WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.259 Good morning ladies and gentlemen. Welcome to 00:00:02.259 --> 00:00:05.639 my channel. So we are studying the dynamics of 00:00:05.639 --> 00:00:09.720 intimacy. We'll come to the second Devagana nakshatra 00:00:09.720 --> 00:00:12.339 which is the Mrikshira nakshatra. So Taurus has 00:00:12.339 --> 00:00:15.519 now come to the first house. This is the first 00:00:15.519 --> 00:00:19.920 two Padas of Mrikshira. The next two in Gemini, 00:00:19.940 --> 00:00:25.570 we shall cover that later. So in Taurus, Lady's 00:00:25.570 --> 00:00:28.589 moon is in Marikshira nakshatra within Taurus 00:00:28.589 --> 00:00:33.369 and the man's moon is in Pushya nakshatra in 00:00:33.369 --> 00:00:36.929 Cancer, the third place. I've already laid down 00:00:36.929 --> 00:00:39.070 all the rules so we should not bother going back 00:00:39.070 --> 00:00:43.329 to it over and again. But before that, just some 00:00:43.329 --> 00:00:47.310 personal notes and personal experiences in relationships 00:00:47.310 --> 00:00:53.409 and with intimacy. Intimacy is not a given. Intimacy 00:00:53.409 --> 00:00:57.280 has to be desired has to be rooted in practical 00:00:57.280 --> 00:00:59.979 knowledge. This is why we should be teaching 00:00:59.979 --> 00:01:02.460 Jyotish to young teenagers rather than running 00:01:02.460 --> 00:01:06.180 around with bodies or body count like they say. 00:01:06.480 --> 00:01:09.379 What a load of rubbish! We should be educating 00:01:09.379 --> 00:01:12.680 young people, okay? What their nakshatra is, 00:01:12.780 --> 00:01:16.219 how they see intimacy itself. We should be seeing 00:01:16.219 --> 00:01:19.140 that and we should be working more with them. 00:01:19.980 --> 00:01:23.439 Proper knowledge is essential now. And the point 00:01:23.439 --> 00:01:25.620 I wanted to make briefly before we get into the 00:01:25.620 --> 00:01:31.000 details of this is the mainstream, and this is 00:01:31.000 --> 00:01:32.859 very deep and I want you to think about this, 00:01:33.079 --> 00:01:39.859 the mainstream propagates passion and physical 00:01:39.859 --> 00:01:42.819 copulation characteristics, isn't it? So what 00:01:42.819 --> 00:01:45.969 does that mean? They think about Mars. In terms 00:01:45.969 --> 00:01:48.489 of astrology, it's all about Mars. It's all about 00:01:48.489 --> 00:01:50.870 heat. It's all about passion. It's all about 00:01:50.870 --> 00:01:54.129 muscle. It's all about body count. It's all about 00:01:54.129 --> 00:01:57.969 display. It's all about just copulation and getting 00:01:57.969 --> 00:02:02.290 your work with. So the entire movie industry, 00:02:02.549 --> 00:02:05.730 the entire porn industry is centered around this. 00:02:05.769 --> 00:02:09.530 They are encouraging your Mars as selling Mars 00:02:09.530 --> 00:02:13.580 as a form of intimacy. It is not. This is the 00:02:13.580 --> 00:02:17.680 reason why I am not considering Mars as a planet 00:02:17.680 --> 00:02:20.680 or as a karaka of anything to do with intimacy. 00:02:21.080 --> 00:02:26.419 But intimacy is Venus, Moon and Mercury. It is 00:02:26.419 --> 00:02:28.620 your intellectual communication. I have covered 00:02:28.620 --> 00:02:31.099 this already in my playlist. If you want to go 00:02:31.099 --> 00:02:34.740 through the entire playlist. Psychologically 00:02:34.740 --> 00:02:37.300 speaking, Mercury is the earth element. It is 00:02:37.300 --> 00:02:40.379 your skin. It is your touch. It is your sensate 00:02:40.379 --> 00:02:43.030 organ. The largest organ in the body is the skin. 00:02:43.449 --> 00:02:45.750 So it has to do with hugging. It has to do with 00:02:45.750 --> 00:02:48.889 the kind of touch. Venus has to do with your 00:02:48.889 --> 00:02:51.229 sense of aesthetics. It has to do with your value 00:02:51.229 --> 00:02:55.370 system. Moon has to do with your emotion. Isn't 00:02:55.370 --> 00:02:58.270 it? So these are the aspects of intimacy which 00:02:58.270 --> 00:03:01.030 is spoken very less of in the mainstream, in 00:03:01.030 --> 00:03:05.469 the movies, in the media. We tend to think of 00:03:05.469 --> 00:03:08.310 intimacy in terms of Mars. You should never do 00:03:08.310 --> 00:03:11.800 that. Never, ever, ever do that. That's the last 00:03:11.800 --> 00:03:14.939 step. And we won't get into that because these 00:03:14.939 --> 00:03:19.159 three parts we need to explore more. In a relationship 00:03:19.159 --> 00:03:22.340 there is something in intimacy which is far beyond 00:03:22.340 --> 00:03:25.759 Mars and the passionate drive. It is more to 00:03:25.759 --> 00:03:29.400 do with your other senses. It is more to do with 00:03:29.400 --> 00:03:32.379 your intellectual propensity, with your emotional 00:03:32.379 --> 00:03:36.939 body, with your physical body. Kinesthetics. 00:03:37.240 --> 00:03:40.060 Kinesthetics beyond copulation, if I might put 00:03:40.060 --> 00:03:43.419 it. very bluntly there, okay. Please remember 00:03:43.419 --> 00:03:45.759 this, go through the entire playlist. If you 00:03:45.759 --> 00:03:49.099 are a serious proponent of relationships, if 00:03:49.099 --> 00:03:51.599 you are counselling in relationships, you need 00:03:51.599 --> 00:03:54.219 to really evaluate this in a different language. 00:03:54.740 --> 00:03:57.120 We are talking about in this case, language of 00:03:57.120 --> 00:04:03.080 Jyotish. Okay, that being said, so moon of the 00:04:03.080 --> 00:04:06.800 lady in Rikshira, not necessarily the first house, 00:04:06.960 --> 00:04:10.370 okay, go through the rules. and man in Pushya 00:04:10.370 --> 00:04:12.969 nakshatra. What does that relationship dynamic 00:04:12.969 --> 00:04:16.730 provide us? Let us just see it. So, Mrikshira 00:04:16.730 --> 00:04:19.949 in Taurus and Pushya in Cancer, this moon match 00:04:19.949 --> 00:04:23.730 provides us what? Mrikshira in Taurus brings 00:04:23.730 --> 00:04:26.430 to the table a search. Mrikshira is constantly 00:04:26.430 --> 00:04:28.750 searching, hunting. Go through the entire nakshatra 00:04:28.750 --> 00:04:31.370 playlist if you're not sure of what I'm speaking 00:04:31.370 --> 00:04:33.230 about. If this is all Greek and Latin to you, 00:04:33.230 --> 00:04:36.459 you need to go through the playlist. Entire 27 00:04:36.459 --> 00:04:39.040 nakshatras of Vedic Astrology are covered in 00:04:39.040 --> 00:04:42.040 my channel. Probably one of the most descriptive, 00:04:42.139 --> 00:04:45.480 most extensive on YouTube. I might say proudly. 00:04:46.560 --> 00:04:49.620 So, Mirkshira brings search, sensory curiosity, 00:04:50.139 --> 00:04:53.519 mental wandering. It's a wandering deer in the 00:04:53.519 --> 00:04:57.019 forest. Conversational bonding because it's in 00:04:57.019 --> 00:05:01.980 Gemini. Aesthetic awareness. Desire to explore 00:05:01.980 --> 00:05:05.040 with safety and adaptability with comfort. Okay, 00:05:05.139 --> 00:05:07.100 this Milksheda is in Taurus. Sorry, Gemini. We 00:05:07.100 --> 00:05:09.819 are still to come. So it is thinking about resources. 00:05:09.939 --> 00:05:12.800 Taurus is about resources. Taurus is about value 00:05:12.800 --> 00:05:17.019 system. Second house. Pushya nakshatra on the 00:05:17.019 --> 00:05:20.680 other hand, right? The man's moon in this case. 00:05:21.660 --> 00:05:24.639 Emotional containment, nourishment, stability. 00:05:24.740 --> 00:05:26.759 These are the keywords he brings to the table. 00:05:27.180 --> 00:05:30.769 Loyalty, responsibility, caregiving. Slow to 00:05:30.769 --> 00:05:33.990 trust, long -term orientation. It's a Saturn 00:05:33.990 --> 00:05:39.670 rule nakshatra. Secondly, the core emotional 00:05:39.670 --> 00:05:43.050 weave. I am laying it down in terms of core values 00:05:43.050 --> 00:05:46.089 that each moon brings to the table. Of course, 00:05:46.089 --> 00:05:50.790 you can keep on exploring that. So the core weave 00:05:50.790 --> 00:05:53.970 becomes search plus shelter. Shelter being cancer, 00:05:54.329 --> 00:05:57.589 search being Milkshira. Curiosity with care. 00:05:58.110 --> 00:06:00.990 Curiosity is Mrikshira. Care is Pushya. Why? 00:06:01.149 --> 00:06:03.529 Because it's in cancer. Pushya is a nourishing 00:06:03.529 --> 00:06:08.329 nakshatra. Movement within safety. Safety is 00:06:08.329 --> 00:06:11.069 provided by cancer. Movement is provided by Mrikshira. 00:06:11.149 --> 00:06:13.949 It's constantly searching and hunting nakshatra. 00:06:14.810 --> 00:06:18.569 Questions answered by consistency. Consistency 00:06:18.569 --> 00:06:23.410 is the root of any planet placed in Pushya nakshatra. 00:06:23.410 --> 00:06:25.910 Especially if you have Mercury, Moon or Venus 00:06:25.910 --> 00:06:29.829 placed in Pushya, it's good. Exploration held 00:06:29.829 --> 00:06:34.589 by emotional structure. Barikshira seeks stimulation, 00:06:35.069 --> 00:06:38.529 ideas, novelty but Taurus adds the need for comfort 00:06:38.529 --> 00:06:42.569 and reliability. Pusha offers emotional food, 00:06:42.870 --> 00:06:46.329 rhythm, protection reinforced by cancer's instinct 00:06:46.329 --> 00:06:50.089 to hold, preserve and sustain. It's a motherly 00:06:50.089 --> 00:06:54.310 energy cancer. Attraction pattern therefore would 00:06:54.310 --> 00:06:57.939 become of mental chemistry. Emotional reassurance, 00:06:58.300 --> 00:07:01.899 sensor compatibility, sensory level. So mercury 00:07:01.899 --> 00:07:04.079 here will be more crucial I think. If your mercury 00:07:04.079 --> 00:07:08.500 is in pushya and or moon or both, you require 00:07:08.500 --> 00:07:11.220 a very physical level. This is like hugging and 00:07:11.220 --> 00:07:14.920 kissing kind of thing. Slow burn intimacy. This 00:07:14.920 --> 00:07:18.360 is not a fast approach. Everything is exploratory 00:07:18.360 --> 00:07:21.660 in nature on both sides. This is not explosive 00:07:21.660 --> 00:07:24.540 passion. not an overnight thing, not a one -night 00:07:24.540 --> 00:07:28.379 stand, but a deepening attachment. The power 00:07:28.379 --> 00:07:31.500 balance here becomes Mrikshira asks, probes and 00:07:31.500 --> 00:07:34.879 explores. Pushya on the other hand contains, 00:07:35.019 --> 00:07:37.720 feeds and stabilizes. See the dynamic. You have 00:07:37.720 --> 00:07:40.160 to understand this intimacy and dynamics first. 00:07:41.560 --> 00:07:44.360 The risky thing is restlessness versus caution. 00:07:44.819 --> 00:07:47.800 Mrikshira is too restless. Cancer is too cautious. 00:07:48.480 --> 00:07:52.509 Curiosity versus conservatism. Guess who's what 00:07:52.509 --> 00:07:55.389 curiosity is? Mikshira. Pushya is conservative. 00:07:56.149 --> 00:07:59.709 Freedom testing versus emotional duty. The duty 00:07:59.709 --> 00:08:02.589 part comes from the Saturn ruling Kshetras. In 00:08:02.589 --> 00:08:05.410 this case being Pushya, second one being Anuradha, 00:08:05.449 --> 00:08:08.910 last one being Uttrapadrapada. Strength keywords 00:08:08.910 --> 00:08:12.230 here being emotional safety, trust building, 00:08:12.670 --> 00:08:15.910 shared routines, intellectual and emotional nourishment. 00:08:16.129 --> 00:08:20.170 This is what will strengthen it. Now the psychological 00:08:20.170 --> 00:08:23.569 tone of this. It requires a calm nervous system. 00:08:23.829 --> 00:08:27.029 It requires predictable intimacy. It requires 00:08:27.029 --> 00:08:30.050 secure attachment style. Cancer wants security 00:08:30.050 --> 00:08:33.490 above all things. It is to open. It's an emotional 00:08:33.490 --> 00:08:36.470 body. Just saying, if more planets or points 00:08:36.470 --> 00:08:39.049 are in your cancer sign, be very very careful 00:08:39.049 --> 00:08:41.889 of your emotional body. Everything is absorbed 00:08:41.889 --> 00:08:45.230 into your emotional body. So it might even create 00:08:45.230 --> 00:08:48.320 physical havoc. might create anxiety and panic 00:08:48.320 --> 00:08:52.740 so to speak. Healing through consistency which 00:08:52.740 --> 00:08:56.840 says you can roam and I'll be here. The being 00:08:56.840 --> 00:09:01.779 here is the dominant part of cancer. Cancer requires 00:09:01.779 --> 00:09:05.220 emotional security of all kinds. If it does not 00:09:05.220 --> 00:09:07.559 have emotional security cancer won't thrive. 00:09:08.679 --> 00:09:12.809 Also you got to remember This dynamics plays 00:09:12.809 --> 00:09:15.590 individually between each nakshatra and I shall 00:09:15.590 --> 00:09:18.870 cover all 27 of them. So that you have a fair 00:09:18.870 --> 00:09:23.029 idea of the diversity of how it plays out. It 00:09:23.029 --> 00:09:27.389 is very diverse. It is extremely rich. It is 00:09:27.389 --> 00:09:32.429 not just a psychological blathering. Vedic astrology 00:09:32.429 --> 00:09:35.389 is highly mathematical, highly precise in nature. 00:09:36.029 --> 00:09:38.289 If you're not getting some part of this, you 00:09:38.289 --> 00:09:40.779 need to study more. That's all there is to it. 00:09:40.960 --> 00:09:42.659 Maybe just not with this channel, maybe with 00:09:42.659 --> 00:09:46.820 other channels. Okay? So I will wrap this up 00:09:46.820 --> 00:09:50.080 and I will see you in the next Nakshatra. Meanwhile, 00:09:50.080 --> 00:09:51.179 take care. Be safe.