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Hello. This week, we've talked about curiosity.

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We've seen it in mathematics. We've seen it in

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relationships, in creativity, and even in faith.

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But today, I want to end with something very

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practical. See, about 10 years ago, I noticed

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a pattern in my life. If someone said something

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that did not resonate with me, I would often

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close my mind to what they were saying. Sometimes

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it was an opinion. Sometimes it was an interest.

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Sometimes it was simply a way of seeing the world

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that did not fit my mold. And once I decided

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it did not fit, I stopped listening. Now, I do

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not think I realized it at the time, but I was

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letting my assumptions make the decisions for

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me. And once I became aware of this habit, I

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began trying a small new practice. When someone

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shares something that felt foreign to me, I try

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not to dismiss it so quickly. Instead, I try

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to become curious. What makes this interesting

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to them? Or why does this matter to them? What

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experience might be behind this? How can I become

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more interested in what they find interesting?

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This little practice has made a major difference

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in my life. It has helped me listen better. It's

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helped me understand people more deeply and welcome

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differences and not dismiss them. It's helped

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me see beauty in places that I might have ignored.

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And in a very real way, it has given me hope.

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Because curiosity reminds me that people are

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not finished stories. Relationships are not finished

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stories. I am not a finished story. There is

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still more to learn. There's more to understand

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and discover. And that's why I believe curiosity

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is much more than a personality trait. It's a

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way to engage with life. In math, curiosity helps

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us find patterns. In relationships, curiosity

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helps us move beyond assumptions. And in faith,

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curiosity helps us keep walking where mystery

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remains. Curiosity refuses to believe there is

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nothing left to discover. It whispers that there

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may be more beauty than we can currently see,

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more truth than we currently understand, or maybe

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more possibility than we can imagine. Maybe that's

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why curiosity and hope are so closely connected.

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So as we complete this week, let's consider a

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simple question. Where could my life use a little

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more curiosity? I'm Dave, and this is Intersecting

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Us.
