morning wonderful people welcome to my channel
before i get into this intimacy podcast we are
checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following
the following four points i wanted to give you
an introduction before i get into it if you've
seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome
to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology
anyway number one what am i considering here
Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That
is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana.
We will see that. As we go along, we will see
that. I will keep giving different points for
you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using
this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury
and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement,
wherever they are, whichever house they are,
check all these three when you are doing a voluntary
or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go
blindly only by the moon check all of these three
as well because all of those each one of those
plays a part in mental emotional and physical
agility that is required if there is too much
stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to
absorb be willing to work with oneself first
always self comes first there's so many things
i shared on the google drive you can see even
the community post You can look that up, use
that, share it, whatever. Number three, these
podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy,
considering in the subcontinent of India earlier
they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people
are just going around sleeping with everyone,
youngsters. This is a madness which people are
living their old culture. There was some wisdom
in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking,
use these principles along with going to a traditional
Jyotish for example okay for all those who are
matching the moon in the charts have this as
a guideline to begin with get some understanding
don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in
this day and age dating one another the dating
business which we have borrowed from the western
civilization never mind i don't want to dig that
rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive
link in description box in each podcast. The
files are there. Use them for your own analysis.
You can do it with AI, you can do it with whatever.
So we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. Now
let us try to match the intimacy aspects between
Mrikshira and Pushya. Man or woman, in this case
we are taking Mrikshira woman and Pushya man.
because typically people think cancer means women
so that's why I'm changing the genders just so
you get an idea that this is not gender specific
this is moon specific this is lunar kind of astrology
isn't it before that though something that you
need to understand about intimacy itself as an
aspect this is my self discovery along the journey
of life why is it important to know yourself
Be intimate with your own parts, in your own
chart, all aspects, light, shadow, everything
put together. Why is that important? We talk
of kindness. That's the first step, isn't it?
Even in intimacy. Even in the new human being
model, I have put it there. Kindness, we have
forgotten that. In this world, everything is
about criticism more than kindness. We have to
shift that energy a little bit. It's happening
in this new energy. Kindness, how will you get
kindness? Unless you know all parts of yourself
first, you don't know how to be that with others.
It is your personal experience that has to happen
in life, isn't it? So understand this from that
perspective. Now let's get back to Murikshira
woman and Pushya man. So there is still that
one -three dynamic. Murikshira is in Taurus and
Pushya is in Cancer. So there is that water and
earth element dynamic once again. just like it
was in Punarvasu last bada. So the mind, communication
pacing and thought style. Even this thought styles
you through the playlist of eclectic astrology
which is got more like NLP, MBTI, Enneagram all
that just to create a bridge or even I Ching
and Gene Keys just to create a bridge. All these
bridges that I am kind of building from different
forms of learning esoteric sciences back to the
Vedic Astrology and Nakshatras is to understand
that there is a commonality of other systems
which tie back to this one. Although this one
doesn't go forward to all of those. This has
got far more depth in it, Vedic Astrology. That's
why I stick to this. Mirkshira Taurus Moon, mind
communication and thought style. So what are
her desires as Mirkshira? Calm, aesthetically
pleasing to talk. No harsh words. That's what
she desires in the mind. Stability, predictability
in planning. A partner who listens to nuances
and respects boundaries. So many boundaries are
being crossed in partnerships. How do you expect
to create any intimacies? You should generally
take care of that. Doesn't matter which nakshatra
you are. How he fulfills the pushya style. Speak
with emotional courtesy, soft tone and clear
promises. Again, promises need not be kept. Just
keep your word. Promise is a very big word and
very highly abused. Turn his caring nature into
reassuring structure. I've handled this. Rest
is easy. Oh sorry, rest easy. That made a hell
of a difference, isn't it? Encourage her curiosity
by grounding it. Let's explore that, but we'll
keep our base safe. These are all tips which
is provided by artificial intelligence. Sometimes
it's artificial stupidity really. Repeat commitments.
She finds security in consistency of phrase and
action. Pushya. Cancer. Him. So now I put the
man as a sensitive cancerian. Dialogue that feels
safe and morally sound and respect for tradition.
That's what Pushya wants. Pushya is highly traditional
in nature in cancer. Ashlesha has a different
energy. We shall see that later. But I'm saying
Pushya comes in the Nakshatra of Saturn. It's
a Saturn rule nakshatra sitting in the exaltation
of Jupiter and in sign of moon. A mix. Tremendous
amount of potential. Guru -like. Okay? And look
at that fully sound and respectful. That's what
he wants. Mentally. To be appreciated as a protector,
a provider and a guide. A partner who values
family and emotional continuity. How she fulfills
it, her style, Mirkshira style. offers gratitude
through actions, not lectures, a warm meal, aesthetic
home gesture. Too many words being used these
days thrown around with social media, isn't it?
Just verbiage, garbage. There is not much of
all involvement of action. Word is not followed
by action. This is why the words like I love
you lose meaning really fast. Everybody loves
that everybody for five minutes and then drops
out of the bed. That's not intimacy, isn't it?
That's foolishness. Affirm his integrity. I love
you dependable. I love how dependable you are.
Sorry, a little groggy today. Let him lead the
moral frame while she brings creative refinements.
Avoid sarcasm. Avoid for every nakshatra. I mean,
these are general tips, isn't it? Sarcasm is
just passive -aggressive. It's violence if you're
just being with your partner like this. You don't
know what they are going through. If you don't
know what to say, silence is better than giving
a rant or sarcasm. Replace with humor and tenderness.
He reads tone more than content. Now let's see
the emotional part of things. So let's talk of
the emotional side, safety, bonding and repair
part of it. Rikshira taurs what she desires,
emotional serenity. No unpredictable swings.
Slow affection that deepens rather than flares.
So there is this slow steady energy there. To
be cherished for loyalty and taste, not pushed
for change. Mrikshira loves a quiet, explorative
type of energy as an Akshatra. So this is what
she needs. How he fulfills. Keep home rhythms,
predictable, same bedtime talk, same morning
tea, rituals and so on. After conflict, use gentle
physical reassurance, hand holding, shoulder
touch. Okay? Protect her from chaos. She blooms
when life feels orderly. Praise her for steadiness
allowed. She rarely self promotes. Pushya. Cancer.
What does he desire? Emotional response and warmth.
His giving must land somewhere. Respect and reassurance
that his care is valued. Emotional reciprocation,
he thrives on shared responsibility. There is
a dynamic of earth and water as you are following
this, isn't it? How she fulfils it now, mirror
his affection immediately, even briefly, you
make me feel safe, type of approach. When he
withdraws into duty, which is a tendency of Pushya
by the way, invite him back softly, with sensory
cues, music, candlelight, like hints, you know,
subtle hints, subtle cues. Keep ritual of gratitude,
weekly note, touch of appreciation. Cancer loves
appreciation. You need to appreciate cancer.
It's the root of everything. It's the first of
the female sattvic science. So you gotta appreciate
all this. Avoid shutting down during its protective
mould. Thank, then reopen for conversation later,
giving space, something that partners do not
understand. Especially women of this day and
age, my god, they don't understand boundaries.
They expect one, but they don't provide one.
Which is a common theme I'm seeing everywhere
in social media. Too many expectations from women.
Too many entitled women. And that's why they
are losing out on all the good partners, isn't
it? There's always a reason how things unfold
and why they unfold. Which we are doing now.
Nakshatra, but also considering elementals. So
whenever you see this kind of a dynamic, Think
about those elementals. Earth holds the water,
not the other way round, isn't it? So wherever
the Earth's sign, which in this case is Taurus,
right, the leaf sign there, and the Cancer has
water. So Earth, Mrikshira has to hold Pushyam
more. Okay, think of that as a dynamic. This
will become clearer as we go through other nakshatras.
Anyway, let's come back to this. So physical
intimacy, chemistry, cadence and turn -ons. Again,
it is kinesthetics. Use all five senses. Do not
ignore a single sense. This is my cautionary
advice to all you guys. Men and women out there
listening to this. All five senses. Have you
tasted your partner? Smelled your partner? Touched
your partner? Hugged them? Have you looked at
them? Eyesight? People don't even look properly.
They're just seeing what they have to see from
their filters, isn't it? In LP. Never mind. Mirkshira,
Taurus, her desires, slow sensuality, beautiful
surroundings and tactile security. He needs security.
Mirkshira is soft nakshatra, symbolized by deer,
isn't it? Partner who notices details, skin texture,
breath rhythm and temperature. See, we're getting
kinesthetic now, isn't it? All these are kinesthetic.
Safety before surrender. Very, very important.
That's why emotional and mental alignment is
so crucial if you want to maintain intimacy this
day and age it's very easy to find lovers it's
very difficult to find good intimate friends
friends I'm saying not necessarily your bed partners
see you can sleep in the same bed for decades
on end as couples even and not have anything
going on that's where we are coming from folks
intimacy how to maintain it not your honeymoon
phase Okay, how he fulfills Pusha's style. Begin
with emotional foreplay, conversation, praise,
gentle jokes. Where are all this gone, you might
say? Keep lighting and temperature warm. Water
element loves ambience. Alternate nurturing and
passion, like massage, like embrace, like eye
contact, all kinesthetic elements. End with holding.
She associates after touch with trust. So touching,
for Marikshira, apparently, is a sign of trust.
I trust you. But again, that comes after the
emotional connect has been made. Otherwise, there
is no sense of security. There's just violation
of boundaries, isn't it? Pushya, cancer, what
does he desire? Emotional connection as a prerequisite
to desire. Expressions of gratitude and gentle
devotion. Cancer. Acts of caring eroticism. That's
more in Ashlesha. But it begins in Pusha. Nurturing
the partner is foreplay. Nurture him. Know that
he is taken care of. Welcoming. How she fulfills
it? Her style. Express sensual gratitude. Touch
his hand when thanking him. Allow him to initiate
with care. Respond with softness, not surprise.
Create a safe nest. A safe space. One of the
big, big, big elements of intimacy. People don't
feel safe without the one. Because a lot is judged
and separated rather than understood or absorbed.
That doesn't create safety. I don't care if you're
married for 50 years and celebrating some fake
anniversary, okay? There has to be safety with
one another. I have seen tons of couples and
being a light worker and sensitive around even
a restaurant, for example. If I go to a restaurant,
I see couples all the time. There is so much
not there. It's just they are couple they're
smiling for the camera. Maybe when they introduce
themselves as husband why there's nothing there
There is no safety. I sense a big absence of
safety in couples in when we talk of intimacy
these days needs to be You know revitalized I
guess so create a tidy space pleasant fragrance
and slow music Complement his body or tenderness.
He rarely feels admired physically. Now let's
conclude with all the bottom lines. So let's
wrap up Pusha Amrakshira with bottom lines. Rituals
and micro practices that fit this particular
pairing. Home rituals nightly, every night. Both
share one comfort they enjoyed, one cares they
gave. Sorry, one care they gave. I was thinking
what am I reading? Garden and Earth monthly,
she chooses one aesthetic upgrade, flowers, decor
and so on. And he builds or maintains something
practical, a shelf, a fix, something. These rituals
you can derive on your own also later, okay?
Water -Earth meditation, that's very good for
this because of the elemental connection. She
needs to do an earth ritual, he needs to do a
water ritual, that kind of a thing, exchange
your elements. Share a bath, foot soak, ten minute
silence, closeness. Just hold each other naked
and not engage in anything. Why dare you try
such things? Releasing stress. Sunday supper
of gratitude. Same meal, same time, each names
one small appreciation. People forget that intimacy
is not like a birthday that happens once a year.
You have to carry this out every day like you
brush your teeth. Mind, Emotion, Body, Snapshot.
For her, Mrikshira Taurus, Mind, stay open to
his guidance. He's a good guide, by the way.
Pusha is a very good guide. I have Mercury in
Pusha, ask me. Voice preferences gently. Emotion,
accept protection without surrendering autonomy.
Very critical. Body, slow rhythm, beauty, small
novelty each time. For him, Pusha, Mind. Guide
softly, not parentally. Don't try to teach him.
He himself is a teacher. Emotion. Express care
through consistency, not control. Body. Create
safe sensual space and respond to her subtle
cues. That's how you align these. We are trying
to align both their energies. Bottom line. This
Mrikshira, Taurus woman and Pushya cancer man
union is the archetype of steady devotion with
elegant tenderness. Wonderfully put. That's one
thing Janjipati is good at. Putting things in
a, you know, nice verbiage I can't think of with
my brain fried in these energies. The earth water
chemistry ensures longevity. The one three moon
link provides mental cooperation and deva -deva
-gana combination ethos keeps the tone respectful
and pure that's why we are matching by ganas
because their very very deep core drive is very
respectful and pure they are seeking higher wisdom
when they blend their sensual artistry with this
nurturing leadership the relationship becomes
a sanctuary grounded enough to last gentle enough
to heal and sensual enough to stay alive One
point I wanted to make before I finish up. I
said Deva -Deva connection. You have to see the
Ascendant. You have to see Venus. You have to
see Mercury also. When you talk of intimacy,
all these have to be evaluated with the Moon.
Okay? Take care that those are also in Devaganas.
That will be the most ideal. Wherever they are
in the chart, doesn't matter. If they are in
Devaganas, they are thinking on a higher plane
of something. If the other ones are in Raksha's
Ganas and only this is in Devana, sorry that's
not happening like a magic, you have to work
at it consciously. I'll see you in the next day,
care, be safe.