Hey guys, what is going on?
You are listening to Escort Confessions and I am your host, Lily Monroe.
And today I would love to talk about the questions that you should never ask a provider.
So first question is, how old are you?
So first things first, it's very rude to ask a woman that. In my opinion, it doesn't make
any difference because I personally see everybody. I don't care if you're... I was gonna say
16. I don't care if you're 26 or 62. I see every age and it honestly does not matter
to me. As long as you're a good person and as long as you respect me, I will respect
you and so on and so forth. I know lots of providers fake their age online. And when,
you know, a few clients told me that when they would book a provider, they would...
And provider would open the door, they would either see provider who's 10 years older or
10 pounds heavier, if not 20 pounds heavier. So yeah, I personally... My age is listed
in the Trist ad. I have my own website where you could kind of assume how old I am. I always
say I identify as a 23-year-old because I do. I mean, I feel like my life is just getting
started, but even though I'm still in my 20s, but yeah. And, you know, I have been told
I look very young, but also very wise for my age. So yeah, if I feel like telling you,
I will tell you how old I am, but honestly, I don't really see a point in telling people
my age. So yeah. Number two, do you do bareback? Can you do bareback full service? Can we have
it without a condom? Those are the questions that I get asked. I used to get asked a lot
when I first started, but I... You know, sometimes I get one of those guys who are not serious
with booking you or seeing you whatsoever. They just jerk off and like asking those questions.
So I personally do not do anything unprotected unless we are in a relationship. And I know
you're clean, you know I'm clean. So yeah. And it's, you know, I cannot do anything unprotected
with a person I met 20 minutes ago who's already asking me that. So there's that. I don't give
uncovered blow jobs because first of all, I don't really like the taste of penises,
certain penises. You could still get, you know, HIV, you can still get herpes through
that. It's like it doesn't matter if it's an uncovered blow job or uncovered vaginal
sex, you can still get something. So there's that. In case you guys didn't attend health
class in school or in high school. Yeah. So it's... And I know there's providers out there
who do bear back full service, which is super unsafe. It's super dirty. They probably have
something which is why they might charge way below $300 an hour. It probably would be like
a hundred or so. So I would not go to these providers. But yeah, and I know some providers
they do uncovered blow jobs. That's up to them. So I just do everything safe. I... Because
I'm a... I like to be clean. I like to feel clean and I do not want to get anything that
would potentially ruin the rest of my life. Question number three. When are you coming
to this and this area? So for example, I am asked quite often when am I coming to Texas?
When am I coming to, I don't know, Chicago? When... Like when am I going? So to which
I answer, you know, I offer fly me to you packages where my time will be dedicated only
to you and you only. Or you can pre-book way in advance if I do post a tour to that place.
So like for example, right now I have two upcoming tours to Jacksonville and Washington,
DC. And a few people pre-booked for both of them. But if I am flying, if I have to fly,
I would need at least five inquiries. So I could get a hotel, I could get a rental car,
I could get food. Let's see. Oh, and a plane ticket. Of course, plane ticket. Super important.
So if I only get one inquiry and my flight costs like 500 bucks and the rest like, yeah,
and the rest costs, you know, a certain amount and the person is only paying me 500, guess
what, I'm losing money. I'm losing money and it's not good. So I, you know, if I go somewhere,
I try to plan ahead, I post tours everywhere including Twitter, including Instagram, my
website, Trist, pretty much everywhere I could post it. So yeah, it's just up to you guys
to read the ad, to pre-book and yeah, and then we can see each other. So pre-booking
is basically like sending me your screening information and possibly doing a deposit if
I confirm the time and date, which I require deposited away, but you know, sometimes I
have to see if I can go there in the first place. So yeah, so pre-booking is sending
deposits, sending, screening. So that way I could like put you on schedule. I'm like,
yes, this guy is serious. Let's do this. So yeah, and for example, if I'm going somewhere
a couple of hours away, I need at least three inquiries. That way it's, you know, it's enough
for guests and the hotel and the food because your girls gotta eat. So yeah, please don't
ask providers like when are you going to be here or here because they will answer probably
in the same way that I would. Yeah, either fly me to you or keep up with my tours. Go
to my website, like go and read the ad, get familiar if the tour to your hometown is not
there. Guess what? I'm not going to be there. So yeah. Question number four. Do you do duels
with another provider? And do you know other providers who are available in the area right
now? To which I say to the first question, no, I do not do duels with another provider
because it's really hard to find a good provider. It's really hard to find a real provider who
doesn't fake her whole personality, who's not fake in general, who doesn't fake have
fake anything. Like I want the natural because that's what I am. I'm all natural and I know
lots of girls have implants and fake, fake boobs, fake pussies, fake, oh, sorry, sorry,
fake with JJs, fake lips, fake attitudes, fake personality or one dimensional personality.
And I do not want to do duels with somebody like that. And you know, if I ever meet a
girl who's a provider, who's super cool, who's super down to earth, super chill, 420 friendly,
she's creative, basically someone like me, like I would totally do duels with her. Yeah.
So yeah. Do I want to do duels right now at this point in life? Probably not, but maybe
down the road if I can find the right girl because it's really hard to find a good and
cool provider. And yeah, would I do a duel with a male provider? Fuck yeah, would. That'd
be awesome. And you know, would not feel, I guess it's threatened. No, I guess that's
not the right word. It would be really interesting because I don't know, I think having threesomes
with a male provider and a man or a male provider and a female and me would be super cool. So
yeah, would be pretty cool. I would totally be down to it if of course male provider is
same as female provider taking health precautions. We are on the same page. He's super cool.
He's down to earth. He's communicative. Then yeah, I would definitely do a duel with somebody
like that. And the second question, if you know other providers in the area, like first
of all, I'm not social. I do not socialize because I mostly hang out at home. I kind
of do my own stuff. I have shit enough projects that I gotta finish. And yeah, so it's like,
I know I don't socialize with other providers as much who are local. So I cannot answer
that really. And from what clients told me, the ones in my area, they offer GFE, they
offer other services. They look older in real life and it's not something I want other people
to experience too. And it's not somebody I would send my client to. So yeah, so there's
like bunch of fake advertising out there. And because I don't know these providers,
I am not going to recommend them. And some of them, they charge way too much. Like I
get it. I get it. Like providers get paid for their time, not just the services. But
it's like in the area that could afford $400 an hour, you cannot ask for more than a thousand.
So there's that. There's that. I hope that answered those questions. Also, continuation
to question number four, if you do deals with another provider. So if it's not listed in
provider's website, ad, or anywhere on the social media, then no, they do not do deals
with another provider. Question number five, do not ask a provider if she's available.
Or it's either over email or text. Like I get so many like, hi, you're available or
hi, or hey, my name's Josh. I'll send deposit once you confirm. I'd love to see you today
as soon as possible. Like, no, no, no, no, no. If you want to book a provider, you do
not ask her if she's available because first of all, that's not a serious question. Second
of all, we need screening. So we would not let a complete stranger into our home. And
yeah, like the guys who ask, are you available or available or hi? Yeah, they they're not
serious. They're just time racers is what we call them in this industry, or dummies
or idiots. So yeah, don't be that guy. Don't ask if a provider is available. Just send
the screening she requires with the ad, read her website. Then if you're a smart one, you
will end up seeing her because most of the providers they accept screening, they they
like serious people. They like serious clients. So be that guy. Be the serious one. Yeah.
Okay, and I'm going to finish off with saying that, and it's not it's not a question that
you should not ask a provider, but it's rather saying to the provider, I want I want to rescue
you from this job. I want to be here. I want to pay for you. I want to support you. I want
to marry you and, you know, travel the world with you. And I don't want you to be working
this job anymore. It's so degrading. Like I would not be that guy who says that. Like,
we have a certain definition for the type of person. And look, most of us choose this
job. And like the fact that you guys, some of you guys think that you can rescue us from
it. It's not helping. Like, I love my job. I love what I do. Sometimes it does not feel
like job because I get to be myself. I get to meet this person. I get to spend time with
them. So and we both get laid. So it's perfect. It's a win win for everybody. But yeah, I
would just not not be that guy like, look, no, you should not. You should not do this
anymore. I will rescue you. I will help you out with everything. That's yeah, that's a
no no. So don't be that guy. But yeah, this was those are all the questions I could think
of to not ask a provider. And if you guys have any questions, please feel free to email
me at book.lilymonbrow.gmail.com. And you guys can go on my website. It's www.lilymonbrow.com.
Lily is with two L's. So yeah. And this was Ask A Confessions. I'm your host Lily Monbrow
and I will talk to you guys next time.