WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.740 hello my wonderful people welcome to my channel 00:00:02.740 --> 00:00:06.540 we are discussing intimacy aspects all of which 00:00:06.540 --> 00:00:11.339 are require a great degree of conscious engagement 00:00:11.339 --> 00:00:14.240 on the parties both the parties involved here 00:00:14.240 --> 00:00:17.620 the man and the woman I covered this to an extent 00:00:17.620 --> 00:00:21.059 in the previous one and for all of you new listeners 00:00:21.059 --> 00:00:24.000 viewers coming to my channel please go through 00:00:24.000 --> 00:00:27.440 all these ones because I'm covering it in as 00:00:27.440 --> 00:00:32.350 I'm getting downloads about each one in different 00:00:32.350 --> 00:00:34.850 ways. So there is no one size fits all here. 00:00:34.909 --> 00:00:40.590 For example, when you talk of Devagana's matching 00:00:40.590 --> 00:00:43.909 the rule, the traditional rule goes, you should 00:00:43.909 --> 00:00:48.070 match Devagana nakshatra's with Devagana, Manusha 00:00:48.070 --> 00:00:52.039 with Manusha and Rakshasa with Rakshasa. Why? 00:00:52.200 --> 00:00:55.340 Because it creates a certain propensity of match 00:00:55.340 --> 00:00:58.219 that is not available in others. And we shall 00:00:58.219 --> 00:01:01.740 see this as we go along step by step. There's 00:01:01.740 --> 00:01:03.600 already a lot of material on the playlist if 00:01:03.600 --> 00:01:07.980 you want to go through it. Now we are exploring 00:01:07.980 --> 00:01:12.219 Mrigsira but in Gemini. Means to say the next 00:01:12.219 --> 00:01:15.989 two Padas of Gemini. All Mars ruling Kshitras, 00:01:16.209 --> 00:01:18.950 Mrikshira, Kshitra and Dhanishta fall half in 00:01:18.950 --> 00:01:21.030 the earth sign, half in the air sign. So we are 00:01:21.030 --> 00:01:23.510 talking about the next two Padaas in Mrikshira 00:01:23.510 --> 00:01:27.450 which is in Gemini. So we shall see that in a 00:01:27.450 --> 00:01:30.689 minute. And in this dynamic you will see more 00:01:30.689 --> 00:01:35.290 of the factors of kindness and factors of freedom 00:01:35.290 --> 00:01:38.670 shown there. Mrikshira desires a lot of freedom 00:01:38.670 --> 00:01:42.450 to be. That's the nakshatra characteristics. 00:01:42.590 --> 00:01:44.989 You can't play with any of that any more than 00:01:44.989 --> 00:01:49.629 you can do with others. So, freedom versus kindness. 00:01:49.750 --> 00:01:52.950 Kindness comes to hasta. Why hasta sits and work? 00:01:53.209 --> 00:01:55.569 Although it's a devakana, it can become highly 00:01:55.569 --> 00:01:59.829 critical of things. Sort of micro -examining 00:01:59.829 --> 00:02:02.730 the pattern. You know, you're doing this and 00:02:02.730 --> 00:02:05.489 you're not doing that and all kinds of things 00:02:05.489 --> 00:02:08.110 go on. Hastanakshatra can become very critical. 00:02:08.939 --> 00:02:11.580 And there is a lesson for Hastanaksha people 00:02:11.580 --> 00:02:17.960 in that. In the sense, you need to embody your 00:02:17.960 --> 00:02:21.099 goal setting or whatever you want to desire in 00:02:21.099 --> 00:02:24.000 other places of your life. Don't bring it to 00:02:24.000 --> 00:02:26.740 the bedroom. Don't bring it to intimacy. Okay? 00:02:27.360 --> 00:02:31.099 Don't try to micro examine the partner like you 00:02:31.099 --> 00:02:34.560 tend to do other things. Take your micro examination 00:02:34.560 --> 00:02:37.319 to your work probably. That's a good quality 00:02:37.319 --> 00:02:41.490 to have. But it is never the case that you can 00:02:41.490 --> 00:02:44.090 take what you take to work as an attitude and 00:02:44.090 --> 00:02:47.889 bring it down between intimacy of partners. Just 00:02:47.889 --> 00:02:52.229 because you have micro examination quality analysis, 00:02:52.990 --> 00:02:55.210 Asthanakshatra makes extremely good engineers 00:02:55.210 --> 00:03:01.169 for example. That attitude may be good at work 00:03:01.169 --> 00:03:04.409 fine, but that attitude necessarily does not 00:03:04.409 --> 00:03:08.150 work or come to play properly. When it comes 00:03:08.150 --> 00:03:11.430 to intimacy, intimacy requires softness. Look 00:03:11.430 --> 00:03:13.789 at all the qualities there. Nurturing, kindness, 00:03:14.090 --> 00:03:18.050 freedom, allowance, empathy, vulnerability. Then 00:03:18.050 --> 00:03:19.930 the Kshatra will think, what are you talking 00:03:19.930 --> 00:03:23.030 about? I want the details of that kindness. I 00:03:23.030 --> 00:03:25.250 want the details of that freedom. What exactly 00:03:25.250 --> 00:03:29.050 do you mean by freedom, Arun? That's simply not 00:03:29.050 --> 00:03:33.710 the way things work. And I'm giving principles 00:03:33.710 --> 00:03:36.610 of moon here in this series, but apply the same 00:03:36.610 --> 00:03:40.969 principle of Devana matching to Mercury and Venus 00:03:40.969 --> 00:03:45.069 as well. Suppose if it's Mercury placed in Ashtha 00:03:45.069 --> 00:03:49.009 or Mercury placed in Vrikshira, your mind and 00:03:49.009 --> 00:03:51.729 mental qualities will have that kind of attribute. 00:03:51.969 --> 00:03:54.550 If it is Venus, your spouse may have, especially 00:03:54.550 --> 00:03:57.110 Venus in Navamsa, your spouse may be having this 00:03:57.110 --> 00:03:59.969 kind of characteristics. Apply the same principles 00:03:59.969 --> 00:04:03.800 because Nakshatra is the same. Depending upon 00:04:03.800 --> 00:04:07.979 which planet Mercury, Venus, Moon is placed here, 00:04:08.219 --> 00:04:10.539 especially in the Navamsa, Navamsa is considered 00:04:10.539 --> 00:04:13.219 dominant in terms of marriage and partnerships 00:04:13.219 --> 00:04:17.079 in Jyotish. Have a look through that, you might 00:04:17.079 --> 00:04:20.600 embody those kind of qualities. Fine, there's 00:04:20.600 --> 00:04:23.220 nothing wrong with any quality being there, provided 00:04:23.220 --> 00:04:27.079 it is known, provided it is understood. These 00:04:27.079 --> 00:04:29.240 things we are not educated in, that's the only 00:04:29.240 --> 00:04:32.199 thing I see. This is why I bring everything in 00:04:32.199 --> 00:04:35.000 this channel with respect to education. Just 00:04:35.000 --> 00:04:38.120 look at the whole thing first. Don't analyze 00:04:38.120 --> 00:04:40.860 it piece by piece. There will be a mistake in 00:04:40.860 --> 00:04:45.279 Jyotish. Now, let us see how kindness and freedom, 00:04:45.600 --> 00:04:49.019 these two dominant aspects play out in Hastanakshatra. 00:04:50.040 --> 00:04:54.220 Let's get into the details. So, now we come to 00:04:54.220 --> 00:04:58.149 Lady having Prakshiranakshatra, Moon. And the 00:04:58.149 --> 00:05:02.310 guy having Hastanakshatra moon in the fourth 00:05:02.310 --> 00:05:04.870 position, not necessarily the first and fourth 00:05:04.870 --> 00:05:07.389 house, it can be, but it can be any other house 00:05:07.389 --> 00:05:11.089 as well. We are talking about the fourth position 00:05:11.089 --> 00:05:16.889 of moon of the man. Distance, that means four 00:05:16.889 --> 00:05:22.170 signs later, three signs later. And then Mrigshira 00:05:22.170 --> 00:05:26.069 moon in ladies. Therefore, this is a 410 dynamic. 00:05:26.240 --> 00:05:30.399 which means to say going counterclockwise this 00:05:30.399 --> 00:05:33.100 is the fourth position and going counterclockwise 00:05:33.100 --> 00:05:36.699 from his moon this will be a tenth position isn't 00:05:36.699 --> 00:05:40.060 it from here if you count counterclockwise it 00:05:40.060 --> 00:05:43.759 will be tenth position so this is a 410 dynamic 00:05:43.759 --> 00:05:48.740 playing out now first of all Mrikshira in Gemini 00:05:48.740 --> 00:05:51.759 will have a lot of exploratory tendencies it's 00:05:51.759 --> 00:05:55.000 an air sign let's just see the zodiac for a minute 00:05:55.000 --> 00:05:59.480 here Therefore, she will have a lot of mental 00:05:59.480 --> 00:06:03.160 activity, lot of exploratory tendencies in the 00:06:03.160 --> 00:06:06.899 mind. She needs freedom to explore, she needs 00:06:06.899 --> 00:06:09.899 freedom to be who she is, she needs to speak 00:06:09.899 --> 00:06:13.680 about a lot of things. It's a mercury sign, so 00:06:13.680 --> 00:06:15.860 there will be a lot of communication involved. 00:06:16.139 --> 00:06:20.060 She needs to communicate to be able to be seen. 00:06:20.509 --> 00:06:23.170 I am talking in intimacy aspects only here. We 00:06:23.170 --> 00:06:25.250 are just talking about intimacy and synestery 00:06:25.250 --> 00:06:32.149 in Vedic Astrology. So, her place in this relationship 00:06:32.149 --> 00:06:37.209 will be more of a communicator. Okay? Hastanakshatra, 00:06:37.350 --> 00:06:40.189 in his case, he is more grounded because it's 00:06:40.189 --> 00:06:43.310 forego. It's the sixth sign. It can become very 00:06:43.310 --> 00:06:45.930 critical. He can become very focused in health 00:06:45.930 --> 00:06:49.610 matters. you know, going to the gym and yoga 00:06:49.610 --> 00:06:54.269 and whatnot. He can become very scared of illnesses. 00:06:55.050 --> 00:07:00.050 Muni and Hastha, they are always very psychologically 00:07:00.050 --> 00:07:02.550 triggered with their health issues because Virgo 00:07:02.550 --> 00:07:05.029 is the sixth sign of health, bad health. Anything 00:07:05.029 --> 00:07:07.730 bad health, he gets really triggered and he needs 00:07:07.730 --> 00:07:11.449 nurturing and caring. Muni and Hastha for this 00:07:11.449 --> 00:07:15.759 guy. Remember these basic rules first, okay? 00:07:15.759 --> 00:07:18.519 So the 410 dynamic, how does that play out? Let's 00:07:18.519 --> 00:07:22.819 explore that. Mrikshira in Gemini versus Hastha 00:07:22.819 --> 00:07:26.620 in Virgo, the 410 axis. So how does this play 00:07:26.620 --> 00:07:30.079 out? The core weaving will be Mrikshira in Gemini 00:07:30.079 --> 00:07:34.120 will have mental curiosity, questioning, movement, 00:07:34.620 --> 00:07:37.300 dialogue -driven bonding. Like I said, it's everything 00:07:37.300 --> 00:07:40.899 to do with talking. Mrikshira in Gemini needs 00:07:40.899 --> 00:07:44.449 to talk to connect. You need a connection, isn't 00:07:44.449 --> 00:07:49.029 it? Adaptability, ideas exploration. She will 00:07:49.029 --> 00:07:52.750 love to explore ideas. If she is a Merkshi Ramon. 00:07:53.310 --> 00:07:55.949 And very sort of nervous energy. Why? Because 00:07:55.949 --> 00:07:58.250 it's mercury driven. Mercury has everything to 00:07:58.250 --> 00:08:01.250 do with skin and nerves. So she will require 00:08:01.250 --> 00:08:04.449 a lot of touch. And she will require a lot of 00:08:04.449 --> 00:08:07.970 communication to be seen in the relationship. 00:08:10.149 --> 00:08:13.129 Hastavargo on the other side. is more grounded. 00:08:13.470 --> 00:08:16.410 It's an earth sign, Invergo. Asthanakshatra falls 00:08:16.410 --> 00:08:20.069 within Invergo. So, he will be all about skill, 00:08:20.329 --> 00:08:22.610 about precision, about detailed orientation. 00:08:23.290 --> 00:08:26.889 Be cautious about criticism, like I said. Service, 00:08:27.290 --> 00:08:30.209 reliability, practical care. Asthanakshatra is 00:08:30.209 --> 00:08:32.769 very, very practical in nature. Therefore, even 00:08:32.769 --> 00:08:35.889 they make good engineers. Emotional containment 00:08:35.889 --> 00:08:40.730 through action. Competence -based intimacy. So, 00:08:40.730 --> 00:08:45.179 he will be as a natural propensity inclined towards 00:08:45.179 --> 00:08:48.820 detail orientation. So how he can fulfill her? 00:08:49.860 --> 00:08:52.659 In the sense, they have to have a mental connection 00:08:52.659 --> 00:08:55.559 here. One is mentally detailed, one is mentally 00:08:55.559 --> 00:08:58.440 curious. There is a very good dynamic that could 00:08:58.440 --> 00:09:02.179 play out. It requires conscious effort like they 00:09:02.179 --> 00:09:04.779 say in English. Takes two to tango, isn't it? 00:09:04.919 --> 00:09:09.470 It's very true in case of even nakshatras. Traditional 00:09:09.470 --> 00:09:12.029 Jyotish would have you match 36 points and say 00:09:12.029 --> 00:09:14.669 these two are compatible. In this day and age, 00:09:14.950 --> 00:09:19.690 in 2025, such kind of blind rules do not apply. 00:09:19.789 --> 00:09:22.870 In my experience with couple counselling, it 00:09:22.870 --> 00:09:26.210 does not apply. It takes two to tango applies. 00:09:26.490 --> 00:09:28.710 In the sense, both parties should be willing, 00:09:29.210 --> 00:09:32.549 acknowledge it and work through the system. Doesn't 00:09:32.549 --> 00:09:35.769 matter how many shadows you discover also. It's 00:09:35.769 --> 00:09:39.080 acceptance. Each one of us has shadows. but it's 00:09:39.080 --> 00:09:42.240 acceptance or allowance of that. Just allow the 00:09:42.240 --> 00:09:45.179 person to be who they are. That's it in its simplicity. 00:09:47.600 --> 00:09:50.559 So the four ten axis signature would be inner 00:09:50.559 --> 00:09:54.139 world versus outer function, mind versus method. 00:09:54.259 --> 00:09:57.279 Mind is Mrakshira, method is Hastanakshatra. 00:09:58.539 --> 00:10:02.279 Ideas Mrakshira versus execution Hastanakshatra. 00:10:02.360 --> 00:10:05.080 They can make excellent pair in these respects. 00:10:05.840 --> 00:10:09.889 This is the dynamic of the axis, the new talk 00:10:09.889 --> 00:10:14.269 of Marikshira and Gemini and Hasta Envergo, Moon's 00:10:14.269 --> 00:10:18.289 compatibility. Emotional safety versus responsibility. 00:10:18.690 --> 00:10:22.750 Sarang Shetra feels very responsible. Home base 00:10:22.750 --> 00:10:25.789 versus life direction. So she provides answers, 00:10:26.389 --> 00:10:28.950 curiosity questions, and he analyzes it with 00:10:28.950 --> 00:10:33.440 his mind. So the dynamic is two minds working 00:10:33.440 --> 00:10:35.779 together as one finally we want to get to that 00:10:35.779 --> 00:10:38.379 finally we want to get to how these two can play 00:10:38.379 --> 00:10:43.440 in a good way the game is the same intimacy the 00:10:43.440 --> 00:10:47.100 game is to have a partner who's reliable who 00:10:47.100 --> 00:10:49.559 can communicate with you and you're working with 00:10:49.559 --> 00:10:54.759 them rather than against them This is a functional 00:10:54.759 --> 00:10:58.279 intimacy access. Closeness grows through doing 00:10:58.279 --> 00:11:00.899 life well together. Like I said, it's a partnership 00:11:00.899 --> 00:11:06.740 of cooperation when enhanced. Mrikshira stimulates, 00:11:06.960 --> 00:11:10.379 asks and explores. Hastha organizes, fixes and 00:11:10.379 --> 00:11:12.539 stabilizes. One is an air sign, one is another 00:11:12.539 --> 00:11:16.120 sign. It's that simple dynamic here. Keywords 00:11:16.120 --> 00:11:19.200 being mental stimulation, emotional grounding, 00:11:19.779 --> 00:11:22.929 problem -solving bond. They are excellent problem 00:11:22.929 --> 00:11:26.710 -solving couple, this one. Calm nervous system 00:11:26.710 --> 00:11:31.610 and mutual usefulness. Rikshira will always think 00:11:31.610 --> 00:11:34.409 in terms of how can I be more close to him? What 00:11:34.409 --> 00:11:38.350 can I explore that he needs if she is not having 00:11:38.350 --> 00:11:41.669 shadows of Rao Ketu on that? Remember, if Rao 00:11:41.669 --> 00:11:44.870 Ketu aspects this moon or Venus or Mankhari, 00:11:46.049 --> 00:11:48.490 there is a little shadow there and that needs 00:11:48.490 --> 00:11:51.590 to be worked through. It's not that it's unsolvable. 00:11:51.610 --> 00:11:54.610 Nothing is unsolvable in 2025. You have to work 00:11:54.610 --> 00:11:58.429 through it. Remember this. Hasta becomes the 00:11:58.429 --> 00:12:02.710 emotional anchor, grounded sign. Briksha becomes 00:12:02.710 --> 00:12:06.889 the mental spark of curiosity. Attraction and 00:12:06.889 --> 00:12:10.210 intimacy tone here will assume these signatures. 00:12:10.470 --> 00:12:14.389 Low drama, high trust, gradual attachment, practical 00:12:14.389 --> 00:12:18.309 affection. Consistency over intensity. This is 00:12:18.309 --> 00:12:20.570 not the kind of relationship where you have high 00:12:20.570 --> 00:12:23.990 passions running around. It's all about engagement 00:12:23.990 --> 00:12:27.750 in a useful way. Sexuality improves with routine 00:12:27.750 --> 00:12:29.970 refinement and communication. Communication is 00:12:29.970 --> 00:12:32.450 very important for Rikshira in general, for her. 00:12:33.350 --> 00:12:36.190 She doesn't feel otherwise that spark, that chemistry, 00:12:36.610 --> 00:12:40.350 that sexual chemistry. Approach has to be through 00:12:40.350 --> 00:12:44.779 the mind. The risky keywords here being over 00:12:44.779 --> 00:12:48.220 analysis, Hastana Kshetra, too much over analysis, 00:12:48.580 --> 00:12:51.899 micro examination, fault -picking, nitpicking, 00:12:52.080 --> 00:12:54.820 OCD kind of fashion, that could be a risk on 00:12:54.820 --> 00:12:58.179 Hastana Kshetra or even on Riksha Rasa, too much 00:12:58.179 --> 00:13:01.840 exploration, not enough grounding, emotional 00:13:01.840 --> 00:13:07.720 dryness, see Mercury and Saturn signs, Gemini 00:13:07.720 --> 00:13:13.399 Virgo, both are Dry science, okay, so are Saturn, 00:13:13.519 --> 00:13:16.220 Aquarius and Capricorn. So you have to be careful 00:13:16.220 --> 00:13:18.879 how you deal with the dryness part of it. You've 00:13:18.879 --> 00:13:22.740 got to bring consciously an emotional quotient 00:13:22.740 --> 00:13:26.299 to this. Criticism versus restlessness, that 00:13:26.299 --> 00:13:30.419 could again be risky. Talking versus doing imbalance. 00:13:30.860 --> 00:13:34.379 Too much talking, not enough follow -up. Mind 00:13:34.379 --> 00:13:37.899 dismisses effort or effort policies curiosity. 00:13:39.799 --> 00:13:42.200 Effort policies curiosity meaning from his side 00:13:42.200 --> 00:13:46.039 to her side is Policing too much. He's examining 00:13:46.039 --> 00:13:48.960 too much details of her curiosity and being critical 00:13:48.960 --> 00:13:51.759 about it Astana Kshetra people have to be very 00:13:51.759 --> 00:13:54.419 careful of being over critical Because nobody 00:13:54.419 --> 00:13:57.259 loves your criticism. Okay, take it to your workplace. 00:13:57.840 --> 00:14:01.460 Don't bring it home This is a stability through 00:14:01.460 --> 00:14:04.460 function for ten pairing excellent for long -term 00:14:04.460 --> 00:14:06.919 partnership shared work and emotional reliability 00:14:06.919 --> 00:14:09.220 These two can build a business together very 00:14:09.220 --> 00:14:13.000 well By the way, this is best for those who value 00:14:13.000 --> 00:14:16.659 mental engagement, practical care, calm and capable 00:14:16.659 --> 00:14:20.419 intimacy. This is not ideal for those seeking 00:14:20.419 --> 00:14:24.220 high drama, intensity or emotional chaos. So 00:14:24.220 --> 00:14:27.840 keep that in mind before you get into relationships. 00:14:28.200 --> 00:14:32.200 This is more so in Navamsa rather than birth 00:14:32.200 --> 00:14:35.120 because Navamsa is your intimate, internal self. 00:14:35.720 --> 00:14:38.320 Match the Navamsha. Physical reality might show 00:14:38.320 --> 00:14:42.620 up in the natal. Fine. Agreed. But at least you 00:14:42.620 --> 00:14:45.600 know where you are heading. You know the basic 00:14:45.600 --> 00:14:47.799 heading direction, isn't it? That's what we are 00:14:47.799 --> 00:14:52.379 looking for. Next we shall take up Hasta Vrkshira 00:14:52.379 --> 00:14:56.440 Nakshatra to Revati. That is a 10 -4 dynamic. 00:14:56.799 --> 00:14:58.340 I'll see you in the next. Take care.