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Alright, number 5.

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Instant red flags.

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When someone wants to book an appointment with me, I look for two, sometimes three things.

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So selfie next to driver's license or ID and social media link.

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So reason for the selfie is that I know you look exactly like your picture.

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I have story about that.

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So a year ago one of my very first clients in Savannah, he did a selfie, but here's the

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thing.

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He took a selfie like way before COVID where he looked somewhat okay and then he showed

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up at my door few hours later and he looked nothing like his picture.

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I mean it was the same person, he just looked like shit.

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So there's that.

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I never saw him again.

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And along with like other reasons.

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So ID or driver's license.

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So I know that you're not a criminal.

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I'm not gonna steal anybody's identity, like that's not what I do and that takes too much

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time.

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I have way too many things to do, more important things.

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So like there's no point in me stealing somebody else's identity, like that's not what I do.

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But yeah, just so I know that you're not a criminal, that's why I ask people to provide

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that screening.

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Social media links.

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So I know you say who you say you are and to see where you work so I can strike up a

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conversation like hey, how long you been an engineer or IT technician, something like

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that.

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And I get a lot of engineers, which is great because it's a very hard profession, like

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I cannot be an engineer.

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So this is like a typical screening process.

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Takes three minutes to do.

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Do a picture, like sharpen the picture next to your ID.

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Send me social media link.

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That's it, like it should not take more than five minutes unless of course you have like

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bad Wi-Fi connection, unless you're like at work and it's...

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Some sex workers ask for two recent provider references.

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Back of the credit or debit card with a male's name.

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That's not for me.

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First of all, a lot of providers I personally had to deal with, they take days and like

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they take forever to answer you back with the short text like hi, Mike or George is

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like good to go, like I saw him on September 1st.

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He was very clean and friendly.

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That's it, like it doesn't take that long.

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And a lot of those providers, they have assistants who do that.

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So I don't do references, it's just way too much time, way too much work and it's just

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a hassle.

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Like I don't do that.

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So second of all, like I do not see, I do not need to see the back of their credit card.

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Like people are already wary of sending a small deposit to girls.

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So why would I put them through that?

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How I identify time waste service is that they send one to a four word text without

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any screening.

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So they failed the first test at reading instructions on my website and ads.

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That's red flag number one.

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And what I do next after that, like I just send them an automatic message to see if they

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will oblige and are professional, if they actually want to see me instead of wasting

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my time.

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And if after that they gonna ghost me or come up with an excuse.

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I honestly just, I use a certain app that I can't say the name of it, but I basically

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block people and like write a small note on the app for other girls to see.

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Like in case client is dangerous, time waster or a scammer or a cop.

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So next, the way that I identify hobbyists or slobbyists is that they are a lot like

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time racers, but like with more effort.

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They will send a short text stating they want to see me, but without any screening.

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Like I also send them automatic text with all of my screening requirements.

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And then, I love this part, they ask if I take P411 or references as screening.

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Some guys even say like excuses like I'm a very discreet person and I'm not comfortable

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with providing screening.

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So like if I understand correctly that these men are too important, too better than everyone

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else, but are comfortable with seeing a complete stranger in a girl's home.

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Like that makes, oh yeah, that makes perfect sense.

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Yeah, yeah, yeah.

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So what P411 is, it's a platform that has kind of mixed reviews to be honest.

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Like it has been said that cops are on there to get the providers to jail and lots of guys

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that only want bare and unprotected sex.

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I only kept it as in a good, well yes, so I only booked like two wonderful amazing jail

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men like from there, from that website.

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Only two, both of them are my regulars, I love them, I love them, they're great.

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They are not hobbyists, they just use that platform, but I know one of them doesn't use

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it anymore because it's silly.

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That platform is silly.

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Yeah, and those like other hobbyists, they just try to surpass the screening process

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and think I'm a dumb blonde.

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Well, first of all, I'm not a blonde, I'm a brunette, but they just think, oh, she must

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be new, she's so dumb.

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But yeah, like the hobbies I dealt with, they're the most gullible sexist and racist trash

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I ever had to deal with, like ever.

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Most of them are doctors.

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Doctors are horrible.

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In my experience, that's just my experience.

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I don't know how it was in other preventive experiences, but yeah, like I would call them

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like, oh, they're just sexist, somebody says pigs, but pigs are clean, adorable and intelligent,

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unlike hobbies.

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So, you know, politicians, celebrities, they book escorts all the time at their own time,

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and still provide screening.

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Like I see it all the time.

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Hobbies are always going to be on the bottom of sex worker industry.

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They're like the lowest of the low.

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So, but you know, point is like, I don't discriminate.

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I don't tell the client's wife or girlfriend that their man is cheating on her or like

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seeing someone else on the side.

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Like I don't judge.

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And the reason that I do the screening is only to protect myself from client hurting

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me or being a criminal.

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So I mean, providers can understand, like lots of guys who are super professional, they

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understand that.

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So I don't know, but I guess time-waste assistance lobbyists can't.

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So yeah.

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All right, last one, number six, wait, no, six and seven.

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That's it.

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So be yourself.

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Being myself is better than basically no one else is better at being me than myself.

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There is no one else with my personality, my quirks and my body in the world, not to

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mention my voice that I could change at any time.

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And like I might have seven doppelgangers, but we are nothing alike.

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I've met some of them.

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They're great, but, but I'm still me.

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So yeah.

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And you know, I hear a lot from other providers that they make up a certain personality.

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They act completely different.

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They act completely different as their sex worker persona.

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And I don't understand that.

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Like why do you have to be fake?

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Why do you have to be someone else?

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Um, it's just, it's just way too much work.

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I don't know.

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Maybe they're used to it, but I'd be like, I have to come up with my own backstory and

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it just takes too much time.

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So yeah, I mean, I might act like someone else on television or TV, but yeah, television,

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but that's a completely different thing.

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Um, but yeah, like final thoughts.

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I have been asking a lot of clients, almost, almost every new client, how their experiences

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have been with other girls.

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Just so I would know that I'm doing everything right.

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That maybe there's some small details I might miss when first seeing like a new person,

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but, um, but most of the experiences that guys had, they have been good.

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So, but there's like some girls who do everything transactionally.

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The guy will come into provider's house or hotel room, pay her and she will take him

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to the bathroom and basically like, okay, like I'm undressed, let's go.

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And that's it.

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Like it's very emotional, very transactional, but again, I do not judge to each their own

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as long as everybody's happy.

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Like some guys though are wild like that.

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They come only for sex, have no conversations or have little conversation like, hi, let's

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go, okay, or they don't have foreplay, but most men crave intimacy.

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Like the single ones who don't have time for relationships, married men whose wife

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is too busy with kids and has no energy to have sex, the divorced ones who want emotional

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connection and mental support who want a friend by their side.

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Like I get intimacy thanks to my job, but I also crave it like more than people think.

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And you know, we all need emotional support and intimacy.

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I mean, that's because we're human and have capacity for emotions.

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So yeah, so this is it.

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I know I probably talked way too fast, but I like being sex worker, but I also need to

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take a break from being Alexa and just being me.

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So yeah, so yeah, in the previous podcast, I did say that I'm going to hiatus.

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Kind of, I mean, I'm still going to take some time off work, but whenever I'm in Savannah,

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I would probably post it on my Trist, on my ad and yeah, book people up and I'm pretty

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sure I'm going to get super busy because I got a few new regulars.

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I already love them.

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And they're great.

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And yeah, so yeah, check back on Trist.

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I'll be posting whenever I'm in Savannah.

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And yeah, thank you so much for tuning in today.

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I know it's been a long podcast today, but I really, really enjoyed talking with you

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guys.

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So yeah, hopefully maybe you've learned some new things as a different provider or client

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or someone who's interested in the industry.

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So yeah, thank you again so much for tuning in today and I hope you have an amazing week.

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Talk to you later.