Hey guys, what is going on? You are listening to Escort Confessions and I am your host,
Lily Monroe. Thank you so much for joining me here today and I am going to talk about
providers. If you see provider do this, run away, run far, far away. So, I'm going to
start with probably the most important thing, the health and safety of both clients and
providers. And I did talk about, you know, different STDs and whatnot in the first season,
I believe, of my podcast, but it's also on YouTube. So, yeah, you can listen to this
podcast on YouTube. We're on YouTube, yay! We're not, or I guess not we, me. I am not
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so that way clients and, you know, those who do want to become providers, they would know,
they would know what I've learned and the mistakes I've learned from. So, they would
not make the same freaking mistakes that I did whenever I started. So, yeah, donations
are always welcome. Yay! Considering there's tens of thousands of people listening, I want
money. No, but seriously, it's been so boring here in summer that, but again, you know,
summer people spend time with their families. People go on vacations, even though it's expensive.
It's actually twice, if not three times more expensive to go on a holiday or on vacation
in summer because everybody, everybody's free from, you know, work and, well, almost everybody
from work and from school, especially from school, college, you know, stuff like that.
So it makes sense for the airlines to up the prices, for the hotels to up their prices
too. So, yeah, I guess you just have to look. If you go to Google flights, I believe, yeah,
and just check out the prices, there should be pretty good prices. So, yeah, fun facts
out of theme, out of today's topic. But yeah, Google flights. So, yeah, this podcast is
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me to talk about, any questions you guys have, I am more than happy to answer them. I love
questions. I love tricky questions and I love complicated questions. And I really enjoy
the questions that I do not know the answer to. Not yet anyway. So, yeah, feel free to
pick my brain, my Russian Eastern European brain. Go ahead. I can take it. The first
thing that should concern everybody is if a provider offers bareback services, whether
it's oral or vaginal or both, it's big red flag because first of all, they're having
unprotected sex with a complete stranger. If they're having unprotected sex, I am sure
they do not do like those sets of providers. They do not do any screening. And I will talk
about it next. There are so many STIs, which is sexually transmitted infection and sexually
transmitted diseases. Diseases are not curable. So, herpes is not curable. HIV, I don't think
is curable. But, you know, but gonovir, chlamydia, those are curable. And there's lots more that
are curable that could be treated with medication. You're just going to have to spend more money,
especially if you don't have health insurance. So, I just want everybody to be responsible.
I don't care if it feels better without a condom because I feel bad for the guys that
they do have to put, you know, plastic over their genitals and it does not feel as good.
So, for that, I would just... My favorite type of condoms are skim. It's SKYN. I think it's
by KY. Then there's a few other ones that feel like skin. They fit good. They do not
slip off. They are the right size. And yeah, because I know magnums, they're kind of thick,
but they are for thick guys. So, thick isn't big penis. Sometimes too big for me. So, there's
that. Yeah. And you know, unprotected sex, it's... I... Okay, I used to do uncovered blowjobs.
I know it's a big mistake. First of all, the reason I changed it is because believe it
or not, or whether you know it or not, you can still catch STIs and STDs via blowjob.
Yeah, you can do research about it. You can still catch it. Same with vaginal sex. You
know, the only reason if I want to have unprotected sex is I have to be in a committed, monogamous
relationship with somebody. That's the only reason I would personally do it. And especially
I'm on like birth pills. I... You know, I like to check my genitals. So, yeah, do regular
checkups to see like if there's any Zits and whatnot. I have quite a few scares, even though
I do everything protected. Even blowjobs. Yeah. Even though I do everything protected,
I still might catch a few Zits and either ingrown hair or it's sweat, sweat pimples.
They form when you... I go to gym, so when I sweat, of course, it's genital area. I sweat
everywhere. And then I don't take shower for a couple of hours. And then next thing I know,
there's pimples near in my groin, in my genital area. And I'm like, oh my God! But it's only
sweat glands. And they can look different for every person. But yeah. So yeah. And of
course, like I get UTIs just like any other woman. You know, yeast infections sometimes.
For women, I would actually advise if you get constant yeast infections, drink... and
UTIs, drink cranberry juice or take cranberry extract medication. They are sold on Amazon
or you can just Google it. Yeah. Ask your healthcare provider. Yeah. And for yeast infections,
do not wear tight clothing and do not sleep in your underwear because that's how you get
a yeast infection. That's one of the ways you get yeast infection. So yeah. And yeah,
because I used to wear very tight lingerie. I switched to cotton and I do not get those
anymore. Not as much as I used. I still get them like once in two or three months. Yeah.
So and please, ladies and gentlemen, please clean your genital area. Yeah. Morning and
evening. Thank you. Because I did not want to talk about the pep smear or not. Sorry.
Not the pep smears. The poop stains on the bed. And I know a lot of providers will totally
relate to that because some guys think it's super gay to wipe their asses in the shower.
They kind of just rinse. I'm like, no, no, no. You have to wipe it with the washcloth.
That's why they're at the hotels. That's why washcloths are being sold. Not just for the
face but for the peepee and the poo poo. Yeah. The vagina. The vagina. Yeah. So I would do
research like if you ever get any kind of symptoms, Google it or even better go to Planned
Parenthood or any other health care provider. Like Planned Parenthood. That's my go-to because
they don't charge as much. And yeah. I like them. They're friendly. There's no weight
there. And yeah. I like Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood. And they have like everywhere
condoms. They're in those little bins and I take some every time I'm there for my regular
checkup. So yeah. Just take care of your body. And fun fact. I don't know if you guys are
into conspiracy theories. I am. And this one does seem believable because there was a man.
I cannot remember his name from top of my head but he invented a cure for herpes and
I believe for AIDS as well or HIV. But I know for cure for herpes for sure. And the government
killed him because Big Pharma makes billions if not trillions of dollars every year and
it's profitable. It's profitable for the government to for the people to be sick. Well okay not
sick per se but it's profitable for the government to ask for a shit ton of money from people.
Instead of curing it once and for all. So hopefully we'll have cure for every STD there
is. And yeah. Just guys please have protected sex and have protected oral sex because you
get STDs that way too. Yeah. You can do research. It's on Google. It's in books. So yeah. Go
to a library. Check it out. Because I know for sure. American education system sucks
ass. Pardon my French. I remember when I was in middle school and I was in the United States.
We only had one health class. I only had one health class in all of my American education
years. So from the sixth grade. No sorry from the seventh grade and up until twelfth grade
I only had one health class. That is sad. Disappointing. Yeah. America. Number one country
in the world can suck my ass. But anyways. American education sucks. It really does.
They do not know the facts. They do not know that you can catch it. And via bodily fluids,
blood. All kinds of stuff. So yeah. Just I just want everybody to be safe and protected.
So yeah. If provider. My point is if provider offers anything there I would just go to a
different provider. Provider should have safe environment. She should know. She should know
the stuff. She should not offer bareback anything. It's. It would be stupid. It really would be.
I came across few providers who did bareback blowjob and I was like no no no. Not doing
duo with you again. So that's red flag number one. Just if provider offers anything bareback
run go to a different provider. There are so many providers out there. I went on Tris
the other day and you know I don't like to compare myself per se but you know I watch
I get some ideas from other providers. I get some ideas from either their pictures or the
description and I try not to copy and paste or anything. But yeah. So yeah Tris should
show you how many profiles are there. Trust me there are lots of providers. There's lots
of choices in almost every city and especially major city. Yeah. So for example if you are
booking GFE which is girlfriend experience it is a common misconception that GFE is unprotected
and that is so false. I just want to slap the person who started this misconception
because it's so not true. Girlfriend experience is about intimacy and kissing and cuddling.
Yeah. And it's about connection. So that's what I offer. And yeah if someone offers GFE
experience just ask them if they do. I would go to the website and just check it out. Website
is the best way because it has all the providers info all their socials and their policy their
etiquette. So there is that. I know I went over this topic but I just want you guys to
stay safe and informed. So yeah.