1<br>00:00:01,101 --> 00:00:03,703<br>Your Guide<br>to Protecting Your Personal Health.<br><br>2<br>00:00:03,737 --> 00:00:05,238<br>Simplified Answers to the.<br><br>3<br>00:00:05,238 --> 00:00:08,908<br>Complex Questions<br>surrounding Healthcare, Empowering you<br><br>4<br>00:00:08,942 --> 00:00:11,378<br>to take control of your health<br>and wellness.<br><br>5<br>00:00:11,411 --> 00:00:14,447<br>“You are the most knowledgeable<br>about health policy”.<br><br>6<br>00:00:14,781 --> 00:00:20,153<br>And now America's<br>Healthcare Advocate Cary Hall.<br><br>7<br>00:00:20,153 --> 00:00:20,887<br>Hello, America.<br><br>8<br>00:00:20,887 --> 00:00:22,188<br>Welcome to America's Healthcare<br><br>9<br>00:00:22,188 --> 00:00:25,492<br>Advocate show broadcasting coast<br>to coast across the USA.<br><br>10<br>00:00:25,492 --> 00:00:27,227<br>Our producer, Mr. Darren Willhite.<br><br>11<br>00:00:27,227 --> 00:00:29,462<br>I'm your host, Cary Hall.<br>This is your show, 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send, we're happy to hear.<br><br>31<br>00:01:36,529 --> 00:01:40,133<br>And it appears that we're going<br>rather rapidly on the podcast side.<br><br>32<br>00:01:40,133 --> 00:01:44,070<br>So once again, I want to say thank you<br>to everybody for tuning us in here<br><br>33<br>00:01:44,070 --> 00:01:47,607<br>live on the radio,<br>but also for picking those podcasts.<br><br>34<br>00:01:47,941 --> 00:01:50,910<br>If you are looking for Medicare<br>special needs program.<br><br>35<br>00:01:50,910 --> 00:01:54,848<br>So those folks that have chronic illnesses<br>are in a nursing home<br><br>36<br>00:01:55,048 --> 00:01:58,918<br>or receiving home health care<br>equivalent to nursing home or they are on<br><br>37<br>00:01:58,918 --> 00:02:02,622<br>Medicaid can qualify for Medicare<br>special needs program.<br><br>38<br>00:02:02,822 --> 00:02:04,124<br>Now, there's a lot of paperwork<br><br>39<br>00:02:04,124 --> 00:02:06,059<br>and there's a lot of government nonsense<br>to go through.<br><br>40<br>00:02:06,059 --> 00:02:09,062<br>But you don't have to do that<br>because you can call.<br><br>41<br>00:02:09,329 --> 00:02:14,767<br>Carolee Steele, Joyce Thompson<br>or Maria Ahlers At RPS Benefits by Design.<br><br>42<br>00:02:15,034 --> 00:02:23,877<br>877-385-2224<br>If you've got a loved one, you're<br><br>43<br>00:02:24,177 --> 00:02:26,479<br>you know somebody,<br>you know, maybe it's one of your family<br><br>44<br>00:02:26,479 --> 00:02:28,681<br>members, your grandmother,<br>whatever the case may be.<br><br>45<br>00:02:28,815 --> 00:02:31,551<br>And you know, these programs are amazing.<br><br>46<br>00:02:31,551 --> 00:02:33,820<br>They offer greatly enhanced benefits.<br><br>47<br>00:02:33,820 --> 00:02:39,092<br>They offer money for groceries<br>and utilities, and $4,000 worth of dental.<br><br>48<br>00:02:39,092 --> 00:02:41,461<br>I mean, there's just a host of things<br>you can get with these.<br><br>49<br>00:02:41,661 --> 00:02:44,430<br>You can't get on a typical Medicare<br>Advantage plan.<br><br>50<br>00:02:44,697 --> 00:02:46,866<br>Call one of those ladies.<br><br>51<br>00:02:46,866 --> 00:02:48,101<br>They'll be happy to help you.<br><br>52<br>00:02:48,101 --> 00:02:50,970<br>And if you're aging into Medicare,<br>they can do the same thing for you.<br><br>53<br>00:02:51,104 --> 00:02:51,471<br>All right.<br><br>54<br>00:02:51,471 --> 00:02:55,508<br>Joining me in studio once again,<br>Steve Kuker from Senior Care Live.<br><br>55<br>00:02:55,508 --> 00:02:56,709<br>That is his radio show.<br><br>56<br>00:02:56,709 --> 00:02:58,745<br>His company is Senior Care Consulting.<br><br>57<br>00:02:58,745 --> 00:03:00,146<br>And we're going to talk about<br><br>58<br>00:03:00,146 --> 00:03:03,883<br>what do you do when you have a loved<br>one that needs to go into a facility?<br><br>59<br>00:03:03,883 --> 00:03:05,952<br>How do you find out where they should go?<br><br>60<br>00:03:06,152 --> 00:03:08,521<br>How do you find out what the best fit is?<br><br>61<br>00:03:08,855 --> 00:03:10,623<br>What can they afford?<br><br>62<br>00:03:10,623 --> 00:03:12,625<br>How do you evaluate this stuff?<br><br>63<br>00:03:12,625 --> 00:03:14,160<br>Well, that's why we've got Steve in here.<br><br>64<br>00:03:14,160 --> 00:03:15,662<br>So, Steve, welcome.<br><br>65<br>00:03:15,662 --> 00:03:16,329<br>Thank you, Cary.<br><br>66<br>00:03:16,329 --> 00:03:21,301<br>I appreciate the opportunity to be<br>on your program and address your audience.<br><br>67<br>00:03:21,301 --> 00:03:23,403<br>Thank you so much. Well,<br>we're just happy to have you here.<br><br>68<br>00:03:23,536 --> 00:03:27,640<br>You know, you know, I'm 73,<br>which I make no secret about this<br><br>69<br>00:03:27,840 --> 00:03:30,076<br>when I talk about various things<br>in this broadcast.<br><br>70<br>00:03:30,710 --> 00:03:33,980<br>I've got friends of mine<br>that are of equal age, who have parents<br><br>71<br>00:03:33,980 --> 00:03:36,082<br>who are in their nineties<br><br>72<br>00:03:36,082 --> 00:03:38,818<br>or they're in their sixties<br>and parents are in their eighties.<br><br>73<br>00:03:39,552 --> 00:03:41,854<br>I just had one gentleman the other day,<br>a friend of mine<br><br>74<br>00:03:42,488 --> 00:03:44,490<br>in a men's group I belong to.<br><br>75<br>00:03:44,490 --> 00:03:49,195<br>His father is 86 years old<br>and they're having a real difficult time<br><br>76<br>00:03:49,195 --> 00:03:52,832<br>getting him to into a place<br>where he's going to be happy.<br><br>77<br>00:03:53,666 --> 00:03:55,702<br>He doesn't have any memory issues,<br>all of that.<br><br>78<br>00:03:55,702 --> 00:03:58,504<br>But he's not ambulatory enough<br>to take care of himself<br><br>79<br>00:03:58,805 --> 00:04:02,108<br>and they're not close by,<br>so they can't be there every day.<br><br>80<br>00:04:02,275 --> 00:04:06,446<br>I mean, this is<br>this is a we've got a tsunami of people<br><br>81<br>00:04:06,446 --> 00:04:10,216<br>hitting this,<br>you know, the boomers going into 65 plus.<br><br>82<br>00:04:10,450 --> 00:04:14,821<br>Well, the second tsunami is the boomers<br>that are boomers anymore.<br><br>83<br>00:04:14,821 --> 00:04:16,189<br>That's right. That's right.<br><br>84<br>00:04:16,189 --> 00:04:18,224<br>We're aging into the need. Right.<br><br>85<br>00:04:18,224 --> 00:04:19,225<br>Thank you. Yeah.<br><br>86<br>00:04:19,225 --> 00:04:21,394<br>Yeah, They're octogenarians. I think it's.<br><br>87<br>00:04:21,427 --> 00:04:24,097<br>What is it, septuagenarian?<br>Just one of those. Yeah.<br><br>88<br>00:04:24,330 --> 00:04:26,899<br>I don't know. Maybe Darren would know,<br>but I know he doesn't know either.<br><br>89<br>00:04:26,899 --> 00:04:28,167<br>Okay, never mind.<br><br>90<br>00:04:28,167 --> 00:04:29,235<br>But so, you know.<br><br>91<br>00:04:29,235 --> 00:04:32,972<br>But when people start pushing<br>past 80, oftentimes they just,<br><br>92<br>00:04:33,339 --> 00:04:35,575<br>you know, it gets to a point<br>where they just can't function<br><br>93<br>00:04:35,842 --> 00:04:38,311<br>in order to stay in their own home or<br><br>94<br>00:04:39,212 --> 00:04:41,581<br>if they need home health care,<br>how do they even get that?<br><br>95<br>00:04:41,581 --> 00:04:41,881<br>So let's<br><br>96<br>00:04:41,881 --> 00:04:45,752<br>just kind of spoiled a bit of that<br>and and the different elements and things,<br><br>97<br>00:04:45,752 --> 00:04:49,656<br>whether it's memory care or assisted<br>living or full blown nursing home homes.<br><br>98<br>00:04:50,056 --> 00:04:53,893<br>Well, once you get into the eighties,<br>we become more frail<br><br>99<br>00:04:54,260 --> 00:04:58,631<br>and it takes something very minor<br>to make a major change in our lifestyle.<br><br>100<br>00:04:59,132 --> 00:05:02,135<br>And so it could be a fall,<br>it could be an illness that we just don't<br><br>101<br>00:05:02,135 --> 00:05:03,236<br>fully recover from.<br><br>102<br>00:05:03,236 --> 00:05:06,739<br>And all of a sudden<br>we need a lot more help than we did<br><br>103<br>00:05:07,240 --> 00:05:10,243<br>two or three months ago<br>or maybe last week even.<br><br>104<br>00:05:10,243 --> 00:05:13,546<br>So the change can come on very quickly.<br><br>105<br>00:05:14,047 --> 00:05:16,649<br>In my case, my grandmother took a fall<br><br>106<br>00:05:16,883 --> 00:05:19,452<br>in the middle of the night<br>and she fractured her neck.<br><br>107<br>00:05:19,652 --> 00:05:20,820<br>She survived it.<br><br>108<br>00:05:20,820 --> 00:05:22,355<br>She was not paralyzed.<br><br>109<br>00:05:22,355 --> 00:05:24,991<br>But that boom,<br>that was an instant game changer.<br><br>110<br>00:05:25,224 --> 00:05:28,695<br>So accidents can also happen<br>to change that situation.<br><br>111<br>00:05:29,028 --> 00:05:30,763<br>And so you have to look at it<br>and you have to say,<br><br>112<br>00:05:30,763 --> 00:05:33,533<br>okay, now that I'm not fully independent,<br>I need some help.<br><br>113<br>00:05:34,000 --> 00:05:36,569<br>Can I remain independent in my home?<br><br>114<br>00:05:36,569 --> 00:05:38,771<br>And if so, what does that look like?<br><br>115<br>00:05:39,072 --> 00:05:41,774<br>So you can remodel your home<br>to age in place?<br><br>116<br>00:05:42,175 --> 00:05:46,746<br>The bathroom is a big area<br>where you know, get rid of the bathtub,<br><br>117<br>00:05:46,979 --> 00:05:50,183<br>put in a you know, I walk in, walk in tub<br><br>118<br>00:05:50,950 --> 00:05:53,586<br>or a zero entry shower<br>where you could even<br><br>119<br>00:05:53,586 --> 00:05:55,922<br>if someone had to roll you in on a shower<br>chair.<br><br>120<br>00:05:56,022 --> 00:05:56,622<br>Right.<br><br>121<br>00:05:56,622 --> 00:05:57,623<br>There are no barriers.<br><br>122<br>00:05:57,623 --> 00:05:59,325<br>I mean, you could do that.<br><br>123<br>00:05:59,325 --> 00:06:02,161<br>I refer a lot of folks to a local,<br><br>124<br>00:06:02,428 --> 00:06:05,865<br>you know, remodeler that can handle that<br>very quickly and efficiently.<br><br>125<br>00:06:05,965 --> 00:06:08,568<br>So that is what somebody specializes<br>in that.<br><br>126<br>00:06:08,568 --> 00:06:09,302<br>Exactly.<br><br>127<br>00:06:09,302 --> 00:06:13,873<br>You don't just go off on a website and,<br>you know, know this is what they do.<br><br>128<br>00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:14,974<br>Their tried and true.<br><br>129<br>00:06:14,974 --> 00:06:17,543<br>It's somebody you endorse<br>and you recommend. Absolutely.<br><br>130<br>00:06:17,610 --> 00:06:21,247<br>That way they know<br>they're going to get a quality product<br><br>131<br>00:06:21,481 --> 00:06:23,916<br>from somebody that's going to be reliable<br>and do the job the.<br><br>132<br>00:06:23,950 --> 00:06:24,150<br>Right.<br><br>133<br>00:06:24,917 --> 00:06:26,219<br>Remodelers, unfortunately.<br><br>134<br>00:06:26,219 --> 00:06:28,287<br>Sorry, don't start<br>sending me emails about that.<br><br>135<br>00:06:28,521 --> 00:06:30,390<br>But they're notorious. Okay?<br><br>136<br>00:06:30,390 --> 00:06:33,626<br>I've had enough of them to know<br>for not being reliable,<br><br>137<br>00:06:33,626 --> 00:06:36,529<br>not doing what they tell you<br>they're going to do and cost overruns.<br><br>138<br>00:06:36,763 --> 00:06:38,231<br>Right. So you have to be careful.<br><br>139<br>00:06:38,231 --> 00:06:40,533<br>But with with that, with who you hire.<br><br>140<br>00:06:40,533 --> 00:06:43,936<br>But the other thing is<br>what if you need your personal care?<br><br>141<br>00:06:43,936 --> 00:06:47,507<br>So now we're looking at bringing<br>in a home care company<br><br>142<br>00:06:47,507 --> 00:06:52,712<br>that's non-medical in-home assistance<br>to help you on an hourly basis.<br><br>143<br>00:06:52,712 --> 00:06:56,516<br>And unfortunately, with COVID<br>and I don't know where all of these people<br><br>144<br>00:06:56,516 --> 00:06:58,751<br>work now,<br>but there's a severe staffing shortage.<br><br>145<br>00:06:58,951 --> 00:07:01,687<br>It was bad before<br>COVID. It's catastrophic now.<br><br>146<br>00:07:01,687 --> 00:07:04,757<br>So I'll tell you a little interesting side<br>note that in The Wall Street<br><br>147<br>00:07:04,757 --> 00:07:08,161<br>Journal today, there was a huge<br>article on employers hiring,<br><br>148<br>00:07:09,328 --> 00:07:11,164<br>not use the word illegal<br><br>149<br>00:07:11,164 --> 00:07:15,301<br>aliens<br>will use the word undovumented immigrants.<br><br>150<br>00:07:15,368 --> 00:07:16,068<br>Okay. Okay.<br><br>151<br>00:07:16,068 --> 00:07:20,273<br>Hiring undocumented immigrants<br>because they can't fill those positions<br><br>152<br>00:07:20,273 --> 00:07:21,040<br>that you're talking about.<br><br>153<br>00:07:21,040 --> 00:07:21,574<br>Okay.<br><br>154<br>00:07:21,574 --> 00:07:25,878<br>Well, and so, too, to get<br>so what I've seen here in the last<br><br>155<br>00:07:25,878 --> 00:07:31,017<br>oh, I don't know, six months<br>maybe is to get the best staff.<br><br>156<br>00:07:31,584 --> 00:07:31,951<br>Okay.<br><br>157<br>00:07:31,951 --> 00:07:33,686<br>And you're going to have to pay them<br><br>158<br>00:07:33,686 --> 00:07:35,755<br>a lot more<br>because you're competing with hiring<br><br>159<br>00:07:35,755 --> 00:07:37,757<br>higher wages<br>because everyone's in the same boat.<br><br>160<br>00:07:38,124 --> 00:07:42,061<br>So now used to be able to pay 20 to $25<br><br>161<br>00:07:42,061 --> 00:07:45,932<br>an hour for a homecare company<br>to come out and help you in your home.<br><br>162<br>00:07:46,098 --> 00:07:49,902<br>But now you're looking at 30 to $35<br>an hour,<br><br>163<br>00:07:50,169 --> 00:07:54,607<br>maybe upper thirties and<br>and you still may not.<br><br>164<br>00:07:54,974 --> 00:07:58,144<br>The company you work with<br>still may not have enough staff<br><br>165<br>00:07:58,144 --> 00:07:59,612<br>to meet all of your needs.<br><br>166<br>00:07:59,612 --> 00:08:02,715<br>So this is becoming<br>a very difficult situation.<br><br>167<br>00:08:02,882 --> 00:08:03,883<br>And quite expensive.<br><br>168<br>00:08:03,883 --> 00:08:06,953<br>But it can be done<br>and you can remain independent<br><br>169<br>00:08:06,953 --> 00:08:08,621<br>in your home,<br>but it's going to be expensive.<br><br>170<br>00:08:08,621 --> 00:08:11,991<br>So if you've got a seven,<br>it looks like a seven day week typically<br><br>171<br>00:08:12,291 --> 00:08:15,595<br>and you need help<br>at least three days out of that seven<br><br>172<br>00:08:15,962 --> 00:08:19,232<br>and it's 3 hours, the laundry, clothing,<br><br>173<br>00:08:20,266 --> 00:08:21,200<br>food and<br><br>174<br>00:08:21,200 --> 00:08:24,670<br>maybe help with bathing, shaving,<br>whatever the case may be.<br><br>175<br>00:08:25,171 --> 00:08:28,274<br>You're looking at, you know, $300 a week.<br><br>176<br>00:08:28,307 --> 00:08:29,475<br>A week? Yeah, just for.<br><br>177<br>00:08:29,475 --> 00:08:30,576<br>1200 dollars.<br><br>178<br>00:08:30,576 --> 00:08:33,279<br>And that's only for three. Days<br>and for 3 hours a day.<br><br>179<br>00:08:33,279 --> 00:08:35,014<br>So that's that's minimal help.<br><br>180<br>00:08:35,014 --> 00:08:37,583<br>But you know what? That may be enough.<br><br>181<br>00:08:37,750 --> 00:08:42,421<br>That may be just enough to help you stay<br>home and avoid having to move somewhere.<br><br>182<br>00:08:42,421 --> 00:08:47,193<br>So even though it's expensive in the<br>in the in the bigger picture,<br><br>183<br>00:08:47,460 --> 00:08:53,633<br>six to 8 to $9000 for assisted<br>living per month, about 9000 to about<br><br>184<br>00:08:53,633 --> 00:08:58,471<br>$15,000 a month to live in long term care,<br>which is also known as a nursing home.<br><br>185<br>00:08:58,471 --> 00:09:02,542<br>So it could do it could do the trick<br>and keep you in-home in your home<br><br>186<br>00:09:02,542 --> 00:09:07,446<br>for a while and still be relatively cost<br>efficient.<br><br>187<br>00:09:07,647 --> 00:09:09,849<br>Absolutely. Relatively is the key term.<br><br>188<br>00:09:09,882 --> 00:09:11,717<br>Yeah. Yeah. Relatively is the key term.<br><br>189<br>00:09:11,717 --> 00:09:13,152<br>When I come back to break up,<br><br>190<br>00:09:13,152 --> 00:09:16,022<br>I want to go over something<br>that may help you with that.<br><br>191<br>00:09:16,022 --> 00:09:16,989<br>Okay.<br><br>192<br>00:09:16,989 --> 00:09:19,125<br>In terms of being able to afford it.<br><br>193<br>00:09:19,125 --> 00:09:20,493<br>We'll be right back after the break.<br><br>194<br>00:09:20,493 --> 00:09:21,827<br>You're listening to America's<br><br>195<br>00:09:21,827 --> 00:09:25,665<br>Healthcare Advocate broadcasting<br>here on the HIA radio network.<br><br>196<br>00:09:25,765 --> 00:09:28,868<br>Look, if you want to connect with Steve,<br>the website is<br><br>197<br>00:09:28,901 --> 00:09:32,438<br>Senior Care Consulting dot com<br><br>198<br>00:09:32,438 --> 00:09:38,144<br>913-945 2800<br><br>199<br>00:09:38,444 --> 00:09:39,879<br>I don't care<br>where you're at in the country,<br><br>200<br>00:09:39,879 --> 00:09:42,415<br>if you need help, call this man.<br>He will talk to you.<br><br>201<br>00:09:42,448 --> 00:09:43,416<br>He will help you.<br><br>202<br>00:09:43,416 --> 00:09:44,951<br>Give him a call.<br><br>203<br>00:09:44,951 --> 00:09:47,820<br>913 945 2800. Stay tuned.<br><br>204<br>00:09:47,820 --> 00:09:48,721<br>We've got more.<br><br>205<br>00:09:48,721 --> 00:09:50,823<br>You're listening to America's<br>Healthcare Advocate.<br><br>206<br>00:09:51,057 --> 00:09:53,926<br>Broadcasting here on the HIA<br>radio network.<br><br>207<br>00:09:54,260 --> 00:09:57,129<br>Coast to coast across the U.S.,<br>even in Lincoln,<br><br>208<br>00:09:57,129 --> 00:09:59,632<br>Nebraska.<br><br>209<br>00:10:00,232 --> 00:10:04,904<br>Well, tell me darlin am my right, I'm<br><br>210<br>00:11:12,772 --> 00:11:14,573<br>Welcome<br>back, You're listening to America's<br><br>211<br>00:11:14,573 --> 00:11:18,177<br>Healthcare Advocates broadcasting coast<br>to coast across the USA.<br><br>212<br>00:11:18,177 --> 00:11:19,578<br>My producer, Mr. Darin Wilhite.<br><br>213<br>00:11:19,578 --> 00:11:21,514<br>I'm your host, Cary Hall, in studio<br>with me.<br><br>214<br>00:11:21,514 --> 00:11:23,516<br>Steve Kuker from Senior Care Live.<br><br>215<br>00:11:23,516 --> 00:11:26,419<br>That is his radio show<br>that is nationally syndicated as well.<br><br>216<br>00:11:26,519 --> 00:11:30,423<br>And his company is Senior Care<br>Consulting website is Senior Care<br><br>217<br>00:11:30,423 --> 00:11:36,929<br>Consulting dot com,<br>the phone number 913-945-2800.<br><br>218<br>00:11:36,929 --> 00:11:37,997<br>I'm going to tell you something.<br><br>219<br>00:11:37,997 --> 00:11:41,834<br>I've I had people call me with this stuff<br>all the time and I referred in the Steve<br><br>220<br>00:11:41,834 --> 00:11:43,369<br>but if you go out there<br><br>221<br>00:11:43,369 --> 00:11:47,039<br>and you try to do this yourself,<br>first of all, it's time consuming as hell.<br><br>222<br>00:11:47,239 --> 00:11:49,675<br>Secondly, you really don't know<br>what you're doing, okay?<br><br>223<br>00:11:49,842 --> 00:11:51,977<br>You walk into a place,<br>they sell you a bill of goods<br><br>224<br>00:11:51,977 --> 00:11:53,212<br>and tell you you're going to do this.<br><br>225<br>00:11:53,212 --> 00:11:55,681<br>I've got a friend right now<br>with an 87 year old.<br><br>226<br>00:11:55,681 --> 00:11:58,951<br>No, he's 90 year<br>old mother in a nursing facility.<br><br>227<br>00:11:59,085 --> 00:12:01,320<br>He goes over there every day.<br><br>228<br>00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:02,788<br>He can do this. Okay.<br><br>229<br>00:12:02,788 --> 00:12:06,392<br>To make sure she's getting what he needs<br>because he doesn't trust the staff,<br><br>230<br>00:12:06,592 --> 00:12:09,261<br>because they're not giving him<br>what he That's the problem.<br><br>231<br>00:12:09,261 --> 00:12:10,162<br>When you have to do this<br><br>232<br>00:12:10,162 --> 00:12:13,532<br>yourself, you get into a place<br>you don't know if it's tried and true.<br><br>233<br>00:12:13,799 --> 00:12:15,868<br>Looks good on the outside,<br>look good on the inside.<br><br>234<br>00:12:15,868 --> 00:12:17,770<br>They tell you they're going to do<br>all these wonderful things<br><br>235<br>00:12:17,770 --> 00:12:20,906<br>and maybe they've got a staffing shortage<br>or maybe they're just not competent<br><br>236<br>00:12:20,906 --> 00:12:21,607<br>summaries.<br><br>237<br>00:12:21,607 --> 00:12:25,611<br>Those are things that Steve knows<br>because this is what he does for a living.<br><br>238<br>00:12:25,778 --> 00:12:27,079<br>He knows exactly.<br><br>239<br>00:12:27,079 --> 00:12:28,314<br>Oh, and by the way,<br><br>240<br>00:12:28,314 --> 00:12:31,183<br>don't go to a place for mom<br>or some of these other places, okay?<br><br>241<br>00:12:31,550 --> 00:12:33,586<br>Because they get paid<br>by the nursing homes.<br><br>242<br>00:12:33,586 --> 00:12:36,422<br>I don't know if I can get Steve<br>to talk about that or not, but they do.<br><br>243<br>00:12:36,589 --> 00:12:36,922<br>All right.<br><br>244<br>00:12:36,922 --> 00:12:39,792<br>And they get paid by the nursing homes<br>to put people in there.<br><br>245<br>00:12:39,925 --> 00:12:43,195<br>So that's not what I would call<br>unbiased approach if you want help.<br><br>246<br>00:12:43,395 --> 00:12:47,266<br>Once again, the poll numbers 913945 2800,<br><br>247<br>00:12:47,366 --> 00:12:49,502<br>the website senior care<br>consulting dot com.<br><br>248<br>00:12:49,502 --> 00:12:51,270<br>You know those special needs programs<br><br>249<br>00:12:51,270 --> 00:12:53,172<br>that I mentioned<br>at the beginning of the broadcast.<br><br>250<br>00:12:53,172 --> 00:12:56,142<br>People with chronic conditions<br>like if you've got a heart condition<br><br>251<br>00:12:56,142 --> 00:13:00,112<br>or type one diabetes,<br>if you're on Medicaid or if you are in a<br><br>252<br>00:13:00,112 --> 00:13:04,150<br>nursing home or need home health care,<br>which is what we just talked about,<br><br>253<br>00:13:04,316 --> 00:13:07,319<br>there is money available<br>on those special needs programs.<br><br>254<br>00:13:07,319 --> 00:13:08,888<br>So, you know, once again,<br><br>255<br>00:13:08,888 --> 00:13:11,991<br>if you reach out to those ladies<br>over to US benefits by design,<br><br>256<br>00:13:12,591 --> 00:13:13,592<br>they can help you with that.<br><br>257<br>00:13:13,592 --> 00:13:16,462<br>But that's one of the beauties that<br>because I don't know what the number is<br><br>258<br>00:13:16,462 --> 00:13:19,265<br>for home health care,<br>what they give you in terms of dollars.<br><br>259<br>00:13:19,431 --> 00:13:21,634<br>But let's just say it's $2,000 a month.<br><br>260<br>00:13:21,634 --> 00:13:22,868<br>Well, how many hours is that?<br><br>261<br>00:13:22,868 --> 00:13:23,402<br>30 day.<br><br>262<br>00:13:23,402 --> 00:13:26,572<br>But, you know, I'm not good at math,<br>so whatever. 33.<br><br>263<br>00:13:26,572 --> 00:13:29,041<br>Okay. There you go. It's sexy.<br>He is good at math.<br><br>264<br>00:13:29,141 --> 00:13:31,677<br>Is it's that's that's a lot of hours.<br><br>265<br>00:13:32,077 --> 00:13:32,711<br>Okay.<br><br>266<br>00:13:32,711 --> 00:13:36,515<br>That that that would be So if you had that<br>and you had to pay another<br><br>267<br>00:13:36,682 --> 00:13:38,284<br>two or three or $400,<br><br>268<br>00:13:38,284 --> 00:13:41,420<br>now you've got maybe enough care<br>that you can stay in your home,<br><br>269<br>00:13:41,554 --> 00:13:43,455<br>your mother, your grandmother,<br>your father,<br><br>270<br>00:13:43,455 --> 00:13:46,125<br>whatever the case may be,<br>and not have to go to a facility.<br><br>271<br>00:13:46,392 --> 00:13:48,694<br>So those special needs programs<br>worth looking at.<br><br>272<br>00:13:48,861 --> 00:13:49,829<br>Can make the difference.<br><br>273<br>00:13:49,829 --> 00:13:51,530<br>Yeah, it could be good enough.<br><br>274<br>00:13:51,530 --> 00:13:54,500<br>Yeah, no doubt. Okay. Yeah,<br>it really is a big difference.<br><br>275<br>00:13:54,500 --> 00:13:56,635<br>There's also a program<br>available under the VA<br><br>276<br>00:13:57,169 --> 00:13:59,772<br>if you're not aware of that<br>and if you reach out to us, we'll be happy<br><br>277<br>00:13:59,772 --> 00:14:00,806<br>to tell you about that as well.<br><br>278<br>00:14:00,806 --> 00:14:03,075<br>So let's kind of get back to this<br>for a minute. Okay.<br><br>279<br>00:14:03,209 --> 00:14:05,444<br>So we talk a lot about home health care.<br><br>280<br>00:14:05,444 --> 00:14:06,412<br>You know, it's important.<br><br>281<br>00:14:06,412 --> 00:14:10,149<br>It's no different from the standpoint<br>of knowing what quality is<br><br>282<br>00:14:10,816 --> 00:14:13,586<br>and who's reliable versus<br>and we'll do the nursing home thing<br><br>283<br>00:14:13,586 --> 00:14:15,020<br>in the next in the next segment.<br><br>284<br>00:14:15,020 --> 00:14:17,923<br>We've got a lot of time, but I want to<br>kind of stay on this for a little while.<br><br>285<br>00:14:18,157 --> 00:14:19,692<br>How do you determine,<br><br>286<br>00:14:20,860 --> 00:14:21,160<br>you know,<br><br>287<br>00:14:21,160 --> 00:14:24,797<br>a home health care company, Like you said,<br>they're having staffing problems?<br><br>288<br>00:14:24,997 --> 00:14:25,331<br>You know,<br><br>289<br>00:14:25,331 --> 00:14:27,800<br>I read in The Wall Street<br>Journal this morning a lot of these jobs<br><br>290<br>00:14:27,833 --> 00:14:29,668<br>being filled by immigrants, which is fine.<br><br>291<br>00:14:29,668 --> 00:14:33,105<br>Hey, if they're willing to do the work<br>and they can do the work, God bless them.<br><br>292<br>00:14:33,138 --> 00:14:33,539<br>Yeah. Okay.<br><br>293<br>00:14:33,539 --> 00:14:35,407<br>Somebody needs to do it. Yeah. Okay.<br><br>294<br>00:14:35,407 --> 00:14:37,476<br>So how how do you<br><br>295<br>00:14:37,476 --> 00:14:39,311<br>how are you able<br>to go through a process to say,<br><br>296<br>00:14:39,311 --> 00:14:40,646<br>you know,<br>I know that company is really good<br><br>297<br>00:14:40,646 --> 00:14:42,648<br>and they provide quality<br>people, Steve. Well.<br><br>298<br>00:14:42,681 --> 00:14:46,585<br>I know I'm<br>very aware of some of the top providers<br><br>299<br>00:14:47,086 --> 00:14:50,222<br>here where I live in my area in the city<br>marketplace.<br><br>300<br>00:14:50,656 --> 00:14:51,757<br>Yes. Yes.<br><br>301<br>00:14:51,757 --> 00:14:56,228<br>Here's the challenge is a lot of times<br>there is not a licensure<br><br>302<br>00:14:56,228 --> 00:14:59,531<br>in a particular state<br>or if there is a licensure,<br><br>303<br>00:14:59,531 --> 00:15:01,901<br>it's just it's a piece of paper<br>and no one monitors it.<br><br>304<br>00:15:01,901 --> 00:15:04,904<br>So it's very easy to hang your shingle<br><br>305<br>00:15:04,904 --> 00:15:07,773<br>on the walls, says,<br>you know, Jim, Bob's home care company.<br><br>306<br>00:15:08,007 --> 00:15:11,110<br>And so far<br>there's just not a lot of regulation<br><br>307<br>00:15:11,110 --> 00:15:15,681<br>because it's non medical<br>in-home assistance. Wow.<br><br>308<br>00:15:15,681 --> 00:15:17,449<br>So so that's the scary thing.<br><br>309<br>00:15:17,449 --> 00:15:21,453<br>So just here in our metro area<br>where we live now, obviously<br><br>310<br>00:15:21,453 --> 00:15:25,257<br>this is broadcast around the country,<br>but what is it, 2 million, two<br><br>311<br>00:15:25,257 --> 00:15:26,725<br>and a half million, You know, Metro.<br><br>312<br>00:15:26,725 --> 00:15:29,361<br>Yeah, we have at least 300<br><br>313<br>00:15:29,795 --> 00:15:32,464<br>home care providers now, most of them<br>you've never heard of.<br><br>314<br>00:15:33,232 --> 00:15:35,000<br>Okay. Because they're very small.<br><br>315<br>00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:39,171<br>They might work in just a very small area<br>and they do a very<br><br>316<br>00:15:39,238 --> 00:15:41,540<br>small amount of business,<br>but some of them are very big.<br><br>317<br>00:15:41,540 --> 00:15:47,846<br>And so I created a document and<br>it's a home care provider screening tool.<br><br>318<br>00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:50,950<br>And so with my with my clients<br><br>319<br>00:15:51,350 --> 00:15:54,853<br>and I provided free of charge,<br>I just email it out to whoever wants it.<br><br>320<br>00:15:55,020 --> 00:15:58,724<br>But I have a list of very good questions<br><br>321<br>00:15:58,891 --> 00:16:02,561<br>and I recommend<br>find your top three home care providers.<br><br>322<br>00:16:02,828 --> 00:16:05,531<br>What would you call it on Yelp<br>or something to do that or a phone?<br><br>323<br>00:16:05,531 --> 00:16:08,334<br>I would ask your doctor<br>and I would ask someone in the hospital.<br><br>324<br>00:16:08,334 --> 00:16:09,635<br>I would ask for referrals.<br><br>325<br>00:16:09,635 --> 00:16:13,205<br>Okay. So. So I would I would I would.<br><br>326<br>00:16:13,205 --> 00:16:15,007<br>I would identify your top three<br><br>327<br>00:16:15,007 --> 00:16:17,276<br>that you've heard of<br>that you've interested maybe you've used<br><br>328<br>00:16:17,276 --> 00:16:21,113<br>before your neighbor used, somebody's<br>church, your doctor recommend so<br><br>329<br>00:16:21,480 --> 00:16:25,551<br>and find three and then ask them<br>the same questions and it will help you<br><br>330<br>00:16:25,551 --> 00:16:28,988<br>very quickly clarify which one you feel<br>is the best fit for you.<br><br>331<br>00:16:29,154 --> 00:16:29,455<br>All right.<br><br>332<br>00:16:29,455 --> 00:16:30,689<br>If you want to get that,<br><br>333<br>00:16:30,689 --> 00:16:33,625<br>you know, you can go to his website<br>Senior Care consulting dot com.<br><br>334<br>00:16:33,826 --> 00:16:36,562<br>He'll email you the thing free of charge.<br>I mean, there's.<br><br>335<br>00:16:36,562 --> 00:16:37,429<br>No strings attached.<br><br>336<br>00:16:37,429 --> 00:16:39,231<br>I'd just be happy to send that out to you.<br><br>337<br>00:16:39,231 --> 00:16:42,134<br>And that might make a big difference<br>because, you know, again,<br><br>338<br>00:16:42,401 --> 00:16:46,805<br>you think you've got the right person<br>and then six months later you find out<br><br>339<br>00:16:46,805 --> 00:16:50,109<br>have you have your grandmother's jewelry<br>just disappeared? Duh.<br><br>340<br>00:16:50,676 --> 00:16:52,044<br>And that happens. Okay.<br><br>341<br>00:16:52,044 --> 00:16:53,746<br>I've had it happened. Friends of mine. So.<br><br>342<br>00:16:53,746 --> 00:16:56,248<br>Well, and here's a here's a key question.<br><br>343<br>00:16:56,248 --> 00:17:00,919<br>When you're when you're screening home<br>care providers, if my caregiver<br><br>344<br>00:17:00,919 --> 00:17:06,425<br>is not able to come today to fill<br>that shift, do you do you have backup,<br><br>345<br>00:17:07,459 --> 00:17:08,827<br>another another staff that<br><br>346<br>00:17:08,827 --> 00:17:12,998<br>will come in and take my shift<br>because I have doctor's appointments.<br><br>347<br>00:17:12,998 --> 00:17:15,200<br>I have very important things<br>that I cannot put off.<br><br>348<br>00:17:15,200 --> 00:17:18,337<br>And so some time<br>I've heard way too many stories of,<br><br>349<br>00:17:18,604 --> 00:17:20,906<br>yeah,<br>well, so-and-so is not able to come today.<br><br>350<br>00:17:20,906 --> 00:17:23,342<br>We sure hope she shows up tomorrow.<br><br>351<br>00:17:23,342 --> 00:17:25,244<br>Well, that's the wrong answer.<br><br>352<br>00:17:25,244 --> 00:17:28,280<br>Know? Well, no,<br>not only it's wrong answer.<br><br>353<br>00:17:28,280 --> 00:17:29,148<br>It's a tragedy.<br><br>354<br>00:17:29,148 --> 00:17:29,481<br>It is.<br><br>355<br>00:17:29,481 --> 00:17:33,218<br>You're the 86 year old that can't take<br>a bath by yourself for a shower.<br><br>356<br>00:17:33,218 --> 00:17:34,219<br>So what does that mean?<br><br>357<br>00:17:34,219 --> 00:17:34,953<br>You don't bathe.<br><br>358<br>00:17:34,953 --> 00:17:37,790<br>You don't shower.<br>Yeah, you know, you can't.<br><br>359<br>00:17:37,790 --> 00:17:39,925<br>Maybe you have trouble making meals.<br>What does that mean?<br><br>360<br>00:17:39,925 --> 00:17:42,094<br>You're going to microwave<br>whatever you think you can eat<br><br>361<br>00:17:42,094 --> 00:17:43,862<br>for the next two or three days<br><br>362<br>00:17:43,862 --> 00:17:46,265<br>instead of having some kind of a decently<br>prepared meal.<br><br>363<br>00:17:46,465 --> 00:17:49,735<br>Or you've got laundry to do<br>and you don't have enough clean clothes,<br><br>364<br>00:17:50,002 --> 00:17:52,671<br>you don't have enough clean underwear.<br>I mean, let's just get real practical.<br><br>365<br>00:17:52,671 --> 00:17:54,840<br>Yeah, yeah, yeah.<br>That missing that kind of...<br><br>366<br>00:17:55,207 --> 00:17:58,777<br>And I do this for a perspective of<br>my daughter's got four in Washington,<br><br>367<br>00:17:58,777 --> 00:18:00,412<br>Pasco, which, by the way,<br>we're all up there.<br><br>368<br>00:18:00,412 --> 00:18:02,147<br>We're very happy about that.<br><br>369<br>00:18:02,147 --> 00:18:05,484<br>She's got four children,<br>two of which are twins, nine month old,<br><br>370<br>00:18:05,651 --> 00:18:08,887<br>a two year old and five year old<br>when the nanny doesn't show up.<br><br>371<br>00:18:08,887 --> 00:18:10,923<br>Yeah.<br>And she's got four of them to juggle.<br><br>372<br>00:18:11,290 --> 00:18:13,525<br>All hell breaks loose, right?<br>I know. Because they've been there.<br><br>373<br>00:18:13,892 --> 00:18:14,660<br>Yep, yep, yep.<br><br>374<br>00:18:14,660 --> 00:18:17,629<br>I just spent a week up there<br>not too long ago, just for that reason,<br><br>375<br>00:18:17,763 --> 00:18:19,198<br>because the nanny quit.<br><br>376<br>00:18:19,198 --> 00:18:23,902<br>All right, So it's the same thing with<br>with with with seniors in this situation,<br><br>377<br>00:18:24,169 --> 00:18:26,472<br>you've just created a disaster<br>for these people<br><br>378<br>00:18:26,805 --> 00:18:30,442<br>because they've got nowhere else<br>or or you've got to call your son<br><br>379<br>00:18:30,442 --> 00:18:32,211<br>or your daughter,<br>and they have to take a day off<br><br>380<br>00:18:32,211 --> 00:18:34,213<br>work to come and try to help you.<br><br>381<br>00:18:34,213 --> 00:18:36,682<br>Well, that's good if they're in your city.<br><br>382<br>00:18:36,715 --> 00:18:40,819<br>But if they live in Iowa<br>and you're in you're in Florida<br><br>383<br>00:18:40,986 --> 00:18:44,723<br>or you're you're in Florida and you know<br>they're in Florida and you're in Iowa,<br><br>384<br>00:18:44,790 --> 00:18:45,757<br>you're you're out of lot.<br><br>385<br>00:18:45,757 --> 00:18:46,058<br>Yeah.<br><br>386<br>00:18:46,058 --> 00:18:50,362<br>And so, you know, I know some companies,<br>too, where, you know, they have kind of<br><br>387<br>00:18:50,362 --> 00:18:55,367<br>a backup pool of staff that is available<br>at a moment's notice to fill a shift.<br><br>388<br>00:18:55,367 --> 00:18:57,636<br>So they run their business properly.<br>And guess what?<br><br>389<br>00:18:57,636 --> 00:19:02,307<br>If no one else is available,<br>the person running that homecare business,<br><br>390<br>00:19:02,541 --> 00:19:06,111<br>she personally will go out<br>and fill that shift until some<br><br>391<br>00:19:06,211 --> 00:19:09,515<br>I mean, they do whatever it takes<br>to take care of their client.<br><br>392<br>00:19:09,515 --> 00:19:12,184<br>See, that's the thing right there.<br>That's the commitment.<br><br>393<br>00:19:12,184 --> 00:19:13,185<br>You're looking for it.<br><br>394<br>00:19:13,185 --> 00:19:14,586<br>That doesn't have to be a big company.<br><br>395<br>00:19:14,586 --> 00:19:17,222<br>No, it could be a smaller company.<br>It could be five people, ten people.<br><br>396<br>00:19:17,389 --> 00:19:19,491<br>But that kind of commitment<br>is what you're looking for.<br><br>397<br>00:19:19,658 --> 00:19:21,393<br>That's why this stuff is so important.<br><br>398<br>00:19:21,393 --> 00:19:23,462<br>If you want information<br>you want to talk to,<br><br>399<br>00:19:23,462 --> 00:19:25,430<br>if you've got somebody in that situation.<br><br>400<br>00:19:25,430 --> 00:19:28,267<br>Senior Care Consulting dot<br>com is the website, the phone number<br><br>401<br>00:19:28,267 --> 00:19:31,003<br>913-945-2800.<br><br>402<br>00:19:31,036 --> 00:19:32,271<br>We come back from the break.<br><br>403<br>00:19:32,271 --> 00:19:34,806<br>We're going to talk about<br>how do you find an assisted<br><br>404<br>00:19:34,806 --> 00:19:37,509<br>living facility<br>or a nursing home, memory care, etc..<br><br>405<br>00:19:37,643 --> 00:19:39,845<br>How do you determine the right place<br>for your loved one?<br><br>406<br>00:19:39,845 --> 00:19:40,612<br>Stay tuned.<br><br>407<br>00:19:40,612 --> 00:19:44,750<br>You're listening to America's Healthcare<br>Advocate broadcasting on the HIA radio<br><br>408<br>00:19:44,750 --> 00:19:52,391<br>network Coast to Coast across the USA.<br><br>409<br>00:19:59,798 --> 00:20:01,600<br>Welcome<br>back, you're listening to America's<br><br>410<br>00:20:01,600 --> 00:20:03,602<br>Healthcare Advocate broadcasting coast<br><br>411<br>00:20:03,602 --> 00:20:07,072<br>to coast across the fruited plain<br>here on the HIA Radio Network.<br><br>412<br>00:20:07,339 --> 00:20:08,006<br>You can find out<br><br>413<br>00:20:08,006 --> 00:20:11,577<br>more about us by going to the website<br>America's Healthcare Advocate dot com.<br><br>414<br>00:20:11,843 --> 00:20:15,647<br>Also, 12 podcast platforms,<br>a market name all again.<br><br>415<br>00:20:15,847 --> 00:20:17,950<br>But if it's out there, we're on it. 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Okay.<br><br>425<br>00:20:40,672 --> 00:20:42,007<br>The show's going to be Steve Kuker.<br><br>426<br>00:20:42,007 --> 00:20:44,509<br>Senior Care Consulting com<br>is this company.<br><br>427<br>00:20:44,509 --> 00:20:46,078<br>And just tell them to listen to it.<br><br>428<br>00:20:46,078 --> 00:20:49,881<br>Listen to what this man has to say<br>and the right way to do this,<br><br>429<br>00:20:49,881 --> 00:20:51,183<br>whether it's home health care.<br><br>430<br>00:20:51,183 --> 00:20:55,220<br>Now we're going to talk about getting into<br>a facility, But either one of those two,<br><br>431<br>00:20:55,254 --> 00:20:57,089<br>this guy is an expert.<br>He knows what he's doing.<br><br>432<br>00:20:57,089 --> 00:20:58,357<br>He can help you anywhere.<br><br>433<br>00:20:58,357 --> 00:21:00,492<br>You may be in the country<br>if you want to reach out to him.<br><br>434<br>00:21:00,659 --> 00:21:03,195<br>It's Senior Care Consulting dot com,<br><br>435<br>00:21:04,796 --> 00:21:07,132<br>913-945-2800.<br><br>436<br>00:21:10,168 --> 00:21:11,870<br>And my producer, Darren Wilhite.<br><br>437<br>00:21:11,870 --> 00:21:14,506<br>I'm your host Cary<br>Hall, in studio with me, Mr.<br><br>438<br>00:21:14,506 --> 00:21:15,474<br>Steve Kuker. All right.<br><br>439<br>00:21:15,474 --> 00:21:20,212<br>Let's switch now and talk about facilities<br>because this gets really tricky.<br><br>440<br>00:21:20,512 --> 00:21:21,446<br>Okay?<br><br>441<br>00:21:21,713 --> 00:21:24,449<br>And people go out there and they look<br>at two or three or four places.<br><br>442<br>00:21:24,449 --> 00:21:25,851<br>First of all, one of the problems<br>right now<br><br>443<br>00:21:25,851 --> 00:21:28,186<br>is trying to get in some of these places.<br>Yeah, it's a problem.<br><br>444<br>00:21:28,186 --> 00:21:29,254<br>Yeah, it is a problem.<br><br>445<br>00:21:29,254 --> 00:21:33,225<br>And the second thing is,<br>so let's say you've got a certain issue,<br><br>446<br>00:21:33,225 --> 00:21:36,762<br>maybe your mom's got a little dementia,<br>maybe your dad's got the beginning<br><br>447<br>00:21:36,762 --> 00:21:39,531<br>of Alzheimer's or it's grandma or whatever<br>the case may be.<br><br>448<br>00:21:40,165 --> 00:21:43,535<br>How do, how do you determine, you know,<br>where am I?<br><br>449<br>00:21:43,568 --> 00:21:47,306<br>First of all, how do I find a place<br>where they're going to take care of them<br><br>450<br>00:21:47,539 --> 00:21:49,775<br>and they're not going to be abused<br>or have issues?<br><br>451<br>00:21:50,008 --> 00:21:52,844<br>And secondly,<br>how do I find a place I can afford?<br><br>452<br>00:21:52,844 --> 00:21:54,513<br>Because if you don't have long term care,<br><br>453<br>00:21:54,513 --> 00:21:57,182<br>which about what,<br>10% of the people in this country do, if.<br><br>454<br>00:21:57,182 --> 00:21:59,184<br>That which. Is insanity. Yeah. Okay.<br><br>455<br>00:21:59,184 --> 00:22:00,952<br>I have a long term care policy.<br><br>456<br>00:22:00,952 --> 00:22:02,754<br>I can't<br>I don't know how many years I've had it.<br><br>457<br>00:22:02,754 --> 00:22:04,423<br>Okay. I bought it I think when I was 54.<br><br>458<br>00:22:04,423 --> 00:22:07,592<br>Laurie and I<br>and I will never get rid of that policy.<br><br>459<br>00:22:07,592 --> 00:22:13,098<br>Well, the fact is 75% of us<br>will use or require long term care and.<br><br>460<br>00:22:13,432 --> 00:22:15,200<br>75% correct.<br><br>461<br>00:22:15,200 --> 00:22:17,869<br>And of that, 10% have got long term care.<br><br>462<br>00:22:17,869 --> 00:22:20,605<br>Right. So that money's<br>going to come from somewhere.<br><br>463<br>00:22:21,640 --> 00:22:22,140<br>Yeah.<br><br>464<br>00:22:22,140 --> 00:22:25,043<br>And the question is where? Somewhere<br>out of your pocket.<br><br>465<br>00:22:25,043 --> 00:22:28,814<br>And once you are out of assets,<br>then you have to depend<br><br>466<br>00:22:29,014 --> 00:22:30,282<br>on the Medicaid program.<br><br>467<br>00:22:30,282 --> 00:22:31,850<br>And so let's talk about that<br><br>468<br>00:22:31,850 --> 00:22:33,885<br>because a lot of people go,<br>oh, Medicare will pay for it.<br><br>469<br>00:22:33,885 --> 00:22:37,522<br>Medicare doesn't pay for a damn thing<br>when it comes to long term care.<br><br>470<br>00:22:37,522 --> 00:22:40,892<br>You get 90 days in a facility or 120,<br>whatever it is.<br><br>471<br>00:22:40,892 --> 00:22:42,227<br>Okay. And that's it.<br><br>472<br>00:22:42,227 --> 00:22:44,262<br>So get the Medicare thing<br>out of your head.<br><br>473<br>00:22:44,396 --> 00:22:46,732<br>It's Medicaid and explain how that works.<br><br>474<br>00:22:46,832 --> 00:22:49,835<br>Medicaid looks at your liquid assets,<br><br>475<br>00:22:49,835 --> 00:22:52,738<br>so not including your house,<br>your car, everything in your house.<br><br>476<br>00:22:53,171 --> 00:22:53,672<br>Okay.<br><br>477<br>00:22:53,672 --> 00:22:56,708<br>They look at your liquid assets, checking<br>savings, money market, mutual<br><br>478<br>00:22:56,708 --> 00:22:59,978<br>fund, CDs, IRAs for your own case,<br>all of those sort of things.<br><br>479<br>00:23:00,145 --> 00:23:03,982<br>And what's that number once<br>those dollars are down to?<br><br>480<br>00:23:04,383 --> 00:23:06,351<br>And I'll just give you the Kansas<br>and Missouri numbers.<br><br>481<br>00:23:06,351 --> 00:23:08,487<br>All of the states are very similar.<br><br>482<br>00:23:08,487 --> 00:23:12,958<br>Once you are down to $2,000 in the state<br>of Kansas, you're almost broke, right?<br><br>483<br>00:23:13,191 --> 00:23:15,060<br>5000 that you are broke.<br><br>484<br>00:23:15,060 --> 00:23:15,961<br>Exactly. Exactly.<br><br>485<br>00:23:15,961 --> 00:23:17,929<br>$5,000 in the state of Missouri.<br><br>486<br>00:23:17,929 --> 00:23:21,266<br>And again,<br>most most of the states are in that range.<br><br>487<br>00:23:21,266 --> 00:23:24,136<br>So you're literally<br>almost out of money then<br><br>488<br>00:23:24,636 --> 00:23:28,907<br>and only then will the Medicaid program<br>help pay for your care.<br><br>489<br>00:23:28,907 --> 00:23:32,711<br>And then there are some<br>some significant limitations to that.<br><br>490<br>00:23:32,811 --> 00:23:35,981<br>So if you've socked away<br>a half a million dollars and you blow<br><br>491<br>00:23:35,981 --> 00:23:39,551<br>through that, believe me,<br>okay, I've got friends who have done this<br><br>492<br>00:23:39,718 --> 00:23:41,987<br>and they've run out of money<br>after a year or two years,<br><br>493<br>00:23:42,220 --> 00:23:45,123<br>then then you're done,<br>then you're going to Medicaid.<br><br>494<br>00:23:45,123 --> 00:23:48,427<br>So you were in a really nice facility,<br>a decent place.<br><br>495<br>00:23:48,427 --> 00:23:48,860<br>It was good.<br><br>496<br>00:23:48,860 --> 00:23:51,196<br>They had great care,<br>but you can't afford it now.<br><br>497<br>00:23:51,196 --> 00:23:52,264<br>Where are you going?<br><br>498<br>00:23:52,464 --> 00:23:57,335<br>So what you can do<br>is you can proactively address that<br><br>499<br>00:23:57,602 --> 00:24:01,773<br>and say, when I look at these,<br>you know, X number of facilities,<br><br>500<br>00:24:02,240 --> 00:24:06,144<br>I suspect that I may outlive my assets.<br><br>501<br>00:24:06,545 --> 00:24:09,381<br>You look for a facility that is Medicaid<br><br>502<br>00:24:09,381 --> 00:24:14,686<br>certified, and then when you move in<br>and you spend your money down,<br><br>503<br>00:24:14,920 --> 00:24:18,256<br>then they will convert<br>to billing Medicaid.<br><br>504<br>00:24:18,423 --> 00:24:21,226<br>Once you hit that point<br>and they will not kick you out.<br><br>505<br>00:24:21,893 --> 00:24:23,695<br>So long to recap that.<br><br>506<br>00:24:23,695 --> 00:24:29,000<br>So you move into a facility that's a nice<br>facility kind of upgrade, nice place.<br><br>507<br>00:24:29,267 --> 00:24:30,202<br>Take good care of you.<br><br>508<br>00:24:30,202 --> 00:24:33,438<br>Food quality, good cleaning is good staff.<br><br>509<br>00:24:33,438 --> 00:24:34,606<br>The whole deal.<br><br>510<br>00:24:34,606 --> 00:24:37,909<br>They're saying, look, we'll take you,<br>you've got enough for five years<br><br>511<br>00:24:37,909 --> 00:24:39,644<br>or seven years, whatever it may be.<br><br>512<br>00:24:39,644 --> 00:24:43,281<br>And when you run out of money, we'll let<br>you stay here and your care won't decline.<br><br>513<br>00:24:43,281 --> 00:24:45,450<br>And we'll. Build Medicaid.<br>And we'll build Medicaid. Yeah.<br><br>514<br>00:24:45,917 --> 00:24:47,652<br>So now see,<br>that's something I didn't know.<br><br>515<br>00:24:47,652 --> 00:24:48,520<br>And that's remarkable<br><br>516<br>00:24:48,520 --> 00:24:50,856<br>because so<br>but you got to know how to find it<br><br>517<br>00:24:50,856 --> 00:24:52,591<br>and you got to know how<br>to qualify exactly.<br><br>518<br>00:24:52,591 --> 00:24:55,160<br>In a lot of these places<br>that are Medicaid certified.<br><br>519<br>00:24:56,094 --> 00:24:59,998<br>It looks good on paper, but they<br>they don't put this on the website.<br><br>520<br>00:25:00,165 --> 00:25:01,266<br>You have to be able to pay<br><br>521<br>00:25:01,266 --> 00:25:05,070<br>private pay for at least two years<br>or three years or 12 months or five years.<br><br>522<br>00:25:05,270 --> 00:25:09,040<br>And then they'll work with Medicaid<br>because typically they're losing money<br><br>523<br>00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,076<br>when they're reimbursed by Medicaid.<br>Of course they are.<br><br>524<br>00:25:11,810 --> 00:25:13,745<br>The hospitals lose money on Medicaid.<br><br>525<br>00:25:13,745 --> 00:25:15,247<br>That's one of the problems with Medicaid.<br><br>526<br>00:25:15,247 --> 00:25:19,184<br>Yeah, the pay structure for medical care<br>in this country is Medicaid,<br><br>527<br>00:25:19,417 --> 00:25:22,821<br>Medicare, break even, and then private<br>health insurance, which carries<br><br>528<br>00:25:22,821 --> 00:25:26,324<br>the other two essentially is the reason<br>why the hospitals can stay in business.<br><br>529<br>00:25:26,324 --> 00:25:28,627<br>The doctors continue to do what they do.<br><br>530<br>00:25:29,194 --> 00:25:30,829<br>Well, that's a different job, right?<br><br>531<br>00:25:30,829 --> 00:25:32,197<br>Just saying it's the same.<br><br>532<br>00:25:32,197 --> 00:25:34,699<br>You're talking the same thing here. Yeah,<br>it is the same thing.<br><br>533<br>00:25:34,900 --> 00:25:36,501<br>So here's the giant catch.<br><br>534<br>00:25:36,501 --> 00:25:41,139<br>There are two giant catches,<br>not all facilities are Medicaid certified.<br><br>535<br>00:25:41,439 --> 00:25:42,541<br>What does that mean?<br><br>536<br>00:25:42,541 --> 00:25:44,509<br>They're private pay only.<br><br>537<br>00:25:44,509 --> 00:25:48,980<br>Okay, So a lot of people make the mistake<br>of they're moving in and they assume,<br><br>538<br>00:25:49,180 --> 00:25:51,383<br>you know what? Assume does. Yeah,<br>I sure do.<br><br>539<br>00:25:51,917 --> 00:25:54,319<br>So they assume. Oh, well, well, whatever.<br><br>540<br>00:25:54,319 --> 00:25:56,588<br>I don't know what it means.<br>It means make an answer to you.<br><br>541<br>00:25:56,588 --> 00:25:58,890<br>And I just want to make sure you do this.<br>Okay? You.<br><br>542<br>00:25:59,224 --> 00:26:00,191<br>No, go ahead.<br><br>543<br>00:26:00,392 --> 00:26:02,894<br>But. So. So. So they assume that.<br><br>544<br>00:26:02,961 --> 00:26:06,565<br>And trust me, I get the calls from from<br>people and I have to fix it for them.<br><br>545<br>00:26:06,831 --> 00:26:09,134<br>But they assume that, oh, well,<br>whenever I'm out of money,<br><br>546<br>00:26:09,134 --> 00:26:12,170<br>they'll bill that Medicare,<br>that Medicaid thing and I'm fine.<br><br>547<br>00:26:12,270 --> 00:26:16,107<br>Well, and then they get down to $2,000<br>and they get the discharge letter saying<br><br>548<br>00:26:16,107 --> 00:26:18,109<br>you have to move out and you're like,<br>what happened?<br><br>549<br>00:26:18,109 --> 00:26:19,010<br>Did I do something wrong?<br><br>550<br>00:26:19,010 --> 00:26:21,279<br>No, you didn't do anything wrong,<br>but you're out of money.<br><br>551<br>00:26:21,279 --> 00:26:22,414<br>And now they're panicked.<br><br>552<br>00:26:22,414 --> 00:26:24,883<br>And now you have to move. You're<br>so you have no money.<br><br>553<br>00:26:25,150 --> 00:26:28,687<br>You have to leave your home<br>and you have to now look for a medicaid<br><br>554<br>00:26:28,887 --> 00:26:31,656<br>certified facility.<br>So that's the one giant catch.<br><br>555<br>00:26:31,656 --> 00:26:35,293<br>The other giant catch is now,<br>there are always exceptions,<br><br>556<br>00:26:35,460 --> 00:26:39,831<br>but Medicaid will pay all day, every day<br>for a nursing home<br><br>557<br>00:26:39,831 --> 00:26:42,934<br>that long term care level<br>because it's a medical model.<br><br>558<br>00:26:42,934 --> 00:26:44,669<br>They'll pay all day, every day.<br><br>559<br>00:26:44,669 --> 00:26:48,840<br>And and so but not all nursing<br>homes are Medicaid certified, by the way.<br><br>560<br>00:26:48,873 --> 00:26:50,275<br>Some of them are private pay only.<br><br>561<br>00:26:50,275 --> 00:26:51,876<br>So you got to be really careful.<br><br>562<br>00:26:51,876 --> 00:26:57,949<br>But I would say most of them are<br>in Medicaid for all intents and purposes.<br><br>563<br>00:26:58,216 --> 00:27:01,386<br>It does not pay for the assisted<br>living level of care.<br><br>564<br>00:27:01,419 --> 00:27:04,022<br>Okay. That's why I was going to ask.<br>That's a huge catch.<br><br>565<br>00:27:04,022 --> 00:27:07,158<br>So like my mother was in an assisted<br><br>566<br>00:27:07,158 --> 00:27:10,161<br>living facility slash nursing home here.<br><br>567<br>00:27:10,161 --> 00:27:15,133<br>It was called St Mary's, I believe, if I<br>remember correctly, Catholic was well-run.<br><br>568<br>00:27:15,166 --> 00:27:19,070<br>Yep, But she had met it<br>and she spent down,<br><br>569<br>00:27:19,070 --> 00:27:24,042<br>she had Medicaid and we paid extra<br>to make sure she could stay there.<br><br>570<br>00:27:24,209 --> 00:27:26,544<br>She did okay<br>until she got sick and passed.<br><br>571<br>00:27:26,811 --> 00:27:31,716<br>But having said that,<br>that was a quality facility.<br><br>572<br>00:27:32,417 --> 00:27:36,554<br>If you don't if you if you<br>get into a place like he's talked about<br><br>573<br>00:27:36,554 --> 00:27:40,191<br>and then you run out of money<br>and that's traumatic as hell.<br><br>574<br>00:27:40,191 --> 00:27:41,826<br>Oh, those people. Yeah.<br><br>575<br>00:27:41,826 --> 00:27:43,828<br>First of all, people<br>don't like going in the first place.<br><br>576<br>00:27:43,828 --> 00:27:45,964<br>Then they get used to it.<br>They create a circle of friends.<br><br>577<br>00:27:46,464 --> 00:27:47,866<br>They like where they are.<br><br>578<br>00:27:47,866 --> 00:27:49,401<br>And now you're going to uproot everything.<br><br>579<br>00:27:49,401 --> 00:27:52,103<br>And I mean, that's obviously<br>got to have a tremendous impact.<br><br>580<br>00:27:52,103 --> 00:27:53,071<br>On it is.<br><br>581<br>00:27:53,071 --> 00:27:55,874<br>And one of the stories<br>that will stick with me forever,<br><br>582<br>00:27:55,874 --> 00:27:59,878<br>it was early in in with senior Care<br>Consulting.<br><br>583<br>00:27:59,878 --> 00:28:02,981<br>I received a call from like a 30 year old<br><br>584<br>00:28:02,981 --> 00:28:06,618<br>granddaughter caring for her grandmother,<br>and she was crying on the phone.<br><br>585<br>00:28:06,618 --> 00:28:09,554<br>And long story short,<br>she found a great place for her.<br><br>586<br>00:28:09,554 --> 00:28:11,056<br>She called her gram's.<br><br>587<br>00:28:11,056 --> 00:28:11,723<br>She lived there.<br><br>588<br>00:28:11,723 --> 00:28:14,092<br>It was assisted living memory care<br>they provided.<br><br>589<br>00:28:14,092 --> 00:28:15,360<br>They did a great job.<br><br>590<br>00:28:15,360 --> 00:28:17,328<br>Everyone loved her. She loved them.<br><br>591<br>00:28:17,328 --> 00:28:22,500<br>And in seven years into this,<br>she gets a discharge letter.<br><br>592<br>00:28:22,500 --> 00:28:24,536<br>She's like, Well,<br>what happened? Well, nothing.<br><br>593<br>00:28:24,536 --> 00:28:25,904<br>But your grandma is out of money<br><br>594<br>00:28:25,904 --> 00:28:28,239<br>and we don't take Medicaid,<br>so you're going to have to move.<br><br>595<br>00:28:28,606 --> 00:28:30,942<br>And so she was devastated.<br><br>596<br>00:28:31,042 --> 00:28:35,280<br>Her mother,<br>her grandmother, spent $350,000. My.<br><br>597<br>00:28:35,280 --> 00:28:36,881<br>God, at this place.<br><br>598<br>00:28:36,881 --> 00:28:41,753<br>And she assumed that, oh, you just bill<br>that Medicare Medicaid thing.<br><br>599<br>00:28:42,320 --> 00:28:43,521<br>She's she did that.<br><br>600<br>00:28:43,521 --> 00:28:46,291<br>And so I had to then turn around<br><br>601<br>00:28:46,491 --> 00:28:50,061<br>and find a medicaid<br>certified long term care community.<br><br>602<br>00:28:50,195 --> 00:28:52,630<br>And she had to move her grandmother<br>one more time.<br><br>603<br>00:28:52,697 --> 00:28:55,834<br>She did not want to do that,<br>and she wouldn't have chosen that place<br><br>604<br>00:28:55,967 --> 00:28:58,770<br>had she known about that<br>on the front end of this.<br><br>605<br>00:28:58,770 --> 00:28:59,838<br>And that's the difference.<br><br>606<br>00:28:59,838 --> 00:29:02,841<br>That that's that's why that's<br>why we're doing this show today, is<br><br>607<br>00:29:03,041 --> 00:29:06,277<br>you need to be informed as we do<br>a lot of shows like this.<br><br>608<br>00:29:06,277 --> 00:29:09,080<br>This is one of the reasons why we do them<br>so people don't go out there<br><br>609<br>00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:13,551<br>and make mistakes and do things<br>that are going to have $350,000.<br><br>610<br>00:29:13,718 --> 00:29:16,521<br>She could have easily gotten<br>into a good facility<br><br>611<br>00:29:16,755 --> 00:29:18,389<br>that then would reverted to Medicaid.<br><br>612<br>00:29:18,389 --> 00:29:19,491<br>She never would have had to move<br><br>613<br>00:29:19,491 --> 00:29:22,460<br>because they would have been happy<br>to get that $350,000,<br><br>614<br>00:29:22,660 --> 00:29:25,697<br>which would have offset the remaining<br>years of her life on Medicaid.<br><br>615<br>00:29:25,697 --> 00:29:26,564<br>Right. Right.<br><br>616<br>00:29:26,564 --> 00:29:30,034<br>And what I would have done with her<br>had I worked with her initially is<br><br>617<br>00:29:30,034 --> 00:29:34,239<br>I would have looked at an assisted<br>living community with memory care<br><br>618<br>00:29:34,773 --> 00:29:37,675<br>because she needed that attached<br>to a long term<br><br>619<br>00:29:37,675 --> 00:29:41,412<br>care community that was Medicaid<br>certified, that had memory care.<br><br>620<br>00:29:41,412 --> 00:29:44,816<br>And all of a sudden when she spends down,<br>she easily transitions<br><br>621<br>00:29:44,816 --> 00:29:48,052<br>to the long term care<br>part of that community that offers both.<br><br>622<br>00:29:48,052 --> 00:29:50,221<br>And she didn't change her address.<br><br>623<br>00:29:50,221 --> 00:29:53,057<br>She's with the same organization<br>and it was smooth as silk.<br><br>624<br>00:29:53,057 --> 00:29:56,728<br>And that's what I would have done<br>had I worked with her on day one.<br><br>625<br>00:29:56,728 --> 00:29:58,463<br>You know what they say<br>an ounce of prevention<br><br>626<br>00:29:58,463 --> 00:29:59,931<br>is worth a pound to cure people.<br><br>627<br>00:29:59,931 --> 00:30:03,067<br>And this this is you know,<br>this is preventing something<br><br>628<br>00:30:03,067 --> 00:30:06,738<br>from becoming a disaster that impacts<br>you and impacts that loved one.<br><br>629<br>00:30:06,738 --> 00:30:08,606<br>If you want help, the man can help you.<br><br>630<br>00:30:08,606 --> 00:30:14,379<br>He is Steve Kuker<br>is website is seniorcareconsulting.com<br><br>631<br>00:30:14,379 --> 00:30:21,853<br>he can help you anywhere in the country<br>913-945-2800.<br><br>632<br>00:30:21,953 --> 00:30:23,021<br>We come back to break.<br><br>633<br>00:30:23,021 --> 00:30:24,989<br>We're going to talk about<br>memory care facilities<br><br>634<br>00:30:24,989 --> 00:30:28,827<br>and something Steve is doing coast<br>to coast that you might find interesting.<br><br>635<br>00:30:28,860 --> 00:30:29,460<br>Stay tuned.<br><br>636<br>00:30:29,460 --> 00:30:30,862<br>We'll be right back after the break.<br><br>637<br>00:30:30,862 --> 00:30:34,666<br>You're listening to America's Healthcare<br>Advocate broadcast live on the HIA<br><br>638<br>00:30:34,699 --> 00:30:46,010<br>radio network Coast to coast across USA.<br><br>639<br>00:30:49,013 --> 00:30:49,781<br>Welcome back.<br><br>640<br>00:30:49,781 --> 00:30:53,418<br>You're listening to America's Healthcare<br>Advocate broadcasting coast to coast.<br><br>641<br>00:30:53,718 --> 00:30:55,220<br>My producer, Mr. Darren Wilhite.<br><br>642<br>00:30:55,220 --> 00:30:57,322<br>I'm your host, Cary Hall, in studio<br>with me is Steve Kuker.<br><br>643<br>00:30:57,922 --> 00:31:00,325<br>You want to reach out to this man<br>Senior Care Consulting<br><br>644<br>00:31:00,358 --> 00:31:03,862<br>dit com, 913-945-2800.<br><br>645<br>00:31:03,862 --> 00:31:05,930<br>He has a wealth of information.<br><br>646<br>00:31:06,431 --> 00:31:09,968<br>Once again, this show 12 podcast platforms<br>and YouTube.<br><br>647<br>00:31:10,001 --> 00:31:13,271<br>It's up there under Senior Care<br>Consulting Steve Kuker.<br><br>648<br>00:31:13,438 --> 00:31:15,740<br>So you want to tell somebody<br>in your family about this<br><br>649<br>00:31:15,740 --> 00:31:16,841<br>or maybe that guy said<br><br>650<br>00:31:16,841 --> 00:31:20,778<br>there's an entire family discussion about<br>how do we deal with mom or grandma?<br><br>651<br>00:31:20,979 --> 00:31:22,313<br>Go listen to the podcast.<br><br>652<br>00:31:22,313 --> 00:31:23,248<br>You'll learn a lot.<br><br>653<br>00:31:23,248 --> 00:31:25,617<br>Okay, So let's switch gears here.<br><br>654<br>00:31:26,751 --> 00:31:28,887<br>Let's memory facilities a big deal.<br><br>655<br>00:31:28,887 --> 00:31:31,389<br>Okay. You know, Alzheimer's, dementia.<br><br>656<br>00:31:31,389 --> 00:31:32,957<br>My mother had it. It was hell.<br><br>657<br>00:31:33,892 --> 00:31:36,828<br>And let's, you know, let's talk about how<br><br>658<br>00:31:37,395 --> 00:31:40,832<br>how do you find the proper facility now?<br><br>659<br>00:31:40,899 --> 00:31:43,034<br>You got to meet some. Let's say it's just.<br><br>660<br>00:31:43,067 --> 00:31:44,402<br>It's just starting.<br><br>661<br>00:31:44,402 --> 00:31:45,103<br>Okay.<br><br>662<br>00:31:45,103 --> 00:31:47,405<br>It's not the point yet<br>where they can't function, but they're.<br><br>663<br>00:31:47,672 --> 00:31:49,307<br>They're having problems, right?<br><br>664<br>00:31:49,307 --> 00:31:50,675<br>Well, maybe they go into an assisted<br><br>665<br>00:31:50,675 --> 00:31:53,845<br>living facility to start with,<br>and then as it progresses<br><br>666<br>00:31:53,845 --> 00:31:57,582<br>and it gets worse,<br>they go into a more intensive program.<br><br>667<br>00:31:57,782 --> 00:31:59,684<br>How do you put all that together?<br><br>668<br>00:31:59,684 --> 00:32:00,818<br>Oh, and by the way,<br><br>669<br>00:32:00,818 --> 00:32:04,022<br>I want to make sure she's got some money,<br>but I want to make sure that after<br><br>670<br>00:32:04,022 --> 00:32:07,158<br>we sell the house and liquidate assets<br>so we can pay for all this,<br><br>671<br>00:32:07,392 --> 00:32:08,760<br>that she doesn't get kicked out.<br><br>672<br>00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:10,295<br>How do you pull all of that together?<br><br>673<br>00:32:10,295 --> 00:32:12,330<br>Well, so you have lots of moving parts.<br><br>674<br>00:32:12,330 --> 00:32:13,364<br>Too many.<br><br>675<br>00:32:13,564 --> 00:32:13,798<br>Yeah.<br><br>676<br>00:32:13,798 --> 00:32:14,399<br>And that's.<br><br>677<br>00:32:14,399 --> 00:32:16,801<br>That's what I get paid to help people.<br><br>678<br>00:32:16,868 --> 00:32:19,604<br>I help people to not make a mistake.<br><br>679<br>00:32:20,305 --> 00:32:21,673<br>And I hope people live well.<br><br>680<br>00:32:21,673 --> 00:32:23,975<br>I have some great. Way to put. That.<br>I help them get it right.<br><br>681<br>00:32:24,309 --> 00:32:25,076<br>So? So.<br><br>682<br>00:32:25,076 --> 00:32:28,212<br>So the first question is you have to<br>figure out what level of care you need.<br><br>683<br>00:32:28,513 --> 00:32:31,282<br>Do you need assisted living<br>or do you need long term care?<br><br>684<br>00:32:31,416 --> 00:32:32,750<br>Or maybe you need both.<br><br>685<br>00:32:32,750 --> 00:32:34,452<br>You could start. With assisted living.<br><br>686<br>00:32:34,452 --> 00:32:36,688<br>It's,<br>you know, it's going to devolve. Yeah.<br><br>687<br>00:32:36,888 --> 00:32:40,558<br>And you may want them connected to where<br>you can transition to long term care,<br><br>688<br>00:32:40,758 --> 00:32:44,462<br>which is more like heavier<br>medical needs versus assisted living<br><br>689<br>00:32:44,462 --> 00:32:48,533<br>to help you with your daily activities<br>bathing, dressing, grooming, meal time,<br><br>690<br>00:32:48,533 --> 00:32:49,467<br>you know, all of those.<br><br>691<br>00:32:49,467 --> 00:32:51,569<br>Medication management, etc..<br><br>692<br>00:32:51,569 --> 00:32:53,805<br>So so once you determine<br>your level of care,<br><br>693<br>00:32:54,005 --> 00:32:56,841<br>then we know we have a memory<br>related issue.<br><br>694<br>00:32:56,841 --> 00:33:00,144<br>We have some cognitive impairment,<br>early dementia, early Alzheimer's,<br><br>695<br>00:33:00,411 --> 00:33:03,147<br>but you don't need a memory care<br><br>696<br>00:33:03,147 --> 00:33:06,751<br>part of the building and memory care<br>what they refer to as a neighborhood Okay.<br><br>697<br>00:33:07,185 --> 00:33:10,722<br>So so you just<br>you're okay with general care.<br><br>698<br>00:33:10,722 --> 00:33:13,658<br>So when you talk to these places,<br>every single place will say,<br><br>699<br>00:33:13,825 --> 00:33:17,795<br>Oh yeah, we do memory care<br>and they're there right to a point.<br><br>700<br>00:33:18,262 --> 00:33:20,631<br>So every provider<br><br>701<br>00:33:21,032 --> 00:33:23,768<br>provides<br>care for someone with cognitive issues.<br><br>702<br>00:33:24,469 --> 00:33:25,903<br>Here is the rub.<br><br>703<br>00:33:25,903 --> 00:33:27,739<br>Here is that breaking point.<br><br>704<br>00:33:27,739 --> 00:33:31,542<br>When those cognitive issues<br>get to a certain point<br><br>705<br>00:33:31,542 --> 00:33:32,810<br>and you become an elopement<br><br>706<br>00:33:32,810 --> 00:33:35,847<br>risk or a flight risk,<br>meaning you were wanting to leap.<br><br>707<br>00:33:35,847 --> 00:33:36,981<br>Down the. Freeway. Yeah.<br><br>708<br>00:33:36,981 --> 00:33:37,181<br>Yeah.<br><br>709<br>00:33:37,181 --> 00:33:38,449<br>You're going to walk out of the building<br><br>710<br>00:33:38,449 --> 00:33:40,551<br>and unintentionally<br>put yourself in harm's way.<br><br>711<br>00:33:40,752 --> 00:33:44,389<br>That's when you have to have that memory<br>care neighborhood<br><br>712<br>00:33:44,389 --> 00:33:48,292<br>or part of the building<br>that is a secured area of the building.<br><br>713<br>00:33:48,292 --> 00:33:50,928<br>So they have codes on the doors, right?<br><br>714<br>00:33:50,928 --> 00:33:53,464<br>So you you can't get out<br>unless you're a company<br><br>715<br>00:33:53,464 --> 00:33:55,299<br>for your own safety and security.<br><br>716<br>00:33:55,299 --> 00:33:56,467<br>So that's number one.<br><br>717<br>00:33:56,467 --> 00:33:58,369<br>The second thing that will get you in<br><br>718<br>00:33:58,369 --> 00:34:02,607<br>a memory care neighborhood in a minute<br>is becoming overstimulated.<br><br>719<br>00:34:02,607 --> 00:34:04,642<br>So you're out in the part of the building.<br><br>720<br>00:34:04,876 --> 00:34:07,412<br>There are a hundred people. It's noisy.<br><br>721<br>00:34:08,012 --> 00:34:09,380<br>There's just too much going on.<br><br>722<br>00:34:09,380 --> 00:34:13,451<br>And if you have dementia, at some point,<br>you can easily become overstimulated.<br><br>723<br>00:34:13,651 --> 00:34:14,652<br>And then what happens?<br><br>724<br>00:34:14,652 --> 00:34:17,422<br>You become angry, agitated, aggressive.<br><br>725<br>00:34:17,422 --> 00:34:20,625<br>You could become combative<br>because you just can't handle it all.<br><br>726<br>00:34:20,825 --> 00:34:26,998<br>So the memory care neighborhood<br>has a much a much lower census.<br><br>727<br>00:34:26,998 --> 00:34:31,669<br>So they may have 20 people<br>instead of 120 people in this small area.<br><br>728<br>00:34:31,803 --> 00:34:35,540<br>You can handle a 30 foot hall better than<br>you can handle a 100 foot long hallway.<br><br>729<br>00:34:36,007 --> 00:34:39,243<br>The activities are 20 minute increments<br>rather than 60 minute.<br><br>730<br>00:34:39,243 --> 00:34:41,446<br>And the things you would never,<br>never would.<br><br>731<br>00:34:41,813 --> 00:34:43,815<br>We've done these shows for<br>I don't know how long.<br><br>732<br>00:34:43,815 --> 00:34:45,383<br>I would have never thought of that.<br><br>733<br>00:34:45,383 --> 00:34:49,320<br>Yeah, it's a special kind of care<br>for a cognitively impaired<br><br>734<br>00:34:49,320 --> 00:34:52,190<br>resident, and it's very specialized.<br><br>735<br>00:34:53,057 --> 00:34:54,225<br>A friend of mine.<br><br>736<br>00:34:54,225 --> 00:34:57,295<br>Another friend of mine,<br>mother put her in a facility.<br><br>737<br>00:34:57,328 --> 00:34:59,530<br>It was a assisted living facility.<br><br>738<br>00:34:59,530 --> 00:35:00,898<br>She had cognitive, though.<br><br>739<br>00:35:00,898 --> 00:35:02,233<br>No problems at all.<br><br>740<br>00:35:02,233 --> 00:35:04,235<br>He gets called one day.<br>She's gone. We can't find her.<br><br>741<br>00:35:05,269 --> 00:35:07,071<br>She got in her car and she.<br><br>742<br>00:35:07,071 --> 00:35:10,741<br>She was going to go to the grocery store<br>all by state trooper got her in Nebraska.<br><br>743<br>00:35:11,342 --> 00:35:12,310<br>Nebraska.<br><br>744<br>00:35:12,310 --> 00:35:14,045<br>She made it all the way to Nebraska.<br><br>745<br>00:35:14,045 --> 00:35:16,547<br>Silver lining,<br>and the trooper pulled her over.<br><br>746<br>00:35:16,781 --> 00:35:19,250<br>I can't hear why.<br>What made him think to pull her over?<br><br>747<br>00:35:19,250 --> 00:35:20,418<br>He pulled her over.<br><br>748<br>00:35:20,418 --> 00:35:22,420<br>She said, why are you pull me over?<br><br>749<br>00:35:22,420 --> 00:35:24,522<br>I'm just I'm just a few blocks from home.<br><br>750<br>00:35:24,522 --> 00:35:25,223<br>Just going to the. Store.<br><br>751<br>00:35:25,223 --> 00:35:27,625<br>And he said, Ma'am, where do you live?<br><br>752<br>00:35:27,825 --> 00:35:29,026<br>And she knew where she lived.<br><br>753<br>00:35:29,026 --> 00:35:34,699<br>And he said, You're so so this this friend<br>of mine, Dave, had to get in his truck<br><br>754<br>00:35:35,066 --> 00:35:39,637<br>and go get her and then have her car<br>towed back to Kansas City, Missouri,<br><br>755<br>00:35:39,637 --> 00:35:43,708<br>because she had just<br>and this facility was like, But why?<br><br>756<br>00:35:43,708 --> 00:35:44,542<br>Why did you know?<br><br>757<br>00:35:44,542 --> 00:35:46,644<br>How did she get out of here?<br>And you not know this?<br><br>758<br>00:35:46,811 --> 00:35:49,747<br>Well, because they weren't ready<br>and they weren't monitoring her.<br><br>759<br>00:35:49,747 --> 00:35:52,383<br>They're not prepared to manage memory<br>related issues.<br><br>760<br>00:35:52,383 --> 00:35:52,884<br>No, they weren't.<br><br>761<br>00:35:52,884 --> 00:35:55,686<br>That's another assume. Okay.<br><br>762<br>00:35:55,920 --> 00:35:58,823<br>Oh, they say they do memory care<br>and you move in there.<br><br>763<br>00:35:58,823 --> 00:36:03,261<br>Well, once you move into any community<br>assisted living, a long term care<br><br>764<br>00:36:03,494 --> 00:36:07,365<br>that cannot manage those risks,<br>and if they don't have<br><br>765<br>00:36:07,365 --> 00:36:11,202<br>that memory care part of the building<br>and many of them do not, then guess what?<br><br>766<br>00:36:11,235 --> 00:36:13,371<br>You're moving, you have to move again.<br><br>767<br>00:36:13,905 --> 00:36:15,306<br>That's we got 2 minutes left.<br><br>768<br>00:36:15,306 --> 00:36:18,109<br>I want you to talk about what you're doing<br>because I think it's pretty exciting<br><br>769<br>00:36:18,109 --> 00:36:19,844<br>and might interest<br>a lot of folks out there.<br><br>770<br>00:36:19,844 --> 00:36:22,413<br>Well, this is the first announcement<br>ever. You're on.<br><br>771<br>00:36:22,413 --> 00:36:25,416<br>My show. Right here on on Cary's show.<br><br>772<br>00:36:25,416 --> 00:36:26,317<br>Thank you.<br><br>773<br>00:36:26,417 --> 00:36:30,454<br>But I have wanted to do this for a very<br>long time with Senior Care Consulting.<br><br>774<br>00:36:30,621 --> 00:36:34,225<br>And what we do is we help families<br>through the search and selection process<br><br>775<br>00:36:34,458 --> 00:36:37,261<br>when needing an assisted<br>living community, long term<br><br>776<br>00:36:37,261 --> 00:36:40,865<br>care, continuing<br>care, community, memory care, etc..<br><br>777<br>00:36:41,065 --> 00:36:44,902<br>So if it involves moving from somewhere<br>to one of these communities,<br><br>778<br>00:36:44,969 --> 00:36:47,405<br>that's the narrow niche that we live in.<br><br>779<br>00:36:47,405 --> 00:36:51,275<br>I am now very excited<br>and proud to announce<br><br>780<br>00:36:51,542 --> 00:36:54,979<br>that I am expanding the business<br>nationwide<br><br>781<br>00:36:55,379 --> 00:37:00,551<br>and offering franchise opportunities<br>and so I am so excited<br><br>782<br>00:37:00,551 --> 00:37:04,522<br>to speak with people who are interested<br>in partnering with me, in operating<br><br>783<br>00:37:04,522 --> 00:37:09,260<br>their own business of senior care,<br>consulting in their local market.<br><br>784<br>00:37:09,260 --> 00:37:12,897<br>I'm so excited<br>and the vision of my company<br><br>785<br>00:37:13,097 --> 00:37:15,866<br>is to become the nation's top alternative<br><br>786<br>00:37:16,133 --> 00:37:20,104<br>to the free referrals services,<br>and it will be from day one.<br><br>787<br>00:37:20,271 --> 00:37:22,607<br>The place for mom services.<br><br>788<br>00:37:22,607 --> 00:37:23,874<br>Okay. Yeah.<br><br>789<br>00:37:23,874 --> 00:37:26,944<br>So, you know,<br>I wanted him to announce that here.<br><br>790<br>00:37:26,944 --> 00:37:28,446<br>I've known this guy for a long time.<br><br>791<br>00:37:28,446 --> 00:37:30,047<br>And I will tell you something.<br><br>792<br>00:37:30,047 --> 00:37:32,183<br>He's a straight<br>shooter. He's an honest guy.<br><br>793<br>00:37:32,183 --> 00:37:36,053<br>And if you're fortunate enough to have him<br>accept you, if you choose to do this,<br><br>794<br>00:37:36,554 --> 00:37:40,224<br>you'll have a real partner, because that<br>that's what Steve's all about.<br><br>795<br>00:37:40,224 --> 00:37:43,828<br>And I would suggest if you want to send<br>him an email, learn more that you do that.<br><br>796<br>00:37:44,061 --> 00:37:47,164<br>It's senior care consulting dot<br>com If you think you might be interested<br><br>797<br>00:37:47,164 --> 00:37:51,135<br>in this baby you maybe you're you know,<br>semi-retired, whatever the case may be.<br><br>798<br>00:37:51,135 --> 00:37:54,171<br>And you want to do something,<br>this might work out really well for you.<br><br>799<br>00:37:54,171 --> 00:37:54,839<br>It just depends.<br><br>800<br>00:37:54,839 --> 00:37:58,042<br>Or maybe one maybe a spouse could do it<br>while the other one's working.<br><br>801<br>00:37:58,042 --> 00:38:00,044<br>I don't know.<br>But you're going to find out.<br><br>802<br>00:38:00,044 --> 00:38:01,245<br>You need to reach out to him.<br><br>803<br>00:38:01,245 --> 00:38:05,383<br>Senior Care Consulting dot<br>com 913-945-2800.<br><br>804<br>00:38:05,416 --> 00:38:08,286<br>That's how you get a hold of him<br>thank you for doing this today.<br><br>805<br>00:38:08,452 --> 00:38:10,421<br>You're welcome.<br>Thank you so much for having me.<br><br>806<br>00:38:10,421 --> 00:38:14,392<br>Well it was great having you in here and<br>as always it is a wealth of information.<br><br>807<br>00:38:14,392 --> 00:38:17,061<br>So again,<br>this shows up on the podcast platform.<br><br>808<br>00:38:17,061 --> 00:38:18,062<br>Go listen to it.<br><br>809<br>00:38:18,062 --> 00:38:20,431<br>And now I'll leave you with this<br>thought from Albert Einstein,<br><br>810<br>00:38:20,464 --> 00:38:23,601<br>the one who follows the crowd will<br>usually get no further than the crowd.<br><br>811<br>00:38:23,868 --> 00:38:28,072<br>The one who walks alone is likely to find<br>himself in places no one has ever been.<br><br>812<br>00:38:28,372 --> 00:38:30,107<br>Remember,<br>friends. It's a funny thing about life.<br><br>813<br>00:38:30,107 --> 00:38:33,477<br>People refuse to accept anything<br>but the very best.<br><br>814<br>00:38:33,644 --> 00:38:35,079<br>You most often get it.<br><br>815<br>00:38:35,079 --> 00:38:37,648<br>Thank you for listening to America's<br>Healthcare Advocate show<br><br>816<br>00:38:37,648 --> 00:38:43,521<br>broadcasting here on the HIA Radio Network<br>Coast to Coast across the USA.<br><br>817<br>00:38:43,521 --> 00:38:45,923<br>Good bye, America.<br>