Alright, number 5.
Instant red flags.
When someone wants to book an appointment with me, I look for two, sometimes three things.
So selfie next to driver's license or ID and social media link.
So reason for the selfie is that I know you look exactly like your picture.
I have story about that.
So a year ago one of my very first clients in Savannah, he did a selfie, but here's the
thing.
He took a selfie like way before COVID where he looked somewhat okay and then he showed
up at my door few hours later and he looked nothing like his picture.
I mean it was the same person, he just looked like shit.
So there's that.
I never saw him again.
And along with like other reasons.
So ID or driver's license.
So I know that you're not a criminal.
I'm not gonna steal anybody's identity, like that's not what I do and that takes too much
time.
I have way too many things to do, more important things.
So like there's no point in me stealing somebody else's identity, like that's not what I do.
But yeah, just so I know that you're not a criminal, that's why I ask people to provide
that screening.
Social media links.
So I know you say who you say you are and to see where you work so I can strike up a
conversation like hey, how long you been an engineer or IT technician, something like
that.
And I get a lot of engineers, which is great because it's a very hard profession, like
I cannot be an engineer.
So this is like a typical screening process.
Takes three minutes to do.
Do a picture, like sharpen the picture next to your ID.
Send me social media link.
That's it, like it should not take more than five minutes unless of course you have like
bad Wi-Fi connection, unless you're like at work and it's...
Some sex workers ask for two recent provider references.
Back of the credit or debit card with a male's name.
That's not for me.
First of all, a lot of providers I personally had to deal with, they take days and like
they take forever to answer you back with the short text like hi, Mike or George is
like good to go, like I saw him on September 1st.
He was very clean and friendly.
That's it, like it doesn't take that long.
And a lot of those providers, they have assistants who do that.
So I don't do references, it's just way too much time, way too much work and it's just
a hassle.
Like I don't do that.
So second of all, like I do not see, I do not need to see the back of their credit card.
Like people are already wary of sending a small deposit to girls.
So why would I put them through that?
How I identify time waste service is that they send one to a four word text without
any screening.
So they failed the first test at reading instructions on my website and ads.
That's red flag number one.
And what I do next after that, like I just send them an automatic message to see if they
will oblige and are professional, if they actually want to see me instead of wasting
my time.
And if after that they gonna ghost me or come up with an excuse.
I honestly just, I use a certain app that I can't say the name of it, but I basically
block people and like write a small note on the app for other girls to see.
Like in case client is dangerous, time waster or a scammer or a cop.
So next, the way that I identify hobbyists or slobbyists is that they are a lot like
time racers, but like with more effort.
They will send a short text stating they want to see me, but without any screening.
Like I also send them automatic text with all of my screening requirements.
And then, I love this part, they ask if I take P411 or references as screening.
Some guys even say like excuses like I'm a very discreet person and I'm not comfortable
with providing screening.
So like if I understand correctly that these men are too important, too better than everyone
else, but are comfortable with seeing a complete stranger in a girl's home.
Like that makes, oh yeah, that makes perfect sense.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
So what P411 is, it's a platform that has kind of mixed reviews to be honest.
Like it has been said that cops are on there to get the providers to jail and lots of guys
that only want bare and unprotected sex.
I only kept it as in a good, well yes, so I only booked like two wonderful amazing jail
men like from there, from that website.
Only two, both of them are my regulars, I love them, I love them, they're great.
They are not hobbyists, they just use that platform, but I know one of them doesn't use
it anymore because it's silly.
That platform is silly.
Yeah, and those like other hobbyists, they just try to surpass the screening process
and think I'm a dumb blonde.
Well, first of all, I'm not a blonde, I'm a brunette, but they just think, oh, she must
be new, she's so dumb.
But yeah, like the hobbies I dealt with, they're the most gullible sexist and racist trash
I ever had to deal with, like ever.
Most of them are doctors.
Doctors are horrible.
In my experience, that's just my experience.
I don't know how it was in other preventive experiences, but yeah, like I would call them
like, oh, they're just sexist, somebody says pigs, but pigs are clean, adorable and intelligent,
unlike hobbies.
So, you know, politicians, celebrities, they book escorts all the time at their own time,
and still provide screening.
Like I see it all the time.
Hobbies are always going to be on the bottom of sex worker industry.
They're like the lowest of the low.
So, but you know, point is like, I don't discriminate.
I don't tell the client's wife or girlfriend that their man is cheating on her or like
seeing someone else on the side.
Like I don't judge.
And the reason that I do the screening is only to protect myself from client hurting
me or being a criminal.
So I mean, providers can understand, like lots of guys who are super professional, they
understand that.
So I don't know, but I guess time-waste assistance lobbyists can't.
So yeah.
All right, last one, number six, wait, no, six and seven.
That's it.
So be yourself.
Being myself is better than basically no one else is better at being me than myself.
There is no one else with my personality, my quirks and my body in the world, not to
mention my voice that I could change at any time.
And like I might have seven doppelgangers, but we are nothing alike.
I've met some of them.
They're great, but, but I'm still me.
So yeah.
And you know, I hear a lot from other providers that they make up a certain personality.
They act completely different.
They act completely different as their sex worker persona.
And I don't understand that.
Like why do you have to be fake?
Why do you have to be someone else?
Um, it's just, it's just way too much work.
I don't know.
Maybe they're used to it, but I'd be like, I have to come up with my own backstory and
it just takes too much time.
So yeah, I mean, I might act like someone else on television or TV, but yeah, television,
but that's a completely different thing.
Um, but yeah, like final thoughts.
I have been asking a lot of clients, almost, almost every new client, how their experiences
have been with other girls.
Just so I would know that I'm doing everything right.
That maybe there's some small details I might miss when first seeing like a new person,
but, um, but most of the experiences that guys had, they have been good.
So, but there's like some girls who do everything transactionally.
The guy will come into provider's house or hotel room, pay her and she will take him
to the bathroom and basically like, okay, like I'm undressed, let's go.
And that's it.
Like it's very emotional, very transactional, but again, I do not judge to each their own
as long as everybody's happy.
Like some guys though are wild like that.
They come only for sex, have no conversations or have little conversation like, hi, let's
go, okay, or they don't have foreplay, but most men crave intimacy.
Like the single ones who don't have time for relationships, married men whose wife
is too busy with kids and has no energy to have sex, the divorced ones who want emotional
connection and mental support who want a friend by their side.
Like I get intimacy thanks to my job, but I also crave it like more than people think.
And you know, we all need emotional support and intimacy.
I mean, that's because we're human and have capacity for emotions.
So yeah, so this is it.
I know I probably talked way too fast, but I like being sex worker, but I also need to
take a break from being Alexa and just being me.
So yeah, so yeah, in the previous podcast, I did say that I'm going to hiatus.
Kind of, I mean, I'm still going to take some time off work, but whenever I'm in Savannah,
I would probably post it on my Trist, on my ad and yeah, book people up and I'm pretty
sure I'm going to get super busy because I got a few new regulars.
I already love them.
And they're great.
And yeah, so yeah, check back on Trist.
I'll be posting whenever I'm in Savannah.
And yeah, thank you so much for tuning in today.
I know it's been a long podcast today, but I really, really enjoyed talking with you
guys.
So yeah, hopefully maybe you've learned some new things as a different provider or client
or someone who's interested in the industry.
So yeah, thank you again so much for tuning in today and I hope you have an amazing week.
Talk to you later.