Hello my wonderful people, welcome to the intimate
relationship study. Okay, I've changed the introduction
slightly to suit more clarity there. Okay, let's
go through the five quickly and then we'll get
to the details. Ascendant, zodiac and nakshatra,
because it is opposite your seventh house, is
what you carry into relationships, relationships,
spouse, intimacy, sex and sensuality, all of
that stuff, good stuff, orgasmic stuff, isn't
it? Okay. because that's all right opposite the
seventh house is the first house so ascendant
zodiac and nakshatra pay attention to that pay
a lot of the first house wherever it is that
is sitting in number two mercury is the earth
element okay so that not only stands for mental
intellect but your sense of smell and touch like
we talked about in previous podcasts kinesthetics
isn't it physical intimate relationship essentially
sex and sensuality is What? In terms of planets.
In terms of Mercury, it is smell and touch. That's
why it is important to know this. So I have modified
this. Number three. Venus is the water element,
planetarily speaking, like moon. But Venus stands
for your eyes. What are your eyes observing?
That's why you need to beautify things if you
want to connect. If you go with your hair shambles
with no makeup and with nothing going on, there's
no smell, there's no touch. There's no eyes.
Your eyes have to perceive. Your perception of
beauty is your eyes. Okay? That's Venus. That
needs to be there in intimacy. Mars on the other
hand is quite different to Mercury and Venus.
It's the fire element which stands for the blood.
That's why raw passion of Mars when you become
hot literally the heat in the body in the passion
that happens during love making runs through
everything in intimacy, runs through Mercury,
runs through Venus, runs through Ascendant. So
Mars is that common inner element that drives
the passion in any relationship, okay? If it
is not calibrated, if it's not understood, if
you don't know how to work with it, then you
are in trouble. Then it can turn into anger.
The potency of Mars is extremely strong. It takes
no hostages. It just goes out there and gets
stuff. It's the blood. It's the fire. Number
five, when you calibrate your own understanding
and appreciation of your own makeup, first start
with yourself, okay? Don't go around blame game.
That's not gonna work. See somebody, your partner's
chart and say you had this, that, and the other.
No, that won't work. When you calibrate your
own understanding and your own appreciation of
your own chart and your own makeup, ah, this
is the way I am made. Your selection of made
interactions of mental, emotional and physical
planes could also become higher. There is a potential.
Always remember, this is a potential game. Nothing
is promised to you. How much you want to take
out of the juice of life is strictly up to you,
isn't it? Now let's get into the details. Let's
get into Marikshira 2. Ashwini match before I
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rickshaw and Gemini number three It has only
one match, that is Ashwini in 11, as Devagana.
Why? First of all, there is no Devagana in number
3 position. There is one Devagana in number 4,
which is Hastha, but it is an earth sign. Air
and earth, not a very good match. In the 7th
part, no Devagana. In the 10th part, there is
Revati, but it is water sign. Air and water,
again not a match. The only match for air is
the fire or another air sign. In this case, in
the 11th position, we have only Ashwini. So let's
get started with that core chemistry. The 111
moon positioning. Tone is one of excitement with
ease, friendship and teamwork dynamic of 111
aspect, expressed as lively companionship. mutual
motivation and forward motion. This is an extremely
dynamic couple because one is air and one is
fire. The energy moves very fast between these
two. Why it works? Ashwini man brings fearless
initiative, humor and childlike vitality, while
Mirkshi Achaminaya woman brings wit, adaptability
and nuanced understanding of emotions and ideas.
Together they stimulate one another's minds and
adventures. Intimacy is not Something just a
one time two minute exercise in the bed, isn't
it? What do you both enjoy together? There has
to be that dynamism. That's why elements along
with gunas have to match. Keep that as a bottom
line principle, folks. Elemental balance, fire,
Aries and air, Gemini complement each other perfectly.
Fire gives direction and warmth and air provides
that imagination and movement. The Gana match
is there, so that's also aligned. Ensures kindness,
shared ideals. So crucial these days. Shared
ideals. Is your mind and your elemental match
going in the same direction? You don't want to
be going in opposite directions. Otherwise, intimacy
is lost. It's that simple. The risk is a lot
of speed. A lot of speed carries on in this.
Air and fire... Fire can create a lot of speed,
isn't it? Very dynamic energies. Too many beginnings
and not enough follow through. There has to be
a little element of grounding and giving space.
So mind, how does it work? Mrikshira, typical,
we have covered this already in details in the
other Mrikshira ones. Quick, intelligent exchanges.
Change topics or modes freely. He needs this
mentally. curiosity -driven connection. How he
fulfills it? Ashwini style, spontaneous and upbeat.
He needs to praise her mind often. He needs to
act on them, not just teach them. Be a playful
student. Mrikshira is a student. It's in Gemini.
It's Mercury. But again, there is a passionate
element. This is a very passionate combination.
Why? Because Mrikshira is Nakshatra ruled by
Mars and Ashwini is a sign ruled by Mars so there
is an extreme amount of passion very good in
bed if you ask me Ashwini Aries moon him on the
other side straight forward decisive communication
someone who matches his energy and enthusiasm
freedom to act without being slowed by analysis
nobody is here wants to analyze so much they
want to carry on the passion how she fulfills
mirkshira style respond with clarity and enthusiasm
yes let's do that Feed him new missions. Keep
the adventure loop alive. They can be very sporty,
very dynamic, moving kind of couple. Keep feedback
short, encouraging, not corrective. Join his
pace. Ashwini has got a very dynamic pace. Mrikshira
needs to keep up with Ashwini in that context.
Let's see emotional part. Regarding the emotional
side of things now. Again, very highly passionate
here. Mrikshira Gemini, that is she. What does
she desire emotionally? Lightness, laughter.
To feel emotionally seen through a conversation.
They can have lots of conversations, these two.
Conversation that breathes, not possessiveness.
Actually, Ashwin is not that possessive. How
he fulfills. Humour and a quick hug. Affirm her
versatility. Keep the relationship flexible.
Never label her curiosity as inconsistent. That's
what he's got to be cautioned about. She's very
curious. He just wants to get on with it. Ashwini,
Aries. What does he desire? Admiration and faith.
This is the first sign he requires to be admired
for who and what he stands for. Honest emotion
over indirect hints. Never a good idea to have
indirect hints with Ashwini. Forgiveness that
comes swiftly and sincerely. Okay, fine. How
she fulfills. Speak to his sense of pride. Gently.
You are amazing when you trust your instincts.
See, she is goading him along. She is fulfilling
his need. When any conflict arises, I know you
are trying to help. You know, add that line,
tagline. Avoid over analysis during tension.
Because she needs to, she is naturally analyzing
more than him. So, avoid that analysis. Let him
win small victories. Small wins always go a long
way, isn't it? Now, let's see the physical part,
kinesthetic. How does this play out physically?
Very, very fiery. Like I said, one is Mars -Rodanakshatra,
matched with another one who is zodiac is Mars.
Aries. Okay. Playful exploratory intimacy. Mind
-body connection through variety. That's what
she seeks. So how does he fulfill that? By quick
but frequent love -making. Blend quick missions
and lingering finish. His fire needs to blend
with her fire. His Mars, which is the zodiac,
needs to meet her deeper core of Mars, which
is in Mrishira as an Akshatra roller. This can
be very very tricky, isn't it? Ashwini Aries.
What does he desire? Energy, readiness and admiration.
He is like a go -to guy. Partner who enjoys being
led but keeps it light. Warmth, physical affection
as a daily expression. How she fulfills it? Initiate
some time, surprise him by locking eyes and making
the first move. Compliment his body and vitality
and praise lights his fire. You have to literally
light his fire. You are air. You have to fan
his fire and his ego. And then you can make all
the magic happen. Let's finish up with the bottom
line. Bottom line now, how does this relationship
really pan out? Fire Aries plus Air Gemini, vitality
and inspiration. Air feeds fire's enthusiasm,
fire gives air focus and purpose, the elemental
match. Next axis is Devana, Devana axis, ethical,
good hearted, both of them. Both prefer fairness,
quick comments and optimism. Now, when I say
Devbana, Devbana, this is just a moan. Remember
the first rules, okay? Check the Ascendant, Venus,
Mars and Mercury also, which Gana they are placed
in. Typically, they are all not Devbana, isn't
it? So there will be an element of complexity
involved here. Probably I might do more case
studies. Leave a comment if you need to see some
case studies. Keto, Mars and Mercury. Instinct
and intellect. He brings courage. She brings
cleverness. Bold ideas that meet quick adaptability.
One -Eleven moon geometry. Friendship, cooperation
and shared vision. They motivate each other's
growth by encouraging experimentation and mutual
independence. Bottom line, Rikshi Rajamina woman
Ashwini Aries man is a quintessential fire air
best friends and best lovers. Dynamic, fast mowing,
mentally electric, filled with laughter, curiosity
and adventure. So they need to seek out activities
also which fit that bill, okay. They are cheerleaders,
collaborators with one another, very dynamic,
very nice energy, magnetic duo of spark and breeze,
the relationship that feels alive, intelligent,
joyful, endlessly renewing. Again, if you need
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