1 00:00:44,500 --> 00:00:49,980 Hey guys, what is going on? My name is Lily Monroe and you're listening to escu confessions 2 00:00:50,460 --> 00:00:57,380 Today we are going to talk about disadvantages of watching porn and why porn hub is 3 00:00:57,900 --> 00:01:01,660 Evil. Yeah, we're gonna talk about the villains today 4 00:01:02,260 --> 00:01:06,060 So one of the things that I've noticed with porn hub 5 00:01:06,740 --> 00:01:09,340 not with porn hub with watching porn in general is 6 00:01:10,180 --> 00:01:11,340 that 7 00:01:11,340 --> 00:01:16,540 it honestly not killed my sex drive per se but I 8 00:01:17,380 --> 00:01:19,700 expect more when it comes to sex and 9 00:01:20,540 --> 00:01:21,900 I 10 00:01:21,900 --> 00:01:25,340 sexual and I started sexualizing everybody including women and 11 00:01:26,060 --> 00:01:27,380 I 12 00:01:27,380 --> 00:01:31,060 Watch all kinds of porn. I used to anyway like it's it's my 13 00:01:32,020 --> 00:01:37,220 Let's say I'm recording this in August and it's been two days since I have not watched porn 14 00:01:37,220 --> 00:01:41,340 Which is crazy because I watched porn every day 15 00:01:42,460 --> 00:01:49,180 Honestly because I am I'm horny all the time. I'm sorry. I I just am even if I have clients clients 16 00:01:49,180 --> 00:01:55,340 I'm still horny afterwards and for the rest of the day, it's crazy. It's crazy. But 17 00:01:56,140 --> 00:02:02,700 Yeah, it's been two days. I haven't watched it. I haven't had the need to just because I'm doing other stuff 18 00:02:02,700 --> 00:02:04,700 I'm kind of a little stressed 19 00:02:04,700 --> 00:02:09,980 Um, just because like after travel I've been traveling so much that money's kind of like down 20 00:02:10,460 --> 00:02:16,180 Going keeps going down and down and I get less and less but anyways porn. Let's talk about porn 21 00:02:17,180 --> 00:02:19,180 one of the biggest 22 00:02:19,460 --> 00:02:24,380 Disadvantages of watching porn is that watching too much pornography can kill your sex drive 23 00:02:25,180 --> 00:02:30,100 Addictive porn consumers start finding masturbation more satisfying than actual sex 24 00:02:30,500 --> 00:02:33,500 They get a rust only through pornography. I 25 00:02:33,500 --> 00:02:35,500 Can speak from personal experience 26 00:02:36,620 --> 00:02:40,140 That I always come came 27 00:02:41,260 --> 00:02:43,260 after watching porn 28 00:02:44,740 --> 00:02:47,540 Very very few times I actually came 29 00:02:48,220 --> 00:02:53,740 With a client or you know in in real life like I always have to take care of myself right afterwards 30 00:02:54,300 --> 00:02:57,900 very very few guys actually give me orgasm and 31 00:02:57,900 --> 00:03:03,060 It sucks it really sucks I feel like there's something wrong with me 32 00:03:03,060 --> 00:03:06,020 But it's honestly it's just watching too much porn can do that 33 00:03:06,860 --> 00:03:15,220 also another story I used to date this guy and he said that he stopped watching porn for six months and 34 00:03:16,020 --> 00:03:18,020 His libido became way better 35 00:03:19,300 --> 00:03:21,460 he gets aroused very quickly and 36 00:03:22,900 --> 00:03:26,980 Like he used to stay at home all the time and just watch porn 37 00:03:26,980 --> 00:03:35,580 And he stopped going out in public and you know pick up girls because why would he he had porn? 38 00:03:35,900 --> 00:03:42,220 And right at his disposal and his phone he had phone he had his hand and 39 00:03:42,900 --> 00:03:44,900 That's it like why? 40 00:03:45,300 --> 00:03:51,820 Yeah, why would I go out to meet girls if I can just watch porn and get the same amount of pleasure, but 41 00:03:52,740 --> 00:03:55,060 even though it's not the same amount of pleasure, but I 42 00:03:55,060 --> 00:03:56,540 I 43 00:03:56,540 --> 00:04:01,020 Completely understood what he was saying because sometimes I don't feel like going out and picking up guys 44 00:04:01,940 --> 00:04:05,900 Because I was born like why would I you know why would I go out? 45 00:04:07,660 --> 00:04:11,940 Pornography also deforms the perceptions of intimacy and sexual performance I 46 00:04:12,740 --> 00:04:19,520 Think of it this way when you reach climax with your partner you feel attracted towards your partner and the visual graphics 47 00:04:19,620 --> 00:04:21,340 induces the same feeling 48 00:04:21,340 --> 00:04:26,420 Attractiveness will be associated with virtual images and videos then with your partner 49 00:04:26,780 --> 00:04:29,860 This lessens the importance of real-life sex 50 00:04:31,220 --> 00:04:34,420 Regular watching porn can cause an increased risk of erectile 51 00:04:35,220 --> 00:04:42,720 Dysfunctions which is really important you guys I also know that stress causes erectile dysfunctions, but 52 00:04:43,500 --> 00:04:48,340 Many maybe minimize watching porn maybe once a week 53 00:04:48,340 --> 00:04:50,900 Maybe and see how it improves and like 54 00:04:51,420 --> 00:04:57,620 You know to force a habit you have to try something for 21 days try going without porn for 21 days 55 00:04:57,620 --> 00:04:59,620 see how it is and 56 00:04:59,980 --> 00:05:06,300 Yeah, also scientific fact when watching porn excessively dopamine is released in excess 57 00:05:07,580 --> 00:05:13,180 So as a result this hampers the dopamine reward system thus making it 58 00:05:13,660 --> 00:05:17,140 unresponsive to natural sources of pleasure with the partner 59 00:05:17,140 --> 00:05:22,980 Another facts reduced sperm count is due to regular porn watching 60 00:05:24,260 --> 00:05:31,380 So basically studies have shown that excessive porn may result in frequent ejaculations affecting the sperm density semen 61 00:05:32,580 --> 00:05:38,180 So so if you and your partner are trying to get pregnant it's gonna take a while 62 00:05:39,780 --> 00:05:43,140 Every day view of porn can cause mental health issues 63 00:05:43,140 --> 00:05:48,860 Pornography addiction can result in anxiety depression and anger issues transforming into psychological craving 64 00:05:49,500 --> 00:05:54,620 So this reminds me the anger issues it reminds me when I 65 00:05:55,180 --> 00:06:00,100 watched this documentary this interview actually with Ted Bundy the serial killer 66 00:06:00,940 --> 00:06:04,420 Who was pretty cute, but anyways anyways Ted Bundy 67 00:06:04,420 --> 00:06:10,140 Yes, he watched a lot of porn and it was violent porn and he said that it kind of affected him 68 00:06:10,140 --> 00:06:16,660 And a lot of you know serial killers they watch porn when they're little and they turn out to be fucking psychos 69 00:06:17,420 --> 00:06:23,700 So yeah, very fun fact well fun fun. I wouldn't say fun, but it's an interesting fact 70 00:06:24,740 --> 00:06:29,260 Also watching porn apparently makes you self-centered which I did not know about 71 00:06:30,060 --> 00:06:35,820 So consumption of pornography can make people insensitive towards others pleasure. Oh 72 00:06:35,820 --> 00:06:40,940 This can impact romantic relationships friendships and even social relationships 73 00:06:42,180 --> 00:06:43,460 Oh 74 00:06:43,460 --> 00:06:50,900 Oh, this is a good one in addition some pornographic content often evades the important concept of consent and use of 75 00:06:51,220 --> 00:06:56,300 Protection during sexual intercourse yes, I am so happy. I found this article 76 00:06:56,820 --> 00:07:01,820 Yes, because okay. I've talked about this in one of the previous episodes by 77 00:07:01,820 --> 00:07:05,820 Guys think that porn star experience is uncovered 78 00:07:06,340 --> 00:07:09,340 Ta-ta-da yeah, they they honestly sound like that 79 00:07:09,340 --> 00:07:13,140 They sound like retards to me when they say that because it obviously is not 80 00:07:13,940 --> 00:07:16,300 What happens during porn shoots is this? 81 00:07:17,340 --> 00:07:20,580 First of all somebody always reaches out to you 82 00:07:21,300 --> 00:07:24,300 I know a few people have a shout to me because I'm a sex worker 83 00:07:24,660 --> 00:07:28,060 They reached out to me saying that they would like me to be a sex worker 84 00:07:28,060 --> 00:07:32,060 They reached out to me saying that they would like me to be an adult film 85 00:07:33,060 --> 00:07:39,780 I I go so them. It's no no no I I'm good. I'm only amateur porn for me. Thanks 86 00:07:40,780 --> 00:07:45,660 In my own space. I'm a director and producer and editor and actor so yeah 87 00:07:48,060 --> 00:07:52,860 So basically porn shoots go like this people audition or somebody reaches out to them 88 00:07:53,620 --> 00:07:56,700 People also can apply to be a porn star fun fact 89 00:07:56,700 --> 00:07:58,700 and 90 00:07:58,700 --> 00:08:00,700 You come to the shoot you 91 00:08:01,700 --> 00:08:06,700 Go through the script you go through the scenes. It's all very very technical people everybody gets tested 92 00:08:06,700 --> 00:08:10,700 I think it's every two or four weeks for CDs 93 00:08:11,700 --> 00:08:15,700 That's why everybody is doing it uncovered because the tests are negative 94 00:08:16,700 --> 00:08:21,700 So please don't think that porn star experience or sex workers do anything uncovered 95 00:08:22,700 --> 00:08:24,700 Because we do not we do everything covered 96 00:08:24,700 --> 00:08:29,700 Yes, so it gives people false perception on the what 97 00:08:30,700 --> 00:08:36,700 It's like in real life, so also porn develops body image issues 98 00:08:36,700 --> 00:08:38,700 I've noticed it with myself 99 00:08:38,700 --> 00:08:44,700 Because a lot of girls in this port are pretty fit well the porn I was they all are very fit 100 00:08:44,700 --> 00:08:46,700 They all have perfect bodies 101 00:08:46,700 --> 00:08:52,700 However, I noticed that some of them have very fake 102 00:08:52,700 --> 00:08:54,700 Large breasts and it shows 103 00:08:55,700 --> 00:09:02,700 It's so gross. It's like you have tiny body your ribs are showing and you have these gigantic breasts that do not match your body 104 00:09:03,700 --> 00:09:10,700 They don't even jiggle as much as natural breasts and it's like wow, maybe you know, maybe I should get these 105 00:09:10,700 --> 00:09:14,700 Yeah, yeah, definitely. You know, a lot of them have fake lips 106 00:09:14,700 --> 00:09:20,700 It's it's insane. So a lot of you know young girls who watch porn 107 00:09:20,700 --> 00:09:27,700 They think that oh, maybe if I look like that guys will find me attractive, which is really it's a silly thought 108 00:09:27,700 --> 00:09:29,700 So yeah, definitely, you know 109 00:09:29,700 --> 00:09:32,700 Body image and not just for females for males as well 110 00:09:33,700 --> 00:09:40,700 You know guys think that oh, I wish my penis was bigger. I wish I was as fit. I wish I you know 111 00:09:41,700 --> 00:09:45,700 Lasted longer. Yeah stuff like that. It's so sad 112 00:09:45,700 --> 00:09:56,700 Porn also alters reality with the partner its visuals exaggerate social pleasure by showcasing utopian bedroom stories shower sex and a flawless performance every time 113 00:09:56,700 --> 00:10:05,700 You know, real-life sex can have flaws like you can fart you can burp doing real sex you also like girls don't go like 114 00:10:06,700 --> 00:10:09,700 Every five seconds, you know 115 00:10:09,700 --> 00:10:16,700 It's so stupid how a lot of these porn films are exaggerated like it's it's fucking insane 116 00:10:16,700 --> 00:10:23,700 So yeah, real-life sex is not anything like the porn that you see because it's acting is over exaggerated 117 00:10:24,700 --> 00:10:27,700 So to sum up is a bad to watch porn 118 00:10:27,700 --> 00:10:32,700 Just like with drugs just like with anything in the world. I think 119 00:10:32,700 --> 00:10:41,700 It's a limited amount of consumption is fine unless you have addictive personality unless you get addicted to it 120 00:10:41,700 --> 00:10:49,700 So watching too much porn causes brain damage. Literally. I don't know if you guys ever seen this tick tock where the woman is like 121 00:10:50,700 --> 00:10:55,700 Porn causes brain damage and then a lot of people stage this. I remember I staged it on tick tock and 122 00:10:55,700 --> 00:11:03,700 Yeah, but no porn literally does cause brain damage. Holy shit. Like that woman was right. So yeah, I think everything is good in 123 00:11:04,700 --> 00:11:05,700 consumption 124 00:11:05,700 --> 00:11:08,700 But if you get addicted to it, you should probably stop 125 00:11:08,700 --> 00:11:10,700 Because honestly porn has such 126 00:11:12,700 --> 00:11:15,700 Whatever you see in porn, that's not how it is in real life 127 00:11:17,700 --> 00:11:20,700 And the biggest thing is that it's not like you're watching porn 128 00:11:20,700 --> 00:11:27,700 That's not how it is in real life. And the biggest thing of why porn hub is 129 00:11:28,700 --> 00:11:30,700 Evil is because there is lots of human trafficking going on 130 00:11:31,700 --> 00:11:35,700 Unfortunately, and I wish I wish I did not find about it 131 00:11:36,700 --> 00:11:41,700 Because now that's why that's why I stopped watching porn. It's one of the reasons I stopped watching porn because I 132 00:11:42,700 --> 00:11:43,700 know 133 00:11:43,700 --> 00:11:45,700 For a fact that if I watch one of those videos 134 00:11:45,700 --> 00:11:52,700 God forbid one of the actors is getting raped in it and we don't know about it. Like for example, if you're watching 135 00:11:53,700 --> 00:11:58,700 Gay porn like and one of the guys is not gay and it literally hurts him 136 00:11:59,700 --> 00:12:02,700 To have yeah. Anyways, I won't go into details, but 137 00:12:03,700 --> 00:12:07,700 I've seen this podcast. Sorry. I've listened to this podcast very recently that 138 00:12:08,700 --> 00:12:13,700 One day actors he was invited to the set and it looked like a professional set 139 00:12:13,700 --> 00:12:21,700 But he signed the NDA form to NDA form is non-disclosure grim where you cannot talk about it about anyone 140 00:12:22,700 --> 00:12:25,700 So he signed NDA signed the contract and 141 00:12:26,700 --> 00:12:30,700 He was raped multiple times for multiple hours on that set. So 142 00:12:31,700 --> 00:12:38,700 And just human trafficking. It's it does happen. A lot of the actors a lot of the people that you see are underage 143 00:12:38,700 --> 00:12:43,700 So and Pornhub promotes that there's all kinds of videos in Pornhub and 144 00:12:44,700 --> 00:12:49,700 I would just take that in mind. So I kind of stopped watching porn. I feel good 145 00:12:50,700 --> 00:12:56,700 I'm pretty busy. I don't feel horny. I I love the real intimacy. I crave real intimacy 146 00:12:57,700 --> 00:13:03,700 Not just sex. So that's my opinion and I hope you guys learned something from this podcast because I feel like 147 00:13:03,700 --> 00:13:08,700 It's not talked about enough. So yeah, I hope you've enjoyed it 148 00:13:08,700 --> 00:13:36,700 And my name is Lillian Monroe. You are listening to Ask O Confessions and I will talk to you guys next time