WEBVTT 00:00:01.790 --> 00:00:04.150 We covered motivation. Now I come to the second 00:00:04.150 --> 00:00:07.330 part of it about your careers about your daily 00:00:07.330 --> 00:00:12.250 work six thousand so First of all motivation 00:00:12.250 --> 00:00:14.789 industry is bogus. It does not work. You don't 00:00:14.789 --> 00:00:17.390 need to be motivated You just need to unleash 00:00:17.390 --> 00:00:20.850 yourself as you are onto the world and take it 00:00:20.850 --> 00:00:23.929 forward Your joy day -to -day is more important 00:00:23.929 --> 00:00:26.010 than any bank balance you will ever have any 00:00:26.010 --> 00:00:28.910 relationship you'll ever have with anyone ever 00:00:30.600 --> 00:00:34.539 That's number one number two in this one What 00:00:34.539 --> 00:00:37.820 societal structures are you trying to confine 00:00:37.820 --> 00:00:43.579 or contract yourself with? with respect to expectation 00:00:43.579 --> 00:00:46.840 Big one especially in India isn't it all Eastern 00:00:46.840 --> 00:00:49.780 cultures are very confining. They don't encourage 00:00:49.780 --> 00:00:52.659 individuality. They encourage compliance That's 00:00:52.659 --> 00:00:54.840 why we tend to make more slaves than masters 00:00:54.840 --> 00:00:58.579 or leaders This is not about compliance. You 00:00:58.579 --> 00:01:01.390 don't need to comply to anything In this case, 00:01:01.530 --> 00:01:04.030 we're talking about your immediate family, your 00:01:04.030 --> 00:01:06.349 parents, your father, your mother, your sisters, 00:01:06.650 --> 00:01:11.349 brothers, friends, neighborhoods. Because these 00:01:11.349 --> 00:01:14.489 kind of societies, especially here, Eastern societies 00:01:14.489 --> 00:01:19.950 of the world, they tend to be discouraging individualistic 00:01:19.950 --> 00:01:23.109 nature in the name of compliance to the society. 00:01:23.769 --> 00:01:26.269 You have to be more like the collective, not 00:01:26.269 --> 00:01:28.709 like an individual. Western societies are just 00:01:28.709 --> 00:01:31.180 the opposite. they are battling in the form of 00:01:31.180 --> 00:01:34.480 this there's too much individualization and less 00:01:34.480 --> 00:01:37.239 of collective it's different just different energies 00:01:37.239 --> 00:01:41.920 nothing good or bad or wrong right about it so 00:01:41.920 --> 00:01:46.239 talking of daily getting up if your chart says 00:01:46.239 --> 00:01:48.219 something if you come to me for consult and i 00:01:48.219 --> 00:01:50.140 tell you your chart is saying you should do this 00:01:50.140 --> 00:01:52.500 this this this as your career that's going to 00:01:52.500 --> 00:01:55.200 make you happy now if you come and ask me the 00:01:55.200 --> 00:01:58.780 question is it going to make me money I don't 00:01:58.780 --> 00:02:01.200 know. Do you care that much about money? Then 00:02:01.200 --> 00:02:04.060 go and find something cheap and lie away through 00:02:04.060 --> 00:02:06.480 it and try to make money. Good luck with your 00:02:06.480 --> 00:02:09.300 life. Good luck with motivation. Because it's 00:02:09.300 --> 00:02:12.419 not going to make you happy. Your guiding criteria 00:02:12.419 --> 00:02:15.400 should be what determines you. What is my success 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:18.000 criteria? Do I want to get up every single morning 00:02:18.000 --> 00:02:22.860 happy, alive? bursting with creativity, thinking 00:02:22.860 --> 00:02:25.599 of new ways to do things which is going to make 00:02:25.599 --> 00:02:29.080 me happy about what the society wants, about 00:02:29.080 --> 00:02:31.360 and beyond what the others around me want. We're 00:02:31.360 --> 00:02:33.780 talking about family and friends. I don't care 00:02:33.780 --> 00:02:36.199 what my parents want, I want this because they 00:02:36.199 --> 00:02:38.099 don't understand me doesn't mean I'm going to 00:02:38.099 --> 00:02:41.120 confine myself into their structure. You see 00:02:41.120 --> 00:02:44.400 what I'm saying? This is very important because 00:02:44.400 --> 00:02:47.240 people determine these things unconsciously or 00:02:47.240 --> 00:02:50.099 subconsciously. because of all the programming 00:02:50.099 --> 00:02:55.039 that goes on. Think about this for today. Think 00:02:55.039 --> 00:02:57.580 about how much you're confining yourself to meet 00:02:57.580 --> 00:02:59.699 your societal structures. That's number two.