1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:29,280 Well, hello. Hello. Welcome back to another episode of Diagnosting a Killer, the mental breakdown. 2 00:00:29,280 --> 00:00:37,040 That sounded so weird. What? Because we usually go, hello. So when coming in and whispering, like, hello. 3 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:45,480 Well, we both just got it in right there. Hello. Guys, this is fucking happening. This is the last episode before the con. 4 00:00:45,480 --> 00:00:53,280 It can't even contain it. I'm so excited. Like, it's ridiculous. I'm just like, I just want to mingle with people. 5 00:00:53,280 --> 00:01:01,680 I just want to, like, rub elbows, you know? I'm really excited to meet other podcasts. This is a huge networking opportunity for us. 6 00:01:01,680 --> 00:01:11,760 Yeah. And of course, I'm really excited to meet Lainey. I want to meet Lainey in person. I just, like I said, I want to be in a room full of like, minded people that enjoy the same content. 7 00:01:11,760 --> 00:01:18,160 Thank you. Yes. Because I feel like every other person I talk to in my daily life is like, yeah, okay, we get it. You host a fucking podcast. 8 00:01:18,160 --> 00:01:26,440 Like, I don't want to talk about it, but the listeners get it. You get it. Yeah. Every one of the fucking mess will get it. I know. I love people really like, I'm just not into true crime. 9 00:01:26,440 --> 00:01:33,880 And I'm like, I guess you're just not my kind of person. Yeah, honestly. No, we love our friends that aren't into true crime. It's true. 10 00:01:33,880 --> 00:01:39,360 But if they're not into true crime, sometimes they're into psychology and that's fun. There you go. We can always have something to talk about. 11 00:01:39,360 --> 00:01:46,120 And if they're not into true crime and psychology, they probably like to drink alcohol. That's true. And then we do that really well. Listen to us. 12 00:01:46,120 --> 00:01:55,480 Yeah. Well, again, welcome back to another episode, guys. Before we get started, do you want to shout out our handles? And then I have a couple things to say and then I'm going to get into this mental breakdown. 13 00:01:55,480 --> 00:02:09,720 Sure. You can check us out at diagnosingkiller.com. There you can find links to resources and merch. You can also get those last minute tickets in for the true crime paranormal podcast festival happening this Friday, Friday, 14 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:19,000 Saturday and Sunday. They actually just released the Saturday only tickets. So the $65 a piece. Unfortunately, you can't use our discount code on that, but $65 a piece. 15 00:02:19,000 --> 00:02:26,040 Way better than 160 that they were having originally. For sure. And everybody will be ready and set up by Saturday. 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However, that Patreon membership does on the tier two and tier three include an exclusive bonus episode. 21 00:03:13,000 --> 00:03:23,560 Yes. Brought to you by yours truly on Tuesday. So I'm excited. That's going to be really exciting. So Tuesday after the con, the 29th is when that's going to release. 22 00:03:23,560 --> 00:03:29,800 And are we going to tell them right now who you're doing? We're going to talk about it after the episode. So you got to wait. 23 00:03:29,800 --> 00:03:31,920 Or you can be a cheater and just fast forward to the end of the episode. 24 00:03:31,920 --> 00:03:40,400 You could fast forward, but then you would miss my amazing sultry voice explaining this disorders that we're talking about. This disorders, these disorders. 25 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:42,800 Yeah. Okay. Well, I'm excited. 26 00:03:42,800 --> 00:03:48,080 Yes, I'm really excited as well. And thank you guys in advance for all the support. We're really excited to meet you guys. 27 00:03:48,080 --> 00:03:53,600 I guarantee we have some listeners that we don't even know that are coming. So I'm really excited to meet some people that we don't know. 28 00:03:53,600 --> 00:03:57,480 And you guys probably know a lot about us, but we're really excited to know a lot about you. 29 00:03:57,480 --> 00:04:03,280 We're also going to have a book for requests. If you are going, we're going to just bring your requests with you in your mind so that you can write it down in our book. 30 00:04:03,280 --> 00:04:05,240 Yeah. And we'll feature the page or something. 31 00:04:05,240 --> 00:04:09,160 Yes. Speaking of requests, this episode is a request. 32 00:04:09,160 --> 00:04:10,120 Double request. 33 00:04:10,120 --> 00:04:12,880 It is a request. I think I said that on the last episode. 34 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:18,760 But this episode was requested by another than Lady You're Scaring Us, the women of. 35 00:04:18,760 --> 00:04:19,280 Oh. 36 00:04:19,280 --> 00:04:24,480 And they wanted me to, not me, us to break down fetishistic disorders. 37 00:04:24,480 --> 00:04:25,320 Okay. 38 00:04:25,320 --> 00:04:29,160 So we're talking about fetishes. We're talking about some pretty gnarly things. 39 00:04:29,160 --> 00:04:32,960 I will just say a quick content warning. This is obviously going to have pedophilia in here. 40 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:40,040 So there are fetishes that have to do with children, things that maybe make some people uncomfortable, maybe some traumatic discussions that we might have. 41 00:04:40,040 --> 00:04:40,480 Right. 42 00:04:40,480 --> 00:04:44,720 And also there is some outdated language because I'm getting most of my info from the DSM-5. 43 00:04:44,720 --> 00:04:45,080 Okay. 44 00:04:45,080 --> 00:04:50,600 So just to let everyone know, this is all verbatim from the DSM-5, but just a quick content warning on that. 45 00:04:50,600 --> 00:04:51,920 Are you ready? 46 00:04:51,920 --> 00:04:53,080 I'm, yeah. 47 00:04:53,080 --> 00:04:57,520 Okay. So the true term is paraffillic disorders, as we're going to be talking about. 48 00:04:57,520 --> 00:05:14,600 So paraffillic disorders are recurrent, intense, sexually arousing fantasies, urges, or behaviors that are distressing or disabling and that involve inanimate objects, children or non-consenting adults, or suffering or humiliation of the person or a partner with the potential to cause harm. 49 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,720 Okay. So this is not like, I'm into feet. 50 00:05:17,720 --> 00:05:18,960 Or I'm into like, BDSM. 51 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:20,120 It's like way bigger than that. 52 00:05:20,120 --> 00:05:20,440 Okay. 53 00:05:20,440 --> 00:05:20,800 Okay. 54 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:21,800 Yeah. Okay. 55 00:05:21,800 --> 00:05:24,720 So there's eight different types of paraffillic disorders. 56 00:05:24,720 --> 00:05:27,320 So we will go through those now. 57 00:05:27,320 --> 00:05:32,360 So the first one we're going to be talking about is by itself, fetishistic disorder. 58 00:05:32,360 --> 00:05:36,600 So the group term is paraffillic disorders, fetishistic disorders, its own thing. 59 00:05:36,600 --> 00:05:37,040 Okay. 60 00:05:37,040 --> 00:05:51,680 So the diagnostic criteria, A, over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexual arousal from either the use of non-living objects or a highly specific focus on non-genital body parts as manifested by fantasies, urges, or behaviors. 61 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:52,600 Okay. 62 00:05:52,600 --> 00:06:02,000 B, the fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. 63 00:06:02,000 --> 00:06:02,800 Okay. 64 00:06:02,800 --> 00:06:14,560 And then C, the fetish objects are not limited to articles of clothing used in cross-dressing, as in transvestic disorder, or devices specifically designed for the purpose of tactile genital stimulation, A.E. a vibrator. 65 00:06:14,560 --> 00:06:15,040 Okay. 66 00:06:15,040 --> 00:06:16,400 So A.E. I.E. 67 00:06:16,400 --> 00:06:17,840 A.E. I.O.U. 68 00:06:17,840 --> 00:06:19,920 And example. 69 00:06:19,920 --> 00:06:24,000 A.E. I.O.U. a vibrator. 70 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:25,080 Oh my god. 71 00:06:25,080 --> 00:06:34,280 So yeah, it's pretty much saying like it's inanimate objects that are not like when people wear clothing of the opposite sex or like a sex toy, essentially. 72 00:06:34,280 --> 00:06:39,760 So it's like Dahmer being obsessed with like people's hearts or lungs. 73 00:06:39,760 --> 00:06:40,880 Yeah, and he like gets off on that? 74 00:06:40,880 --> 00:06:41,200 Yeah. 75 00:06:41,200 --> 00:06:42,200 An inanimate, for sure. 76 00:06:42,200 --> 00:06:43,760 An inanimate, because it's not alive. 77 00:06:43,760 --> 00:06:44,640 Yeah. 78 00:06:44,640 --> 00:06:51,120 And then what was the last one? Oh, it was just a not something that would be used to create arousals. 79 00:06:51,120 --> 00:06:52,080 It's not made for sex. 80 00:06:52,080 --> 00:06:53,600 Yeah, exactly. 81 00:06:53,600 --> 00:07:01,800 So again, we're not going to go through like everything that the DSM5 says, but I will do like kind of onset and then prevalence of stuff, of all these. 82 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:02,160 Okay. 83 00:07:02,160 --> 00:07:11,200 So development and course, usually paraffilias, as in like the group of disorders, have an onset during puberty, but fetishes can develop prior to adolescence. 84 00:07:11,200 --> 00:07:18,880 Once established, fetishistic disorder tends to have a continuous course that fluctuates in intensity and frequency of urges or behavior. 85 00:07:18,880 --> 00:07:19,520 Interesting. 86 00:07:19,520 --> 00:07:20,280 Yes. 87 00:07:20,280 --> 00:07:30,680 I think Robert Crum, it was an older artist, he would talk about, I think, his fetishization of fetishization, right? 88 00:07:30,680 --> 00:07:31,120 Yeah. 89 00:07:31,120 --> 00:07:31,440 Sounds right. 90 00:07:31,440 --> 00:07:42,760 Of, I think it was like women's heels, but he remembered like when he was three or four years old, and he was more two years old and crawling and grabbing his mom's heels. 91 00:07:42,760 --> 00:07:45,080 And that was always like a thing somewhere. 92 00:07:45,080 --> 00:07:46,680 Yeah, Freud's probably loving that. 93 00:07:46,680 --> 00:07:48,480 Yeah, exactly. 94 00:07:48,480 --> 00:07:53,480 And then lastly about fetishistic disorder, the comorbidity, I'll add pepper this in there as well. 95 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:57,440 It may occur with other paraffiliic disorders, as well as hypersexuality. 96 00:07:57,440 --> 00:08:01,120 Rarely fetishistic disorder may be associated with neurological conditions. 97 00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:02,920 No, rarely, though. 98 00:08:02,920 --> 00:08:07,800 You're like here are those phenomenons where people hit their heads and they start speaking French and stuff? 99 00:08:07,800 --> 00:08:08,200 Yeah. 100 00:08:08,200 --> 00:08:10,680 Do you think that's possible? 101 00:08:10,680 --> 00:08:15,080 Like you get like a traumatic brain injury and then all of a sudden you have a fetish or like a computer or something? 102 00:08:15,080 --> 00:08:15,440 Yeah. 103 00:08:15,440 --> 00:08:15,840 Maybe. 104 00:08:15,840 --> 00:08:16,840 A computer. 105 00:08:16,840 --> 00:08:18,040 I was just looking at the closest thing to me. 106 00:08:18,040 --> 00:08:23,440 Reminds you of that, I saw that update for that guy that was in love with his car. 107 00:08:23,440 --> 00:08:23,920 Yeah. 108 00:08:23,920 --> 00:08:24,440 Remember that? 109 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,640 He got a new car and he was all like bummed that he had to like sell the other one. 110 00:08:27,640 --> 00:08:28,160 Well, he didn't. 111 00:08:28,160 --> 00:08:29,800 He was like, we broke up. 112 00:08:29,800 --> 00:08:31,120 They didn't break up. 113 00:08:31,120 --> 00:08:33,080 It was in a car accident. 114 00:08:33,080 --> 00:08:33,400 Yeah. 115 00:08:33,400 --> 00:08:34,680 Oh my god, I feel bad now. 116 00:08:34,680 --> 00:08:35,920 Yeah, it's like a death. 117 00:08:35,920 --> 00:08:36,920 Oh no. 118 00:08:36,920 --> 00:08:37,920 Oh, that's so awful. 119 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:38,800 Isn't that awful? 120 00:08:38,800 --> 00:08:39,520 I feel bad for him. 121 00:08:39,520 --> 00:08:39,760 Yeah. 122 00:08:39,760 --> 00:08:41,280 Then he got a girl car. 123 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:43,120 And he's like, yeah, this is my new bow. 124 00:08:43,120 --> 00:08:46,640 He doesn't believe in like gendering inanimate objects, which is interesting. 125 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:47,280 Yeah. 126 00:08:47,280 --> 00:08:48,720 That is interesting. 127 00:08:48,720 --> 00:08:49,840 Are you ready for number two? 128 00:08:49,840 --> 00:08:50,320 Yeah. 129 00:08:50,320 --> 00:08:51,320 Number two. 130 00:08:51,320 --> 00:08:52,280 Number two. 131 00:08:52,280 --> 00:08:54,000 It's called... 132 00:08:54,000 --> 00:08:58,400 Oh, I thought you were going to say bring it on and then you like cut yourself off, but then I remember you were saying bring it like from Jeopardy Champions. 133 00:08:58,400 --> 00:09:00,560 Yeah, say up the Sam Butchery. 134 00:09:00,560 --> 00:09:02,840 And my favorite, James Holzhauer. 135 00:09:02,840 --> 00:09:07,560 Yeah, I love Andrew He, but I think Amy Snyder is my girl for sure. 136 00:09:07,560 --> 00:09:08,360 Absolutely. 137 00:09:08,360 --> 00:09:11,360 OK, so the next one is called exhibitionistic disorder. 138 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:12,600 Exhibitionistic. 139 00:09:12,600 --> 00:09:13,920 Yeah, this is kind of long. 140 00:09:13,920 --> 00:09:15,200 Like the word. 141 00:09:15,200 --> 00:09:18,920 So over a period of at least six months, this is the diagnostic criteria. 142 00:09:18,920 --> 00:09:27,040 Recurrent and intense sexual arousal from the exposures of one's genitals to an unsuspecting person as manifested by fantasies, urges, or behaviors. 143 00:09:27,040 --> 00:09:28,160 OK, like a flasher. 144 00:09:28,160 --> 00:09:33,040 So this is, yeah, someone that comes up and they're like wanking it and they want you to see. 145 00:09:33,040 --> 00:09:33,400 Yeah. 146 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:34,560 Yeah, but like you don't know. 147 00:09:34,560 --> 00:09:35,840 Like in a Walmart parking lot. 148 00:09:35,840 --> 00:09:36,480 Yes. 149 00:09:36,480 --> 00:09:49,040 And then diagnostic criteria would be the individual has acted on these sexual urges with a non-consenting person or the sexual urges or fantasies cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. 150 00:09:49,040 --> 00:09:49,800 Yeah. 151 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:55,680 So it's like to the point where like you can't hold on a job because you have to just like show someone your genitals and they don't need, you just don't want to see it. 152 00:09:55,680 --> 00:09:56,480 You just have to. 153 00:09:56,480 --> 00:09:57,320 Yeah. 154 00:09:57,320 --> 00:10:06,200 The subtypes for exhibitionistic disorder are based on the age or physical maturity of the non-consenting individuals to whom the individual prefers to expose his or her genitals. 155 00:10:06,200 --> 00:10:08,400 Oh, so it can be like a minor if they're into that. 156 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:08,520 Yes. 157 00:10:08,520 --> 00:10:10,040 Or like an older person if they're into that. 158 00:10:10,040 --> 00:10:11,120 Absolutely. 159 00:10:11,120 --> 00:10:14,880 The non-consenting individuals could be prepubescent children, adults, or both. 160 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:15,720 That's disgusting. 161 00:10:15,720 --> 00:10:22,440 So there's subtypes on all of these disorders, but that's like making the distinction between the two. 162 00:10:22,440 --> 00:10:28,120 Even in the last episode I was talking about that couple that was having sex on that Ferris wheel. 163 00:10:28,120 --> 00:10:37,560 And I find that really interesting because I mean is that part of like exhibitionism is like they feel like they're like out in the open so it's like dangerous and so they do it. 164 00:10:37,560 --> 00:10:40,840 I don't know if that was with the intent of showing other people their genitals though. 165 00:10:40,840 --> 00:10:42,360 I think they were just like horny teens. 166 00:10:42,360 --> 00:10:43,080 Yeah. 167 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:43,400 I don't know. 168 00:10:43,400 --> 00:10:44,400 The guy was creepy. 169 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:46,120 Yeah, probably so. 170 00:10:46,120 --> 00:10:48,880 Now the prevalence of this one, it's actually unknown. 171 00:10:48,880 --> 00:10:57,560 However, based on exhibitionistic sexual acts in non-clinical or general populations, the highest possible prevalence for exhibitionistic disorder. 172 00:10:57,560 --> 00:10:58,560 Exhibitionist disorder. 173 00:10:58,560 --> 00:10:59,240 Oh my god. 174 00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:01,640 Exhibitionistic disorder. 175 00:11:01,640 --> 00:11:04,520 And the male population is 2% to 4%. 176 00:11:04,520 --> 00:11:05,360 Okay. 177 00:11:05,360 --> 00:11:06,080 That's kind of high. 178 00:11:06,080 --> 00:11:12,400 The prevalence of exhibitionistic disorder in females is even more uncertain, but generally believed to be much lower than in males. 179 00:11:12,400 --> 00:11:13,120 Yeah. 180 00:11:13,120 --> 00:11:23,560 Now in development and course, adult males with exhibitionistic disorder often report that they first became aware of sexual interests and exposing their genitals to unsuspecting persons during adolescence. 181 00:11:23,560 --> 00:11:28,600 At a somewhat later time than the typical development of normative sexual interests in women or men. 182 00:11:28,600 --> 00:11:32,400 So like older teens if you will. 183 00:11:32,400 --> 00:11:32,760 Yeah. 184 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:34,240 Instead of like preteen. 185 00:11:34,240 --> 00:11:35,640 Oh I see. 186 00:11:35,640 --> 00:11:44,760 Although there is no minimum age requirement for this diagnosis, it may be difficult to differentiate exhibitionistic behaviors from age appropriate sexual curiosity in adolescents. 187 00:11:44,760 --> 00:11:45,360 That's true. 188 00:11:45,360 --> 00:11:46,440 So it's kind of hard to diagnose. 189 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:47,160 Yeah. 190 00:11:47,160 --> 00:11:48,760 At least at that age. 191 00:11:48,760 --> 00:11:49,680 Yes. 192 00:11:49,680 --> 00:11:59,600 And then comorbidities are largely based on research with individuals, almost all males convicted for criminal acts involving genital exposure to non-consenting individuals. 193 00:11:59,600 --> 00:12:05,760 Hence these comorbidities might not apply to all individuals who qualify for a diagnosis of exhibitionistic disorder. 194 00:12:05,760 --> 00:12:06,680 Yeah. 195 00:12:06,680 --> 00:12:17,480 Conditions that occur comorbidly with exhibitionistic disorder at high rates include depressive, bipolar, anxiety and substance use disorders, hypersexuality, attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, 196 00:12:17,480 --> 00:12:20,440 other paraphernalic disorders and even antisocial personality disorder. 197 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,200 Yeah. 198 00:12:21,200 --> 00:12:22,720 That makes sense though, the last one. 199 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:34,640 It's true because you wouldn't be able to say that every person that's been convicted of a crime of exposing genitals is someone with exhibitionismistic disorder. 200 00:12:34,640 --> 00:12:35,720 Yeah, it's a hard word to say. 201 00:12:35,720 --> 00:12:37,320 Instead of like 18 times just now. 202 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,680 Exhibitionistic. 203 00:12:39,680 --> 00:12:49,240 Exhibitionistic disorder because, you know, some person might be drunk at a bar and needs to take a piss on the way home. 204 00:12:49,240 --> 00:12:49,760 Yeah, exactly. 205 00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:58,720 So you can say that that would be the same as someone intentionally exposing themselves with, you know, the intent of sexual arousal. 206 00:12:58,720 --> 00:12:59,840 Yeah, definitely. 207 00:12:59,840 --> 00:13:01,560 Number three. 208 00:13:01,560 --> 00:13:02,480 Number three. 209 00:13:02,480 --> 00:13:04,960 This one is called froturistic disorder. 210 00:13:04,960 --> 00:13:06,960 Froturistic. 211 00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:07,760 Spell that? 212 00:13:07,760 --> 00:13:11,680 F-R-O-T-T-E-U-R-I-S-T-I-C. 213 00:13:11,680 --> 00:13:12,480 Froturistic. 214 00:13:12,480 --> 00:13:13,760 Froturistic disorder. 215 00:13:13,760 --> 00:13:14,160 Okay. 216 00:13:14,160 --> 00:13:25,840 So diagnostic criteria A, over a period of at least six months for current and intense sexual arousal from touching or rubbing against a non-consenting person as manifested by fantasies, urges, or behaviors. 217 00:13:25,840 --> 00:13:37,120 B, the individual has acted on these sexual urges with a non-consenting person or the sexual urges or fantasies cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. 218 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:37,680 Okay. 219 00:13:37,680 --> 00:13:38,960 I think they call that sharking. 220 00:13:38,960 --> 00:13:40,160 Sharking? 221 00:13:40,160 --> 00:13:41,360 What is that? 222 00:13:41,360 --> 00:13:45,360 It means when you ejaculate on someone that's unsuspecting. 223 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:46,000 That's gross. 224 00:13:46,000 --> 00:13:51,840 Sorry, I'm like turning the page in the T-S-E-F-R-O-T-E-G against my shirt and making a bunch of noise. 225 00:13:51,840 --> 00:13:53,280 I didn't mean to say that's gross. 226 00:13:53,280 --> 00:13:57,840 That was a response out of my brain that when I wasn't paying attention to it. 227 00:13:57,840 --> 00:13:59,600 Yeah, I'm pretty sure they call it sharking. 228 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:00,080 Sharking. 229 00:14:00,080 --> 00:14:01,120 Don't Google it. 230 00:14:01,120 --> 00:14:01,600 I won't. 231 00:14:01,600 --> 00:14:04,560 If you're not a person that wants to know what sharking is. 232 00:14:04,560 --> 00:14:06,160 Just urban dictionary that. 233 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:07,280 Got it. 234 00:14:07,280 --> 00:14:12,480 Prevalence, fratruistic acts including the uninvited sexual touching of or rubbing against 235 00:14:12,480 --> 00:14:17,280 another individual may occur in up to 30% of adult males in the general population. 236 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:18,240 30%? 237 00:14:18,240 --> 00:14:18,960 Yes. 238 00:14:18,960 --> 00:14:24,320 Approximately 10% to 14% of adult males seen in outpatient settings for periphoetic disorders 239 00:14:24,320 --> 00:14:29,840 and hypersexuality have a presentation that meets diagnostic criteria for fratruistic disorder. 240 00:14:29,840 --> 00:14:33,600 Hence, whereas the population prevalence of fratruistic disorder is unknown, 241 00:14:33,600 --> 00:14:37,760 it's not likely that it exceeds the rate found in selected clinical settings. 242 00:14:37,760 --> 00:14:38,640 But think about it. 243 00:14:39,520 --> 00:14:40,240 Think about it. 244 00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:41,600 We all know a guy. 245 00:14:42,560 --> 00:14:43,120 I'm sorry. 246 00:14:43,120 --> 00:14:44,080 I'm not trying to be ugly. 247 00:14:44,080 --> 00:14:44,640 I'm really not. 248 00:14:44,640 --> 00:14:50,080 We all know a guy that will take it a little too far, especially when he's drinking. 249 00:14:50,080 --> 00:14:50,560 Yeah. 250 00:14:50,560 --> 00:14:52,560 And dancing or otherwise. 251 00:14:52,560 --> 00:14:52,960 Thank you. 252 00:14:52,960 --> 00:14:53,600 In a club. 253 00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,400 It's like we know a guy that can get a little creepy. 254 00:14:56,400 --> 00:14:56,800 Yeah. 255 00:14:56,800 --> 00:14:57,840 Everyone knows one. 256 00:14:57,840 --> 00:14:58,960 Even women can do that. 257 00:14:58,960 --> 00:15:00,560 Women can get creepy all the time when they're drunk. 258 00:15:00,560 --> 00:15:01,280 Oh, God. 259 00:15:01,280 --> 00:15:07,120 So it's not far-fetched to think that it could be 30% of males that have this. 260 00:15:07,840 --> 00:15:11,280 Because they're getting arousal because the person doesn't like it. 261 00:15:11,280 --> 00:15:13,360 And a lot of people have that mindset when they're drunk. 262 00:15:13,360 --> 00:15:13,760 It's true. 263 00:15:13,760 --> 00:15:14,640 Man and women. 264 00:15:14,640 --> 00:15:15,040 I- 265 00:15:15,040 --> 00:15:15,840 And it's gross. 266 00:15:15,840 --> 00:15:18,000 And a lot of really dense populated areas. 267 00:15:18,000 --> 00:15:19,280 I'm sure it's a problem too. 268 00:15:19,280 --> 00:15:19,520 Yeah. 269 00:15:20,240 --> 00:15:20,480 Absolutely. 270 00:15:20,480 --> 00:15:22,400 Because you're like on a subway train or- 271 00:15:22,400 --> 00:15:24,320 Like in New York you just walk past someone. 272 00:15:24,320 --> 00:15:25,680 Walk and pass someone. 273 00:15:25,680 --> 00:15:25,920 Yeah. 274 00:15:25,920 --> 00:15:26,400 Right? 275 00:15:26,400 --> 00:15:27,520 Yeah, exactly. 276 00:15:27,520 --> 00:15:28,640 So it's not far-fetched. 277 00:15:28,640 --> 00:15:35,200 Now, development and course, adult males with froturistic disorder often report first becoming aware of their sexual interest in 278 00:15:35,200 --> 00:15:40,160 surreptitiously touching unsuspecting persons during late adolescence or emerging adulthood. 279 00:15:40,160 --> 00:15:46,560 However, children and adolescents may also touch or rub against unwilling others in the absence of a diagnosis of froturistic disorder. 280 00:15:46,560 --> 00:15:49,840 Although there is no minimum age requirement for the diagnosis, 281 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:57,280 froturistic disorder can be difficult to differentiate from conduct disorder behavior without sexual motivation in individuals at younger ages. 282 00:15:57,280 --> 00:15:58,720 What is that? 283 00:15:58,720 --> 00:16:01,520 Just like playing grab-ass or something? 284 00:16:01,520 --> 00:16:02,000 Conduct- 285 00:16:02,000 --> 00:16:02,560 Yeah. 286 00:16:02,560 --> 00:16:03,840 I would say- 287 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:07,120 And it not being sexually oriented? 288 00:16:07,120 --> 00:16:07,440 Yes. 289 00:16:07,440 --> 00:16:08,560 I would also say like- 290 00:16:09,120 --> 00:16:10,320 And I'm not a professional. 291 00:16:10,320 --> 00:16:13,920 I'm not diagnosing anybody or adding my knowledge to the DSM. 292 00:16:13,920 --> 00:16:14,400 Yeah. 293 00:16:14,400 --> 00:16:20,320 I would also say that an exclusion as well would be maybe a child with a developmental disability like autism, 294 00:16:20,320 --> 00:16:21,280 whether they're on an autism spectrum. 295 00:16:22,560 --> 00:16:26,960 Kiddos on the spectrum don't really have those boundaries some of the time. 296 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:30,160 And they touch private parts without even recognizing what they're doing. 297 00:16:30,160 --> 00:16:30,640 Right. 298 00:16:30,640 --> 00:16:34,160 Or they rub up against someone's area without even knowing that that's inappropriate. 299 00:16:34,160 --> 00:16:34,400 Right. 300 00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,400 So I think that that would also be an exclusion. 301 00:16:36,400 --> 00:16:37,680 And I'm sure it says it in here somewhere. 302 00:16:37,680 --> 00:16:38,560 Yeah. 303 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:40,880 But yeah, I just wanted to pepper in my knowledge in there. 304 00:16:41,520 --> 00:16:42,720 Complete side note. 305 00:16:42,720 --> 00:16:45,280 I already told Koel this, but I wanted to share it with you all. 306 00:16:46,240 --> 00:16:49,920 I have a co-worker, I guess no longer a co-worker as her last day today. 307 00:16:49,920 --> 00:16:55,440 And right before she left, she told me that I was one of the smartest people she's ever known. 308 00:16:55,440 --> 00:16:57,040 And I was like, oh my God. 309 00:16:57,040 --> 00:16:57,760 So nice. 310 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:02,240 I literally was like, that is the biggest compliment I think I've ever gotten from a colleague. 311 00:17:02,240 --> 00:17:03,200 That is so nice. 312 00:17:03,200 --> 00:17:06,400 Like I've never heard, no one's ever said that to me, that like matters. 313 00:17:06,400 --> 00:17:07,840 Like their professional opinion. 314 00:17:07,840 --> 00:17:08,480 Right. 315 00:17:08,480 --> 00:17:09,760 And it made me very happy. 316 00:17:09,760 --> 00:17:12,160 And Alex, if you're listening, thank you very much for saying that. 317 00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,120 That was really nice. 318 00:17:13,120 --> 00:17:16,640 But I was telling Koel and my mom through tears because I was so happy. 319 00:17:18,000 --> 00:17:18,080 It was really nice. 320 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:22,400 I was like, you know, I was doubting myself all week this week because of the festival. 321 00:17:22,400 --> 00:17:24,240 I was like, what if people don't like our content? 322 00:17:24,240 --> 00:17:25,680 What if people don't like what we have to say? 323 00:17:25,680 --> 00:17:28,480 What if they don't think we're educated enough? 324 00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,800 And that just got rid of all of those fears. 325 00:17:30,800 --> 00:17:36,400 So the point of the story is if you think something is great about someone, tell them. 326 00:17:36,400 --> 00:17:38,240 And just be nice to yourself as well. 327 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:41,760 Because I was kind of kicking myself. 328 00:17:41,760 --> 00:17:44,800 I'm like, oh my God, like all I focus on are my failures. 329 00:17:44,800 --> 00:17:48,000 But I never focus on like the good things that are happening in my life, 330 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:49,680 unless it's like a big event happening. 331 00:17:49,680 --> 00:17:50,000 Right. 332 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:52,800 So anyway, just wanted to throw that in there as well. 333 00:17:52,800 --> 00:17:53,280 Yeah. 334 00:17:53,280 --> 00:17:54,320 I mean, it is true though. 335 00:17:54,320 --> 00:18:00,960 I feel like there's not enough complimenting someone being tossed around. 336 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:04,640 And I'm not saying I'll be a weirdo, but you know, it's nice. 337 00:18:05,520 --> 00:18:08,480 I had told a story after that about somebody that I used to work with. 338 00:18:09,120 --> 00:18:12,720 And they didn't think that I liked them. 339 00:18:12,720 --> 00:18:14,400 And I was like, well, you know what? 340 00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:16,480 I kind of didn't. 341 00:18:16,480 --> 00:18:22,160 But I've grown to really respect that person and love that person and understand that person. 342 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:23,600 And it took me a hot minute. 343 00:18:24,160 --> 00:18:26,560 But I really wanted to get to know them. 344 00:18:27,120 --> 00:18:29,200 And when I did, I loved what I found. 345 00:18:29,200 --> 00:18:32,960 And I just, I had to tell them, this is what I love about you. 346 00:18:32,960 --> 00:18:34,640 You're a no-nonsense person. 347 00:18:34,640 --> 00:18:36,480 And I really appreciate that, you know? 348 00:18:36,480 --> 00:18:40,480 I'm definitely someone that really goes out of my way to make others feel good about themselves. 349 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:43,600 Like I will go to some random person at the bar and tell them that I love their top. 350 00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:46,640 Sometimes I don't love their top, but I know that it makes them feel great. 351 00:18:46,640 --> 00:18:47,760 Okay, Regina, sure. 352 00:18:47,760 --> 00:18:48,560 No, I'm serious. 353 00:18:48,560 --> 00:18:50,160 And I'm not, okay, does that sound bad? 354 00:18:50,160 --> 00:18:51,520 No, it does, really. 355 00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:52,160 It does, really. 356 00:18:52,160 --> 00:18:54,480 But I mean, the top's not, I'm like, let me rephrase. 357 00:18:54,480 --> 00:18:56,800 I wouldn't wear the top, but they're fucking rocking it. 358 00:18:56,800 --> 00:18:57,920 And I'll tell them that, you know? 359 00:18:57,920 --> 00:18:58,000 Yeah, for sure. 360 00:18:58,000 --> 00:18:59,040 Like, that's a fucking great top. 361 00:18:59,040 --> 00:18:59,520 You look amazing. 362 00:18:59,520 --> 00:19:00,480 I hope it's a great night. 363 00:19:00,480 --> 00:19:02,000 Of course, this would be nice to people. 364 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:03,360 Anyway, Fracturistic Disorder. 365 00:19:04,720 --> 00:19:05,920 Comorbidity of that. 366 00:19:05,920 --> 00:19:06,560 Okay. 367 00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:11,120 So known comorbidities are largely based on research with males suspected of or convicted 368 00:19:11,120 --> 00:19:15,760 for criminal acts involving sexually motivated touching of or rubbing against non-consenting 369 00:19:15,760 --> 00:19:16,320 individuals. 370 00:19:16,880 --> 00:19:20,640 Hence, these comorbidities might not apply to other individuals with a diagnosis. 371 00:19:20,640 --> 00:19:24,880 Diagnosis, excuse me, based on subjective distress over their sexual interest. 372 00:19:24,880 --> 00:19:29,200 Conditions that occur comorbidly with Fracturistic Disorder include hypersexuality and other 373 00:19:29,200 --> 00:19:36,720 paraphilic disorders, particularly exhibitionistic disorder and voyeuristic Jesus Christ disorder. 374 00:19:36,720 --> 00:19:40,960 Conduct disorder, antisocial personality disorder, depressive disorders, bipolar 375 00:19:40,960 --> 00:19:44,880 disorders, anxiety disorders, and substance use disorders also co-occur. 376 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:46,160 So this is a lot of comorbidities. 377 00:19:46,160 --> 00:19:47,200 There is a lot. 378 00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:52,080 Potential differential diagnosis for Fracturistic Disorders sometimes occur also as comorbid 379 00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:52,960 disorders. 380 00:19:52,960 --> 00:19:56,880 Therefore, it is generally necessary to evaluate the evidence for Fracturistic Disorder and 381 00:19:56,880 --> 00:19:59,360 possible comorbid conditions as separate questions. 382 00:19:59,360 --> 00:19:59,840 Yeah. 383 00:19:59,840 --> 00:20:00,720 Makes sense. 384 00:20:00,720 --> 00:20:07,520 With 30% of the population, or you know, of men at least, then that's a big blanket there. 385 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:07,760 Yeah. 386 00:20:07,760 --> 00:20:08,160 So yeah. 387 00:20:08,160 --> 00:20:09,120 There's gotta be something else. 388 00:20:09,120 --> 00:20:10,160 Like, go on, maybe. 389 00:20:10,160 --> 00:20:10,320 Yeah. 390 00:20:10,320 --> 00:20:11,920 No wonder there's a lot of comorbidities. 391 00:20:11,920 --> 00:20:12,720 Yeah, absolutely. 392 00:20:13,920 --> 00:20:14,800 Number four. 393 00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:16,000 Number three. 394 00:20:16,000 --> 00:20:17,200 We knew it was coming. 395 00:20:17,200 --> 00:20:18,160 Pedophilic Disorder. 396 00:20:18,160 --> 00:20:18,640 Okay. 397 00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:21,120 So the diagnostic criteria for Pedophilic Disorder. 398 00:20:21,120 --> 00:20:24,640 I'm glad you put it in the middle so that we have a before and a palate cleanser. 399 00:20:24,640 --> 00:20:26,160 Yeah, this is just alphabetical order. 400 00:20:26,160 --> 00:20:26,560 So. 401 00:20:26,560 --> 00:20:27,280 Oh, okay, I'm sorry. 402 00:20:28,400 --> 00:20:29,200 Didn't do that on purpose. 403 00:20:29,200 --> 00:20:29,840 Didn't do that on purpose. 404 00:20:29,840 --> 00:20:30,800 Well, I'm glad it's in the middle. 405 00:20:31,600 --> 00:20:37,120 A. Over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexually arousing fantasies, 406 00:20:37,120 --> 00:20:40,960 sexual urges, or behaviors involving sexual activity with their prepubescent child or 407 00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:46,640 children, generally 13 years or younger, B, the individual has acted on these sexual urges, 408 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:51,360 or the sexual urges or fantasies cause marked distress or interpersonal difficulty, 409 00:20:51,360 --> 00:20:56,720 and C, the individual is at least 16 years and at least five years older than the child 410 00:20:56,720 --> 00:20:58,240 or children and criterion A. 411 00:20:58,880 --> 00:20:59,280 Wow. 412 00:20:59,280 --> 00:21:03,120 There's also a note in here that says, do not include an individual in late adolescence 413 00:21:03,120 --> 00:21:06,320 involved in an ongoing sexual relationship with a 12 or 13 year old. 414 00:21:07,040 --> 00:21:07,840 Wait, what? 415 00:21:07,840 --> 00:21:12,240 So it's like, if you're like 16 or like 17 and you're dating like a 12 or 13 year old, 416 00:21:12,240 --> 00:21:12,880 like it's cool. 417 00:21:13,600 --> 00:21:16,960 Well, it's a long term though. 418 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:24,320 So like, you know, if a young person is like 11 and they're like 14, you know what I mean? 419 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:27,680 That's like a bit of an age gap there, but technically they're consenting, 420 00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:33,200 not consent, because they can't give consent, but they're, it's a mutual thing, you know? 421 00:21:33,200 --> 00:21:36,640 So by the time this person's 16 and they're still 13, then. 422 00:21:36,640 --> 00:21:37,280 Yeah, exactly. 423 00:21:37,280 --> 00:21:38,080 That's how it would mean. 424 00:21:38,080 --> 00:21:38,640 Yeah. 425 00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,000 Because it did say long term. 426 00:21:40,000 --> 00:21:40,240 Yeah. 427 00:21:40,880 --> 00:21:41,520 Prevalence. 428 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:44,880 The population prevalence of pedophilic disorder is unknown. 429 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:48,160 The highest possible prevalence for pedophilic disorder in the male population is 430 00:21:48,160 --> 00:21:49,360 approximately 3 to 5%. 431 00:21:50,640 --> 00:21:52,320 I thought it was higher, honestly. 432 00:21:52,320 --> 00:21:53,280 I'll be honest. 433 00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:56,320 Well, they did say it's unknown, but I do feel like it's higher too. 434 00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:58,480 But it says the highest possible is 3 to 5%. 435 00:21:58,480 --> 00:21:58,800 Yeah. 436 00:21:58,800 --> 00:21:59,920 I feel like it could be higher. 437 00:21:59,920 --> 00:22:02,000 I feel like, yeah, I feel like it could be higher too. 438 00:22:02,000 --> 00:22:02,560 Yeah. 439 00:22:02,560 --> 00:22:06,800 But you know, I feel like there's, if you have to meet all three of those criteria though, 440 00:22:06,800 --> 00:22:12,960 because there might be people that have sexual fantasies of children and that, 441 00:22:13,760 --> 00:22:18,160 fortunately, look at child porn, but haven't committed an act. 442 00:22:18,160 --> 00:22:18,800 Yeah, that's true. 443 00:22:18,800 --> 00:22:19,520 You know? 444 00:22:19,520 --> 00:22:20,960 Not that it makes it any better. 445 00:22:20,960 --> 00:22:21,680 No, it definitely doesn't. 446 00:22:21,680 --> 00:22:23,680 It's gross, but, you know. 447 00:22:23,680 --> 00:22:27,760 Of course, the population of pedophilic disorder in females is even more uncertain, 448 00:22:27,760 --> 00:22:30,640 but it's likely a small fraction of the prevalence in males. 449 00:22:30,640 --> 00:22:31,200 That's what they say. 450 00:22:32,320 --> 00:22:36,160 Adult males with pedophilic disorder may indicate that they became aware of strong 451 00:22:36,160 --> 00:22:39,600 or preferential sexual interests in children around the time of puberty. 452 00:22:39,600 --> 00:22:43,360 The same timeframe in which males who later prefer physically mature partners 453 00:22:43,360 --> 00:22:46,800 became aware of their sexual interests in women or men, which is interesting. 454 00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:50,240 So it's the partner that usually recognizes it, or can recognize it? 455 00:22:50,240 --> 00:22:50,720 No. 456 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:51,520 It's sorry. 457 00:22:51,520 --> 00:22:56,080 The same age range that like, so the same age range of males where they realize that they're 458 00:22:56,080 --> 00:22:59,280 into children is the same age range of males that realize that they're into older people. 459 00:22:59,280 --> 00:22:59,920 Oh, okay. 460 00:22:59,920 --> 00:23:01,680 It's around the same age that they recognize that. 461 00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:04,000 So there has to be something with the brain development, I guess, 462 00:23:04,000 --> 00:23:05,600 because that's when you recognize like, 463 00:23:05,600 --> 00:23:06,880 what you're attracted to. 464 00:23:06,880 --> 00:23:07,120 Yeah. 465 00:23:08,160 --> 00:23:12,080 What I say preference, like it's so casual, like no, don't fucking do that, that's gross. 466 00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:12,560 Okay. 467 00:23:13,360 --> 00:23:14,000 Like it's a like, 468 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:15,920 like it's a lifestyle choice. 469 00:23:15,920 --> 00:23:17,600 Yeah, I think like it's a choice. 470 00:23:18,240 --> 00:23:22,400 Attempting to diagnose pedophilic disorder at the age in which it first manifests is 471 00:23:22,400 --> 00:23:26,400 problematic because of the difficulty during adolescent development and differentiating it 472 00:23:26,400 --> 00:23:30,240 from age appropriate sexual interest in peers or from sexual curiosity. 473 00:23:31,040 --> 00:23:31,360 Hence, 474 00:23:31,360 --> 00:23:36,080 criterian C requires for a diagnosis of a minimum age years of 16 and at least five years older 475 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:41,840 than the child or children and criterion A. Pedophilia per se appears to be a lifelong condition. 476 00:23:41,840 --> 00:23:46,960 Pedophilic disorder, however, necessarily includes other elements that may change over time with 477 00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:51,600 or without treatment, subjective distress, psychological impairment, or the propensity 478 00:23:51,600 --> 00:23:54,160 to act out sexually with children or both. 479 00:23:54,160 --> 00:23:58,560 Therefore, the course of pedophilic disorder may fluctuate, increase or decrease with age. 480 00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,040 Which I thought was kind of interesting. 481 00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:01,680 Yeah. 482 00:24:01,680 --> 00:24:07,280 Because what it's saying here is that pedophilia and pedophilic disorder are two different things. 483 00:24:07,280 --> 00:24:10,560 Like pedophilia is like lifelong, like terminal. 484 00:24:10,560 --> 00:24:10,880 Yeah. 485 00:24:10,880 --> 00:24:12,560 And then pedophilic disorder is like, 486 00:24:12,560 --> 00:24:16,080 you might be able to be like changed like mindset wise. 487 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:16,240 Yeah. 488 00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:17,680 But like also like they're both horrible. 489 00:24:17,680 --> 00:24:19,040 Like don't do that to children. 490 00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:22,400 Well, I mean, I guess this is such a hard topic. 491 00:24:22,400 --> 00:24:22,480 It is. 492 00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:22,960 First of all. 493 00:24:24,080 --> 00:24:26,000 But I feel that 494 00:24:26,000 --> 00:24:29,360 that's much like any other disorder. 495 00:24:29,360 --> 00:24:31,360 You can treat it. 496 00:24:31,360 --> 00:24:33,360 Is it going to be there forever? 497 00:24:33,360 --> 00:24:35,360 But you can know what to avoid. 498 00:24:35,360 --> 00:24:37,360 Triggers and stuff. 499 00:24:37,360 --> 00:24:39,360 Therapy and stuff like that. 500 00:24:39,360 --> 00:24:41,360 And just lastly for comorbidity. 501 00:24:41,360 --> 00:24:45,360 Psychiatric comorbidity of pedophilic disorder includes substance use disorders, 502 00:24:45,360 --> 00:24:47,360 depressive, bipolar and anxiety disorders, 503 00:24:47,360 --> 00:24:51,360 anti-social personality disorder, and other paraphilic disorders. 504 00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:58,720 However, findings on comorbid, excuse me, comorbid disorders are largely among individuals convicted for sexual offenses involving children. 505 00:24:58,720 --> 00:25:02,240 It may not be generalizable to other individuals with pedophilic disorder. 506 00:25:02,240 --> 00:25:04,240 So that's all I have to say about that one. 507 00:25:04,240 --> 00:25:08,240 So it slams a lot, talk clothes until Monday. 508 00:25:08,240 --> 00:25:12,240 This one is called sexual masochism disorder. 509 00:25:12,240 --> 00:25:14,240 That I'd not have seen before. 510 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:16,240 I've seen it before. 511 00:25:16,240 --> 00:25:18,240 I've seen it before. 512 00:25:18,240 --> 00:25:22,240 It's called sexual masochism disorder. 513 00:25:22,240 --> 00:25:34,240 The diagnostic criteria for this is A, over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexual arousal from the act of being humiliated, beaten, bound, or otherwise made to suffer as manifested by fantasies, urges, or behaviors. 514 00:25:34,240 --> 00:25:36,240 It just sounds like BDSM. 515 00:25:36,240 --> 00:25:42,240 B, the fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social occupational and other important areas of functioning. 516 00:25:42,240 --> 00:25:44,240 That's the difference. 517 00:25:44,240 --> 00:25:46,240 It's like, I can't go to work because I'm bound up, right? 518 00:25:46,240 --> 00:25:48,240 Yeah. 519 00:25:48,240 --> 00:25:50,240 It's like, I'm going to miss my job because I'm bound. 520 00:25:50,240 --> 00:25:52,240 Prevalence. 521 00:25:52,240 --> 00:25:54,240 I'm a little tied up at the moment. 522 00:25:54,240 --> 00:25:56,240 Prevalence. 523 00:25:56,240 --> 00:25:58,240 The population prevalence of sexual masochism disorder is unknown. 524 00:25:58,240 --> 00:26:10,240 In Australia, it has been estimated that 2.2% of males and 1.3% of females have been involved in bondage and discipline, sadomasochism, or dominance and submission in the past 12 months. 525 00:26:10,240 --> 00:26:12,240 There's way more than that. 526 00:26:12,240 --> 00:26:14,240 That's just one study. 527 00:26:14,240 --> 00:26:28,240 Community individuals with paraffilias have reported a mean age at onset for masochism of 19.3 years, although earlier ages, including puberty and childhood, have also been reported for the onset of masochistic fantasies. 528 00:26:28,240 --> 00:26:30,240 That's interesting. I feel like that's pretty young. 529 00:26:30,240 --> 00:26:32,240 19, I think, yeah. 530 00:26:32,240 --> 00:26:36,240 But then again, I think that, and this is me making a generalization. I don't know about this. 531 00:26:36,240 --> 00:26:44,240 I think that people that get introduced to that world are introduced by someone much older and more experienced. 532 00:26:44,240 --> 00:26:50,240 And that sounds like an age that you would start experimenting, where you would realize, like, oh, maybe I'm into this. I need to talk to someone more experienced, or whatever. 533 00:26:50,240 --> 00:26:54,240 You have the wherewithal to seek that out. 534 00:26:54,240 --> 00:26:56,240 We did seek at the same time. 535 00:26:56,240 --> 00:26:58,240 That's funny. I feel like we do that a lot. 536 00:26:58,240 --> 00:27:00,240 All the time. 537 00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:06,240 And then lastly for that one, comorbidities with sexual masochism disorder are largely based on individuals in treatment. 538 00:27:06,240 --> 00:27:14,240 Disorders that occur comorbidly with sexual masochism disorder typically include other paraphernalic disorders such as transvestic fetishism. 539 00:27:14,240 --> 00:27:16,240 It's kind of hard to say. 540 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:18,240 Transvestic fetishism. 541 00:27:18,240 --> 00:27:22,240 Yes. And we'll get into that one as well. 542 00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:24,240 Number six. 543 00:27:24,240 --> 00:27:26,240 Number six. 544 00:27:26,240 --> 00:27:28,240 This one is called sexual sanism disorder. 545 00:27:28,240 --> 00:27:36,240 And we've had cases where we've talked about people that may have had this before in the past. 546 00:27:36,240 --> 00:27:46,240 I feel like masochism and sadism are, like, hand in hand because just terminology-wise, like, generalizations that people might make or use. 547 00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,240 So I'm interested in the difference. 548 00:27:48,240 --> 00:27:54,240 So I'll just really quickly, in Leibn's term, tell you the difference. I think masochism is when it's on yourself and sadism is when it's on another person. 549 00:27:54,240 --> 00:27:58,240 Oh, okay. So, like, you enjoy humiliation or you enjoy humiliating someone else? 550 00:27:58,240 --> 00:28:02,240 Yes, exactly. And again, that's just for these diagnoses, not, like, in general terms. 551 00:28:02,240 --> 00:28:06,240 So again, sexual sanism disorder, diagnostic criteria. 552 00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:16,240 A, over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexual arousal from the physical or psychological suffering of another person as manifested by fantasies, urges, or behaviors. 553 00:28:16,240 --> 00:28:26,240 Maybe the individual has acted on these sexual urges with a non-consenting person, or the sexual urges or fantasies cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational, or other important areas of functioning. 554 00:28:26,240 --> 00:28:28,240 That's the last line for all of them. 555 00:28:28,240 --> 00:28:32,240 So it's like a... 556 00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:34,240 Turn the page. 557 00:28:34,240 --> 00:28:38,240 They're not expecting to be, they're not consenting to BDSM, essentially. 558 00:28:38,240 --> 00:28:52,240 Prevalence, the population prevalence of sexual sanism disorder is unknown and is largely based on individuals and forensic settings. Depending on the criteria for sexual sanism, prevalence varies widely, from 2% to 30%. 559 00:28:52,240 --> 00:28:58,240 Among civilly committed sexual offenders in the United States, less than 10% have sexual sanism. 560 00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:06,240 Among individuals who have committed sexually motivated homicides, rates of sexual sanism disorder range from 37% to 75%. 561 00:29:06,240 --> 00:29:08,240 That's dense. 562 00:29:08,240 --> 00:29:24,240 Individuals with sexual sanism and forensic samples are almost exclusively male, but a representative sample of the population in Australia reported that 2.2% of men and 1.3% of women said they had been involved in bondage and discipline, sadomasochism, or dominance and submission in the previous year. 563 00:29:24,240 --> 00:29:26,240 That's that same study for the other one. 564 00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:34,240 Information on the development and course of sexual sanism disorder is extremely limited. One study reported that females became aware of their sadomasochistic intrusion disorder. 565 00:29:34,240 --> 00:29:42,240 One study reported that the main of age at onset, same thing 19.3 years from then, was that the male of age at onset, same thing 19.3 years from then. 566 00:29:42,240 --> 00:29:52,240 I find that interesting though because just because that many people have admitted that they participated in it, doesn't mean that it goes so far to where they are. 567 00:29:52,240 --> 00:29:56,240 It diminishes their quality of life. 568 00:29:56,240 --> 00:29:58,240 It just curbs the disorder. 569 00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:02,240 That's why they're saying the study suggests that this may be. 570 00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:06,240 We don't have set evidence of this actually happening. 571 00:30:06,240 --> 00:30:14,240 And then comorbidities are largely based on individuals convicted for criminal acts involving sadistic acts against non-consenting victims. 572 00:30:14,240 --> 00:30:26,240 Hence, these comorbidities might not apply to all individuals who never engage in sadistic activity with a non-consenting victim, but who qualify for a diagnosis of sexual sadism disorder based on subjective distress over their sexual interest. 573 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,240 Yeah. Also, consent is a big thing here too. 574 00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:34,240 Because that's the thing is like, if you're victimizing someone, that's part of the disorder, right? 575 00:30:34,240 --> 00:30:42,240 If you're manipulating someone into believing that this is okay, or they're safe, or they're not, then that's part of the disorder versus two consenting adults. 576 00:30:42,240 --> 00:30:44,240 Yeah, absolutely. 577 00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:48,240 And then comorbidity just includes other paraphernalic disorders with this one. 578 00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:54,240 Number seven is transvestic disorder. Now, you might have heard me say this earlier when I was reading content from another disorder. 579 00:30:54,240 --> 00:31:06,240 So, transvestic disorder diagnostic criteria. A, over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexual arousal from cross-dressing as manifested by fantasies, urges, or behaviors. 580 00:31:06,240 --> 00:31:14,240 And B, the fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors cause clinically significant distress or impairment in these areas of functioning that we talked about. 581 00:31:14,240 --> 00:31:24,240 So, if you're not equating what it means to be transgender and all that stuff, it is the sexual arousal of dressing as the opposite sex. 582 00:31:24,240 --> 00:31:32,240 Yes, absolutely. The prevalence of transvestic disorder is unknown. Transvestic disorder is rare in males and extremely rare in females. 583 00:31:32,240 --> 00:31:43,240 Fewer than 3% of males report ever having been sexually aroused by dressing in women's attire. The percentage of individuals who have cross-dressed with sexual arousal more than once or a few times in their lifetime would even be lower. 584 00:31:43,240 --> 00:31:53,240 The majority of males with transvestic disorder identify as heterosexual, although some individuals have occasional sexual interaction with other males, especially when they are cross-dressed. 585 00:31:53,240 --> 00:32:00,240 Okay. So, yeah. But you said the majority of people with this disorder are heterosexual males. 586 00:32:00,240 --> 00:32:01,240 Yes. 587 00:32:01,240 --> 00:32:11,240 And sometimes will engage in sex or otherwise as when they're dressed in women's clothing. 588 00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:13,240 Yes. And because of the sexual arousal. 589 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:26,240 Yes. And I think it's interesting that it's not something that's really common to be repeated. They say that a lot of people that are diagnosed only did it once, but they are still able to be diagnosed based on their criteria. 590 00:32:26,240 --> 00:32:27,240 I see. 591 00:32:27,240 --> 00:32:28,240 They didn't meet the criteria. 592 00:32:28,240 --> 00:32:29,240 I see. 593 00:32:29,240 --> 00:32:34,240 And then there's not really much information about like development course. I'm just going to go into comorbidity. 594 00:32:34,240 --> 00:32:42,240 So, the comorbidity is often found in association with other periphyllias. The most frequently co-occurring periphyllias are fetishism and masochism. 595 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:50,240 One particularly dangerous form of masochism, autoerotic asphyxia is associated with transvestism and a substantial portion of fatal cases. 596 00:32:50,240 --> 00:32:51,240 Interesting. 597 00:32:51,240 --> 00:32:52,240 Yes. 598 00:32:52,240 --> 00:32:57,240 So, that is definitely something that I would not have even considered. 599 00:32:57,240 --> 00:33:01,240 Yeah. So, I thought that less little bit of information was interesting. Something I didn't know for sure. 600 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:10,240 You said that the onset doesn't really have like a specific onset. Do you think that's because it's like exposure? Exposure to that kind of a thing and then you try it once and then you kind of enjoyed it? 601 00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:21,240 Yeah. I think that, honestly, there might just not be enough information because it's so rare for people. I mean, it must be hard for people to admit that, especially because most of them are heterosexual males. 602 00:33:21,240 --> 00:33:22,240 That's true. 603 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:24,240 They probably have a hard time collecting data on that. 604 00:33:24,240 --> 00:33:25,240 Interesting. 605 00:33:25,240 --> 00:33:28,240 And lastly, number eight is called voyeuristic disorder. 606 00:33:28,240 --> 00:33:29,240 Oh. 607 00:33:29,240 --> 00:33:31,240 So, a voyeuristic disorder. Do you? 608 00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:35,240 I don't know. I'd like to joke that I do. 609 00:33:35,240 --> 00:33:50,240 Okay, let's see. Diagnostic criteria. Over a period of at least six months, recurrent and intense sexual arousal from observing an unsuspecting person who is naked in the process of disrobing or engaging in the sexual activity as manifested by urges, fantasies or behaviors. 610 00:33:50,240 --> 00:33:52,240 I take that back. No, I take it back. 611 00:33:52,240 --> 00:33:58,240 It reminds me of Gerard Schaefer when he was wanking it to Lee that was undressing. 612 00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:07,240 Well, yeah, Richard Rormier used to do that. And I think there's a documentary on Netflix that's called voyeur or vacancy or something like that. 613 00:34:07,240 --> 00:34:14,240 And it's about a guy who ran a motel and had like, he would crawl in the air vents and watch people while they were into the hotel. 614 00:34:14,240 --> 00:34:16,240 Privacy is important, people. 615 00:34:16,240 --> 00:34:19,240 Our hotel, like, I scour hotel rooms. 616 00:34:19,240 --> 00:34:20,240 Oh yeah, I always check the... 617 00:34:20,240 --> 00:34:21,240 I always check the bathrooms. 618 00:34:21,240 --> 00:34:24,240 I always check the metal, or the smoke detector. I always check the... 619 00:34:24,240 --> 00:34:25,240 The smoke detector? 620 00:34:25,240 --> 00:34:27,240 The air vent. I always look in the air vent. 621 00:34:27,240 --> 00:34:29,240 The morning door or whatever it's called. 622 00:34:29,240 --> 00:34:32,240 If there's like a strange hole in a wall, I look in there. 623 00:34:32,240 --> 00:34:33,240 Absolutely. 624 00:34:33,240 --> 00:34:34,240 Yeah. 625 00:34:34,240 --> 00:34:45,240 Criteria B, the individual has acted on these sexual urges with a non-consenting person, or the sexual urges or fantasies cause clinically significant distress or impairment in social, occupational or other important areas of functioning. 626 00:34:45,240 --> 00:34:51,240 And then criteria C, the individual experiencing the arousal and or acting on the urges is at least 18 years of age. 627 00:34:51,240 --> 00:34:52,240 Okay. 628 00:34:52,240 --> 00:34:56,240 So, I thought that was interesting that you have to be 18 to be diagnosed with this. 629 00:34:56,240 --> 00:35:00,240 Otherwise, 17 and 364 days, you're not a creep. 630 00:35:00,240 --> 00:35:01,240 You're just a child. 631 00:35:01,240 --> 00:35:02,240 You're just a child. 632 00:35:02,240 --> 00:35:03,240 Yeah. 633 00:35:03,240 --> 00:35:04,240 So, there's no one need better. 634 00:35:04,240 --> 00:35:09,240 Voyeuristic acts are the most common of potentially law-breaking sexual behaviors. 635 00:35:09,240 --> 00:35:12,240 The population prevalence of voyeuristic disorder is unknown. 636 00:35:12,240 --> 00:35:23,240 However, based on voyeuristic sexual acts and non-clinical samples, the highest possible lifetime prevalence for voyeuristic disorder is approximately 12% in males and 4% in females. 637 00:35:23,240 --> 00:35:24,240 Oh wow. 638 00:35:24,240 --> 00:35:25,240 I thought that was pretty interesting. 639 00:35:25,240 --> 00:35:27,240 This is pretty high, especially for females. 640 00:35:27,240 --> 00:35:30,240 I feel gross that I said that at the beginning of this. 641 00:35:30,240 --> 00:35:32,240 Like, well, I just said I don't. 642 00:35:32,240 --> 00:35:37,240 Please don't come, like, coming down the street with torches and pitchforks. 643 00:35:37,240 --> 00:35:38,240 Oh my gosh. 644 00:35:38,240 --> 00:35:45,240 Adult males with voyeuristic disorder often become first aware of their sexual interest in secretly watching, unspecting persons during adolescence. 645 00:35:45,240 --> 00:35:54,240 However, the minimum major requirement, like we said, is 18 years because there is substantial difficulty in differentiating it from age-appropriate puberty-related sexual curiosity and activity. 646 00:35:54,240 --> 00:35:57,240 You know, yeah, I was thinking about that too. 647 00:35:57,240 --> 00:36:06,240 We did talk about Richard Girmieres, and although we understand that Richard Girmieres is the night stalker, he was like 11, 12 years old. 648 00:36:06,240 --> 00:36:15,240 And there's always that age-old scene in a lot of coming-of-age movies where boys are hanging out in a tree with binoculars and things like that. 649 00:36:15,240 --> 00:36:16,240 Yeah, absolutely. 650 00:36:16,240 --> 00:36:18,240 It's like something about Mary too. 651 00:36:18,240 --> 00:36:22,240 He wasn't actually doing it, but they thought he was like creeping on her, getting dressed in the mirror. 652 00:36:22,240 --> 00:36:24,240 Well, that was in a window though. 653 00:36:24,240 --> 00:36:25,240 Yeah. 654 00:36:25,240 --> 00:36:26,240 I guess it's still voyeurism. 655 00:36:26,240 --> 00:36:29,240 It would be voyeurism if he was watching her without her knowledge. 656 00:36:29,240 --> 00:36:30,240 But she wasn't. 657 00:36:30,240 --> 00:36:31,240 He was looking at the bird. 658 00:36:31,240 --> 00:36:32,240 He was looking at the bird. 659 00:36:32,240 --> 00:36:35,240 But, I'm just saying, it's kind of the same thing. 660 00:36:35,240 --> 00:36:47,240 I mean, that's how Marty McFly would have never been conceived, because Chris Van Glover was up in that tree in the Back to the Future, and he was supposed to get hit by the car and fall in love with the mom. 661 00:36:47,240 --> 00:36:49,240 But instead, Marty pushed him out of the way. 662 00:36:49,240 --> 00:36:51,240 Follow us for more spoilers. 663 00:36:51,240 --> 00:36:53,240 Spoiler alert. 664 00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:56,240 So the co-morbidity. 665 00:36:56,240 --> 00:37:12,240 Conditions that occur co-morbidly with voyeuristic disorder include hypersexuality and other paraphylic disorders, particularly exhibitionistic disorder, depressive bipolar anxiety and substance use disorders, ADHD and conduct disorder, and antisocial personality disorder, also frequent co-morbid conditions. 666 00:37:12,240 --> 00:37:13,240 Goodness. 667 00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:14,240 I know. 668 00:37:14,240 --> 00:37:15,240 There's a lot going on with that one. 669 00:37:15,240 --> 00:37:16,240 Yeah. 670 00:37:16,240 --> 00:37:18,240 So those are the eight paraphylic disorders. 671 00:37:18,240 --> 00:37:22,240 But I'm sure people are wondering, like, where does sex addiction come into all this? 672 00:37:22,240 --> 00:37:23,240 Yeah. 673 00:37:23,240 --> 00:37:28,240 Because sex addiction is a real thing that everyone has heard of, I'm sure, and people talk about a lot, especially celebrities. 674 00:37:28,240 --> 00:37:29,240 Yeah. 675 00:37:29,240 --> 00:37:30,240 So I just want to touch on that really quick. 676 00:37:30,240 --> 00:37:34,240 And then I do have some celebrities as well that have come out in the open about this. 677 00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:37,240 I'm not like creeping on people and making it a big thing. 678 00:37:37,240 --> 00:37:39,240 I don't want to hear about David Dukovny. 679 00:37:39,240 --> 00:37:40,240 I don't think he's on here. 680 00:37:40,240 --> 00:37:41,240 Oh, he's not on here. 681 00:37:41,240 --> 00:37:42,240 So I don't think. 682 00:37:42,240 --> 00:37:44,240 I wrote the fucking list. 683 00:37:44,240 --> 00:37:45,240 It's not. 684 00:37:45,240 --> 00:37:46,240 I don't think he's on here. 685 00:37:46,240 --> 00:37:56,240 So sexual addiction is an intense focus on sexual fantasies, urges, or activities that can't be controlled and cause distress or harm your health, relationships, career, or other aspects of your life. 686 00:37:56,240 --> 00:38:11,240 Although sex addiction is the commonly used term, healthcare professionals will refer to this disorder as either compulsive sexual behavior, problematic sexual behavior, hypersexuality, hypersexuality disorder, sexual compulsivity, or sexual impulsivity. 687 00:38:11,240 --> 00:38:12,240 Okay. 688 00:38:12,240 --> 00:38:13,240 There's a lot of different types. 689 00:38:13,240 --> 00:38:14,240 Sure. 690 00:38:14,240 --> 00:38:17,240 I've probably done a whole mental breakdown on all the different types of that. 691 00:38:17,240 --> 00:38:24,240 Hypersexuality seems to affect anywhere from 3 to 10% of the US population and it is more common in males than in females. 692 00:38:24,240 --> 00:38:28,240 The average age for seeking help for sex addiction is 37. 693 00:38:28,240 --> 00:38:42,240 And many of the individuals that suffer with sex addiction, about 88%, have a history of other mental health conditions such as mood disorders, anxiety, a history of suicide attempts, personality disorders, OCD, and other addictive disorders. 694 00:38:42,240 --> 00:38:43,240 Wow. 695 00:38:43,240 --> 00:38:46,240 There's a lot more going on than just sexual addiction. 696 00:38:46,240 --> 00:38:48,240 Do you think 37? 697 00:38:48,240 --> 00:38:53,240 Because you've sowed all your wild oats and you're like, I have this is still a problem. 698 00:38:53,240 --> 00:38:54,240 Like I can't settle down. 699 00:38:54,240 --> 00:38:55,240 I need to get help. 700 00:38:55,240 --> 00:38:56,240 Yeah. 701 00:38:56,240 --> 00:38:57,240 I can't. 702 00:38:57,240 --> 00:38:58,240 Not that you have to settle down. 703 00:38:58,240 --> 00:39:00,240 I'm not saying that you have to get married. 704 00:39:00,240 --> 00:39:02,240 I'm not saying you have to have a long term relationship. 705 00:39:02,240 --> 00:39:05,240 But it might be a realization when a lot of people around you are doing it. 706 00:39:05,240 --> 00:39:10,240 Are doing it and you're not able to get to work on time because you stayed up way too late last night because of whatever. 707 00:39:10,240 --> 00:39:11,240 Yeah. 708 00:39:11,240 --> 00:39:12,240 Exactly. 709 00:39:12,240 --> 00:39:14,240 And you're seeking out connections with people maybe you shouldn't be. 710 00:39:14,240 --> 00:39:15,240 Yeah. 711 00:39:15,240 --> 00:39:16,240 Absolutely. 712 00:39:16,240 --> 00:39:17,240 So I do have some celebrities. 713 00:39:17,240 --> 00:39:18,240 It's just a couple. 714 00:39:18,240 --> 00:39:19,240 But I wanted to throw this in there. 715 00:39:19,240 --> 00:39:21,240 So the first one that we have is Jada Pinkett Smith. 716 00:39:21,240 --> 00:39:22,240 Oh, I didn't know that. 717 00:39:22,240 --> 00:39:23,240 Pinkett Smith. 718 00:39:23,240 --> 00:39:24,240 Sorry. 719 00:39:24,240 --> 00:39:26,240 I said it right, but my nose did this weird thing. 720 00:39:26,240 --> 00:39:27,240 Jada Pinkett Smith. 721 00:39:27,240 --> 00:39:28,240 Yes. 722 00:39:28,240 --> 00:39:35,240 So she stated that she was addicted to sex when she was younger but forced herself to quit cold turkey by confronting the real reasons for her behavior. 723 00:39:35,240 --> 00:39:36,240 Yeah. 724 00:39:36,240 --> 00:39:38,240 These are all just really small snippets that I don't have on her. 725 00:39:38,240 --> 00:39:39,240 Sure. 726 00:39:39,240 --> 00:39:40,240 The next one is Lamar Odom. 727 00:39:40,240 --> 00:39:41,240 Okay. 728 00:39:41,240 --> 00:39:47,240 I don't know that is Kourtney Kardashian's ex-husband and the father of her child, her two children, excuse me. 729 00:39:47,240 --> 00:39:50,240 He stated about his addiction, quote, I am a sex addict. 730 00:39:50,240 --> 00:39:52,240 That sick sin was hard for me to hide. 731 00:39:52,240 --> 00:39:54,240 I had a problem, end quote. 732 00:39:54,240 --> 00:39:58,240 He stated that sex would trigger his drug use as well and he is now recovering from both. 733 00:39:58,240 --> 00:39:59,240 Yeah. 734 00:39:59,240 --> 00:40:02,240 He's been doing really well too and his mom just passed too. 735 00:40:02,240 --> 00:40:03,240 Yeah, I know. 736 00:40:03,240 --> 00:40:05,240 It's really sad. 737 00:40:05,240 --> 00:40:10,240 Kanye West, which is not like funny ha-ha but like kind of ironic because he was also married to a Kardashian. 738 00:40:10,240 --> 00:40:11,240 Yeah. 739 00:40:11,240 --> 00:40:16,240 He stated, quote, like for me, Playboy was my gateway into full-on pornography addiction. 740 00:40:16,240 --> 00:40:21,240 My dad had a Playboy left out at age five and it's affected almost every choice I made for the rest of my life. 741 00:40:21,240 --> 00:40:26,240 From age five till now, having to kick the habit and it just presents itself in the open like it's okay. 742 00:40:26,240 --> 00:40:29,240 And I stand up and say, no, it's not okay. 743 00:40:29,240 --> 00:40:32,240 It's like that was such a script out of a rock star's life. 744 00:40:32,240 --> 00:40:39,240 My mom had passed a year before and I said some people drown themselves in drugs and I drowned myself in my addiction, sex, end quote. 745 00:40:39,240 --> 00:40:41,240 At age five, that is... 746 00:40:41,240 --> 00:40:42,240 That's heavy. 747 00:40:42,240 --> 00:40:43,240 That's heavy. 748 00:40:43,240 --> 00:40:49,240 Like he saw a soft corn, soft porn, soft corn, soft corn. 749 00:40:49,240 --> 00:40:50,240 Soft corn. 750 00:40:50,240 --> 00:40:55,240 And it like triggered this like, yeah, disorder, like essentially later in life. 751 00:40:55,240 --> 00:40:56,240 Yeah. 752 00:40:56,240 --> 00:40:58,240 The next one is Colin Farrell. 753 00:40:58,240 --> 00:41:03,240 He commented that he had a reputation that gave him the nickname the Lusty Leprechaun. 754 00:41:03,240 --> 00:41:06,240 Oh my, no. 755 00:41:06,240 --> 00:41:07,240 Don't. 756 00:41:07,240 --> 00:41:16,240 He would enter rehab shortly after filming a sex tape and after leaving rehab, Colin stated that having sex sober was quote terrifying. 757 00:41:16,240 --> 00:41:17,240 End quote. 758 00:41:17,240 --> 00:41:18,240 Wow. 759 00:41:18,240 --> 00:41:19,240 So it was like a big deal. 760 00:41:19,240 --> 00:41:20,240 That is like a big corn but anything then. 761 00:41:20,240 --> 00:41:21,240 Yeah, for sure. 762 00:41:21,240 --> 00:41:24,240 Russell Brand is also on here. 763 00:41:24,240 --> 00:41:28,240 He claimed that sex was quote recreational, unquote, for him, end quote. 764 00:41:28,240 --> 00:41:35,240 And his consistent acts actually landed him the title of quote, Shagger of the Year, end quote, in the UK. 765 00:41:35,240 --> 00:41:36,240 Wow. 766 00:41:36,240 --> 00:41:40,240 And he also claimed that at its worst, he would have sex with 10 women in a day. 767 00:41:40,240 --> 00:41:42,240 He is now in recovery as well. 768 00:41:42,240 --> 00:41:43,240 Yeah. 769 00:41:43,240 --> 00:41:45,240 And he also struggled with substance use as well. 770 00:41:45,240 --> 00:41:47,240 And lastly is Rob Lowe. 771 00:41:47,240 --> 00:41:48,240 Rob Lowe. 772 00:41:48,240 --> 00:41:50,240 Rob Lowe would come clean. 773 00:41:50,240 --> 00:41:51,240 Rob Lowe. 774 00:41:51,240 --> 00:41:57,240 He would come clean about his drug addiction in 2011 and he had also filmed a sex tape that had surfaced around the same time. 775 00:41:57,240 --> 00:41:58,240 Wow. 776 00:41:58,240 --> 00:42:04,240 He stated that after this was in the open, he entered treatment to help him and he credits his wife, Cheryl, for helping him as well. 777 00:42:04,240 --> 00:42:05,240 He's been sober for 25 years. 778 00:42:05,240 --> 00:42:06,240 Yeah. 779 00:42:06,240 --> 00:42:11,240 Do you know what I saw recently is sober, I think celebrated their 19th or 20th year was Bradley Cooper. 780 00:42:11,240 --> 00:42:12,240 Wow, good for him. 781 00:42:12,240 --> 00:42:14,240 He's been sober for a long time. 782 00:42:14,240 --> 00:42:19,240 Dang, and he played in a Star is Born, like, that he played in alcoholic. 783 00:42:19,240 --> 00:42:25,240 Well, even in like the hangover, you know, like, he's not that where he's playing like a party dude, you know. 784 00:42:25,240 --> 00:42:26,240 Yeah. 785 00:42:26,240 --> 00:42:27,240 Dang, good for him. 786 00:42:27,240 --> 00:42:28,240 I know, right? 787 00:42:28,240 --> 00:42:29,240 I know that. 788 00:42:29,240 --> 00:42:30,240 What Hot American Summer, I love that movie. 789 00:42:30,240 --> 00:42:31,240 I had seen it. 790 00:42:31,240 --> 00:42:36,240 I'm thinking like, what Hot American Summer is probably 20 years old, 25 years old. 791 00:42:36,240 --> 00:42:41,240 That's why he was drinking then, which is interesting or, you know, or whatever his addiction is. 792 00:42:41,240 --> 00:42:45,240 I can't speak for his, for his, why his sobriety is his sobriety. 793 00:42:45,240 --> 00:42:46,240 Yeah, for sure. 794 00:42:46,240 --> 00:42:47,240 Yeah, I thought that was really interesting. 795 00:42:47,240 --> 00:42:48,240 That is interesting. 796 00:42:48,240 --> 00:42:49,240 Well, yeah, that's my mental breakdown. 797 00:42:49,240 --> 00:42:50,240 It was good. 798 00:42:50,240 --> 00:42:51,240 So I wanted to just bring that up. 799 00:42:51,240 --> 00:42:59,240 And obviously it was a requested mental breakdown, but I remember I was mentioning to you like a long time ago, I think we had maybe tossed around the idea of doing this. 800 00:42:59,240 --> 00:43:00,240 Yeah. 801 00:43:00,240 --> 00:43:03,240 That's all you, you're like, I don't think I could. 802 00:43:03,240 --> 00:43:08,240 I'm not, I'm not the go to. 803 00:43:08,240 --> 00:43:12,240 It almost sounded like you were going to say I'm the go to like, finished gal. 804 00:43:12,240 --> 00:43:13,240 Yeah. 805 00:43:13,240 --> 00:43:18,240 I want you to tell me what you know first. 806 00:43:18,240 --> 00:43:21,240 Wow, that is so far from the truth. 807 00:43:21,240 --> 00:43:22,240 But okay, thanks. 808 00:43:22,240 --> 00:43:24,240 I'm not embarrassed. 809 00:43:24,240 --> 00:43:29,240 Anyway, this was a requested case, which is why I was like, when I saw it, I was like, okay, I'll just go ahead and do it. 810 00:43:29,240 --> 00:43:31,240 I hope you guys enjoyed this content. 811 00:43:31,240 --> 00:43:35,240 With the exception of us laughing and making jokes, like this is very serious. 812 00:43:35,240 --> 00:43:37,240 Like these are very real disorders. 813 00:43:37,240 --> 00:43:43,240 So we appreciate you guys understanding that sometimes we make jokes and we laugh because we're uncomfortable. 814 00:43:43,240 --> 00:43:46,240 But these are very real disorders and our goal is to educate people on them as well. 815 00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:47,240 Of course. 816 00:43:47,240 --> 00:43:48,240 And I felt like I learned a lot, honestly. 817 00:43:48,240 --> 00:43:49,240 Yeah, no, absolutely. 818 00:43:49,240 --> 00:43:50,240 I learned a lot doing the research. 819 00:43:50,240 --> 00:43:51,240 So very nice. 820 00:43:51,240 --> 00:43:53,240 Even though I'm educated. 821 00:43:53,240 --> 00:43:54,240 Yeah. 822 00:43:54,240 --> 00:43:55,240 Okay, we're going away now. 823 00:43:55,240 --> 00:43:56,240 All right. 824 00:43:56,240 --> 00:43:57,240 Love you. 825 00:43:57,240 --> 00:43:59,240 Bye.