morning wonderful people welcome to my channel
before i get into this intimacy podcast we are
checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following
the following four points i wanted to give you
an introduction before i get into it if you've
seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome
to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology
anyway number one what am i considering here
Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That
is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana.
We will see that. As we go along, we will see
that. I will keep giving different points for
you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using
this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury
and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement,
wherever they are, whichever house they are,
check all these three when you are doing a voluntary
or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go
blindly only by the moon check all of these three
as well because all of those each one of those
plays a part in mental emotional and physical
agility that is required if there is too much
stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to
absorb be willing to work with oneself first
always self comes first there's so many things
i shared on the google drive you can see even
the community post You can look that up, use
that, share it, whatever. Number three, these
podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy,
considering in the subcontinent of India earlier
they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people
are just going around sleeping with everyone,
youngsters. This is a madness which people are
living their old culture. There was some wisdom
in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking,
use these principles along with going to a traditional
Jyotish for example okay for all those who are
matching the moon in the charts have this as
a guideline to begin with get some understanding
don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in
this day and age dating one another the dating
business which we have borrowed from the western
civilization never mind i don't want to dig that
rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive
link in description box in each podcast. The
files are there. Use them for your own analysis.
You can do it with AI, you can do it with whatever.
So, we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. We
come to the last good match of Ashwini Nakshatra
as Dev Gana. So, what are we trying to do here?
For the newbies, what are we trying to do essentially?
We are trying to match or find the potential
best match for each devana for each manushya
gana and each rakshasa gana, category of people.
The propensities are very different and we shall
uncover this in the way of intimate relationships
one by one. That's what we are trying to do in
this exercise. The last one for Ashwini would
be match -ish shravana, one -ten relationship.
Because after that eleventh, although it's a
match, it goes into manushya and rakshasa gana
in the Aquarius, so there's no match there. Let
us see once again the core chemistry here. The
110 moon positioning. How does it work? Or how
can we make it work? This is a conscious effort.
This is not some random stuff. We are using the
science and the principles of Jyotish to unlock
what are the best possible combinations. Should
you choose to use this kind of technology, if
you want to call it that. Science, if you want
to call it that. Spirituality, if you want to
go that direction. What are the best possible
combinations? Is there something in that a whole
area in intimate relationships? This is very
important. In my opinion and what I see going
around in social media everywhere is a very warped
sense of what is intimacy. I am trying to go
step by step here. So, back to the screen. Tone
is one of spark and structure. His speed and
courage meet her steadiness and strategy. How
and why this would work is Ashwini brings action,
freshness, protection, while Sravana, she brings
wisdom, listening and reliability and social
respect. Together they form a power couple circuit.
So 110 is always about a power couple. That kind
of a dynamic, okay? He ignites, she architects,
he pioneers, she systematizes. Capricorn moon,
people are generally very very systematic, very
slow, very capricorn like Saturn, very disciplined.
An internal sense of emotion in Sravana nakshatra
is very restricted. It feels within very tight
boundaries. Saturn draws that boundary, so moon
there will have a very boundary oriented, you
know, tight kind of disciplined approach to everything.
Disciplined emotional body you might say. The
risk here, the relationship can drift into manager
-employee type. See, 110 is basically a career,
isn't it? Your visibility in the work, career,
that kind of a relationship. Now you're bringing
it into the bedroom life, into the intimacy life.
The vibes will change, therefore duty becomes
intimacy. He may feel slowed down. She may feel
unsettled by the impulsivity of Ashwini. So the
balance results with re -assurance. Okay, so
this is a tough one. Although technically, and
we'll see this in another one's play out also.
I have seen this in the counselling also. I mean,
whatever relationship counselling people come
to me for with astrology, I've seen this. You
can have, please remember this, you can have
Dev Ganas and say this is all matching. And even
Ascended Mercury Venus also having Dev Ganas.
and 7th Lord in the Avarna. But there is a certain
aspect of Zodiac that plays out with the moon.
Now, in this particular case, it's dominant.
For example, Ashley is too fast. Capricorn is
too slow. One wants to race ahead, like doing
the 100 meter dash in a race. Capricorn, on the
other hand, wants to do a marathon. Slow and
steady and long player. So the dynamic is tough.
It's very tough and it has got to be worked through.
And Ashwini, because this man wants very quick
results, the Shahana woman has a tough time understanding
that need of Ashwini for speed, all the time.
So this is a lot of conscious effort required
in this relationship to make anything work here,
okay? You've got to take care of that. Let's
quickly go through the characteristics now. Ashwini
moon, the mind first. We are talking about the
mind here. Ashwini moon what are his desires
as far as mental is concerned clean fast decisions
minimal preamble freedom to start now everything
is now for Ashwini and iterate go on from there
partner who backs his courage and doesn't drown
it in caveats which is typical of Capricorn moons
okay they like to put checks and balances in
everything that's the mental drive how she fulfills
Sharana style Use the yes plus frame. Yes, do
it, but within this budget. And Capricorn moons
are the most stingy people. Trust me, I've known
one very well. Stingy people, they don't know
how to spend because Capricorn restricts everything.
Convert his idea into one clear step. She's a
natural planner. Book the slot. I'll notify the
family. So she's trying to build upon his impulsivity,
yet give it a structure from the background.
Keep the advice crisp. respectful, avoid lectures.
He hears structure, not scolding. Okay, you can't
restrict him. You can work with him. That's what
Shravana needs to understand, how to use Ashwini.
Now on her side of things, Shravana Moon, whatever
her desires, mentally speaking, thoughtful, orderly
dialogue, facts plus consequences. Remember,
she comes from the land of structure, Saturn.
Capricorn. Decisions that protect family, reputation,
timelines. She's very concerned about this. More
about reputation because it's Capricorn. It's
a traditional 10th house. Capricorn Moon's very
concerned about public appearance. I want to
do something that upsets my social image. To
be listened to fully, she's a wise counselor.
Yes, very wise because they're slow and structured.
Remembers the details. How he fulfills it now.
Act as two -minute listening before acting, then
summarize. I heard A, B, C, and here's my move.
What do you think? Pair each bold step with one
stabilizer. Confirmation, email, calendar, blog,
backup plan, so and so forth. Publicly credit
her judgment. Status matters to Sharna, like
I said, 10th house. Status matters for this moon.
So she needs to acknowledge that part. He needs
to acknowledge that part, sorry and then move
on along with Shravana. Now, let us see the emotional
body part. Speaking of the emotional part now,
safety bonding and repair that part. What happens
to the Ashwini moon? What is its desire? By now
you must have got all the Ashwini parts, isn't
it? That's the advantage of looking at one moon
and and seeing how it shines its light on different
nakshatras in terms of intimacy. That's why we
have to take step by step. Autonomy and loyalty.
Love that trusts its initiatives. That's one
thing, by the way, Capricorn Moon can provide
Ashwini strongly loyalty. Capricorn Moon is loyal
to the max because it is ruled by Saturn. Quick
low drama repair after friction. To be seen as
a protector -doer not as reckless. This is one
thing that Sravana could understand pretty well.
If she chooses everything in these aspects called
intimacy is about conscious engagement. If you
want to go to your headlust or feel free, you
know there are billions doing that. How she fulfills,
offers faith statements. I trust your call, here's
what keeps me calm. So she is announcing her
stuff also to his trust. She is proclaiming or
claiming trust in him. Yet she is saying what
she wants also. It's a fair game. After conflicts,
use grounded touch, one line validation, then
a plan. Next time we decide. By noon. So there's
a plan. She needs structure. But she's at the
same time going with him. Pray specific acts
of courage. He thrives on earned respect. Shravana
Mohan on her side of desires. Because emotional
body is very crucial here first, before we get
to physical. Mental and emotional are vital.
Look folks, if you get to the physical without
doing this kind of a bonding on mental and emotional,
which is very structured way I am teaching here,
it will feel like violence, it will feel like
violation of the other person's space. And that
talk is going around social circles, isn't it?
Mainstream psychology has no freaking clue about
these kinds of aspects. They ignore this. That's
why I'm bringing this to you. That's why my spur.
Shavana Moon on her side of desires. Emotional
security, predictability, dignified love. She
needs dignification, dignified approach. Capricorn
Moons do. Partner who listens, remembers commitments.
Commitment is very crucial to her. Once again,
moon in Saturn. Repair through responsibility.
Apologies matched with corrected behavior. Well,
I wouldn't put it necessarily as corrected behavior.
She should try to understand his impulse of going
forward as his energy field. Earth and fire,
isn't it? So it's a difficult combination. It
requires a lot of conscious understanding for
Ashwini and Shravana to match. How he fulfills?
Keep anchor rituals, same -hour check -ins, weekly
family time and so on. When she raises a concern,
respond with action receipt. Done. I did this.
I have rescheduled this and that. Reassure quietly
in public. Small courtesies, introductions. She
needs devotion in consistent conduct. Everything
about Capricorn is consistency, about slowness,
about pragmatism. She's very pragmatic. Okay,
now let's see the physical side of things. Physically
speaking, the physical kinesthetic part, using
all the five senses, essentially physically means
all the five senses, okay? Focus on every single
aspect of the five senses that is kinesthetic.
So, keep in mind the core chemistry also. Speaking
of chemistry, cadence and turn -ons, Ashwini
desires obviously, spont - spontinity, sorry,
athletic planes, fifth ignition, novelty burst,
new places, new positions of engagement. Physically
speaking, new positions are mentioned, even in
the Kama Sutra. You can try those. Ashwini is
always willing to try some playful dares. Moments
to lead, feel his passion and welcome, that's
what he desires. She fulfills it by pre -clear,
spontaneity windows. Nights with no early commitments,
since these days husbands and wives both are
working, or boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever it
is. Blend structure and heat. That's the difficult
combination. One wants too much structure, other
has too much fire to move. So earth fire combination
moons in general, all the Devaganas, all the
Manishaganas, all the Rakshasaganas, first always
take the element also. Earth and water kind of
go along better, fire and air kind of go along
because they fan each other, okay? This is also
one of the principles of Jyotish. Surprise Detour.
Sorry, came back to that. Use content cues that
hand him reigns and with a grounded after care.
That's how she fulfills it. Like an aftermath
of a very highly passionate lawmaking, she calms
the whole situation down, calms his fire. Shravana
Mun on the other side, what does she desire?
Privacy, dignity, slow burn. This guy is a fast
burn and she is a slow burn creature. Safety
before surrender. She requires a safe space.
This is one thing Capricorn Moons or... Yeah,
Capricorn Moons look for dominantly. A safe space.
Somebody who can step into her very tight boundaries
of emotional calibration and take things very
slowly. And Ashwini is just the opposite. So
it requires quite a lot of work and understanding.
Sensuality that feels earned and respectful.
After intimacy, holding in quiet. Reassurance
through constancy. How he fulfills. Set beautiful
orderly space. Tidy room. Soft light. Warm bath.
Start with listening. Touch. Steady tempo. Attention
to breath. Shoulders back. Post -passion play.
Just talk. Whatever it is that you need to speak
from your heart. Mr. Ashwini. Stay, hold, whisper,
plan for tomorrow, continuity of her turn -ons.
Now there will be some quite a bit of friction
in this. So let's see the friction part. Now
what are the aspects of the physical part? Frictions
and fixes or hints of fixes. Speed versus prudence,
the axis tension. Sign is he commits before detail,
she breaks hard. Fix is commit then confirm protocol.
He takes the slot She seals the logistics within
12 to 24 hours give her time Capricorn needs
time to process Number two duty eclipses romance
it becomes a power couple everything is about
outward plays in it Capricorn is very worried
about Outer play how do I take this visibility
factor? He's not concerned about any of that
stuff Ashwin is least bothered about visibility
as much as Capricorn is. Sign, calendar's perfect,
chemistry flat. That's another one. Duty, eclipses,
romance. There's no fixed timing. The fix would
be dual nights, power night, project, planning,
and pleasure night. No admin talk, pure connection.
This is one thing couples need to learn in this
day and age when everything is so much of demand
for their attention and time. Big? time for time
slots if it all that works for you number three
manager employee drift one ten relationship sign
she instructs he resists rotate the role let
her become Ashwini kind sometime and lead the
optimization okay public image versus private
impulse that's exactly the problem here with
Ashwini and Shauna so next They're gonna onwards.
I'm gonna deal with the elemental match I don't
want to make something or give you a piece of
knowledge where you'll be again fixing wrong
stuff Okay, that's not the idea. So next onwards,
which is what? after Ashwini The next one comes
Rohini. I think within no, yeah, Taurus, Rohini
So I will take earth and water element matches
only Sign, he is spontaneous in public, she feels
exposed. Fix, agree public courtesy code, PDL
limits, public display of affection, which is
coming in India slowly but surely, keeps spontaneity
for private sanctuaries. Bottom line is, when
his initiative is welcomed inside her structure,
the one -ten accents turns into a purpose -driven
romance. Ignite, organize, accomplish, renew.
Keep the decisions fast, but held. Affection
tender, but regular. The rules complementary,
not controlling. And you'll have a bond that
earns respect in the world, while feeling deeply
safe at home. Next we shall deal with the next
Devakana. But this time onwards, I will match
the elements. The element of the moon itself.
That means to say, if it's Artha houses 2, 6
and 10, those corresponding ganas if it's fire
element those corresponding ganas or air fire
and air match we will take those and move forward
with this take care be safe