1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:08,880 Hello, hello, hello! 2 00:00:08,880 --> 00:00:12,800 My name is Lily Monroe and you're listening to Escort Confessions. 3 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:15,720 Thank you so much for tuning in today. 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:21,560 I really appreciate your support and I hope you're having a great day right now. 5 00:00:21,560 --> 00:00:26,800 And yeah, so today I'm going to talk about dating apps. 6 00:00:26,800 --> 00:00:33,560 So dating apps have been quite a while here, you know, I don't know about you guys, but 7 00:00:33,560 --> 00:00:41,960 I first got on Tinder in 2018 and it was a shit show back then and it's still a shit 8 00:00:41,960 --> 00:00:42,960 show now. 9 00:00:42,960 --> 00:00:46,720 Like I don't even know if there's people on Tinder anymore because of how much bad 10 00:00:46,720 --> 00:00:48,960 web it's gotten. 11 00:00:48,960 --> 00:00:54,440 So yeah, like Tinder, Tinder is just interesting. 12 00:00:54,440 --> 00:00:55,760 People go there to hook up. 13 00:00:55,760 --> 00:00:56,760 That's it. 14 00:00:56,760 --> 00:00:59,680 It's not a relationship site anymore. 15 00:00:59,680 --> 00:01:05,040 And yeah, let's not forget about the Tinder Swindler, the dude who scammed a lot of rich 16 00:01:05,040 --> 00:01:07,880 white girls, I mean women. 17 00:01:07,880 --> 00:01:14,560 And let's not forget about serial killers that got unfamous because of Tinder, because 18 00:01:14,560 --> 00:01:20,360 they basically like the dude would swipe right on girls and then he would meet them and he 19 00:01:20,360 --> 00:01:21,360 would murder them. 20 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,880 So and there's a bunch of those apparently. 21 00:01:23,880 --> 00:01:27,080 So yeah, so Tinder. 22 00:01:27,080 --> 00:01:28,080 Yeah. 23 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:32,440 Then in 2019 I registered on Hinge. 24 00:01:32,440 --> 00:01:35,480 I'm like, I'm going to give it another shot. 25 00:01:35,480 --> 00:01:42,880 I was single back then and way before sex work, way before I became a provider and Hinge 26 00:01:42,880 --> 00:01:45,400 is the app that's meant to be deleted. 27 00:01:45,400 --> 00:01:49,920 And I did delete it indeed because I did not meet any cool people. 28 00:01:49,920 --> 00:01:56,120 I actually met a lot of like one night stands and time wasters and when I'm, I'm a hopeless 29 00:01:56,120 --> 00:02:01,700 romantic with a dirty mind, like I believe in, well, it's kind of ironic for me to say 30 00:02:01,700 --> 00:02:06,000 because I'm a provider, but I do believe that there is that special soulmate. 31 00:02:06,000 --> 00:02:14,080 I do believe that there's the one and I do believe in monogamy and I feel like if you 32 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:17,800 really love your partner, you do not need anybody else. 33 00:02:17,800 --> 00:02:24,360 Like I am in love with somebody and I honestly like look at other guys and I just don't see 34 00:02:24,360 --> 00:02:25,360 it happening. 35 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:26,720 Like I'm not interested in other guys. 36 00:02:26,720 --> 00:02:28,080 I'm interested in that one person. 37 00:02:28,080 --> 00:02:31,360 So but yeah, there's some personal stuff. 38 00:02:31,360 --> 00:02:32,360 You're welcome. 39 00:02:32,360 --> 00:02:35,840 But yeah, and Hinge. 40 00:02:35,840 --> 00:02:40,600 Yeah, not never again, never again. 41 00:02:40,600 --> 00:02:47,560 So then I had an emotional breakdown recently and I'm like, you know what? 42 00:02:47,560 --> 00:02:52,520 I'm going to register on Bumble, which is kind of, I know a few of my friends from personal 43 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:57,760 life, they registered on there and they met really good women. 44 00:02:57,760 --> 00:03:01,440 So I'm like, okay, well maybe for guys it's a little different. 45 00:03:01,440 --> 00:03:03,080 You know, there's a bunch of women on there. 46 00:03:03,080 --> 00:03:05,200 There's a bunch of men there. 47 00:03:05,200 --> 00:03:12,240 And so I registered and I did not realize how picky I was until until Bumble said that 48 00:03:12,240 --> 00:03:16,200 there's no people in your area. 49 00:03:16,200 --> 00:03:18,600 Because I tried to adjust the filters. 50 00:03:18,600 --> 00:03:19,680 I'm like, okay, fine. 51 00:03:19,680 --> 00:03:27,600 Let's do 25 until 50 years old, up to 30 miles, for example, showed a lot of people and then 52 00:03:27,600 --> 00:03:32,120 I ran out again of people to swipe right on. 53 00:03:32,120 --> 00:03:40,720 So and like I honestly wanted to get some free food, make friends and get, get, you 54 00:03:40,720 --> 00:03:46,180 know, more women experience as in like I would meet girls and like do stuff with them. 55 00:03:46,180 --> 00:03:49,360 So I would get more experience for sex work. 56 00:03:49,360 --> 00:03:50,360 Yeah. 57 00:03:50,360 --> 00:03:56,520 So that didn't happen because what happened was that I'm very assertive now. 58 00:03:56,520 --> 00:03:58,920 I'm like, hey, I like you. 59 00:03:58,920 --> 00:04:00,760 I think you're a cool person. 60 00:04:00,760 --> 00:04:01,760 Let's hang out. 61 00:04:01,760 --> 00:04:02,760 What are you doing on Sunday? 62 00:04:02,760 --> 00:04:06,440 I'm free around like 3 p.m. until 9 p.m. 63 00:04:06,440 --> 00:04:12,080 So what happened was two guys offered to take me on a walk and I'm like, well, I can take 64 00:04:12,080 --> 00:04:13,960 my mental walk by myself anytime. 65 00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:18,000 Like take me to dinner, at least throwing the drinks. 66 00:04:18,000 --> 00:04:19,000 Seriously. 67 00:04:19,000 --> 00:04:20,920 Then I had a few guys. 68 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:22,800 They're like, oh, well, I'm leaving town on Sunday. 69 00:04:22,800 --> 00:04:28,000 I'm like, why are you on Bumble in the first place if you're leaving town on Sunday? 70 00:04:28,000 --> 00:04:32,240 If you're like here temporarily, just don't register here. 71 00:04:32,240 --> 00:04:36,080 Like seriously, it's obviously that you're looking for something casual. 72 00:04:36,080 --> 00:04:37,360 You just want sex. 73 00:04:37,360 --> 00:04:43,120 So and there's like even few girls and they, they just never answer. 74 00:04:43,120 --> 00:04:47,800 Like Bumble gives you an option of 24 hours to message the person back. 75 00:04:47,800 --> 00:04:55,000 So like I message first because girls message first on Bumble and a lot of people, they 76 00:04:55,000 --> 00:04:57,280 didn't reply to my messages in 24 hours. 77 00:04:57,280 --> 00:05:02,520 I'm like, OK, well, they're busy or they should not be on here in the first place. 78 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:07,800 If they're not going to respond, like, I don't know, maybe it's the, you know, generation 79 00:05:07,800 --> 00:05:08,800 thing. 80 00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:15,120 I'm just maybe I'm so up to the point of being like, yes, let's hang out this date. 81 00:05:15,120 --> 00:05:16,120 Bam, bam. 82 00:05:16,120 --> 00:05:17,120 I'll make reservations. 83 00:05:17,120 --> 00:05:23,280 Like I have to be the man in on those websites, apparently, because I don't know what's going 84 00:05:23,280 --> 00:05:29,680 on with guys, but they need like lessons on how to be a man instead of boy. 85 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:34,280 So yeah, like even 35 and 45 year olds, they don't know. 86 00:05:34,280 --> 00:05:38,600 They just they can't even keep up the conversation from what I noticed. 87 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,720 And they're like apparently mature age, supposedly mature. 88 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:44,600 So anyways, dating apps suck. 89 00:05:44,600 --> 00:05:48,680 And if you guys are on dating apps, I would just I would just delete it. 90 00:05:48,680 --> 00:05:50,200 I would meet people. 91 00:05:50,200 --> 00:05:54,320 There's shit on a place to meet people, both women and men. 92 00:05:54,320 --> 00:05:57,080 There's coffee shops, there's restaurants. 93 00:05:57,080 --> 00:06:03,120 If you go to the bar and just sit there, you'll meet people like I can guarantee you that 94 00:06:03,120 --> 00:06:06,840 library, museums, art museums. 95 00:06:06,840 --> 00:06:12,200 Like there's like even on the trip, if you're taking a trip somewhere, you'll meet somebody 96 00:06:12,200 --> 00:06:18,360 on the plane, you know, and preferably when they don't wear headphones, because like so 97 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:22,640 many people like I travel a lot and so many people just put on headphones and don't have 98 00:06:22,640 --> 00:06:27,120 real conversation for the whole like five hour flight or two hour flight. 99 00:06:27,120 --> 00:06:28,120 I mean, I get it. 100 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:30,200 But I like real conversations. 101 00:06:30,200 --> 00:06:31,320 I like to talk to people. 102 00:06:31,320 --> 00:06:33,480 I like to get to know their story. 103 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:38,360 So I would just like meet people in public place, just like it was before the dating 104 00:06:38,360 --> 00:06:40,040 apps. 105 00:06:40,040 --> 00:06:43,560 And you know, the more you talk with that person in real life, the more you get to know 106 00:06:43,560 --> 00:06:44,560 them. 107 00:06:44,560 --> 00:06:49,840 And the more you get to know that they're not a criminal or something or a creep or 108 00:06:49,840 --> 00:06:55,200 someone pretending someone they're not like, I think that I've become so jaded with sex 109 00:06:55,200 --> 00:06:59,640 work that I just expect men to behave certain way. 110 00:06:59,640 --> 00:07:04,840 And the reason why like being a provider is because two of us know what we're doing, know 111 00:07:04,840 --> 00:07:09,920 what we're, you know, about to do and here to do like have sex, have a good time, get 112 00:07:09,920 --> 00:07:12,440 paid while I get paid and they get laid. 113 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:14,320 I get paid, you guys get laid. 114 00:07:14,320 --> 00:07:16,320 It works out for both of us. 115 00:07:16,320 --> 00:07:21,120 I registered on Bumble four days ago and I deleted it two days later because it was it 116 00:07:21,120 --> 00:07:28,800 was such a waste of time, like my time, my energy that I would just not recommend it. 117 00:07:28,800 --> 00:07:32,720 Yeah, if you want to hook up with somebody, just pay them. 118 00:07:32,720 --> 00:07:35,280 It'll be totally worth it. 119 00:07:35,280 --> 00:07:40,400 You're going to save so much time and it's a guarantee that you're going to get laid. 120 00:07:40,400 --> 00:07:42,840 So just throwing it out there. 121 00:07:42,840 --> 00:07:49,440 And yeah, so that was me complaining about dating apps and why you shouldn't use them. 122 00:07:49,440 --> 00:07:53,220 So yeah, just go out, meet people in real life. 123 00:07:53,220 --> 00:07:57,360 You're going to make so many friends, so much connections and you're going to get laid. 124 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:58,500 So yeah. 125 00:07:58,500 --> 00:08:02,800 And if not, please contact me so you could get laid. 126 00:08:02,800 --> 00:08:05,000 And yeah, I'm Lily Monroe. 127 00:08:05,000 --> 00:08:32,000 Thank you so much for tuning in today and I will talk to you guys next time.