Hey guys, how's it going? You are listening to Escort Confessions and I am your host,
Lily Monroe. Thank you so much for tuning in today. As, well, if you were listening
to the last podcast, we talked about things that providers do and why you should run away
and red flags that could be triggering and whatnot. So in the last podcast we talked
about if provider offers anything bareback, you should not book her because it's dangerous
and it's stupid. So let's move on to the next red flags, shall we? Red flag number two.
If provider does not do any screening, she does not ask for your selfie or driver's license,
the back of the credit card. I know some people do. If she does not ask for anything that
shows your name, date of birth, anything that does not show your face. If she does not do
deposits either, run because that is a law enforcement trying to catch you. Yeah, if
provider does not do any screening, she's literally letting random stranger of any age,
might be below 18, I don't know, might be over 81, who knows, any race, any age, any
religion. She's letting stranger, complete stranger into her home. That would be really
weird because that's not how it should be done and yeah, it's most likely law enforcement.
So if you guys don't want to go to jail, yes, keep that type of provider because most of
the providers, they do screening, they ask for two references and most of them started
doing deposit because deposit guarantees your spot and I did talk about it in my previous
podcast. If provider has a limited information and very limited amount of photos, especially
with the blurred face, I would book a different provider. If she only has one link to her
OnlyFans, she has five photos, her face is blurred out, she has minimal information,
she does not do deposits, go to the next provider. That's, it looks like, if I came across the
ad like that, I would skip it, I would just assume she's new or she might be law enforcement
too. You never know these days, but yeah, most providers do screening and deposits.
So yeah, that's red flag number three. If she has very limited information on her ad
and especially if she doesn't have a website, website really helps. Red flag number four,
fake advertising. What I mean by that is that there are providers who advertise themselves
as something they do not, something they are not. I'm not going to say which city it is,
but it is a provider I heard of, I know who it is. She advertises herself as GFE. One
of my clients, he went to her for an appointment before he booked me, of course. He went to
her, she did not do kissing, she did not like when people go went down on her, she did not
like fingering, she did not, she was very mechanical. That is not GFE. That's, look,
if you don't like your job, quit it, retire, retire the escorting. Let somebody else take
over somebody who is passionate about it, somebody who actually likes girlfriend experience.
So like me, I love intimacy, I love connection, I love kissing. Look, there, nobody gives
you lessons on kissing. Actually, I had a lesson, but when I was a teenager, so I tried
to be the best kisser there is. I tried to be very intimate. I tried to be, you know,
all about the chemistry connection, things that girlfriend provides, real girlfriend
provides. And I want my customers to leave satisfied. I want them to become my regulars.
I want them to remember me. So if someone advertises themselves as GFE and they do not
do kissing, I would just walk out. I would just be like, okay, thank you. This is like,
I would tip her, pay her a little bit. Just, just, yeah. And I just walk out. Like, I hate
providers like that who advertise themselves as something they are not. Like, if I advertise
myself as dummy natrix and I do not feel comfortable spanking you or, you know, degrading you,
playing ball games and stuff like that, I would not advertise it. That's it. It's that
simple. If it's something you do not do, why would you advertise it? It's something that
I don't understand. Maybe, maybe to get more people. I don't know. But yeah, lots of providers
who say they're GFE, they're not GFE's at all. They do not like kissing. They do not
like cuddling. They are very mechanical and it sucks for them. And it sucks for the clients
because now client thinks that, oh, maybe GFE is not GFE. Maybe it's mechanical. Maybe
it's silly term. And yeah, so next time client sees that somebody is GFE, he's just going
to assume the provider is going to be mechanical. Maybe, maybe. I don't know. I can't read minds
yet, but it kind of ruins the client's perception just because provider is stupid and ignorant
enough to do fake advertising. So yeah, I hate providers like that. Fucking bitches.
Anyways, so yeah, lots of fake advertisements. I would go to their website to find out more.
I would have video chat. If they do offer video chat and just talk with them, make sure
that if they do, you know, either GFE or BDSM or massage table, heavy massage, whatever
service it is that you're looking for, I would just make sure that it is something that provider
actually does. Because if you come to the provider's home or if she comes to you and
she does not provide a service that you fantasized about for so long, just kick her out. Pay
her, kick her out. You don't go to the next provider. And yeah, I mean, and I'm sorry
that does happen with you guys. I really am. I'm just going to apologize for the stupid
freaking providers who do not know better. And yeah, so I am sorry that does happen to
you. But yeah, you know, lots of providers out there. I don't know if I mentioned this
earlier, but I do go to, you know, Trist to upload some new photos, you know, fix some
things, fix the prices or sorry, donations for my time, fix the donations for my time.
And yeah, go to Trist and there's thousands, there's tens of thousands of us. So if you
cannot find the provider that you're looking for, you can also go to... Okay, okay, I'm
just gonna do an example. I booked a certain provider, a mail provider, and I see that
his location is, I don't know, LA, for example, Los Angeles. Guess what? I'm gonna fly there
and I'm gonna see him because I know he's the best one and one of the best ones in the
country. He's my type. He's a boyfriend experience. He very polite over the email. And I would
book him. I would, you know, go out of my way, book a plane ticket and fly there. I don't...
I mean, I know some providers do tours. I know some are too busy with their, you know,
regular jobs and yeah, but like I don't mind flying to provider to see him if I know he's
the best one for me personally. So yeah, and if the female provider is touring, I would
get on her schedule as soon as possible, especially if she's touring in your city or the city
near you. I would pre-book in advance because what happens when you... when she's in your
city and you book at the last moment? She's probably already booked, most likely. So especially
the one who's been in the industry for years and years, if not decades. Yeah, it's just
a, you know, just an idea to pre-book ahead if your favorite provider is touring in the
city near you. So yeah, but yeah, in conclusion, red flag number four was the fake advertising
with providers. Red flag number five, it's fake advertising part two. So if the provider
has the same pictures and the same information either on her website or the ad advertisement,
something's wrong, something's fishy because she might not be active, she might be retired.
It could be one of the reasons and her ad's still there. Maybe she lost access to this
account so she cannot delete it. It could be one of the reasons. The other reason why
she won't change her photos or information, it's kind of sensitive. She might be dead.
You know, people die every day. You know, this sex industry is pretty dangerous. It
can be pretty dangerous. So God forbid I, you know, I know I talk shit about other providers
but for a reason, for my own reasons, but it always saddens me when I find out that
certain provider was murdered or, you know, killed and whatnot. And yeah, so if, you know,
if you email the provider, if you text her and she's not answering, might be another
reason. She's either dead or she retired. Third reason would be she might be 10 years
older and 10 pounds heavier because it did happen to a few of my regulars. Why did they
become my regulars? Because I look, I change, I change my look, I change the information,
I change my photos. That's why they came to me. But they went to this other provider
in my area and her pictures were the same for a few years. So obviously when they came
over they were expecting 25 year old, 40 year old greeted them. So yeah, like providers
please change your pictures at least every three months because yeah, like I personally
try to change pictures whenever I feel like it. If I go on a new adventure, I would change
my picture. I know I have limit on 24 right now. I probably will upgrade it at one point
but you know, I think the less photos, the better. Like the less is more. Same with like
acting, same with everything there. Like less plastic surgery you have, that's better because
men like natural. Yeah, yeah. But anyways, less is more. I'm not saying she should have
five pictures because that would be shady too but if she does not change her picture
or the information, I would be skeptical about it because you know, it does happen that the
provider does not look the same as her pictures. She's older, she's heavier and yeah, it's
pretty much fake advertisement. So providers please do not do that. If you're gonna do
that, retire. Don't do this job anymore or post new pictures. Like I take my own pictures
now and it's fine. It's really fun. Like I still get booked. So you know, we all have
iPhones, we all have cameras. Most of us do anyway. So you know, iPhone, Android. Android
gets shade all the time. It takes great fucking photos. I take photographs all the time,
not just of myself but of my travels. Android takes good pictures. So you know, iPhone,
Android, take your own pictures. Improvise. And guess what? It's gonna be free. It's
free photoshoot because it's only you and if you know how to edit, good for you. That's
awesome. So yeah, and those shoots are pretty fun. They're really good self-esteem therapy.
So yeah. So providers please do not keep your old pictures from years ago because guess
what? Clients will not like it and they will not return to you because you lied to them.
And you know, communication is the key to every relationship. Especially with provider
and client. So take some new pictures, god damn it. So that's red flag number five. Fake
advertisement. Change pictures and change the advertisement info. Change some stuff
on your website. It's always nice to keep it changing and moving and renovating and
whatnot. Red flag number six. If a provider does not answer your text or email after three
days, I would move on to the next one. I understand that a lot of providers are busy, especially
during summer or winter. So summer is for vacations, winter is for holidays. Obviously
Christmas, New Year, Hanukkah, all them shits. All the cool holidays that are weekend. Especially
Christmas. Christmas is a weekend, pretty sure. Yeah, anyways. So yeah, lots of providers
are busy but I'm just gonna compare myself. So no, I'm gonna tell you guys a story. So
I did, I was looking for another girl so we could do duos together. And it was two years
ago when I first started. Just to make more money, to socialize with other providers and
whatnot. I emailed 50 providers. Only two have answered back. So if provider does not
answer in three days time, move on to the next one. Provider is either busy or you sent
her a screen and she might not see guys who are, I don't know, certain shape or color
or maybe you're, I don't know, too young, too old. It does happen. So just move on to
the next one. Yeah, it does happen, unfortunately. I see everybody, I like everybody, I get along
with everybody. So come to me instead. Yeah, so yeah. Ref like number six. If she does
not answer after three days, whether it's a text or email, move on to the next one.
I like to think, I know I'm gonna finish this red flag, but I will add that if, I always
think from my perspective, if someone emails me, I see the email, I see that they sent
me a screening, all the information. If I took my job seriously, I would answer them
right away. I always check my email in the morning, sometimes in the afternoon and evening
just to make sure. I like to answer promptly because I know they will be waiting. I know
the men are horny all the time, just like me. So it can be really frustrating, especially
to wait after three days. Three days is like, okay, like it's a maximum amount of days to
take somebody to answer. Like there's notifications on our phones now when new email comes in
or text message. So yeah, like some providers do not like their jobs. I always advise just
fucking retire. If you don't like your job, retire. There's lots of providers who will
satisfy the clients. So there's that point. I hope you guys understood what I'm talking
about. So it's like, if you don't like your job, if you're gonna wait, gonna let client
wait for three freaking days, which is 72 hours, why? Why would you do that? They're
horny, they want you now. And especially if they sent all the screening and the provider
does not answer, yeah, move on to someone better, someone more professional. So yeah,
red flag number, was that six? I think it was six. Red flag number six. So yeah, if
provider does not answer after three days, move on. So yeah, this is all that I can think
about. This is all the red flags that I personally know of. So yeah, watch out for the popos,
do proper screening. Yeah, check out every link that the provider has and good luck.
I hope you guys enjoyed this podcast today. My name is Lily Munro and I will talk to you
guys next time.