WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:04.059 Hello my wonderful people, welcome back. We are 00:00:04.059 --> 00:00:07.660 in discussion of intimacy matching nakshatras 00:00:07.660 --> 00:00:10.320 and see how they play out in dynamism of all 00:00:10.320 --> 00:00:13.919 kinds of intimacy relationship. This doesn't 00:00:13.919 --> 00:00:18.079 have to be restricted to the stereotypical heterosexual 00:00:18.079 --> 00:00:21.140 male -female, it can be LGBTQ as well, because 00:00:21.140 --> 00:00:23.460 the dynamics of intimacy are pretty much the 00:00:23.460 --> 00:00:26.839 same. Nakshatnas are pretty much the same. Planets 00:00:26.839 --> 00:00:28.820 are pretty much the same. So what are we trying 00:00:28.820 --> 00:00:34.840 to do essentially? We are trying to unpack consciousness 00:00:34.840 --> 00:00:40.460 in terms of intimacy. Any conversation about 00:00:40.460 --> 00:00:44.159 intimacy unless it begins with consciousness 00:00:44.159 --> 00:00:48.740 as the base is doomed from the get -go. Just 00:00:48.740 --> 00:00:53.939 my take on it. And we need to at least, at least 00:00:53.939 --> 00:00:56.460 embody those six principles shown on the screen. 00:00:56.520 --> 00:00:58.859 We need to have nurturing, we need to have kindness, 00:00:59.039 --> 00:01:01.399 we need to have freedom, we need to have allowance, 00:01:01.640 --> 00:01:05.579 not necessarily acceptance, empathy and vulnerability. 00:01:05.799 --> 00:01:09.819 These are some of the core, you might say. And 00:01:09.819 --> 00:01:13.900 they all stem from the need for any consciousness, 00:01:14.219 --> 00:01:17.140 be it man or woman, anyone in the partner, in 00:01:17.140 --> 00:01:21.340 terms of intimacy, to have an expansion of that. 00:01:22.459 --> 00:01:27.079 Let's say from the beginning of your relationship 00:01:27.079 --> 00:01:29.500 when you are still dating or when you are still 00:01:29.500 --> 00:01:34.040 courting the man or woman. Those days, the initial 00:01:34.040 --> 00:01:37.019 spark that is felt, the initial chemistry that 00:01:37.019 --> 00:01:41.180 is felt, isn't it? That needs to expand more, 00:01:41.260 --> 00:01:44.540 not go into a contracted space. Otherwise, the 00:01:44.540 --> 00:01:48.219 whole charm is lost, the whole magic in a relationship 00:01:48.219 --> 00:01:52.129 is lost. let alone intimacy, it's very far away 00:01:52.129 --> 00:01:56.250 here. Any kind of contraction, any kind of blame, 00:01:56.390 --> 00:01:59.150 shame, judgment, guilt, anger, shadows and so 00:01:59.150 --> 00:02:03.290 on creeps in. It will spoil this beautiful thing 00:02:03.290 --> 00:02:07.150 that humans are capable of. Therefore, like in 00:02:07.150 --> 00:02:10.349 previous videos I said, consciousness desires 00:02:10.349 --> 00:02:16.699 expansion. 100%. And in intimacy it shows up 00:02:16.699 --> 00:02:19.439 more because this is the Navamsa of an individual 00:02:19.439 --> 00:02:21.879 playing out with another Navamsa. That is the 00:02:21.879 --> 00:02:24.360 most intimate part. I am not talking physical, 00:02:24.360 --> 00:02:28.039 that is the last one. I am talking at all other 00:02:28.039 --> 00:02:33.319 levels like Mercury, Venus and Moon. So matchmaking 00:02:33.319 --> 00:02:37.699 as much as it is a fever in India, especially 00:02:37.699 --> 00:02:41.120 when they look for marriage or married partners 00:02:41.120 --> 00:02:44.500 or parents go around digging for potential spouses 00:02:44.500 --> 00:02:48.479 of their kids. They go to these astrologers and 00:02:48.479 --> 00:02:51.159 they'll take out that 36 point system and match 00:02:51.159 --> 00:02:55.039 them. And they say the whole objective of a marriage 00:02:55.039 --> 00:02:58.780 is to produce kids to settle down quote unquote 00:02:58.780 --> 00:03:01.960 in life. This is the traditional approach and 00:03:01.960 --> 00:03:05.000 as we can see in 2025, it isn't working very 00:03:05.000 --> 00:03:08.379 well. It isn't working very well in all the counseling 00:03:08.379 --> 00:03:12.340 that I have seen with relationships. Why? because 00:03:12.340 --> 00:03:14.740 we haven't understood some of the core principles. 00:03:14.759 --> 00:03:18.259 We still evaluate Jyotish with a very traditional 00:03:18.259 --> 00:03:21.740 lens, which was somewhere God knows how far back 00:03:21.740 --> 00:03:25.120 in time. Times were different. Jyotish has to 00:03:25.120 --> 00:03:28.939 be interpreted in modern context. In modern context, 00:03:30.039 --> 00:03:32.460 since so much of what we have been given as humans 00:03:32.460 --> 00:03:35.259 is so convenient. This is an age of convenience. 00:03:35.580 --> 00:03:37.680 Even intelligence has come knocking at our door 00:03:37.680 --> 00:03:42.360 like AI. And in this day and age of AI, and people 00:03:42.360 --> 00:03:44.979 are having chatbots for boyfriend -girlfriends, 00:03:45.180 --> 00:03:49.400 ridiculous. It just goes to show how poorly we 00:03:49.400 --> 00:03:52.439 are connecting with one another as humans. And 00:03:52.439 --> 00:03:55.460 so, I am bringing my little piece here, Understanding 00:03:55.460 --> 00:03:59.000 of Jyotish, in order to help you to understand 00:03:59.000 --> 00:04:02.219 and bridge this gap of intimacy that we find 00:04:02.219 --> 00:04:04.400 ourselves in, especially with the younger generation 00:04:04.400 --> 00:04:08.000 and all these negative influences they are having, 00:04:08.139 --> 00:04:12.219 things like body count and things like Only fans 00:04:12.219 --> 00:04:14.680 and all this rubbish that we have going on chat 00:04:14.680 --> 00:04:17.439 bot for boyfriends and girlfriends. What nonsense 00:04:17.439 --> 00:04:20.360 is this? Let's get back to the drawing board 00:04:20.360 --> 00:04:24.480 Understand it for what it really means Now we 00:04:24.480 --> 00:04:29.019 come to Mrikshira match Mrikshira moon for the 00:04:29.019 --> 00:04:33.360 lady and matching to Revati nakshatra of the 00:04:33.360 --> 00:04:37.620 man, which is 10th place From itself is 10 four 00:04:37.620 --> 00:04:41.879 axis playing out So let us examine briefly what 00:04:41.879 --> 00:04:44.339 that could mean and what dynamics it will play 00:04:44.339 --> 00:04:48.600 out and considering these six, I would say I 00:04:48.600 --> 00:04:51.540 would put in the ballpark of kindness and empathy 00:04:51.540 --> 00:04:54.540 versus nurturing and freedom. This is the triangle 00:04:54.540 --> 00:04:56.899 that will play out in this relationship. Every 00:04:56.899 --> 00:05:01.500 relationship when you do matching of moon and 00:05:01.500 --> 00:05:05.060 nakshatra will have this kind of dynamic where 00:05:05.060 --> 00:05:09.339 it says which are the dominant of these six characteristics 00:05:09.339 --> 00:05:11.879 playing out between the man and woman. So in 00:05:11.879 --> 00:05:16.759 this case, with Mrakshira moon and woman, and 00:05:16.759 --> 00:05:20.360 Revati moon in the man, what will play out is 00:05:20.360 --> 00:05:23.480 more of kindness and empathy, that is Revati, 00:05:23.699 --> 00:05:26.439 versus nurturing and freedom, that is Mrakshira. 00:05:27.220 --> 00:05:29.779 So let's get into it and see what this brings 00:05:29.779 --> 00:05:32.639 about. That's the 410 dynamic you see on the 00:05:32.639 --> 00:05:37.170 screen over there. Now we have Mrikshira moon 00:05:37.170 --> 00:05:41.550 lady and we have a man in Revathi which is the 00:05:41.550 --> 00:05:44.509 10th position from it not necessarily the houses 00:05:44.509 --> 00:05:48.589 it can be any one of the houses okay so 10th 00:05:48.589 --> 00:05:51.810 position therefore we have the 10 -4 dynamic 00:05:51.810 --> 00:05:54.930 which is sort of the reverse of 4 -10 dynamic 00:05:54.930 --> 00:05:59.490 so to speak so first of all compare the signs 00:05:59.490 --> 00:06:05.490 the signs Revathi is a water nakshatra Water 00:06:05.490 --> 00:06:10.529 sign, sorry. It falls in the zodiac sign of Pisces. 00:06:10.730 --> 00:06:13.829 So there is a Piscean energy of softness playing 00:06:13.829 --> 00:06:17.509 out here. Riveti, moon is quite tender in that 00:06:17.509 --> 00:06:21.029 fashion. And Mrikshira is also tender in that 00:06:21.029 --> 00:06:24.410 fashion. But there is a dynamic of air to water 00:06:24.410 --> 00:06:27.029 playing out in this, isn't it? This is also a 00:06:27.029 --> 00:06:29.269 kind of match. But there will be a dynamism which 00:06:29.269 --> 00:06:32.819 is unique to every nakshatra play out. so let's 00:06:32.819 --> 00:06:37.079 see what this one brings the mrikshira in gemini 00:06:37.079 --> 00:06:41.579 moon that is the lady we are matching with revati 00:06:41.579 --> 00:06:45.860 moon of the man in pisces so what this gives 00:06:45.860 --> 00:06:49.519 the core weaving of this combination will give 00:06:49.519 --> 00:06:53.339 us a certain dynamic which is as follows mrikshira 00:06:53.339 --> 00:06:57.800 once again is curiosity is questioning is dialogue 00:06:57.800 --> 00:07:00.850 based because Now we are talking about the last 00:07:00.850 --> 00:07:03.470 two Padas of Mrikshira which fall in Gemini. 00:07:04.490 --> 00:07:07.089 It's about dialogue, it's about movement, it's 00:07:07.089 --> 00:07:09.829 about communication, it's about adaptability, 00:07:09.970 --> 00:07:13.689 it's about seeking ideas continuously. Mrikshira 00:07:13.689 --> 00:07:17.949 is a constant explorer through life and it has 00:07:17.949 --> 00:07:20.470 a very nervous energy since it is sitting in 00:07:20.470 --> 00:07:24.250 the sign of Mercury. Mercury is nervousness, 00:07:24.670 --> 00:07:29.699 nerves. Revathi on the other hand The man's moon 00:07:29.699 --> 00:07:32.680 will have more compassion. It is about completing 00:07:32.680 --> 00:07:35.500 a cycle. It completes the cycle of zodiac. Gravity 00:07:35.500 --> 00:07:39.560 falls in Pisces. Emotional safety. It's about 00:07:39.560 --> 00:07:42.259 guidance. It's about devotion. It's about surrender. 00:07:42.560 --> 00:07:48.019 It's about soulful containment. Now the 10 -4 00:07:48.019 --> 00:07:51.600 axis signature, how it plays out here, is outer 00:07:51.600 --> 00:07:57.379 direction versus inner refuge. going outward, 00:07:57.800 --> 00:08:02.379 Revathi is going inward. Mental motion versus 00:08:02.379 --> 00:08:05.860 emotional rest. That's another dynamic that plays 00:08:05.860 --> 00:08:09.759 out. Questions, which is constantly in rishas, 00:08:09.779 --> 00:08:13.279 questioning things versus acceptance in biases. 00:08:14.459 --> 00:08:18.240 Seeking versus arrival. See how different the 00:08:18.240 --> 00:08:21.040 dynamic is here. One is seeking constantly, one 00:08:21.040 --> 00:08:26.779 feels they have arrived. world -facing role that 00:08:26.779 --> 00:08:30.259 is mrikshira versus home of the heart which is 00:08:30.259 --> 00:08:34.940 him in this case so this is a purpose to peace 00:08:34.940 --> 00:08:38.299 access one explores the world other creates a 00:08:38.299 --> 00:08:42.000 place to return to very home -like environment 00:08:42.000 --> 00:08:46.000 the man has in this case mrikshira stimulates 00:08:46.000 --> 00:08:50.480 through ideas words and curiosity riveti stabilizes 00:08:50.480 --> 00:08:54.080 through empathy forgiveness and emotional holding 00:08:54.490 --> 00:08:58.529 The keywords being emotional sanctuary, nervous 00:08:58.529 --> 00:09:02.730 system soothing, guidance without control, trust 00:09:02.730 --> 00:09:05.590 -based bonding. These are the keywords that will 00:09:05.590 --> 00:09:08.470 play out in this relationship. Rivathi man becomes 00:09:08.470 --> 00:09:12.070 the emotional home in this case. Brikshira woman 00:09:12.070 --> 00:09:16.009 becomes the mental messenger in this case. Attraction 00:09:16.009 --> 00:09:20.169 and tone of intimacy will play out as gentle 00:09:20.169 --> 00:09:24.379 magnetism, emotional safety, healing intimacy, 00:09:25.019 --> 00:09:29.639 spiritual undertone, biases, soft receptive sexuality. 00:09:30.299 --> 00:09:33.840 This is a very soft combination. Both the partners 00:09:33.840 --> 00:09:39.360 are very soft. Raksha is soft and so is Revathi. 00:09:40.279 --> 00:09:44.019 Intimacy in this case would deepen through listening, 00:09:44.940 --> 00:09:49.299 Revathi. Assurance, Raksha, shared meaning, both 00:09:49.299 --> 00:09:53.039 of them. and quiet presence. So, this is a quieter 00:09:53.039 --> 00:09:56.919 type of a couple we are looking at. The risk 00:09:56.919 --> 00:10:01.480 factors in this association would be over -idealization 00:10:01.480 --> 00:10:04.259 of anything. Both of them put together, I would 00:10:04.259 --> 00:10:07.059 put it. One is very mental, one is very receptive. 00:10:07.799 --> 00:10:13.220 So, idealistic. Most are avatthi. Emotional dependence. 00:10:13.580 --> 00:10:17.740 This creates that thing which we call over -dependence. 00:10:18.649 --> 00:10:21.909 So the freedom factor which he spoke of in the 00:10:21.909 --> 00:10:25.190 first slide needs to be addressed. It should 00:10:25.190 --> 00:10:28.929 not be a very clingy kind of relationship. Revathi 00:10:28.929 --> 00:10:32.950 can tend to get that. Confusion versus clarity. 00:10:33.370 --> 00:10:36.330 Marikshira can get confused. Revathi might provide 00:10:36.330 --> 00:10:38.909 clarity, but Marikshira goes on exploring stuff. 00:10:39.350 --> 00:10:44.029 It's not interested in pausing. One carrying 00:10:44.029 --> 00:10:46.269 the emotional weight. Guess which one? The man 00:10:46.269 --> 00:10:49.100 in this case. is carrying too much of emotions 00:10:49.100 --> 00:10:51.379 of the other one. The other one is a dry sign, 00:10:51.539 --> 00:10:55.559 not really receptive, a wideness of practical 00:10:55.559 --> 00:10:59.519 issues, both of them being one exploratory in 00:10:59.519 --> 00:11:01.720 the mind and the other one is always being an 00:11:01.720 --> 00:11:04.399 emotion, air and water sign, there might be a 00:11:04.399 --> 00:11:08.879 tendency to lose grip on reality. So if the moon 00:11:08.879 --> 00:11:11.720 is placed like this, I would urge you to check 00:11:11.720 --> 00:11:15.240 the other grounding planets. urge you to check 00:11:15.240 --> 00:11:19.419 where the Saturns are placed between both. I 00:11:19.419 --> 00:11:23.100 would urge you to check Mercury and Venus also. 00:11:23.240 --> 00:11:27.039 Hopefully they are in more earthy signs. It fails 00:11:27.039 --> 00:11:31.620 if mind escapes responsibility and emotion absorbs 00:11:31.620 --> 00:11:37.139 too much. This is a healing emotionally anchoring 00:11:37.139 --> 00:11:40.220 10 -4 pairing powerful for long -term bonding 00:11:40.220 --> 00:11:43.480 and relationships emotional repair and soulful 00:11:43.480 --> 00:11:47.019 partnerships best for those who value This is 00:11:47.019 --> 00:11:50.500 the key here What do you value each one of you? 00:11:51.100 --> 00:11:53.740 It is not going to be given by Jyotish or it's 00:11:53.740 --> 00:11:56.159 not going to be given by any guru anywhere You 00:11:56.159 --> 00:11:58.340 have to sit and study these things understand 00:11:58.340 --> 00:12:01.909 these things Best for those who value gentle 00:12:01.909 --> 00:12:06.190 intimacy, emotional refuge and meaning or stimulation. 00:12:07.110 --> 00:12:10.409 Both these nakshatras are more centered on meaning. 00:12:10.669 --> 00:12:14.809 One at the emotional level, Pisces, Revati and 00:12:14.809 --> 00:12:19.350 the other one Murkshira in Gemini. So you must 00:12:19.350 --> 00:12:21.970 take care of aspects like this before you get 00:12:21.970 --> 00:12:25.629 into partnerships based on this. If you don't 00:12:25.629 --> 00:12:28.330 want to take this as the counseling advice, and 00:12:28.330 --> 00:12:30.470 this is the way I do counseling using Jyotish, 00:12:30.730 --> 00:12:33.970 is you have to take this consciously. There is 00:12:33.970 --> 00:12:36.450 no unconscious thing here. You can't blindly 00:12:36.450 --> 00:12:39.830 walk into something which you're not sure what 00:12:39.830 --> 00:12:42.330 the operating manual of the other individual 00:12:42.330 --> 00:12:45.049 is. This is like the operating manual. Jyotish 00:12:45.049 --> 00:12:47.490 gives you a fantastic operating manual. You can 00:12:47.490 --> 00:12:49.769 cut short all the psychology behind it and get 00:12:49.769 --> 00:12:52.379 to the brass tacks. I'll see you in the next, 00:12:52.539 --> 00:12:52.980 take care.