Hello, hello, hello! My name is Lily Monroe and you're listening to Escort Confessions.
Thank you so much for tuning in today and today and happy February!
Oh, I'm having Valentine's Day specials just in FYI, it's $100 off.
Any service? So please book in advance, that would be super, super great.
Well, unless I'm gonna go on dates. I don't know, I don't know, I might.
I might put like fake engagement rings into like every couple's drink and I'll be like
Ah, you ain't getting married, bitch. I don't know, sorry, I'm just rambling.
I had a little bit of Edroll today, it makes me think and focused, so I'm distracted.
But anyways, yeah, so today's podcast is we're gonna talk about references.
So what is a reference? Reference is like if you are trying to get a new job,
so you put in reference for the old job that you had.
So it's kind of like that with providers and I'm not saying like you're gonna go to your old provider.
So let's have an example. Chad is a regular of Alexa and Mindy, who is a new provider,
who he wants to see, who Chad wants to see, Mindy is asking for two references and driver's license.
So Chad provided driver's license, but he needs two references from previous providers.
So he's like, okay, I'm gonna contact Alexa, I'm gonna give her heads up in advance.
So she can be asking if it's okay to be my reference and Alexa's like, oh, fuck yeah, I'll be your reference.
Thank you so much for asking me. And Alexa or I guess Mindy would message Alexa or email Alexa saying,
hey, Chad provided you as reference. Can you please tell me about your time together?
Can you verify him? And I'm like, yeah, Chad is clean, respectful, super nice.
He has really nice blue eyes, the color of the ocean. And she's like, okay.
Mindy's like, okay, Chad, thank you so much. You're booked. See you on Monday at 8 p.m.
Bam! Simple as that! Simple as that! But yet, when I first started, especially when I first started two years ago now,
gosh, it's been a while, but yeah, I had a lot of my regulars message me asking if I can be the reference.
And I'm like, okay, sure. And I kind of got intimidated because I thought, well, why would they see another provider if I'm here?
And but it's not like that. It's just some clients want a variety.
A lot of clients travel and want to see a local provider. So, yeah, which I totally get.
So my rule is if you're a client of mine or if you have seen me like once or twice, well, I guess. OK.
So here's the thing. If you have seen me once or twice, you got to give me a heads up.
First of all, asking me if it's OK for me to be a reference.
And second of all, just cash out me 25 bucks to be a reference, because I don't know about you guys, but I have pretty busy schedule.
And I'm not just saying that I really do. I'm trying to promote like my acting stuff.
I'm trying to work on the second book and the book series that I have.
I'm trying to host a TED talk about human rights and sex worker rights.
I'm trying to fucking foster those two kittens that I have right now.
And, you know, I have to play with them, shit like that. And I love them. They're great.
And I have to fix my computer and take it to the shop because my battery is dying so fast.
But yeah, anyways, point is, I'm super busy. It takes time for me to write a reference.
It takes time for me to, you know, go to my journal where I have like names and stuff, small details and put that into email.
So there's that. But if you're a regular of mine, which means you see me like, you know, occasionally, regularly, like monthly, weekly basis.
When reference is free, like you already give me a lot of money to like be my regular.
You come and see me. And yeah, so references for regulars are absolutely free.
I drop everything I go type in reference. Bam. It's done.
And, you know, a lot of like people, they don't realize that it's a polite and respectful thing to do to text or email the provider first.
And yeah, it's just a respectful thing to ask first. That way it's like giving our heads like heads up to us.
And I'm like, yes, OK, let me find who it is that's asking me for reference.
So I could be like, OK, well, if this client is on the block list or I've never seen this client, I'm just going to say like, hey, I've never seen this client.
I don't know who the fuck that is.
And yeah, if somehow like a person on my block list contacts me asking for reference, guess fucking what?
I'm going to be honest to the other provider and be like, yeah, he is not clean.
He is not nice. He was pressuring me into doing Greek or something like that, which I do not do.
So, yeah. So and I'm always honest about references.
If a client is good, if we had a great time, I'm going to give a good reference.
And if the guy was OK or if the client is a slobbyist, sorry, hobbyist, I'm going to say that.
So, yeah. So I hope that clarifies a lot of questions for you guys, because, yeah, I had I had like few people tell a new provider that I was the reference and I did not know about it.
I'm like, well, first of all, who is this? I can I see a lot of like, John's and Chad's.
So I can't really give reference if I don't know who that is.
And they didn't let me know if I could be the reference in the first place.
So you do not get a reference. So, yeah.
And I really hope that clarifies a lot of questions. So, yeah.
So, dear clients, if you want me to be your reference, I'd love to please email or text me asking me if it's OK.
If you're a regular, it's free. If you if I've seen you only once or twice, it's going to be twenty five bucks and you can like send it to my cash up or just give it to me in cash.
Next time I see you for like a massage or GFE.
But yeah, and yeah, I'd love to message the other provider.
I love that providers ask for references because it's like an additional screening thing.
So it's like, yes, he's not a criminal. He's pretty cool, dude.
So, yes, you guys have fun together and have a great day.
Yeah. So, yeah. Pretty, pretty simple.
So, yeah, I am Laila Monroe.
And thank you again so much for tuning in today.
You guys are fantastic. Thank you so much for listening to me ramble.
And yeah, I will talk to you next time.