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Hey guys, what is going on?

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You are listening to Escort Confessions and I am your host, Lily Monroe.

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And today I would love to talk about the questions that you should never ask a provider.

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So first question is, how old are you?

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So first things first, it's very rude to ask a woman that. In my opinion, it doesn't make

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any difference because I personally see everybody. I don't care if you're... I was gonna say

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16. I don't care if you're 26 or 62. I see every age and it honestly does not matter

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to me. As long as you're a good person and as long as you respect me, I will respect

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you and so on and so forth. I know lots of providers fake their age online. And when,

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you know, a few clients told me that when they would book a provider, they would...

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And provider would open the door, they would either see provider who's 10 years older or

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10 pounds heavier, if not 20 pounds heavier. So yeah, I personally... My age is listed

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in the Trist ad. I have my own website where you could kind of assume how old I am. I always

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say I identify as a 23-year-old because I do. I mean, I feel like my life is just getting

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started, but even though I'm still in my 20s, but yeah. And, you know, I have been told

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I look very young, but also very wise for my age. So yeah, if I feel like telling you,

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I will tell you how old I am, but honestly, I don't really see a point in telling people

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my age. So yeah. Number two, do you do bareback? Can you do bareback full service? Can we have

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it without a condom? Those are the questions that I get asked. I used to get asked a lot

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when I first started, but I... You know, sometimes I get one of those guys who are not serious

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with booking you or seeing you whatsoever. They just jerk off and like asking those questions.

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So I personally do not do anything unprotected unless we are in a relationship. And I know

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you're clean, you know I'm clean. So yeah. And it's, you know, I cannot do anything unprotected

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with a person I met 20 minutes ago who's already asking me that. So there's that. I don't give

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uncovered blow jobs because first of all, I don't really like the taste of penises,

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certain penises. You could still get, you know, HIV, you can still get herpes through

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that. It's like it doesn't matter if it's an uncovered blow job or uncovered vaginal

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sex, you can still get something. So there's that. In case you guys didn't attend health

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class in school or in high school. Yeah. So it's... And I know there's providers out there

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who do bear back full service, which is super unsafe. It's super dirty. They probably have

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something which is why they might charge way below $300 an hour. It probably would be like

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a hundred or so. So I would not go to these providers. But yeah, and I know some providers

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they do uncovered blow jobs. That's up to them. So I just do everything safe. I... Because

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I'm a... I like to be clean. I like to feel clean and I do not want to get anything that

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would potentially ruin the rest of my life. Question number three. When are you coming

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to this and this area? So for example, I am asked quite often when am I coming to Texas?

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When am I coming to, I don't know, Chicago? When... Like when am I going? So to which

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I answer, you know, I offer fly me to you packages where my time will be dedicated only

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to you and you only. Or you can pre-book way in advance if I do post a tour to that place.

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So like for example, right now I have two upcoming tours to Jacksonville and Washington,

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DC. And a few people pre-booked for both of them. But if I am flying, if I have to fly,

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I would need at least five inquiries. So I could get a hotel, I could get a rental car,

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I could get food. Let's see. Oh, and a plane ticket. Of course, plane ticket. Super important.

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So if I only get one inquiry and my flight costs like 500 bucks and the rest like, yeah,

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and the rest costs, you know, a certain amount and the person is only paying me 500, guess

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what, I'm losing money. I'm losing money and it's not good. So I, you know, if I go somewhere,

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I try to plan ahead, I post tours everywhere including Twitter, including Instagram, my

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website, Trist, pretty much everywhere I could post it. So yeah, it's just up to you guys

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to read the ad, to pre-book and yeah, and then we can see each other. So pre-booking

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is basically like sending me your screening information and possibly doing a deposit if

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I confirm the time and date, which I require deposited away, but you know, sometimes I

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have to see if I can go there in the first place. So yeah, so pre-booking is sending

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deposits, sending, screening. So that way I could like put you on schedule. I'm like,

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yes, this guy is serious. Let's do this. So yeah, and for example, if I'm going somewhere

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a couple of hours away, I need at least three inquiries. That way it's, you know, it's enough

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for guests and the hotel and the food because your girls gotta eat. So yeah, please don't

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ask providers like when are you going to be here or here because they will answer probably

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in the same way that I would. Yeah, either fly me to you or keep up with my tours. Go

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to my website, like go and read the ad, get familiar if the tour to your hometown is not

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there. Guess what? I'm not going to be there. So yeah. Question number four. Do you do duels

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with another provider? And do you know other providers who are available in the area right

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now? To which I say to the first question, no, I do not do duels with another provider

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because it's really hard to find a good provider. It's really hard to find a real provider who

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doesn't fake her whole personality, who's not fake in general, who doesn't fake have

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fake anything. Like I want the natural because that's what I am. I'm all natural and I know

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lots of girls have implants and fake, fake boobs, fake pussies, fake, oh, sorry, sorry,

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fake with JJs, fake lips, fake attitudes, fake personality or one dimensional personality.

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And I do not want to do duels with somebody like that. And you know, if I ever meet a

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girl who's a provider, who's super cool, who's super down to earth, super chill, 420 friendly,

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she's creative, basically someone like me, like I would totally do duels with her. Yeah.

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So yeah. Do I want to do duels right now at this point in life? Probably not, but maybe

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down the road if I can find the right girl because it's really hard to find a good and

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cool provider. And yeah, would I do a duel with a male provider? Fuck yeah, would. That'd

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be awesome. And you know, would not feel, I guess it's threatened. No, I guess that's

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not the right word. It would be really interesting because I don't know, I think having threesomes

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with a male provider and a man or a male provider and a female and me would be super cool. So

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yeah, would be pretty cool. I would totally be down to it if of course male provider is

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same as female provider taking health precautions. We are on the same page. He's super cool.

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He's down to earth. He's communicative. Then yeah, I would definitely do a duel with somebody

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like that. And the second question, if you know other providers in the area, like first

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of all, I'm not social. I do not socialize because I mostly hang out at home. I kind

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of do my own stuff. I have shit enough projects that I gotta finish. And yeah, so it's like,

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I know I don't socialize with other providers as much who are local. So I cannot answer

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that really. And from what clients told me, the ones in my area, they offer GFE, they

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offer other services. They look older in real life and it's not something I want other people

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to experience too. And it's not somebody I would send my client to. So yeah, so there's

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like bunch of fake advertising out there. And because I don't know these providers,

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I am not going to recommend them. And some of them, they charge way too much. Like I

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get it. I get it. Like providers get paid for their time, not just the services. But

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it's like in the area that could afford $400 an hour, you cannot ask for more than a thousand.

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So there's that. There's that. I hope that answered those questions. Also, continuation

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to question number four, if you do deals with another provider. So if it's not listed in

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provider's website, ad, or anywhere on the social media, then no, they do not do deals

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with another provider. Question number five, do not ask a provider if she's available.

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Or it's either over email or text. Like I get so many like, hi, you're available or

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hi, or hey, my name's Josh. I'll send deposit once you confirm. I'd love to see you today

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as soon as possible. Like, no, no, no, no, no. If you want to book a provider, you do

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not ask her if she's available because first of all, that's not a serious question. Second

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of all, we need screening. So we would not let a complete stranger into our home. And

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yeah, like the guys who ask, are you available or available or hi? Yeah, they they're not

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serious. They're just time racers is what we call them in this industry, or dummies

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or idiots. So yeah, don't be that guy. Don't ask if a provider is available. Just send

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the screening she requires with the ad, read her website. Then if you're a smart one, you

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will end up seeing her because most of the providers they accept screening, they they

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like serious people. They like serious clients. So be that guy. Be the serious one. Yeah.

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Okay, and I'm going to finish off with saying that, and it's not it's not a question that

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you should not ask a provider, but it's rather saying to the provider, I want I want to rescue

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you from this job. I want to be here. I want to pay for you. I want to support you. I want

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to marry you and, you know, travel the world with you. And I don't want you to be working

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this job anymore. It's so degrading. Like I would not be that guy who says that. Like,

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we have a certain definition for the type of person. And look, most of us choose this

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job. And like the fact that you guys, some of you guys think that you can rescue us from

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it. It's not helping. Like, I love my job. I love what I do. Sometimes it does not feel

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like job because I get to be myself. I get to meet this person. I get to spend time with

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them. So and we both get laid. So it's perfect. It's a win win for everybody. But yeah, I

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would just not not be that guy like, look, no, you should not. You should not do this

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anymore. I will rescue you. I will help you out with everything. That's yeah, that's a

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no no. So don't be that guy. But yeah, this was those are all the questions I could think

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of to not ask a provider. And if you guys have any questions, please feel free to email

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me at book.lilymonbrow.gmail.com. And you guys can go on my website. It's www.lilymonbrow.com.

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Lily is with two L's. So yeah. And this was Ask A Confessions. I'm your host Lily Monbrow

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and I will talk to you guys next time.