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Welcome back to Escort Confessions. My name is Lily Monroe and thank you so much for tuning

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in today. And today I'd like to talk about how not to get blacklisted as a future client,

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as a new client, as a regular client. Yeah, so let's start off with that. First things

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first, whenever you, before you even come to provider's home residence, I would look over

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the website, go through their etiquette rules, go through their ad if they do not have a website,

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and just follow the instructions on there. Like I have a website, my etiquette is super simple,

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like basically come clean, you can come clean in your Sunday best, you can wear whatever clothes

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you'd like, as long as you don't leave poop smears on my bed, that's all. That's all I ask,

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like as long as your breath smells good, you don't stink, like you're fine. For new clients,

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you know, small gift is always appreciated, like I don't care if it's a joint, I am very much for

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20 friendly, peace, love, yo, I don't know, you know, small candle, book, you know, small stuff

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like that, like I'm not asking for, you know, doling about an address on our first date or

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first get-together, so that's one other thing. Third thing, do not ask me for unsafe services,

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basically like why would I have sex without a condom with a complete stranger? Like even if

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I've seen you before and you ask, hey can I do a blowjob without a condom, to which I will say no,

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because that is how you contact HIV, that's how you can contact HPV, that's how you can contact

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syphilis, gonorrhea and all that stuff. I mean, it's kind of common knowledge, I mean, don't have

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unprotected sex, like it's so simple and yet that is one of the main things that can get you blacklisted.

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If you ask any provider either for bareback blowjob or just bareback full service, you're gonna get

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blacklisted, your time will be cut short, so don't be that guy. Do not ask for uncovered unprotected

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sex ever with a provider, yeah, just don't fucking do it, don't do it dude, you do not want AIDS or

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STDs, like any kind of STDs whatsoever. Second thing, you do not show up for your appointment,

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and so I do deposits, it just kind of secures your spot, just like with any other business out there.

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Deposits secure your spot, I know some providers don't do deposits, when I did not do deposits,

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guess what happened, people did not show up, so if you like basically let provider know if you are

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showing up, so if you are no call no show, guess what, blacklisted, blacklisted motherfuckers.

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Third reason, I think it's kind of the main one and I should have started off with that one,

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but do not ask for providers real name, that's not acceptable, we are using fake names for a reason,

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I know some providers, you know, they're based off their escort persona based on that name and

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vice versa, and we use fake names for a reason, so that our relatives, our friends, our families

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do not know that we do this, or our agents, you know, talent agents, all kinds of agents, real

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estate, co-workers, yeah, stuff like that, so we use fake names for a reason, so especially if you're

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a new client, do not ask for a real name or even our age, you know, that's just rude, even if you

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leave poop stains on our bed, blacklisted, that's not okay, we might say something, we might not,

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that's the fourth reason. Reason number five, if you are going to come with the freaking attitude

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and start being rude, start disrespecting us for no apparent reason, guess what, we're gonna kick

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you out, our time will be cut short and you're gonna be put on block list immediately, reason

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number six, do not text us, hey, hey, are you available, are you available, hi, I've seen you

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before, twice, blacklisted, it's just super unprofessional, if you see, like in my experience,

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let's just say I want to book a mail provider, am I gonna ask him if he's available, no, I'm going

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to submit what he needs to see for screening and just wait, just go from there, because if I'm just

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gonna text him, hey, are you available, I want the appointment now, are you available in the next hour,

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he's just gonna block me, he's or he's gonna cast me out and sometimes I cast people out, sometimes

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I just immediately block them, so don't be the guy who asks providers if they're available, that's

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not only disrespectful to us, that shows what kind of person you are, so a douchebag, douchebag, yeah,

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reason number seven and I don't know if this happens a lot with providers, I do not really

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talk with other providers, because I'm kind of, I kind of like to stay by myself and yeah, so I've

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heard, I've heard the story, a client brought a gun to provider's hotel, she instantly freaked out

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and she kicked him out and he was blacklisted, I had someone like that, he did bring a gun, but he

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said, hey, like this is my gun, I'm, this is all concealed, I just didn't know what to expect and

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I'm like, yeah, that's fine, yeah, like and I get it, I have a gun, I have guns in my home, I have

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other weapons that are not necessarily guns, but they are just as useful, so and I'll let people know,

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you know, that yes, I do have weapons here, you know, even if they do provide screening, so yeah,

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I mean, you can't trust anybody these days, but yeah, you know, I think, I think it's one of the

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reasons that could get you blacklisted, but I think it depends on the provider, but yeah, if you're not

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gonna tell me like there's a gun in your pants, you're gonna get kicked out, because it's like,

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ugh, why, why is he bringing a gun, like I have two cats here, like spare the cats, take me, just

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kidding, don't take me, don't take anybody, but yeah, so those are all the reasons I personally

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can think of and yeah, thank you so much for tuning in today, you guys are great, thank you so much for

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your support and speaking of support, my cash app is dollar sign, lily, monroe, 555, it does take time

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for me to make this podcast for you guys and you know, I edited a special program that does cost

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money, this podcast costs money, so yeah, if, I mean, anything can help and you can also watch this

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podcast on youtube, every new episode comes every week, so yeah, thank you so much for tuning in

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today, my name is lily monroe and I will talk to you guys next time.