1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,060 Trash Camp presents that one friend that asked you to help them move. Yeah, Mike 2 00:00:05,060 --> 00:00:09,500 I'm so glad that you're here man. Appreciate you coming out here, bro. We don't have that much to move 3 00:00:09,500 --> 00:00:13,580 I'm so glad that you came out dude. No one else wanted to help me move. So I appreciate you man 4 00:00:13,580 --> 00:00:17,920 Yeah, man, you've been my friend for a long time. It's no problem. I don't mind at all 5 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:22,000 And yeah, you say it's not that much stuff. So I'm not real worried about it 6 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,060 You know what it's not in the morning. We'll be out of here in a few hours, right? 7 00:00:25,060 --> 00:00:31,720 Oh, yeah, for sure for sure. Maybe I saw it about the stairs and everything, but let me just give you a layout man 8 00:00:31,720 --> 00:00:35,820 So we got we got the bed over here. We got the dresser 9 00:00:36,560 --> 00:00:42,200 We got the table. We got the couch. Oh, man. I forgot to tell you bro 10 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:44,400 We got this heavy all-mort thing, dude 11 00:00:44,400 --> 00:00:49,480 Oh, it barely fit in the door when I got in here, bro. It's pretty heavy, but uh, yeah, yeah 12 00:00:49,480 --> 00:00:53,240 Oh, dude, I also forgot we got that love seat, bro 13 00:00:53,240 --> 00:00:57,200 You didn't tell me you lived on the fourth floor and we're still climbing stairs. Yeah, bro 14 00:00:57,560 --> 00:01:03,440 Yeah, I'm sorry dude like yeah, that's a bunch of stairs, but we should be able to knock this out pretty quick 15 00:01:03,440 --> 00:01:08,800 Yeah, yeah for sure for sure. All right, man. So I guess what do you want to start with? 16 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:15,600 And all you know all all of it seems pretty pretty heavy. Yeah, yeah, it's definitely heavy 17 00:01:15,600 --> 00:01:17,280 So I figured since it's all heavy 18 00:01:17,280 --> 00:01:21,280 I think we we can go ahead and start with the packing and everything like that 19 00:01:21,280 --> 00:01:27,300 We can go ahead and just pack everything up because I haven't gotten a chance to pack all the all all my stuff up 20 00:01:27,300 --> 00:01:31,920 So wait wait like nothing's in boxes or nothing. Oh, yeah, bro. I just have a 21 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:36,960 Honest this move just kind of popped up on me. You know what I mean? Oh, yeah, man 22 00:01:36,960 --> 00:01:41,160 But didn't you have to give you a place like a 68 notice you were leaving? Yeah. Yeah, bro 23 00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:47,040 But yeah, I mean it won't take us that long to box everything up man. I mean we could just throw everything in a box 24 00:01:47,040 --> 00:01:50,280 I know I know it looks like a lot, but it's really not what you just go with all 25 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:55,480 Well, and when you got to be out by man like what do we got to have this all done? Oh, yeah 26 00:01:55,480 --> 00:02:01,340 I got to be out by noon, bro. Yeah, we got to be out by bro. It's not in the morning like we got three hours 27 00:02:01,340 --> 00:02:05,400 Yeah, yeah, well, we might as well. We better go ahead and get get packing. I don't have a dolly. Yeah 28 00:02:05,400 --> 00:02:10,760 Yeah, we better get this when it gets started else. They're gonna have the security guard. Yeah, I don't have a dolly either 29 00:02:10,760 --> 00:02:13,040 So, uh, yeah, we better get we better get started 30 00:02:13,040 --> 00:02:20,600 Hi, I'm Michael and I'm for this is the donut box podcast 31 00:02:32,720 --> 00:02:37,840 Podcast man, it's gonna be a great episode. I'm excited man. How are you doing this week? 32 00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:43,280 Doing good man. We're back to our normal format. We had a fun last week where we 33 00:02:44,480 --> 00:02:51,160 Remastered the first episode which was always great because we got to listen to it and go back to way back in the beginning and 34 00:02:51,760 --> 00:02:57,080 Do it the way we want to do it. So if you haven't heard that yet go back and check out our last episode as well 35 00:02:58,080 --> 00:03:02,920 Really appreciate that. But yeah, we appreciate all of our fans all across the globe 36 00:03:02,920 --> 00:03:10,440 Man, where are some of the places internationally we got? Oh, of course in Australia down in Africa in the Middle East 37 00:03:11,640 --> 00:03:16,720 Canada for sure also a lot in the UK in London 38 00:03:16,960 --> 00:03:24,600 Of course in Ireland over in Spain France in the Russia area. So yeah, we got a lot of national international listeners 39 00:03:24,600 --> 00:03:29,520 Man us wise, you know, don't don't make me start singing patriotic songs 40 00:03:29,520 --> 00:03:37,320 But East Coast West Coast North South all over the place our friends up in Canada as well our neighbors to the north 41 00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:40,400 We really appreciate you guys. So yeah, man, let's get started 42 00:03:41,280 --> 00:03:47,760 With our first segment which is our old-fashioned donut, which is a story or in this case 43 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:54,000 It's gonna be a character from our past. So Chris this person we've kind of talked about him before yes 44 00:03:54,520 --> 00:03:58,840 You know, we really haven't expanded upon this character. I don't know man 45 00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:04,960 You know, I was thinking about this before the podcast and I was thinking about you know 46 00:04:05,680 --> 00:04:11,120 Because there's a lot with this person, right? Like there's a lot like we're probably gonna have a few other things 47 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:13,440 Just on this person like old-fashioned wise 48 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:22,080 He's got to be one of the deepest characters that we have wouldn't you say or at least like I don't know for me 49 00:04:22,080 --> 00:04:25,600 There's a lot there. Yeah, I could I could talk a lot about this guy 50 00:04:26,000 --> 00:04:26,960 I 51 00:04:26,960 --> 00:04:34,600 Will try to do my very best. I will I promise I will try my best to talk about him in a positive light 52 00:04:34,880 --> 00:04:42,700 I don't know. He again. He was our our youth pastor. I think we called him pastor Tim in a previous episode 53 00:04:43,560 --> 00:04:47,860 Well, I mean he was our youth pastor. So think about it from sixth grade to 54 00:04:48,680 --> 00:04:54,600 12th grade so about seven years. We knew this guy and of course as you've been listening 55 00:04:54,600 --> 00:05:00,160 We were at the church almost every every week and multiple times during the week. So we saw a lot of this 56 00:05:00,160 --> 00:05:04,280 I'm gonna pause you just right quick. I don't know or go ahead and finish your point 57 00:05:04,280 --> 00:05:08,440 But I got something I got to ask you before I was just gonna say this guy is just a different 58 00:05:08,920 --> 00:05:14,480 Different cat man like again if you grew up in church, you always have that crazy youth pastor, but this guy 59 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:20,680 Was on a different level man just on a different level. Do you do you remember the first interaction? 60 00:05:20,680 --> 00:05:23,480 because we knew of him right because I 61 00:05:23,480 --> 00:05:29,640 Don't know we were in children's church beforehand, right? So naturally youth is the next step up 62 00:05:29,640 --> 00:05:34,280 But you know and kind of didn't associate why would the youth pastor associate with some kids, right? 63 00:05:34,280 --> 00:05:39,400 So didn't really know each other but once we moved over. What was your first experience with? 64 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:44,560 Do you remember your first experience with him like the first time you ever talked to him or had something happen? 65 00:05:45,040 --> 00:05:51,920 Good, I remembered mine for some reason to be honest not really. I don't really remember my first ever interaction with him 66 00:05:51,920 --> 00:05:53,920 I remember sitting in on his services 67 00:05:54,480 --> 00:06:00,640 To be honest with you man like in those seven years. I can maybe tell you 68 00:06:01,560 --> 00:06:08,720 One or two things I ever really remember him preaching on just because he didn't really preach he more went on 69 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:16,480 Personal tirades or personal rants and then just picked out a scripture and then just decided to rant about think about 70 00:06:16,480 --> 00:06:21,760 So, you know, we have what fries our donuts, right? Think about what fries our donuts 71 00:06:21,960 --> 00:06:25,760 You know not really in our style be it his but what fries your donuts? 72 00:06:26,080 --> 00:06:32,120 Except you put a scripture in front of it and then you talk about what fries your donuts after that that was essentially what it was 73 00:06:32,120 --> 00:06:37,620 Would is that an accurate statement? Yes, it's basically a this is what fries my donuts 74 00:06:37,620 --> 00:06:43,040 This is what you're doing wrong and most of the time it whatever fried his donuts 75 00:06:43,040 --> 00:06:50,680 It was usually something that had happened to him maybe an encounter that he had had with a youth kid or maybe it was a 76 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:53,680 Like a personal topic that just really made him mad 77 00:06:53,720 --> 00:06:59,680 Somebody had done something to just make him upset or make him bad and that's usually what his tirades were about 78 00:06:59,680 --> 00:07:05,240 Well, Chris, let's talk about it because in season three we're going no holds bar. So the first thing 79 00:07:06,200 --> 00:07:10,240 Let's see if you remember this the first thing I remember was 80 00:07:10,240 --> 00:07:18,400 There was a lot against brands, right? Like I remember some of the tirades were about 81 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:20,880 Brands and how they're not 82 00:07:21,600 --> 00:07:25,560 Okay, so let me give you a prime example. So this was around 2010 83 00:07:26,640 --> 00:07:31,440 And I remember axe body spray was a big thing or axe period, right? 84 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:34,200 I think they just come out with the body wash or something like that 85 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:38,720 and of course if you've ever seen an axe body spray or 86 00:07:38,720 --> 00:07:40,280 or 87 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:42,280 axe commercial on TV 88 00:07:42,480 --> 00:07:49,760 It's very it's kind of edgy, right? I mean, it's very PG-13. I would say it's very it's a lot of time 89 00:07:49,760 --> 00:07:52,840 It's a guy with girl up on you know, it's good marketing 90 00:07:52,840 --> 00:07:59,800 I remember he would show us like a commercial an axe commercial like there's that and it's like but this same company also 91 00:08:00,040 --> 00:08:05,520 Has dove like though the ladies, you know soap and it's like, you know 92 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:11,960 Show that commercial and it's like women are beautiful and you know this so you know how dove is right where it's like very 93 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,560 Gentle and you know, I don't know that different marketing tone 94 00:08:16,560 --> 00:08:20,040 He's like just the same company and it's like so we should outlaw 95 00:08:20,040 --> 00:08:24,840 We should outlaw the parent company and everything like that. Do you remember stuff like that? Oh, yeah 96 00:08:24,840 --> 00:08:27,320 I mean, there's plenty of people that are like, oh, yeah 97 00:08:27,320 --> 00:08:34,720 Don't don't get apple because the bite taken out of the apple is a code for the sin that Adam and Eve did and I'm just like 98 00:08:34,720 --> 00:08:41,520 Okay, whatever bro. I also remember. Okay, so we're kind of like tying this in but like so 99 00:08:42,040 --> 00:08:45,040 Whenever we were about to go like on these quote-unquote 100 00:08:45,560 --> 00:08:50,240 Spiritual weekends where it was like all weekend long like you it was basically like a lock-in 101 00:08:50,240 --> 00:08:52,240 But like you were do like go into like 102 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:57,480 Worship sessions and all this stuff well before you had to like fill out this paper and 103 00:08:58,000 --> 00:09:02,280 Basically, it was like almost like a professional of all the sins that you've ever done 104 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:05,200 And it was like and they have these boxes that you can check 105 00:09:05,200 --> 00:09:10,080 It's like I've had impure thoughts or I've thought about a woman this way 106 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:13,320 No, no, no, no, no, okay check and then it's like, oh, yeah 107 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:20,840 I I played Dungeons and Dragons you can check that box. It's like, oh, yeah, I've had Pokemon cards 108 00:09:20,840 --> 00:09:26,360 I can check this box and so I was like, okay. I don't know why Dungeons and Dragons is a sin 109 00:09:26,360 --> 00:09:32,120 I don't know why Pokemon either and so what you would do is at the like 110 00:09:32,120 --> 00:09:36,180 It was on one of the nights but they had like a whole message about you know 111 00:09:36,200 --> 00:09:40,440 Submitting your sins to God and you take that paper and you would throw it in the fire 112 00:09:40,440 --> 00:09:43,640 And it would be burned away and I was like I get the concept 113 00:09:43,960 --> 00:09:52,160 But like I was like Pokemon cards really bro or like Dungeons and Dragons like they were super like hardcore strict with like that 114 00:09:52,160 --> 00:09:54,880 Stuff yeah for sure some of the other ones I remember 115 00:09:54,880 --> 00:10:01,960 Don't have craft foods like craft macaroni and cheese and stuff like that don't have any of that because they support of 116 00:10:02,560 --> 00:10:03,920 the 117 00:10:03,920 --> 00:10:08,600 lbgtqia movement it wasn't called that at the time, but there you go 118 00:10:09,720 --> 00:10:12,720 Wasn't supportive to gay rights, so 119 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:20,640 They were craft wise so it's like we shouldn't support them as a church. I remember that so don't have craft products 120 00:10:20,640 --> 00:10:26,600 The one that I remember the absolute most is I guess somebody had gotten in trouble 121 00:10:27,280 --> 00:10:34,880 And just kind of going back to what Chris said before a lot of times we got this sort of thing because 122 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:40,800 He caught somebody doing something they probably weren't supposed to whether it was big deal or not 123 00:10:40,800 --> 00:10:44,920 And I don't know I guess he caught somebody with the gal or something 124 00:10:44,920 --> 00:10:53,280 And I remember we had a Sunday school class with all boys and it was in a different building than the main church building 125 00:10:53,920 --> 00:11:02,360 And so we were over that over there and all I remember is him going over the song of Solomon and talking about 126 00:11:03,360 --> 00:11:05,640 He was just like talking about what love is 127 00:11:05,640 --> 00:11:11,440 You don't know what love is and all this other stuff and then all I remember it's like all you should be focused on you should 128 00:11:11,440 --> 00:11:17,360 Be loving Christ and then all I know is it got worked all the way up to you don't have the balls to stand up for Christ 129 00:11:17,360 --> 00:11:24,080 And that was the biggest day and I remember there was I don't know why there was always somebody that would come by and take numbers 130 00:11:24,600 --> 00:11:30,000 Is that still normal Chris if somebody would come by and be like how many people are in Sunday school kind of thing? 131 00:11:30,000 --> 00:11:33,920 Yeah, like take attendance. Yeah, you know, I just remember it being you know now 132 00:11:33,920 --> 00:11:35,040 It's not that huge of a thing 133 00:11:35,040 --> 00:11:39,720 But I remember he said that right as the the number counter came in and it was it was a lady 134 00:11:39,720 --> 00:11:44,960 And I just remember you're like, oh, he said he said you know balls to stand up for Christ in front of her 135 00:11:44,960 --> 00:11:51,000 Oh, but you know, it was always stuff like that, you know, it was always like, you know, you shouldn't be doing this 136 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:56,920 You should be you should be standing up for Christ and you don't have it, you know, you don't you don't have the discipline 137 00:11:56,920 --> 00:12:05,120 Yeah, but he never came to our small group Sunday school class before like and so he came that one time and never came back again 138 00:12:05,120 --> 00:12:13,600 So it was like, oh, yeah, like definitely somebody messed up in the group like somebody had another thing that like they were big on was like 139 00:12:13,600 --> 00:12:18,600 You can't listen to it like any secular music and then they were like they were like don't 140 00:12:19,080 --> 00:12:22,600 They were like don't have it. You can't have a Facebook don't or sorry 141 00:12:22,600 --> 00:12:24,280 You can't have a myspace 142 00:12:24,280 --> 00:12:31,680 Get Facebook instead because Facebook is the Christian alternative to my space look how that turned out which I don't know who 143 00:12:31,680 --> 00:12:37,120 Which I don't know who brought that up a Mark Zuckerberg did not start that there's no Christian thing or whatever 144 00:12:37,120 --> 00:12:42,320 Like I know my space had some crazy stuff on it, but I don't know anyways 145 00:12:43,040 --> 00:12:45,520 There was that but I'll tell you this much 146 00:12:47,040 --> 00:12:48,360 He also 147 00:12:48,360 --> 00:12:54,160 Side note, I remember I was listening to Christian reggae music and if you didn't know that was the thing it is and there's some 148 00:12:54,160 --> 00:12:57,240 Actually good Christian reggae folks out there if you want to listen to that 149 00:12:57,240 --> 00:13:03,560 I remember listening to that and trying to convince him that it was Christian and he did up telling me that 150 00:13:04,480 --> 00:13:08,560 There were spirits in there that were gonna come out and it's the style of music 151 00:13:08,560 --> 00:13:11,520 It doesn't matter what they're talking about that sort of thing 152 00:13:12,200 --> 00:13:14,200 It would be stuff like that 153 00:13:14,520 --> 00:13:18,320 But on the same token what was interesting was he was a huge 154 00:13:19,520 --> 00:13:26,120 Like rock and roll fan or heavy metal fan like he loved Christian like almost scream music men 155 00:13:26,120 --> 00:13:30,640 And then really hard metal music and then of course he was back in the 80s 156 00:13:30,640 --> 00:13:38,600 So he really liked this band called striper. You remember the striper stuff Chris. Yeah, they were they were they're actually pretty decent 157 00:13:38,600 --> 00:13:43,240 like they're they're they're the equivalent of a like a van Halen or a 158 00:13:44,120 --> 00:13:49,720 One of those 80s hair bands. I guess I'll say this the the main singer guy 159 00:13:49,720 --> 00:13:57,840 Definitely has a vocal range like dudes got a really good vocal range, but he can hit a really really high note 160 00:13:58,440 --> 00:14:03,000 Which in the 80s was exactly what you wanted for rock and roll music and don't get me wrong 161 00:14:03,000 --> 00:14:07,480 It's it's very good, but not when it was on repeat man 162 00:14:07,480 --> 00:14:15,120 I remember there was one song in particular to hell with the devil that was the one that was like on repeat all the time 163 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:20,020 The bad part is is that he made us sing that song during worship time like 164 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:30,000 Basically the the youth group was his was like his playground like not in like a bad like pedophile type way 165 00:14:30,080 --> 00:14:33,240 But like it was his playground for where it is like, oh, yeah 166 00:14:33,240 --> 00:14:35,200 I feel like putting on this music video 167 00:14:35,200 --> 00:14:39,720 So I'm gonna put this on or we're gonna play this song for worship because I feel like it or 168 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:41,960 We're gonna talk about this 169 00:14:41,960 --> 00:14:46,320 Cuz I feel like it and I'm telling you man like he wouldn't call your name out 170 00:14:46,320 --> 00:14:50,840 But he would make you a public spectacle. He would definitely embarrass you if you were messing up 171 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:54,760 In a oh sometimes sometimes he would though like there. Oh, yeah 172 00:14:56,160 --> 00:15:00,880 You call you out my name. I'm gonna tell you story. I'm gonna tell you story really quick 173 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:06,880 Devolved I don't know why I was this is I'm gonna tell you this story and I'm gonna tell you another story 174 00:15:06,880 --> 00:15:08,760 I know we're running long on time 175 00:15:08,760 --> 00:15:13,640 But so it's our it's our podcast talk as long as you want just let it so first of all 176 00:15:14,760 --> 00:15:19,640 first of all, I remember during it was this party and it was called the masquerade party and 177 00:15:20,440 --> 00:15:23,520 And I was used as his sermon illustration 178 00:15:23,520 --> 00:15:26,120 But I didn't volunteer to be used as a sermon illustration 179 00:15:26,120 --> 00:15:33,120 He was talking about how how people like to wear a mask and you can't really see who they are and he just like walked out as 180 00:15:33,120 --> 00:15:36,520 He was talking to the mill of crowd and like he just took my mask off 181 00:15:36,520 --> 00:15:42,080 He was like see he was like you put this mask on and did it and you try to make people think you're this and that 182 00:15:42,080 --> 00:15:45,760 He's like put on the inside. He was like people don't really know who you are 183 00:15:45,760 --> 00:15:49,600 And I was just like and I was just kind of embarrassed because like everybody was looking at me 184 00:15:49,600 --> 00:15:52,360 And I was like, bro, I don't know what this fool is doing 185 00:15:52,480 --> 00:15:59,320 But okay, then the second second story real quick. He was talking about I don't remember what he was talking about 186 00:15:59,320 --> 00:16:04,840 But it was in like his Sunday school small group and he was all talking about how 187 00:16:04,840 --> 00:16:08,680 How even though you're still young 188 00:16:09,600 --> 00:16:13,200 Like you're 13 or 14 you're too you're too young 189 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:18,520 Or you're yeah, you're not old enough to be a be a father 190 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:24,360 But you're still old enough to be a dad like you could still be a dad and have a kid 191 00:16:25,080 --> 00:16:29,080 So you need to be careful about like what you're doing and what you're saying to these ladies 192 00:16:29,080 --> 00:16:32,120 Do you remember that and he called a certain person's name out? 193 00:16:32,120 --> 00:16:36,760 Specifically yep, and he was just like you could be a father. It's just like dang 194 00:16:38,120 --> 00:16:43,640 I'm 15 bro like I'm not trying to be but at the same time this dude was kind of like 195 00:16:44,040 --> 00:16:47,560 He was talking to older older girls and they weren't getting 196 00:16:48,120 --> 00:16:53,320 You know pretty steamy so I think he did use that opportunity to call that that guy out 197 00:16:53,320 --> 00:16:57,360 Oh man, so you devolves are another story. I gotta tell about another one 198 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:02,320 So I'm actually headed out of country with the dude going on a missions trip 199 00:17:02,400 --> 00:17:06,320 And we had to stay behind because some other stuff that happened 200 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:11,520 But anyways, we're in line in security and it's just he and I and 201 00:17:12,640 --> 00:17:14,640 I was 16 at the time 202 00:17:14,800 --> 00:17:18,800 And he starts going on about and Chris. I don't know man 203 00:17:18,960 --> 00:17:21,840 I don't know if I was necessarily what you would consider a ladies man 204 00:17:21,920 --> 00:17:23,840 Like yeah, I flirted don't get me wrong 205 00:17:23,840 --> 00:17:27,600 But like I never really had no like steady gals in my life 206 00:17:28,320 --> 00:17:34,720 Or anything like that or I don't think I was actively dating a bunch of people in the youth group or anything like that 207 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:36,560 um 208 00:17:36,560 --> 00:17:37,840 but anyways 209 00:17:37,840 --> 00:17:40,480 He starts giving me this whole lecture about 210 00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:45,440 How um, I'm looking in the in the wrong pool 211 00:17:45,520 --> 00:17:49,040 He's like he's like you like to fish right and I'm like, yeah, I like to fish 212 00:17:49,040 --> 00:17:54,800 He's like well imagine fishing in the sewer ditch and it's been stagnant for years 213 00:17:55,600 --> 00:17:59,600 That's what it's like looking in the world. You need to look for yourself a godly woman 214 00:17:59,760 --> 00:18:02,480 That's like that's like fishing in the stream of life 215 00:18:02,720 --> 00:18:07,680 He's like the most pristine stream you ever saw and that's where you gotta find your wife and I was just like 216 00:18:08,320 --> 00:18:10,320 Yeah, I appreciate that 217 00:18:10,960 --> 00:18:16,560 But like I'm really again. I'm 16 years old. I'm really not looking for like a wife or a relationship 218 00:18:16,560 --> 00:18:19,840 Or they weren't even looking for a relationship. I'm just looking to have a good time, right? 219 00:18:19,840 --> 00:18:20,720 Here's the thing 220 00:18:20,720 --> 00:18:24,480 I don't know what it was about Micah and I think I think it was just because 221 00:18:24,960 --> 00:18:29,840 The energy that you put off was just definitely like that 16 horn dog 222 00:18:30,000 --> 00:18:33,280 Like you were just looking for anybody that you think so bro 223 00:18:33,520 --> 00:18:37,040 But like but like here's the thing like you weren't rude about it 224 00:18:37,120 --> 00:18:40,880 You weren't vulgar about it. You were just like, yeah, I'm just gonna hit on every girl 225 00:18:40,960 --> 00:18:44,960 I see which is what every 15 year old 16 year old kid does like 226 00:18:44,960 --> 00:18:51,600 Like that's not a problem. So like Micah kind of developed this reputation is like, oh, yeah, you gotta watch Micah 227 00:18:51,600 --> 00:18:55,120 He's gonna go after the but he but rarely not to dog on you 228 00:18:55,280 --> 00:18:59,360 Rarely ever did that ever work for you. It's not like you were not a problem 229 00:18:59,360 --> 00:19:01,840 You were not a threat. You were probably one of the last people 230 00:19:02,240 --> 00:19:05,040 They had to worry about you doing something inappropriate 231 00:19:05,760 --> 00:19:07,760 with a girl at the church like 232 00:19:08,640 --> 00:19:12,720 Yeah, bro, if we're being honest my game was pretty weak 233 00:19:12,720 --> 00:19:15,200 Like I I don't know most of the time 234 00:19:16,320 --> 00:19:22,240 Like hindsight 2020 I think about some of the things I tried to try to spin at and tried to see like oh man 235 00:19:22,400 --> 00:19:25,280 See what would stick and boy was I uh 236 00:19:25,760 --> 00:19:31,920 Was I pretty bad the opposite and when it did come your way like when the girls were like trying to flirt with you 237 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:35,120 It was told you were totally oblivious to it. It went right over your head 238 00:19:35,280 --> 00:19:41,280 So it's sure sure enough. I was totally oblivious to it and then when I did catch on to it and be like, oh, yeah girl 239 00:19:41,280 --> 00:19:45,360 I like you there just like oh, yeah, I liked you four weeks ago and now you in the friend zone 240 00:19:45,440 --> 00:19:50,800 It's like oh man my life six and then I just didn't realize but you know what honestly 241 00:19:50,880 --> 00:19:54,800 I think back and that was probably the best thing honestly if I if I knew how to 242 00:19:55,600 --> 00:19:59,040 Uh get with women well back in the day would not have gone 243 00:19:59,680 --> 00:20:05,040 Super great, but man, I'm ready to move on to the next uh segment if you are I am and just one last thing 244 00:20:05,200 --> 00:20:07,040 I say that uh, Micah was oblivious 245 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:11,840 I was also oblivious to that as well. So he wasn't the only one, but yeah, I'm ready to move on again 246 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:15,440 Thank god or we might have been fathers too soon. The next segment is 247 00:20:16,160 --> 00:20:20,880 The jelly donut or the jail report which this week we're gonna be doing something else 248 00:20:21,440 --> 00:20:24,000 It's called a coast guard because you washed up 249 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:29,280 And uh, yeah, man, we're gonna talk about some celebrities that um, they done man 250 00:20:29,520 --> 00:20:32,640 They they washed up that used to be good, but now 251 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:40,080 Not anymore. So man, you ready to start? I'm ready, man. I'm gonna take you back to a day. Think about it. It's 2005 252 00:20:40,640 --> 00:20:46,320 eight o'clock and what's coming on on that sunday night? It's extreme makeover home edition 253 00:20:46,960 --> 00:20:51,280 And if you were like my family it was switching between football 254 00:20:51,600 --> 00:20:57,440 And whatever tie pinnington and the crew were doing over there with extreme makeover home edition, but it brings me to my first person 255 00:20:58,320 --> 00:20:59,680 Dang tie pinnington 256 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:05,040 We need to call the coast guard because you don't wash up. Yeah, he's washed up 257 00:21:05,280 --> 00:21:10,480 Chris that man that man. Have you seen him lately? I think you know, I saw him doing some other show 258 00:21:10,640 --> 00:21:13,440 It was like a diy show or something like that and bro 259 00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:18,480 Not only was he not great on television homie looked 260 00:21:19,120 --> 00:21:23,520 Absolutely terrible. Oh, yeah, it was like a lottery commercial. Yeah, he yeah 261 00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:28,640 He he came down like the chimney upside down, but I saw him. I was like, oh, bro 262 00:21:28,640 --> 00:21:30,960 You're looking rough. He's been on some like 263 00:21:31,760 --> 00:21:33,760 Not extreme makeover home edition 264 00:21:34,000 --> 00:21:39,440 But yeah, he's been on some like home renovation shows and I'm like, oh, yeah, like some hgtv kind of stuff 265 00:21:39,440 --> 00:21:45,280 But here's the thing bro. I'm like, I'm like, you know what? I missed tie pinnington on the cocaine like he's not as fun 266 00:21:45,520 --> 00:21:51,440 Yeah, man. He was all on cocaine in the early 2000s, but now he's not see, you know, it's and you know 267 00:21:51,440 --> 00:21:56,800 He was also drinking a lot and I just I'm just saying cocaine drinking did him a favor 268 00:21:56,800 --> 00:22:03,120 Just like some people it's cocaine is never okay. Just hear me that I'm not endorsing it's not it's not 269 00:22:03,200 --> 00:22:06,800 But I think we do also have to be honest like cat Williams 270 00:22:07,200 --> 00:22:10,880 Would say and we do have to be honest and say the facts are 271 00:22:11,360 --> 00:22:14,240 Ty pinnington was a lot more funny now 272 00:22:14,240 --> 00:22:19,040 I wouldn't say funny, but he was a lot better on television and he was a lot 273 00:22:19,280 --> 00:22:22,720 I don't know. He was a lot better to watch. So just saying 274 00:22:22,720 --> 00:22:29,920 Okay, from an entertainment value, homie washed up. All right, next one. Now talking about Michael Myers, old boy from 275 00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:36,240 Call the coast guard on him. Mike Myers, man. Your time was the 90s with SNL late 80s early 90s 276 00:22:36,560 --> 00:22:41,520 My thing is why what happened? What happened? He was funny. All you have to do is keep the same style 277 00:22:41,600 --> 00:22:44,000 Did he just want to diversify or what's going on? No, I 278 00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:47,600 I will tell you though his style of humor 279 00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:54,400 Is only specific to that era man. And so it's it is one of those things of like his comedy 280 00:22:54,640 --> 00:22:59,200 It was funny for that era, but like now in 2024. It's not that 281 00:22:59,760 --> 00:23:04,480 Like not that funny. I say what you will like say what you will about 282 00:23:05,120 --> 00:23:07,760 Jim Carrey. I love Jim Carrey, but to be honest with you 283 00:23:07,840 --> 00:23:10,240 I don't think he would make it in 2024 bro 284 00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:13,520 Like I think his style is definitely like a 90s 285 00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:17,200 Early 2000s like even some of the references he makes him a 286 00:23:17,760 --> 00:23:21,680 Aspen to our pet detective and some of the jokes he makes. I'm like, yeah, bro 287 00:23:21,760 --> 00:23:25,760 That was definitely a 90s thing that that would not work today. Well, I mean and 288 00:23:26,560 --> 00:23:29,520 You know, even Jim Carrey kind of evolved say 289 00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:37,120 Say like yes, man, right like later on, you know into the 2000s. He was definitely a different character 290 00:23:37,280 --> 00:23:39,280 It was definitely a different character 291 00:23:39,280 --> 00:23:43,360 Um, but say what you will Jim Carrey is still great and 292 00:23:44,080 --> 00:23:48,160 Yeah, he will never be on the washed up list even if that is the truth because we love him 293 00:23:48,400 --> 00:23:51,360 Uh, but back to Mike Myers what I will say about Mike Myers though 294 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:57,120 I think we talked about this before I tried to watch the pentaverate and you know that had a lot of potential to it 295 00:23:57,440 --> 00:24:00,160 Like I thought oh man like this looks like he could actually be funny 296 00:24:00,240 --> 00:24:04,080 That that was not funny at all. They could have done so much different and I think 297 00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:08,960 I don't know. I don't know man. Just he just ain't who he used to be man 298 00:24:09,280 --> 00:24:13,200 He just ain't who he used to be washed up call the coast guard. All right 299 00:24:13,760 --> 00:24:20,400 So the next person and you know what I never really liked this person from the beginning and I'm glad that they're washed up 300 00:24:20,640 --> 00:24:24,640 And that is Ellen DeGeneres. I never thought that she was very funny 301 00:24:25,120 --> 00:24:31,360 And she always kind of gave that you know, I'm a I'm an eight hole vibe and turns out she was dude 302 00:24:31,360 --> 00:24:35,680 I called it for years. I said it for years and everybody was like, oh, no 303 00:24:35,760 --> 00:24:41,360 You're just saying that because because of her lifestyle it I said her lifestyle doesn't have anything to do with it 304 00:24:41,360 --> 00:24:45,760 I can just tell that she is just not and like again when she was on the sitcom 305 00:24:46,240 --> 00:24:52,480 Before she even got her before she even got her show. I was like dude. You're like you're just not funny to me 306 00:24:52,560 --> 00:24:58,000 Like I don't connect with you. I don't get your humor. I don't I don't even know what your humor is supposed to be 307 00:24:58,000 --> 00:25:01,360 I don't get it. Yeah, I don't I don't understand but even now 308 00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:04,480 You know 309 00:25:04,480 --> 00:25:11,120 Even Ellen fans, right? Like hardcore fans her show is obviously not on the air anymore because of the controversy that's happened 310 00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:12,720 but 311 00:25:12,720 --> 00:25:17,200 You know a lot of her fans even towards it was like man, the show is just not very great 312 00:25:17,520 --> 00:25:20,080 one of the biggest things that was a draw to her show towards 313 00:25:20,880 --> 00:25:22,880 the last few years I feel like we're 314 00:25:22,880 --> 00:25:28,400 They're stupid like games almost that they would do where they would pull people from the audience 315 00:25:28,560 --> 00:25:34,320 But really and truly again that was Ellen kind of being an a-hole like there was a lot of times where it's like 316 00:25:35,120 --> 00:25:40,320 Okay, now she has the choice of like she would always put people through the absolute worst, right? 317 00:25:41,040 --> 00:25:48,160 I don't know it was she always uh, she was a jerk, but she disguised it or tried to disguise it with humor 318 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:51,360 I had those. Yeah, I can't stand it. All right. We're gonna run through the next ones right at it quickly 319 00:25:51,360 --> 00:25:53,360 um 320 00:25:53,440 --> 00:26:00,160 The next one Cedric the entertainer ol said he the entertainer which uh, he hasn't he hasn't entertained me for years 321 00:26:00,240 --> 00:26:02,240 He's never entertained me boy. Oh 322 00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:04,960 Let cat williams pop off 323 00:26:04,960 --> 00:26:09,520 Cat williams said that everything that cedric's ever been in has been canceled and i'm like 324 00:26:10,080 --> 00:26:15,040 Yeah, bro. Like I even his stand-up like anything i've ever watched him in 325 00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:17,760 I've never thought he was 326 00:26:17,760 --> 00:26:23,920 Is entertaining never thought he was funny if you got to put the entertainer in your name, dude 327 00:26:24,000 --> 00:26:27,840 You're not bro. It's the what what can I say? It's the delicious rapper 328 00:26:28,960 --> 00:26:34,000 Factor right there, but something else too man. He even like even if he was good right now 329 00:26:34,320 --> 00:26:36,320 What makes him washed up too? 330 00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:42,000 What what is he doing? Like I was over at um, my wife's grandparents house, right? 331 00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:50,000 And we were over there watching tv and you know how sometimes people let the tv just kind of slip and it keeps on going 332 00:26:50,160 --> 00:26:52,320 You know to whatever the next thing is on tv 333 00:26:52,960 --> 00:26:55,680 You know, he's got a sitcom. I don't even know what it's called 334 00:26:55,920 --> 00:27:00,400 But I mean bro. It's a white people show like it's an old white people show 335 00:27:01,040 --> 00:27:05,760 And that's that's what he's on and bro. He's not only is he not funny 336 00:27:05,760 --> 00:27:13,360 It's almost it's just really painful like the the wife is the mom from everybody hates chris and but everybody else in that show 337 00:27:13,440 --> 00:27:16,160 Is white like it's and I'm not saying that's a bad thing 338 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:22,160 But at the same time it's just like with the canned, you know, it's it's a typical 339 00:27:23,200 --> 00:27:26,720 CBS sitcom right and you're sitting here just like man 340 00:27:26,960 --> 00:27:34,160 This guy is really and the fact that it's coming out that like he he stole cat. Williams jokes like I don't have respect for you 341 00:27:34,160 --> 00:27:39,120 Bro, all right, man. This one is you know, this one ain't gonna be what fries you donuts, but it's gonna be close 342 00:27:39,200 --> 00:27:44,240 Hulk Hogan. Oh, yeah, that guy's washed up. I mean, he's trying to stay relevant 343 00:27:45,040 --> 00:27:48,640 He's definitely like, oh, yeah, I'm still the greatest in the world 344 00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:53,360 I never thought Hulk was that great never been a whole fan and everyone's like why Christopher 345 00:27:53,440 --> 00:27:58,400 He's he's one of the godfathers of legends and legends and it's like hulk hogan 346 00:27:58,400 --> 00:28:05,040 Hogan only cares about one person and that's hulk hogan like there have been so many stories that have come out where hulk was supposed to 347 00:28:05,440 --> 00:28:09,840 Help the locker room and help them get a title and then at the last minute he like no 348 00:28:09,840 --> 00:28:13,280 That's not gonna work for me and he's just a very selfish person 349 00:28:13,360 --> 00:28:18,000 But like I saw a commercial for the royal rumble coming up and hulk hogan was like, yeah 350 00:28:18,240 --> 00:28:22,960 40 years a hulk of mania brother that all these stars that you see now is because of me 351 00:28:22,960 --> 00:28:28,000 Da da da da da da, it's like, you know what you never know who's gonna show up to the royal rumble 352 00:28:28,400 --> 00:28:34,480 And I might just have one left in me and I'm like, oh nobody wants to see your old behind wrestle like nobody cares 353 00:28:34,960 --> 00:28:40,240 Nobody cares about you like you're irrelevant like that that era is gone. It's dead 354 00:28:40,400 --> 00:28:46,720 Let me ask you this if he's still is he still a big cash cow like is it still a big cash grab? No 355 00:28:46,960 --> 00:28:48,480 When he shows up 356 00:28:48,480 --> 00:28:54,800 He's not like I mean if he like kind of shows up again, but a lot of those fans are like 357 00:28:55,440 --> 00:29:00,880 Now the person that hit that is kind of taking his spot is the rock like because all the 358 00:29:01,440 --> 00:29:03,040 Millennials have grown up 359 00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:08,480 And so now anytime the rock shows up like that's what the cash grab is which i'm not a rock fan either 360 00:29:08,480 --> 00:29:13,200 But that's a different story for a different day weird weird side note that I read about 361 00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:18,400 Um, did you know that and this is totally different sport totally different topic? 362 00:29:18,640 --> 00:29:21,760 But did you know that dale urnhart is still the highest? 363 00:29:22,320 --> 00:29:26,080 um grossing like as far as like t-shirts and and uh 364 00:29:26,960 --> 00:29:33,120 Merchant dice that's nascar's number one cash cow still dale urnhart even though he died all those years ago 365 00:29:33,120 --> 00:29:36,800 Oh, yeah, it's because of all the I don't know all the red nicks 366 00:29:36,800 --> 00:29:43,200 Bro, they love it. Yeah, I guess bro. All right last one on this segment and we're gonna move on real quick 367 00:29:43,200 --> 00:29:50,800 Uh, david spade. Oh, jeez that guy washed up dude and again that guy was I didn't really like Tim bro 368 00:29:50,800 --> 00:29:56,400 I didn't think he was I didn't think he was good to begin with like he's always been real annoying to me like even 369 00:29:56,400 --> 00:30:00,400 In the movies like tommy boy and something like that man. I never liked him 370 00:30:00,400 --> 00:30:03,360 He he is kind of funny and again 371 00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:07,840 I say kind of funny and some things but he just seems like 372 00:30:08,400 --> 00:30:10,400 He always seemed like a pervert to me 373 00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:14,960 And also too like I feel like him and what's his name? Uh, 374 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:20,080 Rob Schneider. I feel like they always just rode adam samers coattails. Yeah, I 375 00:30:20,720 --> 00:30:22,720 Rob Schneider for sure 376 00:30:22,720 --> 00:30:28,480 Rob Schneider's never been funny. All right, man. Well, we're gonna move on to our next segment, which is the donut hole 377 00:30:28,560 --> 00:30:31,600 We're gonna run you through this rather quick, but I think you'll like this one, man 378 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:34,560 This one's a little bit different. Uh, this donut hole 379 00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:41,520 We're gonna talk about the origins of old sayings. So like just random idioms that you can hear 380 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:47,680 Um, and we'll go through them and where they came from man some different terms and stuff like that 381 00:30:47,920 --> 00:30:51,840 Okay, I might know some of the first one the term sandwich 382 00:30:51,920 --> 00:30:56,240 Do you know where the term sandwich came from? Like I know most people probably know earl of sandwich 383 00:30:56,240 --> 00:31:00,720 But do you know anything else about that? All I know is the earl of sandwich. That's all I know 384 00:31:00,720 --> 00:31:03,360 All right. So this is the backstory. So sandwich 385 00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:09,600 Uh, did come from the earl of sandwich now the earl of sandwich is not a particular person, right? 386 00:31:09,760 --> 00:31:12,960 There is still to this day an earl of sandwich 387 00:31:13,440 --> 00:31:20,240 Um, but the particular one that they were talking about was in the 1800s and or 18th century 388 00:31:20,320 --> 00:31:23,680 I'm sorry and pretty much the earl of sandwich 389 00:31:25,040 --> 00:31:26,640 Um 390 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:33,120 Was a gambler. It was a degenerate. He was an alcoholic a degenerate and was always broke because of his gambling 391 00:31:33,360 --> 00:31:35,760 So what happened and it sandwiches? 392 00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:38,400 Um, two pieces of bread with something in between 393 00:31:39,120 --> 00:31:46,240 Uh, was a poor person's meal, right? So it actually became as or started off as a joke of like, oh, you're eating a sandwich 394 00:31:46,320 --> 00:31:48,320 Like oh, ha ha ha you're eating a 395 00:31:48,560 --> 00:31:49,680 degenerate 396 00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:54,640 Poor person sandwich kind of thing. I did not know that but uh, that's I mean that makes sense 397 00:31:54,640 --> 00:31:59,040 So every time we say sandwich, it's you know, disgracing the earl of sandwich name 398 00:31:59,120 --> 00:32:05,440 But nobody seems to know that so that was that one was pretty interesting. All right next one cat got your tongue 399 00:32:05,520 --> 00:32:10,000 Do you know that one? Yes, I do. Where did it come from? So, uh, of course the meaning is 400 00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:17,840 um for somebody to remain silent or when someone is remaining silent when they're expected to speak and apparently 401 00:32:17,840 --> 00:32:24,640 Um, there's two stories of how this came to be one is one came from the cat and nine tails, which is um 402 00:32:25,360 --> 00:32:27,360 a torture device pretty much and 403 00:32:28,160 --> 00:32:30,320 Basically, it would leave the victim speechless 404 00:32:30,320 --> 00:32:34,880 So they would say oh what cat got your tongue because you're getting whipped by it or the second one 405 00:32:35,520 --> 00:32:41,760 might come from ancient egypt where liars tongues were actually cut out of their mouths as punishment and fed to cats 406 00:32:42,160 --> 00:32:46,800 So then that could also have been cat got your tongue. So that could have started from there. That's interesting 407 00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:52,720 I never knew that. Um, so the next one the walls have ears. Have you heard about this one? 408 00:32:53,680 --> 00:32:56,080 No, I do know balls the wall and where that 409 00:32:56,720 --> 00:32:59,600 Comes from but have have you ever heard somebody use that term? 410 00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:03,440 Um, the walls have ears. Oh, yeah, I use that all the time 411 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,320 So yeah, basically for those of you, you don't know what that means 412 00:33:06,400 --> 00:33:11,680 It basically means somebody could be eavesdropping or oh somebody could else could be listening. So you better be careful 413 00:33:11,760 --> 00:33:13,760 what you're saying, um, so 414 00:33:13,760 --> 00:33:22,080 The origin was actually france and it was a particular palace and it was believed that this palace had a network of listening tubes 415 00:33:22,720 --> 00:33:27,200 Um, to where it would be possible to hear what's being said in all the different rooms 416 00:33:27,520 --> 00:33:33,520 And people say that's how the queen at the time discovered all the political secrets and plots. Oh, wow. That's interesting 417 00:33:33,520 --> 00:33:37,120 Never knew that. So yeah, that's uh, the possibility of where the term 418 00:33:37,760 --> 00:33:39,760 The walls have ears come from 419 00:33:39,760 --> 00:33:44,160 All right, the next one bury the hatchet. Have you heard that one? 420 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:50,640 Uh, yes, I have the meaning of bury the hatchet is of course ending a conflict or you know, some sort of fight that's happening 421 00:33:50,640 --> 00:33:54,080 You know, you tell the other person like oh, let's bury the hatchet. So 422 00:33:55,040 --> 00:34:01,280 The origin of that it was a negotiation between the Puritans and the Native Americans here in the United States 423 00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:04,880 Um, and the negotiation was basically 424 00:34:04,880 --> 00:34:12,160 Uh, that the Native Americans would bury all their weapons making them inaccessible. Therefore literally burying the hatchet 425 00:34:12,160 --> 00:34:13,760 Wow 426 00:34:13,760 --> 00:34:18,560 That's uh, that's pretty interesting. All right, man. So last one here. Um 427 00:34:19,440 --> 00:34:23,120 Have you heard of so this one is cold feet, you know where cold feet comes from? 428 00:34:23,760 --> 00:34:30,480 Um, bait. Yeah about like, um, especially on weddings where you're like, oh, I got cold feet. So I ran away. So, um 429 00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:38,000 And the full meaning to you know is um, the loss of confidence or something like that and basically take off 430 00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:44,480 The origin is actually a military term and it was from um, it doesn't say from when 431 00:34:44,720 --> 00:34:51,280 But it was basically from warriors who had been standing too long and their feet had been frozen and were not able to rush into battle 432 00:34:52,480 --> 00:34:54,480 And it said because 433 00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:57,360 Um, they didn't have the confidence that they would go win 434 00:34:57,360 --> 00:35:00,560 So they just stood there instead. They got cold feet and they left 435 00:35:01,200 --> 00:35:07,840 That's the origin of it. Oh wow. Didn't know that. It's interesting. Yeah, I figured break out a few of the the origins 436 00:35:08,320 --> 00:35:13,760 Um, and you know, there there's some definitely some interesting ones. Um 437 00:35:14,400 --> 00:35:19,920 Okay, let's do one more because this one's good big wig, you know where the term big wig comes from 438 00:35:19,920 --> 00:35:25,040 Oh, yeah, I'm sure it comes from like the 1700s and like parliament and all that good. Yeah 439 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:28,080 That's pretty it's pretty close for those of you. You don't know big wig 440 00:35:28,640 --> 00:35:35,440 Especially here in the states if you refer to somebody like uh big in power or big up in business, you know, all he's a big wig kind of thing 441 00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:40,560 So the origin is back in the 18th century. So you good job there 442 00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:46,000 The most important political figures would wear the biggest most flamboyant wigs 443 00:35:46,400 --> 00:35:53,520 And of course all the influential people had big wigs. So they were called big wigs and nowadays same thing and just kind of carried down 444 00:35:53,520 --> 00:35:58,960 Um, it's interesting how those things carry down. Yes, it is. It's interesting. I got one for you 445 00:35:58,960 --> 00:36:04,800 Have you heard the term saved by the bell? I have but um, I'm not sure the origin of it. So back in the day 446 00:36:05,760 --> 00:36:09,680 This is probably around like I'd say 1500 1600s 447 00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:15,600 With modern medicine or not modern medicine with medicine a lot of people were getting pronounced 448 00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:18,960 Dead, but they really weren't dead. Oh 449 00:36:20,320 --> 00:36:22,640 Yeah, I think I see where you're going 450 00:36:22,640 --> 00:36:26,320 They would they would get buried alive and um 451 00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:32,160 And this is where like the vampires and zombies for folklore comes from 452 00:36:32,880 --> 00:36:37,600 And people would try to like get out of their graves and some of them would be able to bust out of them 453 00:36:38,000 --> 00:36:42,160 So, uh, but they found out that there were a lot of people that were dying 454 00:36:42,640 --> 00:36:44,480 Because they really weren't 455 00:36:44,480 --> 00:36:48,720 Dead they were alive so that what they would do is they would tie bells around their hands 456 00:36:48,720 --> 00:36:53,440 And so if someone accidentally got buried alive, they would just like try to 457 00:36:54,080 --> 00:36:57,200 Move and shake the bell and then there would be a person that was 458 00:36:57,760 --> 00:37:00,160 Um on the quote-unquote graveyard shift 459 00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:04,880 That's also another term and so they would go and dig up the person 460 00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:08,320 And so they wouldn't be buried alive. So that's where the term saved by the bell comes from 461 00:37:08,400 --> 00:37:12,960 Yeah, it's not interesting interesting stuff. Yeah interesting stuff. I love stuff like that 462 00:37:12,960 --> 00:37:15,840 Yeah, it's all a little stuff that you say on a daily basis 463 00:37:15,840 --> 00:37:21,120 But you never know what that comes from and a lot of times sometimes it's a very literal meaning and you go 464 00:37:21,200 --> 00:37:24,880 Oh, wow, that is extremely literal and then there are sometimes where it's like, okay 465 00:37:25,840 --> 00:37:27,840 It's kind of kind of weird how that came about 466 00:37:28,400 --> 00:37:34,240 Um, but all right, man, let's switch gears and um, man, let's get the heat pumping 467 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:39,120 In the friars because it's time for what fries my dough, Chris. What fries you up? 468 00:37:39,200 --> 00:37:42,240 You're gonna appreciate this one. I do not like people 469 00:37:42,240 --> 00:37:47,440 That complain but when you try to offer them a solution, they don't like your solution 470 00:37:47,520 --> 00:37:54,480 They just really want to complain and they don't want to hear your solution preach brother preach. No, keep on going 471 00:37:55,280 --> 00:37:59,760 I'm just yeah, I'm telling you man. I people you'll be like people will be like, oh 472 00:38:00,320 --> 00:38:06,880 I'm so stressed. I'm so tired and all and I just work way too much. I'm just so tired 473 00:38:07,360 --> 00:38:11,840 And then you're like, well, have you thought about taking a day off? Oh, I can't take a day off 474 00:38:11,840 --> 00:38:16,400 I got so much to do. I got so much to do and then it's like, well, maybe if you 475 00:38:17,040 --> 00:38:21,280 Well, tell me all you got to do they tell you like, you know, well, you could really push that to monday 476 00:38:21,360 --> 00:38:26,080 And you could save that and maybe you could do this on a different day and just rearrange your schedule 477 00:38:26,480 --> 00:38:32,400 And then they're like, uh, they really just want to complain and they really don't want their situation to get fixed 478 00:38:32,800 --> 00:38:37,520 They just want to complain about it and it's that victim mentality that I don't like and it's like, well 479 00:38:37,520 --> 00:38:41,760 I guess I'm always gonna be this way and I just hate how my life is and 480 00:38:42,560 --> 00:38:48,000 It's like, well, are you doing anything to change it? Well, no, I don't want to and any possibility you offer up 481 00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:52,400 Then they just have a problem with it. And I don't yeah and the the hard part too is 482 00:38:53,200 --> 00:38:59,360 Finding out because early on when you're dealing with a person like that before you fully identified like, okay 483 00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:04,560 This is what's going on. You legitimately think like, oh man, their life really is kind of 484 00:39:04,560 --> 00:39:09,360 Um in and up people and everything but the more you get into it the more you realize 485 00:39:09,440 --> 00:39:12,880 Oh, no, they just like to complain. There's a lot that could be done differently 486 00:39:13,200 --> 00:39:16,080 But they just choose not to and most of the time man 487 00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:18,400 It's hard and it's a hard lesson to learn 488 00:39:18,720 --> 00:39:25,200 But you just might as well save you breath because again like chris said all they're trying to do is they're trying to 489 00:39:25,680 --> 00:39:29,760 Get the pity points and if you're not providing the pity points, they don't want your solutions, man 490 00:39:29,760 --> 00:39:34,480 You know what they want from you. They want you to be like, oh, I'm so sorry 491 00:39:35,040 --> 00:39:42,000 I'm sorry. That's I mean, don't be sarcastic, but they want you to be non sarcastic. Oh, I'm so sorry for them all the time 492 00:39:42,240 --> 00:39:45,280 That's exactly what they want. They want the attention. They want all that man 493 00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,960 Don't be doing none of that. We ain't trying to have none of that energy around us 494 00:39:49,040 --> 00:39:52,640 We trying to level up in life. We ain't trying to have all that crap also too 495 00:39:53,520 --> 00:39:58,960 Again, we kind of talked about this last week, but it's some people like, oh, yeah, my boyfriend or my girlfriend 496 00:39:58,960 --> 00:40:02,720 They're so horrible and they do all this and da da da da. It's like, well, why don't you leave them? 497 00:40:03,120 --> 00:40:06,400 But I love them. They're so wonderful and it's like bro 498 00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:11,280 Why do you just want to talk crap about the person that you're with like you just like you just want to be like, oh, yeah 499 00:40:12,640 --> 00:40:18,240 This person's awful and then like you get around your you know, your friends or your girlfriends and they're 500 00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:23,680 tearing everybody's spouses down like people just want to complain and toss up and I 501 00:40:24,080 --> 00:40:27,920 I can't do that, bro. Like I got too many things I got to do to sit around and and 502 00:40:27,920 --> 00:40:32,160 Then to have time for people that just don't want to do anything with their life 503 00:40:32,160 --> 00:40:39,440 They're just bumming around doing the same thing that they did 10 years ago at Augusta, Georgia. I'm sorry. That's another rank 504 00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:45,680 Yeah, that's another that's another rank, but I get it or the same things and love it, Texas. Yeah, we calling y'all out 505 00:40:46,240 --> 00:40:51,920 Um, because listen, I'll be I'll be seeing y'all one of the best things about nowadays is social media 506 00:40:51,920 --> 00:40:58,320 Is guess what you get to see what everybody else is doing and I see y'all bum behind sitting around there, but anyways 507 00:40:58,320 --> 00:41:03,200 That's a whole different subject. That's a whole different subject. Don't open that can of worms Christopher 508 00:41:03,200 --> 00:41:06,640 I don't do it. I'd say about that. I'm just if you're gonna complain about 509 00:41:07,760 --> 00:41:13,680 I get that there is a time to just bet I totally get that that's very much needed where you just needed that 510 00:41:14,320 --> 00:41:18,160 but if you are constantly and this is like a chronic 511 00:41:18,160 --> 00:41:23,360 Thing that you're constantly complaining about and you're not wanting to do anything to change your situation 512 00:41:23,920 --> 00:41:27,760 Then you have a problem. I don't feel bad for you about like 513 00:41:28,880 --> 00:41:36,400 Like my thing is if there's tangible things you can do and you just decide not to you can't you can't feel bad like what? 514 00:41:36,640 --> 00:41:43,120 You know is what it is man pretty crazy stuff, but anyways, let's move on into our improv 515 00:41:43,120 --> 00:41:45,120 Which is 516 00:41:46,720 --> 00:41:47,920 What are we doing praying problem? 517 00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:55,680 We're gonna do the questions only game where we have to ask each other or drive a story only asking each other questions 518 00:41:55,760 --> 00:41:57,360 it's kind of a 519 00:41:57,360 --> 00:42:02,640 Little bit of harder of a game, but I like it accused me on my toes, but I have a 520 00:42:03,360 --> 00:42:06,000 I have a suggestion for one of them 521 00:42:06,080 --> 00:42:12,320 We'll do two but I have a suggestion for the first one doing the taxes because it's tax season, baby 522 00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:18,160 Oh, man. It's tax season man. It's tax season. It's not. Oh taxes this year. Which is BS 523 00:42:18,160 --> 00:42:20,160 But anyways, we're gonna talk about that 524 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:23,120 Um, yeah, man doing tax you want to start it? 525 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:31,280 Are you filing with turbo tax this year? Why not hr block? What exactly is a 1099? 526 00:42:32,160 --> 00:42:36,720 Why are you asking me for should I should I claim my dog as a dependent this year? 527 00:42:36,720 --> 00:42:41,520 Is your mama dependent this year? Are you really gonna ask me about my mama? She's a dependent 528 00:42:41,520 --> 00:42:46,720 Why wouldn't I ask if your mom's a dependent? Do you not know that my mom can claim me as a dependent? 529 00:42:46,800 --> 00:42:48,400 Why would you be able to do that? 530 00:42:48,400 --> 00:42:51,440 Weren't you aware that I had to move back in with my mom last year? 531 00:42:51,680 --> 00:42:58,240 When did this happen? Did you not hear about the a little thing called covid of 2019 and I lost my job? 532 00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:03,200 I don't remember this day. That's another question. Oh man. That's hard. So you got me there 533 00:43:03,680 --> 00:43:08,640 Um, sometimes it's hard because you you just want to be saying statements anyways. All right. I'll do the next one 534 00:43:08,640 --> 00:43:16,800 Um, I don't know why mainly because I'm looking at something military at boot camp 535 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:21,200 All right, I'll start okay 536 00:43:21,920 --> 00:43:25,840 What is this supposed to start time is chow is that the drill sergeant you hear that 537 00:43:26,480 --> 00:43:31,200 Did you hear that he kicked five guys in the face last year? Did you hear it might be chuck north? 538 00:43:31,200 --> 00:43:33,440 Where do you think we're gonna get stationed after this? 539 00:43:33,760 --> 00:43:36,080 What time does it look like we're going running in the morning? 540 00:43:36,080 --> 00:43:39,600 Are they gonna get mad because I forgot to bring a poop bush. Where am I supposed to? 541 00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:43,200 Why is the drill sergeant yelling in that guy's face? Why does it yell at me? 542 00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:47,040 Do you get off on something like that? Why would you ask me that question? 543 00:43:47,360 --> 00:43:53,040 Why would you want him to yell in your face? Do you really want to know is it okay for him to hit people like that? Well 544 00:43:53,840 --> 00:44:00,080 Why wouldn't it be don't you read the laws? Isn't it illegal for him to hit people in the face now? 545 00:44:00,320 --> 00:44:03,280 I don't know. I want to come back from that. Yeah. All right 546 00:44:03,280 --> 00:44:07,120 Okay, do you want to do one more? Uh, we can move on to the eclair. All right, man 547 00:44:07,120 --> 00:44:11,680 So our next segment is the eclair, which is our positive advice 548 00:44:12,480 --> 00:44:18,720 And uh, man, I think I went last time so if you want to kick it off. Oh, yeah, I got another leadership thought for you, man 549 00:44:19,040 --> 00:44:25,840 Another leadership thought so again. I am totally stealing from john maxwell's five levels of leadership 550 00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,880 So do not quote me. This is not a christopher 551 00:44:28,880 --> 00:44:33,040 Uh, quote, but john maxwell has five levels of leadership, right? 552 00:44:33,920 --> 00:44:37,200 So if you think of it like a pyramid at the very bottom 553 00:44:37,760 --> 00:44:40,960 You're in a leadership position, right and people are going to follow you 554 00:44:41,440 --> 00:44:43,840 Only because of your position because they have to 555 00:44:44,400 --> 00:44:50,000 What you want to do is get to the next level is where people are following you because they want to because you have a 556 00:44:50,080 --> 00:44:53,280 relationship with them then you want to get to the next level where 557 00:44:54,400 --> 00:44:55,600 people 558 00:44:55,600 --> 00:45:00,640 Follow you because of the results you produce then you want to get to the next level level four because people 559 00:45:01,280 --> 00:45:04,560 Uh, know what you've done for them, right? You're developing other people 560 00:45:04,560 --> 00:45:07,680 You're taking people under your wing and then the next level the fifth one 561 00:45:07,920 --> 00:45:11,040 People follow you because they know what you're about and your reputation, right? 562 00:45:11,120 --> 00:45:12,960 And so fifth is like the ultimate peak 563 00:45:13,040 --> 00:45:16,880 But a lot of us stay at that level one because we're like, oh, yeah, i'm the boss 564 00:45:17,200 --> 00:45:19,280 I'm in charts like people got to do what I say 565 00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:24,320 But I found that in order to leave people well and to get more done in the organization 566 00:45:24,320 --> 00:45:29,680 You have to create relational equity with people and again, you don't have to be their very best friend 567 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:35,440 But like checking in on them being like, hey, how are you doing taking a interest in their personal life again? 568 00:45:35,760 --> 00:45:39,600 Like I said, you don't have to be best friends, but letting them know. Hey like we're in this together 569 00:45:39,840 --> 00:45:45,520 I'm not lording over you like I'm not just pointing and barking orders like I'm in the mud with you 570 00:45:45,600 --> 00:45:50,800 And we're going to get this done together and that's when you start moving up those levels of leadership 571 00:45:50,800 --> 00:45:54,400 And the more the higher you move up the more you get people to follow you 572 00:45:54,720 --> 00:46:01,600 And so yeah, that's a little leadership tip from uh, john Maxwell via christopher. Yeah, so yeah, there we go 573 00:46:02,080 --> 00:46:08,240 Good stuff, man. Um, so mine for this week. It's really really hard and i'm going to use a 574 00:46:09,200 --> 00:46:11,200 aviation analogy it's 575 00:46:11,200 --> 00:46:20,400 You always take off and you always land in the wind no matter into the wind no matter when 576 00:46:21,280 --> 00:46:24,480 Life is getting tough whenever life is kind of not tough 577 00:46:24,640 --> 00:46:27,360 You always got to think whether the wind's calm or the wind's blowing 578 00:46:27,600 --> 00:46:31,920 That's always the direction you have to land with it. It's never going to be easy to do anything 579 00:46:32,320 --> 00:46:34,320 And it's definitely not going to be easy 580 00:46:34,320 --> 00:46:41,680 Um starting something or finishing something right so the thing is remember you're going to face that resistance 581 00:46:42,080 --> 00:46:44,320 But most of the time when you're facing that resistance 582 00:46:44,400 --> 00:46:47,600 It means that you're pushing on what you need to push on 583 00:46:48,080 --> 00:46:52,480 In order to make your life better or to take that next step and whatever your goal is 584 00:46:52,880 --> 00:46:57,520 So just remember man, you feel that wind against you all that's going to do is lift you off 585 00:46:57,760 --> 00:47:02,240 And if you feel that wind against you and you slow it down because you're about to finish up whatever it is 586 00:47:02,240 --> 00:47:06,640 Uh, it's calling it's going to take you home as well. So just remember that 587 00:47:06,960 --> 00:47:11,040 Um, but you have me what what an episode you got to got to love it 588 00:47:11,360 --> 00:47:13,040 um 589 00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:18,640 You know went a little long, but you got to love those little long episodes because we we like to talk we like to talk 590 00:47:18,720 --> 00:47:21,040 So that's good stuff, man, but um 591 00:47:21,840 --> 00:47:23,840 This point we got to plug everything 592 00:47:24,080 --> 00:47:28,160 Um got to got to talk about it man. We've changed up a few things, right? 593 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:32,720 We changed up a few things at this point in the episode. I normally tell you to go to our socials 594 00:47:33,280 --> 00:47:37,920 Um, and I'm going to tell you to do the same thing, but uh, facebook instagram 595 00:47:38,400 --> 00:47:44,720 We are trash can network at trash can network. So go find us over there like subscribe on that good jazz 596 00:47:44,960 --> 00:47:46,960 But chris, I don't have anything else 597 00:47:47,040 --> 00:47:51,520 Um, do you have anything else before we take this donut box out to the trash? I have to say is 598 00:47:52,160 --> 00:47:53,920 We are the world 599 00:47:53,920 --> 00:47:55,920 We are the children 600 00:47:55,920 --> 00:47:58,720 We're living we are trash can make make up 601 00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:05,440 Something something so let's start. I don't know what michael jackson said on that song anyways 602 00:48:05,760 --> 00:48:09,120 Uh, yeah, I'm ready to take the trash out to the trash can all right, man 603 00:48:09,120 --> 00:48:27,120 Well, I'm michael and I'm chris and this is the donut box party 604 00:48:39,120 --> 00:48:43,120 We are the world 605 00:48:45,280 --> 00:48:47,280 We are the children 606 00:48:48,560 --> 00:48:53,280 We are the ones to make the brighter day so let's start giving 607 00:48:53,280 --> 00:49:07,280 There's a choice for me