Hello my wonderful people, welcome to the intimate
relationship study. Okay, I've changed the introduction
slightly to suit more clarity there. Okay, let's
go through the five quickly and then we'll get
to the details. Ascendant, zodiac and nakshatra,
because it is opposite your seventh house, is
what you carry into relationships, relationships,
spouse, intimacy, sex and sensuality, all of
that stuff, good stuff, orgasmic stuff, isn't
it? Okay. because that's all right opposite the
seventh house is the first house so ascendant
zodiac and nakshatra pay attention to that pay
a lot of the first house wherever it is that
is sitting in number two mercury is the earth
element okay so that not only stands for mental
intellect but your sense of smell and touch like
we talked about in previous podcasts kinesthetics
isn't it physical intimate relationship essentially
sex and sensuality is What? In terms of planets.
In terms of Mercury, it is smell and touch. That's
why it is important to know this. So I have modified
this. Number three. Venus is the water element,
planetarily speaking, like moon. But Venus stands
for your eyes. What are your eyes observing?
That's why you need to beautify things if you
want to connect. If you go with your hair shambles
with no makeup and with nothing going on, there's
no smell, there's no touch. There's no eyes.
Your eyes have to perceive. Your perception of
beauty is your eyes. Okay? That's Venus. That
needs to be there in intimacy. Mars on the other
hand is quite different to Mercury and Venus.
It's the fire element which stands for the blood.
That's why raw passion of Mars when you become
hot literally the heat in the body in the passion
that happens during love making runs through
everything in intimacy, runs through Mercury,
runs through Venus, runs through Ascendant. So
Mars is that common inner element that drives
the passion in any relationship, okay? If it
is not calibrated, if it's not understood, if
you don't know how to work with it, then you
are in trouble. Then it can turn into anger.
The potency of Mars is extremely strong. It takes
no hostages. It just goes out there and gets
stuff. It's the blood. It's the fire. Number
five, when you calibrate your own understanding
and appreciation of your own makeup, first start
with yourself, okay? Don't go around blame game.
That's not gonna work. See somebody, your partner's
chart and say you had this, that, and the other.
No, that won't work. When you calibrate your
own understanding and your own appreciation of
your own chart and your own makeup, ah, this
is the way I am made. Your selection of made
interactions of mental, emotional and physical
planes could also become higher. There is a potential.
Always remember, this is a potential game. Nothing
is promised to you. How much you want to take
out of the juice of life is strictly up to you,
isn't it? Now let's get into the details. We
are still in Mrikshira, isn't it? So, Mrikshira
woman and Anuradha man is what we are tackling.
Now Mrikshira, it's not necessarily the first
house moon, okay? It can be in any houses. We
are taking the distance between the moon of each
of the partners. So, Marikshira, woman, in this
case, and Anuradha, man, which is right opposite.
And if you noticed, the fourth house and the
tenth position, the fourth position have no Devagana,
so there is no match there. I am not considering
bad mixes, okay, only the good ones. If you want
to go with whatever, choose your pick. So, Mrikshira
to Anuradha, right opposite. How does this play
out? In the mind. Now, consider the rules I gave,
always, okay? Mind, Mercury. Mrikshira. Taurus,
Moon, her desires. What are her desires? Calm,
practical conversation. Soft tones. We already
saw that. Taurus, Moon. In Mrikshira. In the
first two Padaas. Predictable rhythms, peaceful
solutions, simple plans. Partner who notices
subtle beauty, venus, and emotional detail. Remember,
Mrikshira is a nakshatra ruled by Mars, so think
there is a lot of passion there, hidden. Always
take the nakshatra ruler's signatures also in
every single case, because the The pattern goes
like that. For example, how he fulfills Anuradha
style. Anuradha is a Saturn road nakshatra. So
there will be a slow, steady, long player kind
of energy. Saturnian. That will play here. Bring
focused attention. She blooms when truly seen.
Keep words measured. Sincere and protective.
Avoid verbal intensity during conflicts. Anuradha
is in Scorpio. Can get very grudgy. The basic
life lesson, we've seen this in previous podcasts
of Scorpio, is not to hold grudges. They're very
good at holding grudges. Let his depth express
reverence, not interrogation. This is not a police
station. You don't sit and interrogate your partners.
I love hearing how you see the world, for example,
rather than, why do you think like that? See
the tone and the difference, okay? Scorpio can
get very aggressively intensive Mars and Ketu
isn't it? Rulers praise her steadiness publicly
it gives her security she desires security how
do you fulfill that's the dynamism we are examining
Anuradha Scorpio moon that is him what does he
desire? Honest loyal emotionally open dialogue
Anuradha is a loyalty person isn't it? That's
why they make the best lovers because they'll
stick to you no matter what through thick and
thin so the ideal ones maybe even Lord Krishna's
mate Radha was a Radha nakshatra probably because
right opposite that is Rohini that was Krishna
Lord Krishna a partner who can listen to silence
and decode emotion Reassurance of exclusive emotional
trust. He fears betrayal more than loneliness.
That's his thing. How she fulfills that? Speak
gentle realism. No dramatics, but absolute clarity.
Use touch of presence instead of endless words.
Her grounded calm balances his emotional tides.
Respect confidentiality. What he shares in depth,
she holds sacred. offer steady eye contact and
stillness. That steadiness becomes a safe harbour.
Now the core chemistry I have stuck under the
bottom of the chart there. So the tone here in
this core chemistry is magnetic, intimate and
complex. A sacred mirror dynamic because it's
a 1 -7 relationship where comfort, torus, faces,
transformation, Scorpio. Why it works? The Marikshira
woman embodies calm sensuality, grace and mental
curiosity. Venus -Mercury. The Anuradha man brings
devotion, depth and loyalty shaped by Saturn
-Mars Mitra influences. Mitra is the lord of
Anuradha. Their emotional systems contrast but
complete one another. She stabilizes his tom.
He deepens her calm. That's the dynamic. Elemental
balance, earth and water, they are balanced,
so that's good. Water, Scorpio feeds the earth,
Taurus, while earth contains and grounds water's
emotion. The Gana, both Dev Gana, like I said,
I am considering matches only by Gana and not
otherwise. Refined ethics, faith in love and
respect for boundaries. Risk is intensity mismatch.
His passion and possessiveness can overwhelm.
Her steady pace and sensual poise can feel too
placid to him. Both must learn the rhythm of
ebb and flow. Now let's see the emotional part.
Keeping the core chemistry screenshot there as
well as the previous introduction, let's go to
the emotional parts. The emotion, safety, bonding
and repair. How does that happen? How does the
dynamism play out here? Marikshira Taurus, her
desire says, emotional stability, no volatility.
To be valued for loyalty, serenity and refinement.
Time and space to process before reacting. How
he fulfills. Channels intensity into devotion,
not control. I love you because you steady me.
Not don't change. Here's a tip. Change is a given.
Change is a dynamic thing. Even if you consider
the principles of Mahadasha and how you're born,
doesn't matter which chart or which nakshatra,
which whatever, everyone is constantly changing.
There is nothing like a fixed personality. People
just rebel against the time and space that they
are having, isn't it? Remember that always. There
is no such thing as no change in a relationship.
It dynamically changes through time. The question
becomes, are you too fixed or fixated in yourself
that you are not allowing the other person to
grow? Protect her from external chaos. Handle
confrontations himself. This is how he fulfills.
Express possessiveness through acts of service,
not surveillance. fixing and supporting. After
conflict, apologize in touch, not theory. Mercury
there. A calm embrace means more than long talks.
So much can be said in that, isn't it? Now, talking
about him, Anuradha Scorpio, his desires, deep
emotional merging. If you see the theme of Anuradha
Nakshatra, I have covered that in that other
playlist, very long playlist. The most comprehensive
one on YouTube I might add. Just pat on my back.
I have covered Anuradhas. It requires emotional
merging. The highest emotional merging gives
Anuradha the highest orgasm. They are seeking
that. Mutual spiritual trust. Validation of loyalty.
Fear of betrayal. Soothed by reassurance. Shared
transformation. Kind of a stretch there. You
can't really share transformation. Each one is
going at their own pace. But never mind. Sometimes
GPT gets very poetic, I've seen. He wants a partner
to evolve with, not just coexist. How she fulfills.
Offer predictable affection. Same greeting, good
night ritual. Small share vulnerabilities. Sorry.
Share small vulnerability. Show trust and draws
him closer. Avoid dismissing his depth as too
much. Instead, name its beauty. I admire how
deeply you feel. See the difference in the cadence
there. Very different. During emotional storms,
stay physically present. Her silence and grounding
touch stabilize him. There's a lot of touch that
is required for Mrikshira. Again, there's a hint.
Mars requires that touch. Mars has physicality.
Isn't it? Let's see the physical part now. Physical
intimacy now. Chemistry, cadence and turn -ons.
Remember when we're talking about physical chemistry,
kinesthetics. Remember the introduction. Or rewind
and go back to the introduction. You need to
see what physical part of the planets are playing
out, even as in rent, how it is playing out.
Okay? Examine your chart, examine her chart.
And then you can come to this. Mrikshira Taurus
desires sensual stability, tactile pleasure,
Mars nakshatra, slowness, rhythmic connection,
safe aesthetic settings, beauty enhances arousal,
like I said Venus, make your living room, you
know, nice, soothing, candle, scent, perfume,
perfume yourself. have a nice shower whatever,
people smell partner who notices nuance, tempo,
breath, small sounds very tactile, see it's very
kinesthetic tactile kind of thing and therefore
you have to see the planetary counterparts you
have to fulfill the Venus and Mercury in addition
to the moon to have that perfect blend it's like
making a perfect drink for an evening How he
fulfills Anuradha's style is merge intensity
with reverence. Treat her body as a sacred ground.
Let emotional closeness precede passion. Again,
you have to go in that direction. You have to
start with mental, then emotional, then come
to physical. Don't say you and I have this interest
in common. First three dates and let's get laid.
That's highly childish. Without seeing any of
this, then good luck with your love life. She
needs her heart First, use music, fragrance,
gentle lighting. She responds to sensory refinement.
Match his depth to her pace, linger. Devotion
turns her on more than dominance. Anuradha is
a soft nakshatra, ruled by Mitra. So that statement
becomes very relevant here. Anuradha, Scorpio,
him, how he desires things in his physical sexual
life. Emotional spiritual intimacy for Ananda
is very, very important to have that connect.
They are default spiritual people. Although being
a Saturn ruled nakshatra, it requires that slow,
long, steady bonding. Eye contact, shared breath,
full body connection. The way, if it is properly
refined, that's the caveat. If it is properly
understood, refined and embodied, Another people
can have the best orgasms ever. Surrender to
fusion. He wants to lose himself safely. A partner
who can handle passion without fear. How she
fulfills it? Because miksha is a little light,
isn't it, in taurus. It's an earth sign with
Mars nakshatra in it. Meet intensity with steady
sensuality. Stay rooted when he deepens. Acknowledge
his passion verbally or responsive moans. It
validates his emotional charge. He requires validation.
Post -intimacy stillness. Stroke his back. Whisper
gratitude. His security deepens when he feels
accepted after revealing his vulnerability. So
crucial there. A big line. Avoid withholding
touch. Even small affection maintains his calm.
Let's wrap this up. Bottom lines of this combination
now. Rituals and micro -practices that fit this
pairing. Anchor in -depth ritual weekly. She
prepares calming environment, candles, tea ceremony
and so on. He shares thoughts or fears. She listens.
He relaxes. That's one good ritual to have in
anyone. Sacred bath. Water and earth fusion.
Shared bath. Foot soak. Symbolic cleansing of
stress. Or water and earth can also do very well
with massages. Because there's all the earth
element there. Touch before talk rule. Any heavy
discussion starts with a hug. Prevents defensive
tones. Trust tokens. Each keeps an object symbolizing
the other's love, like a stone or crystal bracelet
or something like that. Use during travel to
calm anxiety. Loyalty affirmations. Once a month,
not promises, but reflections. Here's one way
I stayed for you this month. These are practices,
micro -rituals. Rituals are so important, they
are neglected actually. What you can do as a
ritual daily goes a long way. Mind -body -emotional
snapshot. For her, Mrikshira Taurus. Mind, listen
with calm, speak truth with gently. To your Anuragha
counterpart. Emotion, reassure his depth through
steadiness, not logic. Body, maintain sensual
rhythm, bring subtle novelty. For him, Anuradha
Scorpio. Mind. Questionless. Appreciate more.
Emotion. Show devotion without control. Guard
her peace. Body. Lead with emotional foreplay.
Balance intensity with aftercare. So the bottom
line. Finally. Mrikshira Taurus woman and Anuradha
Scorpio man is a stability meeting depth. It's
a union of beauty and mystery. Both together
these two elements are combined in this partnership.
When her serenity anchors his passion, his loyalty
deepens her trust. The one -seven moon axis becomes
a sacred mirror that fosters sensual peace and
emotional transcendence. This love feels like
water holding hidden fire. Hidden fire, Scorpio.
Tender, protective and enduring through lifetimes.
I'll see you in the next with the next combination
which will be As you can see there is nothing
in the 4th place and 10th place that is Devana.
So we will directly jump to Murukshira with Revati
in the 11th house. Take care, be safe.