hello my wonderful people welcome to my channel
we are discussing intimacy aspects all of which
are require a great degree of conscious engagement
on the parties both the parties involved here
the man and the woman I covered this to an extent
in the previous one and for all of you new listeners
viewers coming to my channel please go through
all these ones because I'm covering it in as
I'm getting downloads about each one in different
ways. So there is no one size fits all here.
For example, when you talk of Devagana's matching
the rule, the traditional rule goes, you should
match Devagana nakshatra's with Devagana, Manusha
with Manusha and Rakshasa with Rakshasa. Why?
Because it creates a certain propensity of match
that is not available in others. And we shall
see this as we go along step by step. There's
already a lot of material on the playlist if
you want to go through it. Now we are exploring
Mrigsira but in Gemini. Means to say the next
two Padas of Gemini. All Mars ruling Kshitras,
Mrikshira, Kshitra and Dhanishta fall half in
the earth sign, half in the air sign. So we are
talking about the next two Padaas in Mrikshira
which is in Gemini. So we shall see that in a
minute. And in this dynamic you will see more
of the factors of kindness and factors of freedom
shown there. Mrikshira desires a lot of freedom
to be. That's the nakshatra characteristics.
You can't play with any of that any more than
you can do with others. So, freedom versus kindness.
Kindness comes to hasta. Why hasta sits and work?
Although it's a devakana, it can become highly
critical of things. Sort of micro -examining
the pattern. You know, you're doing this and
you're not doing that and all kinds of things
go on. Hastanakshatra can become very critical.
And there is a lesson for Hastanaksha people
in that. In the sense, you need to embody your
goal setting or whatever you want to desire in
other places of your life. Don't bring it to
the bedroom. Don't bring it to intimacy. Okay?
Don't try to micro examine the partner like you
tend to do other things. Take your micro examination
to your work probably. That's a good quality
to have. But it is never the case that you can
take what you take to work as an attitude and
bring it down between intimacy of partners. Just
because you have micro examination quality analysis,
Asthanakshatra makes extremely good engineers
for example. That attitude may be good at work
fine, but that attitude necessarily does not
work or come to play properly. When it comes
to intimacy, intimacy requires softness. Look
at all the qualities there. Nurturing, kindness,
freedom, allowance, empathy, vulnerability. Then
the Kshatra will think, what are you talking
about? I want the details of that kindness. I
want the details of that freedom. What exactly
do you mean by freedom, Arun? That's simply not
the way things work. And I'm giving principles
of moon here in this series, but apply the same
principle of Devana matching to Mercury and Venus
as well. Suppose if it's Mercury placed in Ashtha
or Mercury placed in Vrikshira, your mind and
mental qualities will have that kind of attribute.
If it is Venus, your spouse may have, especially
Venus in Navamsa, your spouse may be having this
kind of characteristics. Apply the same principles
because Nakshatra is the same. Depending upon
which planet Mercury, Venus, Moon is placed here,
especially in the Navamsa, Navamsa is considered
dominant in terms of marriage and partnerships
in Jyotish. Have a look through that, you might
embody those kind of qualities. Fine, there's
nothing wrong with any quality being there, provided
it is known, provided it is understood. These
things we are not educated in, that's the only
thing I see. This is why I bring everything in
this channel with respect to education. Just
look at the whole thing first. Don't analyze
it piece by piece. There will be a mistake in
Jyotish. Now, let us see how kindness and freedom,
these two dominant aspects play out in Hastanakshatra.
Let's get into the details. So, now we come to
Lady having Prakshiranakshatra, Moon. And the
guy having Hastanakshatra moon in the fourth
position, not necessarily the first and fourth
house, it can be, but it can be any other house
as well. We are talking about the fourth position
of moon of the man. Distance, that means four
signs later, three signs later. And then Mrigshira
moon in ladies. Therefore, this is a 410 dynamic.
which means to say going counterclockwise this
is the fourth position and going counterclockwise
from his moon this will be a tenth position isn't
it from here if you count counterclockwise it
will be tenth position so this is a 410 dynamic
playing out now first of all Mrikshira in Gemini
will have a lot of exploratory tendencies it's
an air sign let's just see the zodiac for a minute
here Therefore, she will have a lot of mental
activity, lot of exploratory tendencies in the
mind. She needs freedom to explore, she needs
freedom to be who she is, she needs to speak
about a lot of things. It's a mercury sign, so
there will be a lot of communication involved.
She needs to communicate to be able to be seen.
I am talking in intimacy aspects only here. We
are just talking about intimacy and synestery
in Vedic Astrology. So, her place in this relationship
will be more of a communicator. Okay? Hastanakshatra,
in his case, he is more grounded because it's
forego. It's the sixth sign. It can become very
critical. He can become very focused in health
matters. you know, going to the gym and yoga
and whatnot. He can become very scared of illnesses.
Muni and Hastha, they are always very psychologically
triggered with their health issues because Virgo
is the sixth sign of health, bad health. Anything
bad health, he gets really triggered and he needs
nurturing and caring. Muni and Hastha for this
guy. Remember these basic rules first, okay?
So the 410 dynamic, how does that play out? Let's
explore that. Mrikshira in Gemini versus Hastha
in Virgo, the 410 axis. So how does this play
out? The core weaving will be Mrikshira in Gemini
will have mental curiosity, questioning, movement,
dialogue -driven bonding. Like I said, it's everything
to do with talking. Mrikshira in Gemini needs
to talk to connect. You need a connection, isn't
it? Adaptability, ideas exploration. She will
love to explore ideas. If she is a Merkshi Ramon.
And very sort of nervous energy. Why? Because
it's mercury driven. Mercury has everything to
do with skin and nerves. So she will require
a lot of touch. And she will require a lot of
communication to be seen in the relationship.
Hastavargo on the other side. is more grounded.
It's an earth sign, Invergo. Asthanakshatra falls
within Invergo. So, he will be all about skill,
about precision, about detailed orientation.
Be cautious about criticism, like I said. Service,
reliability, practical care. Asthanakshatra is
very, very practical in nature. Therefore, even
they make good engineers. Emotional containment
through action. Competence -based intimacy. So,
he will be as a natural propensity inclined towards
detail orientation. So how he can fulfill her?
In the sense, they have to have a mental connection
here. One is mentally detailed, one is mentally
curious. There is a very good dynamic that could
play out. It requires conscious effort like they
say in English. Takes two to tango, isn't it?
It's very true in case of even nakshatras. Traditional
Jyotish would have you match 36 points and say
these two are compatible. In this day and age,
in 2025, such kind of blind rules do not apply.
In my experience with couple counselling, it
does not apply. It takes two to tango applies.
In the sense, both parties should be willing,
acknowledge it and work through the system. Doesn't
matter how many shadows you discover also. It's
acceptance. Each one of us has shadows. but it's
acceptance or allowance of that. Just allow the
person to be who they are. That's it in its simplicity.
So the four ten axis signature would be inner
world versus outer function, mind versus method.
Mind is Mrakshira, method is Hastanakshatra.
Ideas Mrakshira versus execution Hastanakshatra.
They can make excellent pair in these respects.
This is the dynamic of the axis, the new talk
of Marikshira and Gemini and Hasta Envergo, Moon's
compatibility. Emotional safety versus responsibility.
Sarang Shetra feels very responsible. Home base
versus life direction. So she provides answers,
curiosity questions, and he analyzes it with
his mind. So the dynamic is two minds working
together as one finally we want to get to that
finally we want to get to how these two can play
in a good way the game is the same intimacy the
game is to have a partner who's reliable who
can communicate with you and you're working with
them rather than against them This is a functional
intimacy access. Closeness grows through doing
life well together. Like I said, it's a partnership
of cooperation when enhanced. Mrikshira stimulates,
asks and explores. Hastha organizes, fixes and
stabilizes. One is an air sign, one is another
sign. It's that simple dynamic here. Keywords
being mental stimulation, emotional grounding,
problem -solving bond. They are excellent problem
-solving couple, this one. Calm nervous system
and mutual usefulness. Rikshira will always think
in terms of how can I be more close to him? What
can I explore that he needs if she is not having
shadows of Rao Ketu on that? Remember, if Rao
Ketu aspects this moon or Venus or Mankhari,
there is a little shadow there and that needs
to be worked through. It's not that it's unsolvable.
Nothing is unsolvable in 2025. You have to work
through it. Remember this. Hasta becomes the
emotional anchor, grounded sign. Briksha becomes
the mental spark of curiosity. Attraction and
intimacy tone here will assume these signatures.
Low drama, high trust, gradual attachment, practical
affection. Consistency over intensity. This is
not the kind of relationship where you have high
passions running around. It's all about engagement
in a useful way. Sexuality improves with routine
refinement and communication. Communication is
very important for Rikshira in general, for her.
She doesn't feel otherwise that spark, that chemistry,
that sexual chemistry. Approach has to be through
the mind. The risky keywords here being over
analysis, Hastana Kshetra, too much over analysis,
micro examination, fault -picking, nitpicking,
OCD kind of fashion, that could be a risk on
Hastana Kshetra or even on Riksha Rasa, too much
exploration, not enough grounding, emotional
dryness, see Mercury and Saturn signs, Gemini
Virgo, both are Dry science, okay, so are Saturn,
Aquarius and Capricorn. So you have to be careful
how you deal with the dryness part of it. You've
got to bring consciously an emotional quotient
to this. Criticism versus restlessness, that
could again be risky. Talking versus doing imbalance.
Too much talking, not enough follow -up. Mind
dismisses effort or effort policies curiosity.
Effort policies curiosity meaning from his side
to her side is Policing too much. He's examining
too much details of her curiosity and being critical
about it Astana Kshetra people have to be very
careful of being over critical Because nobody
loves your criticism. Okay, take it to your workplace.
Don't bring it home This is a stability through
function for ten pairing excellent for long -term
partnership shared work and emotional reliability
These two can build a business together very
well By the way, this is best for those who value
mental engagement, practical care, calm and capable
intimacy. This is not ideal for those seeking
high drama, intensity or emotional chaos. So
keep that in mind before you get into relationships.
This is more so in Navamsa rather than birth
because Navamsa is your intimate, internal self.
Match the Navamsha. Physical reality might show
up in the natal. Fine. Agreed. But at least you
know where you are heading. You know the basic
heading direction, isn't it? That's what we are
looking for. Next we shall take up Hasta Vrkshira
Nakshatra to Revati. That is a 10 -4 dynamic.
I'll see you in the next. Take care.