WEBVTT 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:02.359 morning wonderful people welcome to my channel 00:00:02.359 --> 00:00:05.480 before i get into this intimacy podcast we are 00:00:05.480 --> 00:00:09.199 checking the dynamism in intimacy and i'm following 00:00:09.199 --> 00:00:11.740 the following four points i wanted to give you 00:00:11.740 --> 00:00:14.000 an introduction before i get into it if you've 00:00:14.000 --> 00:00:17.579 seen this just skip this part if you're new welcome 00:00:17.579 --> 00:00:21.079 to the exploratory channel of vedic astrology 00:00:21.079 --> 00:00:23.839 anyway number one what am i considering here 00:00:24.650 --> 00:00:27.649 Moon compatibility by Gana of Nakshatras. That 00:00:27.649 --> 00:00:29.670 is the Dev Gana, Rakshatana and Manusha Gana. 00:00:29.789 --> 00:00:31.690 We will see that. As we go along, we will see 00:00:31.690 --> 00:00:34.890 that. I will keep giving different points for 00:00:34.890 --> 00:00:38.789 you. Each place. Number two. Also, while using 00:00:38.789 --> 00:00:41.030 this, check the Ascendant, Venus and Mercury 00:00:41.030 --> 00:00:45.189 and the Seventh Lord, Nakshatras. Nakshatra placement, 00:00:45.409 --> 00:00:46.770 wherever they are, whichever house they are, 00:00:46.929 --> 00:00:49.909 check all these three when you are doing a voluntary 00:00:49.909 --> 00:00:53.549 or very deliberate comparison. Okay? don't go 00:00:53.549 --> 00:00:56.049 blindly only by the moon check all of these three 00:00:56.049 --> 00:00:59.509 as well because all of those each one of those 00:00:59.509 --> 00:01:02.789 plays a part in mental emotional and physical 00:01:02.789 --> 00:01:07.170 agility that is required if there is too much 00:01:07.170 --> 00:01:11.209 stiffness you will not absorb okay agility to 00:01:11.209 --> 00:01:14.549 absorb be willing to work with oneself first 00:01:14.549 --> 00:01:17.209 always self comes first there's so many things 00:01:17.209 --> 00:01:19.129 i shared on the google drive you can see even 00:01:19.129 --> 00:01:22.579 the community post You can look that up, use 00:01:22.579 --> 00:01:25.000 that, share it, whatever. Number three, these 00:01:25.000 --> 00:01:28.420 podcasts will examine the dynamism within intimacy, 00:01:28.700 --> 00:01:32.159 considering in the subcontinent of India earlier 00:01:32.159 --> 00:01:34.760 they were doing matchmaking. Nowadays people 00:01:34.760 --> 00:01:36.560 are just going around sleeping with everyone, 00:01:36.700 --> 00:01:40.299 youngsters. This is a madness which people are 00:01:40.299 --> 00:01:42.400 living their old culture. There was some wisdom 00:01:42.400 --> 00:01:46.340 in it. But anyway, if you're still doing matchmaking, 00:01:46.719 --> 00:01:50.620 use these principles along with going to a traditional 00:01:50.620 --> 00:01:54.140 Jyotish for example okay for all those who are 00:01:54.140 --> 00:01:57.000 matching the moon in the charts have this as 00:01:57.000 --> 00:01:59.819 a guideline to begin with get some understanding 00:01:59.819 --> 00:02:04.340 don't go blindly to an astrologer or even in 00:02:04.340 --> 00:02:07.900 this day and age dating one another the dating 00:02:07.900 --> 00:02:09.879 business which we have borrowed from the western 00:02:09.879 --> 00:02:12.699 civilization never mind i don't want to dig that 00:02:12.699 --> 00:02:15.400 rabbit hole number four Check the Google Drive 00:02:15.400 --> 00:02:18.039 link in description box in each podcast. The 00:02:18.039 --> 00:02:20.580 files are there. Use them for your own analysis. 00:02:20.740 --> 00:02:23.000 You can do it with AI. You can do it with whatever. 00:02:24.139 --> 00:02:28.280 So, we will begin the podcast. Let's begin. The 00:02:28.280 --> 00:02:32.180 next best possible combination will be from Ashwini 00:02:32.180 --> 00:02:34.759 to Pushya. So, we are considering an Ashwini 00:02:34.759 --> 00:02:38.900 woman and Pushya man in this case. Just putting 00:02:38.900 --> 00:02:41.500 Ashwini all the time on man doesn't help, isn't 00:02:41.500 --> 00:02:44.530 it? There's a lady next door who's a Shani Nakshatra, 00:02:44.689 --> 00:02:48.550 so you know, okay. Anyway, so those are highlighted 00:02:48.550 --> 00:02:52.150 there. Those snakes eating their own tails. Those 00:02:52.150 --> 00:02:54.550 are the logos of the nakshatras, in case you're 00:02:54.550 --> 00:02:58.389 wondering. Core chemistry, one for how it's positioning 00:02:58.389 --> 00:03:01.349 in this particular one. If you don't know what 00:03:01.349 --> 00:03:03.469 I'm talking about, watch the introduction first. 00:03:04.030 --> 00:03:08.409 Tone is of spark and sanctuary. Her speed and 00:03:08.409 --> 00:03:11.330 adventure meet his steadiness and care. Why it 00:03:11.330 --> 00:03:14.509 works? Ashwini, that is her, brings initiative, 00:03:14.629 --> 00:03:18.729 courage, novelty, playful risk. Pushya, him, 00:03:18.849 --> 00:03:22.569 brings nature, nurture, reliability, tradition 00:03:22.569 --> 00:03:28.830 and emotional holding capacity. Just aside, think 00:03:28.830 --> 00:03:32.889 of intimacy as you are merging energies with 00:03:32.889 --> 00:03:37.530 another being, while at the same time being you, 00:03:37.590 --> 00:03:39.449 because you can't be anything else other than 00:03:39.449 --> 00:03:42.110 you, isn't it? Just think about that for a minute. 00:03:42.490 --> 00:03:48.129 Back to this. Risk. If unbalanced, her fire may 00:03:48.129 --> 00:03:51.069 feel contained and the water or earth within 00:03:51.069 --> 00:03:54.449 him may feel rushed. The four ten axis demands 00:03:54.449 --> 00:03:58.610 pacing. Warm home base, purposeful action. These 00:03:58.610 --> 00:04:01.629 are all keywords. The mind in this case, the 00:04:01.629 --> 00:04:04.509 first part. The mind, communication, pacing and 00:04:04.509 --> 00:04:06.590 thought style. How it will work between these 00:04:06.590 --> 00:04:10.969 two. Okay? Which is to say, Ashwini woman and 00:04:10.969 --> 00:04:15.069 pushy man. Ashwini moon, she desires direct fast 00:04:15.069 --> 00:04:19.050 decisions, clean language, freedom to start now. 00:04:19.410 --> 00:04:21.949 Everything is now with Ashwini. Projects, trips 00:04:21.949 --> 00:04:25.930 and so on. Or home front, whatever it is. Redoing 00:04:25.930 --> 00:04:28.490 the interior decoration, which women are very 00:04:28.490 --> 00:04:32.009 fond of, without over -processing. Partner who 00:04:32.009 --> 00:04:34.850 keeps up with bursts of enthusiasm and enjoys 00:04:34.850 --> 00:04:39.430 firsts. That's what she desires. How can he fulfill 00:04:39.430 --> 00:04:43.430 it, Mr. Pushya? Offer firm but short timelines. 00:04:44.449 --> 00:04:47.350 Because she understands only that fast business. 00:04:48.350 --> 00:04:51.649 I love it. Book it by 6 p .m. I'll sort out some 00:04:51.649 --> 00:04:53.829 home bits. For example, these are all examples. 00:04:54.370 --> 00:04:56.949 Cooked up by AI. But you can make up your own 00:04:56.949 --> 00:04:59.730 stuff. Provided you understand the nakshatras. 00:04:59.870 --> 00:05:02.439 I've shared that in the Google Drive. Okay? in 00:05:02.439 --> 00:05:04.579 the description box and it's also on the community 00:05:04.579 --> 00:05:09.420 podcast of this channel. Second, respond in clear, 00:05:09.759 --> 00:05:12.779 affirmative phases. Keep lengthy, cautionary 00:05:12.779 --> 00:05:15.839 lectures. No more newspapers, alright? Create 00:05:15.839 --> 00:05:20.040 a safe runway for her initiative. Let her have 00:05:20.040 --> 00:05:22.839 it her way, because she doesn't know any other 00:05:22.839 --> 00:05:26.939 way. Set the budgets, essentials covered, then 00:05:26.939 --> 00:05:31.529 cheer her take off. Now coming to him, Mr. Pushya 00:05:31.529 --> 00:05:34.810 Moon, what does he desire? Thoughtful, paced 00:05:34.810 --> 00:05:37.949 discussion and decisions that feel emotionally 00:05:37.949 --> 00:05:41.709 safe. Respect for tradition, family rhythms, 00:05:42.389 --> 00:05:44.410 clear responsibilities. Now for all this you 00:05:44.410 --> 00:05:47.589 can look up the Pushya Nakshatra, intimacy characteristic. 00:05:48.529 --> 00:05:51.709 Reassurance that action won't disrupt stability. 00:05:51.850 --> 00:05:54.310 Pushya has a theme of neglecting spouse by the 00:05:54.310 --> 00:05:56.730 way. Anybody Pushya Moon, please take care of 00:05:56.730 --> 00:05:59.290 that. Otherwise, you'll have a failed day later. 00:06:00.170 --> 00:06:03.290 How she fulfills it, Ashwini style. Lead with 00:06:03.290 --> 00:06:05.910 one stabilizer per plan. I'll be back by 10. 00:06:06.009 --> 00:06:13.149 I've told mom. Present A -B choices. Like, basically 00:06:13.149 --> 00:06:16.110 a digital type of nature. We shall do this or 00:06:16.110 --> 00:06:18.670 we shall do that without lengthy analysis because 00:06:18.670 --> 00:06:22.230 she knows only that style. Bear every bold idea 00:06:22.230 --> 00:06:25.850 with securing step. You know, one step at a time. 00:06:26.509 --> 00:06:29.470 That's the mental compatibility factor. Now let's 00:06:29.470 --> 00:06:32.350 see emotional. Compatibility is something which 00:06:32.350 --> 00:06:34.509 can be spoken of endlessly, but it has to be 00:06:34.509 --> 00:06:36.970 on all fronts, isn't it? We are taking primary 00:06:36.970 --> 00:06:39.569 fronts. Mental, emotional, physical. And you 00:06:39.569 --> 00:06:41.629 can even go through other Google Drive stuff 00:06:41.629 --> 00:06:45.189 which I have left. Anyway, back to emotions. 00:06:45.329 --> 00:06:48.430 Safety, bonding and repair. Ashwini Moon, that 00:06:48.430 --> 00:06:52.910 is she, desires autonomy to be respected. Everybody 00:06:52.910 --> 00:06:54.769 wants respect, nobody is willing to give it, 00:06:54.769 --> 00:06:58.959 isn't it? Affection that doesn't cage. Low drama, 00:06:59.139 --> 00:07:01.740 honesty, quick repair, say what you want and 00:07:01.740 --> 00:07:03.800 get on with your life kind of approach Ashwini 00:07:03.800 --> 00:07:08.120 has to be seen as brave, initiating and not impulsive. 00:07:09.040 --> 00:07:13.040 How he fulfils that emotion. Freedom plus faith 00:07:13.040 --> 00:07:16.379 statements, go explore, I'll keep the stove on 00:07:16.379 --> 00:07:20.139 or I'll cook for you. After friction of a grounded 00:07:20.139 --> 00:07:23.160 touch, one sentence validation, then concrete 00:07:23.160 --> 00:07:25.860 next step. Like I said, Ashwini wants a digital 00:07:25.860 --> 00:07:30.199 kind of mentality. Zero or one, let's go. Praise 00:07:30.199 --> 00:07:35.560 her courage, specifically how you loved how she 00:07:35.560 --> 00:07:38.319 felt in the new class or what she did that day. 00:07:39.339 --> 00:07:42.680 Praise this Ashwini ruled by Mars in Aries, so 00:07:42.680 --> 00:07:47.379 requires a lot of ego pampering. Pushyamun, what 00:07:47.379 --> 00:07:50.480 he desires. Emotional security, dependable routines. 00:07:51.019 --> 00:07:52.959 Because it's the fourth house kind of stuff. 00:07:52.959 --> 00:07:57.180 It's cancer, isn't it? Heart of cancer. Warmth, 00:07:57.279 --> 00:08:00.899 loyalty, and family -centric gestures. Being 00:08:00.899 --> 00:08:04.199 needed for his protective provider nature. So 00:08:04.199 --> 00:08:06.759 how she fulfills it? Keep anchor rituals. Weekly 00:08:06.759 --> 00:08:09.420 meals together, check -in texts at the same hour 00:08:09.420 --> 00:08:11.459 every day, how are you doing, and so on and so 00:08:11.459 --> 00:08:16.360 forth. Name his care explicitly. Your steadiness 00:08:16.360 --> 00:08:20.339 calms me. Tell him what part of emotion resonates 00:08:20.339 --> 00:08:24.819 with you. You have to be vocal, Ashwini. Although 00:08:24.819 --> 00:08:29.339 you're all the time wanting action, Miss Ashwini, 00:08:29.860 --> 00:08:32.840 please take care that this guy wants some validation 00:08:32.840 --> 00:08:36.259 emotionally. Let him provide in small visible 00:08:36.259 --> 00:08:39.799 ways, home fixes, planning, family time, and 00:08:39.799 --> 00:08:43.360 so forth. Now let us see the physical part, the 00:08:43.360 --> 00:08:46.330 kinesthetic part. involving all five senses not 00:08:46.330 --> 00:08:50.289 just touch or not just having sex okay it's more 00:08:50.289 --> 00:08:53.350 than that let's see on the physical forefront 00:08:53.350 --> 00:08:57.210 when I say physical in every podcast just translated 00:08:57.210 --> 00:09:01.470 to kinesthetic audio visual all five senses put 00:09:01.470 --> 00:09:04.649 together you can look up my NLP series for that 00:09:04.649 --> 00:09:07.990 anyway physical intimacy chemistry cadence and 00:09:07.990 --> 00:09:10.710 turn -ons ashwini for her what are the desires 00:09:11.840 --> 00:09:14.700 Obviously, spontaneity, athletic play and quick 00:09:14.700 --> 00:09:19.720 escalation. Novel settings, positions and thrill 00:09:19.720 --> 00:09:22.519 of the new is another thing that excites her 00:09:22.519 --> 00:09:27.419 this time. She is Ashwini, the last vermin Ashwini. 00:09:28.139 --> 00:09:32.019 Moments where she can lead or be playfully challenged. 00:09:32.519 --> 00:09:35.379 She's in this case like the woman on top thing. 00:09:36.360 --> 00:09:39.019 How he fulfills. Give green light windows for 00:09:39.019 --> 00:09:42.580 spontaneity. Pre -cleared nights and spaces. 00:09:43.340 --> 00:09:47.620 Allow Ashwini the space to be a boss. Woman on 00:09:47.620 --> 00:09:50.259 top, in this case. Blend adventure with tenderness. 00:09:50.440 --> 00:09:53.960 Quick heat and hurried cuddling. Just get on 00:09:53.960 --> 00:09:56.340 with stuff, you know, less foreplay. Let's get 00:09:56.340 --> 00:10:00.240 on to that. Signal consent and containment. Safe 00:10:00.240 --> 00:10:04.440 words and plan it properly so she can race without 00:10:04.440 --> 00:10:09.100 crashing. For him, Mr Pushyamoon. Sensitive guy. 00:10:09.980 --> 00:10:13.220 More emotional, gentle pace, lots of warmth and 00:10:13.220 --> 00:10:16.919 after care, emotional foreplay, safety, soft 00:10:16.919 --> 00:10:20.559 words, cuddling, a setting that feels private, 00:10:20.720 --> 00:10:24.059 home and sacred. How she fulfills? She starts 00:10:24.059 --> 00:10:27.399 with soothing cues, dim lights, incented candles, 00:10:27.799 --> 00:10:31.460 perfume, soft, nicely decorated room, for example, 00:10:31.820 --> 00:10:34.019 clean room, people have so much junk in their 00:10:34.019 --> 00:10:37.580 bedroom, familiar scent, slow embrace, helps 00:10:37.580 --> 00:10:41.990 the cancer. Keep the nest close as in blanket, 00:10:42.210 --> 00:10:44.929 tea, shared shower and so on for post intimacy 00:10:44.929 --> 00:10:49.009 bonding Not just run away after the deed is done. 00:10:49.029 --> 00:10:52.529 All right, let passions crescendo then linger 00:10:52.529 --> 00:10:55.509 He likes the lingering factor. He's Mr. Cancer 00:10:55.509 --> 00:10:59.049 Moon here. So I have exchanged so that you can 00:10:59.049 --> 00:11:05.309 feel that irrespective of gender All right, each 00:11:05.309 --> 00:11:09.059 one can be different Man can be emotional equally. 00:11:09.480 --> 00:11:13.080 There's no stereotype in Vedic Astrology. It's 00:11:13.080 --> 00:11:15.259 all how it plays out according to nakshatra. 00:11:15.419 --> 00:11:17.299 So I want to give you a sense of that through 00:11:17.299 --> 00:11:21.019 this podcast. So this is a good match if such 00:11:21.019 --> 00:11:24.799 things are followed. Now let's see the problematic 00:11:24.799 --> 00:11:27.980 areas where it will clash. Now the friction points 00:11:27.980 --> 00:11:32.899 of Ashwini and Pushya. Although they are matched, 00:11:33.259 --> 00:11:36.860 one for relationship. Speed versus security, 00:11:37.220 --> 00:11:39.820 the axis of tension, science. He's ready to go, 00:11:39.840 --> 00:11:42.460 he's still making it safe. The guy is taking 00:11:42.460 --> 00:11:44.539 his own time. See, this is where kind of friction 00:11:44.539 --> 00:11:48.620 can come. So you can fix that by having different 00:11:48.620 --> 00:11:51.279 kind of plans. Phase one, we'll do this. Phase 00:11:51.279 --> 00:11:53.700 two, we will do this. Why? Because you need to 00:11:53.700 --> 00:11:56.299 give the guy the time to relax. It's not all 00:11:56.299 --> 00:12:00.519 about you, Miss Ashwini. Number two, over -nurture 00:12:00.519 --> 00:12:04.710 or over it. Independence. She requires independence. 00:12:04.830 --> 00:12:07.049 He requires a lot of nurturing, but overdoing 00:12:07.049 --> 00:12:11.269 either one won't work, will it? Sign is, he parents 00:12:11.269 --> 00:12:14.289 and she pushes away. It's like, I'm not your 00:12:14.289 --> 00:12:17.149 mother, you know. I'm your wife. That kind of 00:12:17.149 --> 00:12:20.629 an approach. Fix. Convert care taking into enabling. 00:12:20.929 --> 00:12:23.870 I set the budget so you can play. She reciprocates. 00:12:24.429 --> 00:12:28.149 You have to understand this. You see what I'm 00:12:28.149 --> 00:12:30.879 saying? You see how this plays out. And I've 00:12:30.879 --> 00:12:32.639 covered this before in this entire playlist. 00:12:32.940 --> 00:12:35.220 Intimacy is all about first knowing what the 00:12:35.220 --> 00:12:38.600 hell are you doing with another person. It's 00:12:38.600 --> 00:12:42.179 not just body and genitals and body parts, folks. 00:12:42.379 --> 00:12:44.940 It's much, much, much more than that. Number 00:12:44.940 --> 00:12:49.899 3. Duty drains spark. Why? Because it's got a 00:12:49.899 --> 00:12:53.120 4 -10 relationship also. The sign, routines start 00:12:53.120 --> 00:12:55.779 dominating. You know, I gotta do this, or house 00:12:55.779 --> 00:12:58.639 chores, or I gotta go get stuff from the grocery, 00:12:58.720 --> 00:13:03.539 whatever. Romance feels scheduled only because 00:13:03.539 --> 00:13:08.360 that 410 plays out. Fix, alternate different 00:13:08.360 --> 00:13:11.539 nights. Make it more comforting. Take care of 00:13:11.539 --> 00:13:14.220 the cancer part, take care of the drive part. 00:13:14.559 --> 00:13:19.100 Focus on those aspects which make it more comfortable. 00:13:19.379 --> 00:13:21.860 It has more depth in it. It has more surprise 00:13:21.860 --> 00:13:25.259 and it has more adventure in it. Use your culture 00:13:25.259 --> 00:13:28.220 wherever you're listening from to make this happen. 00:13:28.700 --> 00:13:32.980 You have to make stuff happen, sparks just don't 00:13:32.980 --> 00:13:35.919 happen. Labeling wounds, for example, he calls 00:13:35.919 --> 00:13:38.340 her impulsive, she calls him slow. See, labeling 00:13:38.340 --> 00:13:41.899 never helps in any nakshatra, any relationship, 00:13:42.059 --> 00:13:46.220 anywhere. You are just putting a tag and letting 00:13:46.220 --> 00:13:49.360 it rot, for example. It's like keeping a garbage 00:13:49.360 --> 00:13:51.500 in the garbage bin. You called it garbage, put 00:13:51.500 --> 00:13:54.720 it there, but it is still there. Learn to take 00:13:54.720 --> 00:13:58.779 ownership, folks. the fix is relabeled strengths 00:13:58.779 --> 00:14:01.659 impulsive words to courageous slow to thorough 00:14:01.659 --> 00:14:05.379 because he needs thorough now he is cancer she 00:14:05.379 --> 00:14:08.519 needs courageous she is ashwini so you can do 00:14:08.519 --> 00:14:12.120 role playing when and i'll end with this when 00:14:12.120 --> 00:14:14.620 does this happen like a magical thing between 00:14:14.620 --> 00:14:17.360 ashwini woman and pusha man even considering 00:14:17.360 --> 00:14:21.519 their ascendant and venus and moon etc are in 00:14:21.519 --> 00:14:26.500 devanas even then when does it happen when She 00:14:26.500 --> 00:14:28.539 understands what the hell this whole thing is 00:14:28.539 --> 00:14:31.580 about and he understands what the hell this whole 00:14:31.580 --> 00:14:34.379 thing is about also. First they need to understand 00:14:34.379 --> 00:14:36.919 themselves and then bring it to the partners 00:14:36.919 --> 00:14:40.120 and they can dynamically explore. This is dynamism. 00:14:40.379 --> 00:14:43.919 That's why I call it dynamic relationships. Next 00:14:43.919 --> 00:14:47.500 we shall do Ashwini to Swati at Think Libra. 00:14:47.580 --> 00:14:49.419 I think we've finished four. I'll see you in 00:14:49.419 --> 00:14:50.480 the next. Take care.