WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.359 morning wonderful people welcome to my channel 00:00:02.359 --> 00:00:05.480 before i get into this intimacy podcast we are 00:00:05.480 --> 00:00:09.199 checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following 00:00:09.199 --> 00:00:11.740 the following four points i wanted to give you 00:00:11.740 --> 00:00:14.000 an introduction before i get into it if you've 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:17.579 seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome 00:00:17.579 --> 00:00:21.079 to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology 00:00:21.079 --> 00:00:23.839 anyway number one what am i considering here 00:00:24.650 --> 00:00:27.649 Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That 00:00:27.649 --> 00:00:29.670 is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana. 00:00:29.789 --> 00:00:31.690 We will see that. As we go along, we will see 00:00:31.690 --> 00:00:34.890 that. I will keep giving different points for 00:00:34.890 --> 00:00:38.789 you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using 00:00:38.789 --> 00:00:41.030 this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury 00:00:41.030 --> 00:00:45.189 and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement, 00:00:45.409 --> 00:00:46.770 wherever they are, whichever house they are, 00:00:46.929 --> 00:00:49.909 check all these three when you are doing a voluntary 00:00:49.909 --> 00:00:53.549 or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go 00:00:53.549 --> 00:00:56.049 blindly only by the moon check all of these three 00:00:56.049 --> 00:00:59.509 as well because all of those each one of those 00:00:59.509 --> 00:01:02.789 plays a part in mental emotional and physical 00:01:02.789 --> 00:01:07.170 agility that is required if there is too much 00:01:07.170 --> 00:01:11.209 stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to 00:01:11.209 --> 00:01:14.549 absorb be willing to work with oneself first 00:01:14.549 --> 00:01:17.209 always self comes first there's so many things 00:01:17.209 --> 00:01:19.129 i shared on the google drive you can see even 00:01:19.129 --> 00:01:22.579 the community post You can look that up, use 00:01:22.579 --> 00:01:25.000 that, share it, whatever. Number three, these 00:01:25.000 --> 00:01:28.420 podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy, 00:01:28.700 --> 00:01:32.159 considering in the subcontinent of India earlier 00:01:32.159 --> 00:01:34.760 they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:36.560 are just going around sleeping with everyone, 00:01:36.700 --> 00:01:40.299 youngsters. This is a madness which people are 00:01:40.299 --> 00:01:42.400 living their old culture. There was some wisdom 00:01:42.400 --> 00:01:46.340 in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking, 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:50.620 use these principles along with going to a traditional 00:01:50.620 --> 00:01:54.140 Jyotish for example okay for all those who are 00:01:54.140 --> 00:01:57.000 matching the moon in the charts have this as 00:01:57.000 --> 00:01:59.819 a guideline to begin with get some understanding 00:01:59.819 --> 00:02:04.340 don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in 00:02:04.340 --> 00:02:07.900 this day and age dating one another the dating 00:02:07.900 --> 00:02:09.879 business which we have borrowed from the western 00:02:09.879 --> 00:02:12.699 civilization never mind i don't want to dig that 00:02:12.699 --> 00:02:15.400 rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:18.039 link in description box in each podcast. The 00:02:18.039 --> 00:02:20.580 files are there. Use them for your own analysis. 00:02:20.759 --> 00:02:23.020 You can do it with AI, you can do it with whatever. 00:02:24.159 --> 00:02:28.319 So we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. Now 00:02:28.319 --> 00:02:31.960 let us try to match the intimacy aspects between 00:02:31.960 --> 00:02:36.099 Mrikshira and Pushya. Man or woman, in this case 00:02:36.099 --> 00:02:38.419 we are taking Mrikshira woman and Pushya man. 00:02:39.189 --> 00:02:41.590 because typically people think cancer means women 00:02:41.590 --> 00:02:44.069 so that's why I'm changing the genders just so 00:02:44.069 --> 00:02:47.090 you get an idea that this is not gender specific 00:02:47.090 --> 00:02:51.169 this is moon specific this is lunar kind of astrology 00:02:51.169 --> 00:02:55.949 isn't it before that though something that you 00:02:55.949 --> 00:02:59.270 need to understand about intimacy itself as an 00:02:59.270 --> 00:03:02.449 aspect this is my self discovery along the journey 00:03:02.449 --> 00:03:07.289 of life why is it important to know yourself 00:03:07.890 --> 00:03:11.330 Be intimate with your own parts, in your own 00:03:11.330 --> 00:03:13.669 chart, all aspects, light, shadow, everything 00:03:13.669 --> 00:03:17.129 put together. Why is that important? We talk 00:03:17.129 --> 00:03:20.449 of kindness. That's the first step, isn't it? 00:03:20.550 --> 00:03:23.750 Even in intimacy. Even in the new human being 00:03:23.750 --> 00:03:26.569 model, I have put it there. Kindness, we have 00:03:26.569 --> 00:03:28.830 forgotten that. In this world, everything is 00:03:28.830 --> 00:03:31.650 about criticism more than kindness. We have to 00:03:31.650 --> 00:03:33.610 shift that energy a little bit. It's happening 00:03:33.610 --> 00:03:37.409 in this new energy. Kindness, how will you get 00:03:37.409 --> 00:03:40.210 kindness? Unless you know all parts of yourself 00:03:40.210 --> 00:03:43.530 first, you don't know how to be that with others. 00:03:43.750 --> 00:03:46.370 It is your personal experience that has to happen 00:03:46.370 --> 00:03:49.729 in life, isn't it? So understand this from that 00:03:49.729 --> 00:03:52.990 perspective. Now let's get back to Murikshira 00:03:52.990 --> 00:03:55.629 woman and Pushya man. So there is still that 00:03:55.629 --> 00:03:59.490 one -three dynamic. Murikshira is in Taurus and 00:03:59.490 --> 00:04:01.949 Pushya is in Cancer. So there is that water and 00:04:01.949 --> 00:04:04.939 earth element dynamic once again. just like it 00:04:04.939 --> 00:04:08.719 was in Punarvasu last bada. So the mind, communication 00:04:08.719 --> 00:04:12.400 pacing and thought style. Even this thought styles 00:04:12.400 --> 00:04:14.979 you through the playlist of eclectic astrology 00:04:14.979 --> 00:04:19.040 which is got more like NLP, MBTI, Enneagram all 00:04:19.040 --> 00:04:21.540 that just to create a bridge or even I Ching 00:04:21.540 --> 00:04:24.639 and Gene Keys just to create a bridge. All these 00:04:24.639 --> 00:04:27.399 bridges that I am kind of building from different 00:04:27.399 --> 00:04:31.779 forms of learning esoteric sciences back to the 00:04:31.800 --> 00:04:34.860 Vedic Astrology and Nakshatras is to understand 00:04:34.860 --> 00:04:38.040 that there is a commonality of other systems 00:04:38.040 --> 00:04:41.459 which tie back to this one. Although this one 00:04:41.459 --> 00:04:44.120 doesn't go forward to all of those. This has 00:04:44.120 --> 00:04:46.720 got far more depth in it, Vedic Astrology. That's 00:04:46.720 --> 00:04:52.100 why I stick to this. Mirkshira Taurus Moon, mind 00:04:52.100 --> 00:04:55.180 communication and thought style. So what are 00:04:55.180 --> 00:04:58.939 her desires as Mirkshira? Calm, aesthetically 00:04:58.939 --> 00:05:02.100 pleasing to talk. No harsh words. That's what 00:05:02.100 --> 00:05:05.379 she desires in the mind. Stability, predictability 00:05:05.379 --> 00:05:08.759 in planning. A partner who listens to nuances 00:05:08.759 --> 00:05:12.379 and respects boundaries. So many boundaries are 00:05:12.379 --> 00:05:14.259 being crossed in partnerships. How do you expect 00:05:14.259 --> 00:05:17.180 to create any intimacies? You should generally 00:05:17.180 --> 00:05:19.000 take care of that. Doesn't matter which nakshatra 00:05:19.000 --> 00:05:23.259 you are. How he fulfills the pushya style. Speak 00:05:23.259 --> 00:05:26.560 with emotional courtesy, soft tone and clear 00:05:26.560 --> 00:05:30.500 promises. Again, promises need not be kept. Just 00:05:30.500 --> 00:05:33.279 keep your word. Promise is a very big word and 00:05:33.279 --> 00:05:38.000 very highly abused. Turn his caring nature into 00:05:38.000 --> 00:05:41.279 reassuring structure. I've handled this. Rest 00:05:41.279 --> 00:05:46.420 is easy. Oh sorry, rest easy. That made a hell 00:05:46.420 --> 00:05:49.120 of a difference, isn't it? Encourage her curiosity 00:05:49.120 --> 00:05:51.639 by grounding it. Let's explore that, but we'll 00:05:51.639 --> 00:05:55.420 keep our base safe. These are all tips which 00:05:55.420 --> 00:05:58.500 is provided by artificial intelligence. Sometimes 00:05:58.500 --> 00:06:02.139 it's artificial stupidity really. Repeat commitments. 00:06:02.300 --> 00:06:05.139 She finds security in consistency of phrase and 00:06:05.139 --> 00:06:09.560 action. Pushya. Cancer. Him. So now I put the 00:06:09.560 --> 00:06:12.800 man as a sensitive cancerian. Dialogue that feels 00:06:12.800 --> 00:06:16.100 safe and morally sound and respect for tradition. 00:06:16.300 --> 00:06:18.839 That's what Pushya wants. Pushya is highly traditional 00:06:18.839 --> 00:06:21.899 in nature in cancer. Ashlesha has a different 00:06:21.899 --> 00:06:24.600 energy. We shall see that later. But I'm saying 00:06:24.600 --> 00:06:30.759 Pushya comes in the Nakshatra of Saturn. It's 00:06:30.759 --> 00:06:33.220 a Saturn rule nakshatra sitting in the exaltation 00:06:33.220 --> 00:06:37.459 of Jupiter and in sign of moon. A mix. Tremendous 00:06:37.459 --> 00:06:40.779 amount of potential. Guru -like. Okay? And look 00:06:40.779 --> 00:06:42.819 at that fully sound and respectful. That's what 00:06:42.819 --> 00:06:46.639 he wants. Mentally. To be appreciated as a protector, 00:06:47.319 --> 00:06:51.459 a provider and a guide. A partner who values 00:06:51.459 --> 00:06:55.860 family and emotional continuity. How she fulfills 00:06:55.860 --> 00:06:59.430 it, her style, Mirkshira style. offers gratitude 00:06:59.430 --> 00:07:02.649 through actions, not lectures, a warm meal, aesthetic 00:07:02.649 --> 00:07:06.370 home gesture. Too many words being used these 00:07:06.370 --> 00:07:08.310 days thrown around with social media, isn't it? 00:07:08.350 --> 00:07:12.269 Just verbiage, garbage. There is not much of 00:07:12.269 --> 00:07:16.009 all involvement of action. Word is not followed 00:07:16.009 --> 00:07:20.110 by action. This is why the words like I love 00:07:20.110 --> 00:07:24.209 you lose meaning really fast. Everybody loves 00:07:24.209 --> 00:07:26.370 that everybody for five minutes and then drops 00:07:26.370 --> 00:07:28.899 out of the bed. That's not intimacy, isn't it? 00:07:29.079 --> 00:07:32.899 That's foolishness. Affirm his integrity. I love 00:07:32.899 --> 00:07:36.860 you dependable. I love how dependable you are. 00:07:38.040 --> 00:07:40.839 Sorry, a little groggy today. Let him lead the 00:07:40.839 --> 00:07:43.560 moral frame while she brings creative refinements. 00:07:43.800 --> 00:07:47.720 Avoid sarcasm. Avoid for every nakshatra. I mean, 00:07:47.860 --> 00:07:51.300 these are general tips, isn't it? Sarcasm is 00:07:51.300 --> 00:07:54.399 just passive -aggressive. It's violence if you're 00:07:54.399 --> 00:07:57.490 just being with your partner like this. You don't 00:07:57.490 --> 00:07:59.889 know what they are going through. If you don't 00:07:59.889 --> 00:08:02.689 know what to say, silence is better than giving 00:08:02.689 --> 00:08:06.509 a rant or sarcasm. Replace with humor and tenderness. 00:08:06.870 --> 00:08:11.470 He reads tone more than content. Now let's see 00:08:11.470 --> 00:08:14.610 the emotional part of things. So let's talk of 00:08:14.610 --> 00:08:17.370 the emotional side, safety, bonding and repair 00:08:17.370 --> 00:08:20.730 part of it. Rikshira taurs what she desires, 00:08:20.970 --> 00:08:24.889 emotional serenity. No unpredictable swings. 00:08:26.560 --> 00:08:30.019 Slow affection that deepens rather than flares. 00:08:30.339 --> 00:08:33.379 So there is this slow steady energy there. To 00:08:33.379 --> 00:08:35.840 be cherished for loyalty and taste, not pushed 00:08:35.840 --> 00:08:38.980 for change. Mrikshira loves a quiet, explorative 00:08:38.980 --> 00:08:42.299 type of energy as an Akshatra. So this is what 00:08:42.299 --> 00:08:45.120 she needs. How he fulfills. Keep home rhythms, 00:08:45.159 --> 00:08:47.820 predictable, same bedtime talk, same morning 00:08:47.820 --> 00:08:52.200 tea, rituals and so on. After conflict, use gentle 00:08:52.200 --> 00:08:54.759 physical reassurance, hand holding, shoulder 00:08:54.759 --> 00:09:00.080 touch. Okay? Protect her from chaos. She blooms 00:09:00.080 --> 00:09:05.659 when life feels orderly. Praise her for steadiness 00:09:05.659 --> 00:09:11.039 allowed. She rarely self promotes. Pushya. Cancer. 00:09:11.500 --> 00:09:15.259 What does he desire? Emotional response and warmth. 00:09:16.179 --> 00:09:20.960 His giving must land somewhere. Respect and reassurance 00:09:20.960 --> 00:09:24.980 that his care is valued. Emotional reciprocation, 00:09:25.159 --> 00:09:28.539 he thrives on shared responsibility. There is 00:09:28.539 --> 00:09:31.059 a dynamic of earth and water as you are following 00:09:31.059 --> 00:09:34.980 this, isn't it? How she fulfils it now, mirror 00:09:34.980 --> 00:09:37.200 his affection immediately, even briefly, you 00:09:37.200 --> 00:09:40.759 make me feel safe, type of approach. When he 00:09:40.759 --> 00:09:43.360 withdraws into duty, which is a tendency of Pushya 00:09:43.360 --> 00:09:46.580 by the way, invite him back softly, with sensory 00:09:46.580 --> 00:09:49.179 cues, music, candlelight, like hints, you know, 00:09:49.440 --> 00:09:53.460 subtle hints, subtle cues. Keep ritual of gratitude, 00:09:53.679 --> 00:09:57.200 weekly note, touch of appreciation. Cancer loves 00:09:57.200 --> 00:09:59.379 appreciation. You need to appreciate cancer. 00:09:59.960 --> 00:10:02.320 It's the root of everything. It's the first of 00:10:02.320 --> 00:10:06.080 the female sattvic science. So you gotta appreciate 00:10:06.080 --> 00:10:10.059 all this. Avoid shutting down during its protective 00:10:10.059 --> 00:10:13.240 mould. Thank, then reopen for conversation later, 00:10:13.500 --> 00:10:16.039 giving space, something that partners do not 00:10:16.039 --> 00:10:19.159 understand. Especially women of this day and 00:10:19.159 --> 00:10:21.399 age, my god, they don't understand boundaries. 00:10:21.679 --> 00:10:24.179 They expect one, but they don't provide one. 00:10:24.200 --> 00:10:26.059 Which is a common theme I'm seeing everywhere 00:10:26.059 --> 00:10:29.080 in social media. Too many expectations from women. 00:10:29.799 --> 00:10:32.820 Too many entitled women. And that's why they 00:10:32.820 --> 00:10:35.039 are losing out on all the good partners, isn't 00:10:35.039 --> 00:10:37.720 it? There's always a reason how things unfold 00:10:37.720 --> 00:10:41.240 and why they unfold. Which we are doing now. 00:10:41.480 --> 00:10:44.379 Nakshatra, but also considering elementals. So 00:10:44.379 --> 00:10:46.940 whenever you see this kind of a dynamic, Think 00:10:46.940 --> 00:10:49.740 about those elementals. Earth holds the water, 00:10:49.860 --> 00:10:53.019 not the other way round, isn't it? So wherever 00:10:53.019 --> 00:10:56.399 the Earth's sign, which in this case is Taurus, 00:10:56.879 --> 00:10:59.440 right, the leaf sign there, and the Cancer has 00:10:59.440 --> 00:11:03.259 water. So Earth, Mrikshira has to hold Pushyam 00:11:03.259 --> 00:11:05.580 more. Okay, think of that as a dynamic. This 00:11:05.580 --> 00:11:08.120 will become clearer as we go through other nakshatras. 00:11:08.460 --> 00:11:11.679 Anyway, let's come back to this. So physical 00:11:11.679 --> 00:11:16.129 intimacy, chemistry, cadence and turn -ons. Again, 00:11:16.370 --> 00:11:19.230 it is kinesthetics. Use all five senses. Do not 00:11:19.230 --> 00:11:22.830 ignore a single sense. This is my cautionary 00:11:22.830 --> 00:11:25.690 advice to all you guys. Men and women out there 00:11:25.690 --> 00:11:29.909 listening to this. All five senses. Have you 00:11:29.909 --> 00:11:32.789 tasted your partner? Smelled your partner? Touched 00:11:32.789 --> 00:11:36.330 your partner? Hugged them? Have you looked at 00:11:36.330 --> 00:11:39.710 them? Eyesight? People don't even look properly. 00:11:40.830 --> 00:11:42.850 They're just seeing what they have to see from 00:11:42.850 --> 00:11:46.669 their filters, isn't it? In LP. Never mind. Mirkshira, 00:11:46.669 --> 00:11:50.710 Taurus, her desires, slow sensuality, beautiful 00:11:50.710 --> 00:11:54.009 surroundings and tactile security. He needs security. 00:11:54.250 --> 00:11:56.950 Mirkshira is soft nakshatra, symbolized by deer, 00:11:57.129 --> 00:12:01.009 isn't it? Partner who notices details, skin texture, 00:12:01.909 --> 00:12:04.070 breath rhythm and temperature. See, we're getting 00:12:04.070 --> 00:12:06.830 kinesthetic now, isn't it? All these are kinesthetic. 00:12:07.549 --> 00:12:11.370 Safety before surrender. Very, very important. 00:12:11.529 --> 00:12:14.950 That's why emotional and mental alignment is 00:12:14.950 --> 00:12:19.289 so crucial if you want to maintain intimacy this 00:12:19.289 --> 00:12:21.850 day and age it's very easy to find lovers it's 00:12:21.850 --> 00:12:24.570 very difficult to find good intimate friends 00:12:24.570 --> 00:12:28.629 friends I'm saying not necessarily your bed partners 00:12:28.629 --> 00:12:31.850 see you can sleep in the same bed for decades 00:12:31.850 --> 00:12:34.049 on end as couples even and not have anything 00:12:34.049 --> 00:12:37.590 going on that's where we are coming from folks 00:12:37.590 --> 00:12:41.490 intimacy how to maintain it not your honeymoon 00:12:41.490 --> 00:12:44.919 phase Okay, how he fulfills Pusha's style. Begin 00:12:44.919 --> 00:12:47.700 with emotional foreplay, conversation, praise, 00:12:48.039 --> 00:12:50.320 gentle jokes. Where are all this gone, you might 00:12:50.320 --> 00:12:54.179 say? Keep lighting and temperature warm. Water 00:12:54.179 --> 00:12:58.440 element loves ambience. Alternate nurturing and 00:12:58.440 --> 00:13:01.220 passion, like massage, like embrace, like eye 00:13:01.220 --> 00:13:06.120 contact, all kinesthetic elements. End with holding. 00:13:06.320 --> 00:13:11.980 She associates after touch with trust. So touching, 00:13:12.340 --> 00:13:15.360 for Marikshira, apparently, is a sign of trust. 00:13:15.500 --> 00:13:20.100 I trust you. But again, that comes after the 00:13:20.100 --> 00:13:22.639 emotional connect has been made. Otherwise, there 00:13:22.639 --> 00:13:24.799 is no sense of security. There's just violation 00:13:24.799 --> 00:13:27.980 of boundaries, isn't it? Pushya, cancer, what 00:13:27.980 --> 00:13:31.600 does he desire? Emotional connection as a prerequisite 00:13:31.600 --> 00:13:34.639 to desire. Expressions of gratitude and gentle 00:13:34.639 --> 00:13:39.460 devotion. Cancer. Acts of caring eroticism. That's 00:13:39.460 --> 00:13:43.980 more in Ashlesha. But it begins in Pusha. Nurturing 00:13:43.980 --> 00:13:48.039 the partner is foreplay. Nurture him. Know that 00:13:48.039 --> 00:13:51.799 he is taken care of. Welcoming. How she fulfills 00:13:51.799 --> 00:13:55.539 it? Her style. Express sensual gratitude. Touch 00:13:55.539 --> 00:13:58.419 his hand when thanking him. Allow him to initiate 00:13:58.419 --> 00:14:01.440 with care. Respond with softness, not surprise. 00:14:02.019 --> 00:14:05.200 Create a safe nest. A safe space. One of the 00:14:05.200 --> 00:14:07.820 big, big, big elements of intimacy. People don't 00:14:07.820 --> 00:14:12.139 feel safe without the one. Because a lot is judged 00:14:12.139 --> 00:14:15.440 and separated rather than understood or absorbed. 00:14:16.039 --> 00:14:19.240 That doesn't create safety. I don't care if you're 00:14:19.240 --> 00:14:21.679 married for 50 years and celebrating some fake 00:14:21.679 --> 00:14:24.759 anniversary, okay? There has to be safety with 00:14:24.759 --> 00:14:27.419 one another. I have seen tons of couples and 00:14:27.419 --> 00:14:30.679 being a light worker and sensitive around even 00:14:30.679 --> 00:14:32.960 a restaurant, for example. If I go to a restaurant, 00:14:33.059 --> 00:14:35.679 I see couples all the time. There is so much 00:14:35.679 --> 00:14:39.519 not there. It's just they are couple they're 00:14:39.519 --> 00:14:42.340 smiling for the camera. Maybe when they introduce 00:14:42.340 --> 00:14:44.779 themselves as husband why there's nothing there 00:14:44.779 --> 00:14:48.720 There is no safety. I sense a big absence of 00:14:48.720 --> 00:14:52.679 safety in couples in when we talk of intimacy 00:14:52.679 --> 00:14:56.379 these days needs to be You know revitalized I 00:14:56.379 --> 00:14:59.799 guess so create a tidy space pleasant fragrance 00:14:59.799 --> 00:15:03.700 and slow music Complement his body or tenderness. 00:15:03.700 --> 00:15:08.519 He rarely feels admired physically. Now let's 00:15:08.519 --> 00:15:12.440 conclude with all the bottom lines. So let's 00:15:12.440 --> 00:15:16.740 wrap up Pusha Amrakshira with bottom lines. Rituals 00:15:16.740 --> 00:15:20.240 and micro practices that fit this particular 00:15:20.240 --> 00:15:23.799 pairing. Home rituals nightly, every night. Both 00:15:23.799 --> 00:15:27.419 share one comfort they enjoyed, one cares they 00:15:27.419 --> 00:15:32.320 gave. Sorry, one care they gave. I was thinking 00:15:32.320 --> 00:15:35.139 what am I reading? Garden and Earth monthly, 00:15:35.240 --> 00:15:38.720 she chooses one aesthetic upgrade, flowers, decor 00:15:38.720 --> 00:15:41.580 and so on. And he builds or maintains something 00:15:41.580 --> 00:15:45.620 practical, a shelf, a fix, something. These rituals 00:15:45.620 --> 00:15:48.039 you can derive on your own also later, okay? 00:15:48.419 --> 00:15:51.120 Water -Earth meditation, that's very good for 00:15:51.120 --> 00:15:54.120 this because of the elemental connection. She 00:15:54.120 --> 00:15:57.019 needs to do an earth ritual, he needs to do a 00:15:57.019 --> 00:15:58.960 water ritual, that kind of a thing, exchange 00:15:58.960 --> 00:16:02.509 your elements. Share a bath, foot soak, ten minute 00:16:02.509 --> 00:16:07.950 silence, closeness. Just hold each other naked 00:16:07.950 --> 00:16:11.669 and not engage in anything. Why dare you try 00:16:11.669 --> 00:16:15.629 such things? Releasing stress. Sunday supper 00:16:15.629 --> 00:16:18.549 of gratitude. Same meal, same time, each names 00:16:18.549 --> 00:16:22.730 one small appreciation. People forget that intimacy 00:16:22.730 --> 00:16:25.049 is not like a birthday that happens once a year. 00:16:25.129 --> 00:16:27.590 You have to carry this out every day like you 00:16:27.590 --> 00:16:31.360 brush your teeth. Mind, Emotion, Body, Snapshot. 00:16:31.600 --> 00:16:35.580 For her, Mrikshira Taurus, Mind, stay open to 00:16:35.580 --> 00:16:37.820 his guidance. He's a good guide, by the way. 00:16:38.039 --> 00:16:41.820 Pusha is a very good guide. I have Mercury in 00:16:41.820 --> 00:16:46.100 Pusha, ask me. Voice preferences gently. Emotion, 00:16:46.559 --> 00:16:48.960 accept protection without surrendering autonomy. 00:16:49.620 --> 00:16:53.639 Very critical. Body, slow rhythm, beauty, small 00:16:53.639 --> 00:16:57.580 novelty each time. For him, Pusha, Mind. Guide 00:16:57.580 --> 00:17:00.299 softly, not parentally. Don't try to teach him. 00:17:00.320 --> 00:17:03.679 He himself is a teacher. Emotion. Express care 00:17:03.679 --> 00:17:08.660 through consistency, not control. Body. Create 00:17:08.660 --> 00:17:12.480 safe sensual space and respond to her subtle 00:17:12.480 --> 00:17:15.839 cues. That's how you align these. We are trying 00:17:15.839 --> 00:17:19.700 to align both their energies. Bottom line. This 00:17:19.700 --> 00:17:22.700 Mrikshira, Taurus woman and Pushya cancer man 00:17:22.700 --> 00:17:26.380 union is the archetype of steady devotion with 00:17:26.380 --> 00:17:29.559 elegant tenderness. Wonderfully put. That's one 00:17:29.559 --> 00:17:32.420 thing Janjipati is good at. Putting things in 00:17:32.420 --> 00:17:35.880 a, you know, nice verbiage I can't think of with 00:17:35.880 --> 00:17:39.279 my brain fried in these energies. The earth water 00:17:39.279 --> 00:17:42.500 chemistry ensures longevity. The one three moon 00:17:42.500 --> 00:17:45.859 link provides mental cooperation and deva -deva 00:17:45.859 --> 00:17:49.000 -gana combination ethos keeps the tone respectful 00:17:49.000 --> 00:17:52.839 and pure that's why we are matching by ganas 00:17:52.839 --> 00:17:57.440 because their very very deep core drive is very 00:17:57.440 --> 00:18:00.359 respectful and pure they are seeking higher wisdom 00:18:00.359 --> 00:18:05.039 when they blend their sensual artistry with this 00:18:05.039 --> 00:18:07.039 nurturing leadership the relationship becomes 00:18:07.039 --> 00:18:10.359 a sanctuary grounded enough to last gentle enough 00:18:10.359 --> 00:18:13.339 to heal and sensual enough to stay alive One 00:18:13.339 --> 00:18:16.900 point I wanted to make before I finish up. I 00:18:16.900 --> 00:18:20.259 said Deva -Deva connection. You have to see the 00:18:20.259 --> 00:18:22.640 Ascendant. You have to see Venus. You have to 00:18:22.640 --> 00:18:26.660 see Mercury also. When you talk of intimacy, 00:18:26.819 --> 00:18:29.740 all these have to be evaluated with the Moon. 00:18:30.619 --> 00:18:33.640 Okay? Take care that those are also in Devaganas. 00:18:33.720 --> 00:18:36.119 That will be the most ideal. Wherever they are 00:18:36.119 --> 00:18:38.160 in the chart, doesn't matter. If they are in 00:18:38.160 --> 00:18:40.279 Devaganas, they are thinking on a higher plane 00:18:40.279 --> 00:18:43.720 of something. If the other ones are in Raksha's 00:18:43.720 --> 00:18:47.279 Ganas and only this is in Devana, sorry that's 00:18:47.279 --> 00:18:49.519 not happening like a magic, you have to work 00:18:49.519 --> 00:18:52.980 at it consciously. I'll see you in the next day, 00:18:53.059 --> 00:18:53.779 care, be safe.