep 00:16:27.789 --> 00:16:30.889 some factor of grounding, keep some factor of 00:16:30.889 --> 00:16:33.850 doing projects together, setting goals together 00:16:33.850 --> 00:16:38.129 and achieving as a unit that will sustain this 00:16:38.129 --> 00:16:41.490 particular bonding. Otherwise, it goes as fast 00:16:41.490 --> 00:16:44.950 as it has appeared. And you need to have some 00:16:44.950 --> 00:16:47.909 emotional flexibility. I think that would be 00:16:47.909 --> 00:16:50.450 a given. Don't be rigid. There is no rigidity 00:16:50.450 --> 00:16:54.009 in this energy. Stillness, deep emotional gravity 00:16:54.009 --> 00:16:57.769 and slow burn attachment. So that finishes up. 00:16:57.769 --> 00:17:01.590 Punar vasu. Intimacy factors. There is no other 00:17:01.590 --> 00:17:03.710 match. I have already covered the other principles. 00:17:04.009 --> 00:17:06.869 Go through the principles first if you are finding 00:17:06.869 --> 00:17:10.529 any degree of difficulty in this. Okay. I shall 00:17:10.529 --> 00:17:13.779 see you in the next. What is the next one? Now 00:17:13.779 --> 00:17:15.599 we move to Cancer. I think we have finished with 00:17:15.599 --> 00:17:18.720 Gemini. So we will move to Pushya nakshatra. 00:17:19.079 --> 00:17:21.619 That's next. Punarvasu I have already covered. 00:17:21.839 --> 00:17:24.059 So I won't cover Punarvasu there. Although this 00:17:24.059 --> 00:17:26.880 is in Cancer last Pada. We will directly move 00:17:26.880 --> 00:17:29.759 to Pushya nakshatra. Take care. Be safe. Now 00:17:29.759 --> 00:17:33.559 let's take the next one. Punarvasu man versus 00:17:33.559 --> 00:17:36.480 Revati woman. So there's the position of the 00:17:36.480 --> 00:17:39.839 planets. Okay. What does this dynamic lead us 00:17:39.839 --> 00:17:44.109 into? This is a 10 -4 relationship. Let us see 00:17:44.109 --> 00:17:46.869 what the 10 -4 dynamic brings. This is renewal 00:17:46.869 --> 00:17:50.670 versus finding refuge. Cravity is a refuge in 00:17:50.670 --> 00:17:54.670 this case. So the universal man typically has 00:17:54.670 --> 00:17:57.750 emotional resets in this kind of relationship. 00:17:58.029 --> 00:18:00.789 A lot of optimism, a lot of conversational bonding. 00:18:01.849 --> 00:18:03.930 I want to step aside for a minute and if you 00:18:03.930 --> 00:18:07.349 think mercury is a very dry mimicry, mercury 00:18:07.349 --> 00:18:12.029 is all about mimicry. and dryness but in intimacy 00:18:12.029 --> 00:18:15.490 you need more skin more touch that that part 00:18:15.490 --> 00:18:17.509 of mercury which I spoke of in the first slide 00:18:17.509 --> 00:18:21.990 so think of converting your conversational dynamic 00:18:21.990 --> 00:18:25.529 in with your partner in terms of more touching 00:18:25.529 --> 00:18:28.670 more hugging more kissing that kind of thing 00:18:28.670 --> 00:18:32.329 adaptability forgiveness lightness start again 00:18:32.329 --> 00:18:34.849 kind of energy because it's renewing type of 00:18:34.849 --> 00:18:38.819 energy Only derivative on the other hand is compassion. 00:18:38.960 --> 00:18:41.740 It's about completion. It's about emotional sanctuary, 00:18:42.059 --> 00:18:45.240 devotion, guidance, surrender and soulful holding. 00:18:45.359 --> 00:18:49.279 This is keywords. Okay. Now what does 10 -4 access 00:18:49.279 --> 00:18:52.599 signature provide? Outer movement versus inner 00:18:52.599 --> 00:18:55.299 peace. Outer movement being punar vasu in Gemini. 00:18:56.680 --> 00:19:00.000 She is desiring for inner peace here. Mental 00:19:00.000 --> 00:19:03.660 renewal versus emotional rest. Pisces is a sign 00:19:03.660 --> 00:19:08.119 of rest. Hope and healing. That's another dynamic. 00:19:08.539 --> 00:19:12.720 Reframing and accepting. World -facing effort, 00:19:12.900 --> 00:19:15.740 Punar Varsu versus home of the heart kind of 00:19:15.740 --> 00:19:18.819 feeling. Emotional and psychological pattern 00:19:18.819 --> 00:19:22.099 here tends to be like Punar Varsu heals through 00:19:22.099 --> 00:19:25.579 talk, humor and reframing. Revati on the other 00:19:25.579 --> 00:19:28.180 hand heals through presence, empathy and containment. 00:19:28.460 --> 00:19:30.640 That empathy which I spoke of in the first slide, 00:19:31.319 --> 00:19:33.950 that plays out here. That's why you have to remember 00:19:33.950 --> 00:19:36.049 all those key principles. Go through this any 00:19:36.049 --> 00:19:38.609 number of times if you really wish to have intimacy. 00:19:39.490 --> 00:19:43.230 Key words, general reassurance, emotional forgiveness, 00:19:43.670 --> 00:19:47.890 nervous system calming, Revathi, trust without 00:19:47.890 --> 00:19:51.309 pressure, soft guidance. Revathi becomes the 00:19:51.309 --> 00:19:54.369 emotional anchor or the home. Poonarasu becomes 00:19:54.369 --> 00:19:58.390 the emotional restarter. The sexual intimacy 00:19:58.390 --> 00:20:02.299 tone here assumes soft magnetism. Emotional safety 00:20:02.299 --> 00:20:07.299 first, Revati wants that. She wants that. Sensitivity 00:20:07.299 --> 00:20:12.619 over speed. Rhythm guided by trust. Arousal keys 00:20:12.619 --> 00:20:15.519 being, Bhunar Vasuvi is aroused here in this 00:20:15.519 --> 00:20:18.819 relationship only by verbal warmth, reassurance 00:20:18.819 --> 00:20:22.140 and emotional permission. He has to ask permission 00:20:22.140 --> 00:20:25.400 each time because she is very soft, very vulnerable 00:20:25.400 --> 00:20:29.019 in this case. Listening helps, reassurance helps, 00:20:29.440 --> 00:20:33.980 shared meaning and cultivation of quiet closeness. 00:20:34.319 --> 00:20:38.279 Risky factors being over -idealization, Revathi. 00:20:39.039 --> 00:20:42.240 Emotional over -giving, again Revathi. Avoidance 00:20:42.240 --> 00:20:46.059 of practical decisions, Punarvasu. One -sided 00:20:46.059 --> 00:20:51.359 emotional carrying, Revathi. Fails if... Hope 00:20:51.359 --> 00:20:54.700 avoids grounding or compassion replaces boundaries. 00:20:54.980 --> 00:20:59.119 Boundaries is very important when it comes to 00:20:59.119 --> 00:21:01.940 air science, more in air science. Okay, especially 00:21:01.940 --> 00:21:05.859 in Gemini, Punarvaso. Because air is drifting 00:21:05.859 --> 00:21:10.839 all around. Look at the element of air. Air science, 00:21:11.059 --> 00:21:13.640 typically Gemini, Libra and Aquarius, they are 00:21:13.640 --> 00:21:15.799 constantly moving and penetrating everything. 00:21:15.980 --> 00:21:17.940 Even the nakshatras within them, there's a hint 00:21:17.940 --> 00:21:20.569 there. So you've got to be careful of boundaries 00:21:20.569 --> 00:21:23.750 when you talk of moon, Mercury or Venus placed 00:21:23.750 --> 00:21:26.049 in air science. Too much of talking, too much 00:21:26.049 --> 00:21:29.430 of blah blah blah. This is a healing, emotional 00:21:29.430 --> 00:21:32.589 10 -4 pairing which is restorative, forgiving 00:21:32.589 --> 00:21:35.630 and quietly enduring. Best for those who value 00:21:35.630 --> 00:21:39.109 emotional safety, gentle intimacy, renewal through 00:21:39.109 --> 00:21:42.420 compassion. Not ideal for those seeking high 00:21:42.420 --> 00:21:45.619 stimulation, sharp conflict and constant novelty. 00:21:45.819 --> 00:21:48.220 This is not that kind of a relationship. So essentially 00:21:48.220 --> 00:21:52.680 you're saying, you're consciously taking a partner 00:21:52.680 --> 00:21:56.579 whom you can bond with. So that's why you need 00:21:56.579 --> 00:21:59.220 to understand yourself first. That's why I do 00:21:59.220 --> 00:22:01.740 personality counseling in this channel. I bring 00:22:01.740 --> 00:22:05.940 forth many things to MBTI, Enneagram, Bridge 00:22:05.940 --> 00:22:08.519 to Vedic Astrology, Nakshatras. Why all the stuff 00:22:08.519 --> 00:22:11.720 it might ask? Well, You need to do this consciously. 00:22:11.759 --> 00:22:15.059 This is a conscious effort, folks. This is not 00:22:15.059 --> 00:22:17.359 given to you on a platter. If you want to step 00:22:17.359 --> 00:22:19.920 back from all the effort that consciousness would 00:22:19.920 --> 00:22:24.180 take, go through your karma. That's it. Whatever 00:22:24.180 --> 00:22:26.019 will come, will come. Whatever you deal with, 00:22:26.180 --> 00:22:28.539 you'll deal with with your unconscious propensities. 00:22:29.000 --> 00:22:31.440 That's the way the game works. Learn the rules 00:22:31.440 --> 00:22:34.759 of the game. Next, we shall take the last one, 00:22:35.240 --> 00:22:41.259 which is the 11 .3 dynamic. Pura Vasu 2. That's 00:22:41.259 --> 00:22:42.759 in the next slide. Keep watching.