Hello, strange and wonderful human being. Welcome
to my channel. This is the Vedic Astrology Study
Podcast study group. Okay. Just to give an introduction
to those who haven't been here before. And in
this one, I'm going to examine or start a discussion
really of intimacy aspects. Once again, I got
some downloads, so I want to share that with
you. Intimacy between couples. husband wife man
woman boyfriend girlfriend you call it any names
you wish that's hardly the point here so I shall
be doing a series of extension podcast to the
earlier ones on this playlist this will be a
part of a playlist you can go through the other
previous ones on intimacy with nakshatra since
it's seems to be the doing the rounds right now
Lots of people are watching those so I thought
I'll make a proper extension of these now this
podcast as the Vedic astrology audiobook series
also there I have stuck the Slide on the screen
how I am doing these Okay, I'm using a degree
of AI here to refine my course notes. I've taken
two courses on Vedic astrology certification
courses so the notes from both of those that
I have gleaned and from the text books of Vedic
Astrology that I have what I do is I feed it
to the GPT and I have my prompt I have my input
query and then I refine and restructure it because
GPT tends to make a lot of errors it's just a
correlation machine so I have to sort of refine
and restructure it and then again feed it back
this is the feedback loop In many cases, like
even this intimacy stuff, I've added on a layer
of deep research on the topic that I'm doing.
So in the slideshow, you will see that. I'm also
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well. as Vedic Astrology Study Group. So that
being the introduction, let us get started on
this. To share with your friends and family,
you might not be having intimacy issues, somebody
else might be. You never know when things are
going to be helpful to someone or where they
are on this subject, isn't it? So it's useful
just for you to study or your friends and family
to know about this. So let's get started. Before
I begin, I wanted to share a couple of personal
notes on intimacy. I have already covered the
grey areas of intimacy, what is intimacy by nakshatras,
what are the fall points, the eight compatibility
factors of intimacy in this playlist. It's all
built on the AI voiceover, so people get bored
with that robotic voice. But if you are a learner
and if you are truly interested in intimacy and
what that means between two human beings, you
would go through that because it gives very realistic
examples. It's a long essay, so that's why I
haven't bothered reading it out. Anyway, intimacy
is a conscious exercise, folks. It is not something
that is God given or born with you and you just
dump two people together and you expect them
to be intimate. That's not the way it works.
And here, we are trying to borrow the traditional
aspects of Vedic Astrology and what that has
to say about intimacy between two people and
how that would work out. So according to Vedic
Astrology, the basic compatibility is between
the positions of Moon and we are talking about
Nakshatra level here, like it is already covered
in intimacy of Nakshatras. So, position of nakshatras
and ganas, deva gana, raksha gana, manusha gana,
okay? Between 1 and 3 positions, 1 and 4 positions,
1 and 7 positions, 1 and 10, and 1 and 11. So,
in these slides I will cover that. So, first
let's talk about 1, 2, 3 relationship. If your
partner's moon and your moon shares this, what
is the dynamic playing out there? This is supposed
to be a good one, I am covering only the good
ones here. Moons partner in 3rd house or 1 -2
-3 relationship not 3rd house necessarily but
1 -2 -3 in terms of nakshatras as well and we
shall see that. I might even do some case studies
to substantiate this later. Summary, why is it
auspicious? A 3 -11 moon alignment moon 3rd from
the other or counting it backwards 11th from
the first is classically rated as highly auspicious.
It connects one person's initiative, communication,
third house, technically, and with the other's
fulfillment and gain. Think of the 311 relationship
also, which you can find on this channel. Apply
the same principle here, creating a mutually
supportive loop of courage and coming to fruition.
Together, they create a cycle of setting and
achieving goals as a couple, as a team. There's
a teamwork energy playing out between man and
woman here. emotional and psychological themes
these become friends and teammates okay this
often feels like a close relationship the energy
of 311 playing out as partnerships within a marriage
communication flows easily there is a sibling
like camaraderie open dialogue the third house
influence parks effort and skills the 11th house
side brings in networks and optimism you see
Take all the 3 and 11 house. You can take 3rd
house, 11th house, 3, 11 relationship here. It's
covered on this channel. You can just have to
search my channel. Partners encourage each other's
plans and dreams and tend to be constructive
together. After all, you want a constructive
partnership. Spiritually, this can indicate a
harmonious karmic friendship keyword there. Potential
friction and imbalances. The tone can be very
rational or fraternal, risking a lack of overt
romance if other factors don't compensate. The
third can introduce a friendly competition or
occasional quote -unquote I'll challenge you
energy. The eleventh house person must not treat
the partner just like a friend. As Upachaya houses,
Upachaya is something that grows with time, the
three eleventh improve with time and conscious
effort not just effort conscious effort first
both the partners must try to understand their
nakshatras and what is their drive of intimacy
that's also covered on this channel you can look
up the intimacy of nakshatra in this playlist
ideal expression would be best friend marriage
this is a friendly partnership you consider each
other's best friend support each other the partners
exchange ideas freely tackle projects together
and cooperate to achieve life goals. Each feels
as if quote unquote, my partner gets me, supports
my hopes, unquote. Mutual growth is a hallmark.
They spur each other to become best versions
of themselves with a comfortable give and take
that leaves both feeling fulfilled. Now this
is the first one, one to three. Now let's take
one to four and see what plays out. What happens
in one to four relationship? So moon is not necessarily
in the ascended. Okay? I'm talking about the
difference between the positioning of the moons
and nakshatras So don't take this as the ascended
necessarily moon in ascended no moon can be in
any of the houses It can be third house so fourth
house from that would be one two three four seventh
house between third and seventh house also can
be the case So it's the distance between the
moon of one to individual to another individual,
man or woman, it doesn't matter. So let's see
what that one -four relationship plays out as.
Why is auspicious? The four -ten relationship
is an auspicious Kendra relationship. This is
there in the course. You can do my course also.
It's audio book is already there if you choose
to. Providing pillars for a household. The partner's
moon in the other's fourth house of emotional
foundation and home deeply nurtures and roots
the relationship, while the counterpart, 10th
side, supports public life and duty. It's a natural
harmony of heart and home, favorable for building
a strong, foundational, happy family. Emotional
and psychological themes nurture and shelter.
One partner provides warmth, hospitality and
domestic tranquility, while the other feels emotionally
seen and safe. Therefore, it becomes harmonious.
The fourth is a Sukha Bhava or happiness factor,
the heart center. So the moon here provides comfort
and emotional security. Strong home -oriented
dynamic, intuitive attunement to each other's
needs often feel like home from the start kind
of a bond. As a Moksha house, the fourth adds
a soulful past life kinship tones. There might
be a past life relationship which they are continuing
in a nice way not all karma is bad by the way
that's just a point of view potential friction
or imbalances if roles polarize one always becomes
a caregiver dependency and resentment may brew
the fourth house moon not necessarily fourth
house position moon may become overtly sensitive
or protective the other might feel smothered
The square to the tenth indicates potential tension
between personal life and public life, fourth
house and the tenth house. He is using the extension
principles here. Balance, therefore, is the key.
Ideal expression, the classic happy home. One
offers refuge of love and understanding, the
other reciprocates by creating stability, honoring
that care and taking care of the external world.
Balance of inner and outer life. Home life and
public life. Profound private happiness alongside
respected social standing. These tend to become
power couples. Study growth over time like Vipur
roots of 4th and tallest teacher of 10th. Now
let's see 1 -7 relationship. In the 1 -7 relationship,
this is right opposite isn't it? 1 -7 like Aries
and Debra or like Taurus and Scorpio. you can
take this anywhere you want we will match the
nakshatra level little later on summary it although
it looks at it as opposition it is just standing
opposite to it is not opposing anything okay
this is not western astrology this is vedic astrology
summary why is it auspicious opposite moons in
each seventh from each other replicate the natural
spouse axis your spouse is seventh house isn't
it This is one of the best placements, a powerful
complementary connection akin to a full moon,
fullness of a relationship. Each partner's emotional
nature counterbalances the other's, forming a
classically quote -unquote complete pairing.
Emotional and psychological themes that might
play out is a yin -yang kind of balance. Immediate
magnetic attraction might happen through mirroring
and complementarity. Each finds the other in
quality they lack. and therefore it is attractive
sort of opposites attract phenomena strong rapport
and direct emotional exchange can happen heightened
other awareness you are really aware of the other
partner often a soul mate or fated quality and
highly charged romantic and sexual chemistry
and kama house link kama not karma kama means
desire Potential friction or imbalances that
may arise, polarity can create either great harmony
or constant tension. It's like extremities, isn't
it? Differences are highlighted without compromise
as tug -of -war scenarios ensues. Risks include
projection, over -dependency and boundary issues.
It's a big boundary issue between 1 and 7. With
maturity and respect, opposites teach each other
crucial lessons and become a robust, balanced
union. Like you can already begin to see, it's
not all roses, there is a consciousness involved.
I am hoping that these kind of podcasts will
help you in your relationship. Ideal expression,
partnership of equals. A perfect give and take
where each supports what the other needs at any
given time. Unspoken understanding. Fair compromises
and enduring spark of romance and sexual chemistry
can be an outcome. It's conscious effort again.
The alignment illuminates each partner's psyche,
catalyzing wholeness and emotional illumination.
This was 1 .7. Let's talk of 1 .10 now. So what
happens in 1 .7? Let's see the slide. Attention
there. Why is it so auspicious? The 10th is the
flip side of 4th and 4th and axis widely favoured.
One to ten relations. Partners more in the 10th
energises career, duty and public life. This
becomes more of a public life to personal. The
relationship emphasises shared goals, worldly
cooperation and often bringing material stability
and social aspect. This is the power couple.
Partners emotional, psychological theme for these
partners would be partners in endeavour, the
power couple. The bond centers around mutual
ambition, duty and accomplishment. Like what
do you want to do? The external world becomes
the focus here. The moon person intuitively supports
the other's vocation. It becomes all about public
presence, isn't it? Public role. Think of all
the rich rich kind of people here. The 10th house
partner feels encouraged in their life direction.
So purposefulness, pride, familial pride, deep
bond of respect and reliability. This is the
tone of the relationship. Understand? From that
perspective, tone of the relationship. Potential
friction or imbalance. Work home, public personal
life balance becomes great in a sense. You must
take care of that kind of an aspect. Emotional
polarization are the main challenges, work -life
balance and emotional polarizing. The relationship
may often feel overtly managerial or duty -oriented
if romance is neglected. There's less of romance
and more of appearances, isn't it? Beware of
power dynamics. Ensure accomplishments are ours
and not just you and me, not one -sided. Protect
privacy, intimacy amid public responsibilities
is the suggested way to go. Ideal expression,
synergy between home and career, compassionate
grounding, effective leadership. They become
excellent planners, problem solvers who can celebrate
milestones in their life and maintain warmth
in the family. A marriage with purpose, living
legacy while preserving emotional closeness.
Now let's see 111. So now the 111, which is similar
to 1 and 3, isn't it? It's the same 311 dynamic.
Compliments to the 1 and 3, completing the 311
axis. The 11th labha or gains or your social
networks, fulfillment of desires come into play
here. This alignment suggests the relationship
will feel Rewarding and help each person attain
what they seek emotionally, materially and also
in the social networks. 11th house or 11th position
is typically social networks, very social birds
relationship. They want to go out as a couple.
These couple you will always find hanging around
with other friends all the time celebrating something.
Making wide social networks, that kind of a couple.
Emotional psychological themes, best friends
and cheerleaders. They instantly become familiar
on a friendship level. They tend to compare their
common goals. What do you like? What kind of
hobbies do you have? This is that kind of an
exploratory couple. Easy camaraderie and mutual
acceptance. Encouragement of big dreams and future
orientation becomes the key here. Slightly different
from the 1 -3. Rich social life. Like I said,
collaborative hobbies. They do things together.
Go gym together. you know, go Zumba together
or go outdoors hiking together that kind of collaborative
hobbies they share they make that the foundation
of their relationship and in uplifting we've
got this kind of a teamwork freedom within togetherness
beautiful one potential friction or imbalances
may be risk of leaning too much on friendship
and too much on group too much of outward activities
etc at the expense of one -on -one depth. There
always, if you're going into friends and social
life, you lose that personal depth, isn't it?
That intimacy of one -on -one. Important to consciously
include romance and emotional vulnerability also.
Ensure support is mutual, not one -sided again.
That never works. Because of the Upachaya nature
that is growth through time for the 11th house,
nature, it means it improves with time, provided
you give it time and not just run away from the
relationship which is very common these days.
Ideal expression, marrying your best friend,
a joyful flourishing union combining companionship
and love, shared adventures, goals, space for
individual growth and a secure attachment built
on unconditional support. make time for personal
one -on -one because these couple tends to get
lost in the crowd so to speak often attracts
fortunate opportunities through united optimistic
look I have met couples like this these are very
optimistic couples very nice to hang out they
are social birds they will always call you home
for a drink or something you know that kind of
a couple that is 111 now let's put all these
things together and see on the table right there
one to third Key emotional themes, friendship,
easy communication, sibling -like support, best
buddy's vibe. Traditional merits, cooperation,
teamwork, towards goals, prosperous, growth -oriented,
intellectually stimulating. Potential pitfalls,
may feel platonic if romance is neglected, friendly
competition, keep the passion alive is the goal.
One to fourth, nurturing, home is with you. Emotional
safety, domestic warmth, this is what it provides.
Each one provides a particular signature if you
notice. Traditional merits are strong domestic
harmony, auspicious Kendra balances 4th and 10th,
duty and home. Potential pitfalls, role polarization,
over caretaking, work -home strain, guard against
smothering. completeness, a yin -yang kind of
balance, strong mirroring, the other half kind
of pull, magnetic pull, model of balanced partnership,
high mutual understanding and attraction, pitfalls
may be polarity can cause clashes, needs get
compromised and respect for differences needs
to be there. One to tenth, collaboration, ambition,
mutual respect, a power couple. Stability, success,
social esteem marries artha with moksha. What
is a potential pitfall? Can become two -duty
oriented power dynamics, so protect intimacy.
1 to 11. Friendship based love, optimism, team
spirit. Merits being fulfillment of desires,
cooperation, adaptive and improves over time.
Pitfalls over platonic risk. Ensure romance and
mutuality of support. Now let us get into the
details. Buy nakshatra. Every nakshatra I will
deal with this. Each one of the combinations
and we see what plays out. Buy nakshatra characteristics
now.