1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:13,360 Hello, everybody, and welcome to a new episode of the Awaken Together podcast. I'm Kat, and today 2 00:00:13,360 --> 00:00:20,480 I am joined by a very special guest. Her name is Candice Rubio. Candice is an intuition coach, 3 00:00:20,480 --> 00:00:26,240 a clairvoyant psychic, and master breathwork facilitator. And today she's going to be sharing 4 00:00:26,240 --> 00:00:32,960 with us a little bit more about family constellation work through ancestral alignment. So welcome to 5 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:39,520 the show, Candice. Thank you so much, Katarina, for having me. Truly, it's an honor and I'm excited 6 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:45,520 to share my methods and other things I'm cooking up for all of us to awaken together. I love your 7 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:51,840 podcast name so much. Thank you. Thank you. Yeah, that's the goal. And really a big point of the 8 00:00:51,840 --> 00:01:00,080 podcast is offering our audience, our listeners new tools, modalities, and just ways to tap in for 9 00:01:00,080 --> 00:01:06,560 their own greater healing for that ultimate pathway to awakening. So you offer so many 10 00:01:06,560 --> 00:01:13,280 amazing things. And family constellation work is something that I had heard about a couple times 11 00:01:13,280 --> 00:01:18,480 in the past like months. And then when you reached out, sharing that this is one of the things that 12 00:01:18,480 --> 00:01:23,680 you help people with, I was like, okay, this is a sign. I've heard this now multiple times. And 13 00:01:24,240 --> 00:01:29,920 I think there's so much benefit to it. So you are joining us from the Philippines now. Is that right? 14 00:01:30,560 --> 00:01:36,160 That's right. I'm actually in Manila right now. I've been traveling here since January. We're in 15 00:01:36,160 --> 00:01:40,960 March now, like two and a half months. Actually, it's been an epic journey. I was in Canada before 16 00:01:40,960 --> 00:01:47,520 that. So it is just a lot of powerful transformations always happen for me through travel. Yeah. Oh, 17 00:01:47,520 --> 00:01:52,480 I'm getting ready for a trip abroad just to Europe later in the fall. And I'm so excited. 18 00:01:52,480 --> 00:01:57,280 And I think it's just so special how we can connect like halfway across the world. And yeah, 19 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:05,040 I can do this. I'm calling in November today. And it is thunderstorming. It's a Sunday. And 20 00:02:05,040 --> 00:02:10,960 it's just like my ideal, ideal weather for a Sunday. So feeling really grounded in this moment. 21 00:02:12,400 --> 00:02:16,320 That sounds amazing. I haven't felt cold weather since I was in Canada. And actually, 22 00:02:16,320 --> 00:02:20,960 there's something about it. Funny enough, I just had my first warm shower a couple weeks 23 00:02:20,960 --> 00:02:28,160 when I got back to like the city for like over almost like two months. So just to feel warm 24 00:02:28,160 --> 00:02:34,240 water was like, Oh my God, luxury. I bet right. The things we take for granted sometimes. 25 00:02:34,960 --> 00:02:40,000 Totally, totally. I was in the jungle for a while, but all for beautiful reasons. I can't say I 26 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:47,280 I regret it at all. It was also very beautiful. Oh, lovely. So glad to hear that. Well, jumping 27 00:02:47,280 --> 00:02:53,360 right in. Can you share with our audience? What do you help people with? Oh, I help people with 28 00:02:53,360 --> 00:03:00,160 oh, so many things. But I would say the main thing that I do is I help women in particular who are 29 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:06,800 light workers who are star seeds. I help equip them with the tools that they need to help serve 30 00:03:06,800 --> 00:03:15,120 on a more refined, thorough process. And I have, you know, tried studied numerous methods. 31 00:03:15,760 --> 00:03:21,120 And ancestral alignments is definitely the pinnacle of my work as it stands right now, 32 00:03:22,000 --> 00:03:25,600 as well as interdence, you know, and if we get the chance, we can talk about that too. But 33 00:03:25,600 --> 00:03:32,880 ancestral alignments is really my method of all methods. And it's modern family constellation 34 00:03:32,880 --> 00:03:40,240 work. It's an adaptation of family constellation work in which we can actually get to the roots of 35 00:03:40,240 --> 00:03:46,160 certain family issues, certain issues within your life, quicker, faster, and with less people 36 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:52,320 involved, but still have it be incredibly thorough, incredibly impactful. And I teach you how to 37 00:03:52,320 --> 00:03:58,000 really surrender to the field to the things that are showing up in a, in an ancestral alignment 38 00:03:58,000 --> 00:04:04,720 session. And it's quite profound. It's spontaneous work, quote unquote, but the field, as I like 39 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:09,760 to call it, always brings to the surface that which is lying unconscious that you didn't even know 40 00:04:09,760 --> 00:04:13,680 you were caring, you didn't even know was impacting you on a certain level within your 41 00:04:13,680 --> 00:04:20,480 business, your love life, your, your self image, all these things like seriously matter in your 42 00:04:20,480 --> 00:04:25,680 manifestation and in your service to other people, right? Because that's why you have a podcast, 43 00:04:25,680 --> 00:04:29,520 that's why I'm doing the work. We're really all in service to each other. So it's really about 44 00:04:30,080 --> 00:04:36,320 providing the tools for people to awaken. That's ultimately what I share, what I believe in. 45 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:41,920 I feel like I'm a forever student in life. And because of that, I think it opens up a huge 46 00:04:41,920 --> 00:04:46,160 doorway for me to be a continual teacher. So I teach so much because I learned so much. 47 00:04:47,520 --> 00:04:52,800 I love that I really resonate with that. And I think I also really respect that just being in 48 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:58,000 the seat of the forever student, because the universe is the true teacher and master, right? 49 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:08,320 So much to learn at all times. So cool. And so can you tell us more about family constellation 50 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:14,240 work and your method of ancestral alignment? If you were to break this down, like, how does it 51 00:05:14,240 --> 00:05:23,360 work? What does a session look like with you? Yes. So ancestral alignments is a method in which we 52 00:05:23,360 --> 00:05:28,640 first help you tap into a goal. So if I'm working with someone one-on-one or say in the coursework, 53 00:05:28,640 --> 00:05:33,200 right? In the coursework, we actually already have predetermined things weekly, which is powerful. 54 00:05:33,200 --> 00:05:39,280 But I always tell all my students, we have these pre-selected themes that we're working on within 55 00:05:39,280 --> 00:05:43,200 our family systems. However, whatever you're going through at that time is going to be top priority, 56 00:05:43,200 --> 00:05:47,680 because whatever the field is showing you at this time, whatever you're bumping up against 57 00:05:48,240 --> 00:05:52,240 in your life right now is the most important thing to address. There's always a huge doorway with 58 00:05:52,240 --> 00:05:58,880 that. So basically, because of that, we like to work with where you are now. So establishing where 59 00:05:58,880 --> 00:06:04,800 you are, what goal you're trying to bring in manifest, and we basically claim it in the here 60 00:06:04,800 --> 00:06:10,000 and now. So step one in ancestral alignments process is coming up with a goal and embodying 61 00:06:10,000 --> 00:06:16,640 that goal in an I am now statement. I am now filling the blank and people, you know, all the 62 00:06:16,640 --> 00:06:22,800 students and clients I work with, they bring all kinds of goals. I am now making multiple 63 00:06:22,800 --> 00:06:29,360 five figures a month with ease in a happy, healthy relationship, right? It could be, I am now the 64 00:06:29,360 --> 00:06:38,160 healing of patriarchal abuse in my family system and stepping into the embodiment of my life purpose. 65 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:47,120 I am now healing my heart from, you know, XYZ relationship. I am now the healed heart that 66 00:06:47,120 --> 00:06:52,640 I'm that I'm seeking to embody whatever your goal is essentially. And then we pick a rep for the work. 67 00:06:53,520 --> 00:06:58,800 That could be the client themselves or different rep altogether. I'm lucky enough to have a 68 00:06:58,800 --> 00:07:03,040 beautiful community who I've trained so I can literally just hop in a group chat and ask anyone 69 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:09,760 to rep for me and any one of my client sessions, which I love. And so from there, we basically have 70 00:07:10,480 --> 00:07:16,240 the client send energetically the goal of as if it's already completed to the person 71 00:07:16,240 --> 00:07:21,520 wrapping them in their family system. And the rep typically, unless the clients are 72 00:07:21,520 --> 00:07:28,160 having for themselves is blind to the goal. They don't even know. So once that transfer 73 00:07:28,160 --> 00:07:31,680 transference of energy happens, as the client is sending their goal to the rep, 74 00:07:31,680 --> 00:07:37,840 who's wrapping themselves, there's this whole energy process that starts to happen. And through 75 00:07:37,840 --> 00:07:45,040 somatic inquiry and really a lot of intuitive framing and work, we are allowed to get a really 76 00:07:45,040 --> 00:07:52,240 deep dive peak into what's happening within the body and really see if how things are pulling 77 00:07:52,240 --> 00:07:58,240 to the right, to the left, see which lineage is pointing to needing the most work at that time. 78 00:07:58,240 --> 00:08:02,400 So typically in a session, there's going to be, Oh, I really feel this pulling down on my right, 79 00:08:02,400 --> 00:08:09,440 or wow, I really feel like turning to my left in ancestral alignment work. The right and behind 80 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:13,360 the shoulder represents the father and father's lineage. The left and behind represents the 81 00:08:13,360 --> 00:08:18,640 mother mother's lineage. So once we have that person start to face either one of those sides, 82 00:08:18,640 --> 00:08:24,800 because they feel drawn to it, these whole stories start to emerge through the body. It's really so 83 00:08:24,800 --> 00:08:30,240 much about letting the rep, letting the field show what's happening through the body. So the rep is 84 00:08:30,240 --> 00:08:36,720 basically like the barometer of the entire session. And in that process, we start to see these stories 85 00:08:36,720 --> 00:08:41,760 emerge like I'm feeling really stuck, trapped, I'm feeling X, Y and Z, I'm feeling suppressed, 86 00:08:41,760 --> 00:08:46,400 or I'm feeling angry, right? All these suppressed emotions start to come to the surface and we 87 00:08:46,400 --> 00:08:52,640 start to see the specifics of why. And in that process, we get to say what's never been said, 88 00:08:52,640 --> 00:08:57,840 we get to hear what's never been heard, we get to tell the story that's been untold in a repeating 89 00:08:57,840 --> 00:09:04,640 pattern within the family system for a long time. And it's a powerful process. These are huge doorways 90 00:09:04,640 --> 00:09:14,000 into healing, into stepping into a new version of yourself, really, it's a, it's a powerful way 91 00:09:14,000 --> 00:09:21,120 to shift identity. It's a powerful way to put the baggage down. And it's a powerful way to 92 00:09:21,120 --> 00:09:27,200 learn that you have baggage in the first place too. Wow. Yeah. Oh my gosh. I bet that sounds 93 00:09:27,200 --> 00:09:32,000 incredible. I love that you start with what's present. I always find so much value in that 94 00:09:32,000 --> 00:09:37,120 rather than like grasping for something. It's like, okay, what's what's happening here right now? 95 00:09:37,120 --> 00:09:44,320 And how you kind of help them form an affirmation like I am that phrase of like just calling in 96 00:09:44,320 --> 00:09:49,360 what's what you want, what you need in that moment. I also love that it's very deeply based 97 00:09:49,360 --> 00:09:56,320 in somatics, right? Yes. Body holds so many answers. Oh yes, it holds all the answers really. 98 00:09:56,320 --> 00:10:02,080 The body knows the body knows way more than the mind. The body already has all the answers. The 99 00:10:02,080 --> 00:10:06,480 body already knows it's just waiting for you to unlock yourself. And that's why I love about 100 00:10:06,480 --> 00:10:13,360 ancestral alignments is we're working on the genetic mapping. We're working literally on your DNA. 101 00:10:13,360 --> 00:10:18,640 We're literally working at the genetic level of what you came into this world with because there's 102 00:10:18,640 --> 00:10:23,840 nothing that's imperfect to truly. I mean, I know our family systems can be what they are, 103 00:10:23,840 --> 00:10:31,440 chaotic hectic, if you're like me, completely nuts. So this is why I was pulled into the work 104 00:10:31,440 --> 00:10:37,600 because the family system I come from is one of extreme trauma, like extreme trauma. And so to 105 00:10:37,600 --> 00:10:43,280 start to tell these stories are the stories that are vibrating within our genetic code. 106 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:54,160 They call junk DNA, junk DNA, because I believe there's suppression of human experience on all 107 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:59,120 levels to try to get you to believe that somehow there's part of your genetic code that you don't 108 00:10:59,120 --> 00:11:04,000 need or that it's garbage. That's the most ridiculous thing ever. Those are untold stories 109 00:11:04,000 --> 00:11:08,640 waiting to be tapped in so you can literally embody more of who you are. You can literally 110 00:11:08,640 --> 00:11:14,640 decode more of your genetic code and it happens through this unlocking of going through the past 111 00:11:14,640 --> 00:11:19,120 and then moving forward, right? Because there's been so much suppression for hundreds of thousands 112 00:11:19,120 --> 00:11:24,080 of years now that now we're at a point where we can't really hide from ourselves. That's the whole 113 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:28,080 point of the awakening we're in right now. We can't hide from ourselves. The more we try to hide 114 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:34,320 from ourselves, the worse and worse we get. This whole system is asking us to really evolve on a 115 00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:41,200 deep spiritual level. This is my absolute favorite way to do it. Preach sister. I love that. 116 00:11:42,320 --> 00:11:48,320 I had never heard that phrase junk DNA before. I think that's kind of like you said, kind of 117 00:11:48,320 --> 00:11:54,480 ludicrous. Everything has a purpose. Everything has intention. I so deeply believe that, like you 118 00:11:54,480 --> 00:12:03,520 said. We haven't reincarnated all of these times just to say now that part of this 119 00:12:03,520 --> 00:12:09,920 whole part of this just doesn't matter. Exactly. Exactly. I come from kind of like a 120 00:12:09,920 --> 00:12:13,680 science-y background. I've always been like very studious growing up and I have an earth 121 00:12:13,680 --> 00:12:21,680 science degree. Before I chose earth science, I was in biology for my bachelors. This is a lot 122 00:12:21,680 --> 00:12:27,280 of where I mean I learned it in high school too, but they literally teach that there are parts of 123 00:12:27,280 --> 00:12:33,760 your DNA that are junk that are just there lying dormant and nobody I mean it's just scientifically 124 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:38,720 quote unquote explained away like no big deal. There's just this whole code sitting there just 125 00:12:38,720 --> 00:12:45,280 waiting but that's just junk. Don't worry about that. Oh my gosh. I can't even imagine like being 126 00:12:45,280 --> 00:12:52,160 told that in school in that kind of a setting just receiving that like what? Yeah. That's at the 127 00:12:52,160 --> 00:12:57,520 that's a huge foundation of a lot of scientific studies. So if you think about it, you know, 128 00:12:57,520 --> 00:13:02,640 how society operates, which is through lots of doctors, lots of pharmaceutical work, 129 00:13:02,640 --> 00:13:07,040 these sorts of things right where very we could be very science-based, which is powerful in 130 00:13:07,040 --> 00:13:10,640 and of itself. I'm not negating science, but I'm saying like there are certain things within 131 00:13:10,640 --> 00:13:15,280 science when you start to study more on a spiritual level as well, you start to realize we eat a 132 00:13:15,280 --> 00:13:21,920 minute. This is not this is not it at all. This I've been lied to. Yeah. Yeah. It kind of makes me 133 00:13:21,920 --> 00:13:27,680 think about how much of the human brain has still been left to be explored. Like there's so much 134 00:13:27,680 --> 00:13:33,040 we don't know. And so it kind of feels like the same thing like just because we don't know what 135 00:13:33,040 --> 00:13:39,520 this quote unquote junk DNA has in store for us doesn't mean it doesn't have a place. Yes, exactly. 136 00:13:39,520 --> 00:13:44,400 And when we learn that place, that's literally what I tell people we're literally placing you in 137 00:13:44,400 --> 00:13:49,280 your rightful place in your lineage so you can get back to who you really are. Because so many of 138 00:13:49,280 --> 00:13:54,800 us go through so many traumas, you know, we go through sometimes being immature stuck in immature 139 00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:59,440 patterns. So we stay, you know, we don't we don't initiate ourselves into adulthood fully. And this 140 00:13:59,440 --> 00:14:03,840 happens to men and women. And then also, you know, there's lots of instances where the child has to 141 00:14:03,840 --> 00:14:08,800 become the parents, right? Again, this is where the warping of the family system starts to happen. 142 00:14:08,800 --> 00:14:15,360 And everyone gets out of place, the entire system is really kind of twisted and distorted. And so 143 00:14:15,360 --> 00:14:22,960 it's all about bringing healing back to the distortions and clearing them. Powerful, so beautiful. 144 00:14:23,600 --> 00:14:29,040 And as you were talking a little bit before, you briefly mentioned just how you kind of landed 145 00:14:29,040 --> 00:14:34,160 in this line of work was coming from a deeply traumatic childhood. And I'm really sorry to hear 146 00:14:34,160 --> 00:14:39,200 that. And I'm wondering if you'd be comfortable sharing a little bit more about like, what led 147 00:14:39,200 --> 00:14:45,040 you here? Why you're so passionate about this work now? Oh, that's such a powerful question. So 148 00:14:45,040 --> 00:14:52,320 growing up, I was traumatized on every single level that you can imagine, you know, from stepfather, 149 00:14:52,320 --> 00:14:57,920 sexual abuse, emotional abuse to mother who was an alcoholic, physical, emotional abuse, narcissism. 150 00:14:58,480 --> 00:15:03,680 That was my entire childhood was complete chaos. And later in life, I found out I had a 151 00:15:03,680 --> 00:15:09,680 biological father who knew about me the entire time and was raising a whole other family, like 152 00:15:09,680 --> 00:15:15,200 I'm a love child right between his other kids. So you want to talk about somebody who's like 153 00:15:15,200 --> 00:15:20,880 literally had every single parent or parent figure I could have had, betray them, turn on them, abuse 154 00:15:20,880 --> 00:15:26,800 you on a regular basis. I mean, I'm literally the poster child for it. So it was because of this and 155 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:32,400 such extreme pain that I just knew intuitively. And I was told this, you know, by my guides and 156 00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:38,240 spirit, even I knew my mission from the time I was three, four years old, like I can remember 157 00:15:39,360 --> 00:15:44,720 downloading it and I could remember feeling it in my body. But you know, you think as you grow up, 158 00:15:44,720 --> 00:15:49,520 you think you're crazy and you're you're taught out of a lot of things. But I knew exactly as I 159 00:15:49,520 --> 00:15:53,440 was living through it, I was being guided that these were going to be all the things I needed to heal 160 00:15:53,440 --> 00:16:02,480 from. So it took a while, it took a while to move through a lot of my my deeper big wounds and pains. 161 00:16:02,480 --> 00:16:06,480 And it's a for it's a forever process. There's still there's still tons to be undone. 162 00:16:08,080 --> 00:16:13,200 But I will say, I think I've worked on a lot of my patterns in a lot deeper way than most get the 163 00:16:13,200 --> 00:16:20,240 chance to or most allow them to. So because of the extreme pain that I experienced, it's why I held 164 00:16:20,240 --> 00:16:25,200 it to so many different methods and studied because if I didn't, I wasn't going to survive. I 165 00:16:25,200 --> 00:16:31,920 literally would not be here without the healing work that I've done. And so it's because of that 166 00:16:31,920 --> 00:16:37,600 process that I knew I had to like turn back around and help and teach as many as I could the same 167 00:16:37,600 --> 00:16:44,640 processes because even if and many have trauma as extreme or worse, right, than mine and then some 168 00:16:44,640 --> 00:16:50,080 lesser and there's no judgment on what what the level and extent is. But in my journey, it almost 169 00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:57,360 had to be so intense and so rough that I would have like my spirit would have no choice but to 170 00:16:57,360 --> 00:17:01,040 learn because I knew there was not going to be a method that I could just go to the doctor and 171 00:17:01,680 --> 00:17:06,000 ask for or medication that was going to take all the pain away. I knew that was never going to be 172 00:17:06,640 --> 00:17:11,040 my path and I needed to figure out how to deal with it from the root and I did. I've gotten 173 00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:15,440 myself through so many instances where I'd never thought I would make it through and I really 174 00:17:15,440 --> 00:17:21,440 attested to ancestral alignments and some of the other methods I do as well. But really it's it's 175 00:17:21,440 --> 00:17:29,280 this level of work that when you start from here, so much opens up in the future for you to to really 176 00:17:29,280 --> 00:17:34,240 embark and embrace yourself in new ways and meet yourself in new ways, you know, because some of 177 00:17:34,240 --> 00:17:39,280 us are so traumatized and again, the extent varies person to person. Some people don't think they're 178 00:17:39,280 --> 00:17:43,600 traumatized at all when really they could be some of the most traumatized just don't know. Oh yeah. 179 00:17:43,600 --> 00:17:52,240 Yeah. We all know some of those people. Yes, we do. We do, right? And so it's it's scary for some 180 00:17:52,240 --> 00:17:56,560 people, you know, it's scary for some people to embark on that on that process on that journey, 181 00:17:56,560 --> 00:18:02,320 because once you open, it's like you're going to go through multiple dark nights of the soul. 182 00:18:02,320 --> 00:18:09,520 There's no ifs and buts about it. But the satisfaction, I mean, the satisfaction I've built 183 00:18:09,520 --> 00:18:15,360 a six figure business doing the work that I love and doing and teaching the very methods that helped 184 00:18:15,360 --> 00:18:22,160 me dig myself, you know, out of the hole that I was in. So that's really ultimately where all of 185 00:18:22,160 --> 00:18:28,160 the passion comes from. It's all the trauma from my childhood. Yeah, and being able to heal that 186 00:18:28,160 --> 00:18:33,440 it's very empowering. And that's a beautiful example of what's possible. Do you have any 187 00:18:33,440 --> 00:18:39,840 examples of like particular shifts that you've witnessed within yourself from doing this work 188 00:18:39,840 --> 00:18:46,320 with family constellation and central ancestral alignment work? Oh, yes. I will say there's there's 189 00:18:46,320 --> 00:18:53,920 so much, you know, the work I've done on myself. And others, a big one is having claimed myself as 190 00:18:53,920 --> 00:18:58,080 my biological father's daughter, right, because I was never claimed as his daughter because he 191 00:18:58,080 --> 00:19:03,120 never raised me because he was off raising another family and completely negated my existence. 192 00:19:05,440 --> 00:19:13,520 Part of how I actually needed to manifest my own business, my own success as a woman, 193 00:19:13,520 --> 00:19:19,600 was that I had to literally look to that lineage and say, I'm your daughter, like I'm here, I exist, 194 00:19:19,600 --> 00:19:29,040 I'm alive. And not having been claimed in a family system, right, this goes for those of us who are 195 00:19:29,040 --> 00:19:36,480 abandoned by certain family systems, our mother or father sometimes both, leaves huge, huge wounds. 196 00:19:37,120 --> 00:19:41,600 And it really affects one's ability to manifest in the world, in particular through the father, 197 00:19:41,600 --> 00:19:46,320 because the father has a lot to do with money manifestation and the forward movement, like 198 00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:51,360 the forward momentum and action. So when there's a disconnection there in the father's lineage, 199 00:19:51,360 --> 00:19:57,200 it creates really this hole in this pocket of your own manifestations here on planet Earth. 200 00:19:57,200 --> 00:20:03,760 So I really had to do a lot of work of reclaiming myself in that lineage, and releasing a whole 201 00:20:03,760 --> 00:20:08,880 lot of anger. So, you know, as I would work on specific goals, and I didn't know this initially, 202 00:20:08,880 --> 00:20:13,280 right, it's not that I knew that consciously going into a session that, oh, I need to reclaim 203 00:20:13,280 --> 00:20:18,000 myself in my father's lineage. No, these things just come up. The stories just happen, right? 204 00:20:18,000 --> 00:20:23,200 My goal is, I need to make some damn money. My goal is, I need to, I need to learn how to build 205 00:20:23,200 --> 00:20:28,240 my six figure business. I, you know, while everyone was over here, like, heal your divine 206 00:20:28,240 --> 00:20:34,640 feminine energy, being your soft energy. I was like, I need to take action. Like, I need to like 207 00:20:34,640 --> 00:20:39,920 align with my masculine energy. Why can't I do this? And it had all to do with, you know, my 208 00:20:39,920 --> 00:20:48,320 father wounding and not never having been claimed, loved, protected, really told how valuable and 209 00:20:48,320 --> 00:20:55,360 loved I was, you know, never having been claimed in my father's lineage was a huge one for me. 210 00:20:55,360 --> 00:21:00,800 So I hope that answers your question. Definitely does. Thank you so much for sharing that and 211 00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:05,760 getting vulnerable with us. And I, you know, I haven't heard it put that way before about how 212 00:21:05,760 --> 00:21:14,240 for folks who might have like, like a scarcity mentality, how that might be very well linked to 213 00:21:14,240 --> 00:21:18,880 a need to heal the father wound. That's just kind of like blew my mind a little bit there. 214 00:21:19,840 --> 00:21:26,000 Your body, your body has no other way to tell you something needs to be looked at other than 215 00:21:26,000 --> 00:21:32,400 through your mental, emotional and body sensations. It has no way to say, Hey, I need to deliver this 216 00:21:32,400 --> 00:21:37,520 father wound to you. Can you please look at this? It's going to continue to have you get into toxic 217 00:21:37,520 --> 00:21:42,560 relationships. It's going to continue to have you feel really broke. It's going to continue to have 218 00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:46,640 you in like you mentioned scarcity mindset. And that's just not just with money. That's with 219 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:51,040 everything, right? Abundance relationships. This is, this is where we can feel really victimized 220 00:21:51,040 --> 00:21:55,440 and feel like life is working against us instead of for us. And I see this deeply connected to 221 00:21:55,440 --> 00:22:01,200 father stuff often. Oh my gosh, makes so much sense. Yeah, the victimhood. Oh, well, this is also 222 00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,840 empowering. Do you have any other like client success stories that you'd be willing to share? 223 00:22:06,480 --> 00:22:11,680 Oh, yes, I have tons. Okay, let me see. Let me see. Cause I'm like sifting, right? It's like 224 00:22:11,680 --> 00:22:17,440 I'm making my brain sift through all the amazing sessions that I've had to, I've had the privilege 225 00:22:17,440 --> 00:22:23,520 of going through over the years. Let's see. Since I talked about father, let's do a mother one. 226 00:22:23,520 --> 00:22:33,360 Okay. I did a recent one where a client is was super ready to just open her heart and step into 227 00:22:33,920 --> 00:22:38,720 even deeper divine motherhood, right? Like being the best mother she could possibly be 228 00:22:39,440 --> 00:22:43,840 while also building her business, right? And a lot of women, they feel like they can struggle 229 00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:49,840 with balancing these two, right? It's like, how do I maintain and build a business and still really 230 00:22:49,840 --> 00:22:54,480 feel proud of the mother that I'm becoming and the mother that I am. I want to still make sure 231 00:22:54,480 --> 00:23:00,560 all my child's needs are met, but I also know I have this mission. So we looked at that. She 232 00:23:00,560 --> 00:23:07,520 embodied that goal as a, I am now heart centered, open, healthy mother while building the business 233 00:23:07,520 --> 00:23:11,040 of my dreams, right? Her goal was something along those lines. I don't know if I got it exactly, 234 00:23:11,040 --> 00:23:19,440 but something along those lines. And what ended up coming up is her mother lineage, right? We 235 00:23:19,440 --> 00:23:24,080 definitely felt pulled to the left almost immediately. Her mother lineage was afraid 236 00:23:24,640 --> 00:23:30,640 and was afraid of everything. And this was the feminine wounding, right? The feminine wounding, 237 00:23:30,640 --> 00:23:35,440 especially from immigrant families. She, she's an immigrant here. She's first generation here in 238 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:40,800 the States. So the women, a lot of times in immigrant family systems, they feel incredibly 239 00:23:40,800 --> 00:23:50,640 disempowered. They feel incredibly lonely and they can feel incredibly stifled emotionally. And so 240 00:23:50,640 --> 00:23:55,040 what was coming through was this whole pattern of the feminine feeling like every single thing, 241 00:23:55,040 --> 00:24:00,320 even the smallest of things, was like this huge hurdle she couldn't do by herself is helplessness. 242 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:04,880 A lot of women carry the wounds of helplessness. I can't do it. It's too much. It's going to be 243 00:24:04,880 --> 00:24:10,720 too much for me. And I see this in a lot of women. We feel like we're not competent. And this deep 244 00:24:10,720 --> 00:24:18,080 mother wound also because of that feeling of deep inadequacy and that everything is just too much 245 00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:25,040 for, you know, the feminine to handle, it creates this actual like emotional manipulation that will 246 00:24:25,040 --> 00:24:29,600 start to happen with women because it's sort of like the defense mechanism. Well, if I can't do it 247 00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:33,680 myself, then I'm going to manipulate the world around me to do it for me, if that makes sense. 248 00:24:33,680 --> 00:24:39,440 So this whole, this whole theme and pattern of, you know, manipulation and the art of manipulation 249 00:24:39,440 --> 00:24:43,360 of the feminine, this is the feminine shadow, right? When we start getting into the shadow 250 00:24:43,360 --> 00:24:47,760 frequencies, we start to see, oh, when we go a little bit deeper, it's really because of like 251 00:24:47,760 --> 00:24:51,840 deep pain and the things that I had mentioned, feeling powerless as a woman in this world, 252 00:24:51,840 --> 00:24:56,800 the world's incredibly unsafe, feeling very unsafe here in our bodies as women. That's 253 00:24:56,800 --> 00:25:02,000 ultimately what it distills down to. And so reclaiming safety back into the lineage, reclaiming 254 00:25:02,000 --> 00:25:10,080 her competency and this like, this rageful aggression that kind of burst through the 255 00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:14,640 feeling of inadequacy and feeling like, you know, we need to always look to men to do things for us, 256 00:25:14,640 --> 00:25:19,840 or we couldn't possibly figure it out on our own, right? That's, that's a lot of the feminine 257 00:25:19,840 --> 00:25:24,960 wounding. And so kind of pulling out the claws of that from her back, literally energetically 258 00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:32,800 and reclaiming her power, her, her deep, deep intelligence, her knowingness, her intellect, 259 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:40,240 her spirituality, her intuition. It's like reclaiming all of these things and, and knowing that 260 00:25:40,240 --> 00:25:45,520 she actually is one of the most powerful beings on the planet and especially because she is 261 00:25:45,520 --> 00:25:50,480 birthing and leading her children into the new earth too. So there's this whole pattern and theme 262 00:25:50,480 --> 00:25:56,480 of clearing the client from emotional manipulation from her family system. She completely was like 263 00:25:56,480 --> 00:26:01,120 shocked and like, Oh my God, this makes so much sense. You know, it's like her mom, afraid of any 264 00:26:01,120 --> 00:26:07,120 and everything, really disempowered won't do anything because she feels like she can't do it on her own. 265 00:26:07,120 --> 00:26:13,200 And because of that, again, becomes very emotionally needy, manipulative to get other people's attention 266 00:26:13,200 --> 00:26:17,120 and love because it feels like it has to be forced for her because it's never just given 267 00:26:17,120 --> 00:26:23,840 and she can't love herself. So I hope this kind of helps you see, you know, from different scopes. 268 00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:29,440 And these are just a couple of examples. I mean, I have, I'm writing a book on this. So there will 269 00:26:29,440 --> 00:26:37,120 be tons more incredible. Oh, yeah. And even as we were speaking about that, I started feeling like 270 00:26:37,120 --> 00:26:43,120 pressure on my left shoulder in the back. I was like, Oh my goodness, I can like feel it in my 271 00:26:43,120 --> 00:26:48,400 own body as you're speaking it. That's exactly what will happen. This is why I love doing the 272 00:26:48,400 --> 00:26:53,600 coursework together because I tell everyone an alignment for one of us is an alignment for all 273 00:26:53,600 --> 00:26:58,080 of us, the women that I work with when we're learning this method together in a group container, 274 00:26:58,080 --> 00:27:05,280 when we step away from just a day's work, we are always profoundly shocked and wowed at how 275 00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:10,640 different we all feel after each session, whether they're specifically ours or not, 276 00:27:10,640 --> 00:27:15,440 because it clears from all of us and your body will like, you'll have visceral experiences too 277 00:27:15,440 --> 00:27:20,560 in the course, just like you are now even deeper because your body's simultaneously clearing the 278 00:27:20,560 --> 00:27:25,040 same thing. So one woman doing the work, one person doing the work actually gives us all 279 00:27:25,040 --> 00:27:29,520 permission to do the same thing for our own lineage at the same time. So while it might seem like, 280 00:27:29,520 --> 00:27:34,000 okay, well, I'm getting my own alignment today and I'm learning this method for me, 281 00:27:34,000 --> 00:27:38,800 you're actually learning it for all the other people who will come after you, your descendants, 282 00:27:38,800 --> 00:27:43,600 your ascendants, your ancestors, and also all those you're set to serve. So you're doing it 283 00:27:43,600 --> 00:27:51,600 for the collective as well. We all rise together. I love that. Oh, yes. Oh, yes. That's incredible. 284 00:27:51,600 --> 00:27:56,960 Thank you so much for that. And so you mentioned we were talking a little bit before about 285 00:27:56,960 --> 00:28:01,200 inner dance, which is something you're kind of moving more into in this next chapter of your 286 00:28:01,200 --> 00:28:05,360 life. Could you share with us a little bit more about what inner dance encompasses? 287 00:28:05,360 --> 00:28:10,640 Yes, yes, yes, yes. I realized I had to start teaching inner dance more, 288 00:28:12,080 --> 00:28:18,560 and utilizing this more in my courses, because it's been a huge part of my personal practice, 289 00:28:18,560 --> 00:28:23,280 like in my personal practice, I actually utilize a lot of frequency and music. And 290 00:28:24,640 --> 00:28:28,000 to help integrate all the other things and methods that I'm doing, but I realize it goes 291 00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:33,760 beyond integration and that you can actually reprogram almost every layer of your subconscious, 292 00:28:33,760 --> 00:28:38,800 unconscious, conscious mind by putting together these very powerful playlists that play on 293 00:28:38,800 --> 00:28:44,080 frequency, you know, that involve alpha, theta, gamma, when you start really learning the REM 294 00:28:44,080 --> 00:28:50,480 cycle and how to replicate that through music, you know, basically like our entire sleep cycles, 295 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:56,320 and you start to mirror the circadian rhythm with music. And you do this practice on a regular 296 00:28:56,320 --> 00:29:03,520 basis, it shifts you at a quantum level, and it helps you rewire, reprogram your brain. I started 297 00:29:03,520 --> 00:29:09,920 to use this in some of my course days as integration days. And then I just started to realize I just 298 00:29:09,920 --> 00:29:15,280 need to do this method more regularly as much as I can with people. So I started my membership, 299 00:29:15,280 --> 00:29:19,600 safe circle, where I do it once a month. I also do ancestral alignments once a month. I also do 300 00:29:19,600 --> 00:29:25,120 breath work, and then I have a guest speaker. So we meet once a week. But ancestral alignments is 301 00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:31,200 something that I'm going to be doing more on an even corporate level to right, providing this tool 302 00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:38,880 for teams for management, because we go through things within our work environments that stress 303 00:29:38,880 --> 00:29:46,720 us out so much and cap our consciousness as I like to say, and simple things like lying down and 304 00:29:46,720 --> 00:29:51,360 giving yourself permission to let go and let frequency carry you through whatever lessons 305 00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:57,920 you're moving through at that time, or also moving into bigger galactic, as I like to call them, 306 00:29:57,920 --> 00:30:03,520 kind of patterns that we need to welcome in. So I do a lot of self self development work and personal 307 00:30:03,520 --> 00:30:08,320 growth work, a lot of lineage work. And that's so powerful. And it is so important. So needed. 308 00:30:08,320 --> 00:30:14,880 Everyone needs that. That's how I feel. And also, there's a certain level of to allow the work to 309 00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:20,000 integrate even more fully, you almost have to detach and realize, yes, you're a person with 310 00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:26,640 all these patterns that need healing and clearing. And you're also living on a planet on a global 311 00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:31,600 consciousness scale. So when you zoom out and you allow your frequency to pick up and attune from 312 00:30:31,600 --> 00:30:37,440 there as well, this is where huge, huge shifts start to happen. And for good, I mean, this is 313 00:30:37,440 --> 00:30:43,520 where you'll start to question everything, including your existence on a regular basis. But been there 314 00:30:43,520 --> 00:30:51,200 many times. Exactly. Exactly. But the payoff is just, it's so good. It's so, so good. The things 315 00:30:51,200 --> 00:30:57,680 you start to realize and what you realize you're actually carrying around on this planet Earth, 316 00:30:57,680 --> 00:31:03,360 meaning you, your body, your consciousness, your light, you begin to see, oh, wow, like, 317 00:31:04,800 --> 00:31:10,160 I don't have room to sit around and waste my life. Like you just don't. And that's not to say we have 318 00:31:10,160 --> 00:31:15,280 to do, do, do. But there's a certain level of consciousness we all came to embody. That's ultimately 319 00:31:15,280 --> 00:31:20,400 what I think I'm preaching here with the inner dance. It's like use learning to use frequency 320 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:27,360 and specifically curated playlists to really help you shift into the form and level of consciousness 321 00:31:27,360 --> 00:31:35,760 your being really wants to be at. Oh my gosh, sounds awesome and really resonant. And music has been 322 00:31:35,760 --> 00:31:42,720 so healing for me in my journey. And I just think that whenever I start thinking about like the 323 00:31:42,720 --> 00:31:48,240 greater collective and how much pain people are in on such a large scale, it's just like, 324 00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:52,800 there's something in me that just wants to like shake the whole planet and be like, oh, 325 00:31:52,800 --> 00:31:58,560 I just want to send out all this love to so many people who want needed. And there comes a time 326 00:31:58,560 --> 00:32:04,480 like you're saying to, to, to feel ready and empowered to go after it yourself. And all of 327 00:32:04,480 --> 00:32:11,360 these tools that you offer that you share about can be, can be that for people. So it's just a 328 00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:16,560 matter of like feeling that alignment, feeling what works. So I'm wondering, can you share your 329 00:32:16,560 --> 00:32:22,960 best tips and resources for folks who are feeling really resonant with what you've shared and are 330 00:32:22,960 --> 00:32:28,640 interested in healing their ancestral lineage? Yeah, reach one of the best things you could do 331 00:32:28,640 --> 00:32:33,600 is to reach out to me on Instagram and let me know if you're interested in joining, you know, 332 00:32:33,600 --> 00:32:36,480 of course, I have one, I don't know when this episode is going to be posted, but I have one 333 00:32:36,480 --> 00:32:42,240 starting literally Wednesday, but I typically do them every three to four ish months, like I will 334 00:32:42,240 --> 00:32:49,120 launch a new round. So if you're interested, please reach out to me because we can, we can 335 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:54,960 really see what the field is inviting you into. If this is something you want to learn and practice 336 00:32:54,960 --> 00:33:00,400 on yourself and do for others. Beautiful. You can work with me if there's an aspect of you that 337 00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:05,280 just wants all the healing and wants sessions, wants a package, you can reach out to me too. 338 00:33:05,920 --> 00:33:09,920 I might be able to take you if my schedule is too kind of booked with clients at that time. 339 00:33:09,920 --> 00:33:15,760 I have amazing facilitators who I've trained myself who are very much involved in my community 340 00:33:15,760 --> 00:33:22,240 and the things that I'm doing that I can connect you with. And also I have a membership. I have 341 00:33:22,240 --> 00:33:28,960 the safe circle where I help people, the core detach from old previous, you know, toxic relationships, 342 00:33:28,960 --> 00:33:34,560 but also it's really about the expansion of energy and consciousness in the direction we're all 343 00:33:34,560 --> 00:33:38,640 moving in, which is growth. We're all here to grow. We're all here to shift and embody new things. 344 00:33:38,640 --> 00:33:44,960 And this is where I bring all of my methods into my membership. We meet once a week. We do different 345 00:33:44,960 --> 00:33:49,360 things. Again, breathwork, inner dance, psychics, somatics, ancestral alignments. I have guest 346 00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:56,080 speakers. It is so full and thorough. So we'll leave you with a link to join that too and take 347 00:33:56,080 --> 00:34:00,240 the relationship toxicity quiz and go through the funnel and join the membership. It's such a fun, 348 00:34:01,360 --> 00:34:07,600 amazing, safe group. And it is one of my biggest joys in life right now is this membership. 349 00:34:07,600 --> 00:34:14,160 So there's that. And then of course, like I said, the ancestral alignments course, 350 00:34:14,160 --> 00:34:18,400 we, I run it in different rounds, you know, so I have beginner, intermediate and advanced. 351 00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:23,680 And I do each different rounds depending on the time of year it is. So reach out and I have 352 00:34:23,680 --> 00:34:28,080 plan plans available. You know, my ancestral alignments course is geared towards helping you 353 00:34:28,080 --> 00:34:35,120 really embody the things that you need to become the healer that you know you're destined to be. 354 00:34:35,120 --> 00:34:38,480 That's another thing. There's a lot of suppressed healers out there. There's a lot of people 355 00:34:38,480 --> 00:34:43,440 who are meant to be serving people on a deep, deep spiritual kind of level. And they're afraid to 356 00:34:43,440 --> 00:34:48,480 embody that. They're afraid, you know, they think, who am I? And I really, I provide this method to 357 00:34:48,480 --> 00:34:56,560 show people who you are. You'll know who you are after this course. Amazing. Well, thank you so 358 00:34:56,560 --> 00:35:02,160 much for your time today, Candace. You shared so much of your knowledge and wisdom. And I can't 359 00:35:02,160 --> 00:35:08,640 wait to hear what our listeners have to say. So thank you. Thank you. Can't wait to follow your 360 00:35:08,640 --> 00:35:15,120 journey and see all your pictures in Bali in the coming weeks. Yes, yes, exactly. And people can 361 00:35:15,120 --> 00:35:20,080 find me on my website, CandaceRiboyo.com as well. So there's multiple ways to reach me. Instagram is 362 00:35:20,080 --> 00:35:25,040 probably the best way. But reach out to me. And I would love to hear your guys' feedback. And if 363 00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:30,000 you're interested in anything that I've spoken about, and you'll be able to get involved in the 364 00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:36,240 community and really learn how to reshape, reform, help people align to who and what they truly are. 365 00:35:36,880 --> 00:35:42,080 Fantastic. And I'll be sure to tag your Instagram when we post this on the Awaken Together podcast 366 00:35:42,080 --> 00:35:49,840 Instagram as well. So thank you. Thank you. Have a wonderful night. Please remember to like, 367 00:35:49,840 --> 00:35:56,720 follow, share this podcast, everybody. It helps us so much. We appreciate you. And we'll see you next 368 00:35:56,720 --> 00:36:02,720 time. Thank you, everyone.