morning wonderful people welcome to my channel
before i get into this intimacy podcast we are
checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following
the following four points i wanted to give you
an introduction before i get into it if you've
seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome
to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology
anyway number one what am i considering here
Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That
is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana.
We will see that. As we go along, we will see
that. I will keep giving different points for
you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using
this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury
and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement,
wherever they are, whichever house they are,
check all these three when you are doing a voluntary
or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go
blindly only by the moon check all of these three
as well because all of those each one of those
plays a part in mental emotional and physical
agility that is required if there is too much
stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to
absorb be willing to work with oneself first
always self comes first there's so many things
i shared on the google drive you can see even
the community post You can look that up, use
that, share it, whatever. Number three, these
podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy,
considering in the subcontinent of India earlier
they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people
are just going around sleeping with everyone,
youngsters. This is a madness which people are
living their old culture. There was some wisdom
in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking,
use these principles along with going to a traditional
Jyotish for example okay for all those who are
matching the moon in the charts have this as
a guideline to begin with get some understanding
don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in
this day and age dating one another the dating
business which we have borrowed from the western
civilization never mind i don't want to dig that
rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive
link in description box in each podcast. The
files are there. Use them for your own analysis.
You can do it with AI. You can do it with whatever.
So we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. We
are essentially talking of intimacy, dynamic
in a couple relationship, isn't it? These kind
of playlists and podcasts are mainly applicable
for those who are in a dating circle or who are
in married relationships. or someone who's just
divorced and wants to find out the real causation
factors of what were the disharmony. I'm covering
the best possible combinations here, okay? So
if you're going to go into this kind of an approach,
it's an approach where you take in conscious
cognizance of what the moon placement is, what
is the level of compatibility and how it will
play out. So now we're talking about Ashwini
with the seventh aspect, Swati. I am matching
only the Ganas factor. This is very very crucial.
Ashwini is a Devagana, Swati is also a Devagana.
So how does this play out? One -seven dynamic
when it comes to Ashwini and Swati. There will
be different dynamics for different Devaganas
by the way. We shall see that as we go along.
That's why it's easy and important really to
uncover as we go along. This is like a fractal
thing there. Never mind. Core chemistry, one
-seven moon positioning in practice. Let's get
back to the slide. It keeps me focused here.
The tone is one of magnetic pull between independence
and connection, speed and flexibility, fire and
breeze. That logo over there, the horse is Ashwini.
She is Ashwini here in this case and he is Swati.
It's the swaying breeze, right? Symbol is of
grass. swaying in the breeze, one of the symbols
of Swati. So whatever I have put in the snake
eating its own tail is the symbol of the nakshatra
itself, just so you're wondering what the hell
is this about. Why it works? The Ashwini moon
woman brings primal vitality, courage and the
straight -line honesty, direct shooter. The Swati
moon man brings charm, social grace and equilibrium.
It's in Libra. Swati is in the heart of Libra.
She charges, he calibrates. Okay? Because now
she is the Ashwini, she is the lead. She is impulsive,
he is intelligent, diplomatically intelligent.
You can look up the nakshatras, there are plenty
in this channel for you to glean from. Together
they form a self -balancing circuit. Her initiative
meets his adaptability. That's the way it plays
out. Risk is, opposing temperaments can oscillate.
Her bluntness can ruffle his diplomacy. His detachment
can puzzle her passion. The relationship thrives
when fire learns patience and air learns focus.
Being in airy science, swati can be very divergent
in its approach. It's like the breeze. Swati
is literally like the wind. Gemini is the breeze.
I think I had dealt with this before. The mind
now. Speaking of communication, pacing and thought
style. Where do they match? How do they fulfill
one another? This combination. Ashwini Mohan,
that is she. What does she desire in the mental
plane? Direct, clean, honest talk. Say it. Don't
hint it. Don't beat around the bush. That's her
approach. Quick understanding. Hates over analysis.
It's a quick temperament, Ashwini. The space
to decide, lead and act without endless debate.
He wants to move. Ashwin is very quick to move.
How he fulfills it? The swati style. Use graceful
clarity. Soft tone. Firm content. Avoids her
irritation and earns her respect. Reflect her
decisiveness through affirmation and refinement.
Like something like I like the plan. Let's add
it this week. When disagreements arise, mirror
back her logic, not emotion. She values reason
with heart. Something for you to consider all
these points. Praise her bravery and initiative
publicly. She blossoms under visible respect.
Remember, Russian is in Aries. It loves the leadership
part of it. Respect. Swati Moon. What does he
desire? In terms of mental plane alignment, balanced
conversation, mutual respect for viewpoints.
Time to evaluate. Dislikes being rushed. The
partner who appreciates his mental grace, social
skills and fairness. How she fulfills it. The
Ashwini style. Offers him decision frameworks.
Here are two clear paths. Select which one feels
true for you. Use her fiery directness as a spark,
not as a sword. Short sentences, soft eyes. So
important. Softness and kindness. Let him articulate
his logic fully once, then move into action.
Appreciate his diplomacy. Tell him his calm voice
helps clarify. You bring balance when I'm not
charging forward. It's kind of a mental. Mental
alignment is the beginning part, since it always
cascades into the emotional body. Whatever you're
thinking is always affecting your emotional body,
isn't it? That's why I'm starting each one with
mental plane first, at that level of compatibility.
Now let's look at the emotional part. Now let's
speak about the emotional body. Keep the core
chemistry in mind. That's why I left that box
there above. Always keep the core chemistry in
mind when you are doing compatibility like this.
The emotional alignment, how does it play out
in this combination? Safety, bonding and repair.
A Shwini hormone desires what? In terms of emotion,
very important. Emotional transparency and loyalty.
To be free yet cherished. It requires a free
path. Ashwini's unrestricted free path being
in the Aries. Quick repair after tension. She
dislikes lingering moods. That's why I have to
be careful between Ashwini and cancer. Pushya
and Punarvasu. We covered this before. How he
fulfills. Speaks feelings lightly but consistently.
I am here. I value you. That should be the tone
of the alignment. The tone is very important
when you talk of emotions. Because people can
read through the underlying tone, isn't it? Especially
in intimate partnerships. Use gentle humor to
diffuse the drama. Never cold silence. Do not
like. Ashwini does not like cold silence. You're
barking up the wrong tree then. Offer verbal
freedom passes. Take your ride. I'll meet you
after sunset. Just show some trust. And which
keeps her grounded. Knowing that he's always
available. avoid passive withdrawal as she experiences
that as disinterest see what you thought you
would do like withdraw within yourself she experiences
as something different now let's speak of the
other way swati moan him what does he desire
emotionally speaking peace emotional steadiness
and the space to breathe swati is an libra it's
an air sign The kind of Nakshatra that it is,
it needs a lot of space to move. It moves really
quick. Swati mind is cutting edge intellectual
diplomacy. Look up the Swati Nakshatra. After
conflict, offer physical closeness first, then
brief verbal summary. I was fast, you were careful,
we meet halfway kind of approach. So Swati for
Ashwini. What else can I project into that? Okay,
thinking off. Swati can understand Ashwini in
a more grounded way simply because it's a graduation,
one going towards seven, Aries going towards
Libra. It can offer a more vaster play field
in the emotional landscape. Allow him the emotional
oxygen, there you are. He processes alone but
returns if not chased. Appreciate is gentle service
gestures helping quietly fix something, some
small things around. It's essentially more a
dynamism of one encompasses other. In the sense,
the swati man here in this case should allow
the vastness of his mental emotional landscape
for Aries to run around the ground. You see what
I'm saying? I'm giving an analogy here. So use
that kind of analogy when you're talking of this
kind of a compatibility analysis. Let's see physical
now. Now again, just to recap, when you talk
of physical, use all five senses. When you're
talking with intimate partner, it's a one -seven
relationship always in the sense that one is
meeting opposite to the other. It's a reflection
of self, isn't it? If you take Bhavad Bhavam
concept also, it's one -to -one and seventh aspect
from seventh is one again so it's a very mirror
kind of a relationship always among the various
human relationships so when you talk of physical
intimacy use kinesthetics use NLP i left lots
of resources on my google drive and in the description
box go through that physical intimacy this is
one of chemistry cadence and turn -ons how you
carry out the gentle physical touch Don't come
to this directly until you have covered properly,
understood properly. If you want consultancy
in relations, you can email me, then we can discuss.
If you are already a couple dating, whatever.
Because mental and emotional play into the physical.
This should be the order of priority, so to speak.
Don't get physical first without fully exploring
the mental and the emotional. Because physical
becomes a very tender aspect. It's actually the
most tender aspect, if you ask me. Ashwini Moon,
what does she desire? Passion with play, direct
initiation and tangible chemistry. Fast ignition,
being Aries, spontaneous moves and fiery rhythms.
Very quick, very passionate, very direct. Ashwini,
in physical terms. In the bed, okay, if you want
me to say it out loud. Partner who keeps up,
challenges, responds instinctively. How he fulfills
the Swati style is, respond with fluid rhythm,
match her pace. Swati can do that very well,
matching the pace. Then slow her down just enough
to deepen the sensation. Create movement based
intimacy. Lot of body movement, dance, travel,
sensual massage. Why? Because Swati is like the
wind, it moves. It requires physical movement.
Air plus fire blending. They both support each
other in that context because air is Libra and
fire is Ashwini. So they complement each other
very well. Compliment her confidence. She glows
under her admiration. Who doesn't? Isn't it?
We think only women need the glowing. Even men
do, by the way. After intimacy, gentle dialogue,
whispering, laughter, small affirmations keeps
her fire tender. Now speaking of the other guy,
Swati Mohan, what does he desire physically?
He desires an aesthetic atmosphere. Swati is
in Libra. Put on scented candles. Put on nice
soft jazz music, if you will. Any kind of music.
Take your pick. Soft light. Create the environment.
Swati needs an environment. Libra is the environment.
Partner who flirts intellectually, not just physically.
You have to connect with Swati at the mental
level before getting to the physical like I just
said. Harmony of rhythm. He loves dance. Being
a Swati. Emotional synchronization before touch.
I know this. I am an Ascended Swati. So, this
is very innate to my nature. How she fulfills
it Ashwini style is create a sensory choreography.
It has to be a dance. Intimacy, if you ask me,
is a dance inherent in and of itself. Because
it's very dynamic. How will you predict what
the other person knows or wants on any given
moment? Each one is going through such a flux.
Her instinctive passion guided by rhythm and
music. Add verbal foreplay. Tell me what you
want to do next. Because she needs that directness.
She'll approach it with that directness of Aries
and Ashley. His air element loves the mental
tease. Keep intimacy varied but not chaotic.
Plant surprises feel safer to him rather than
pure impulse. Don't jump on his skin. Her courage
and openness make him feel desired, which heightens
his erotic confidence. All this play is needed
as the end result of the connection which we
did in the previous two slides, isn't it? The
mental and the physical. That's how it plays
out. There are some challenges as usual. Let's
see what the fixes can be. What are the challenges
of Swati and Ashwini when it comes to intimacy?
Four points listed there. Directness versus diplomacy.
Guess who's who? Directness, Ashwini, diplomacy,
Libra, Swati. Sign being, she says too much.
He retreats into silence or social avoidance.
Can become very quiet, Swati, that way. Fix.
Delay, deliver, roll. She pauses one breath before
bluntness. He commits to direct feedback. Within
24 hours, you have to give Libra time and space.
It's very spacious kind of energy. It's an air
sign, right Libra? How much ever fire wants to
burn and have things quickly resolve, he needs
the space and you have partnered with him. So
it's a responsibility also of type. Speed versus
space, there you are, sign. She decides instantly.
He needs reflection time. Swathi people are deep
ponderers of intellectual landscape air sign
fix is what kind how do you fix this 90 10 rule
she acts 90 % on impulse leaves the 10 % space
for him to air consensus deeply analytical AI
does this very well by the way I have given it
my note so it is doing basically from my notes
number three control versus drift sign she tries
to fix, he floats away. The fix is pre -agreed
anchor rituals like daily texts, weekly check
-ins that tether his air gently without restriction.
You can't restrict Swati. That's impossible.
So you need at least some degree of compatibility
as the Gana. Because Ashwini, she is also a Dev
Gana. So she will understand at the intellectual
level already. That's why I am doing compatibility
by Ganas. The other things won't match. There
is too much of discord. That's why I will not
consider those. Charm versus trust. Her jealousy
spikes. If his social charm extends outward,
he feels accused. Like he wants to go out and
be a social bird. Swati, right? He wants to go
out, meet people, make new friends, talk to other
women, which she might feel jealous about, fixes
verbal affirmations of exclusivity. He names
her openly as his partner. She responds with
visible trust and praise, not policing. As a
general rule, women should stop policing the
men. You'll not only lose the men, you'll lose
all other men because you'll form an opinion,
isn't it? Going around social media a lot. Bottom
line, bottom line is nice and well framed, that's
why I stuck it there. Ashwini woman with Swathi
man, this is a flame and breeze relationship.
She ignites, he oxygenates. She drives direction,
he brings grace. This is always something each
one brings here and in a nice way. There one
seven moon opposition creates mirror dynamic.
Each reflects what the other lacks. Her decisiveness
teaches him boldness. His balance teaches her
patience. When they integrate speed with serenity,
they become dynamic pair, passionate, communicative
and socially radiant. He is a social bird. The
key is fire must not scorch and air must not
scatter. Very nice point. Keep the rhythm. Ignite,
pause, breathe and return. Follow that cycle
for this pair. That's how this union transforms
from simple attraction to enduring alchemy. The
partnership of vitality, freedom and elegant
devotion. combination with Ashwini which will
be I think 110 so Ashwini and Sravana nakshatra
in Capricorn. Let's see that. Take care, be safe.