Hello my wonderful people, welcome to the intimate
relationship study. Okay, I've changed the introduction
slightly to suit more clarity there. Okay, let's
go through the five quickly and then we'll get
to the details. Ascendant, zodiac and nakshatra,
because it is opposite your seventh house, is
what you carry into relationships, relationships,
spouse, intimacy, sex and sensuality, all of
that stuff, good stuff, orgasmic stuff, isn't
it? Okay. because that's all right opposite the
seventh house is the first house so ascendant
zodiac and nakshatra pay attention to that pay
a lot of the first house wherever it is that
is sitting in number two mercury is the earth
element okay so that not only stands for mental
intellect but your sense of smell and touch like
we talked about in previous podcasts kinesthetics
isn't it physical intimate relationship essentially
sex and sensuality is What? In terms of planets.
In terms of Mercury, it is smell and touch. That's
why it is important to know this. So I have modified
this. Number three. Venus is the water element,
planetarily speaking, like moon. But Venus stands
for your eyes. What are your eyes observing?
That's why you need to beautify things if you
want to connect. If you go with your hair shambles
with no makeup and with nothing going on, there's
no smell, there's no touch. There's no eyes.
Your eyes have to perceive. Your perception of
beauty is your eyes. Okay? That's Venus. That
needs to be there in intimacy. Mars on the other
hand is quite different to Mercury and Venus.
It's the fire element which stands for the blood.
That's why raw passion of Mars when you become
hot literally the heat in the body in the passion
that happens during love making runs through
everything in intimacy, runs through Mercury,
runs through Venus, runs through Ascendant. So
Mars is that common inner element that drives
the passion in any relationship, okay? If it
is not calibrated, if it's not understood, if
you don't know how to work with it, then you
are in trouble. Then it can turn into anger.
The potency of Mars is extremely strong. It takes
no hostages. It just goes out there and gets
stuff. It's the blood. It's the fire. Number
five, when you calibrate your own understanding
and appreciation of your own makeup, first start
with yourself, okay? Don't go around blame game.
That's not gonna work. See somebody, your partner's
chart and say you had this, that, and the other.
No, that won't work. When you calibrate your
own understanding and your own appreciation of
your own chart and your own makeup, ah, this
is the way I am made. Your selection of made
interactions of mental, emotional and physical
planes could also become higher. There is a potential.
Always remember, this is a potential game. Nothing
is promised to you. How much you want to take
out of the juice of life is strictly up to you,
isn't it? Now, let's get into the details. Now,
let's study the 111 relationship dynamic from
Rikshira in Taurus. So, we directly go to the
11th place because there is the Devgana Revati
over there. And the elements also match, the
earth and water. As you can see, because there
is nothing in the fourth position, in the tenth
position, which is Devana, so there is no match
there. What's the dynamic playing out here? Once
again, look at the Nakshatra rulers, okay? Mrikshira
is ruled by Mars and Revati is ruled by Mercury.
So there is a Mercury -Mars dynamic in the undercurrent
of this intimate relationship. Let's see the
core chemistry at the bottom there first. 111
moon positioning. How does it go? The tone. The
core chemistry is important to understand always.
The tone is of best friends, energy who blossom
into soulmates, steady, sensual earth, Mrigshira,
because it's in the earth sign. Isn't it? Taurus
meets the imaginative empathetic water, Revathi.
So it's a water sign. Again, remember that there
is an undercurrent Revathi rule by Mercury. Why
it works? Marikshira man offers calm presence,
tasteful sensuality, reliability, curiosity and
detailed loving attention. Marikshira is a curious
nakshatra and Revathi woman brings compassion,
faith. Pisces is a sign of faith, creative breath
and gentle spiritual warmth. Pisces people in
Revathi are very creative people. The 111 geometry
adds team spirit, mutual encouragement, shared
gains and a relationship that improves with time.
Upachaya effect because it's the 11th house.
He is taking the 11th house or 11th position
aspects. The Gana Deva Deva enhances kindness,
propriety and a care first conflict style. Meaning,
in the event of some disagreement there is first
element of caring. That's the advantage of matching
the ganas. It doesn't escalate into something
unworthy. The risk is comfort can drift into
too platonic. He can get routine. She can get
overextended to martyrdom or blur boundaries.
Pisces is a problem of boundaries. It's ocean.
Keep romance intentional and roles balanced.
That would make it work. Now the mind. Communication,
pacing and thought style. Mirkshira, Taurus Moon,
that is him in this case. Calm, pleasant conversations
with practical. What he desires in the mind with
practical outcomes. Calm, pleasant conversations.
Consistency. Plans that actually happen. Two
options max. Appreciation of aesthetics and details.
Music, food, texture, small beauties. Once again
kinesthetics. Go back to the introduction if
you want a detail on that. How she fulfills it
Revathi style is start with tender affirmation
then a simple plan. I love this. Let's do the
step one tonight. Bring poetry into pragmatism.
So necessary these days, isn't it? Everything
is about pragmatism. People have forgotten the
poetry and the song in things. Have a checklist
wrapped in warmth, notes, reminders with a sweet
line. Share ideas through images and music. His
Venetian nature responds to sensory cues. That's
how she fulfills. For him. Now let's see the
reverse. Revati Pisces, her moon and her desires,
mentally speaking. Empathetic listening. Spiritual
creative talk. Room for imagination. Since it's
Pisces, there has to be an element of spirituality.
In talk, because it's ruled by Mercury. Clarity
that still feels gentle, no hard edges. Devagranada
has no hard edges. That's the good thing about
these kind of pairings. Subtle reassurance that
her sensitivity is welcome, not too much. How
he fulfills it. His style. Offer reflective one
-liners. I hear you, let's protect your energy
like this. Whatever it is. Translate her vision
into doable steps. He is great at grounding it
because it's in Taurus. Create quiet thinking
spaces, walks, sitting in cafes, enjoying a nice
coffee together, soft left lit corners where
her ideas can breathe. Let's see the emotional
part. Speaking of emotions now, safety, bonding
and repair. How does that happen in this chemistry?
111 with Brukshi Randravathi. Study affection
and low drama repair to be valued for reliability,
taste and gentle protectiveness. Remember, all
of these elements you can take into others as
well, isn't it? It's framed very very neatly.
Emotional serenity over intensity. How she fulfills
that. Use soft tone and one clear request in
conflict. Skip spirals. Don't go around in a
rant. Celebrate his small inc... Consistencies,
on -time calls and follow through. Offer homey
reassurance, cozy rituals, shared meals, a tidy
nest. He relaxes when life feels elegant and
ordered. Being in Taurus. This is Mrigshira in
Taurus. Revati Paisa is her desires. When we
talk of emotions, kindness, sanctuary, faith
in bond. Emotional reciprocity. Her care must
land and be received consciously. Permission
to rest from over -giving, a gentle containment.
How he fulfills it. Keep anchor rituals, night
texts, morning check -ins, weekly dates. Mirror
her feelings in brief, then act. Offer boundaries
as love. I will help. We will also protect your
energy this weekend. This is the emotional part.
Now you should always cover mental and emotional
before you get to the kinesthetic physical part.
Part is the third in the equation. Let's see
what that means. Considering the physical part
here. Chemistry, cadence and turn -ons. Mrikshira
is slow, sensual intimacy, attention to touch,
scent and ambience. General exploration, sensory
detail, neck, breath and rhythm. A partner who
enjoys beauty as a foreplay, music, fabrics and
lighting. So consider the aspects of Mrikshira
as Anakshatra ruled by Mars and in Taurus also
ruled by Venus. Combine both of them. Mrikshira
is typically more passionate. Remember what I
spoke about Mars as raw passion. In terms of
fulfillment of their passion, they are very strong
and hot. Revati on the other hand is more subtle
and in Pisces, mercury and water. Think of that.
Or in the sign of Jupiter. So it's a more intellectual,
higher vibe understanding stuff. They're not
very Martian in their ability to fulfill physical
passion. So how she fulfills it? Craft a dreamy
nest, soft lights, water sounds, light fragrance.
Let emotion lead the sensation, sweet words,
long cuddles and deepening touch. Alternate beloved
routines with one new sensory twist each time.
Temperature play, oils, scented oils, textures,
soft textures in the bed. Revati, Pisces, her
desires physically. Emotional spiritual closeness
first, very important for Pisces people. Reverent
touch, like a respectful touch, not like a bad
touch. Feeling held after care is non -negotiable.
Romance with a hint of mystical music, mantra,
stargazing, that kind of stuff. How he fulfills
it? Begin with loving presence. Eye contact,
slow breath, sink before the heat because he's
got a lot of heat here. Keep the afterglow sacred.
Hold the person, hold your partner, whisper,
plan tomorrow. All these subtle things are important
if you want to keep the intimacy alive. What
else should you marry the person for, isn't it?
offer symbolic sweetness flowers near water shared
bath foot soak to invoke her oceanic heart oceanic
heart it is saying from my notes because Pisces
I believe stands for the ocean now let us see
the bottom lines to wrap this up bottom lines
Inamrakshira man and Revati woman moon combination
match we are trying to match intimate relationships
here in case you are new Rituals and micro -practices
that fit this pairing is Harper and Horizon weekly.
Harbor night, meaning homey ritual that she designs.
Horizon, meaning mini -adventure like market,
art, nature he organizes. Three soft glimmers
nightly. Each names three gentle moments noticed
that day. It's like playing softer games with
one another, softer rituals. Warm return. Every
reunion begins with a sixty -second hug. One
warm sentence settles the bore of the nervous
systems. Because in this world, the way we have
designed it, nervous system jangling is way too
common, isn't it? Too many things disturbing
the nervous system. There's so much on that,
spoken by other people as well. Dream to plan,
fortnightly. She brings one dream, he drafts
a three -step pilot with dates. So my emotion
body snapshot for this combination is for him,
Rikshira, how do you deal with him? If you're
a Revati woman married to such a person, how
do you deal with him? Mind, ground her dreams
into simple pilots. Mirror gently, then do one
comfort action. How he takes care of her. Body,
curate beauty and keep pace low and attentive.
For her, how she fulfills, he fulfills this part
of her. Ask for clarity in two lines. Welcome
his structure. Emotion. Set boundaries and receive
care openly. Body. Invite reverence. Keep aftercare
long and quiet. Bottom line of this relationship
is earth cradling water within a 111 team meet
geometry. The Deva Deva match. Lean into friendship
as a floor and romance as a protective practice.
When his tasteful steadiness grounds her oceanic
heart, the two of you turn compassion and beauty
into a life that is both sweetly secure and ever
inspired. Keep that core chemistry there in mind.
Also, I had an intuition last evening. So why
aren't you mentioning that you can do some relationship
counseling? Okay, so here it is. If you want
your relationship counseling, boyfriend, girlfriend
or married couple, or even divorce and you want
to understand what just happened you can get
in touch with me over email that's in the channel
email link is there get in touch with me i'll
be happy to help you out take care be safe