WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:03.339 Good morning people, welcome to my channel. So 00:00:03.339 --> 00:00:05.919 the words have come in and now we shall do some 00:00:05.919 --> 00:00:10.019 intimacy dynamics of nakshatras. How does it 00:00:10.019 --> 00:00:12.900 play out within a relationship? So I've covered 00:00:12.900 --> 00:00:15.380 this in the extensive playlist, Varicastology 00:00:15.380 --> 00:00:17.879 and Intimacy aspects. You can go through that. 00:00:17.879 --> 00:00:21.760 That covers even psychological stuff. But here 00:00:21.760 --> 00:00:25.179 we shall get to some basic stuff, okay? And we 00:00:25.179 --> 00:00:28.079 shall do with Moon in Ashwini, Mercury in Ashwini 00:00:28.079 --> 00:00:33.100 or Venus in Ashwini. Whenever you think of intimacy 00:00:33.100 --> 00:00:36.039 aspects, you've got to match three personal planets. 00:00:36.179 --> 00:00:38.100 You've got to match Mercury, you've got to match 00:00:38.100 --> 00:00:41.560 Venus and Moon. In Natal and Navamsa are the 00:00:41.560 --> 00:00:45.479 best possible outcome at least. Okay. So let 00:00:45.479 --> 00:00:49.179 us see Ashwini nakshatra since it's a devakana, 00:00:49.200 --> 00:00:51.399 how it is matched with. I have stuck a figure 00:00:51.399 --> 00:00:55.170 as you can see on the screen. of a woman moon 00:00:55.170 --> 00:00:58.570 and a man's moon over here, just for pictorial 00:00:58.570 --> 00:01:01.049 representation, nothing else. So let us begin 00:01:01.049 --> 00:01:03.070 directly because there is quite a bit of ground 00:01:03.070 --> 00:01:09.049 to cover. First one of the basic rules is always 00:01:09.049 --> 00:01:13.950 try to match your moon nakshatra with another 00:01:13.950 --> 00:01:16.049 moon nakshatra which is not identical to yours. 00:01:16.049 --> 00:01:18.209 Why? Because you will be going through the similar 00:01:18.209 --> 00:01:20.750 mahadashas and sequences which is not advisable 00:01:20.750 --> 00:01:23.609 in Jyotish. each of the partners should go through 00:01:23.609 --> 00:01:27.609 a different set of circumstances through life. 00:01:27.870 --> 00:01:30.989 Therefore, it's important that the ascendant 00:01:30.989 --> 00:01:38.629 sign or the sign of the moon in Natal and Navamsa 00:01:38.629 --> 00:01:42.590 should be also having the same rules of distinction. 00:01:42.709 --> 00:01:47.359 That means to say 1 to 3 dynamic, 1 to 4 dynamic, 00:01:47.519 --> 00:01:50.500 1 to 7 dynamic, 1 to 10 or 1 to 11. These are 00:01:50.500 --> 00:01:53.640 the best possible moon matches. The distance 00:01:53.640 --> 00:01:56.319 between the signs. Not necessarily the houses 00:01:56.319 --> 00:02:00.280 as you can see on the screen. So Ashwini Nakshatra, 00:02:00.340 --> 00:02:02.980 first good match is with Mirkshira Nakshatra. 00:02:03.459 --> 00:02:08.060 Let's say the woman is in Ashwini Nakshatra, 00:02:08.340 --> 00:02:11.500 the man is in Mirkshira Nakshatra. Now how does 00:02:11.500 --> 00:02:16.250 that dynamic play out? This is a high voltage 00:02:16.250 --> 00:02:18.569 attraction with a built -in restlessness. Both 00:02:18.569 --> 00:02:22.090 are very restless nakshatras. Ashwini moon brings 00:02:22.090 --> 00:02:25.250 speed, instinct and emotional urgency. Marikshira 00:02:25.250 --> 00:02:28.669 moon brings curiosity, movement and mental freedom. 00:02:29.550 --> 00:02:31.830 Together this creates a bond that feels alive, 00:02:32.150 --> 00:02:35.710 neutral but rarely still. This connection thrives 00:02:35.710 --> 00:02:38.330 on momentum, novelty and shared exploration. 00:02:38.590 --> 00:02:40.810 The passion stays strong when life is moving, 00:02:41.009 --> 00:02:43.090 changing, traveling and learning. The dynamic 00:02:43.090 --> 00:02:46.270 nakshatra is both of them. Uttadeva Gana, always 00:02:46.270 --> 00:02:49.289 match the Gana also. The moment things become 00:02:49.289 --> 00:02:52.389 emotionally heavy, routine or possessive, the 00:02:52.389 --> 00:02:56.169 bond starts to strain. This is not a comfort 00:02:56.169 --> 00:02:59.150 first relationship, it's a growth first kind 00:02:59.150 --> 00:03:02.569 of relationship. If you are the one two kind 00:03:02.569 --> 00:03:05.409 of people who enjoy intensity, playful chase, 00:03:05.689 --> 00:03:08.870 psychological stimulation and continuously evolving 00:03:08.870 --> 00:03:11.750 dynamics, this pairing can feel addictive and 00:03:11.750 --> 00:03:15.370 deeply bonding over time. This works best for 00:03:15.370 --> 00:03:19.110 two people when choosing curiosity over control, 00:03:19.469 --> 00:03:24.949 movement over emotional rigidity. See that? Right 00:03:24.949 --> 00:03:28.129 there, you have a pairing distinction. Let's 00:03:28.129 --> 00:03:30.590 say we put it in Poonar Vasu and Poonar Vasu 00:03:30.590 --> 00:03:34.449 has got three Three Pada's in Gemini itself. 00:03:34.530 --> 00:03:43.189 Last Pada is in Cancer. Okay. So let's see the 00:03:43.189 --> 00:03:46.430 Punarvasu dominant part. Let's say woman's moan 00:03:46.430 --> 00:03:49.030 is in Ashwini. Man's moan is in Punarvasu. Now 00:03:49.030 --> 00:03:52.509 what happens? Okay. Punarvasu -Ashwini dynamic. 00:03:53.150 --> 00:03:58.330 Let us see this. So this pairing is of impulse 00:03:58.330 --> 00:04:02.419 meeting emotional repair. Ashwini moon brings 00:04:02.419 --> 00:04:05.680 speed, initiation, instinctive emotional action. 00:04:05.979 --> 00:04:08.680 Poonarvasu moon, on the other hand, the man's 00:04:08.680 --> 00:04:12.039 moon brings in this case, renewed reassurance 00:04:12.039 --> 00:04:16.279 and emotional resilience. This is a bond, one 00:04:16.279 --> 00:04:20.339 that one sparks and the other stabilizes. Ashwini 00:04:20.339 --> 00:04:23.060 activates the relationship, starting. Ashwini 00:04:23.060 --> 00:04:25.680 is a starter by default. So it pushes things 00:04:25.680 --> 00:04:28.339 forward, re -igniting desire. Punar vasu softens 00:04:28.339 --> 00:04:31.120 the edges, forgiving quickly, restoring emotional 00:04:31.120 --> 00:04:34.579 balance, and repeatedly choosing connection over 00:04:34.579 --> 00:04:37.819 conflict. Punar vasu is a devagana. So it will 00:04:37.819 --> 00:04:41.160 choose again and again. Punar vasu fails first 00:04:41.160 --> 00:04:44.459 and retrieves again. This is a pairing that recovers 00:04:44.459 --> 00:04:47.819 well after emotional disruptions. Arguments don't 00:04:47.819 --> 00:04:50.699 linger long. emotional ruptures are followed 00:04:50.699 --> 00:04:53.139 by reconnection, often stronger than before, 00:04:53.300 --> 00:04:55.279 especially punar vasu in the last pada, which 00:04:55.279 --> 00:04:59.300 is cancer, which is a softer sign. This is a 00:04:59.300 --> 00:05:01.680 growth through healing dynamic, not explosive, 00:05:01.819 --> 00:05:04.540 not stagnant, but quietly enduring when both 00:05:04.540 --> 00:05:07.120 of them matures. Look, any partnership, doesn't 00:05:07.120 --> 00:05:09.480 matter which moon, you have to mature in this. 00:05:10.779 --> 00:05:14.000 The Vedic astrology or the Vedas speak of relationship 00:05:14.000 --> 00:05:16.680 in terms of something that has to be consciously 00:05:16.680 --> 00:05:19.889 worked through. It is not automatic. The spark 00:05:19.889 --> 00:05:22.730 and the chemistry, you know, seeing one another, 00:05:22.870 --> 00:05:24.769 love at first sight, all these kinds of things 00:05:24.769 --> 00:05:27.189 might be fine on paper. But you have to make 00:05:27.189 --> 00:05:30.350 the relationship last. This is where the Vedic 00:05:30.350 --> 00:05:33.949 Astrology and Vedas in general come from. Now 00:05:33.949 --> 00:05:36.209 let's take the next dynamic. What is the next 00:05:36.209 --> 00:05:40.569 dynamic? Let's take the man's moon and put him 00:05:40.569 --> 00:05:44.850 in Pushyana Kshatra there. So it is one four 00:05:44.850 --> 00:05:48.500 dynamic. That means to say, 9 -5 relationship. 00:05:50.040 --> 00:05:53.019 Not 9 -5, sorry, 4 -10 relationship. So it's 00:05:53.019 --> 00:05:56.720 4 -10. Remember the dynamic of numerology always 00:05:56.720 --> 00:06:02.300 plays out. This is just a textual form. But what 00:06:02.300 --> 00:06:06.839 does Pushya give here? Ashwini moon in the woman, 00:06:06.860 --> 00:06:09.480 Pushya in the man. It can be gender interchangeable, 00:06:09.480 --> 00:06:12.439 it doesn't matter. Nakshatras don't follow that 00:06:12.439 --> 00:06:15.360 kind of a rule. It is gender neutral, really. 00:06:16.379 --> 00:06:20.420 Sparing is of raw impulse meeting emotional structure. 00:06:20.660 --> 00:06:24.259 Now we talk of cancer. Pusha is cancer. So Ashwini 00:06:24.259 --> 00:06:27.360 Moon brings speed, instinct, initiation and emotional 00:06:27.360 --> 00:06:31.319 immediacy. I want to have it quick. Let's get 00:06:31.319 --> 00:06:34.019 laid kind of approach Ashwini Moon. Pusha Moon 00:06:34.019 --> 00:06:36.980 brings nourishment, patience, duty, long -term 00:06:36.980 --> 00:06:39.939 emotional containment because it is in cancer. 00:06:40.839 --> 00:06:43.800 Together, this relationship creates where one 00:06:43.800 --> 00:06:47.220 ignites and the other sustains. Ashwini pushes 00:06:47.220 --> 00:06:50.079 life forward, quick decisions, bold emotional 00:06:50.079 --> 00:06:53.019 moves, sudden desires. Pushya on the other hand, 00:06:53.139 --> 00:06:56.759 cancer, absorbs, organizes, holds emotional space, 00:06:57.019 --> 00:07:00.420 often becomes a stabilizing pillar of bond. There 00:07:00.420 --> 00:07:03.560 is a strong provider, protector, nurturer and 00:07:03.560 --> 00:07:06.579 corp polarity here. This dynamic excels in long 00:07:06.579 --> 00:07:10.319 -term partnership, family building. and emotional 00:07:10.319 --> 00:07:13.160 reliability. Conflicts tend to resolve through 00:07:13.160 --> 00:07:16.279 responsibility rather than drama. We want to 00:07:16.279 --> 00:07:20.300 avoid drama, isn't it? The risk lies in imbalance. 00:07:20.519 --> 00:07:23.319 Ashwini may feel emotionally restricted if Pusha 00:07:23.319 --> 00:07:26.079 becomes too rule -bound. Pusha is ruled by Saturn, 00:07:26.199 --> 00:07:29.620 so it is rule -bound by default. It's kind of 00:07:29.620 --> 00:07:34.819 a slow and steady person. This stabilizing This 00:07:34.819 --> 00:07:37.639 is stabilizing marriage, great pairing, powerful 00:07:37.639 --> 00:07:40.339 combination. When impulse respects structure 00:07:40.339 --> 00:07:43.480 and structure allows movement. So you might want 00:07:43.480 --> 00:07:47.220 to consider that if you are thinking such kind 00:07:47.220 --> 00:07:51.279 of relationships. Now, next one. Let us move 00:07:51.279 --> 00:07:55.220 Mr. Moon to Swati. I am only matching Dev Ghanas 00:07:55.220 --> 00:07:58.759 if you noticed. I don't match mismatched Ghanas. 00:07:58.800 --> 00:08:01.100 Otherwise it leads to disastrous consequences. 00:08:02.199 --> 00:08:06.610 Also, just on the side, the red triangles marked 00:08:06.610 --> 00:08:09.730 there, the 6th, 8th and 12th, never try to match 00:08:09.730 --> 00:08:12.949 those moons and the nakshatras in them, with 00:08:12.949 --> 00:08:15.470 Ashwini in this case, okay? Never try to match 00:08:15.470 --> 00:08:18.829 the moons which are within the nakshatras, 6th, 00:08:18.829 --> 00:08:21.529 8th and 12th houses, because it leads to just 00:08:21.529 --> 00:08:24.129 losses of all kinds, transformation of all kinds, 00:08:24.230 --> 00:08:28.550 which is unnecessary, really. So, swati moon. 00:08:29.800 --> 00:08:32.899 This is pure impulse meeting, radical independence. 00:08:33.100 --> 00:08:35.600 Swati is very very independent nakshatra. Ashwini 00:08:35.600 --> 00:08:38.440 moon brings speed, instinct, emotional immediacy, 00:08:38.620 --> 00:08:41.039 urge to initiate. Swati moon brings freedom, 00:08:42.039 --> 00:08:44.720 self -direction, detachment and emotional autonomy. 00:08:45.659 --> 00:08:48.259 Together this creates a bond that feels electrifying 00:08:48.259 --> 00:08:51.240 at first. There is that one -seven dynamic. Ashwini 00:08:51.240 --> 00:08:54.299 is right opposite to Swati, but difficult to 00:08:54.299 --> 00:08:58.059 anchor. Because one wants momentum, other wants 00:08:58.059 --> 00:09:01.320 freedom. Ashwini feels alive. Chasing Swati feels 00:09:01.320 --> 00:09:04.220 seen without being possessed. Swati wants independence. 00:09:05.580 --> 00:09:08.200 Ashwini also wants independence. It's a very 00:09:08.200 --> 00:09:10.980 power couple dynamic here. Attachment is light 00:09:10.980 --> 00:09:14.779 and trust is strong. The more Ashwini pushes 00:09:14.779 --> 00:09:18.360 for emotional certainty, the more Swati withdraws. 00:09:18.360 --> 00:09:21.240 Because Swati wants its quiet, independent space. 00:09:21.840 --> 00:09:24.899 This is a high -growth, non -conventional relationship. 00:09:25.309 --> 00:09:28.389 This only works when love is allowed to breathe, 00:09:28.789 --> 00:09:31.409 control kills it, freedom sustains it. So this 00:09:31.409 --> 00:09:36.950 relationship is highly banking on freedom aspects. 00:09:37.350 --> 00:09:39.470 You have to respect the freedom of the other 00:09:39.470 --> 00:09:42.909 one, especially the Swati person. Now we shall 00:09:42.909 --> 00:09:47.490 end it with Ashwini trying to match with Sravana, 00:09:47.590 --> 00:09:50.529 the last one. There is nothing in the 11th position 00:09:50.529 --> 00:09:54.049 because there is no Devagana there. Like I said, 00:09:54.330 --> 00:09:58.350 I always try to match the Ganas first. What does 00:09:58.350 --> 00:10:01.330 this dynamic give? Ashwini moon brings speed, 00:10:02.309 --> 00:10:04.629 instinct, emotional immediacy, urge to act now, 00:10:04.769 --> 00:10:07.070 while Shravana moon now, in this case, it's in 00:10:07.070 --> 00:10:09.409 Capricorn, so it brings listening, patience, 00:10:09.570 --> 00:10:13.909 learning and sort of an emotional rigidity. Capricorn 00:10:13.909 --> 00:10:16.210 moon is very restricted. You might not want to 00:10:16.210 --> 00:10:19.190 get with them if especially you are not the one 00:10:19.190 --> 00:10:23.190 to be controlled. Okay? We shall see more and 00:10:23.190 --> 00:10:25.649 more as we go along with different nakshatras. 00:10:25.870 --> 00:10:28.230 It has to be matched by nakshatras. It has to 00:10:28.230 --> 00:10:31.389 be matched distinctively. There is no one size 00:10:31.389 --> 00:10:35.190 fits all here in Vedic Astrology. Emotionally 00:10:35.190 --> 00:10:39.269 guided restraint, it's highly restrained Capricorn. 00:10:39.809 --> 00:10:43.590 One initiates, other interprets, others sustains. 00:10:43.909 --> 00:10:46.029 Shravana is a very grounded nakshatra. It wants 00:10:46.029 --> 00:10:49.679 to sustain things. Ashwini moves first, Shauna 00:10:49.679 --> 00:10:52.639 absorbs, listens, reflects and then responds 00:10:52.639 --> 00:10:55.240 with meaning. Shauna is very slow to respond. 00:10:55.860 --> 00:10:58.940 It tends to absorb first and then analyze it 00:10:58.940 --> 00:11:02.240 and labor over it. If you are interested in that 00:11:02.240 --> 00:11:05.379 kind of a dynamic, this will suit. Understand 00:11:05.379 --> 00:11:07.679 your partner first. Nothing is given in writing. 00:11:08.419 --> 00:11:11.519 These are clues for you. This often creates a 00:11:11.519 --> 00:11:14.279 teacher -activator dynamic where Shauna gives 00:11:14.279 --> 00:11:17.960 context to... and continuity to Ashwini's movement, 00:11:18.200 --> 00:11:22.440 initiation. Conversations tend to heal, guide 00:11:22.440 --> 00:11:24.720 and stabilize the relationship. There has to 00:11:24.720 --> 00:11:27.139 be a lot of communication for this relationship 00:11:27.139 --> 00:11:31.360 to survive the fire element and the earth element. 00:11:32.080 --> 00:11:35.899 So you got to be careful about this. The risk 00:11:35.899 --> 00:11:39.759 is mismatch in timing. Ashwini may feel unheard 00:11:39.759 --> 00:11:42.840 if responses are slow. Shravana may feel emotionally 00:11:42.840 --> 00:11:45.200 rushed or overwhelmed. Shravana wants to take 00:11:45.200 --> 00:11:48.820 it very slow. This is a maturity driven pairing. 00:11:48.980 --> 00:11:52.500 Strong for long term growth when action learns 00:11:52.500 --> 00:11:57.240 to listen and wisdom allows movement. So that's 00:11:57.240 --> 00:12:00.360 where this particular dynamic plays out between 00:12:00.360 --> 00:12:04.620 Ashwini and Shravana. That's the last. In Aquarius, 00:12:04.700 --> 00:12:07.039 there is no Devana, so I want to talk about that. 00:12:07.159 --> 00:12:09.460 We will see more when we come to Aquarius nakshatras. 00:12:10.600 --> 00:12:14.059 But first we wanted to start with Ashwini itself, 00:12:15.440 --> 00:12:19.200 the first of the Devanas. Next, we shall consider 00:12:19.200 --> 00:12:22.519 the Marikshira nakshatras and the pairing thereof. 00:12:23.440 --> 00:12:24.080 Take care, be safe.