WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.259 Good evening, wonderful people. Welcome to my 00:00:03.259 --> 00:00:06.179 channel. Before I get into the next slide, I 00:00:06.179 --> 00:00:09.720 wanted to discuss some sort of a very fundamental 00:00:09.720 --> 00:00:14.099 principle of intimacy, which people don't think 00:00:14.099 --> 00:00:16.239 of when they are getting into relationships. 00:00:16.239 --> 00:00:18.660 They should, especially in the beginning when 00:00:18.660 --> 00:00:21.300 things are fresh. Whether you're dating, whether 00:00:21.300 --> 00:00:22.739 you're getting married, whether you're already 00:00:22.739 --> 00:00:25.280 married, it doesn't matter where in the relationship 00:00:25.280 --> 00:00:28.199 dynamic each one of you are, but you need to 00:00:28.199 --> 00:00:31.210 get into it. And these are some of the fundamental 00:00:31.210 --> 00:00:34.030 principles of intimacy which unfortunately we 00:00:34.030 --> 00:00:38.630 are not taught this way. My best feeling on this 00:00:38.630 --> 00:00:41.890 right now is if we are all taught like this in 00:00:41.890 --> 00:00:44.750 schools, in universities, part of the mainstream 00:00:44.750 --> 00:00:48.450 education system, we will get much farther than 00:00:48.450 --> 00:00:51.829 we understand about such things right now. Okay, 00:00:51.829 --> 00:00:55.250 so what am I talking about? It doesn't matter 00:00:55.250 --> 00:00:58.329 how many volumes I sit and write about intimacy. 00:00:58.750 --> 00:01:02.429 or how many Masters and Johnson kind of manuals 00:01:02.429 --> 00:01:04.810 or how many Kama Sutras or how many types of 00:01:04.810 --> 00:01:08.150 Jyotish combinations I give you. If these two 00:01:08.150 --> 00:01:10.709 people on the screen are not willing to work 00:01:10.709 --> 00:01:12.549 with one another, nothing is going to happen. 00:01:13.230 --> 00:01:17.349 Magic in a relationship is brought on by two 00:01:17.349 --> 00:01:21.969 people volunteering to expose themselves much 00:01:21.969 --> 00:01:24.750 more than the physical. These days especially 00:01:24.750 --> 00:01:26.769 it's very easy to open up your clothes in front 00:01:26.769 --> 00:01:29.959 of a stranger, isn't it? with all the pawn that 00:01:29.959 --> 00:01:34.120 is going around. So what do we need to understand 00:01:34.120 --> 00:01:38.219 beyond the concept of physicality, Mars? I explained 00:01:38.219 --> 00:01:41.879 it in the first one. I am taking it step by step 00:01:41.879 --> 00:01:44.480 so that the principles are grounded and well 00:01:44.480 --> 00:01:46.159 understood. It doesn't matter what astrology. 00:01:46.439 --> 00:01:48.599 It's not going to work. No astrological combination 00:01:48.599 --> 00:01:51.579 is going to work if there is no willingness on 00:01:51.579 --> 00:01:55.219 the part to understand some things. So these 00:01:55.219 --> 00:01:58.750 two, this man and that woman over there, Both 00:01:58.750 --> 00:02:01.609 are essentially water. Consciousness. We are 00:02:01.609 --> 00:02:03.969 each one consciousness. Mainstream science will 00:02:03.969 --> 00:02:06.269 not accept it. Even psychology will not accept 00:02:06.269 --> 00:02:09.250 it. Imagine that. It's like you're just thinking 00:02:09.250 --> 00:02:11.990 Darwinian evolution in this day and age. Okay? 00:02:12.189 --> 00:02:15.729 Never mind that. So consciousness, I'm putting 00:02:15.729 --> 00:02:18.810 it in a neutral term so that it can be understood, 00:02:19.030 --> 00:02:22.150 accepted and worked with by all race, culture, 00:02:22.270 --> 00:02:24.750 religions. Because religions have their own dogma 00:02:24.750 --> 00:02:26.969 and doctrine so much around each one to themselves, 00:02:27.129 --> 00:02:30.610 right? I'm going to skip over that part and make 00:02:30.610 --> 00:02:34.110 it so that it is neutral to dogma. Let us not 00:02:34.110 --> 00:02:37.349 get into dogmatic stuff, please. So let's call 00:02:37.349 --> 00:02:40.169 each one has a consciousness. The man has a consciousness. 00:02:40.530 --> 00:02:44.169 The woman has a consciousness. Fair enough. In 00:02:44.169 --> 00:02:47.150 a relationship, I'll try to go as slow as possible. 00:02:47.509 --> 00:02:52.090 In a relationship, what does each of these individuals 00:02:52.090 --> 00:02:55.930 who are involved in a relationship truly desire? 00:02:57.460 --> 00:02:59.840 I'll put these six points to begin with. You 00:02:59.840 --> 00:03:03.939 can add more in the comments if you want. It 00:03:03.939 --> 00:03:06.300 requires nurturing. First of all, consciousness 00:03:06.300 --> 00:03:11.639 requires expansion, period. Any kind of contraction, 00:03:12.000 --> 00:03:15.139 judgment, blame, shame will fail a relationship 00:03:15.139 --> 00:03:20.080 faster than you can say tummy tuck. It will fail 00:03:20.080 --> 00:03:22.479 really fast. And especially in the beginning 00:03:22.479 --> 00:03:25.259 stages, a lot of blame game goes on, a lot of... 00:03:25.199 --> 00:03:27.860 Throwing one another's wounds on one another 00:03:27.860 --> 00:03:30.419 goes on. This is why it is important to first 00:03:30.419 --> 00:03:32.860 understand your own shadow before you get into 00:03:32.860 --> 00:03:36.979 another person's shadowy aspects. Okay, I'm jumping 00:03:36.979 --> 00:03:39.539 ahead of myself. I'll come to shadows later on. 00:03:40.060 --> 00:03:42.300 First, let us see what we are really desiring 00:03:42.300 --> 00:03:46.199 in terms of intimacy. Okay, first of all, in 00:03:46.199 --> 00:03:50.219 any consciousness, man or a woman, or even LGBT, 00:03:50.740 --> 00:03:54.020 whichever the dynamic is, it desires expansion. 00:03:54.579 --> 00:03:57.159 Contraction, when you feel contracted, that's 00:03:57.159 --> 00:03:59.939 not what consciousness desire. It wants to expand. 00:04:00.120 --> 00:04:03.300 It wants to learn, grow more than what it is. 00:04:03.719 --> 00:04:06.259 This is the whole idea of an intimacy. You get 00:04:06.259 --> 00:04:09.900 into a relationship to expand. Think of the initial 00:04:09.900 --> 00:04:12.419 feeling of love in the air. The whole world seems 00:04:12.419 --> 00:04:14.919 nice. You have just expanded your consciousness 00:04:14.919 --> 00:04:18.339 beyond what you were as an individual. That's 00:04:18.339 --> 00:04:21.259 what that feeling is. And that feeling needs 00:04:21.259 --> 00:04:24.199 to sort of continue. Isn't it? The best possible 00:04:24.199 --> 00:04:26.540 outcome is it needs to continue for both individuals 00:04:26.540 --> 00:04:31.180 involved. So consciousness, all the arrows indicated 00:04:31.180 --> 00:04:34.959 on the screen are talking about expansion. So 00:04:34.959 --> 00:04:37.399 first, number one, this is just six points. You 00:04:37.399 --> 00:04:39.740 can add it like that. Think of expanded concept, 00:04:39.819 --> 00:04:43.259 whatever makes your heart expand. Your being 00:04:43.259 --> 00:04:46.439 expand, mind, body, emotions. The consciousness 00:04:46.439 --> 00:04:48.959 in each of these individuals on the screen are 00:04:48.959 --> 00:04:51.480 desiring, nurturing. Number one, you need to 00:04:51.480 --> 00:04:54.550 nurture. the other individual one needs to it 00:04:54.550 --> 00:04:57.990 has to be both parties okay because this is the 00:04:57.990 --> 00:05:00.949 primordial feeling we remember from our own mothers 00:05:00.949 --> 00:05:04.029 we were nurtured unconditional nurturing think 00:05:04.029 --> 00:05:06.490 of motherly care think of cancer if you want 00:05:06.490 --> 00:05:09.250 to put zodiac think of moon if you want to put 00:05:09.250 --> 00:05:12.430 a planet that's right tackle moon first that's 00:05:12.430 --> 00:05:17.350 number one number two kindness something we have 00:05:17.350 --> 00:05:20.810 forgotten how to tell things kindly It's all 00:05:20.810 --> 00:05:22.990 about rudeness. Just look at social media, how 00:05:22.990 --> 00:05:26.910 much it promotes rudeness. Even the platforms 00:05:26.910 --> 00:05:30.750 themselves like X or Instagram, they promote 00:05:30.750 --> 00:05:33.430 so much of rudeness. The platform is doing a 00:05:33.430 --> 00:05:35.850 great disservice, mind you. There are other people, 00:05:35.970 --> 00:05:37.790 good people in the world, but it doesn't promote 00:05:37.790 --> 00:05:40.449 that. People want all negative news. This is 00:05:40.449 --> 00:05:43.449 the platform problem, not the human problem. 00:05:44.149 --> 00:05:46.790 But anyhow, we need kindness. We need to show 00:05:46.790 --> 00:05:50.720 more kindness. You might be having another opinion. 00:05:50.759 --> 00:05:53.079 Suppose these two couple are talking about something. 00:05:53.519 --> 00:05:56.040 It's fine to have a whole other opinion without 00:05:56.040 --> 00:06:00.199 making the other person inimical. Kindness. Always 00:06:00.199 --> 00:06:03.459 put kindness in the priority before you open 00:06:03.459 --> 00:06:06.959 your mouth to anything. Otherwise you will destroy. 00:06:07.060 --> 00:06:09.199 Otherwise there is contraction. Kindness expands. 00:06:09.579 --> 00:06:12.139 You feel like being vulnerable. That's the next 00:06:12.139 --> 00:06:15.220 point. Vulnerability. That requires a little 00:06:15.220 --> 00:06:19.280 lowering of barriers in it. That requires being 00:06:19.280 --> 00:06:22.839 open, open in body mind, your emotion. People 00:06:22.839 --> 00:06:24.800 are very ready to strip off their clothes, but 00:06:24.800 --> 00:06:27.399 what about your emotion? People are closed off. 00:06:27.980 --> 00:06:29.800 Even the husband and wife I have seen in so many 00:06:29.800 --> 00:06:31.899 restaurants when I go to. They sit across one 00:06:31.899 --> 00:06:35.379 another, both are older people, and they quietly 00:06:35.379 --> 00:06:37.199 having their meal, looking here and there, one 00:06:37.199 --> 00:06:39.139 does not even look at the other person's eyes. 00:06:39.319 --> 00:06:42.180 What happened to all their intimacy? It's destroyed, 00:06:42.279 --> 00:06:45.980 isn't it? There is no vulnerability there. Vulnerability, 00:06:46.060 --> 00:06:49.550 being open. and for this to happen first of all 00:06:49.550 --> 00:06:52.930 you need to be vulnerable with yourself intimacy 00:06:52.930 --> 00:06:55.370 with yourself meaning you need to know your own 00:06:55.370 --> 00:06:58.529 shadows then you can be really humble you cannot 00:06:58.529 --> 00:07:01.129 be putting your shadows and your barriers up 00:07:01.129 --> 00:07:03.050 and expect the other person to be vulnerable 00:07:03.050 --> 00:07:05.870 that's not simply the way things work okay that 00:07:05.870 --> 00:07:11.269 is silly at best okay third one empathy all empaths 00:07:11.269 --> 00:07:14.569 understand this okay Some people are not having 00:07:14.569 --> 00:07:17.129 very high quotient of empathy. You have to cultivate 00:07:17.129 --> 00:07:20.089 it. What does it feel like to be the other person 00:07:20.089 --> 00:07:22.610 with their chart, with their Rahu, Ketu, with 00:07:22.610 --> 00:07:27.490 all their shadows? You don't know. It's an experience. 00:07:27.629 --> 00:07:29.949 Life is an experience. You can't make everything 00:07:29.949 --> 00:07:32.870 into a big theory and expect the other person 00:07:32.870 --> 00:07:37.480 to fulfill all your needs. Intimacy is not about 00:07:37.480 --> 00:07:41.180 fulfilling needs. Intimacy is about being as 00:07:41.180 --> 00:07:44.500 deeply engaged as you possibly humanly can at 00:07:44.500 --> 00:07:50.120 all levels. Just a mouthful. Next one, allowance. 00:07:50.410 --> 00:07:53.069 You need to have allowance, not necessarily acceptance. 00:07:53.310 --> 00:07:55.810 Acceptance means you say, I accept this person 00:07:55.810 --> 00:07:58.230 along with whatever it is. No, you don't. You 00:07:58.230 --> 00:08:00.129 have your own personality. You have your own 00:08:00.129 --> 00:08:03.050 points of view. You have your own way of associating 00:08:03.050 --> 00:08:05.990 and engaging with the world in all the five sensory 00:08:05.990 --> 00:08:09.189 aspects in the intellect. You have your own stuff. 00:08:09.990 --> 00:08:12.769 The other one has their own stuff. Fine. But 00:08:12.769 --> 00:08:15.029 you allow them to be who they are. Allowance 00:08:15.029 --> 00:08:17.250 is different from acceptance. Really requires 00:08:17.250 --> 00:08:22.069 some thought here. Then freedom. Last, I'm putting 00:08:22.069 --> 00:08:24.529 in this particular one before I get into Mrikshira 00:08:24.529 --> 00:08:27.889 with Anuradhana Kshetra. Before we start doing 00:08:27.889 --> 00:08:30.129 all these combinations, it's important to understand 00:08:30.129 --> 00:08:32.389 principles and I shall bring more and more of 00:08:32.389 --> 00:08:34.809 these along as I get them. I'm just sitting in 00:08:34.809 --> 00:08:36.649 the balcony just now. I got this as a download. 00:08:36.850 --> 00:08:40.769 Freedom is one more thing we need. A lot of freedom 00:08:40.769 --> 00:08:44.960 needs to be given within relationships. I don't 00:08:44.960 --> 00:08:47.419 care which chart you match which which one and 00:08:47.419 --> 00:08:50.299 this is a big racket going on in India the 36 00:08:50.299 --> 00:08:52.559 point system and you expect them to work I've 00:08:52.559 --> 00:08:55.440 seen so many diverses like that. I have consulted 00:08:55.440 --> 00:08:58.080 relationships where everything on the chart they 00:08:58.080 --> 00:09:01.200 said it's fine Like who matched a chart you guys 00:09:01.200 --> 00:09:06.679 are not even a match Anyway Freedom is needed 00:09:06.679 --> 00:09:10.519 freedom to be freedom to be oneself a lot of 00:09:10.519 --> 00:09:15.129 that is going on we can see good good and not 00:09:15.129 --> 00:09:18.529 so good post on social media, on LinkedIn, on 00:09:18.529 --> 00:09:22.190 YouTube, everywhere else, isn't it? People want 00:09:22.190 --> 00:09:25.950 to or are demanding that they want more and more 00:09:25.950 --> 00:09:29.570 presence felt in themselves. They want more presence 00:09:29.570 --> 00:09:33.370 in their life. Okay. So this is what they are 00:09:33.370 --> 00:09:36.710 asking. This is the demon time. That's what they 00:09:36.710 --> 00:09:39.230 are asking. That's what they are after. Something 00:09:39.230 --> 00:09:43.570 cracked here. Anyway, Freedom is needed to be 00:09:43.570 --> 00:09:45.850 within the relationship, whoever you are, however 00:09:45.850 --> 00:09:48.429 you are. That's one more thing to be taken care 00:09:48.429 --> 00:09:51.450 of. Now let's get into the details. Alright ladies 00:09:51.450 --> 00:09:53.850 and gentlemen, now let's get into the matching 00:09:53.850 --> 00:09:56.549 principles. We are still in Rikshira nakshatra, 00:09:56.710 --> 00:10:00.570 the second of the Dev Gana. So there is the lady's 00:10:00.570 --> 00:10:03.590 moon in Rikshira, not necessarily the first house. 00:10:03.769 --> 00:10:05.629 Take care of the house, it can be in any house. 00:10:06.770 --> 00:10:10.149 Rikshira and right opposite to that, the man's 00:10:10.149 --> 00:10:13.169 moon is in Anuradha nakshatra in Scorpio. So 00:10:13.169 --> 00:10:16.649 there is the 1 -7 dynamic, not matching 1 to 00:10:16.649 --> 00:10:20.450 4 because there is no Dev Gana here. As a fundamental 00:10:20.450 --> 00:10:23.789 principle I follow, Gana should be first matched. 00:10:24.029 --> 00:10:26.269 Do not match mismatched Ganas, you'll have a 00:10:26.269 --> 00:10:29.309 disaster scenario. Then you'll head for a divorce 00:10:29.309 --> 00:10:33.269 lawyer, 100%. Don't do that. Or you'll have an 00:10:33.269 --> 00:10:36.899 unhappy marriage. What's the point? So, Murikshira 00:10:36.899 --> 00:10:41.779 moan of the lady and Anuradha moan of the man. 00:10:42.139 --> 00:10:44.519 What does this dynamic lead us? What kind of 00:10:44.519 --> 00:10:47.039 dynamic? Because dynamic changes. Okay, this 00:10:47.039 --> 00:10:52.080 is one -seven axis. So the core values here are 00:10:52.080 --> 00:10:56.100 Murikshira will bring in search, curiosity, sensory 00:10:56.100 --> 00:11:00.320 bonding, bonding, mental movement, adaptability, 00:11:00.639 --> 00:11:03.580 comfort -seeking, conversational intimacy. So 00:11:03.580 --> 00:11:08.070 in Rikshira, there is always the sense of hunting, 00:11:09.129 --> 00:11:11.850 something, hunting knowledge, exploratory nakshatra. 00:11:12.309 --> 00:11:15.470 Anuradha, Andhadra and Scorpio becomes loyalty. 00:11:15.690 --> 00:11:18.009 It's about devotion. It's about emotional depth. 00:11:18.190 --> 00:11:21.070 It's about commitment. It's about trust and testing. 00:11:21.929 --> 00:11:24.389 It's about endurance. It's about transformative 00:11:24.389 --> 00:11:27.049 bonding. See, it's put aspects of Scorpio in 00:11:27.049 --> 00:11:30.230 it. Now, how will this play out in the 1 and 00:11:30.230 --> 00:11:32.769 7 signature, self versus other? So, it's like 00:11:32.769 --> 00:11:35.399 a mirror reflection now. This is powerful. One 00:11:35.399 --> 00:11:38.720 -sevenths are always powerful pairs, but there's 00:11:38.720 --> 00:11:41.279 got to be a great care in handling. I just gave 00:11:41.279 --> 00:11:45.179 you some tips in the previous slide. Great care 00:11:45.179 --> 00:11:48.360 of kindness is required. Patience is required. 00:11:50.039 --> 00:11:52.960 This signature also provides an explorer and 00:11:52.960 --> 00:11:56.179 anchor phenomena. Anchor being Anuradha, explorer 00:11:56.179 --> 00:11:59.559 being Mrikshira in this case. Questioning versus 00:11:59.559 --> 00:12:02.639 commitment. Again, Mrikshira versus Anuradha. 00:12:02.970 --> 00:12:07.370 Light curiosity, rikshira, head of a deer. Deer 00:12:07.370 --> 00:12:10.429 is very light on the feet versus deep loyalty, 00:12:10.830 --> 00:12:13.210 which is anuradha, ruled by Saturn, just like 00:12:13.210 --> 00:12:16.210 spusha nakshatra. So it will be having that patient 00:12:16.210 --> 00:12:20.929 loyalty behind it. Mental attraction versus emotional 00:12:20.929 --> 00:12:24.370 fusion. If you remember the life lesson of anuradha 00:12:24.370 --> 00:12:29.210 nakshatra, it's that energetic orgasm that anuradha 00:12:29.210 --> 00:12:32.700 seeks is in the highest graduation of love. I'm 00:12:32.700 --> 00:12:34.379 kind of paraphrasing it, but you can look up 00:12:34.379 --> 00:12:37.600 my playlist of nakshatra, it's there. Life lesson 00:12:37.600 --> 00:12:40.460 of each nakshatra, very interesting that one. 00:12:41.879 --> 00:12:45.139 This is a classic opposites magnetism. Attraction 00:12:45.139 --> 00:12:48.200 is immediate, personal and defining. It will 00:12:48.200 --> 00:12:50.460 be that across the room you look at one another 00:12:50.460 --> 00:12:52.720 and you're instantly attracted, that kind of 00:12:52.720 --> 00:12:56.000 attraction. The key words here being there is 00:12:56.000 --> 00:12:58.779 a strong polarity, one is very exploratory, one 00:12:58.779 --> 00:13:03.279 is very reserved. Magnetic pull. the really opposites 00:13:03.279 --> 00:13:06.279 attract phenomena is in one seven axis. The sexual 00:13:06.279 --> 00:13:08.740 depth is there. Anuradhara is always seeking 00:13:08.740 --> 00:13:12.620 sexual depth. Emotional gravity is there because 00:13:12.620 --> 00:13:17.220 it's a patient sign. One to one fixation is there. 00:13:17.519 --> 00:13:19.860 Anuradhara will be fascinated with Mrigshira. 00:13:20.580 --> 00:13:22.899 They are complete opposites and so is Mrigshira 00:13:22.899 --> 00:13:25.000 fascinated with Anuradhara. They are complete 00:13:25.000 --> 00:13:28.539 opposites in nature. You matter more than the 00:13:28.539 --> 00:13:31.039 word kind of fixation is there in this dynamic. 00:13:31.360 --> 00:13:35.200 Brikshira is drawn to Anuradha's emotional gravity. 00:13:35.639 --> 00:13:38.639 Anuradha is intrigued, then invested in Brikshira's 00:13:38.639 --> 00:13:42.559 mental freshness and openness. Psychological 00:13:42.559 --> 00:13:45.299 dynamic here may become, Brikshira explores to 00:13:45.299 --> 00:13:48.480 understand, Anuradha bonds to transform. See, 00:13:48.539 --> 00:13:51.500 very different place, isn't it? In each nakshatra, 00:13:51.539 --> 00:13:53.799 there will be this unique signature. I will bring 00:13:53.799 --> 00:13:56.500 it one by one. We are not hurried through this 00:13:56.500 --> 00:13:58.159 whole process. I don't want to hurry the process. 00:13:58.860 --> 00:14:02.039 The push -pull pattern is there. Freedom testing 00:14:02.039 --> 00:14:05.700 versus loyalty demands. Lightness versus seriousness. 00:14:05.980 --> 00:14:09.019 Questions versus vows. See all this is Mirkshira 00:14:09.019 --> 00:14:12.740 to Anuradha pattern matching. The risky words 00:14:12.740 --> 00:14:15.539 here being, Anuradha can get very possessive. 00:14:16.000 --> 00:14:17.700 Mirkshira wants to explore, Anuradha wants to 00:14:17.700 --> 00:14:19.940 say, I want to keep you for myself. Freedom. 00:14:21.580 --> 00:14:25.279 Emotional control versus curiosity. So control 00:14:25.279 --> 00:14:27.639 versus curiosity dynamic might also be risky. 00:14:28.620 --> 00:14:31.159 Trust testing, this is not a very good idea. 00:14:31.360 --> 00:14:33.320 To test trust and partnerships, it should be 00:14:33.320 --> 00:14:36.700 a given. Withdrawal versus intensity, another 00:14:36.700 --> 00:14:39.820 one to be careful of. Silence as power, giving 00:14:39.820 --> 00:14:42.639 the silent treatment. Saturn Nakshatvas are very 00:14:42.639 --> 00:14:44.779 good at that. Anuradha, Uttara, Bhadrapada and 00:14:44.779 --> 00:14:48.100 Pushya are very silent treatment. If immature, 00:14:48.320 --> 00:14:51.419 this becomes obsession versus escape. If mature, 00:14:51.639 --> 00:14:55.360 it becomes devotion without suffocation. This 00:14:55.360 --> 00:14:58.659 is a high intensity, marriage grade 1 -7 pairing, 00:14:58.960 --> 00:15:01.000 powerful, consuming and deeply transformative, 00:15:01.179 --> 00:15:05.340 especially with Scorpio. It succeeds only if 00:15:05.340 --> 00:15:08.259 curiosity learns commitment and the other way 00:15:08.259 --> 00:15:11.340 around. Commitment portion learns curiosity as 00:15:11.340 --> 00:15:13.860 well. Both sides have to be there, they are mirror 00:15:13.860 --> 00:15:18.500 reflections. Loyalty allows movement. Trust replaces 00:15:18.500 --> 00:15:23.179 control. Depth becomes dominance. It fails when 00:15:23.179 --> 00:15:25.899 depth becomes dominance. It fails when exploration 00:15:25.899 --> 00:15:29.720 feels like betrayal. So always, you know, clingy 00:15:29.720 --> 00:15:31.879 people. You can't become clingy in a relationship. 00:15:32.000 --> 00:15:33.600 It's not going to work. Each one needs their 00:15:33.600 --> 00:15:36.279 space. Each one needs their freedom. In a sense, 00:15:36.399 --> 00:15:40.399 a bond that can mean the one or this is way too 00:15:40.399 --> 00:15:45.179 much kind of energy. That's this one. I shall 00:15:45.179 --> 00:15:47.320 see you in the next. I've already spoken a lot. 00:15:47.980 --> 00:15:49.720 Meanwhile, take care. Be safe. I'll see you. 00:15:49.720 --> 00:15:50.059 Bye bye.