morning wonderful people welcome to my channel
before i get into this intimacy podcast we are
checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following
the following four points i wanted to give you
an introduction before i get into it if you've
seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome
to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology
anyway number one what am i considering here
Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That
is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana.
We will see that. As we go along, we will see
that. I will keep giving different points for
you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using
this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury
and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement,
wherever they are, whichever house they are,
check all these three when you are doing a voluntary
or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go
blindly only by the moon check all of these three
as well because all of those each one of those
plays a part in mental emotional and physical
agility that is required if there is too much
stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to
absorb be willing to work with oneself first
always self comes first there's so many things
i shared on the google drive you can see even
the community post You can look that up, use
that, share it, whatever. Number three, these
podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy,
considering in the subcontinent of India earlier
they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people
are just going around sleeping with everyone,
youngsters. This is a madness which people are
living their old culture. There was some wisdom
in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking,
use these principles along with going to a traditional
Jyotish for example okay for all those who are
matching the moon in the charts have this as
a guideline to begin with get some understanding
don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in
this day and age dating one another the dating
business which we have borrowed from the western
civilization never mind i don't want to dig that
rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive
link in description box in each podcast. The
files are there. Use them for your own analysis.
You can do it with AI. You can do it with whatever.
So, we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. The
next best possible combination will be from Ashwini
to Pushya. So, we are considering an Ashwini
woman and Pushya man in this case. Just putting
Ashwini all the time on man doesn't help, isn't
it? There's a lady next door who's a Shani Nakshatra,
so you know, okay. Anyway, so those are highlighted
there. Those snakes eating their own tails. Those
are the logos of the nakshatras, in case you're
wondering. Core chemistry, one for how it's positioning
in this particular one. If you don't know what
I'm talking about, watch the introduction first.
Tone is of spark and sanctuary. Her speed and
adventure meet his steadiness and care. Why it
works? Ashwini, that is her, brings initiative,
courage, novelty, playful risk. Pushya, him,
brings nature, nurture, reliability, tradition
and emotional holding capacity. Just aside, think
of intimacy as you are merging energies with
another being, while at the same time being you,
because you can't be anything else other than
you, isn't it? Just think about that for a minute.
Back to this. Risk. If unbalanced, her fire may
feel contained and the water or earth within
him may feel rushed. The four ten axis demands
pacing. Warm home base, purposeful action. These
are all keywords. The mind in this case, the
first part. The mind, communication, pacing and
thought style. How it will work between these
two. Okay? Which is to say, Ashwini woman and
pushy man. Ashwini moon, she desires direct fast
decisions, clean language, freedom to start now.
Everything is now with Ashwini. Projects, trips
and so on. Or home front, whatever it is. Redoing
the interior decoration, which women are very
fond of, without over -processing. Partner who
keeps up with bursts of enthusiasm and enjoys
firsts. That's what she desires. How can he fulfill
it, Mr. Pushya? Offer firm but short timelines.
Because she understands only that fast business.
I love it. Book it by 6 p .m. I'll sort out some
home bits. For example, these are all examples.
Cooked up by AI. But you can make up your own
stuff. Provided you understand the nakshatras.
I've shared that in the Google Drive. Okay? in
the description box and it's also on the community
podcast of this channel. Second, respond in clear,
affirmative phases. Keep lengthy, cautionary
lectures. No more newspapers, alright? Create
a safe runway for her initiative. Let her have
it her way, because she doesn't know any other
way. Set the budgets, essentials covered, then
cheer her take off. Now coming to him, Mr. Pushya
Moon, what does he desire? Thoughtful, paced
discussion and decisions that feel emotionally
safe. Respect for tradition, family rhythms,
clear responsibilities. Now for all this you
can look up the Pushya Nakshatra, intimacy characteristic.
Reassurance that action won't disrupt stability.
Pushya has a theme of neglecting spouse by the
way. Anybody Pushya Moon, please take care of
that. Otherwise, you'll have a failed day later.
How she fulfills it, Ashwini style. Lead with
one stabilizer per plan. I'll be back by 10.
I've told mom. Present A -B choices. Like, basically
a digital type of nature. We shall do this or
we shall do that without lengthy analysis because
she knows only that style. Bear every bold idea
with securing step. You know, one step at a time.
That's the mental compatibility factor. Now let's
see emotional. Compatibility is something which
can be spoken of endlessly, but it has to be
on all fronts, isn't it? We are taking primary
fronts. Mental, emotional, physical. And you
can even go through other Google Drive stuff
which I have left. Anyway, back to emotions.
Safety, bonding and repair. Ashwini Moon, that
is she, desires autonomy to be respected. Everybody
wants respect, nobody is willing to give it,
isn't it? Affection that doesn't cage. Low drama,
honesty, quick repair, say what you want and
get on with your life kind of approach Ashwini
has to be seen as brave, initiating and not impulsive.
How he fulfils that emotion. Freedom plus faith
statements, go explore, I'll keep the stove on
or I'll cook for you. After friction of a grounded
touch, one sentence validation, then concrete
next step. Like I said, Ashwini wants a digital
kind of mentality. Zero or one, let's go. Praise
her courage, specifically how you loved how she
felt in the new class or what she did that day.
Praise this Ashwini ruled by Mars in Aries, so
requires a lot of ego pampering. Pushyamun, what
he desires. Emotional security, dependable routines.
Because it's the fourth house kind of stuff.
It's cancer, isn't it? Heart of cancer. Warmth,
loyalty, and family -centric gestures. Being
needed for his protective provider nature. So
how she fulfills it? Keep anchor rituals. Weekly
meals together, check -in texts at the same hour
every day, how are you doing, and so on and so
forth. Name his care explicitly. Your steadiness
calms me. Tell him what part of emotion resonates
with you. You have to be vocal, Ashwini. Although
you're all the time wanting action, Miss Ashwini,
please take care that this guy wants some validation
emotionally. Let him provide in small visible
ways, home fixes, planning, family time, and
so forth. Now let us see the physical part, the
kinesthetic part. involving all five senses not
just touch or not just having sex okay it's more
than that let's see on the physical forefront
when I say physical in every podcast just translated
to kinesthetic audio visual all five senses put
together you can look up my NLP series for that
anyway physical intimacy chemistry cadence and
turn -ons ashwini for her what are the desires
Obviously, spontaneity, athletic play and quick
escalation. Novel settings, positions and thrill
of the new is another thing that excites her
this time. She is Ashwini, the last vermin Ashwini.
Moments where she can lead or be playfully challenged.
She's in this case like the woman on top thing.
How he fulfills. Give green light windows for
spontaneity. Pre -cleared nights and spaces.
Allow Ashwini the space to be a boss. Woman on
top, in this case. Blend adventure with tenderness.
Quick heat and hurried cuddling. Just get on
with stuff, you know, less foreplay. Let's get
on to that. Signal consent and containment. Safe
words and plan it properly so she can race without
crashing. For him, Mr Pushyamoon. Sensitive guy.
More emotional, gentle pace, lots of warmth and
after care, emotional foreplay, safety, soft
words, cuddling, a setting that feels private,
home and sacred. How she fulfills? She starts
with soothing cues, dim lights, incented candles,
perfume, soft, nicely decorated room, for example,
clean room, people have so much junk in their
bedroom, familiar scent, slow embrace, helps
the cancer. Keep the nest close as in blanket,
tea, shared shower and so on for post intimacy
bonding Not just run away after the deed is done.
All right, let passions crescendo then linger
He likes the lingering factor. He's Mr. Cancer
Moon here. So I have exchanged so that you can
feel that irrespective of gender All right, each
one can be different Man can be emotional equally.
There's no stereotype in Vedic Astrology. It's
all how it plays out according to nakshatra.
So I want to give you a sense of that through
this podcast. So this is a good match if such
things are followed. Now let's see the problematic
areas where it will clash. Now the friction points
of Ashwini and Pushya. Although they are matched,
one for relationship. Speed versus security,
the axis of tension, science. He's ready to go,
he's still making it safe. The guy is taking
his own time. See, this is where kind of friction
can come. So you can fix that by having different
kind of plans. Phase one, we'll do this. Phase
two, we will do this. Why? Because you need to
give the guy the time to relax. It's not all
about you, Miss Ashwini. Number two, over -nurture
or over it. Independence. She requires independence.
He requires a lot of nurturing, but overdoing
either one won't work, will it? Sign is, he parents
and she pushes away. It's like, I'm not your
mother, you know. I'm your wife. That kind of
an approach. Fix. Convert care taking into enabling.
I set the budget so you can play. She reciprocates.
You have to understand this. You see what I'm
saying? You see how this plays out. And I've
covered this before in this entire playlist.
Intimacy is all about first knowing what the
hell are you doing with another person. It's
not just body and genitals and body parts, folks.
It's much, much, much more than that. Number
3. Duty drains spark. Why? Because it's got a
4 -10 relationship also. The sign, routines start
dominating. You know, I gotta do this, or house
chores, or I gotta go get stuff from the grocery,
whatever. Romance feels scheduled only because
that 410 plays out. Fix, alternate different
nights. Make it more comforting. Take care of
the cancer part, take care of the drive part.
Focus on those aspects which make it more comfortable.
It has more depth in it. It has more surprise
and it has more adventure in it. Use your culture
wherever you're listening from to make this happen.
You have to make stuff happen, sparks just don't
happen. Labeling wounds, for example, he calls
her impulsive, she calls him slow. See, labeling
never helps in any nakshatra, any relationship,
anywhere. You are just putting a tag and letting
it rot, for example. It's like keeping a garbage
in the garbage bin. You called it garbage, put
it there, but it is still there. Learn to take
ownership, folks. the fix is relabeled strengths
impulsive words to courageous slow to thorough
because he needs thorough now he is cancer she
needs courageous she is ashwini so you can do
role playing when and i'll end with this when
does this happen like a magical thing between
ashwini woman and pusha man even considering
their ascendant and venus and moon etc are in
devanas even then when does it happen when She
understands what the hell this whole thing is
about and he understands what the hell this whole
thing is about also. First they need to understand
themselves and then bring it to the partners
and they can dynamically explore. This is dynamism.
That's why I call it dynamic relationships. Next
we shall do Ashwini to Swati at Think Libra.
I think we've finished four. I'll see you in
the next. Take care.