Hey good morning wonderful people welcome to my channel. We are doing an object
history number six. Now this one is of a chart of a gentleman who approached me
from the wife's perspective meaning the wife approached us, approached me for
consultation. What's going on with my husband? I don't know why he is
so attached to I don't know why he's acting like this or acting like that.
It's wonderful. This brings me to a very curious point I wanted to get this
especially men out there. From the women's point I get it but men kind of seem to be
very take the boss's things in my experience. It's invariably I have seen
a trend where women or the wives of the girlfriends or whatever it is they tend
to come to me with a chart saying please look at the chart of this guy my
husband my boyfriend or whatever it is and tell me what I should be doing please
advise Mr. Astronomer. And why is this trend I've been thinking about it like why are all the women coming to me?
I've got so many men what's going on there and then I started getting the
downloads about this of why that might be the case and I want to think about it
men really hard men out there. It is the Shakti principle and you would understand
this in a larger context always. It's the women who are protectors of the nest
it's women who are the Shakti embodiment in this world is the feminine gender
you might say. The soul embodied in feminine bodies the women of this world
the mothers the sisters the wives the girlfriends. They are the embodiment of Shakti
they know what a nest is they know what a house is they know how to maintain the
house they know how to bring forth life from their home they know how to feed
them take care of them. Put up with all their BS right? All the kids BS.
So they didn't know this kind of thing because life inherently flows in Shakti
this entire creation is sustained and created by Shakti. She was just pure
consciousness. She was like a crap goes on here. Shakti is the one who maintains his wife
maintains everything, sustains everything, every living tissue, blood,
bones, every item, every bird, every tree, everything that goes on here is known and
sustained by Divine Mother Shakti. In human form this female embodiment is very
very powerful because they sense it. That's why the maximum intuition
they have the maximum understanding they have the maximum knowing they have the
maximum grounding they know how to make this work right up to the earthy level
they don't want to run the kitchen they don't take care of the husband they don't
take care of the kids. In spite of all kids being very different of this they look
okay this my son is like this my daughter is like this I will take care of
these two clouds they know how to do it they know how to put it off much better
than them because they are designed for that you might say. So that's where I'm
coming from and that's what you need to know this is why women come running with
the men's child women can understand their kids women need to hear this women
understand their kids because they give importance to them they know them right
from the time they are breastfeeding them they know the little drascals very well
very well at the back of their hand they can feel when the child is hungry or just
putting up tantrums right mothers all your mothers know this. So children is not a
problem for women in general it's the husband or the boyfriend which is the
X factor you see because they are not given birth to the husband the husband becomes a
strange X factor for the women it becomes a challenge and so well I try to do my
little best whatever is humanly possible with what little astrology knowledge I
have and I suggest to them look at it this way please look at it this way
there may be some possibility try to give some hope try to give some aspect all
those sometimes it may not be possible and those are the times things just take
the karmic path thing just go what they have to do it's like nature nature just
takes its own course the river takes its own course karma takes its own course and
river must flow to the sea you know this natural order of things it takes that
sometimes you can't control it sometimes you can't control it in fact most
times you can't control it because people don't take conscious steps this is
that I come from in conscious astrology I have named this great channel as
conscious astrology is precisely for this reason people need to take conscious
control in much the same way you get up everybody consciously decide what
breakfast I'm gonna have today or do you just drift into the kitchen and just
take whatever it is and put it in your mouth that is unconscious most people live
their life like this unconscious my hope is that you take a little better
decision in this so let us see this poor gentleman's chart whom the wife brought
the chart and said please tell me something give me some light on this
from astrological perspective it doesn't make sense how this guy is behaving
okay so let's see what this guy is and if there's a hope for them this hope is
the centerpiece of our existence as humans your hope for a better creature
for ourselves for our kids for everything for our society for our country the world
for nature you name it you will be extinct of better we are built to make
things better yes let's get right into namaabshaka history number six
so there you have it namaabshaka history number six now this gentleman is a Pisces
ascended the last case was also Pisces ascended that was a lady let's call this
gentleman Mr. R okay and let's see his one seven axis now we are just saying as to
recall we are saying one seven and four ten axis okay there is Libra and the
cancer Capricorn axis Kal Purushalakna aspect okay so let's see what's going on
in his chart first of all he's a Pisces ascended looking at Gemini so she needs
to hold him she is the earth sign he is the water sign this is the way he's
going to work here right in this dynamic so first of all number one point is Pisces
ascended water looking to be held by over both the earth sign dispositor of the
ascended Jupiter is strong okay because it's in a fire sign Jupiter does well in
fire signs it's in Leo Jupiter right but in the house of quarrels enemies
X and so on so forth fortunately why because it's a sixth place from looking
at his from his side now we are looking at from the ascended side looking at the
dispositor of the ascended very important to know the dispositor of the
ascended although he must pay attention to us of the ascended also okay let's see
so Jupiter sitting the sixth house six months that's quarrels fights that's
loans litigation and bad stuff to shana house right now we do not want the sixth
house touching the house of spouse that's not a very good idea right you're
always calling in the spouse what's the point of that why did he get married to
fight and they make any sense so Jupiter strong but is in the house of quarrels
enemies states etc fortunately not looking at the seventh house
you better not looking at the seventh house you better know five looks at what
and it looks at night so he looking at family yes there's a bit of a thing there
there is a bit of fight Jupiter in the sixth house if it is exalted if it is
high in energy if it looks at this this person will end to bring fights at home
harsh speech of sorts because it's a harsh house this energy Jupiter will
try and bring it to the home and family front so this guy might be a little more
irritated harsh speech with the home and family second house is a home and
family there's a bit of that but not towards spouse directly because we are
talking about spouse here let's stick to the topic yeah now number two the spouse
ascendant Virgo like is Virgo like not necessarily Virgo we should see her
child for that lady who brought me this child of her husband with Mercury in its
own sign is exalted Mercury has got the highest placement on sign in Virgo the
highest form of Mercury's attending Virgo the birth part and Mercury has got an
earth like element just so you know so it's in its own sign so she looking at
it from her ascendant perspective is a very good communicator very grounded in
Virgo Mercury sitting in the ascendant is an excellent communicator grounded very
good with people and very good with community because seven thousand also
place for others in general business partnerships in very good business
person looking at it from his perspective also he will get a spouse who's very
business like entrepreneur okay communicating with the spouse is vital
for her understanding of him why because looking at it from her perspective
Mercury sitting in a red in the ascendant so she wants to communicate to resolve
problems just why she came to me as an astrologer to see her chart she wants to
find out around it reasons how to make it better with her husband right now
number three Rahul from the ninth combined with exalted Mars now this
this is where the chart really gets tricky so follow me carefully we are
looking at this now okay Rahul from the ninth Rahul is the ninth looking at it
from his perspective and exalted Mars as a dispositor Mars is sitting in Scorpio
is very good in Scorpio red Mars in Scorpio exalted Mars and as the
dispositor of this Rahul Rahul's dispositor becomes Mars and Mars is sitting
along with Rahul remember this as the rule whenever the dispositor of Rahul
sits in the same house as Rahul it becomes super powerful and super charged
in the chart but chart natal namaksha doesn't matter which division chart today
okay makes him passionately driven to learn higher take deeper deep lakes and
water bodies get down him and connect him why because it's in Scorpio Scorpio
stands for still water I made this very earlier on maybe two years ago you can
see that Scorpio the still water Scorpio energy is like the calm lake okay
query is like the still air these two are the opposite science right when this
fixed air when this fixed water so these are deeply integrated deeply powerful
science queries in Scorpio back to him so this person loves to take into
aspects because Scorpio and Rahul in mind makes a person learn higher philosophy
higher learning maybe learn Tantra maybe Mantra maybe Yantra maybe area number of
things right or maybe even higher education but in this case it's going
Scorpios it's very deep and for Pisces ascendantly makes him take deep into
the motion Pisces looking at Scorpio as the 9th house think of that makes him
highly mass towards the ascended Rahul is looking towards the ascended it makes
him highly sensually passionate highly below type of deep motion kind of you
know one plus from the eight so it's like he is highly sexual highly below in
nature but at the same time he's transcending that into emotional
achievement in sexual union ship why because he's a lot of sitting in a
little bit of Mars is sitting in a little bit of taking one level deeper
we are going to make him like this okay she
on the other hand what does the lady do the wife to here she on the other hand
sees detachment to materialistic life because Ketu is looking at her from his
8th house right this is looking at her ascendant we are looking at Rahul towards
his ascended and Ketu towards her ascended you see the white arrows here
Rahul towards him as ascended Ketu towards her ascended okay so Ketu from her
ascended looks at her fifth and ninth houses and what does it do for me
detaches her from materialistic stuff why because it is sitting in Taurus
Taurus is all opposite side of Scorpio it's all about material pursuits it's all about I want money I want wealth I want
trade I want this show me the money that's Taurus and it is sitting in Rohini
with Venus combined should not be the case actually should be the opposite
Mars should be with Ketu in 8th does very well and Rahul should be in Rohini with Venus
I would have made next Elon Musk or whatever but now since we have
detachment from material aspects for the lady because it is looking combined with
Venus towards her ascendant right husband seems detached to her she on
the other hand says detached to materialistic life looks at her ascendant
although husband seems detached to her why is husband detached to her for
husband this Ketu is sitting in the third house looking at the seventh house
this comes to critical point this is why this lady want this chart to me and I
can see this time and time again there will be something in the chart
women please understand there'll be something in the chart of the husband
either in Mahadasha or Antyatasha or in Avamsha or Natal not much Natal in Avamsha
which will be sort of an indicator of why you feel the sense of detachment
and women pick this up very strongly even a very intuitive with husband is spouse is a little distant
you know quiet introverted quiet introverted in a koke form is one thing
quiet introverted in distance from affection the bond
emotional bond psychological emotional bond that you have
there will be something in the chart indicating it please know this there will
be something indicating it can we work through it maybe most of the time I
would think can sometimes think was out maybe then you have to let it be then
you have just to leave it to man upstairs yeah okay getting back looking at it
husband seemed to detach because Ketu is from his perspective Ketu is looking at
the house of spouse so this makes him detached from her as well and as a matter
who he marries by the way even if he decides to call it a day with his
marriage next one also will have the same problem you understand what I'm saying
so because that says Navamshani may this could be a recipe for divorce in bad
periods or Mahadasha or Antyatasha for example if this gentleman I have
not checked his Mahadasha I'm just giving the basics here if he's passing
through Ketu Mahadasha or Ketu Antyatasha in some other Mahadasha this can get
little tricky for him in that period right maybe temporary it's not like it's
permanent don't read too much into it
when Ketu hits one of hits one of the one Senate access in the Vamsha it causes
natural detachment nothing and emphasize nothing is good or bad about it it is
what it is Sun rises in the morning no Sun rising in the morning is good or
bad this is as silly as that stopping silly and childish it is what it is
exploring the ninth house from his angle and both of them would be a good start
this is the kind of my suggestion to the lady you both have this house his ninth
house and your third house her third house become skills hobbies common things
you do with the spouse his ninth house is his passion because Rahul and Mars are
very strong in that area and because she is an earth sign putting things
together now she is an earth sign she needs to support that water and this
person water in his head emotional person is more focused heavily on this
area which is his ninth house of philosophy and learning so support him
through doing hobbies together participate doing hobbies together study
something together study philosophy together go for spiritual retreats
together this is exciting you will bond well with him if you do this exploring
the ninth house from his angle and third house from her angle would be a good
start to passionate deep emotional bond why does the emotional bond is important
she needs to support his emotions his 159 axis only has motion science
emotional science emotional bond for the union ship I was calling it all this
lame relationship I would call it union ship communion those are better words
explore and be adventures with each other this is one thing all you guys need to
learn please you've got a month with your own bringing I understand that you
have your own ideas race culture religion I get that really I get that we have a
biases I get that but if you go out there and if you get married to a person
he's coming from a different place different family different every damn
thing it's not about you what you want right to stop molding things according
to your little fancy ideas look at this technology and bring it in a way that you
can participate where you meet there's a meeting ground possible and if there is
big if using it okay so let's see the 410 so what's happening in the 410
access but in his fourth house there is moon sitting in Murugashira nakshatra
taking one step further okay I'm putting a little nakshatra wherever it seems
crucial to so moon is in his mrikshira nakshatra beautiful devgana right in
Gemini so moon makes him in the fourth house is in a very good position is in
devgana so this moon makes him think in terms of devgana think in terms of
softer things things in terms of higher learning provides him a good mother
provided his maybe his mom is very inclined towards softer things of life
maybe mom is an artistic nature look up the theme of mrikshira nakshatra in my
nakshatra playing this you'll see moon and mrikshira what can it provide
teams of them okay it's a beautiful nakshatra so sitting in fourth house
he might be very attached to his mother very attached he gets more emotional
nurturing caring and thinking because germany from his mother okay and it
looks at the his 10th house of career also his career also he might be very
emotionally attached like might take advices for this career from his mother
for example now again we are back to looking at four and ten with respect to
the dispositions of one and seven because one and seven is the spouse access
right four and ten is the emotional bond access which we are trying to reach the
two between one and seven to four and ten that's the exercise we are doing now so the
dispositor of house number four mercury again in this case this 369 and 12 are all
similar right they are called jubitan on two sides and mercury on two sides so
dispositor of house number four is sitting in the ascendant of this spouse
which is excellent he can have excellent bond emotional with his spouse as well
right this is four place from this home seventh house looking at his
perspective is four places two three and four that means a person finds he is a
little trach okay person any person when they get married their spouse becomes
their home their spouse becomes their heart so the ascendant the dispositor of
the fourth house in this case sitting in the seventh house is a good combination
especially when moon is in a very nice it makes him devoted to his spouse maybe
the spouse is just seeing this because of some temporary mess with the kid over
there just possibility again I'm not check the mother shas so it might be
women you need to understand it might be a temporary sense of disconnection
don't make it to you know don't make a whole drama or dead don't go to hundred
and one marriage counselors and all the ramish just look at the chart and first
try to figure out things faster it's like a shortcut now the ascendant
dispositor in the sixth house so what does this give us again point number one
I have left it as it is point number two this the ascended Virgo Mercury in its
own side she's a good communicator she needs to do this point number two is also
left from three years life point number three moon in his fourth house and
bring a share shankh Chandra makes him search for a deeper softer tender
emotions very attached to his mother very attached to home land maybe by his land
in his home in his home land she should connect to this more she should be
appreciative of his hunt for higher meanings relating to matters of the
mind we looked at the Mars and Ketu sorry Mars and Rao combination the night he
wants to hunt the depth of the emotion he wants to do it through emotion he's
always searching for higher meanings friction as a constant hunter it's
hunting in a softer way not hunting for a prey
Rikshisha is head of a deer it is hunting for something soft it is softly
grazing the lands and Africa somewhere okay that's Rikshisha it hunts for deeper
meanings it searches for deeper depth of relationship they can be highly sensual
in nature but in the higher terms not so much in the lustful terms but more in a
higher plane of the same passion it's a scale okay all these things are a scale
they're raksha seven a man is a man and a man is a scale it's not black and white
nothing is black and white shades of all kinds of colors in very
astrology so my conclusion with this guy I would tell this missus my dear lady
this is very much doable why did you focus both on your third house aspects
again we can go to the nakshatra level and you can go both of you can find that
house and everything that house brings in this case third house for her and in
this case ninth house for him as the meeting ground as a way to start exploring
whether this is possible or not life is an open-ended book whether you want to
do something about no astrological chart is ever going to tell you no
astrological guarantee anything stop listening your time with astrologers
who are telling the diss and this is going to happen you're gonna have you know
I don't know what are coming out of your ears it's nonsense please don't believe
such things you are the ones living your life you and your husband together in
your nice sweet little house wherever you are trying to make it work please
take your life in your hands it is possible it is doable most times it is
doable okay I'll see you in the next one in my little take care and be safe