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Hey guys, what is going on? You are listening to Escort Confessions and I am your host,

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Lily Monroe. Thank you so much for joining me here today and I am going to talk about

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providers. If you see provider do this, run away, run far, far away. So, I'm going to

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start with probably the most important thing, the health and safety of both clients and

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providers. And I did talk about, you know, different STDs and whatnot in the first season,

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I believe, of my podcast, but it's also on YouTube. So, yeah, you can listen to this

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podcast on YouTube. We're on YouTube, yay! We're not, or I guess not we, me. I am not

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really sponsored by anybody, not at the moment anyway. But yeah, you know, donations are

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always welcome. You can just cash at me. It's dollar sign Lily with two Ls, L-I-L-L-Y,

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Monroe as in Marilyn Monroe, 555. Yeah, because it does cost me to, you know, keep renewing

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the RSS fee. You know, it takes time for me to record these, but I do it for the information

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so that way clients and, you know, those who do want to become providers, they would know,

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they would know what I've learned and the mistakes I've learned from. So, they would

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not make the same freaking mistakes that I did whenever I started. So, yeah, donations

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are always welcome. Yay! Considering there's tens of thousands of people listening, I want

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money. No, but seriously, it's been so boring here in summer that, but again, you know,

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summer people spend time with their families. People go on vacations, even though it's expensive.

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It's actually twice, if not three times more expensive to go on a holiday or on vacation

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in summer because everybody, everybody's free from, you know, work and, well, almost everybody

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from work and from school, especially from school, college, you know, stuff like that.

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So it makes sense for the airlines to up the prices, for the hotels to up their prices

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too. So, yeah, I guess you just have to look. If you go to Google flights, I believe, yeah,

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and just check out the prices, there should be pretty good prices. So, yeah, fun facts

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out of theme, out of today's topic. But yeah, Google flights. So, yeah, this podcast is

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on YouTube. Feel free to subscribe, like button. I think I turned the comments off. Wait, no,

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no, comments are on. So, yeah, feel free to share ideas, maybe the topics that you'd like

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me to talk about, any questions you guys have, I am more than happy to answer them. I love

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questions. I love tricky questions and I love complicated questions. And I really enjoy

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the questions that I do not know the answer to. Not yet anyway. So, yeah, feel free to

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pick my brain, my Russian Eastern European brain. Go ahead. I can take it. The first

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thing that should concern everybody is if a provider offers bareback services, whether

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it's oral or vaginal or both, it's big red flag because first of all, they're having

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unprotected sex with a complete stranger. If they're having unprotected sex, I am sure

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they do not do like those sets of providers. They do not do any screening. And I will talk

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about it next. There are so many STIs, which is sexually transmitted infection and sexually

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transmitted diseases. Diseases are not curable. So, herpes is not curable. HIV, I don't think

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is curable. But, you know, but gonovir, chlamydia, those are curable. And there's lots more that

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are curable that could be treated with medication. You're just going to have to spend more money,

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especially if you don't have health insurance. So, I just want everybody to be responsible.

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I don't care if it feels better without a condom because I feel bad for the guys that

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they do have to put, you know, plastic over their genitals and it does not feel as good.

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So, for that, I would just... My favorite type of condoms are skim. It's SKYN. I think it's

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by KY. Then there's a few other ones that feel like skin. They fit good. They do not

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slip off. They are the right size. And yeah, because I know magnums, they're kind of thick,

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but they are for thick guys. So, thick isn't big penis. Sometimes too big for me. So, there's

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that. Yeah. And you know, unprotected sex, it's... I... Okay, I used to do uncovered blowjobs.

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I know it's a big mistake. First of all, the reason I changed it is because believe it

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or not, or whether you know it or not, you can still catch STIs and STDs via blowjob.

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Yeah, you can do research about it. You can still catch it. Same with vaginal sex. You

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know, the only reason if I want to have unprotected sex is I have to be in a committed, monogamous

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relationship with somebody. That's the only reason I would personally do it. And especially

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I'm on like birth pills. I... You know, I like to check my genitals. So, yeah, do regular

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checkups to see like if there's any Zits and whatnot. I have quite a few scares, even though

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I do everything protected. Even blowjobs. Yeah. Even though I do everything protected,

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I still might catch a few Zits and either ingrown hair or it's sweat, sweat pimples.

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They form when you... I go to gym, so when I sweat, of course, it's genital area. I sweat

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everywhere. And then I don't take shower for a couple of hours. And then next thing I know,

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there's pimples near in my groin, in my genital area. And I'm like, oh my God! But it's only

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sweat glands. And they can look different for every person. But yeah. So yeah. And of

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course, like I get UTIs just like any other woman. You know, yeast infections sometimes.

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For women, I would actually advise if you get constant yeast infections, drink... and

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UTIs, drink cranberry juice or take cranberry extract medication. They are sold on Amazon

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or you can just Google it. Yeah. Ask your healthcare provider. Yeah. And for yeast infections,

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do not wear tight clothing and do not sleep in your underwear because that's how you get

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a yeast infection. That's one of the ways you get yeast infection. So yeah. And yeah,

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because I used to wear very tight lingerie. I switched to cotton and I do not get those

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anymore. Not as much as I used. I still get them like once in two or three months. Yeah.

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So and please, ladies and gentlemen, please clean your genital area. Yeah. Morning and

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evening. Thank you. Because I did not want to talk about the pep smear or not. Sorry.

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Not the pep smears. The poop stains on the bed. And I know a lot of providers will totally

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relate to that because some guys think it's super gay to wipe their asses in the shower.

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They kind of just rinse. I'm like, no, no, no. You have to wipe it with the washcloth.

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That's why they're at the hotels. That's why washcloths are being sold. Not just for the

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face but for the peepee and the poo poo. Yeah. The vagina. The vagina. Yeah. So I would do

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research like if you ever get any kind of symptoms, Google it or even better go to Planned

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Parenthood or any other health care provider. Like Planned Parenthood. That's my go-to because

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they don't charge as much. And yeah. I like them. They're friendly. There's no weight

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there. And yeah. I like Planned Parenthood. Planned Parenthood. And they have like everywhere

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condoms. They're in those little bins and I take some every time I'm there for my regular

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checkup. So yeah. Just take care of your body. And fun fact. I don't know if you guys are

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into conspiracy theories. I am. And this one does seem believable because there was a man.

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I cannot remember his name from top of my head but he invented a cure for herpes and

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I believe for AIDS as well or HIV. But I know for cure for herpes for sure. And the government

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killed him because Big Pharma makes billions if not trillions of dollars every year and

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it's profitable. It's profitable for the government to for the people to be sick. Well okay not

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sick per se but it's profitable for the government to ask for a shit ton of money from people.

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Instead of curing it once and for all. So hopefully we'll have cure for every STD there

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is. And yeah. Just guys please have protected sex and have protected oral sex because you

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get STDs that way too. Yeah. You can do research. It's on Google. It's in books. So yeah. Go

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to a library. Check it out. Because I know for sure. American education system sucks

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ass. Pardon my French. I remember when I was in middle school and I was in the United States.

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We only had one health class. I only had one health class in all of my American education

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years. So from the sixth grade. No sorry from the seventh grade and up until twelfth grade

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I only had one health class. That is sad. Disappointing. Yeah. America. Number one country

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in the world can suck my ass. But anyways. American education sucks. It really does.

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They do not know the facts. They do not know that you can catch it. And via bodily fluids,

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blood. All kinds of stuff. So yeah. Just I just want everybody to be safe and protected.

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So yeah. If provider. My point is if provider offers anything there I would just go to a

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different provider. Provider should have safe environment. She should know. She should know

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the stuff. She should not offer bareback anything. It's. It would be stupid. It really would be.

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I came across few providers who did bareback blowjob and I was like no no no. Not doing

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duo with you again. So that's red flag number one. Just if provider offers anything bareback

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run go to a different provider. There are so many providers out there. I went on Tris

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the other day and you know I don't like to compare myself per se but you know I watch

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I get some ideas from other providers. I get some ideas from either their pictures or the

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description and I try not to copy and paste or anything. But yeah. So yeah Tris should

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show you how many profiles are there. Trust me there are lots of providers. There's lots

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of choices in almost every city and especially major city. Yeah. So for example if you are

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booking GFE which is girlfriend experience it is a common misconception that GFE is unprotected

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and that is so false. I just want to slap the person who started this misconception

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because it's so not true. Girlfriend experience is about intimacy and kissing and cuddling.

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Yeah. And it's about connection. So that's what I offer. And yeah if someone offers GFE

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experience just ask them if they do. I would go to the website and just check it out. Website

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is the best way because it has all the providers info all their socials and their policy their

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etiquette. So there is that. I know I went over this topic but I just want you guys to

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stay safe and informed. So yeah.