Hey guys, what is going on? My name is Lily Monroe and you're listening to escu confessions
Today we are going to talk about disadvantages of watching porn and why porn hub is
Evil. Yeah, we're gonna talk about the villains today
So one of the things that I've noticed with porn hub
not with porn hub with watching porn in general is
that
it honestly not killed my sex drive per se but I
expect more when it comes to sex and
I
sexual and I started sexualizing everybody including women and
I
Watch all kinds of porn. I used to anyway like it's it's my
Let's say I'm recording this in August and it's been two days since I have not watched porn
Which is crazy because I watched porn every day
Honestly because I am I'm horny all the time. I'm sorry. I I just am even if I have clients clients
I'm still horny afterwards and for the rest of the day, it's crazy. It's crazy. But
Yeah, it's been two days. I haven't watched it. I haven't had the need to just because I'm doing other stuff
I'm kind of a little stressed
Um, just because like after travel I've been traveling so much that money's kind of like down
Going keeps going down and down and I get less and less but anyways porn. Let's talk about porn
one of the biggest
Disadvantages of watching porn is that watching too much pornography can kill your sex drive
Addictive porn consumers start finding masturbation more satisfying than actual sex
They get a rust only through pornography. I
Can speak from personal experience
That I always come came
after watching porn
Very very few times I actually came
With a client or you know in in real life like I always have to take care of myself right afterwards
very very few guys actually give me orgasm and
It sucks it really sucks I feel like there's something wrong with me
But it's honestly it's just watching too much porn can do that
also another story I used to date this guy and he said that he stopped watching porn for six months and
His libido became way better
he gets aroused very quickly and
Like he used to stay at home all the time and just watch porn
And he stopped going out in public and you know pick up girls because why would he he had porn?
And right at his disposal and his phone he had phone he had his hand and
That's it like why?
Yeah, why would I go out to meet girls if I can just watch porn and get the same amount of pleasure, but
even though it's not the same amount of pleasure, but I
I
Completely understood what he was saying because sometimes I don't feel like going out and picking up guys
Because I was born like why would I you know why would I go out?
Pornography also deforms the perceptions of intimacy and sexual performance I
Think of it this way when you reach climax with your partner you feel attracted towards your partner and the visual graphics
induces the same feeling
Attractiveness will be associated with virtual images and videos then with your partner
This lessens the importance of real-life sex
Regular watching porn can cause an increased risk of erectile
Dysfunctions which is really important you guys I also know that stress causes erectile dysfunctions, but
Many maybe minimize watching porn maybe once a week
Maybe and see how it improves and like
You know to force a habit you have to try something for 21 days try going without porn for 21 days
see how it is and
Yeah, also scientific fact when watching porn excessively dopamine is released in excess
So as a result this hampers the dopamine reward system thus making it
unresponsive to natural sources of pleasure with the partner
Another facts reduced sperm count is due to regular porn watching
So basically studies have shown that excessive porn may result in frequent ejaculations affecting the sperm density semen
So so if you and your partner are trying to get pregnant it's gonna take a while
Every day view of porn can cause mental health issues
Pornography addiction can result in anxiety depression and anger issues transforming into psychological craving
So this reminds me the anger issues it reminds me when I
watched this documentary this interview actually with Ted Bundy the serial killer
Who was pretty cute, but anyways anyways Ted Bundy
Yes, he watched a lot of porn and it was violent porn and he said that it kind of affected him
And a lot of you know serial killers they watch porn when they're little and they turn out to be fucking psychos
So yeah, very fun fact well fun fun. I wouldn't say fun, but it's an interesting fact
Also watching porn apparently makes you self-centered which I did not know about
So consumption of pornography can make people insensitive towards others pleasure. Oh
This can impact romantic relationships friendships and even social relationships
Oh
Oh, this is a good one in addition some pornographic content often evades the important concept of consent and use of
Protection during sexual intercourse yes, I am so happy. I found this article
Yes, because okay. I've talked about this in one of the previous episodes by
Guys think that porn star experience is uncovered
Ta-ta-da yeah, they they honestly sound like that
They sound like retards to me when they say that because it obviously is not
What happens during porn shoots is this?
First of all somebody always reaches out to you
I know a few people have a shout to me because I'm a sex worker
They reached out to me saying that they would like me to be a sex worker
They reached out to me saying that they would like me to be an adult film
I I go so them. It's no no no I I'm good. I'm only amateur porn for me. Thanks
In my own space. I'm a director and producer and editor and actor so yeah
So basically porn shoots go like this people audition or somebody reaches out to them
People also can apply to be a porn star fun fact
and
You come to the shoot you
Go through the script you go through the scenes. It's all very very technical people everybody gets tested
I think it's every two or four weeks for CDs
That's why everybody is doing it uncovered because the tests are negative
So please don't think that porn star experience or sex workers do anything uncovered
Because we do not we do everything covered
Yes, so it gives people false perception on the what
It's like in real life, so also porn develops body image issues
I've noticed it with myself
Because a lot of girls in this port are pretty fit well the porn I was they all are very fit
They all have perfect bodies
However, I noticed that some of them have very fake
Large breasts and it shows
It's so gross. It's like you have tiny body your ribs are showing and you have these gigantic breasts that do not match your body
They don't even jiggle as much as natural breasts and it's like wow, maybe you know, maybe I should get these
Yeah, yeah, definitely. You know, a lot of them have fake lips
It's it's insane. So a lot of you know young girls who watch porn
They think that oh, maybe if I look like that guys will find me attractive, which is really it's a silly thought
So yeah, definitely, you know
Body image and not just for females for males as well
You know guys think that oh, I wish my penis was bigger. I wish I was as fit. I wish I you know
Lasted longer. Yeah stuff like that. It's so sad
Porn also alters reality with the partner its visuals exaggerate social pleasure by showcasing utopian bedroom stories shower sex and a flawless performance every time
You know, real-life sex can have flaws like you can fart you can burp doing real sex you also like girls don't go like
Every five seconds, you know
It's so stupid how a lot of these porn films are exaggerated like it's it's fucking insane
So yeah, real-life sex is not anything like the porn that you see because it's acting is over exaggerated
So to sum up is a bad to watch porn
Just like with drugs just like with anything in the world. I think
It's a limited amount of consumption is fine unless you have addictive personality unless you get addicted to it
So watching too much porn causes brain damage. Literally. I don't know if you guys ever seen this tick tock where the woman is like
Porn causes brain damage and then a lot of people stage this. I remember I staged it on tick tock and
Yeah, but no porn literally does cause brain damage. Holy shit. Like that woman was right. So yeah, I think everything is good in
consumption
But if you get addicted to it, you should probably stop
Because honestly porn has such
Whatever you see in porn, that's not how it is in real life
And the biggest thing is that it's not like you're watching porn
That's not how it is in real life. And the biggest thing of why porn hub is
Evil is because there is lots of human trafficking going on
Unfortunately, and I wish I wish I did not find about it
Because now that's why that's why I stopped watching porn. It's one of the reasons I stopped watching porn because I
know
For a fact that if I watch one of those videos
God forbid one of the actors is getting raped in it and we don't know about it. Like for example, if you're watching
Gay porn like and one of the guys is not gay and it literally hurts him
To have yeah. Anyways, I won't go into details, but
I've seen this podcast. Sorry. I've listened to this podcast very recently that
One day actors he was invited to the set and it looked like a professional set
But he signed the NDA form to NDA form is non-disclosure grim where you cannot talk about it about anyone
So he signed NDA signed the contract and
He was raped multiple times for multiple hours on that set. So
And just human trafficking. It's it does happen. A lot of the actors a lot of the people that you see are underage
So and Pornhub promotes that there's all kinds of videos in Pornhub and
I would just take that in mind. So I kind of stopped watching porn. I feel good
I'm pretty busy. I don't feel horny. I I love the real intimacy. I crave real intimacy
Not just sex. So that's my opinion and I hope you guys learned something from this podcast because I feel like
It's not talked about enough. So yeah, I hope you've enjoyed it
And my name is Lillian Monroe. You are listening to Ask O Confessions and I will talk to you guys next time