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Hey guys, how's it going? You are listening to Escort Confessions and I am your host,

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Lily Monroe. Thank you so much for tuning in today. As, well, if you were listening

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to the last podcast, we talked about things that providers do and why you should run away

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and red flags that could be triggering and whatnot. So in the last podcast we talked

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about if provider offers anything bareback, you should not book her because it's dangerous

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and it's stupid. So let's move on to the next red flags, shall we? Red flag number two.

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If provider does not do any screening, she does not ask for your selfie or driver's license,

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the back of the credit card. I know some people do. If she does not ask for anything that

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shows your name, date of birth, anything that does not show your face. If she does not do

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deposits either, run because that is a law enforcement trying to catch you. Yeah, if

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provider does not do any screening, she's literally letting random stranger of any age,

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might be below 18, I don't know, might be over 81, who knows, any race, any age, any

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religion. She's letting stranger, complete stranger into her home. That would be really

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weird because that's not how it should be done and yeah, it's most likely law enforcement.

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So if you guys don't want to go to jail, yes, keep that type of provider because most of

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the providers, they do screening, they ask for two references and most of them started

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doing deposit because deposit guarantees your spot and I did talk about it in my previous

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podcast. If provider has a limited information and very limited amount of photos, especially

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with the blurred face, I would book a different provider. If she only has one link to her

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OnlyFans, she has five photos, her face is blurred out, she has minimal information,

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she does not do deposits, go to the next provider. That's, it looks like, if I came across the

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ad like that, I would skip it, I would just assume she's new or she might be law enforcement

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too. You never know these days, but yeah, most providers do screening and deposits.

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So yeah, that's red flag number three. If she has very limited information on her ad

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and especially if she doesn't have a website, website really helps. Red flag number four,

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fake advertising. What I mean by that is that there are providers who advertise themselves

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as something they do not, something they are not. I'm not going to say which city it is,

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but it is a provider I heard of, I know who it is. She advertises herself as GFE. One

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of my clients, he went to her for an appointment before he booked me, of course. He went to

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her, she did not do kissing, she did not like when people go went down on her, she did not

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like fingering, she did not, she was very mechanical. That is not GFE. That's, look,

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if you don't like your job, quit it, retire, retire the escorting. Let somebody else take

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over somebody who is passionate about it, somebody who actually likes girlfriend experience.

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So like me, I love intimacy, I love connection, I love kissing. Look, there, nobody gives

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you lessons on kissing. Actually, I had a lesson, but when I was a teenager, so I tried

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to be the best kisser there is. I tried to be very intimate. I tried to be, you know,

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all about the chemistry connection, things that girlfriend provides, real girlfriend

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provides. And I want my customers to leave satisfied. I want them to become my regulars.

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I want them to remember me. So if someone advertises themselves as GFE and they do not

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do kissing, I would just walk out. I would just be like, okay, thank you. This is like,

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I would tip her, pay her a little bit. Just, just, yeah. And I just walk out. Like, I hate

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providers like that who advertise themselves as something they are not. Like, if I advertise

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myself as dummy natrix and I do not feel comfortable spanking you or, you know, degrading you,

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playing ball games and stuff like that, I would not advertise it. That's it. It's that

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simple. If it's something you do not do, why would you advertise it? It's something that

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I don't understand. Maybe, maybe to get more people. I don't know. But yeah, lots of providers

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who say they're GFE, they're not GFE's at all. They do not like kissing. They do not

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like cuddling. They are very mechanical and it sucks for them. And it sucks for the clients

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because now client thinks that, oh, maybe GFE is not GFE. Maybe it's mechanical. Maybe

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it's silly term. And yeah, so next time client sees that somebody is GFE, he's just going

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to assume the provider is going to be mechanical. Maybe, maybe. I don't know. I can't read minds

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yet, but it kind of ruins the client's perception just because provider is stupid and ignorant

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enough to do fake advertising. So yeah, I hate providers like that. Fucking bitches.

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Anyways, so yeah, lots of fake advertisements. I would go to their website to find out more.

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I would have video chat. If they do offer video chat and just talk with them, make sure

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that if they do, you know, either GFE or BDSM or massage table, heavy massage, whatever

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service it is that you're looking for, I would just make sure that it is something that provider

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actually does. Because if you come to the provider's home or if she comes to you and

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she does not provide a service that you fantasized about for so long, just kick her out. Pay

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her, kick her out. You don't go to the next provider. And yeah, I mean, and I'm sorry

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that does happen with you guys. I really am. I'm just going to apologize for the stupid

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freaking providers who do not know better. And yeah, so I am sorry that does happen to

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you. But yeah, you know, lots of providers out there. I don't know if I mentioned this

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earlier, but I do go to, you know, Trist to upload some new photos, you know, fix some

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things, fix the prices or sorry, donations for my time, fix the donations for my time.

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And yeah, go to Trist and there's thousands, there's tens of thousands of us. So if you

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cannot find the provider that you're looking for, you can also go to... Okay, okay, I'm

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just gonna do an example. I booked a certain provider, a mail provider, and I see that

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his location is, I don't know, LA, for example, Los Angeles. Guess what? I'm gonna fly there

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and I'm gonna see him because I know he's the best one and one of the best ones in the

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country. He's my type. He's a boyfriend experience. He very polite over the email. And I would

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book him. I would, you know, go out of my way, book a plane ticket and fly there. I don't...

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I mean, I know some providers do tours. I know some are too busy with their, you know,

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regular jobs and yeah, but like I don't mind flying to provider to see him if I know he's

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the best one for me personally. So yeah, and if the female provider is touring, I would

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get on her schedule as soon as possible, especially if she's touring in your city or the city

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near you. I would pre-book in advance because what happens when you... when she's in your

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city and you book at the last moment? She's probably already booked, most likely. So especially

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the one who's been in the industry for years and years, if not decades. Yeah, it's just

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a, you know, just an idea to pre-book ahead if your favorite provider is touring in the

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city near you. So yeah, but yeah, in conclusion, red flag number four was the fake advertising

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with providers. Red flag number five, it's fake advertising part two. So if the provider

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has the same pictures and the same information either on her website or the ad advertisement,

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something's wrong, something's fishy because she might not be active, she might be retired.

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It could be one of the reasons and her ad's still there. Maybe she lost access to this

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account so she cannot delete it. It could be one of the reasons. The other reason why

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she won't change her photos or information, it's kind of sensitive. She might be dead.

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You know, people die every day. You know, this sex industry is pretty dangerous. It

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can be pretty dangerous. So God forbid I, you know, I know I talk shit about other providers

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but for a reason, for my own reasons, but it always saddens me when I find out that

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certain provider was murdered or, you know, killed and whatnot. And yeah, so if, you know,

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if you email the provider, if you text her and she's not answering, might be another

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reason. She's either dead or she retired. Third reason would be she might be 10 years

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older and 10 pounds heavier because it did happen to a few of my regulars. Why did they

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become my regulars? Because I look, I change, I change my look, I change the information,

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I change my photos. That's why they came to me. But they went to this other provider

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in my area and her pictures were the same for a few years. So obviously when they came

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over they were expecting 25 year old, 40 year old greeted them. So yeah, like providers

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please change your pictures at least every three months because yeah, like I personally

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try to change pictures whenever I feel like it. If I go on a new adventure, I would change

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my picture. I know I have limit on 24 right now. I probably will upgrade it at one point

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but you know, I think the less photos, the better. Like the less is more. Same with like

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acting, same with everything there. Like less plastic surgery you have, that's better because

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men like natural. Yeah, yeah. But anyways, less is more. I'm not saying she should have

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five pictures because that would be shady too but if she does not change her picture

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or the information, I would be skeptical about it because you know, it does happen that the

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provider does not look the same as her pictures. She's older, she's heavier and yeah, it's

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pretty much fake advertisement. So providers please do not do that. If you're gonna do

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that, retire. Don't do this job anymore or post new pictures. Like I take my own pictures

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now and it's fine. It's really fun. Like I still get booked. So you know, we all have

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iPhones, we all have cameras. Most of us do anyway. So you know, iPhone, Android. Android

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gets shade all the time. It takes great fucking photos. I take photographs all the time,

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not just of myself but of my travels. Android takes good pictures. So you know, iPhone,

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Android, take your own pictures. Improvise. And guess what? It's gonna be free. It's

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free photoshoot because it's only you and if you know how to edit, good for you. That's

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awesome. So yeah, and those shoots are pretty fun. They're really good self-esteem therapy.

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So yeah. So providers please do not keep your old pictures from years ago because guess

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what? Clients will not like it and they will not return to you because you lied to them.

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And you know, communication is the key to every relationship. Especially with provider

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and client. So take some new pictures, god damn it. So that's red flag number five. Fake

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advertisement. Change pictures and change the advertisement info. Change some stuff

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on your website. It's always nice to keep it changing and moving and renovating and

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whatnot. Red flag number six. If a provider does not answer your text or email after three

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days, I would move on to the next one. I understand that a lot of providers are busy, especially

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during summer or winter. So summer is for vacations, winter is for holidays. Obviously

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Christmas, New Year, Hanukkah, all them shits. All the cool holidays that are weekend. Especially

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Christmas. Christmas is a weekend, pretty sure. Yeah, anyways. So yeah, lots of providers

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are busy but I'm just gonna compare myself. So no, I'm gonna tell you guys a story. So

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I did, I was looking for another girl so we could do duos together. And it was two years

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ago when I first started. Just to make more money, to socialize with other providers and

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whatnot. I emailed 50 providers. Only two have answered back. So if provider does not

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answer in three days time, move on to the next one. Provider is either busy or you sent

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her a screen and she might not see guys who are, I don't know, certain shape or color

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or maybe you're, I don't know, too young, too old. It does happen. So just move on to

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the next one. Yeah, it does happen, unfortunately. I see everybody, I like everybody, I get along

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with everybody. So come to me instead. Yeah, so yeah. Ref like number six. If she does

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not answer after three days, whether it's a text or email, move on to the next one.

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I like to think, I know I'm gonna finish this red flag, but I will add that if, I always

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think from my perspective, if someone emails me, I see the email, I see that they sent

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me a screening, all the information. If I took my job seriously, I would answer them

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right away. I always check my email in the morning, sometimes in the afternoon and evening

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just to make sure. I like to answer promptly because I know they will be waiting. I know

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the men are horny all the time, just like me. So it can be really frustrating, especially

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to wait after three days. Three days is like, okay, like it's a maximum amount of days to

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take somebody to answer. Like there's notifications on our phones now when new email comes in

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or text message. So yeah, like some providers do not like their jobs. I always advise just

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fucking retire. If you don't like your job, retire. There's lots of providers who will

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satisfy the clients. So there's that point. I hope you guys understood what I'm talking

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about. So it's like, if you don't like your job, if you're gonna wait, gonna let client

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wait for three freaking days, which is 72 hours, why? Why would you do that? They're

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horny, they want you now. And especially if they sent all the screening and the provider

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does not answer, yeah, move on to someone better, someone more professional. So yeah,

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red flag number, was that six? I think it was six. Red flag number six. So yeah, if

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provider does not answer after three days, move on. So yeah, this is all that I can think

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about. This is all the red flags that I personally know of. So yeah, watch out for the popos,

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do proper screening. Yeah, check out every link that the provider has and good luck.

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I hope you guys enjoyed this podcast today. My name is Lily Munro and I will talk to you

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guys next time.