1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:05,440 Good morning. Thank you so much for tuning in today. You're listening to Escort confessions 2 00:00:05,440 --> 00:00:09,020 I'm your host Alexa Max here with mr. Lane 3 00:00:10,040 --> 00:00:12,040 Hello morning. Good morning 4 00:00:14,840 --> 00:00:20,540 Today we're gonna talk about what it's like what to expect if you're a provider 5 00:00:20,540 --> 00:00:28,060 hosting or you know doing sex work for the first time 6 00:00:35,420 --> 00:00:42,280 You're laughing because it's a fun topic and it's all about having a good time and partying and nothing bad ever happens ever right 7 00:00:44,700 --> 00:00:46,700 That's why we're laughing 8 00:00:46,700 --> 00:00:50,620 No, it's okay to be light about a situation even though it can be 9 00:00:51,740 --> 00:00:58,000 daunting and it can be scary at first to pull the trigger and decide that it's what you're going to do 10 00:00:58,500 --> 00:01:00,500 What was your first time like? 11 00:01:00,860 --> 00:01:10,180 My first time as provider was um, it was nervous. I was I was nervous. I wasn't scared as like 12 00:01:10,180 --> 00:01:18,900 Scared about the clients. I was more scared about what if I fart in the middle of the session or what if I say something wrong and 13 00:01:19,420 --> 00:01:22,540 You know, I was scared but then I saw my first 14 00:01:23,380 --> 00:01:24,820 client 15 00:01:24,820 --> 00:01:29,940 And he was nice. There was no, you know, nothing bad and I 16 00:01:30,460 --> 00:01:38,260 Had sex and then I was like, oh, okay. So this is it. Okay, so um, yeah 17 00:01:38,260 --> 00:01:41,060 And after that it was a very good first day 18 00:01:41,060 --> 00:01:48,300 So I all that stress mentally and it was at the hotel and in the good area of Charleston and 19 00:01:49,620 --> 00:01:54,940 Yeah, I I know what I could have done better but I'm glad 20 00:01:58,620 --> 00:02:05,860 Did you see him again, um, I did I think twice after that but 21 00:02:05,860 --> 00:02:07,860 Um 22 00:02:09,260 --> 00:02:11,260 No 23 00:02:13,180 --> 00:02:15,180 Okay, I 24 00:02:15,420 --> 00:02:19,780 Am trying to remember my first time. I don't remember if it was with 25 00:02:20,980 --> 00:02:26,180 Somebody at a massage parlor. It might have been or it may have been 26 00:02:26,860 --> 00:02:29,820 Someone else. I don't remember exactly 27 00:02:29,820 --> 00:02:35,220 Yeah, I think it was it was in North Carolina and it was a massage parlor and I 28 00:02:35,220 --> 00:02:38,420 Just needed to get the massage and then in the middle of it 29 00:02:38,420 --> 00:02:46,260 They asked if we wanted to you know, the happy ending quote and I said sure and 30 00:02:46,580 --> 00:02:50,980 It was it was something I had not thought about and I was like, yeah 31 00:02:50,980 --> 00:02:55,420 It ended up being good experience and that's when I realized I thought you can actually really do this 32 00:02:55,420 --> 00:02:57,420 I mean people always talking about it 33 00:02:57,420 --> 00:03:02,300 But no one you know, there's no way of saying here show me the ropes. This is how you get into it 34 00:03:02,300 --> 00:03:04,900 And so what you do the first time I ever cam though 35 00:03:04,900 --> 00:03:11,980 My first camming experience was very nervous and I ended up finding a couple a husband and wife who 36 00:03:13,340 --> 00:03:15,340 You need a third person to 37 00:03:16,020 --> 00:03:21,620 to party with them and it was fun and I talked him through a lot of dirty talk and 38 00:03:22,220 --> 00:03:24,860 It was just a lot of fun. It was very empowering 39 00:03:24,860 --> 00:03:27,460 It was just a lot of fun. It was very empowering. Oh 40 00:03:29,180 --> 00:03:30,940 Kitty 41 00:03:30,940 --> 00:03:35,780 Look, Jacob. There's not a kitty there. Look look look at the screen. No 42 00:03:37,580 --> 00:03:39,460 This is Oreo 43 00:03:39,460 --> 00:03:42,620 And she absolutely loves being in my lap even though she knows I'm allergic to her 44 00:03:43,380 --> 00:03:46,780 Okay, this episode is brought to you today by kitty cats 45 00:03:48,260 --> 00:03:50,720 That's not a gentleman's club as an actual real kitty cat 46 00:03:50,720 --> 00:03:56,440 All right. So what would you what would you recommend to somebody who wants to do this for the first time? 47 00:03:56,640 --> 00:04:01,360 So as a provider first time provider, I would suggest 48 00:04:02,120 --> 00:04:04,880 so first of all, you have to decide whether on 49 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:12,240 location in call at the hotel in call in your own home or to do out call to a 50 00:04:13,120 --> 00:04:15,120 client's hotel or 51 00:04:15,440 --> 00:04:17,120 hotels 52 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:19,120 so I 53 00:04:19,120 --> 00:04:23,440 Don't know. That's just my perspective. I would do and then call at 54 00:04:24,840 --> 00:04:28,440 At the hotel for the first time or your own place and 55 00:04:29,120 --> 00:04:33,440 Second of all screening is a must because you have to be safe 56 00:04:33,680 --> 00:04:37,200 you have to know that this person is not a criminal or 57 00:04:38,040 --> 00:04:40,040 child molester, I don't know 58 00:04:40,280 --> 00:04:41,360 and 59 00:04:41,360 --> 00:04:47,960 I would just do like I would ask them for screening selfie with ID or ID or the back of the 60 00:04:47,960 --> 00:04:52,240 Credit or debit card so we could clearly see the client's name and 61 00:04:52,960 --> 00:04:55,360 Let's see. What else social media link? 62 00:04:55,360 --> 00:05:01,760 So we would know this person is active on social media if they say who they say they are and 63 00:05:02,680 --> 00:05:10,960 I would ask for two references from a very recent providers that they saw recently if they have seen providers 64 00:05:12,560 --> 00:05:14,560 Before you and 65 00:05:14,560 --> 00:05:19,600 You know, and I would ask them of course for phone number or email from those providers 66 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:26,480 Let's see. The next step is deposit. So they would send a certain percent of 67 00:05:27,920 --> 00:05:32,480 Money to your Venmo cash app Zelle. I don't know wherever 68 00:05:33,680 --> 00:05:36,080 whatever apps you use and 69 00:05:37,360 --> 00:05:40,400 Yeah, and once they mark down their spot just tell them 70 00:05:41,040 --> 00:05:43,040 the address and 71 00:05:43,040 --> 00:05:45,040 Yeah, and then 72 00:05:45,120 --> 00:05:47,760 Go from there. Oh and and 73 00:05:49,360 --> 00:05:53,920 Clients mails who are interested in booking a provider, please bring something 74 00:05:54,480 --> 00:05:59,040 For the very first time. It's very rude to not bring anything 75 00:05:59,840 --> 00:06:01,280 and 76 00:06:01,280 --> 00:06:03,840 Yeah, because I have people 77 00:06:05,360 --> 00:06:08,480 Book me for New Year's they didn't bring shit 78 00:06:08,480 --> 00:06:13,840 Then I had a person who and actually an ex-client of mine now just because of that 79 00:06:14,800 --> 00:06:16,800 Book me on Thanksgiving 80 00:06:16,800 --> 00:06:19,520 without asking if I had any plans, but um 81 00:06:20,160 --> 00:06:21,600 no tip 82 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,720 no, you know small gifts for Thanksgiving and 83 00:06:25,520 --> 00:06:31,600 Yeah, so please bring something. I mean, it's it's polite thing to do. It's respect thing to do but 84 00:06:32,320 --> 00:06:33,440 Yeah 85 00:06:33,440 --> 00:06:39,040 Like a small gift like a bottle like a bottle of alcohol or whatever your preferences are like jewelry or something 86 00:06:39,280 --> 00:06:43,200 gift card jewelry like it can be cheap jewelry just I mean, well 87 00:06:43,920 --> 00:06:45,360 Yeah, just 88 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:48,400 Candle inexpensive jewelry. Yeah, not like 89 00:06:50,160 --> 00:06:52,400 Not like a Chanel bag, but uh 90 00:06:52,960 --> 00:07:00,080 Yeah, just small gifts it counts like like we will remember you like I remember all those guys who brought me either 91 00:07:00,080 --> 00:07:03,120 flowers or um 92 00:07:03,760 --> 00:07:09,680 Let's see earrings and you know, I I remember everybody and I'm thankful for those people who always bring something 93 00:07:11,520 --> 00:07:13,520 That seems like it would be a very 94 00:07:15,360 --> 00:07:16,800 Polite 95 00:07:16,800 --> 00:07:18,880 Gesture at least I mean, it's almost 96 00:07:19,600 --> 00:07:24,400 It's courtship. It really is courtship. Uh, even though it's transactional courtship 97 00:07:24,880 --> 00:07:27,520 And that's something that you know an old man 98 00:07:27,520 --> 00:07:34,420 And that's something that you know, an old-fashioned person would be like, oh, i'm courting this and that's why they're called courtesans 99 00:07:34,960 --> 00:07:36,960 i'm courting you and 100 00:07:37,440 --> 00:07:39,440 I want to uh, you know 101 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:43,780 Be on your good side at least or bring a positive experience to the situation 102 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:49,360 If you ever mentored anybody do you have anybody that you know that you would like 103 00:07:50,480 --> 00:07:53,680 Or anybody you've worked with in the past who's not done it before? 104 00:07:54,720 --> 00:07:56,720 Who who I mentored? 105 00:07:56,720 --> 00:08:02,480 Yeah, have you ever mentored anybody or do you have a you have a mentor? Um, no neither. I um, 106 00:08:02,960 --> 00:08:04,960 I usually learn everything from 107 00:08:05,120 --> 00:08:06,480 twitter accounts 108 00:08:06,480 --> 00:08:11,440 Honestly, and uh, I I actually did buy a book. Um, let me get a real quick 109 00:08:11,920 --> 00:08:16,900 So it's uh, it's by amanda brooks. She was a provider 110 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:23,520 back in the day and now she's a writer and it's called the internet escorts handbook and uh, 111 00:08:23,520 --> 00:08:28,640 It's about advertising marketing and what it's like to be an escort and it's really helpful 112 00:08:28,640 --> 00:08:32,560 So this is like my my escort bible in a way. Um 113 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,800 Yeah, but as for mentoring I would like 114 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:42,720 to mentor someone um because I I like to help people out and uh 115 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:48,000 Um, yeah, but not not yet. I haven't mentored anybody yet 116 00:08:48,960 --> 00:08:51,200 Okay. Well if anyone's looking for somebody that can 117 00:08:51,200 --> 00:08:55,360 Mentor you and you want to break into it then uh, alexa's, uh 118 00:08:56,000 --> 00:08:58,560 Socials are attached to this this podcast 119 00:08:59,440 --> 00:09:00,640 Um 120 00:09:00,640 --> 00:09:02,640 I'm friendly 121 00:09:02,640 --> 00:09:03,440 I swear 122 00:09:03,440 --> 00:09:06,480 She's very friendly. She she and I are our friends 123 00:09:07,040 --> 00:09:12,800 In real life too outside of podcast world and I can attest that she's very friendly. She's a nice person 124 00:09:13,520 --> 00:09:15,520 Unless you cross her 125 00:09:15,520 --> 00:09:22,960 Unless you cross her what what gave you the courage to say hey 126 00:09:23,120 --> 00:09:28,000 This is something I can do because I know people fantasize about certain things and they may 127 00:09:28,800 --> 00:09:34,000 Not have the courage to pull the trigger on their fantasies, which is something that we should talk about in a different episode 128 00:09:34,640 --> 00:09:37,200 But what gave you the courage and confidence to do this? 129 00:09:38,480 --> 00:09:42,080 Noah's broke and homeless basically. So 130 00:09:42,080 --> 00:09:45,760 Yeah, I know it's probably stereotypical but I just 131 00:09:46,640 --> 00:09:50,000 I did not want to work a regular job anymore and 132 00:09:50,400 --> 00:09:54,000 I decided to take a chance in this but at the same time my friend helped me 133 00:09:54,480 --> 00:10:00,640 He's like, hey, have you thought about doing this and he kind of became my pimp at the moment, but not anymore. Um 134 00:10:01,200 --> 00:10:03,840 Yeah, but no basically I needed money. So 135 00:10:04,640 --> 00:10:06,640 It was kind of a 136 00:10:06,640 --> 00:10:13,680 One of the resorts one of the ways to make really fast money and uh 137 00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:18,720 Yeah, and like why not getting paid for orgasm? So 138 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:20,800 Yeah 139 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:26,000 Yeah, we talked about that particular thing before like, you know, if you're gonna have one you might as well be compensated for it 140 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:29,200 but so yeah, so a survival aspect which is 141 00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:32,400 One of the reasons a lot of people get into sex work 142 00:10:33,120 --> 00:10:34,160 um 143 00:10:34,160 --> 00:10:35,680 that's just 144 00:10:35,680 --> 00:10:37,680 There's like a whole discussion about 145 00:10:38,140 --> 00:10:45,840 Civilians getting into it, you know, which is the common term for somebody who doesn't normally do this civilians versus uh, you know 146 00:10:46,400 --> 00:10:48,160 pros 147 00:10:48,160 --> 00:10:53,280 Okay, I might move you in a second cat trying to eat my microphone wire. Oh, no 148 00:10:54,800 --> 00:10:58,240 This is gonna be a fun podcast you're gonna listen to this what is going on with this 149 00:10:59,200 --> 00:11:01,040 bar professionals 150 00:11:01,040 --> 00:11:03,040 They're amateurs 151 00:11:03,040 --> 00:11:05,360 They're probably not even good sex work people 152 00:11:07,760 --> 00:11:10,480 Not true we're amazing at that at the segs work 153 00:11:11,520 --> 00:11:12,960 right 154 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:14,960 Okay 155 00:11:15,760 --> 00:11:17,920 That's the podcast ever 156 00:11:17,920 --> 00:11:19,920 All right. What? Um 157 00:11:20,160 --> 00:11:24,160 Okay. So yeah, this is necessity. I understand that part of it. Um 158 00:11:25,520 --> 00:11:27,520 What do you think 159 00:11:27,520 --> 00:11:29,040 You would be doing 160 00:11:29,040 --> 00:11:32,880 Do you think you'll be doing this in in five years or even 10 years? 161 00:11:34,400 --> 00:11:35,360 Oh 162 00:11:35,360 --> 00:11:39,200 Gosh, it's hard to tell I feel like I would do it in five years 163 00:11:40,320 --> 00:11:46,960 Um 10 probably not I just I don't know. It's so emotionally draining sometimes and 164 00:11:47,520 --> 00:11:54,880 but at the same time it pays for my bucket list, so I don't know I might I might have like a 165 00:11:54,880 --> 00:11:58,080 A six month break maybe from this 166 00:11:59,040 --> 00:12:00,560 um 167 00:12:00,560 --> 00:12:04,880 And do other stuff focus on acting more and other things but um 168 00:12:06,640 --> 00:12:12,160 Probably yes, I would say five years. Yes. Oh, thank you. I try 169 00:12:13,360 --> 00:12:14,880 um 170 00:12:14,880 --> 00:12:20,240 With my english, um, so five years. Yes, please book me in the next five years 171 00:12:20,240 --> 00:12:25,040 Five years. Yeah fill up her five-year calendar and then she can retire. Yes 172 00:12:26,080 --> 00:12:27,600 Retire in peace 173 00:12:27,600 --> 00:12:34,080 Without yeah, and I would probably still talk to my regulars just like check up on them. So yeah 174 00:12:36,240 --> 00:12:39,840 Yeah, I even even as a somebody I have not 175 00:12:40,400 --> 00:12:48,240 Worked with a provider in a long time. I just I think I'm in a situation now where it's just not a priority. Um 176 00:12:48,240 --> 00:12:50,240 I'm not single and 177 00:12:50,560 --> 00:12:52,560 the woman I'm with 178 00:12:52,560 --> 00:12:59,120 We you know, we we were very busy anyway, and so we have a lot of things that we fulfilled with each other 179 00:12:59,680 --> 00:13:01,680 And so there really is not a need 180 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:08,240 For provider services, but I also know too if I had the situation where I could 181 00:13:08,720 --> 00:13:11,920 And I can you know, we're open. Um, I just 182 00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:16,560 I just don't know if it's something that you know is on my radar right now. Um 183 00:13:16,560 --> 00:13:18,560 Maybe I mean they would never say no to it 184 00:13:18,560 --> 00:13:23,200 But you know, sometimes people just go through phases in life and maybe this is one of them at least 185 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,480 Um, and it's not it's not a current priority 186 00:13:27,280 --> 00:13:28,240 Yes 187 00:13:28,240 --> 00:13:29,680 Mm-hmm 188 00:13:29,680 --> 00:13:34,480 So if you are a young person or even anybody at any age doesn't have to be a young person 189 00:13:34,480 --> 00:13:36,480 I don't want to um generalize with age 190 00:13:36,800 --> 00:13:43,120 Where would be a good resource to start if you wanted to find out more information about how to do this? 191 00:13:43,120 --> 00:13:45,920 It's first timer I would go to 192 00:13:46,720 --> 00:13:48,720 twitter very soon twitter 193 00:13:49,440 --> 00:13:50,720 and 194 00:13:50,720 --> 00:13:52,080 follow 195 00:13:52,080 --> 00:13:53,040 Uh, let's see 196 00:13:53,040 --> 00:13:54,560 Trist 197 00:13:54,560 --> 00:14:00,000 Or are there good ones? Um trust and then if you put like hashtag date 198 00:14:00,720 --> 00:14:04,400 Carolinas or hashtag date like any any other state like ohio 199 00:14:05,120 --> 00:14:10,720 Uh, you would see that in suggestive fields. There would be sex workers and I would feel like 200 00:14:10,720 --> 00:14:14,400 Sex workers and I would follow sex workers 201 00:14:15,120 --> 00:14:17,120 and then google of course 202 00:14:18,080 --> 00:14:22,160 Google is a good source like how to become a sex worker and there should be all kinds of sites 203 00:14:22,720 --> 00:14:25,440 Especially reddit because reddit has everything. Um 204 00:14:26,720 --> 00:14:29,680 Yeah, just do research listen to podcasts on youtube 205 00:14:30,240 --> 00:14:32,240 or listen to this podcast, um 206 00:14:32,560 --> 00:14:34,720 Yeah, go to youtube and uh, just 207 00:14:34,720 --> 00:14:40,000 Yeah, there's there's a lot of podcasts out there about sex work. So 208 00:14:41,600 --> 00:14:43,520 research research research 209 00:14:43,520 --> 00:14:45,200 Do you have a favorite podcast? 210 00:14:45,200 --> 00:14:46,720 other than this one 211 00:14:46,720 --> 00:14:48,720 I 212 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:50,320 um 213 00:14:50,320 --> 00:14:51,520 No 214 00:14:51,520 --> 00:14:53,520 I don't listen to enough podcasts 215 00:14:54,240 --> 00:14:56,240 Otherwise, I would say 216 00:14:56,240 --> 00:15:00,320 Do you have actually have some recommendations for that that i've been listening to? Yes 217 00:15:00,320 --> 00:15:04,880 Uh, I have one in particular and i'm gonna give a shout out to let me go into my spotify and find it 218 00:15:05,040 --> 00:15:07,040 Shout out to spotify apparently 219 00:15:09,520 --> 00:15:14,400 Um, let's see what i've been listening to lately that's in this in this realm of uh sex work 220 00:15:15,280 --> 00:15:20,320 I gotta do i've been listening to a lot of things. I gotta find it first. Um, but not there's any kind of lull in our discussion 221 00:15:20,320 --> 00:15:21,920 but it is a 222 00:15:21,920 --> 00:15:22,960 um 223 00:15:22,960 --> 00:15:29,040 Good podcast about let's see what we do savannah hart a sex workers guide to the galaxy 224 00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:33,600 Which is in which is inspired by the hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy 225 00:15:35,440 --> 00:15:40,480 Uh, so savannah hart is is a sex worker, um provider 226 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:45,440 She has been doing this podcast for a long time and she you can find her website is savannah 227 00:15:46,080 --> 00:15:51,440 Hart.com and she has an only fans and she has a twitter her twitter is yours savannah 228 00:15:52,400 --> 00:15:53,600 XO 229 00:15:53,600 --> 00:15:56,480 And the same for instagram and same for her link tree 230 00:15:56,480 --> 00:16:02,320 Anyway, so she uh, it's got a lot of a lot of stuff on here actually. Um, but that's her 231 00:16:03,280 --> 00:16:05,840 Her podcast and i've enjoyed been enjoying it 232 00:16:06,640 --> 00:16:12,400 Um, she really starts off with beginning how like how to like how she got into it kind of like what we were just talking about 233 00:16:12,960 --> 00:16:15,760 Yeah, and she keeps going uh with it as well 234 00:16:16,800 --> 00:16:18,240 and um 235 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:22,720 Yeah, i listened to a lot of bdsm, uh podcasts and a lot of podcasts about uh porn 236 00:16:22,720 --> 00:16:29,120 Um, uh, a isa kira does one for the pornhub podcast and she has got so much good stuff on hers 237 00:16:30,080 --> 00:16:35,520 Uh, if you're interested in that and i've been listening to uh, another one that's um 238 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:41,760 Where is it? Uh, the priory society which is about swingers, but that's not really what we're talking about 239 00:16:41,760 --> 00:16:44,880 We're talking about workers not not not enthusiasts 240 00:16:46,400 --> 00:16:49,280 Hey, i'm enthusiastic about working with you 241 00:16:49,280 --> 00:16:53,600 Enthusiastic hey i'm enthusiastic about my work 242 00:16:55,200 --> 00:16:57,200 I'm enthusiastic about orgasms, too 243 00:16:57,200 --> 00:16:58,640 but 244 00:16:58,640 --> 00:17:00,640 Focus here. Yes 245 00:17:01,040 --> 00:17:03,040 We need to be coming and not just going 246 00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,040 There we go. Yeah 247 00:17:05,120 --> 00:17:05,840 Yeah 248 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:12,320 Yeah, I like I like to be enthusiastic about my clients orgasms more because it's kind of a goal for me to make them 249 00:17:14,080 --> 00:17:15,040 Yeah 250 00:17:15,040 --> 00:17:22,240 Right, you know, right but remember we said it's not always this not always the destination. Sometimes it's sometimes it's just a journey as we go along 251 00:17:22,960 --> 00:17:29,360 Yeah, I mean, yeah, you definitely want a happy client, you know so that they they can enjoy themselves and then they will come back 252 00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:32,000 Uh, you want that release? 253 00:17:32,240 --> 00:17:33,200 Yes 254 00:17:33,200 --> 00:17:35,200 Yes, indeed 255 00:17:35,280 --> 00:17:37,280 Yeah, so that's uh, that's 256 00:17:37,920 --> 00:17:39,920 That's what we're talking about today. Um 257 00:17:41,120 --> 00:17:44,160 Is there anything particular going on in uh, 258 00:17:44,160 --> 00:17:49,760 In the client services world that you like what else like talk about? Oh, i'm getting the next step 259 00:17:50,480 --> 00:17:52,480 Um, let's see 260 00:17:53,680 --> 00:17:57,440 Oh, I had I had my first fly me to you um 261 00:17:59,120 --> 00:18:02,320 To denver and it was like mid 262 00:18:02,640 --> 00:18:09,520 February yeah, and uh, yeah, I know it was my first time and it was his first time to flying somebody into him 263 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:16,880 And um, yeah, he paid for everything. He like brought me like soaps and like handmade soaps or 264 00:18:17,680 --> 00:18:22,640 From lulus and it's like really good store and the soap smells super good 265 00:18:23,200 --> 00:18:29,920 And they're really soft and um, and then he brought me like, uh vape fans and uh, yeah, like he's just um, 266 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:34,640 Amazing guy. Denver is a great place. I have a lot of friends who uh are from 267 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:39,440 Uh that part of colorado a lot. I'll actually a lot of dancers. I know are from there 268 00:18:39,760 --> 00:18:42,400 Um that I talked to in a network with and stuff 269 00:18:42,880 --> 00:18:49,840 And I guess it's because of the maybe because of the legal weed and some of the more relaxed, you know norms towards uh, deviant behavior 270 00:18:50,560 --> 00:18:52,240 but um 271 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:56,880 Denver's always been a even back to like the beat poet times, you know jack carowak 272 00:18:57,520 --> 00:19:00,480 Had a section about denver, you know from on the road 273 00:19:01,040 --> 00:19:02,160 um 274 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:08,560 And so it's always just been you know a great place like one of my favorite singers is from uh, there's from colorado 275 00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:15,200 yellow biafra of the dead kennedys is from colorado and so i've said i've i've a love 276 00:19:15,920 --> 00:19:18,880 Affair with it from afar. I've never been but i'm going to at some point 277 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:22,400 I'll have a sonny to go to so I can appreciate them up close and personal 278 00:19:22,960 --> 00:19:24,000 Yeah 279 00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:30,320 Just definitely go. I like I like denver. I like the that there's always something going on and um 280 00:19:30,320 --> 00:19:32,000 Um 281 00:19:32,000 --> 00:19:34,560 Yeah, there's a lot I got a lot of 282 00:19:35,100 --> 00:19:39,680 Inquiries, but at the same time there were a lot of time wasters in there and it's like 283 00:19:41,360 --> 00:19:43,360 Thank god. Thank god. I have mr 284 00:19:43,920 --> 00:19:44,800 L 285 00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,360 Just call him. Mr. L. So yeah 286 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:51,920 But I really enjoyed my time there. I like the mountains and um 287 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:59,840 Yeah, so that was that and of course all my regulars always contact me right after I I get back which is great 288 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:03,120 uh, because i'm uh, I like to be busy and um 289 00:20:04,720 --> 00:20:06,000 then uh 290 00:20:06,000 --> 00:20:13,360 Yesterday was a really good day because I had I went to see lorenzo of arabia never seen it heard of it a lot 291 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,800 and then like after first hour 292 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:23,120 I did not long that I did not know it was going to be like four hours almost and uh, then 293 00:20:23,840 --> 00:20:28,000 I was uh an hour into the movie and then one of my regulars he contacts me 294 00:20:28,000 --> 00:20:32,640 And he's like hey you like buy any chance available today. I'm like i'm on my way 295 00:20:32,880 --> 00:20:36,180 There's no way i'm gonna finish it on time because I had an appointment 296 00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:43,360 With another regular after that and i'm like, yeah, like i'll just watch it on youtube or amazon or yeah, so 297 00:20:44,240 --> 00:20:46,320 Yesterday was a good day 298 00:20:46,320 --> 00:20:49,600 Yeah, it's a classic and it takes forever because it's a huge story 299 00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:55,360 but um, yeah, it's definitely one of those things you need to watch but devote an entire day to because 300 00:20:55,360 --> 00:20:59,280 It's emotionally draining, but it's also beautifully shot. It's you know 301 00:21:00,000 --> 00:21:02,720 Peter atul probably one of the best actors of his generation 302 00:21:03,680 --> 00:21:09,600 And he was one of those guys that really came out with like alex guinness and laurence livier and 303 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:12,880 Just you know, so many of those great actors from that era 304 00:21:13,680 --> 00:21:18,000 Um, but yeah, definitely and i'm glad you got i'm glad you're staying busy. What's up? So 305 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:21,600 We talked about time wasters versus actual clients 306 00:21:21,600 --> 00:21:25,600 Is there like a you think a percentage or like a ratio of? 307 00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:32,480 How much time you spend trying to sift through time wasters versus people who actually will commit to a um 308 00:21:33,120 --> 00:21:35,200 A background check or at least uh, you know 309 00:21:36,240 --> 00:21:38,480 Being vetted and make a deposit 310 00:21:40,320 --> 00:21:42,320 I would say 311 00:21:42,480 --> 00:21:44,480 depends on the area because um 312 00:21:45,120 --> 00:21:47,120 Let's see. I would say 313 00:21:47,120 --> 00:21:49,120 time wasters 314 00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:53,900 70 in savannah i get and 30 the ones that actually book and then 315 00:21:54,380 --> 00:21:58,940 The time I spend is very short because I have automatic message that says 316 00:21:59,420 --> 00:22:04,700 Hi gorgeous. Uh, this is an automatic message when you want to book with me. I just need those things and then 317 00:22:05,260 --> 00:22:11,660 You know, I have automatic message and it's like instantly like cuts them out. So yeah, if there are time wasters 318 00:22:12,060 --> 00:22:14,060 and usually time wasters they're like 319 00:22:14,540 --> 00:22:16,780 Send your message or email says hi 320 00:22:16,780 --> 00:22:18,780 Hi. Hello 321 00:22:18,780 --> 00:22:23,180 Are you available? Are you available now and then question marks? Oh my god 322 00:22:25,340 --> 00:22:27,340 Guys come on research 323 00:22:27,900 --> 00:22:32,300 Right. Yeah, if you found me if you've gotten this far to finding my email 324 00:22:33,100 --> 00:22:36,700 You should be able to see everything that came before that about how to book with me 325 00:22:38,380 --> 00:22:42,060 Yeah, and they're probably also trying to book with like three other providers at the same time because 326 00:22:42,060 --> 00:22:48,060 I kind of remember being in the height of of me doing this that I you know, I had I had three or four providers 327 00:22:48,540 --> 00:22:50,540 that I was sort of rotate with 328 00:22:50,940 --> 00:22:52,220 and 329 00:22:52,220 --> 00:22:57,180 I didn't know it wasn't always like that. I mean usually it was it was one person and I would be hey, you know 330 00:22:57,260 --> 00:22:59,260 Are you available today? 331 00:22:59,420 --> 00:23:02,300 During any any at all time during the day because you know 332 00:23:03,020 --> 00:23:06,460 In the morning and usually by like 2 30 you've got a you know an appointment 333 00:23:07,100 --> 00:23:11,100 Yeah, fine because you know, everyone's got a day they have stuff going on 334 00:23:11,100 --> 00:23:13,020 You know, that's okay 335 00:23:13,020 --> 00:23:15,020 I was never like hey, what's up, you know? 336 00:23:16,140 --> 00:23:18,780 Oh, I also get the one side. Hey, my name is 337 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:21,260 Jerry I 338 00:23:21,260 --> 00:23:27,100 Am saying in Bluffton or somewhere where it's not even your area. I would like to meet you in my hotel 339 00:23:27,900 --> 00:23:29,580 That's it 340 00:23:29,580 --> 00:23:31,580 No screening nothing 341 00:23:31,740 --> 00:23:36,700 I'm like, yeah not gonna work. Jerry Jerry the cop Jerry the cop 342 00:23:36,700 --> 00:23:39,740 You wouldn't do bluff and bluff is not out of your out of your area 343 00:23:39,740 --> 00:23:44,700 It's like 30 minutes away, but like the email I got this morning. It was just screen time waste 344 00:23:44,700 --> 00:23:48,700 I'm like, I'm not gonna go to Bluffton with no screening provided 345 00:23:48,700 --> 00:23:51,660 And he literally some website and he contacted me through 346 00:23:52,300 --> 00:23:54,300 not website, but tryst, but 347 00:23:54,620 --> 00:23:59,100 You know like come on, dude. Come on outside the proper channels. Yeah 348 00:23:59,660 --> 00:24:01,660 Yeah, it's like right there 349 00:24:02,940 --> 00:24:04,940 But do you have any 350 00:24:04,940 --> 00:24:09,660 Other questions I don't I have all my questions for today for pertaining to this episode 351 00:24:10,780 --> 00:24:14,860 I've got thousands of questions. We could talk about for other episodes. That's another day 352 00:24:15,500 --> 00:24:16,220 Yes 353 00:24:16,220 --> 00:24:21,420 Yeah, I just messaged you one of them. We should do another I was just telling be a messenger 354 00:24:22,300 --> 00:24:26,700 We should do a numbers episode where we analyze all this kind of data about you know 355 00:24:26,700 --> 00:24:31,980 Time spent and time management of money and everything but no, that's it. That's it from my point of view 356 00:24:31,980 --> 00:24:37,340 My questions for you today is always it's a joy and a privilege to interview you 357 00:24:38,060 --> 00:24:40,060 the beautiful Alexa max 358 00:24:40,460 --> 00:24:43,580 The charming sophisticated professional Alexa max 359 00:24:45,740 --> 00:24:51,260 Thank you, I try and thank you so much for doing this podcast with me as always 360 00:24:52,620 --> 00:24:59,180 Because it's nice to talk with people on the other end because I did a few podcasts where I'm just like 361 00:24:59,180 --> 00:25:02,220 Okay, here's what's going on and yeah 362 00:25:03,020 --> 00:25:05,020 Definitely always anytime 363 00:25:05,020 --> 00:25:28,140 All right. Well, you guys have a great rest of your day and we will talk to you the next podcast