Hey wonderful people, welcome to my channel.
So now that I have covered introduction, let
me begin directly. Discussion on intimate power
couples. What is the fundamentals of matchmaking,
but as dynamism has applied to couples. There's
more resources on my Google Drive. You can see
the link in the description box. You can go through
all the stuff there. Leave your comments, whatever
you need me to extra give a insight on. So, Ashwini
nakshatra and Mrigshira woman. I'm taking this
as an example to study. It can be gender change.
Don't worry about so much genders. These days
we have all kinds of genders floating around.
So Ashwini man, meaning moon in Ashwini in a
man's chart and Mrigshira woman. Moon in Ashwini
or Mrigshira in the woman's chart. That's the
first. And how we are matching this, what I am
calling or defining as power couples, is the
Gana match as the criteria. You can see the little
box over there. Dev Gana match. We are first
doing Dev Gana series. So all nine nakshatras,
which are Dev Gana, first we will cover matching
in all the five principles that I have put in
the introduction. That is one to three, one to
four, one to seven, one to ten, and one to eleven.
Like the small box you see below the intimate.
Okay? Okay. So that's the core principle. What
are the intimacy characteristics of each nakshatra?
I have already covered. Think of these series
as an extension of intimacy because one of the
things people are getting wrong about intimacy.
Lots of things actually. I'll cover them as we
go along. So first, and it'll cover in the same
format for ease of understanding. The core chemistry
between one, three moon positioning in practice.
The tone is of between Mrikshira and Ashwini,
I am saying. The tone here will be best friend's
energy, quick grapple, lively banter and curiosity
leading to growth. Why it works? The man's Ashwini
moon initiates. Isn't it? Ashwini is a big initiator
of things, energizes. Whereas the woman's Mrikshira,
Gemini moon explores, asks, refines, plays. the
risk factor here being friendship vibe can eclipse
romance if you don't consciously turn up sensuality
both are friendly like you can put him in the
friend zone and not really worry about sensuality
then what's the point of intimacy isn't it we'll
explore first the mind part the mind is communication
pacing and thought style in those terms we shall
explore ashwini what he desires because we are
taking man in Ashwini as the example, there's
a logo there. So Ashwini being fast, the characteristics
of Ashwini is, you know already by now, clean,
fast decisions, simple and direct words. That's
the style. We're talking about mental intimacy
part. This will become a power couple provided
you follow certain rules of conscious engagement.
Nothing is unconscious. Out there, something
in the stars is not going to determine how you
act consciously, okay? It's that simple. Ashwini
also needs a space to start. He's a starter of
sorts, so even in intimate relationship it'll
play out. Projects, plans, trips, without over
analysis. Like directly stepping into something,
not looking back, that's Ashwini. The partner
who keeps up with bursts of enthusiasm and playful
risk taking. How she fully fills it, Mrikshira,
Gemini style. Offer curated choices. A, B, C.
It doesn't let him take the pick. It's an intimate
bonding, isn't it? So you have to work with,
not against. That's the whole funda. Mirror his
speed with short loops. Try, leading to learn,
leading to adjust. Her natural curiosity thrives
here because Mrikshira is very gently curious.
Ironically. Ashwini sits in Aries, which is ruled
by Mars, and Barakshira is a nakshatra ruled
by Mars. So there is some dynamism definitely
there. There is some commonality there. Intellectual
variety is what she would be good at, how she
fulfills it. Permission to change angles without
judgment. So important these days. Everybody's
busy judging one another and telling another
not to judge. A partner who notices details and
enjoys little discoveries. How he fulfills it
sets spark topics. For example, tonight one book,
one idea, one dream. Let's read one paragraph
from a book. For example, he can fulfill it by
that and they can discuss it during their bedroom
time. Just lie down in the bed and discuss and
time box them so that it stays snappy. She should
become a lively. These are both very lively Devganas.
Celebrate her findings. Show me three tiny things
that you love today. Channel his initiative into
learning dates. Kind of workshops. Go on short
courses. Let her pick the subjects and he books
it. You see the dynamism playing at the mental
level. That's what's needed to make this a power
couple. Now let's see the hard part of it. Now
what happens when you come to the emotional part
of things? Things change, isn't it? Mind and
heart are at different ball games. For the Ashwini
moon, for him, now we are considering man, isn't
it? Respect for his autonomy. You can't restrict
Ashwini. It is a very powerful energy, especially
in a male. He wants a love that does not cage
him into some kind of a restrictive pattern.
This is why breakups happen, folks. emotional
honesty with low drama quick repair after friction
he's quick to recover quick to anger he's quick
to everything because he's Ashwini to feel like
the protector guide at times Ashwini is a great
protector so you might want to take advice of
give me protection in this emotional aspect we're
talking about emotional body here so be very
careful how you deal with this Listen to more
of the nakshatras of Ashwini on this channel
if you want to tune in. And how she fulfills
it. She uses quick clears after tension. Two
minutes. Okay? What you felt, what I felt. One
tweak each. Just short bursts. Rikshira woman
as moon, if she is dealing with Ashwini moon,
needs to understand that this person is very
quick. He does not understand long rants, okay?
Don't take 15 minutes and give a cold shoulder.
Tell him one thing and forget about it. He knows
how to react it. He knows how to process it.
Give hero roles intentionally. Can you lead this?
For example, his protective, nurturing streak
often softens here. Why? Because Ashwini is Devgana.
This is the thing characteristic of Devganas,
by the way. That's why I'm matching only devanas
to devanas and remaining two to remaining two.
You can't have unworthy pairs, something like
oil and water, and expect things to work. That's
where this whole thing is coming from. How she
fulfills another aspect? Affirm freedom and bond
in one sentence. I love how you roam and that
came and that you come home to us. She is affirming
in a softer sense, isn't it? And Mrikshira is
a soft nakshatra, it's a very good combination.
Mrikshira, Gemini and Moon, her desires are,
emotionally speaking, she wants some attuned
listening. Emotions unpacked via words. Mrikshira
is a hunter, always looks for knowledge, in a
gentle way. Flexibility, room to follow curiosity
without being labelled as fickle because Mrikshira
is a hunter. For knowledge, it's always looking.
It's very curious, sitting in Gemini. We are
talking about the Gemini part, by the way. Marikshara
splits into two, isn't it? No, we are taking
that one -three rule. Gentle, playful reassurances
when restless. This is a kind of a difficult
play for Gemini moon and Aries -Ashwini moon.
Why? Because both are restless, inherently. They
can play on each other's restlessness. But it
has to be a flow. That's the way I see it working.
And this can become a really good couple. How
he fulfills. Practice reflective one -liner.
So you felt X when Y happened. Did I get that
correct? Ask questions. Don't assume. Offer micro
-choices in emotional care. Hug, a talk, a walk.
Become quiet. Let her pick her choices. What
do you need right now? Rarely we ask. The partner
is so obsessed. Self obsessed. We don't ask what
the other person needs. Create a small comfort
ritual. He can fulfill this by making her some
night tea. A 10 minute kind of a ritual. Let
her sit down and have a cup of tea. Light a candle
perhaps. One of my favorites. And then have a
chit chat. That's the emotional part. Let's see
the physical part. Very crucial. When it comes
to physical part, we need to see how these two
bodily react. Physical chemistry, cadence and
turn -ons. Because you have to excite the other
person. Or you have to welcome the other person.
Or see them as they are. Remember, intimacy can
be in every moment, in any dimension, isn't it?
So, Ashwini moon. Desire spontaneity, obviously.
That is the signature of Ashwini. Athletic play.
A swift escalation when the heat of passion arises.
Novelty bursts. New place, new position. new
adventure try out new positions in the bed to
lead opening moves responsive to the partner
energy but he has to be responsive Ashwini is
so hell bent upon doing things very quickly it
doesn't know it just wants to fulfill the passion
it doesn't know how to be reactive or responsive
that's the Ashwini's lesson how she fulfills
uses playful dares like let's have a three minute
quickie kiss challenge or a blindfold taste test
Test. Very high energy today. The green light
micro -spontaneity. For example, taking random
car rides, doing it in the car, stairwell kisses,
or going to a hotel just for a night. Okay? Take
surprises. You are a very dynamic couple because
both are Dev Ghanas. They are functioning Dev
Ghanas always on a very high mental plane. Brikshi
Ramu on her side. She desires variety. Mrikshira
is always looking for variety. So she wants sensory
variety. Mental foreplay. He can fulfill her
like this. Talk variety to Mrikshira. Mr. Ashwini
man. Talk, tease and light. Role play, foreplay
etc. Unhurried exploration. Attention to fine
detail. Hands, breath, temperature. See now you
are getting kinesthetic. Now you are getting
sensory. Playful atmosphere. Laughter is an aphrodisiac.
Something which is very neglected. People take
things too seriously these days. How he fulfills.
Build curiosity arcs. He can get curious with
her because she is an exploratory nature. Daytime
hints. Note with three clues. I will tell you
at night. You know, give some questions and say
let's do this at night. Night is always a good
time to bond, isn't it? Because the energy has
gone down quiet for the day. It's like you're
taking advantage of the Libra energy. Alternate
tempos, quick passionate entries, then slow attentive
mapping. Bring textures, because this is a kinesthetic
exercise. Physical intimacy is all about all
the five senses of your body. How you want to
bring that, of course is up to you. So texture
is one very ignored thing which can be used.
Silk, scarf, flavored oils. medicated oils not
medicated necessarily fragrant aromatic oils
like the one they use in spa well make the home
a bedroom a spa kind of atmosphere and see how
your intimacy improves at the kinesthetic level
there are levels of this isn't it have music
soft music listening okay what you decorate your
room as what you bring to the thing in aroma
in music you go on and on about this isn't it
Now let's see the potential friction side of
where this partnership may have a little bit
of tug of war kind of let's see. So what could
be the friction points between Ashwini and Mrikshira
Moon combination? Well, this is one -three relationship.
There is a friend -zone business going on. Classical
one -three risk. Lot of friend thing. You're
more of my friend than of my intimate partner.
Very dangerous in this combination. Lots of chatting
and fewer kisses. That's the sign. What is the
way to fix? Because both are so dynamics. Schedule
two track dates. Track A. Walk, talk and learn.
Track B. No talk, sensual window. Make windows
of opportunity for sensual engagement. Be it
at mind, be it at body, be it at physical. Take
your pick. Sense the other person's giveaway.
There's always there. number two speed mismatch
sign he wants decisions now she wants to explore
being rickshaw as an explorer ashwini is an action
guy fix is rule of three she provides three vetted
choices he decides in 30 to 60 seconds quickly
basically restlessness versus constancy sign
her curiosity spikes just as he wants to lock
a plan ashwini is a goal -oriented guy he just
wants to move move and move But she wants to
explore different things. Take this hint. What
is the fix? Stable core, novel edge. Keep a recurring
ritual. Same night, same tea. A ritual has an
added value for especially dynamic nakshatras
like all the devanas. They are all dynamic. A
ritual will help it grounded, you know. Change
one variable weekly. Or every second day at least.
Because these two are too fast moving. Number
four, over -initiating versus over -editing.
Sign will be, he drives, she finds tunes endlessly.
Keep on having selection criteria. For example,
he says, let's go on a holiday. And she says,
she starts listing. The curiosity of Mrigshira
kicks in and she'll go on exploring different
resorts or different places to go. And she'll
keep exploring and keep exploring and keep exploring
endlessly because she is an explorer. He is like,
why don't you make a decision now? The fix is
80 -20 pass. Once the plan is 80 % good, execute.
Don't overanalyze. He can give that energy to
Mrigshira also. Isn't it? That's the way to fix
this. In the next one, we shall explore the same
dynamism but between now Ashwini and Poonar Vasu
in cancer because it's one -four relationship.
If you have comment or if you want to explore
something more, leave it in the comment box.
I'll see you in the next.