hello wonderful people welcome to my channel
now we are doing the second one of the power
couples we are discussing intimacy in congruence
in continuation to the intimacy of nakshatra
so you can look that up in this playlist if you're
new to my channel you can subscribe and explore
generally anyway in this one we are discussing
intimacy so what dynamic intimacy is possible
in the best kind of match Fixing, not match fixing
as in going and fixing some cricket matches.
We are talking about match making between couples.
Very popular in Indian subcontinent. Although
many people get it completely wrong. And they
just go by traditional books without matching
the psychological parts. Nakshatra has psychological
parts. This is the reason why I published that
whole Nakshatra of psychology, NLP. case studies,
yada yada, all that I have published beforehand
itself because you have to look at that first.
There is a psychological aspect to each one of
the 27 nakshatras, you need to go through that,
if you want to understand this better. Anyway,
so now we are talking about the second combo
that is 1 to 4, that is we have started from
Ashwini, we are doing the Devaganas now, if you
recall. of the nine devganas we are in ashwini
so one to four so that becomes ashwini to punar
vasu in cancer punar vasu has three parts if
you remember in gemini the last part last pada
core chemistry one four moon positioning in practice
how does that work the tone is of emotional steadiness
meets enthusiastic spark enthusiastic spark being
of ashwini emotional steadiness cancer being
punar vasu The punar vasu part which stays in
cancer, the fourth pada. Safety with vitality.
Why it works? The man's ashwini moon ignites
action and freshness. Man and woman is interchangeable
here. By the way, I've just taken a case. Woman's
punar vasu moon absorbs nurtures and restores.
He brings speed, renewal, adventure. She brings
homecoming, reassurance and consistency. The
risk is the fire can evaporate what it's too.
if it is too intense. And water can dampen fire.
One is a fire sign in Aries, Ashwini. The other
one, Punarvasu, last Pada is in cancer, water.
So it can become overprotective. There needs
to be emotional pacing that must be attuned.
If he moves too fast, she processes deeply. This
can be a thing. Anyway, we shall see that. The
first part, the mind, which talks about communication,
pacing and thought style. Like I said, I am matching
my notes from my different courses as well as
book as well as other things, deep research and
so on. Ashwini Moon Desires Straight forward,
crisp exchanges. Ashwini is very quick. Not too
much emotional circling. Quick planning, decisive
moves and immediate results. That's Ashwini's
signature. A partner who doesn't over explain
or delay action. That's him. how she fulfills
it, punar vasu style begin with empathy then
anchor with clarity I feel this too let us decide
this way or translate his urgency into structured
warmth agree on timelines but maintain a tone
of care because she comes from a position of
care being more in punar vasu in cancer encourage
his ideas by grounding them that's exciting let's
anchor the first step by tonight so she takes
a slow roll on his communication, if you might
say. Punar vasu moon, her desires now. Emotional
coherence and reflective dialogue. Communication
that feels safe, slow and sincere. To talk until
understanding dawns, not just to talk for the
sake of talking, which is common in social media
these days. Reassurance through conversation,
how he fulfills it now. Offers gentle summaries.
So you need to rest, get quiet, got it. I'll
handle dinner. And he goes about making stuff.
And Ashwin is good at making stuff, by the way.
Because they're action -oriented. Mars. Aries.
Keep the talk short, but frequent. Small doses
of attention mean more to her than one vague
rant or talk. Replace impatience with protective
action. Do something that conveys care. Light
a candle. Fix something for her. A tea. A coffee.
A chocolate ring, I don't know, whatever works
between you two. Now let's see the emotional
part of this. Now blending the core chemistry
into the hard part of it. The second part of
it. Safety, bonding, repair, ashwini moon. Freedom
and emotional simplicity. Space to act, not endless
emotional analysis. That's what she is good at.
to be appreciated for his initiative and loyalty.
That's what he desires, how she fulfills it.
Express gratitude for his decisiveness rather
than analyzing the decision over emotional analysis
from the woman's side. So she has to fulfill
his need by doing this. That's how this is structured,
okay? You can go through the slides one by one.
I am reading out and offering some commentary
in between. After conflict, offer soft return
gestures. Like a home -cooked meal, which says
that you matter a lot. Something which partners
fail to express after the second year of marriage,
isn't it? When the honeymoon period is over,
he is pretty much a guy who does something and
you are pretty much as a woman who does something
else. You're just roommates, essentially. And
there's a big talk of intimacy even everywhere
now, wherever partnerships are concerned. People
have gone to bizarre lengths to date AI. Imagine
that. Anyway, back to this topic. Don't restrain
his independence. Instead, invite his return.
I love that you explore. Come and tell me when
you're back. That's how she fulfills it. Purnima
Samoon. On her side of desires, emotional security.
She needs to be reassured. Reassurance that love
endures through moods and absences. Predictable
nurturing with warmth, gentleness and return
to peace. Fourth house. Traditionally is also
peace, isn't it? So moon falling in the last
padaya. He is about peace. A partner who honors
her sensitivity rather than labeling it as this
is just so much. I can't handle this. All that
kind of thing. How he fulfills it. Establish
ritual anchors. Weekly dinners. Nightly check
-ins. Checking texts. This gives her calm predictability.
She needs to know that you are around and not
just vanished into thin air. Express affection
verbally and physically, even in small doses.
Actually, microdosing in affection is very nice,
very consistent. It is more sustainable, maintainable
in intimacy, if you ask me. When she withdraws,
respond with presence, not logic. Magic, not
logic people. Simply staying near her restores
her faith in you now let us get into the physical
part which people want to jump on first first
get into bed then we shall see other things no
folks that's not the way it works that's a one
night stand not a relationship now we come to
the physical part and i can hear all you perverts
going on okay let's boom boom time physical intimacy
chemistry cadence and turn -ons ashwini what
he desires ashwini moon spontaneous high energy
physicality passion which is physical because
it's Ashwini in Aries adventure play quick escalation
he's that slam bam thank you ma 'am kind of guy
okay essentially speaking because he's quick
feeling that his vitality is welcome not restrained
how she fulfills it invites spontaneity with
soft edges cancer will soften it I want you to
surprise me but let's end with a slow cuddle
Use transitions, candles, scents, touch. Use
the physical parts of it. Go through the part
where I am mentioning about kinesthetics. All
the astrology NLP resources are there in the
description box on my Google Drive. You can go
through that. If you want me to add something
on NLP stuff, I'll add it. Just let me know in
comments. To slow his pace into an emotional
depth. Meet his lead initially, then shift into
rhythm. He loves it when she responds rather
than resists. On her side, Poonar Vasu Moon desires
emotional foreplay before physical intimacy,
gentle pace, warmth, continuity. She wants love
that feels safe and kind. Cancer. Post -intimacy
tenderness. Students run off the bed. Reassurance
through cuddling and conversation. How he fulfills.
Learn the warm -up language. Take some classes,
Mr. Ashwini, if you want. Lingering touch. Affectionate
humor. Protection gestures. Slow down. Intensity
with tenderness ignites her. Post passion. Stay.
Stoke her hair. Talk to her softly. Within the
ears. Give some ear bites if you want. Give emotional
closure. It's her recharging loop. Now let's
go to the tricky part of some frictional aspects.
There will always be some friction isn't it?
Let's see in this pattern how it comes about.
Number 1, there are four ones. Speed versus processing,
classic one for tension. One moves very fast,
the other one moves quite slow. Sign is, he makes
decisions fast, she needs time to feel safe about
that decision. The fix would be something like
too tired timing. He sets short action windows.
Today, tomorrow, she agrees after some emotional
check -in. She has to check in with her heart.
This is cancer we are talking about. Number 2,
Over -nurture versus over -independence. Guess
who is who. Sign. She mothers, he rebels. The
fix would be something along the lines of convert
mothering to faith gestures. I trust you'll handle
this. He reciprocates by giving update rituals,
short reassurances texts, keep her calm without
losing freedom. As you can see, this whole thing
would lead to another science itself called Relationship
counseling with Vedic Astrology. I am up for
it. If you are, you can really touch with me.
Emotional flooding. Sign. Her sensitivity feels
heavy to his brisk nature. The fixed meaning.
Containment practice. When emotions peak, he
listens for 5 minutes. Takes out couple of breaths.
Then both switch to shared grounding. Like walking.
Taking a walk together. Breathing together. How
about that? Touching each other. me anyway don't
get your mind get carried away number four neglecting
romance for comfort sign warmth turns into routine
coziness and spark fades that's not a good idea
isn't it fix alternate fiery nights very highly
passionate rolling around in the bed with some
adventure with some surprised and have some water
nights where you spend time maybe together in
a pool or Take some theme of comfort. Take some
depth. I mean you can use your imagination here.
Keep some theme nights to keep the fire going
between you both. It's an excellent combination.
But as you can see, any relationship needs work.
It is not a God's gift. You are a God's gift
to the planet. But you need to work on yourself
to refine it. Okay? If you need intimacy, relationship
counseling with this kind of an approach, do
get in touch with me. I'll be happy to help you
out. Take care, be safe. In the next one we will
see Ashwini versus the seventh one Mr. Libra
I think it will be Swati, Ashwini and Swati.
Take care, be safe.