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Hello my wonderful people, welcome to the intimate

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relationship study. Okay, I've changed the introduction

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slightly to suit more clarity there. Okay, let's

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go through the five quickly and then we'll get

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to the details. Ascendant, zodiac and nakshatra,

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because it is opposite your seventh house, is

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what you carry into relationships, relationships,

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spouse, intimacy, sex and sensuality, all of

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that stuff, good stuff, orgasmic stuff, isn't

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it? Okay. because that's all right opposite the

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seventh house is the first house so ascendant

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zodiac and nakshatra pay attention to that pay

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a lot of the first house wherever it is that

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is sitting in number two mercury is the earth

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element okay so that not only stands for mental

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intellect but your sense of smell and touch like

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we talked about in previous podcasts kinesthetics

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isn't it physical intimate relationship essentially

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sex and sensuality is What? In terms of planets.

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In terms of Mercury, it is smell and touch. That's

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why it is important to know this. So I have modified

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this. Number three. Venus is the water element,

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planetarily speaking, like moon. But Venus stands

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for your eyes. What are your eyes observing?

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That's why you need to beautify things if you

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want to connect. If you go with your hair shambles

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with no makeup and with nothing going on, there's

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no smell, there's no touch. There's no eyes.

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Your eyes have to perceive. Your perception of

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beauty is your eyes. Okay? That's Venus. That

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needs to be there in intimacy. Mars on the other

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hand is quite different to Mercury and Venus.

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It's the fire element which stands for the blood.

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That's why raw passion of Mars when you become

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hot literally the heat in the body in the passion

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that happens during love making runs through

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everything in intimacy, runs through Mercury,

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runs through Venus, runs through Ascendant. So

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Mars is that common inner element that drives

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the passion in any relationship, okay? If it

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is not calibrated, if it's not understood, if

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you don't know how to work with it, then you

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are in trouble. Then it can turn into anger.

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The potency of Mars is extremely strong. It takes

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no hostages. It just goes out there and gets

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stuff. It's the blood. It's the fire. Number

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five, when you calibrate your own understanding

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and appreciation of your own makeup, first start

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with yourself, okay? Don't go around blame game.

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That's not gonna work. See somebody, your partner's

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chart and say you had this, that, and the other.

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No, that won't work. When you calibrate your

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own understanding and your own appreciation of

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your own chart and your own makeup, ah, this

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is the way I am made. Your selection of made

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interactions of mental, emotional and physical

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planes could also become higher. There is a potential.

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Always remember, this is a potential game. Nothing

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is promised to you. How much you want to take

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out of the juice of life is strictly up to you,

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isn't it? Now let's get into the details. Let's

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get into Marikshira 2. Ashwini match before I

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get to the details if you need a consult marriage

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counseling type of consult using this style of

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analysis if this appeals to you and You know

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that you have some friends family who need assistance

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with this kind of thing Show them these podcasts

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say this guy gives something like this. I'd be

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happy to help them out. Okay Now let's begin

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rickshaw and Gemini number three It has only

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one match, that is Ashwini in 11, as Devagana.

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Why? First of all, there is no Devagana in number

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3 position. There is one Devagana in number 4,

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which is Hastha, but it is an earth sign. Air

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and earth, not a very good match. In the 7th

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part, no Devagana. In the 10th part, there is

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Revati, but it is water sign. Air and water,

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again not a match. The only match for air is

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the fire or another air sign. In this case, in

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the 11th position, we have only Ashwini. So let's

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get started with that core chemistry. The 111

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moon positioning. Tone is one of excitement with

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ease, friendship and teamwork dynamic of 111

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aspect, expressed as lively companionship. mutual

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motivation and forward motion. This is an extremely

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dynamic couple because one is air and one is

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fire. The energy moves very fast between these

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two. Why it works? Ashwini man brings fearless

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initiative, humor and childlike vitality, while

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Mirkshi Achaminaya woman brings wit, adaptability

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and nuanced understanding of emotions and ideas.

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Together they stimulate one another's minds and

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adventures. Intimacy is not Something just a

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one time two minute exercise in the bed, isn't

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it? What do you both enjoy together? There has

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to be that dynamism. That's why elements along

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with gunas have to match. Keep that as a bottom

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line principle, folks. Elemental balance, fire,

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Aries and air, Gemini complement each other perfectly.

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Fire gives direction and warmth and air provides

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that imagination and movement. The Gana match

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is there, so that's also aligned. Ensures kindness,

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shared ideals. So crucial these days. Shared

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ideals. Is your mind and your elemental match

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going in the same direction? You don't want to

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be going in opposite directions. Otherwise, intimacy

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is lost. It's that simple. The risk is a lot

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of speed. A lot of speed carries on in this.

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Air and fire... Fire can create a lot of speed,

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isn't it? Very dynamic energies. Too many beginnings

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and not enough follow through. There has to be

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a little element of grounding and giving space.

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So mind, how does it work? Mrikshira, typical,

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we have covered this already in details in the

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other Mrikshira ones. Quick, intelligent exchanges.

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Change topics or modes freely. He needs this

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mentally. curiosity -driven connection. How he

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fulfills it? Ashwini style, spontaneous and upbeat.

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He needs to praise her mind often. He needs to

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act on them, not just teach them. Be a playful

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student. Mrikshira is a student. It's in Gemini.

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It's Mercury. But again, there is a passionate

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element. This is a very passionate combination.

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Why? Because Mrikshira is Nakshatra ruled by

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Mars and Ashwini is a sign ruled by Mars so there

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is an extreme amount of passion very good in

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bed if you ask me Ashwini Aries moon him on the

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other side straight forward decisive communication

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someone who matches his energy and enthusiasm

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freedom to act without being slowed by analysis

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nobody is here wants to analyze so much they

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want to carry on the passion how she fulfills

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mirkshira style respond with clarity and enthusiasm

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yes let's do that Feed him new missions. Keep

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the adventure loop alive. They can be very sporty,

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very dynamic, moving kind of couple. Keep feedback

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short, encouraging, not corrective. Join his

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pace. Ashwini has got a very dynamic pace. Mrikshira

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needs to keep up with Ashwini in that context.

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Let's see emotional part. Regarding the emotional

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side of things now. Again, very highly passionate

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here. Mrikshira Gemini, that is she. What does

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she desire emotionally? Lightness, laughter.

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To feel emotionally seen through a conversation.

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They can have lots of conversations, these two.

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Conversation that breathes, not possessiveness.

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Actually, Ashwin is not that possessive. How

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he fulfills. Humour and a quick hug. Affirm her

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versatility. Keep the relationship flexible.

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Never label her curiosity as inconsistent. That's

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what he's got to be cautioned about. She's very

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curious. He just wants to get on with it. Ashwini,

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Aries. What does he desire? Admiration and faith.

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This is the first sign he requires to be admired

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for who and what he stands for. Honest emotion

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over indirect hints. Never a good idea to have

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indirect hints with Ashwini. Forgiveness that

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comes swiftly and sincerely. Okay, fine. How

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she fulfills. Speak to his sense of pride. Gently.

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You are amazing when you trust your instincts.

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See, she is goading him along. She is fulfilling

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his need. When any conflict arises, I know you

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are trying to help. You know, add that line,

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tagline. Avoid over analysis during tension.

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Because she needs to, she is naturally analyzing

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more than him. So, avoid that analysis. Let him

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win small victories. Small wins always go a long

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way, isn't it? Now, let's see the physical part,

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kinesthetic. How does this play out physically?

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Very, very fiery. Like I said, one is Mars -Rodanakshatra,

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matched with another one who is zodiac is Mars.

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Aries. Okay. Playful exploratory intimacy. Mind

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-body connection through variety. That's what

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she seeks. So how does he fulfill that? By quick

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but frequent love -making. Blend quick missions

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and lingering finish. His fire needs to blend

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with her fire. His Mars, which is the zodiac,

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needs to meet her deeper core of Mars, which

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is in Mrishira as an Akshatra roller. This can

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be very very tricky, isn't it? Ashwini Aries.

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What does he desire? Energy, readiness and admiration.

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He is like a go -to guy. Partner who enjoys being

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led but keeps it light. Warmth, physical affection

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as a daily expression. How she fulfills it? Initiate

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some time, surprise him by locking eyes and making

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the first move. Compliment his body and vitality

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and praise lights his fire. You have to literally

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light his fire. You are air. You have to fan

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his fire and his ego. And then you can make all

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the magic happen. Let's finish up with the bottom

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line. Bottom line now, how does this relationship

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really pan out? Fire Aries plus Air Gemini, vitality

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and inspiration. Air feeds fire's enthusiasm,

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fire gives air focus and purpose, the elemental

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match. Next axis is Devana, Devana axis, ethical,

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good hearted, both of them. Both prefer fairness,

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quick comments and optimism. Now, when I say

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Devbana, Devbana, this is just a moan. Remember

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the first rules, okay? Check the Ascendant, Venus,

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Mars and Mercury also, which Gana they are placed

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in. Typically, they are all not Devbana, isn't

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it? So there will be an element of complexity

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involved here. Probably I might do more case

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studies. Leave a comment if you need to see some

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case studies. Keto, Mars and Mercury. Instinct

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and intellect. He brings courage. She brings

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cleverness. Bold ideas that meet quick adaptability.

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One -Eleven moon geometry. Friendship, cooperation

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and shared vision. They motivate each other's

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growth by encouraging experimentation and mutual

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independence. Bottom line, Rikshi Rajamina woman

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Ashwini Aries man is a quintessential fire air

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best friends and best lovers. Dynamic, fast mowing,

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mentally electric, filled with laughter, curiosity

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and adventure. So they need to seek out activities

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also which fit that bill, okay. They are cheerleaders,

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collaborators with one another, very dynamic,

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very nice energy, magnetic duo of spark and breeze,

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the relationship that feels alive, intelligent,

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joyful, endlessly renewing. Again, if you need

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a consult before stepping into a relationship

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or whether in relationship, or divorce or whatever

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help take care be safe