WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.359 morning wonderful people welcome to my channel 00:00:02.359 --> 00:00:05.480 before i get into this intimacy podcast we are 00:00:05.480 --> 00:00:09.199 checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following 00:00:09.199 --> 00:00:11.740 the following four points i wanted to give you 00:00:11.740 --> 00:00:14.000 an introduction before i get into it if you've 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:17.579 seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome 00:00:17.579 --> 00:00:21.079 to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology 00:00:21.079 --> 00:00:23.839 anyway number one what am i considering here 00:00:24.650 --> 00:00:27.649 Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That 00:00:27.649 --> 00:00:29.670 is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana. 00:00:29.789 --> 00:00:31.690 We will see that. As we go along, we will see 00:00:31.690 --> 00:00:34.890 that. I will keep giving different points for 00:00:34.890 --> 00:00:38.789 you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using 00:00:38.789 --> 00:00:41.030 this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury 00:00:41.030 --> 00:00:45.189 and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement, 00:00:45.409 --> 00:00:46.770 wherever they are, whichever house they are, 00:00:46.929 --> 00:00:49.909 check all these three when you are doing a voluntary 00:00:49.909 --> 00:00:53.549 or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go 00:00:53.549 --> 00:00:56.049 blindly only by the moon check all of these three 00:00:56.049 --> 00:00:59.509 as well because all of those each one of those 00:00:59.509 --> 00:01:02.789 plays a part in mental emotional and physical 00:01:02.789 --> 00:01:07.170 agility that is required if there is too much 00:01:07.170 --> 00:01:11.209 stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to 00:01:11.209 --> 00:01:14.549 absorb be willing to work with oneself first 00:01:14.549 --> 00:01:17.209 always self comes first there's so many things 00:01:17.209 --> 00:01:19.129 i shared on the google drive you can see even 00:01:19.129 --> 00:01:22.579 the community post You can look that up, use 00:01:22.579 --> 00:01:25.000 that, share it, whatever. Number three, these 00:01:25.000 --> 00:01:28.420 podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy, 00:01:28.700 --> 00:01:32.159 considering in the subcontinent of India earlier 00:01:32.159 --> 00:01:34.760 they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:36.560 are just going around sleeping with everyone, 00:01:36.700 --> 00:01:40.299 youngsters. This is a madness which people are 00:01:40.299 --> 00:01:42.400 living their old culture. There was some wisdom 00:01:42.400 --> 00:01:46.340 in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking, 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:50.620 use these principles along with going to a traditional 00:01:50.620 --> 00:01:54.140 Jyotish for example okay for all those who are 00:01:54.140 --> 00:01:57.000 matching the moon in the charts have this as 00:01:57.000 --> 00:01:59.819 a guideline to begin with get some understanding 00:01:59.819 --> 00:02:04.340 don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in 00:02:04.340 --> 00:02:07.900 this day and age dating one another the dating 00:02:07.900 --> 00:02:09.879 business which we have borrowed from the western 00:02:09.879 --> 00:02:12.699 civilization never mind i don't want to dig that 00:02:12.699 --> 00:02:15.400 rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:18.039 link in description box in each podcast. The 00:02:18.039 --> 00:02:20.580 files are there. Use them for your own analysis. 00:02:20.740 --> 00:02:23.020 You can do it with AI. You can do it with whatever. 00:02:24.159 --> 00:02:28.439 So we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. We 00:02:28.439 --> 00:02:31.840 are essentially talking of intimacy, dynamic 00:02:31.840 --> 00:02:35.240 in a couple relationship, isn't it? These kind 00:02:35.240 --> 00:02:37.719 of playlists and podcasts are mainly applicable 00:02:37.719 --> 00:02:40.539 for those who are in a dating circle or who are 00:02:40.539 --> 00:02:43.860 in married relationships. or someone who's just 00:02:43.860 --> 00:02:47.539 divorced and wants to find out the real causation 00:02:47.539 --> 00:02:51.319 factors of what were the disharmony. I'm covering 00:02:51.319 --> 00:02:53.819 the best possible combinations here, okay? So 00:02:53.819 --> 00:02:57.219 if you're going to go into this kind of an approach, 00:02:57.520 --> 00:03:00.680 it's an approach where you take in conscious 00:03:00.680 --> 00:03:03.699 cognizance of what the moon placement is, what 00:03:03.699 --> 00:03:06.419 is the level of compatibility and how it will 00:03:06.419 --> 00:03:08.500 play out. So now we're talking about Ashwini 00:03:08.500 --> 00:03:11.490 with the seventh aspect, Swati. I am matching 00:03:11.490 --> 00:03:14.229 only the Ganas factor. This is very very crucial. 00:03:15.169 --> 00:03:17.310 Ashwini is a Devagana, Swati is also a Devagana. 00:03:17.349 --> 00:03:20.729 So how does this play out? One -seven dynamic 00:03:20.729 --> 00:03:25.009 when it comes to Ashwini and Swati. There will 00:03:25.009 --> 00:03:26.949 be different dynamics for different Devaganas 00:03:26.949 --> 00:03:28.930 by the way. We shall see that as we go along. 00:03:29.210 --> 00:03:33.629 That's why it's easy and important really to 00:03:33.629 --> 00:03:38.310 uncover as we go along. This is like a fractal 00:03:38.310 --> 00:03:42.039 thing there. Never mind. Core chemistry, one 00:03:42.039 --> 00:03:44.379 -seven moon positioning in practice. Let's get 00:03:44.379 --> 00:03:47.039 back to the slide. It keeps me focused here. 00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:51.939 The tone is one of magnetic pull between independence 00:03:51.939 --> 00:03:54.900 and connection, speed and flexibility, fire and 00:03:54.900 --> 00:03:59.120 breeze. That logo over there, the horse is Ashwini. 00:03:59.960 --> 00:04:02.840 She is Ashwini here in this case and he is Swati. 00:04:03.560 --> 00:04:08.060 It's the swaying breeze, right? Symbol is of 00:04:08.060 --> 00:04:10.699 grass. swaying in the breeze, one of the symbols 00:04:10.699 --> 00:04:14.300 of Swati. So whatever I have put in the snake 00:04:14.300 --> 00:04:16.759 eating its own tail is the symbol of the nakshatra 00:04:16.759 --> 00:04:18.699 itself, just so you're wondering what the hell 00:04:18.699 --> 00:04:22.819 is this about. Why it works? The Ashwini moon 00:04:22.819 --> 00:04:27.660 woman brings primal vitality, courage and the 00:04:27.660 --> 00:04:31.120 straight -line honesty, direct shooter. The Swati 00:04:31.120 --> 00:04:34.800 moon man brings charm, social grace and equilibrium. 00:04:34.980 --> 00:04:37.939 It's in Libra. Swati is in the heart of Libra. 00:04:38.949 --> 00:04:43.009 She charges, he calibrates. Okay? Because now 00:04:43.009 --> 00:04:46.529 she is the Ashwini, she is the lead. She is impulsive, 00:04:46.670 --> 00:04:49.509 he is intelligent, diplomatically intelligent. 00:04:49.709 --> 00:04:52.269 You can look up the nakshatras, there are plenty 00:04:52.269 --> 00:04:56.110 in this channel for you to glean from. Together 00:04:56.110 --> 00:04:59.410 they form a self -balancing circuit. Her initiative 00:04:59.410 --> 00:05:02.209 meets his adaptability. That's the way it plays 00:05:02.209 --> 00:05:06.339 out. Risk is, opposing temperaments can oscillate. 00:05:06.540 --> 00:05:10.240 Her bluntness can ruffle his diplomacy. His detachment 00:05:10.240 --> 00:05:14.579 can puzzle her passion. The relationship thrives 00:05:14.579 --> 00:05:19.540 when fire learns patience and air learns focus. 00:05:20.399 --> 00:05:23.420 Being in airy science, swati can be very divergent 00:05:23.420 --> 00:05:26.079 in its approach. It's like the breeze. Swati 00:05:26.079 --> 00:05:28.879 is literally like the wind. Gemini is the breeze. 00:05:29.019 --> 00:05:32.379 I think I had dealt with this before. The mind 00:05:32.379 --> 00:05:35.620 now. Speaking of communication, pacing and thought 00:05:35.620 --> 00:05:38.279 style. Where do they match? How do they fulfill 00:05:38.279 --> 00:05:40.939 one another? This combination. Ashwini Mohan, 00:05:40.939 --> 00:05:44.019 that is she. What does she desire in the mental 00:05:44.019 --> 00:05:47.060 plane? Direct, clean, honest talk. Say it. Don't 00:05:47.060 --> 00:05:49.319 hint it. Don't beat around the bush. That's her 00:05:49.319 --> 00:05:52.819 approach. Quick understanding. Hates over analysis. 00:05:53.639 --> 00:05:56.879 It's a quick temperament, Ashwini. The space 00:05:56.879 --> 00:05:59.800 to decide, lead and act without endless debate. 00:06:00.120 --> 00:06:02.819 He wants to move. Ashwin is very quick to move. 00:06:03.519 --> 00:06:08.500 How he fulfills it? The swati style. Use graceful 00:06:08.500 --> 00:06:12.300 clarity. Soft tone. Firm content. Avoids her 00:06:12.300 --> 00:06:15.839 irritation and earns her respect. Reflect her 00:06:15.839 --> 00:06:17.939 decisiveness through affirmation and refinement. 00:06:18.160 --> 00:06:20.319 Like something like I like the plan. Let's add 00:06:20.319 --> 00:06:25.060 it this week. When disagreements arise, mirror 00:06:25.060 --> 00:06:28.000 back her logic, not emotion. She values reason 00:06:28.000 --> 00:06:31.680 with heart. Something for you to consider all 00:06:31.680 --> 00:06:34.000 these points. Praise her bravery and initiative 00:06:34.000 --> 00:06:37.420 publicly. She blossoms under visible respect. 00:06:37.720 --> 00:06:40.920 Remember, Russian is in Aries. It loves the leadership 00:06:40.920 --> 00:06:46.819 part of it. Respect. Swati Moon. What does he 00:06:46.819 --> 00:06:50.579 desire? In terms of mental plane alignment, balanced 00:06:50.579 --> 00:06:52.980 conversation, mutual respect for viewpoints. 00:06:53.759 --> 00:06:56.519 Time to evaluate. Dislikes being rushed. The 00:06:56.519 --> 00:06:58.879 partner who appreciates his mental grace, social 00:06:58.879 --> 00:07:02.220 skills and fairness. How she fulfills it. The 00:07:02.220 --> 00:07:05.199 Ashwini style. Offers him decision frameworks. 00:07:05.399 --> 00:07:08.060 Here are two clear paths. Select which one feels 00:07:08.060 --> 00:07:12.800 true for you. Use her fiery directness as a spark, 00:07:12.920 --> 00:07:16.459 not as a sword. Short sentences, soft eyes. So 00:07:16.459 --> 00:07:23.350 important. Softness and kindness. Let him articulate 00:07:23.350 --> 00:07:26.209 his logic fully once, then move into action. 00:07:26.550 --> 00:07:28.810 Appreciate his diplomacy. Tell him his calm voice 00:07:28.810 --> 00:07:32.029 helps clarify. You bring balance when I'm not 00:07:32.029 --> 00:07:34.889 charging forward. It's kind of a mental. Mental 00:07:34.889 --> 00:07:38.069 alignment is the beginning part, since it always 00:07:38.069 --> 00:07:40.769 cascades into the emotional body. Whatever you're 00:07:40.769 --> 00:07:42.910 thinking is always affecting your emotional body, 00:07:42.949 --> 00:07:45.149 isn't it? That's why I'm starting each one with 00:07:45.149 --> 00:07:48.610 mental plane first, at that level of compatibility. 00:07:48.930 --> 00:07:51.579 Now let's look at the emotional part. Now let's 00:07:51.579 --> 00:07:54.000 speak about the emotional body. Keep the core 00:07:54.000 --> 00:07:56.259 chemistry in mind. That's why I left that box 00:07:56.259 --> 00:07:59.459 there above. Always keep the core chemistry in 00:07:59.459 --> 00:08:01.759 mind when you are doing compatibility like this. 00:08:03.079 --> 00:08:06.560 The emotional alignment, how does it play out 00:08:06.560 --> 00:08:09.120 in this combination? Safety, bonding and repair. 00:08:09.740 --> 00:08:12.720 A Shwini hormone desires what? In terms of emotion, 00:08:12.939 --> 00:08:16.480 very important. Emotional transparency and loyalty. 00:08:17.680 --> 00:08:21.420 To be free yet cherished. It requires a free 00:08:21.420 --> 00:08:24.279 path. Ashwini's unrestricted free path being 00:08:24.279 --> 00:08:28.379 in the Aries. Quick repair after tension. She 00:08:28.379 --> 00:08:31.300 dislikes lingering moods. That's why I have to 00:08:31.300 --> 00:08:33.659 be careful between Ashwini and cancer. Pushya 00:08:33.659 --> 00:08:36.679 and Punarvasu. We covered this before. How he 00:08:36.679 --> 00:08:40.019 fulfills. Speaks feelings lightly but consistently. 00:08:40.100 --> 00:08:42.960 I am here. I value you. That should be the tone 00:08:42.960 --> 00:08:45.759 of the alignment. The tone is very important 00:08:45.759 --> 00:08:48.190 when you talk of emotions. Because people can 00:08:48.190 --> 00:08:51.450 read through the underlying tone, isn't it? Especially 00:08:51.450 --> 00:08:54.309 in intimate partnerships. Use gentle humor to 00:08:54.309 --> 00:08:57.789 diffuse the drama. Never cold silence. Do not 00:08:57.789 --> 00:09:01.570 like. Ashwini does not like cold silence. You're 00:09:01.570 --> 00:09:04.490 barking up the wrong tree then. Offer verbal 00:09:04.490 --> 00:09:06.629 freedom passes. Take your ride. I'll meet you 00:09:06.629 --> 00:09:10.269 after sunset. Just show some trust. And which 00:09:10.269 --> 00:09:13.629 keeps her grounded. Knowing that he's always 00:09:13.629 --> 00:09:17.419 available. avoid passive withdrawal as she experiences 00:09:17.419 --> 00:09:20.899 that as disinterest see what you thought you 00:09:20.899 --> 00:09:24.440 would do like withdraw within yourself she experiences 00:09:24.440 --> 00:09:27.580 as something different now let's speak of the 00:09:27.580 --> 00:09:30.460 other way swati moan him what does he desire 00:09:30.460 --> 00:09:35.120 emotionally speaking peace emotional steadiness 00:09:35.120 --> 00:09:40.539 and the space to breathe swati is an libra it's 00:09:40.539 --> 00:09:43.960 an air sign The kind of Nakshatra that it is, 00:09:44.320 --> 00:09:47.279 it needs a lot of space to move. It moves really 00:09:47.279 --> 00:09:50.379 quick. Swati mind is cutting edge intellectual 00:09:50.379 --> 00:09:54.299 diplomacy. Look up the Swati Nakshatra. After 00:09:54.299 --> 00:09:57.960 conflict, offer physical closeness first, then 00:09:57.960 --> 00:10:00.740 brief verbal summary. I was fast, you were careful, 00:10:00.879 --> 00:10:05.500 we meet halfway kind of approach. So Swati for 00:10:05.500 --> 00:10:08.879 Ashwini. What else can I project into that? Okay, 00:10:08.899 --> 00:10:14.809 thinking off. Swati can understand Ashwini in 00:10:14.809 --> 00:10:17.730 a more grounded way simply because it's a graduation, 00:10:17.950 --> 00:10:20.230 one going towards seven, Aries going towards 00:10:20.230 --> 00:10:24.389 Libra. It can offer a more vaster play field 00:10:24.389 --> 00:10:30.350 in the emotional landscape. Allow him the emotional 00:10:30.350 --> 00:10:33.549 oxygen, there you are. He processes alone but 00:10:33.549 --> 00:10:38.490 returns if not chased. Appreciate is gentle service 00:10:38.490 --> 00:10:41.409 gestures helping quietly fix something, some 00:10:41.409 --> 00:10:45.090 small things around. It's essentially more a 00:10:45.090 --> 00:10:49.470 dynamism of one encompasses other. In the sense, 00:10:49.850 --> 00:10:53.049 the swati man here in this case should allow 00:10:53.049 --> 00:10:57.009 the vastness of his mental emotional landscape 00:10:57.009 --> 00:11:00.210 for Aries to run around the ground. You see what 00:11:00.210 --> 00:11:03.289 I'm saying? I'm giving an analogy here. So use 00:11:03.289 --> 00:11:06.070 that kind of analogy when you're talking of this 00:11:06.070 --> 00:11:09.669 kind of a compatibility analysis. Let's see physical 00:11:09.669 --> 00:11:13.149 now. Now again, just to recap, when you talk 00:11:13.149 --> 00:11:16.330 of physical, use all five senses. When you're 00:11:16.330 --> 00:11:18.190 talking with intimate partner, it's a one -seven 00:11:18.190 --> 00:11:21.230 relationship always in the sense that one is 00:11:21.230 --> 00:11:23.470 meeting opposite to the other. It's a reflection 00:11:23.470 --> 00:11:26.190 of self, isn't it? If you take Bhavad Bhavam 00:11:26.190 --> 00:11:29.570 concept also, it's one -to -one and seventh aspect 00:11:29.570 --> 00:11:32.049 from seventh is one again so it's a very mirror 00:11:32.049 --> 00:11:35.309 kind of a relationship always among the various 00:11:35.309 --> 00:11:37.570 human relationships so when you talk of physical 00:11:37.570 --> 00:11:41.309 intimacy use kinesthetics use NLP i left lots 00:11:41.309 --> 00:11:44.529 of resources on my google drive and in the description 00:11:44.529 --> 00:11:48.669 box go through that physical intimacy this is 00:11:48.669 --> 00:11:52.289 one of chemistry cadence and turn -ons how you 00:11:52.289 --> 00:11:55.990 carry out the gentle physical touch Don't come 00:11:55.990 --> 00:11:58.750 to this directly until you have covered properly, 00:11:58.889 --> 00:12:01.690 understood properly. If you want consultancy 00:12:01.690 --> 00:12:04.610 in relations, you can email me, then we can discuss. 00:12:04.889 --> 00:12:06.789 If you are already a couple dating, whatever. 00:12:08.149 --> 00:12:11.389 Because mental and emotional play into the physical. 00:12:11.909 --> 00:12:14.610 This should be the order of priority, so to speak. 00:12:14.889 --> 00:12:17.269 Don't get physical first without fully exploring 00:12:17.269 --> 00:12:20.389 the mental and the emotional. Because physical 00:12:20.389 --> 00:12:22.990 becomes a very tender aspect. It's actually the 00:12:22.990 --> 00:12:26.490 most tender aspect, if you ask me. Ashwini Moon, 00:12:26.870 --> 00:12:30.889 what does she desire? Passion with play, direct 00:12:30.889 --> 00:12:34.549 initiation and tangible chemistry. Fast ignition, 00:12:34.970 --> 00:12:38.230 being Aries, spontaneous moves and fiery rhythms. 00:12:38.250 --> 00:12:41.289 Very quick, very passionate, very direct. Ashwini, 00:12:42.090 --> 00:12:45.409 in physical terms. In the bed, okay, if you want 00:12:45.409 --> 00:12:47.750 me to say it out loud. Partner who keeps up, 00:12:47.929 --> 00:12:52.480 challenges, responds instinctively. How he fulfills 00:12:52.480 --> 00:12:55.139 the Swati style is, respond with fluid rhythm, 00:12:55.539 --> 00:12:58.200 match her pace. Swati can do that very well, 00:12:58.419 --> 00:13:01.039 matching the pace. Then slow her down just enough 00:13:01.039 --> 00:13:05.720 to deepen the sensation. Create movement based 00:13:05.720 --> 00:13:10.059 intimacy. Lot of body movement, dance, travel, 00:13:10.779 --> 00:13:13.639 sensual massage. Why? Because Swati is like the 00:13:13.639 --> 00:13:16.539 wind, it moves. It requires physical movement. 00:13:17.360 --> 00:13:20.350 Air plus fire blending. They both support each 00:13:20.350 --> 00:13:24.210 other in that context because air is Libra and 00:13:24.210 --> 00:13:27.669 fire is Ashwini. So they complement each other 00:13:27.669 --> 00:13:30.929 very well. Compliment her confidence. She glows 00:13:30.929 --> 00:13:33.289 under her admiration. Who doesn't? Isn't it? 00:13:33.570 --> 00:13:35.830 We think only women need the glowing. Even men 00:13:35.830 --> 00:13:39.309 do, by the way. After intimacy, gentle dialogue, 00:13:39.669 --> 00:13:42.289 whispering, laughter, small affirmations keeps 00:13:42.289 --> 00:13:46.779 her fire tender. Now speaking of the other guy, 00:13:47.019 --> 00:13:49.399 Swati Mohan, what does he desire physically? 00:13:50.259 --> 00:13:52.980 He desires an aesthetic atmosphere. Swati is 00:13:52.980 --> 00:13:56.620 in Libra. Put on scented candles. Put on nice 00:13:56.620 --> 00:13:59.659 soft jazz music, if you will. Any kind of music. 00:13:59.879 --> 00:14:04.159 Take your pick. Soft light. Create the environment. 00:14:04.259 --> 00:14:07.840 Swati needs an environment. Libra is the environment. 00:14:08.500 --> 00:14:13.039 Partner who flirts intellectually, not just physically. 00:14:13.480 --> 00:14:15.659 You have to connect with Swati at the mental 00:14:15.659 --> 00:14:18.240 level before getting to the physical like I just 00:14:18.240 --> 00:14:22.519 said. Harmony of rhythm. He loves dance. Being 00:14:22.519 --> 00:14:26.100 a Swati. Emotional synchronization before touch. 00:14:27.980 --> 00:14:30.259 I know this. I am an Ascended Swati. So, this 00:14:30.259 --> 00:14:33.419 is very innate to my nature. How she fulfills 00:14:33.419 --> 00:14:36.940 it Ashwini style is create a sensory choreography. 00:14:37.340 --> 00:14:40.809 It has to be a dance. Intimacy, if you ask me, 00:14:41.029 --> 00:14:44.029 is a dance inherent in and of itself. Because 00:14:44.029 --> 00:14:46.889 it's very dynamic. How will you predict what 00:14:46.889 --> 00:14:49.450 the other person knows or wants on any given 00:14:49.450 --> 00:14:51.610 moment? Each one is going through such a flux. 00:14:52.490 --> 00:14:55.029 Her instinctive passion guided by rhythm and 00:14:55.029 --> 00:14:58.409 music. Add verbal foreplay. Tell me what you 00:14:58.409 --> 00:15:01.230 want to do next. Because she needs that directness. 00:15:02.129 --> 00:15:04.690 She'll approach it with that directness of Aries 00:15:04.690 --> 00:15:07.570 and Ashley. His air element loves the mental 00:15:07.570 --> 00:15:11.350 tease. Keep intimacy varied but not chaotic. 00:15:11.669 --> 00:15:14.210 Plant surprises feel safer to him rather than 00:15:14.210 --> 00:15:17.950 pure impulse. Don't jump on his skin. Her courage 00:15:17.950 --> 00:15:21.169 and openness make him feel desired, which heightens 00:15:21.169 --> 00:15:24.690 his erotic confidence. All this play is needed 00:15:24.690 --> 00:15:27.950 as the end result of the connection which we 00:15:27.950 --> 00:15:30.450 did in the previous two slides, isn't it? The 00:15:30.450 --> 00:15:33.190 mental and the physical. That's how it plays 00:15:33.190 --> 00:15:36.029 out. There are some challenges as usual. Let's 00:15:36.029 --> 00:15:39.460 see what the fixes can be. What are the challenges 00:15:39.460 --> 00:15:42.820 of Swati and Ashwini when it comes to intimacy? 00:15:43.759 --> 00:15:46.480 Four points listed there. Directness versus diplomacy. 00:15:47.080 --> 00:15:49.279 Guess who's who? Directness, Ashwini, diplomacy, 00:15:49.480 --> 00:15:54.240 Libra, Swati. Sign being, she says too much. 00:15:54.320 --> 00:15:57.539 He retreats into silence or social avoidance. 00:15:58.139 --> 00:16:00.899 Can become very quiet, Swati, that way. Fix. 00:16:01.779 --> 00:16:05.019 Delay, deliver, roll. She pauses one breath before 00:16:05.019 --> 00:16:08.179 bluntness. He commits to direct feedback. Within 00:16:08.179 --> 00:16:11.360 24 hours, you have to give Libra time and space. 00:16:11.720 --> 00:16:14.360 It's very spacious kind of energy. It's an air 00:16:14.360 --> 00:16:18.659 sign, right Libra? How much ever fire wants to 00:16:18.659 --> 00:16:21.200 burn and have things quickly resolve, he needs 00:16:21.200 --> 00:16:23.299 the space and you have partnered with him. So 00:16:23.299 --> 00:16:27.299 it's a responsibility also of type. Speed versus 00:16:27.299 --> 00:16:30.120 space, there you are, sign. She decides instantly. 00:16:30.500 --> 00:16:34.259 He needs reflection time. Swathi people are deep 00:16:34.259 --> 00:16:40.049 ponderers of intellectual landscape air sign 00:16:40.049 --> 00:16:44.710 fix is what kind how do you fix this 90 10 rule 00:16:44.710 --> 00:16:48.549 she acts 90 % on impulse leaves the 10 % space 00:16:48.549 --> 00:16:54.509 for him to air consensus deeply analytical AI 00:16:54.509 --> 00:16:57.350 does this very well by the way I have given it 00:16:57.350 --> 00:16:59.789 my note so it is doing basically from my notes 00:16:59.789 --> 00:17:03.730 number three control versus drift sign she tries 00:17:03.730 --> 00:17:08.069 to fix, he floats away. The fix is pre -agreed 00:17:08.069 --> 00:17:10.750 anchor rituals like daily texts, weekly check 00:17:10.750 --> 00:17:15.250 -ins that tether his air gently without restriction. 00:17:16.450 --> 00:17:19.150 You can't restrict Swati. That's impossible. 00:17:19.930 --> 00:17:22.829 So you need at least some degree of compatibility 00:17:22.829 --> 00:17:25.569 as the Gana. Because Ashwini, she is also a Dev 00:17:25.569 --> 00:17:27.970 Gana. So she will understand at the intellectual 00:17:27.970 --> 00:17:30.829 level already. That's why I am doing compatibility 00:17:30.829 --> 00:17:33.309 by Ganas. The other things won't match. There 00:17:33.309 --> 00:17:36.410 is too much of discord. That's why I will not 00:17:36.410 --> 00:17:40.369 consider those. Charm versus trust. Her jealousy 00:17:40.369 --> 00:17:43.930 spikes. If his social charm extends outward, 00:17:44.349 --> 00:17:47.269 he feels accused. Like he wants to go out and 00:17:47.269 --> 00:17:50.480 be a social bird. Swati, right? He wants to go 00:17:50.480 --> 00:17:53.539 out, meet people, make new friends, talk to other 00:17:53.539 --> 00:17:56.700 women, which she might feel jealous about, fixes 00:17:56.700 --> 00:18:00.079 verbal affirmations of exclusivity. He names 00:18:00.079 --> 00:18:02.460 her openly as his partner. She responds with 00:18:02.460 --> 00:18:07.599 visible trust and praise, not policing. As a 00:18:07.599 --> 00:18:09.660 general rule, women should stop policing the 00:18:09.660 --> 00:18:12.299 men. You'll not only lose the men, you'll lose 00:18:12.299 --> 00:18:14.079 all other men because you'll form an opinion, 00:18:14.299 --> 00:18:18.370 isn't it? Going around social media a lot. Bottom 00:18:18.370 --> 00:18:21.529 line, bottom line is nice and well framed, that's 00:18:21.529 --> 00:18:23.650 why I stuck it there. Ashwini woman with Swathi 00:18:23.650 --> 00:18:26.269 man, this is a flame and breeze relationship. 00:18:27.210 --> 00:18:30.529 She ignites, he oxygenates. She drives direction, 00:18:30.650 --> 00:18:33.450 he brings grace. This is always something each 00:18:33.450 --> 00:18:37.069 one brings here and in a nice way. There one 00:18:37.069 --> 00:18:39.890 seven moon opposition creates mirror dynamic. 00:18:40.269 --> 00:18:43.950 Each reflects what the other lacks. Her decisiveness 00:18:43.950 --> 00:18:47.329 teaches him boldness. His balance teaches her 00:18:47.329 --> 00:18:50.829 patience. When they integrate speed with serenity, 00:18:50.890 --> 00:18:53.630 they become dynamic pair, passionate, communicative 00:18:53.630 --> 00:18:58.890 and socially radiant. He is a social bird. The 00:18:58.890 --> 00:19:02.309 key is fire must not scorch and air must not 00:19:02.309 --> 00:19:06.589 scatter. Very nice point. Keep the rhythm. Ignite, 00:19:06.809 --> 00:19:09.470 pause, breathe and return. Follow that cycle 00:19:09.470 --> 00:19:13.130 for this pair. That's how this union transforms 00:19:13.130 --> 00:19:16.410 from simple attraction to enduring alchemy. The 00:19:16.410 --> 00:19:19.990 partnership of vitality, freedom and elegant 00:19:19.990 --> 00:19:26.599 devotion. combination with Ashwini which will 00:19:26.599 --> 00:19:31.460 be I think 110 so Ashwini and Sravana nakshatra 00:19:31.460 --> 00:19:34.519 in Capricorn. Let's see that. Take care, be safe.