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Hello my wonderful people, welcome to the intimate

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relationship study. Okay, I've changed the introduction

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slightly to suit more clarity there. Okay, let's

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go through the five quickly and then we'll get

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to the details. Ascendant, zodiac and nakshatra,

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because it is opposite your seventh house, is

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what you carry into relationships, relationships,

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spouse, intimacy, sex and sensuality, all of

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that stuff, good stuff, orgasmic stuff, isn't

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it? Okay. because that's all right opposite the

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seventh house is the first house so ascendant

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zodiac and nakshatra pay attention to that pay

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a lot of the first house wherever it is that

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is sitting in number two mercury is the earth

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element okay so that not only stands for mental

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intellect but your sense of smell and touch like

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we talked about in previous podcasts kinesthetics

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isn't it physical intimate relationship essentially

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sex and sensuality is What? In terms of planets.

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In terms of Mercury, it is smell and touch. That's

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why it is important to know this. So I have modified

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this. Number three. Venus is the water element,

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planetarily speaking, like moon. But Venus stands

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for your eyes. What are your eyes observing?

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That's why you need to beautify things if you

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want to connect. If you go with your hair shambles

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with no makeup and with nothing going on, there's

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no smell, there's no touch. There's no eyes.

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Your eyes have to perceive. Your perception of

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beauty is your eyes. Okay? That's Venus. That

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needs to be there in intimacy. Mars on the other

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hand is quite different to Mercury and Venus.

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It's the fire element which stands for the blood.

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That's why raw passion of Mars when you become

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hot literally the heat in the body in the passion

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that happens during love making runs through

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everything in intimacy, runs through Mercury,

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runs through Venus, runs through Ascendant. So

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Mars is that common inner element that drives

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the passion in any relationship, okay? If it

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is not calibrated, if it's not understood, if

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you don't know how to work with it, then you

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are in trouble. Then it can turn into anger.

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The potency of Mars is extremely strong. It takes

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no hostages. It just goes out there and gets

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stuff. It's the blood. It's the fire. Number

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five, when you calibrate your own understanding

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and appreciation of your own makeup, first start

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with yourself, okay? Don't go around blame game.

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That's not gonna work. See somebody, your partner's

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chart and say you had this, that, and the other.

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No, that won't work. When you calibrate your

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own understanding and your own appreciation of

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your own chart and your own makeup, ah, this

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is the way I am made. Your selection of made

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interactions of mental, emotional and physical

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planes could also become higher. There is a potential.

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Always remember, this is a potential game. Nothing

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is promised to you. How much you want to take

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out of the juice of life is strictly up to you,

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isn't it? Now, let's get into the details. Now,

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let's study the 111 relationship dynamic from

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Rikshira in Taurus. So, we directly go to the

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11th place because there is the Devgana Revati

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over there. And the elements also match, the

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earth and water. As you can see, because there

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is nothing in the fourth position, in the tenth

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position, which is Devana, so there is no match

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there. What's the dynamic playing out here? Once

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again, look at the Nakshatra rulers, okay? Mrikshira

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is ruled by Mars and Revati is ruled by Mercury.

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So there is a Mercury -Mars dynamic in the undercurrent

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of this intimate relationship. Let's see the

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core chemistry at the bottom there first. 111

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moon positioning. How does it go? The tone. The

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core chemistry is important to understand always.

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The tone is of best friends, energy who blossom

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into soulmates, steady, sensual earth, Mrigshira,

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because it's in the earth sign. Isn't it? Taurus

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meets the imaginative empathetic water, Revathi.

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So it's a water sign. Again, remember that there

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is an undercurrent Revathi rule by Mercury. Why

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it works? Marikshira man offers calm presence,

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tasteful sensuality, reliability, curiosity and

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detailed loving attention. Marikshira is a curious

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nakshatra and Revathi woman brings compassion,

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faith. Pisces is a sign of faith, creative breath

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and gentle spiritual warmth. Pisces people in

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Revathi are very creative people. The 111 geometry

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adds team spirit, mutual encouragement, shared

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gains and a relationship that improves with time.

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Upachaya effect because it's the 11th house.

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He is taking the 11th house or 11th position

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aspects. The Gana Deva Deva enhances kindness,

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propriety and a care first conflict style. Meaning,

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in the event of some disagreement there is first

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element of caring. That's the advantage of matching

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the ganas. It doesn't escalate into something

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unworthy. The risk is comfort can drift into

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too platonic. He can get routine. She can get

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overextended to martyrdom or blur boundaries.

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Pisces is a problem of boundaries. It's ocean.

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Keep romance intentional and roles balanced.

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That would make it work. Now the mind. Communication,

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pacing and thought style. Mirkshira, Taurus Moon,

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that is him in this case. Calm, pleasant conversations

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with practical. What he desires in the mind with

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practical outcomes. Calm, pleasant conversations.

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Consistency. Plans that actually happen. Two

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options max. Appreciation of aesthetics and details.

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Music, food, texture, small beauties. Once again

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kinesthetics. Go back to the introduction if

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you want a detail on that. How she fulfills it

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Revathi style is start with tender affirmation

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then a simple plan. I love this. Let's do the

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step one tonight. Bring poetry into pragmatism.

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So necessary these days, isn't it? Everything

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is about pragmatism. People have forgotten the

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poetry and the song in things. Have a checklist

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wrapped in warmth, notes, reminders with a sweet

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line. Share ideas through images and music. His

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Venetian nature responds to sensory cues. That's

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how she fulfills. For him. Now let's see the

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reverse. Revati Pisces, her moon and her desires,

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mentally speaking. Empathetic listening. Spiritual

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creative talk. Room for imagination. Since it's

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Pisces, there has to be an element of spirituality.

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In talk, because it's ruled by Mercury. Clarity

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that still feels gentle, no hard edges. Devagranada

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has no hard edges. That's the good thing about

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these kind of pairings. Subtle reassurance that

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her sensitivity is welcome, not too much. How

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he fulfills it. His style. Offer reflective one

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-liners. I hear you, let's protect your energy

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like this. Whatever it is. Translate her vision

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into doable steps. He is great at grounding it

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because it's in Taurus. Create quiet thinking

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spaces, walks, sitting in cafes, enjoying a nice

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coffee together, soft left lit corners where

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her ideas can breathe. Let's see the emotional

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part. Speaking of emotions now, safety, bonding

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and repair. How does that happen in this chemistry?

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111 with Brukshi Randravathi. Study affection

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and low drama repair to be valued for reliability,

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taste and gentle protectiveness. Remember, all

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of these elements you can take into others as

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well, isn't it? It's framed very very neatly.

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Emotional serenity over intensity. How she fulfills

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that. Use soft tone and one clear request in

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conflict. Skip spirals. Don't go around in a

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rant. Celebrate his small inc... Consistencies,

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on -time calls and follow through. Offer homey

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reassurance, cozy rituals, shared meals, a tidy

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nest. He relaxes when life feels elegant and

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ordered. Being in Taurus. This is Mrigshira in

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Taurus. Revati Paisa is her desires. When we

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talk of emotions, kindness, sanctuary, faith

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in bond. Emotional reciprocity. Her care must

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land and be received consciously. Permission

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to rest from over -giving, a gentle containment.

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How he fulfills it. Keep anchor rituals, night

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texts, morning check -ins, weekly dates. Mirror

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her feelings in brief, then act. Offer boundaries

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as love. I will help. We will also protect your

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energy this weekend. This is the emotional part.

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Now you should always cover mental and emotional

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before you get to the kinesthetic physical part.

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Part is the third in the equation. Let's see

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what that means. Considering the physical part

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here. Chemistry, cadence and turn -ons. Mrikshira

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is slow, sensual intimacy, attention to touch,

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scent and ambience. General exploration, sensory

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detail, neck, breath and rhythm. A partner who

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enjoys beauty as a foreplay, music, fabrics and

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lighting. So consider the aspects of Mrikshira

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as Anakshatra ruled by Mars and in Taurus also

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ruled by Venus. Combine both of them. Mrikshira

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is typically more passionate. Remember what I

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spoke about Mars as raw passion. In terms of

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fulfillment of their passion, they are very strong

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and hot. Revati on the other hand is more subtle

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and in Pisces, mercury and water. Think of that.

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Or in the sign of Jupiter. So it's a more intellectual,

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higher vibe understanding stuff. They're not

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very Martian in their ability to fulfill physical

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passion. So how she fulfills it? Craft a dreamy

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nest, soft lights, water sounds, light fragrance.

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Let emotion lead the sensation, sweet words,

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long cuddles and deepening touch. Alternate beloved

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routines with one new sensory twist each time.

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Temperature play, oils, scented oils, textures,

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soft textures in the bed. Revati, Pisces, her

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desires physically. Emotional spiritual closeness

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first, very important for Pisces people. Reverent

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touch, like a respectful touch, not like a bad

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touch. Feeling held after care is non -negotiable.

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Romance with a hint of mystical music, mantra,

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stargazing, that kind of stuff. How he fulfills

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it? Begin with loving presence. Eye contact,

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slow breath, sink before the heat because he's

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got a lot of heat here. Keep the afterglow sacred.

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Hold the person, hold your partner, whisper,

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plan tomorrow. All these subtle things are important

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if you want to keep the intimacy alive. What

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else should you marry the person for, isn't it?

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offer symbolic sweetness flowers near water shared

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bath foot soak to invoke her oceanic heart oceanic

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heart it is saying from my notes because Pisces

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I believe stands for the ocean now let us see

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the bottom lines to wrap this up bottom lines

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Inamrakshira man and Revati woman moon combination

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match we are trying to match intimate relationships

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here in case you are new Rituals and micro -practices

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that fit this pairing is Harper and Horizon weekly.

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Harbor night, meaning homey ritual that she designs.

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Horizon, meaning mini -adventure like market,

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art, nature he organizes. Three soft glimmers

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nightly. Each names three gentle moments noticed

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that day. It's like playing softer games with

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one another, softer rituals. Warm return. Every

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reunion begins with a sixty -second hug. One

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warm sentence settles the bore of the nervous

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systems. Because in this world, the way we have

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designed it, nervous system jangling is way too

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common, isn't it? Too many things disturbing

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the nervous system. There's so much on that,

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spoken by other people as well. Dream to plan,

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fortnightly. She brings one dream, he drafts

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a three -step pilot with dates. So my emotion

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body snapshot for this combination is for him,

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Rikshira, how do you deal with him? If you're

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a Revati woman married to such a person, how

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do you deal with him? Mind, ground her dreams

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into simple pilots. Mirror gently, then do one

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comfort action. How he takes care of her. Body,

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curate beauty and keep pace low and attentive.

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For her, how she fulfills, he fulfills this part

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of her. Ask for clarity in two lines. Welcome

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his structure. Emotion. Set boundaries and receive

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care openly. Body. Invite reverence. Keep aftercare

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long and quiet. Bottom line of this relationship

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is earth cradling water within a 111 team meet

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geometry. The Deva Deva match. Lean into friendship

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as a floor and romance as a protective practice.

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When his tasteful steadiness grounds her oceanic

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heart, the two of you turn compassion and beauty

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into a life that is both sweetly secure and ever

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inspired. Keep that core chemistry there in mind.

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Also, I had an intuition last evening. So why

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aren't you mentioning that you can do some relationship

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counseling? Okay, so here it is. If you want

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your relationship counseling, boyfriend, girlfriend

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or married couple, or even divorce and you want

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to understand what just happened you can get

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in touch with me over email that's in the channel

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email link is there get in touch with me i'll

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be happy to help you out take care be safe