Hello boys and girls, how's it going? My name is Lily Monroe and you're listening to Escort Confessions.
Thank you so much for tuning in today. I really appreciate you and your time to listen to my pretty voice.
But today I am going to talk about the biggest misconceptions about sex workers. So here we go.
Misconception number one. People think that escorts get paid for sex, which is not true.
Escort is someone who arranges meeting with a client and gets paid for her companionship.
Getting paid for companionship is legal, while paying for sex is illegal.
And you know, I'm an escort and I can count a handful of times that I was not being paid to have sex.
So yeah, like most of the time people book me for companionship, for social dates.
Like on social dates we just go to movie theaters, we go have dinner. So escorts get paid for their companionship.
Prostitutes are the ones who solicit on the streets and that is illegal.
So prostitute can charge you 30 bucks for a blowjob. Escorts charge at least 300 dollars an hour.
So yeah, and advice to those sex workers or escorts who are just setting out, you should not charge less than 300 dollars.
And you should not do 30 minute appointments. A lot of fuckwords just ask me, hey, do you do half hour sessions?
I'm like, I can, you just have to pay me the same because I am getting paid for my time, not for the service.
So there's that. Misconception number two. Escorts are for wealthy people only.
That is so not true. I know so many, you know, 9 to 5 guys or guys who work 9 to 5 and they manage to save up and still see me.
I definitely do not see like super wealthy people. I see people who own their own business, who work a lot and they're just regular people like you and me.
So, you know, and yeah, escorts, they're not just for wealthy people. So I don't care what you see on TV. I don't care.
It's probably very misleading. Like pretty woman, it could happen. It could.
But it's so rare that a prostitute, you know, would find a millionaire and then they would fall in love and get married.
Like it could happen, but it's very rarely. Also, slightly off topic. There are a lot of TV shows.
There's a lot of movies about sex workers. But I think that the closest one would be Good Luck to You, Leo Grande.
It is on either Amazon Prime or Hulu. And it's a really good movie.
Like I would highly recommend watching it because it has like Emma Thompson in it and really gorgeous guy whose name I forgot.
But it's like the closest thing to, you know, knowing about what sex worker does, what escort does.
So, yeah, so it's called Good Luck to You, Leo Grande.
Misconception number three. Sex workers are being forced into it, which we are not.
A lot of I know a lot of girls and it is their own choice to become an escort.
But if you are being forced into prostitution, that is human trafficking and that is not OK.
Like, for example, in my experience, I was broke as fuck during covid and my friend got me into it.
And I had a choice to either not get into it or get into it. So I got into it and I was not forced into it.
It was my own choice to start making money. And I'm doing pretty good right now. So I'm glad I took the risk.
I'm glad I made that choice. So yay.
There are a lot of girls who choose to become sex workers, to pay for their college and university, to support their families.
So, yeah, honestly, it is a choice. I think everything is a choice.
So I hope that misconception clears it out. Misconception number four. Escorts are only for men.
That is so not true because I'm a female escort, as you can tell from my voice.
I've booked a female provider before and I would love to book two lesbian female providers because I watch a lot of lesbian porn and I quite enjoy looking at it.
There are a lot of gorgeous women out there. So, you know, a lot of escorts or a lot of regular people, they are women.
They book male escorts. I'm a female. I would love to book a male escort.
Hopefully someday soon for my birthday, preferably two male escorts so we could hang out and have fun and whatnot.
So, yeah, you know, booking escorts is for everybody. There's a lot of males who book trans people.
There's a lot of females who book trans people as well and non-binary. So it's for everybody, honestly.
Misconception number five. It's only for those who are looking for sex. And no, that is not true.
In my personal experience, a lot of clients book me for connection, for chemistry, because a lot of them feel lonely and just want intimacy and just want hugs and to be loved, to be appreciated, to be cared for.
And a lot of single guys, they, I mean, we went out to restaurants and had social date and they just want companionship. They want a friend.
Misconception number six. It's degrading to women. Absolutely not. I love this profession. I am super, super happy. A friend of mine got me into it.
You know, I do not think that it's degrading to have sex. I do not think it's degrading to care for someone and to listen to someone and provide companionship to someone.
But it's not degrading at all. Those people who say that it's degrading are those who don't know shit about this industry, those who are not in the industry and those who just assume or watch too much television that provides fake information about escorts.
And, you know, a lot of escorts, they do it by choice. If they don't do it by choice, they are forced into it and they are probably prostitutes.
And there's that. And like, trust me when I say this, a lot of escorts, we are very open minded. We are self-sufficient. We are independent, empowered women who are very well paid for our time and services.
And we do manage this business on our own schedule. And we offer services that we are comfortable with. So it is not degrading at all.
Misconception number seven. It's unsafe and dangerous.
No, that is very far from the truth. You know, as professional escort, I can tell you that I do everything protected, you know, whether it's, you know, doing sexy time with a condom on, you know, oral sex, I do with a flavored condom on because you can still get STDs that way.
Yeah, believe it or not, please do research on any STD that you can think of before coming to a provider.
And, you know, just in general, in case you have not taken a health class in high school or in middle school, I think I took mine in middle school. So, yeah, that was an interesting experience.
Yeah. So, so, yeah, I do everything protected. I make sure that the client is comfortable having intercourse with me or, you know, he's comfortable being there.
And, you know, because if client is not comfortable being there, if like I could read body language, if I can see that something is wrong, I'll talk to him. I'll communicate as best as I can with him. And if it doesn't work out, it doesn't work out.
You know, you don't have to be there if you don't want to. So, yeah, everything is consensual and very, very safe. So for both of us, because health is more important than getting STD for the rest of your life.
So, but, you know, thankfully, a lot of STDs are treatable. So, yay. Misconception number eight. It glorifies drug and alcohol abuse.
No, it does not. So the only drugs I take are mushrooms, weed, and sometimes, at all. But I would not say that, you know, mushrooms are or acid or weed are drugs because they're kind of recreational drugs.
But anyways, I'm getting a little distracted. You know, it does not glorify drug use. I have not seen a provider who has meth teeth or does cocaine in front of a client.
I've never seen a client do cocaine in front of me or any other type of drug whatsoever.
I mean, I do smoke joint with someone, but it's super recreational. I love weed and I don't think weed is a drug because you cannot addicted to it.
So, but you could get addicted to Xanax or, you know, those pharmaceutical pills. So, yeah. And, you know, if somebody is escorting for for just drugs, that's a prostitute. You probably should not see a person like that.
So go for escorts. Go to like professional escorts who, you know, charged by the hour. They do not. They do not say like, oh, I can have sex with you for 50 bucks and that will give me enough for coke.
So, yeah, don't be that client who comes to prostitute. So, yeah.
Misconception number nine. It's an easy way to make easy money. You know, again, in my personal experience, yes, it is.
But on daily basis, I have to deal with a bunch of time wasters who ask me if I am available, who are not serious bookers.
And I also get to deal with not clients who cannot read the ad or my website where I particularly ask for screening information.
So basically, I have to deal with a lot of fucking idiots. But those those guys who are professional, they send me their screening.
And, you know, like it takes time to set the meeting up. It takes time to for them to do a deposit. And it's usually pretty easy.
Like, it should not take you more than 10 minutes to do the whole screening process. If anything, it should take you like five.
But, yeah, I know I know a lot of clients like they have problems with cash up Venmo, a lot of digital stuff, which I know I know, guys, it can be a hassle.
But I have a separate podcast episode about deposits and cancellation fees.
So you should listen to that if you are curious why deposits are made and whatnot, since I'm talking about it.
But, yeah, it's not always easy for me. It's easy because I talk a lot. I like meeting new people.
I, you know, I'm pretty real during the meetings, like I cannot fake my persona.
Like, I know some providers, they do that. They have fake name. They have fake attitude. They have fake personality.
And then you have this whole, you know, fake attitude during clients visit. And that must be really hard to fake everything.
But, yeah, no, it's easy for me because, again, I like meeting new people. I like to listen to them.
I like hearing their story. And I'm pretty down to earth. So it's like going on a date pretty much, except we do it really fast instead of going around the circles like, OK, when can we meet up and whatnot?
So I would say it's pretty easy for me. But, yeah, it just takes a lot of patience and time and energy.
But it's totally worth it for me. And I do hope for the clients and for my future clients who will keep coming back for more sexy time with Lily Monroe.
And the last misconception about sex workers is that we are miserable and do not like sex, which, you know,
as someone who loves sex and is definitely not miserable, I can tell you that is false.
Like that misconception is false because a lot of escorts, they are traveling companions.
They get to see the world. And I feel like when you travel, like you cannot be miserable.
Like you're in a different country on a yacht or like you're in a different country exploring ruins of abandoned castles or, gosh, I don't like like you're in Paris and you're getting paid to be in Paris.
You get to, you know, get paid, be paid as a companion who's going to climb the Eiffel Tower.
And I don't think you can be miserable doing that, honestly. A lot of escorts, they have so much money.
I mean, it's a good paying job. And I mean, yeah, sometimes it can be a job.
But I, you know, if an escort is indeed miserable, then I feel like she should quit the job or just take a break.
So, yeah, because I've been told by different clients who came to see me was because the providers that they saw before that, before me, were just like, did not look like they enjoyed the experience.
They did not look like they wanted to be there, like with the clients.
So if you are a provider, if you are feeling burnt out, if you are miserable doing it, you either should quit or take a break because it is a demanding job.
You get to, I don't know, like I get exhausted if I see four clients a day and I have to take a nap.
And it can drain me because not only because of sex, but because of, I don't know, talking, I guess, I don't know.
But yeah, four clients a day can be quite exhausting.
But yeah, I do not know, like personally, I do not know of any escorts who are miserable because it's hard to be miserable when you're making at least 300 bucks an hour.
So when most people make, I don't know, like 120 bucks an hour or sorry, sorry, no, no, no, 15, 15 bucks an hour, if not less.
So, yeah, so there's that misconception.
Escorts do not like sex.
Like, I don't believe that.
I love sex.
Before becoming an escort, this is like, I'm just gonna tell you a little bit, bit piece of myself.
So I was engaged twice and sex was anything but exciting.
And then I started to date, whoring around for free, and I was so miserable because sex was not good.
I think I had, like, I was on set one time and I had this, I met this amazing guy and we're still friends.
And I thought I had the best sex with him.
But then I became an escort and I'm like, oh my God, that was nothing.
Like, I'm having like some real sex here.
And I became more sexually active.
I became, you know, more hornier and whatnot.
And I freaking love sex.
Like, it's such a fun experience.
It's, you know, for a second I thought, well, after three months of doing it, I seriously thought I became like a sex addict because I craved sex.
I mean, there's so many positions you can try.
There's, you know, so many penises and vaginas to experience.
Like, every sexual organ is different.
And like, for penises, like, I like a certain girth and I like a certain length.
That works for my genitals.
So, yeah.
But that's a separate story.
So, I think a lot of escorts are pretty happy with their lives.
They're making good money and they like sex.
That's why they're doing this type of work.
Like, we are getting paid to have orgasms.
So, it's kind of hard to be miserable.
So, yeah, I really hope you guys learned something new that I got to clear out a lot of those misconceptions.
And, yeah, and please tune in for the next episode where I am going to talk about how to avoid getting doxxed.
And feel free to book me or ask me a question by sending me an email to book.lillymonbrough.gmail.com.
And you have been listening to Ask Your Confessions.
I am your host, Lillie Monroe, and I will talk to you guys next time.